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Old 11-21-2011, 10:36 PM   #1
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We've been having a ton of rain here in AZ, too, Tommi! And I would be lying if I said I wasn't loving every second of it!

I am wonderfully happy that experience is all over. Although, it wasn't nearly as bad as I expected it to be. The nurses were all so wonderful and kind. The only negative was that I had asked a couple of times who all would be in the room during the procedure and both times was assured that there would be only two female nurses and my doctor (who is also a woman)...and as they were injecting the sleepy drugs into my IV, in walks a man. I remember feeling a bit shaky but then the drugs kicked in and off to sleep land I went.
Prolly just there to collect the speciMEN for the lab. . Path reports, waiting ...waiting...staying busy....I know my crystal ball is cracked, so I just keep my ass busy while waiting.....No, did I say that ***** now that was funny after I wrote it..so I left it.
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congrats on getting thru that. I know the prep is the worst part. I remember how nice the drugs are---my nurse was very pretty so I might have said something innapropriate---oh well--she is probably used to that.
I will keep you in my thoughts til Friday when you get the GOOD NEWS!!!!
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congrats on getting thru that. I know the prep is the worst part. I remember how nice the drugs are---my nurse was very pretty so I might have said something innapropriate---oh well--she is probably used to that.
I will keep you in my thoughts til Friday when you get the GOOD NEWS!!!!
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Good news would be fabulous, Mustangjeano!! I am not worried at all, actually. I have had a profound peace in my heart since all of this started back in May. Well, a few tiny meltdowns, but mostly fierce determination and lots of love and support from my family. I am blessed!

Tommi, you crack me up!! I think most of my anxiety around this whole procedure was about how many people would be looking at my pooper! In my mind there was going to be like 30-50 people in the room with me...all pointing and gasping and laughing. One might say I have a wee butt-hole complex.
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Good news would be fabulous, Mustangjeano!! I am not worried at all, actually. I have had a profound peace in my heart since all of this started back in May. Well, a few tiny meltdowns, but mostly fierce determination and lots of love and support from my family. I am blessed!

Tommi, you crack me up!! I think most of my anxiety around this whole procedure was about how many people would be looking at my pooper! In my mind there was going to be like 30-50 people in the room with me...all pointing and gasping and laughing. One might say I have a wee butt-hole complex.
Hah, there isn't room for more one person to get in a good wisecrack. Bah da Bumm..

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congrats on getting thru that. I know the prep is the worst part. I remember how nice the drugs are---my nurse was very pretty so I might have said something innapropriate---oh well--she is probably used to that.
I will keep you in my thoughts til Friday when you get the GOOD NEWS!!!!
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I hear ya on that one. I looked at the nurse that put in my IV before "That procedure" and said Hello Beautiful.
That was BEFORE the lights went out.
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hey all, just a note to let you know Clay is doing ok, she goes in next tue for her second colon-scope, hopefully they will give her a date soon for the surgery, the waiting is driving her nuts (as to be expected) She hopes to be back online tonight or tomorrow..she misses you guys!
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Jeano,
I hear ya on that one. I looked at the nurse that put in my IV before "That procedure" and said Hello Beautiful.
That was BEFORE the lights went out.
I can "one up" you both.

My GI guy is this sweet, cute nerdy guy who has a huge smile and just randomly blushes for no reason.

After the colonoscopy as my g.f. was standing next to me and he was giving me the results I said, "You are really cute. If I wasn't gay I would be into you" (or something along those lines). Poor guy got all embarrassed and blushed (I think he did, anyway...I was all drugged up!). And imagine this, I did not remember I had said that until a couple of months after it happened! My g.f. had never mentioned it.
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Just wanted to mention that my partner's mother's surgery went well and she is now home. They say that it went well. They will get the results of the biopsy on the lymph nodes next Tuesday.
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Hey everyone:
I am soooo happy to have internet back again. Damn I was miserable....thanks to all of you!!!! I caught up on the thread....
TO EVERYONE: thanks so much for checking in on me....for posting to me, and for all the well wishes , prayers, and just all around loving, kind support!
CATALINAROSE: AWesome job, my friend. It is NOT bad..at all..we don't know most of it anyway! lol...Just so you know, your doctor will have results withinb 48 hrs. CALL Them and ask what they are!!!! tomorrow. They will have results!!!
DAPPER: Please give T.F. my very best wishes and I will hold her, her mom, and you all up in my prayers!
JEAN: Excellent job..on so many years out.
DEBBY: Awaiting what your surgeon says.....I hold you close to my heart!!! PINKSTER, you!!!! I love you,. my angel!!!
TOMMI: dayummm..to have a "crystal ball" PLUS it be carcked...wowser..be very careful...lmao..hugs buddy!
OOAK: Hope things are good for you..haven't seen a post from you in a bit..take care...sending you best wishes! Hugs...
TO all the other BRAVE WARRIORS: Know I send each and everyone of you huge hugs......keep up the strong fight, stay focused, and stay positive! YOU are not alone!!!!
COUNTY: YOU are a truly amazing friend...and I am very blessed!!!!! It is so comforting knowing you will be there for Heidi, to be with me during surgery, and all that you are doing to help me, support me through this, and your friendship!!! I want you to know you have my utmost deepest thanks..always...May God bless you....you are truly an angel!
PURPLE SPARKLY ONE: YOU are such a guiding force, you send me the very best of energies, calmness, and serenity when I need it most! YOU are an incredible friend!!! Stay close to me...I validate you....along with Michael & Raphael! Thanks...and know I appreciate you..so very much...
Thanks, County & Debby...for posting for me..I appreciate you both..hugs...

TO ALL of you...please continue to hold me up in your loving thoughts, prayers, and well wishes! I heart you all...Clay
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My surgery is scheduled for December 9th! I am to be an early AM case...sooo....I will have an Exploratory Laparoscopy with Colectomy (colon resection) via open abdomen AND a Total Hystero via same incision! The Gastro Oncologist is going in first, then when he is done, the Gynie Oncologist will do her hystero magic! I will be in the hospital for 7 to 10 days. Rather than try to update each personally, UPDATES will be posted here!!! I am so going to kick this bugger's royal ass...mess with me..I will show it who is Alpha here!!! <smiles>
PS I have the lovely good luck to have to do a second colonoscopy the 29th. This time I get day one a bottle of mag. citrate, day two a GALLON of GoLytely! I will be having a "GoLytely" martini party..and will gladly share a glass with any of you....smiles...have an awesome day...Clay
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Dapper, thanks for the update on your partner's Mom. Glad the surgery went well and I will keep her in my thoughts and prayers.
Clay, You are a warrior man. You are inspiring. I will be with you in spirit and prayer.
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My surgery is scheduled for December 9th! I am to be an early AM case...sooo....I will have an Exploratory Laparoscopy with Colectomy (colon resection) via open abdomen AND a Total Hystero via same incision! The Gastro Oncologist is going in first, then when he is done, the Gynie Oncologist will do her hystero magic! I will be in the hospital for 7 to 10 days. Rather than try to update each personally, UPDATES will be posted here!!! I am so going to kick this bugger's royal ass...mess with me..I will show it who is Alpha here!!! <smiles>
PS I have the lovely good luck to have to do a second colonoscopy the 29th. This time I get day one a bottle of mag. citrate, day two a GALLON of GoLytely! I will be having a "GoLytely" martini party..and will gladly share a glass with any of you....smiles...have an awesome day...Clay
Hi, Clay. Just a reminder that my illness was colon cancer and I had a colon resection via the traditional, open method. I actually had to have a second resection because I an obstruction a couple of weeks later. SO, since I did it twice, I know quite a bit about the recovery if you need some info. at any point along the way.

Feel free to PM me. Hang in there. Glad to see your enthusiam at kicking this in the butt!
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