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			well, its getting close to that time of year when we Give to the people in our lives. Lately I have noticed a trend in our thoughts, that life has become too consumeristic, too over the top, too complex. I gave thought to what we would give if we couldnt use money...and wondered if maybe we could do a thread on the ABC's of Giving...I will start with A and whoever wants to follow can go with B and the next person with C....offering ideas of what we could give that wouldnt cost us a dime... 
		
		
		
		
		
		
			Ask someone to spend the holiday in my home so they wouldnt be alone... B anyone? 
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			oh come on! Someone has to chime in..ok I will do the B too 
		
		
		
		
		
		
			Be willing to take someone out driving who is learning how to drive, so they can get practice in now, who wants to do C? 
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			E..............everyone donates a library book to Occupy in their 'hood, a night in a tent, a letter to your elected reps 
		
		
		
		
		
		
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			Invite singles over for a few hours of board/card games, talking so we all dont spend the holidays alone.
		 
		
		
		
		
		
		
			
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			Join or start a group that knits/crochets warm winter caps for the homeless.
		 
		
		
		
		
		
		
		
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