Important things I learned from past relationships

[Kobi]

~if it doesnt feel right, there's a reason

~if there is not a plausible explanation for things, there is a reason

~if things change and not in a good way, there is a reason

~you have gut feelings, for a reason

~not trusting your gut is self defeating

Those I have noticed.

What I have learned is, my natural curiosity aside, the reasons behind any of those seldom matter. Ignoring any of them guarantees they will come back to bite you in the hiney.