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Old 12-01-2010, 09:32 PM   #1
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I light a candle today for Dolo and all who love and care about her. She was told by doc today that the goal is comfort care. Pain and other symptom management. No more chemotherapy, because it would interfere with her current quality of life. She knew what he was saying without his just coming out to say it. I could not ask the important things. To inquire how she felt about this. I was cowardly. Didn't want her to hear my voice if I asked. All I want now is for her to hang on til I get there. Please, a prayer for her comfort. For her kids. Her husband. And, for me, that I can bear it.
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Lighting candles of peace, harmony, healing, love, positive energy and hope for

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There are many here who need prayer
I light my candle from those before me.
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For Miss Scarlett who is conflicted over work and vacation and unfair bosses in the past.
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Lighting a candle for you sweetheart because I want you to have the best stress free vacation EVER!!!! You deserve it!!! Have fun too!!!

Any for anyone feeling any kind of physical or mental anguish at this time!
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My sister just called, she has a tumor on her spine. Prayers for all in this place, prayers of healing, comfort, for the afflicted, and prayers for peace to forge through for the family and friends who stand beside their loved ones as they traverse a scary uncertain path.

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She's hardly eating. Food "tastes nasty" to her. Not real hungry, either. Her doc said that he was open to suggestions (from me). I sent Dolo an email recommending either Megace or Marinol for appetite boost. Anyone have suggestion about the taste thing? Please pm me.

I thank you all for your continued prayers and thoughts for Dolo and the family.

and prayers for all who need them.
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Talked to R for almost an hour and she sounds so much better. I hung up because I knew they'd be bringing her some kind of lunch soon. She's hoping whatever it is stays with her. With that in mind, she's hoping to try solid foods soon. I can't remember the last time she even wanted to try something solid. She's been sucking down Ensure for so long now. Anyhow, this made me smile because she wants to get out of the hospital before she has to return on the 7th for her biopsy.

Always, keeping faith and hope alive along with my prayers

Thank you all for the prayers and healing energy
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She's hardly eating. Food "tastes nasty" to her. Not real hungry, either. Her doc said that he was open to suggestions (from me). I sent Dolo an email recommending either Megace or Marinol for appetite boost. Anyone have suggestion about the taste thing? Please pm me.

I thank you all for your continued prayers and thoughts for Dolo and the family.

and prayers for all who need them.
Banana popsicles.

At this stage dry mouth may be a big problem (try favorite flavor kool-aid and make ice chips, swabs, lemon drops, etc.) and the "need to nurture" and reframe feeding needs.
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