Femmes: How do you like to be treated on a date?

Gemme · 04-09-2017, 01:50 PM

I like to be treated as if I were important and worthy of my partner's time and consideration. I like old school manners and someone who is capable of engaging with me on many levels.

This is a previous post and it still stands true.

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Originally Posted by Gemme

Word.

I don't care how good you smell or how sexy you are. If you can't hold a conversation with me, sometimes even using big words and abstract concepts, then any initial attraction goes down the drain real fast. I like handsome faces and bodies, but if your brain isn't working on all cylinders, that's a big no from me.

Obviously, as I've grown older and wiser, different things tick off different boxes for me. Now, it's less about the butch, FTM or TG version of the Mustang with a Hemi motor and more about the fun but reliable SUV version of a butch, TG or FTM guy.

Sometimes a girl likes to take her time getting to where she's going and likes to know that she'll get there in one piece and without a stopover in jail.

gotoseagrl · 07-15-2017, 12:37 PM

This is difficult to find these days. Especially the latter part. No one has attentive time or interest. So many are constantly absorbed with themselves, social media and what is always going on with everyone else. Some don't understand what substance really is, at an intimate level, at least to a girl who has a very active & deep multi-faceted mind and soul.

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Originally Posted by Gemme

I like old school manners and someone who is capable of engaging with me on many levels.

girl_dee · 07-15-2017, 12:42 PM

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Originally Posted by gotoseagrl

This is difficult to find these days. Especially the latter part. No one has attentive time or interest. So many are constantly absorbed with themselves, social media and what is always going on with everyone else. Some don't understand what substance really is, at an intimate level, at least to a girl who has a very active & deep multi-faceted mind and soul.

i totally agree. if i feel i have lost someones attention to social media or a cellphone, while on a date, i check out.

gotoseagrl · 07-15-2017, 12:43 PM

It would be nice to be on an actual date. I don't think I've ever been taken on a real date before. I'm not hard to please, but spontaneously stopping at local fast food doesn't count anymore.

Kätzchen · 07-15-2017, 01:31 PM

Treat me like I'm Waterford Crystal ......

homoe · 07-15-2017, 01:34 PM

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Originally Posted by Kätzchen

Treat me like I'm Waterford Crystal ......

You mean delicately or spray a bit of Windex on ya to shine ya up......

Kätzchen · 07-15-2017, 01:37 PM

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Originally Posted by homoe

You mean delicately or spray a bit of Windex on ya to shine ya up......

Thou shalt not spray any windex on me, like in the film, My Big Fat Greek Wedding, *LOL*

<<<<~~ Delicate, very delicate (but durable).

Femmewench · 08-31-2017, 01:30 PM

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Originally Posted by gotoseagrl

It would be nice to be on an actual date. I don't think I've ever been taken on a real date before. I'm not hard to please, but spontaneously stopping at local fast food doesn't count anymore.

:::thinking somebody should remedy this:::

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Kätzchen Member How Do You Identify?: As a very feminine woman. Relationship Status: Busy dating a special someone here at home Join Date: May 2010 Location: In a small community Posts: 16,265 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 29,369 Thanked 33,631 Times in 10,723 Posts Rep Power: 21474868	Treat me like I'm Waterford Crystal ...... __________________ “The way someone treats you is not a reflection of your worth: It’s a reflection of their emotional capacity,” — Jillian Turecki. ”Without justice, democracy dies,” — Jess Michaels (Epstein survivor).