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08-15-2020, 02:39 AM
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Just reading a few posts..
I see trust and helping each other out come up alot. When my finances are compromised you gotta go faster than you came. Just got back to work after 9 months off from a serious surgery. Took my credit card number home with her. She timed it so withdraws were made on valentines day. Yeah hundreds of dollars. Someone in here I trusted. Had her in my home.Thought she was going to be my forever girl. Scared to take that chance again.
Thank you for reading my troubles. s
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08-15-2020, 08:34 AM
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08-15-2020, 09:46 AM
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Relationship fears
I don't really fear but I am now much more aware. My last relationship was around two years. We decided to put things on an equal page. I had never put someone elses name on my property or vice versa except my 22 yr relat.) Anyway I woke up one morning and my "partner" was gone. Totally moved out. I was asleep in the living room. I got a note to pay up over $10,000 of bills we had accumulated as she was suppose to be paying them off with our joint account. Well, NOT. It took a good chunk of my bank account to pay it all off which I did right away as this can ruin your borrowing power. I have recouped most of that money and am back where I was but I will never ever do that again. She sent an email telling me I was an inconsiderate person and she could not stay with me. OMG. I guess I forgot to put down my coat the last time it rained and she had to cross a puddle.
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08-15-2020, 01:28 PM
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"OMG. I guess I forgot to put down my coat the last time it rained and she had to cross a puddle."
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08-15-2020, 03:17 PM
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"OMG. I guess I forgot to put down my coat the last time it rained and she had to cross a puddle."
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08-15-2020, 05:08 PM
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Relationship fears
I usually do anything I can to be a gentlewoman moe but I guess for some femmes it is not enough. Some like bad boys, well hell, I can do that too. LOL
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08-16-2020, 08:06 AM
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08-16-2020, 04:37 PM
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I trust one person-ME as a homeless street kid,I grew up knowing,their is one person here for me all the time.ME Also I have heaps of red flags now And actually like being single. 4 yrs of therapy helped,but I enjoy being alone and I'm 100% content and happy. I actually feel sad for folks who can't be alone Ive had 4 r'ships in my life,with sometimes 7 and 10 yr breaks. For me money you can replace,but the feeling of being betrayal, that leaves a bad taste. anyway dude,says more bout her than you. I do trust my dog though LOL once again,your story sux man.
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