What do YOU need to feel loved?

[Stargazer]

Fun and interesting thread and with so many commonalities I wonder if were all consciously giving it back..

but anywho...

What I need to feel loved:

I need to know you got my back.. day and night, when i am right and when I am wrong. Not to stand up for me but with me or support me when I am wrong and say so.. gently...

I need someone to share the load. Not just expect life will miraculously poof in front of them.. this includes clean clothes, the dinner, a movie night out, or a vacation abroad..

Hold my hand

Sleep with me at night

Hug me before running off in the morning

leave the world outside our front door, often.

Surprise me.. little tiny cute girly things..

Honesty, say yeah or nah and know its ok.. and make sure its ok when I say it back. Mean what you say or dont say it at all. If you're not getting what you need, say so.

equality

Make us as important than you or me

Im sure there is more or even less but the older I get the more I see how important working together to make the relationship makes me feel loved, to know I am important, cherished, needed, wanted, desired, when were both in it for each others well being.

Star