Would you date yourself?

WheatToast · 10-28-2018, 04:33 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by introverted1

Brilliant, LOL!!!

While I do like/love me and consider myself my closest ally, trouble is, I like femmes and I'm just not femme enough for me. Being single, me and I have a friends-with-benefits thing that'll do for now, but if the right femme comes along, I am breaking up with me.

"It's not you, it's me, Wheat."

Chad · 10-28-2018, 05:06 PM

Heck no!

I am butch and I like femmes. I am stubborn and a workaholic. I am never at ease.

Gráinne · 08-27-2024, 10:59 AM

I don't know how I missed this thread when it came out a decade (!) ago. I'm just now "coming back" and re-bumping things myself.

I read the whole thing, and among the laughs and deep thoughts (and pain from some), maybe a better question is: Do you like/love yourself?

For you can't hope to have a great relationship with anyone else until you have such a relationship with yourself.

As for myself, I think if I were to meet myself right now, I'd like my humor, strength, intelligence, and sure, nice looks

, but I'd recognize a troubled person going through a lot. Not that it makes me unavailable, but I'd be cautious about getting involved until a later time.

But I'd also see someone who wants to work hard and get to a great place and is hella smart enough to know how to do it. So yes, I'd date myself and go along for a bumpy but fun ride!

A. Spectre · 08-29-2024, 10:13 AM

Honeybee:

Girl, I been thinkin' 'bout us
And you know I ain't good at this stuff
But these feelings pilin' up won't give me no rest
This might come out a little crazy
A little sideways, yeah maybe
I don't know how long it'll take me
But I'll do my best

You'll be my soft and sweet
I'll be your strong and steady
You'll be my glass of wine
I'll be your shot of whiskey
You'll be my sunny day
I'll be your shade tree
You'll be my honeysuckle
I'll be your honey bee

If you'll be my Louisiana
I'll be your Mississippi
You'll be my Little Loretta
I'll be your Conway Twitty
You'll be my sugar, baby
I'll be your sweet iced tea
You'll be my honeysuckle
I'll be your honey bee

Complement, not compliment. Well okay, a little of both.

Kätzchen · 08-29-2024, 11:04 AM

Yes. Absolutely.

I date myself every day. I spoil myself everyday. I take wonderful care of me. I hold high regard for myself and do all I can to nurture my independence and to bolster my resilience.

Because I’m worthy of every good intentional act of love and care I give to myself. I honor my body and my existence in life.

<<<<<<<~~~ I save my kisses and use my lips for beautiful acts of love and kindness.

Stone-Butch · 08-29-2024, 02:11 PM

Being Stone I would have to say no. However if I were able to make a change I defintely would date myself as a Stone Femme. I have been told I am easy going, thoughtful, respectful and fun to be around. I had a 22 yr. relationship and a 12 yr. relationship so I must have been a good first date. lol.

Bèsame* · 08-29-2024, 04:16 PM

Sure I would! I'm fun and very spontaneous. I definitely am caring and would give 100%. It's not all about me. I'll listen and communicate on all levels.

And, I'm a good kisser!

08-27-2024, 10:59 AM	#3
Gráinne Senior Member How Do You Identify?: Neither, nada, out of the box Preferred Pronoun?: My name always works Relationship Status: Happy whatever happens Join Date: Dec 2010 Location: Little Rock Posts: 1,866 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 2,119 Thanked 7,391 Times in 1,459 Posts Rep Power: 21474852	I don't know how I missed this thread when it came out a decade (!) ago. I'm just now "coming back" and re-bumping things myself. I read the whole thing, and among the laughs and deep thoughts (and pain from some), maybe a better question is: Do you like/love yourself? For you can't hope to have a great relationship with anyone else until you have such a relationship with yourself. As for myself, I think if I were to meet myself right now, I'd like my humor, strength, intelligence, and sure, nice looks , but I'd recognize a troubled person going through a lot. Not that it makes me unavailable, but I'd be cautious about getting involved until a later time. But I'd also see someone who wants to work hard and get to a great place and is hella smart enough to know how to do it. So yes, I'd date myself and go along for a bumpy but fun ride! __________________ The odds of going to the store for a loaf of bread and coming out with only a loaf of bread are three billion to one. ~Erma Bombeck

08-29-2024, 10:13 AM	#4
A. Spectre Senior Member How Do You Identify?: Butch dominant lesbian Preferred Pronoun?: She, Baby Boi Relationship Status: She is my sunrise and sunset. Join Date: Nov 2014 Location: North Shore Chicago Posts: 1,569 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 11,033 Thanked 11,079 Times in 1,496 Posts Rep Power: 21474849	I will answer this with a Blake Shelton song. Honeybee: Girl, I been thinkin' 'bout us And you know I ain't good at this stuff But these feelings pilin' up won't give me no rest This might come out a little crazy A little sideways, yeah maybe I don't know how long it'll take me But I'll do my best You'll be my soft and sweet I'll be your strong and steady You'll be my glass of wine I'll be your shot of whiskey You'll be my sunny day I'll be your shade tree You'll be my honeysuckle I'll be your honey bee If you'll be my Louisiana I'll be your Mississippi You'll be my Little Loretta I'll be your Conway Twitty You'll be my sugar, baby I'll be your sweet iced tea You'll be my honeysuckle I'll be your honey bee Complement, not compliment. Well okay, a little of both. __________________ * * *Joy and Sorrow are Inseparable

08-29-2024, 02:11 PM	#6
Stone-Butch Senior Member How Do You Identify?: Stonebutch Preferred Pronoun?: she Relationship Status: single Join Date: Jan 2013 Location: Canada Posts: 3,749 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 13,370 Thanked 9,433 Times in 3,091 Posts Rep Power: 21474852	Would You Date Yourself Being Stone I would have to say no. However if I were able to make a change I defintely would date myself as a Stone Femme. I have been told I am easy going, thoughtful, respectful and fun to be around. I had a 22 yr. relationship and a 12 yr. relationship so I must have been a good first date. lol.

08-29-2024, 04:16 PM	#7
Bèsame* Practically Lives Here How Do You Identify?: Femm Preferred Pronoun?: She Relationship Status: loved by many Join Date: Sep 2012 Location: Closer to the waves Posts: 15,433 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 29,188 Thanked 41,035 Times in 10,778 Posts Rep Power: 21474865	Sure I would! I'm fun and very spontaneous. I definitely am caring and would give 100%. It's not all about me. I'll listen and communicate on all levels. And, I'm a good kisser! __________________ kisses A kiss is a whisper in your mouth. Can I borrow a kiss? I promise to give it back.

10-28-2018, 05:06 PM	#2
Chad Infamous Member How Do You Identify?: OFOS Stone butch Preferred Pronoun?: He Relationship Status: Loved Caregiver Join Date: Dec 2009 Location: Texas Posts: 6,164 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 11,746 Thanked 20,310 Times in 5,677 Posts Rep Power: 21474858	Heck no! I am butch and I like femmes. I am stubborn and a workaholic. I am never at ease.

08-29-2024, 11:04 AM	#5
Kätzchen Member How Do You Identify?: As a Brick House (Femme) Relationship Status: Busy (involved with a special someone here at home) Join Date: May 2010 Location: In a small community Posts: 16,277 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 29,276 Thanked 33,637 Times in 10,729 Posts Rep Power: 21474868	Yes. Absolutely. I date myself every day. I spoil myself everyday. I take wonderful care of me. I hold high regard for myself and do all I can to nurture my independence and to bolster my resilience. Because I’m worthy of every good intentional act of love and care I give to myself. I honor my body and my existence in life. <<<<<<<~~~ I save my kisses and use my lips for beautiful acts of love and kindness.