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12-06-2016, 06:03 PM
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Lying Lying about cheating |
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12-06-2016, 07:51 PM
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Lil' Miss Sassy Pants Preferred Pronoun?:
She/her 
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Trust me (and be trustable)
Respect me (and be respectable) Know how to have fun and be happy |
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12-06-2016, 08:45 PM
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Married 
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must be able to read me and respond appropriately as often as humanely possible
keep the drama on stage and what does come in our house, let it be from others, not from each other faithfulness of committment. I am now in a poly marriage that allows other partners, sexual and otherwise. But our core relationship never falters.
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Pole bachit, a lis chuye.
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12-06-2016, 08:47 PM
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Demonstrating:
1. Cruelty 2. Narcissism 3. Lack of empathy (see number 2) 4. Zero insight into self Ok, 4 but I could keep on going
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12-06-2016, 09:30 PM
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~Anya~ Democracy Dies in Darkness ~Washington Post "...I'm deeply concerned by recently adopted policies which punish children for their parents’ actions ... The thought that any State would seek to deter parents by inflicting such abuse on children is unconscionable." UN Human Rights commissioner |
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01-03-2017, 06:10 AM
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Femme Relationship Status:
Single
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Everything else is negotiable.
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Unfinished Business & Open to Serendipity
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01-08-2017, 01:41 AM
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Following the scent of flowers. 
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Non negotional desires: the basics
Chemistry creating that feeling of *please* come closer. (The healthy kind)
Devotion, passionately, heart to heart. We *love* our love. Very loving and expressive, prone to impromptu acts of passion. I adore purity of heart, and kind, honest expression. Open-mindedness, free thinker, global spirit, adventurous. Embodies finesse, a grace of spirit. Someone who bothers to live an interesting life, unapologetically interesting.Then comes home and shares. |
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01-13-2017, 09:42 PM
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For Me;
I have to be attracted to the lady and extremely attracted in what they have to offer from the heart... Be honest, loving, caring, trusting and are really good in the bedroom... turn off- they get jealous , there not a whole person, glass is half empty or half full...when I'm in a relationship I only have eyes for that femme....I don't get jealous, that's me.. If there is no trust in a relationship then there is no relationship.... They can't sit down and talk about what's bothering them...instead they give you the silent treatment or yell for no reason....not ok !!
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01-15-2017, 09:52 PM
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I would like to apply for this position 
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12-07-2016, 08:13 AM
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He, him, da bomb... Relationship Status:
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~ Jar ~ No matter what life brings you, always learn a lesson from your dog ... kick some grass over that shit and move on |
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12-07-2016, 11:13 AM
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Do not be boring to me. My friends and I can sit around and talk about laundry, and I won't be bored. And there are some people who everyone seems to think fascinating, and are by objective measures, but who I can't wait to get away from. So who knows why some people are interesting to me and others aren't? But be one of those I find interesting.
Do not be one of those fabulous, performative, look-at-me kinda queers. That shit wears me out. Butches, femmes, and other genders can be like this. It can catch the eye and occasionally warm more southerly regions, but for day-to-day living, no thanks. These are different, but I will lump them into one point. Be capable of empathy, be considerate, and have good manners. Basically, be someone I don't have to train like a stray dog. If you are old, which is likely, and haven't acquired these qualities by now, you are probably an asshole. So, I'll give that a miss.
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12-24-2016, 04:07 PM
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femme woman - Hello Daddy, hello mom. I'm your ch-ch-ch cherry bomb! Preferred Pronoun?:
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1. Abusive - physically or verbally
2. Cheating - lying is part of cheating 3. Arrogance - cockiness or showing swagger is fine. 4. Have a great sense of humor 5. Must be good in the sack Ooops, I've added two more..... oh well 6. Emotionally & financially stable, responsible 7. Minimum 5'8" or taller 8. Being deceptive with full of B.S and drama Ooops, now I've added three more! So spank me!! LOL
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12-25-2016, 10:51 PM
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I just basically want honesty, respect and no drama!
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12-26-2016, 09:59 PM
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just (3)
-a dedication to your sweetheart, that makes you evaluate every issue's importance in the bigger picture of your life together....I think the realization makes you behave more reasonably and be more open to expansive resolutions to the glitches every deep relationship will have-if this doesn't occur to you early, you probably need to rethink whether you're ready for anything deeper
-to think of your sweetheart's needs as equal in value and importance to your own -realizing goodness, faithfulness, kindness have to be part of what's important to you both
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12-26-2016, 10:05 PM
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Three non-negotiable:
1) honesty 2) kindness 3) a good sense of humor |
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