What TO DO in a relationship.....

Kenna · 02-23-2012, 09:57 PM

Discover what fills the other's empty spot and try to understand what gives them focus and makes them feel valued.

girl_dee · 02-24-2012, 06:53 AM

Feed that Fire!

spike · 02-24-2012, 08:50 AM

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Originally Posted by Sweet

Discover what fills the other's empty spot and try to understand what gives them focus and makes them feel valued.

Awesome!!!

clay · 02-24-2012, 09:05 AM

respecting YOUR freedom to be YOU! (you know what I mean...grin)

gaea · 02-24-2012, 09:13 AM

remember daily what you like and appreciate about the other person. Give them respect. show them respect. Value who they are in your life. allow them the space to breathe and just be.

girl_dee · 02-25-2012, 08:23 AM

Hold on to your OWN beliefs! Don't sell out!

girl_dee · 02-26-2012, 02:33 PM

maintain friendships beyond the relationship....

Martina · 02-26-2012, 02:55 PM

Who would do that though? i mean, what grown person would do that?

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Originally Posted by Cajun_dee

Hold on to your OWN beliefs! Don't sell out!

deedarino · 02-26-2012, 03:05 PM

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Originally Posted by Martina

Who would do that though? i mean, what grown person would do that?

You would be surprised how many people hide or change who they really are inside trying to "be" what you want. Eventually it all comes out, usually attached to resentment.

girl_dee · 02-26-2012, 03:30 PM

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Originally Posted by Martina

Who would do that though? i mean, what grown person would do that?

lots of people, suddenly their new love's interests, beliefs and ideals become theirs.. i prefer to be an individual in the relationship

Quintease · 02-26-2012, 05:20 PM

Be kind.

No matter how angry you are, this person is not your enemy.

Remember that you're an essential part of his or her life and your moods and behaviour DO matter.

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02-24-2012, 09:13 AM	#5
gaea Senior Member How Do You Identify?: femme Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: west coast Posts: 3,910 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 18,630 Thanked 14,363 Times in 3,381 Posts Rep Power: 21474855	remember daily what you like and appreciate about the other person. Give them respect. show them respect. Value who they are in your life. allow them the space to breathe and just be. __________________ Gaea "Building a lifetime together one day at a time" Courage: the willingness to risk who you are for who you want to be and what you have for what you want You're not who your past says you are, you are who you choose to be today moving forward.

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02-23-2012, 09:57 PM	#1
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