"straight" women and Butches.

[Merlin]

Originally Posted by HowSoonIsNow

I don't know about that....giving "the game away"?....When I dated butches, it was quite obvious we were both women regardless of how they identified.

If anything, we were more noticeable and immediately considered lesbian/queer by the general public.

What about if she passes and is perceived to be male ?

[Soon]

Originally Posted by Merlin

What about if she passes and is perceived to be male ?

never happened

[Merlin]

Originally Posted by HowSoonIsNow

never happened

Is that because you date Butches who don't pass ?

[Thinker]

Originally Posted by Merlin

What is the fascination ?

Originally Posted by June

I don't know. Go ask a straight woman.

I'm with June......except I'd say you would have to ask each individual straight woman what her specific interest and/or fascination and/or attraction is.

There's no possible way for anyone here (or anywhere) to provide a definitive answer to that question. Anything anyone offers is purely and merely speculation.

*shrug*

[Quintease]

Originally Posted by Merlin

What about if she passes and is perceived to be male ?

Actually I did know one lesbian who frequently passed and so pulled many a very surprised and intrigued straight woman.

[Merlin]

Originally Posted by Quintease

Actually I did know one lesbian who frequently passed and so pulled many a very surprised and intrigued straight woman.

Me I am an honourable butch,I couldn't take advantage of an unknowing straight woman.

All my ex's have previously been straight and knew the score with me, I guess an unscrupulous butch could take advantage of a straight woman's vulnerabilities ??