The Loft: Butches and Femmes in their 40s, 50s and over. - Page 156

Dance-with-me · 09-18-2012, 07:47 PM

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Originally Posted by lusciouskiwi

Hey Dance, well, at least you got to (aherm) dance with the sweet butch right?

Isn't it sad that we think that age might be a barrier to finding love? I hope you do, we all deserve it.

Oh yes, she ::ahem:: dances very well!!

I just think the distance between us is a big barrier to it going anywhere -- and is likely going to be a barrier for a lot of people I might meet, because there just aren't any butches around here that I've found (as others here from this area has attested to!), and I'm not willing to move since my grandkids are here and I have a great job that I hope to stay with until retirement (which is a MUCH bigger issue at this age and in this economy), and yet I can't reasonably expect that anyone's going to want to move here (not that I'd be willing to jump off THAT bridge any time soon, anyway!). And yet I also can't reasonably expect someone to accept a long-term long-distance relationship.

Ah, well, I don't want to sound as if I'm whining, which I'm really not, just being pragmatic.

lusciouskiwi · 09-18-2012, 07:52 PM

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Originally Posted by Dance-with-me

Oh yes, she ::ahem:: dances very well!!

I just think the distance between us is a big barrier to it going anywhere -- and is likely going to be a barrier for a lot of people I might meet, because there just aren't any butches around here that I've found (as others here from this area has attested to!), and I'm not willing to move since my grandkids are here and I have a great job that I hope to stay with until retirement (which is a MUCH bigger issue at this age and in this economy), and yet I can't reasonably expect that anyone's going to want to move here (not that I'd be willing to jump off THAT bridge any time soon, anyway!). And yet I also can't reasonably expect someone to accept a long-term long-distance relationship.

Ah, well, I don't want to sound as if I'm whining, which I'm really not, just being pragmatic.

Long-distance relationships CAN work. There are plenty of blossoms here on bfp who have/are in successful ones (I think there's a LDR thread). Don't count it out!

DMW · 09-18-2012, 08:07 PM

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Originally Posted by LadyRieinAL

I was getting ready to respond to a post from Anya - and as I was typing the title: 40's 50's and over - I was stopped right in the middle of stroking the "0" key in 50 - the next two words "and over"
40's 50's and over -------------how dreadful that sounded - I'm closer to the "over" part of the title and yet I don't in any way feel that I'm going to be over.
I'm newly single - this should be 40's 50's and just beginning....I like that a lot better

LadyRieinAL, it was really nice to hear your interpretation of the title to this thread. I think we should take a vote to change the title of this tread...as long as the tread starter doesn't mind.
It is true isn't it? We are as young as we feel and think. You have a good attitiude. Me...not so much. Nice to hear your positive spin though. It is funny cause i am the 40 something and i bet i feel and think and act older than ancient.

Aw, now i am getting all soft about this...
I did have a good time talking to and holding open a door for a pair of 2 older couples that i met today. They were adorable and happy together. It was neat.

DMW

I see that it is Jet. Jet is cool from what i have read. Bet that Jet wouldn't mind.

DMW · 09-18-2012, 08:23 PM

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Originally Posted by yotlyolqualli

Good morning everyone!

Busy day today... and an anxious one tomorrow cause I have to have a procedure done on wednesday and it always makes me nervous!

Got up this morning and did a thorough cleaning of my apartment... including scrubbing my kitchen floor on my hands and knee's.. it's not that big but my knee's protested mightily.. they insist they are getting too old for such abuse LOL

Anyway... it's done, I can relax and enjoy the rest of my day with an eased conscience!

Have a great day and week, fellow lofters!

Whhhhhoooow,
You have got to get yourself some of these if you are scrubbin a floor on your hands and knees like that.
http://www.constructiongear.com/dewa...utm_medium=ppc

You must...it's like being in a confessional without em. That smarts!
I did tile without them once and that hurts! I mean that hurts! I remember a girl i was with once
was on the floor doing that and i was like...you did what? I swear i should have done more
mopping of that house than i did. Still bothers me now cause i bet she did it more than the time i found out that she did. That really does hurt. Use a towel or something.
I hope you can get these for yourself.
DMW

LadyRieinAL · 09-18-2012, 08:30 PM

What will I do while everyone is at the reunion - MISS YOU ALL!!!

Electrocell · 09-18-2012, 08:34 PM

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Originally Posted by LadyRieinAL

What will I do while everyone is at the reunion - MISS YOU ALL!!!

You'll enjoy Las Vegas later lol.

DMW · 09-18-2012, 08:36 PM

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Originally Posted by morningstar55

Ha, ... my phone just took a flying leap from thr drivers seat to a paved muddy water puddle... still works
... lol....

another ....whhhhhooooh...Hey now Morningstar,
when you get electronics wet....
take out battery and take off cover of phone....
smack phone onto thigh to dry... then ...shake the phone..
preferably with a centrifugal type force of motion....round and around..
seriously...let it dry. or use a hair dryer...then turn it on.

Ahhhhhhhhh....water...damage electronics...damage...electronics....water is a great conductor of electricity...

And thank you for that awesome cup o java Morningstar....smile

My brain is overworked and i is oh so sleepy tired.
Nite All and take care,
DMW

morningstar55 · 09-18-2012, 08:42 PM

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Originally Posted by LadyRieinAL

What will I do while everyone is at the reunion - MISS YOU ALL!!!

U could come too... I have a room with 2 beds... 99 a nite.
I am only able to afford 1 nite .... if I had a roomy.. could get maybe2 nite

DMW · 09-18-2012, 08:45 PM

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Originally Posted by morningstar55

U could come too... I have a room with 2 beds... 99 a nite.
I am only able to afford 1 nite .... if I had a roomy.. could get maybe2 nite

Awww, that is cool. that is sweet. i hope you both go now.

OS Butch · 09-18-2012, 08:45 PM

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Originally Posted by LadyRieinAL

What will I do while everyone is at the reunion - MISS YOU ALL!!!

I'll be here!

morningstar55 · 09-18-2012, 08:46 PM

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Originally Posted by DMW

another ....whhhhhooooh...Hey now Morningstar,
when you get electronics wet....
take out battery and take off cover of phone....
smack phone onto thigh to dry... then ...shake the phone..
preferably with a centrifugal type force of motion....round and around..
seriously...let it dry. or use a hair dryer...then turn it on.

Ahhhhhhhhh....water...damage electronics...damage...electronics....water is a great conductor of electricity...

And thank you for that awesome cup o java Morningstar....smile

My brain is overworked and i is oh so sleepy tired.
Nite All and take care,
DMW

Ahh k .... lol
Its still ticking ...... lol Its supposed to b water proof.
Glad u enjoyed ur coffee

morningstar55 · 09-18-2012, 08:49 PM

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Originally Posted by DMW

Awww, that is cool. that is sweet. i hope you both go now.

lol ....... am already going... just giving her an option ..

morningstar55 · 09-18-2012, 08:59 PM

Im at a truck stop that has a Dennys ..... denny has free WiFi...with a awsome signal..... but wont let me into the Planet ... cuz of adult content ...

Nomad · 09-19-2012, 04:17 AM

good morning people

sleep and i are not best friends. no we are not. i hope everyone has a nice day.

OS Butch · 09-19-2012, 06:02 AM

Good morning Nomad, Morningstar, DMW, Electrocell, LadyRieinAL, lusciouskiwi, Dance-with-me, *Anya* and any one I may have missed!

Looks like it is going to be a beautiful day in my neighborhood here in burbs of Washington DC! I have a tough day ahead...Playing with a bunch of 4 legged furry friends... yep, a really tough day

Have a great day with whatever you have to do!

Bèsame* · 09-19-2012, 07:53 AM

Good morning all..

I hope everyone arrives safely to your reunion. As a newbie, I see the camaraderie among you all. Have a great time and bring back tons of memories.

As for me, it's the last day of vacation and I have already checked when the next one happens. Five weeks will be here before I know it.

It's a beautiful day in the hill country, here's to a wonderful Wednesday to all![/

morningstar55 · 09-19-2012, 07:57 AM

Mawning loft dwellers nd peekers
it is a beautiful morning here in Nashville land.
Hope you all have a awsome day.

LipstickLola · 09-19-2012, 11:27 AM

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Originally Posted by OS Butch

Good evening LipstickLola.... There has got to be a shorter version of your name for those of us typed-challenged!

Do what you doctor says no matter how much you wanna run!

"Lips" is just fine

hehehe

Hey y'all heeey!!
So is anyone here outside enjoying this stellar weather??? That is if you happen to be having it, if it's raining on you today, there area advantages to that too!!!

OS Butch · 09-19-2012, 03:39 PM

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Originally Posted by LipstickLola

"Lips" is just fine

hehehe

Hey y'all heeey!!
So is anyone here outside enjoying this stellar weather??? That is if you happen to be having it, if it's raining on you today, there area advantages to that too!!!

Welcome back Lips

I did have a great day outside today. What could be better than playing with 13 dogs and getting paid to do it!

Have a great evening!

OS Butch · 09-19-2012, 07:29 PM

I have been playing in the arcade and I can't get a better score! Anyone have a favorite game? Zodiac Mahjong and Spider 1 suit Solitaire are kicking my .... ARGH!

09-18-2012, 08:30 PM	#3105
LadyRieinAL Member How Do You Identify?: Evolving Femme Preferred Pronoun?: she, girl, her Relationship Status: found my vibrational match Join Date: Apr 2012 Location: Sweet Home Alabama Posts: 459 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 3,024 Thanked 1,214 Times in 281 Posts Rep Power: 18359992	50s What will I do while everyone is at the reunion - MISS YOU ALL!!!

09-18-2012, 08:59 PM	#3113
morningstar55 Senior Member How Do You Identify?: femme,she Preferred Pronoun?: she,her, Relationship Status: very single Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: western NY Posts: 3,809 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 5,280 Thanked 4,240 Times in 1,845 Posts Rep Power: 21474855	Im at a truck stop that has a Dennys ..... denny has free WiFi...with a awsome signal..... but wont let me into the Planet ... cuz of adult content ... __________________ -------------------------------------------- life is to short to wake up in the morning with regrets so love the people who treat you right, forget about the ones who dont, and believe that everything happens for a reason. If you get a chance take it... if it changes your life let it.

09-19-2012, 04:17 AM	#3114
Nomad Timed Out How Do You Identify?: stone femme Daddy's girl Preferred Pronoun?: she/her Relationship Status: disinterested Join Date: Jun 2012 Location: in my head Posts: 991 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 5,848 Thanked 3,745 Times in 734 Posts Rep Power: 0	waving to all good morning people sleep and i are not best friends. no we are not. i hope everyone has a nice day.

09-19-2012, 06:02 AM	#3115
OS Butch Member How Do You Identify?: Butch-BLW Preferred Pronoun?: Default-She Relationship Status: Closed Join Date: Dec 2009 Location: Northern Virginia Posts: 636 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 488 Thanked 1,378 Times in 461 Posts Rep Power: 12988704	Good morning Nomad, Morningstar, DMW, Electrocell, LadyRieinAL, lusciouskiwi, Dance-with-me, Anya and any one I may have missed! Looks like it is going to be a beautiful day in my neighborhood here in burbs of Washington DC! I have a tough day ahead...Playing with a bunch of 4 legged furry friends... yep, a really tough day Have a great day with whatever you have to do! __________________ You know that place between sleep and awake, the place where you can still remember dreaming? That's where I'll always love you. ~Tinkerbell~

09-19-2012, 07:53 AM	#3116
Bèsame* Practically Lives Here How Do You Identify?: Femm Preferred Pronoun?: She Relationship Status: loved by many Join Date: Sep 2012 Location: Closer to the waves Posts: 15,422 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 29,172 Thanked 41,018 Times in 10,768 Posts Rep Power: 21474865	Good morning all.. I hope everyone arrives safely to your reunion. As a newbie, I see the camaraderie among you all. Have a great time and bring back tons of memories. As for me, it's the last day of vacation and I have already checked when the next one happens. Five weeks will be here before I know it. It's a beautiful day in the hill country, here's to a wonderful Wednesday to all![/ __________________ kisses A kiss is a whisper in your mouth. Can I borrow a kiss? I promise to give it back.

09-19-2012, 07:57 AM	#3117
morningstar55 Senior Member How Do You Identify?: femme,she Preferred Pronoun?: she,her, Relationship Status: very single Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: western NY Posts: 3,809 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 5,280 Thanked 4,240 Times in 1,845 Posts Rep Power: 21474855	Mawning loft dwellers nd peekers it is a beautiful morning here in Nashville land. Hope you all have a awsome day. __________________ -------------------------------------------- life is to short to wake up in the morning with regrets so love the people who treat you right, forget about the ones who dont, and believe that everything happens for a reason. If you get a chance take it... if it changes your life let it.

09-19-2012, 07:29 PM	#3120
OS Butch Member How Do You Identify?: Butch-BLW Preferred Pronoun?: Default-She Relationship Status: Closed Join Date: Dec 2009 Location: Northern Virginia Posts: 636 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 488 Thanked 1,378 Times in 461 Posts Rep Power: 12988704	I have been playing in the arcade and I can't get a better score! Anyone have a favorite game? Zodiac Mahjong and Spider 1 suit Solitaire are kicking my .... ARGH! __________________ You know that place between sleep and awake, the place where you can still remember dreaming? That's where I'll always love you. ~Tinkerbell~