Butch/Femme Dynamic vs "Masculinity" and "Femininity"

[CherryWine]

Originally Posted by girl_dee

i wish this were true for me. i have compared my *level* of femme to other femmes.

i feel inadequate in that department but i am working on it.

no matter what, i am femme whatever the level is.

Imagine how boring the butch/femme community would be if we were all the same "level" of butch or femme. We come in many different flavors, and, to me, that is a wonderful thing.