only another butch would understand

Jet · 12-17-2009, 02:32 PM

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Originally Posted by BullDog

Well Jet, you are such a stylin gent. I think you hair will look good at any length.

Well thank you very kindly Bully. It's nice of you to say.

Now Andrew,

Contrary to popular belief, I was once a kind, gentle and loving man. I say man because my insides have always been wired that way. I was the kind of guy who would go to war for a woman as silly and corny as it sounds. But that was my ethic and my heart.

Then something happened that changed my life. Something I didn't deserve just like all the things you don't deserve. Tell 'em to kiss your ass, Andrew. What is a man really? His values? His love for others? His kindness? Courage? Ethics? All wrapped up in a natural masculinity? The waters of a man run deep don't they? What brings me the most sorrow is the bitter asshole I've become because of loss and pain and betrayal. Well, I'm coming back... slowly but surely and it takes everything in my being and my fiber to remember and reclaim most of the person I was, now older and seasoned and hewn like a rock. And maybe someday, I'll love deeply again. I don't know any other way to love actually. When I love, the person I love will have everything I can give. But this deep, rich love starts within yourself, as something solid and strong and sure, so much so that nothing and no one and sway you. I wish you the best Andrew.

Andrew, Jr. · 12-17-2009, 03:02 PM

Jet,

It is amazing to me how vicious people are today. I am not sure of what happened. My best friend was my late Grandfather. He taught me everything from smoking cigars, how to throw a curve ball, driving his pickup, to growing vegetables, fishing, hunting, to having faith, and drinking beer. He never told me about how horrible some people are. But then again, he was a man who had a 1st grade education, and quit school to work to help support his family during the depression. He worked on a farm. It was a matter of survival.

My Grandfather had a saying that is close to yours. He would say that still waters run deep. How true he was about that.

Peace to you my brother,
Andrew

BullDog · 12-17-2009, 04:52 PM

You're welcome Jet. I really enjoy your pictures. You are very artistic and have a great sense of style.

Andrew, I am sorry to hear about your bad experiences. It does suck. I have had a few barbershops give me the cold shoulder. I am visiting Central PA from Portland, OR. I wasn't sure how people would take me, but so far everyone has been really nice to me. Today went great. I just went to some random barbershop today and got a great barber- Roy- who is definitely old school barber and gave me a great flat top.

Andrew, Jr. · 12-17-2009, 07:04 PM

Bulldog,

I have been going to the same barbar shop for 12 years now. If they closed tomorrow, I wouldn't know where to go. I think alot of guys nowadays go to Hair Cutteries, Happy Cuts, and the like.

Your hair style does not define who you are, or what is inside you. That is your soul. That is why I was quite taken back when I saw what was stated. I have short hair, and it is very fine, and poker straight. I wonder what the said poster would have said to the guy who was getting a perm in the chair next to mine. It makes one wonder.

Jet is a good man. I have known him for a number of years. He has been such a wonderful support system of mine.

Peace,
Andrew

Jet · 12-17-2009, 07:26 PM

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Originally Posted by Andrew, Jr.

Bulldog,

I have been going to the same barbar shop for 12 years now. If they closed tomorrow, I wouldn't know where to go. I think alot of guys nowadays go to Hair Cutteries, Happy Cuts, and the like.

Your hair style does not define who you are, or what is inside you. That is your soul. That is why I was quite taken back when I saw what was stated. I have short hair, and it is very fine, and poker straight. I wonder what the said poster would have said to the guy who was getting a perm in the chair next to mine. It makes one wonder.

Jet is a good man. I have known him for a number of years. He has been such a wonderful support system of mine.

Peace,
Andrew

You're very kind Andrew. Take care little bro...

WILDCAT · 12-17-2009, 07:28 PM

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Originally Posted by BullDog

You're welcome Jet. I really enjoy your pictures. You are very artistic and have a great sense of style.

Andrew, I am sorry to hear about your bad experiences. It does suck. I have had a few barbershops give me the cold shoulder. I am visiting Central PA from Portland, OR. I wasn't sure how people would take me, but so far everyone has been really nice to me. Today went great. I just went to some random barbershop today and got a great barber- Roy- who is definitely old school barber and gave me a great flat top.

Yeah, you'd better watch out when you're talking "PA" Bull.

It's called the "KEYSTONE STATE" for a reason!! WINK, WINK!!! Hell, you could go to the local barber right here in my home town and get the cut you wanted. You would "think" she is a dyke first off, and she would definitely then "crew ya" - while the guys all considered you "just one of the boys"!

You'd just have to watch out for your ears though, (depending on how much the barber lady had to drink that day already). Blood may have been spilled on those floors throughout the years - but ALL IN GOOD SPIRITED FUN! It's a tradition of sorts - going back to the old days of "Sherm the barber"... except he would cut your ears watching women going up and down the street. He had his stash though, the infamous "backroom". (Everyone had a stash in the backroom in those days. Even the guy who ran the teen place with the soda fountain, juke box... heck, even OUR OWN RUN TEEN PLACE had the backroom stash!) lol

Ahhhhhhh, yearning for the days of youth, it appears today!

WILD

Jet · 02-11-2010, 07:14 PM

[ame="http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=YLcVhPrZFPI"]YouTube- Lonesome Polecat Seven Brides For Seven Brothers OST[/ame]

I’m a lonesome polecat
Lonesome sad and blue
‘Cause I ain’t got no feminine polecat
Vowing to be true.

I’m a mean old houndog
Baying at the moon
‘Cause I ain’t got no lady friend houndog
Here to hear my tune.

Ooh ooh
Can’t make no vows --
To a herd of cows.

I’m a lonesome polecat
Lonesome sad and blue
‘Cause I ain’t got no feminine polecat
Vowing to be true.

Ooh ooh
Can’t shoot no breeze --
To a bunch of trees.

Galahad · 02-17-2010, 10:30 PM

http://www.xtra.ca/public/National/a...%20Coyote.aspx

I enjoy Ivan Coyote's articles on xtra . com, and this new one about "getting over the ex butch style" was no exception. Anyone else have any sure fire ways for getting over her and getting back out there? Any stories to tell?

apretty · 02-17-2010, 11:43 PM

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Originally Posted by Galahad

http://www.xtra.ca/public/National/a...%20Coyote.aspx

I enjoy Ivan Coyote's articles on xtra . com, and this new one about "getting over the ex butch style" was no exception. Anyone else have any sure fire ways for getting over her and getting back out there? Any stories to tell?

1. get drunk
2. sleep with her bestfriend
3. call her (while you're still drunk) and confess
4. borrow your friend's big truck and drive all over her lawn
5. call her and cry
6. ask to be just friends
7. send her 40 text messages in one day
8. show up where you think she'll be
9. try to become her mom's/sister's/dad's new bestfriend.
10. record yourself singing a sad song and send it to her email
11. send her a dedication on the 'quiet storm'
12. get her name tattooed on your arm and then send her a picture of it
13. kidnap her dog and then help her suddenly, miraculously *find* said dog.
14. if she lives alone, send her a scary letter from anonymous and hope that she'll look to you for comfort
15. bake her a cake and give her a sketch that you've made of her face
16. if you have something that she's gave you, break it and send her the pieces.
17. write, '*her name* is a SLUT' on the side of a building that you know she'll see
18. sleep with her mom
19. sign her up for strange catalogues
20. ice cream

12-17-2009, 04:52 PM	#3
BullDog Infamous Member How Do You Identify?: Dominant Stone Butch Daddy Preferred Pronoun?: She Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: In A Healing Place Posts: 5,371 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 18,160 Thanked 22,637 Times in 4,462 Posts Rep Power: 21474857	You're welcome Jet. I really enjoy your pictures. You are very artistic and have a great sense of style. Andrew, I am sorry to hear about your bad experiences. It does suck. I have had a few barbershops give me the cold shoulder. I am visiting Central PA from Portland, OR. I wasn't sure how people would take me, but so far everyone has been really nice to me. Today went great. I just went to some random barbershop today and got a great barber- Roy- who is definitely old school barber and gave me a great flat top. __________________ Love consists in this, that two solitudes protect and touch and greet each other. - Rainer Maria Rilke

02-11-2010, 07:14 PM	#7
Jet Timed Out - TOS Drama How Do You Identify?: .. Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: .. Posts: 3,471 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 292 Thanked 2,647 Times in 1,293 Posts Rep Power: 0	I'm a lonesome polecat [ame="http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=YLcVhPrZFPI"]YouTube- Lonesome Polecat Seven Brides For Seven Brothers OST[/ame] I’m a lonesome polecat Lonesome sad and blue ‘Cause I ain’t got no feminine polecat Vowing to be true. I’m a mean old houndog Baying at the moon ‘Cause I ain’t got no lady friend houndog Here to hear my tune. Ooh ooh Can’t make no vows -- To a herd of cows. I’m a lonesome polecat Lonesome sad and blue ‘Cause I ain’t got no feminine polecat Vowing to be true. Ooh ooh Can’t shoot no breeze -- To a bunch of trees.

12-17-2009, 03:02 PM	#2
Andrew, Jr. Timed Out How Do You Identify?: Me Preferred Pronoun?: He Relationship Status: Unavailable Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: Over the Rainbow in a House Posts: 5,072 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 16,004 Thanked 5,249 Times in 2,216 Posts Rep Power: 0	Jet, It is amazing to me how vicious people are today. I am not sure of what happened. My best friend was my late Grandfather. He taught me everything from smoking cigars, how to throw a curve ball, driving his pickup, to growing vegetables, fishing, hunting, to having faith, and drinking beer. He never told me about how horrible some people are. But then again, he was a man who had a 1st grade education, and quit school to work to help support his family during the depression. He worked on a farm. It was a matter of survival. My Grandfather had a saying that is close to yours. He would say that still waters run deep. How true he was about that. Peace to you my brother, Andrew

12-17-2009, 07:04 PM	#4
Andrew, Jr. Timed Out How Do You Identify?: Me Preferred Pronoun?: He Relationship Status: Unavailable Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: Over the Rainbow in a House Posts: 5,072 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 16,004 Thanked 5,249 Times in 2,216 Posts Rep Power: 0	Bulldog, I have been going to the same barbar shop for 12 years now. If they closed tomorrow, I wouldn't know where to go. I think alot of guys nowadays go to Hair Cutteries, Happy Cuts, and the like. Your hair style does not define who you are, or what is inside you. That is your soul. That is why I was quite taken back when I saw what was stated. I have short hair, and it is very fine, and poker straight. I wonder what the said poster would have said to the guy who was getting a perm in the chair next to mine. It makes one wonder. Jet is a good man. I have known him for a number of years. He has been such a wonderful support system of mine. Peace, Andrew

02-17-2010, 10:30 PM	#8
Galahad Member How Do You Identify?: do I have to? Relationship Status: single Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: I.E. Southern California Posts: 425 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 1,300 Thanked 338 Times in 151 Posts Rep Power: 1446605	http://www.xtra.ca/public/National/a...%20Coyote.aspx I enjoy Ivan Coyote's articles on xtra . com, and this new one about "getting over the ex butch style" was no exception. Anyone else have any sure fire ways for getting over her and getting back out there? Any stories to tell?