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Old 11-07-2011, 01:46 PM   #1
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When I let go, there is no dramatic Exit...no last words.


I simply turn and wander away.
Because at that point they are no longer privy to my world.



It is rare you will hear me speak ill of someone.
But if I do, it is not on a whim ~ it comes from cause n effect.

'Cause when someone effects me Negatively, it can trigger
not only icky feelings but can actually impact me physically.


I learned to be selfish with my energy.

I've been known to give folks more than 3 chances.
I've been known to hand out benefit of the doubt like it's free candy.


I've been known to bury mah head in the dirt when icky stuff arises
(hence the nickname of Ostrich*cough*thanks Juney)

I've also let go of folks that I found out were using mah FB page to stalk
my Friends that removed them from their lists. That's just creepy,
and I'm not down with that.


Being selfish with your time and energy has its place.



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Being selfish with your time and energy has its place.
No question - well said.
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