What TO DO in a relationship.....

spritzerJ · 06-01-2012, 05:57 PM

Tell your loved on when you need some extra care and don't know what to do. Trust them to help you get a grip and love you mightily!

jac · 06-01-2012, 07:21 PM

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Originally Posted by spritzerJ

Tell your loved on when you need some extra care and don't know what to do. Trust them to help you get a grip and love you mightily!

Give that sweet someone a gentle reminder...

girl_dee · 06-06-2012, 07:16 PM

appreciate them and don't take them for granted!

~ocean · 06-06-2012, 07:42 PM

seduce them , pamper thir ego... submitt .

girl_dee · 07-27-2012, 07:22 PM

Keep it real! Playing house won't get you anywhere.

scootebaby · 07-27-2012, 07:35 PM

communicate...by any means necessary..be it face to face,email,text...just TALK!!!

be yourself always(unless ur roleplaying

)

let them know they are appreciated everyday

laugh together--loud and often

girl_dee · 07-27-2012, 07:44 PM

yes! be yourself for crying out loud!

i don't want someone who agrees with all of my beliefs and ideals.

i respect someone who has their own set of beliefs and ideals.. it always makes me shake my head (and feel sad) when i see someone dive head first very quickly into the belief system (like religion) of someone else and within a day claiming that as their belief system too. It would creep me out actually.

Maybe that is how someone can appear to be so completely compatible ..... Yup that could be how that happens

Greco · 07-27-2012, 07:46 PM

scootebaby right on!

I want to add to touch each other often, make love, f*ck often,
but touch every day. Hold hands, touch, kiss her hand, fingers,
kiss her deeply, hold her like its your last day on earth, hold her forever.

Take one day a week to be together and enjoy each others' company, talk about your goals for your life together...cook together, or wash the dishes if your not into cooking.

When you go to bed, look into her eyes, hold her, and tell her how much you do love her...I miss doing all of these things with my wife. So, enjoy your life together, you never know when it will be the last moment.

Greco

Rockinonahigh · 07-28-2012, 07:03 PM

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Originally Posted by ~ocean

seduce them , pamper thir ego... submitt .

I will defanatly second this.

Blade · 11-20-2012, 03:39 PM

be gentle, be soft, be compassionate, be kind, be aware...mentally, physically, sexually

Greyson · 11-20-2012, 04:11 PM

Must be willing to compromise at times.
Be willing to sit, "be" with uncomfortable feelings/situations without trying to resolve them in a matter of moments.
Try not to filter every decision, and actions taken by others through the lense of your own life experience.
Know the value of silence, and listening.

* I have not mastered the above

Talon · 11-21-2012, 10:19 AM

I'm no relationship expert, but one thing that I feel is pretty important
is to just keep your attitude in check. If your always down on something, spewing judgementalness, and just have a generally bad attitude towards others or life in general, it's a complete turn-off.

The more you nurture the negativity, the more negative you become.

morningstar55 · 12-14-2012, 09:52 AM

...listen, understanding , expectance .. communicate... cuz your gonna really need to learn this part after the honey moon faze

07-27-2012, 07:46 PM	#8
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11-20-2012, 03:39 PM	#10
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12-14-2012, 09:52 AM	#13
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06-01-2012, 05:57 PM	#1
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scootebaby Timed Out How Do You Identify?: yes dear Preferred Pronoun?: she Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: south florida Posts: 2,494 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 3,264 Thanked 6,737 Times in 1,777 Posts Rep Power: 0	communicate...by any means necessary..be it face to face,email,text...just TALK!!! be yourself always(unless ur roleplaying ) let them know they are appreciated everyday laugh together--loud and often

07-27-2012, 07:44 PM	#7
girl_dee Practically Lives Here How Do You Identify?: Femme Preferred Pronoun?: dee Relationship Status: Hitched up Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: Livin’ the Dream Posts: 24,079 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 30,560 Thanked 54,829 Times in 13,908 Posts Rep Power: 21474874	yes! be yourself for crying out loud! i don't want someone who agrees with all of my beliefs and ideals. i respect someone who has their own set of beliefs and ideals.. it always makes me shake my head (and feel sad) when i see someone dive head first very quickly into the belief system (like religion) of someone else and within a day claiming that as their belief system too. It would creep me out actually. Maybe that is how someone can appear to be so completely compatible ..... Yup that could be how that happens

11-21-2012, 10:19 AM	#12
Talon Senior Member How Do You Identify?: Divine Feminine Preferred Pronoun?: . Join Date: Oct 2011 Location: . Posts: 4,921 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 16,246 Thanked 10,223 Times in 3,305 Posts Rep Power: 21474855	I'm no relationship expert, but one thing that I feel is pretty important is to just keep your attitude in check. If your always down on something, spewing judgementalness, and just have a generally bad attitude towards others or life in general, it's a complete turn-off. The more you nurture the negativity, the more negative you become.