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![]() ![]() Celebrated my 11th month smoke free today...smiles I know to some it may be silly to do so but today I officially have not smoked aprox. 13,200 ciggarretts. And have started to regenerate some damage I have done. .
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Today, January 5th I celebrate two full years of being a non-smoker!
![]() I smoked for many years and thought that I would never be able to quit. I think what helped me the most was, before I tried to quit I thought a lot about when I started smoking and what the real reason(s) were that I began in the first place...trying to fit in with "the crowd", wanting to be grown, it was cool back then to smoke, feeling a lack of control in one's life, whatever. Everyone has different reasons. Once I realized what mine was, and told myself the truth, the actual quitting became much easier for me. I also had to get to the point where I truly wanted to stop smoking. Like I said, it's different for each of us. Sometimes I still can't believe I did it. Congrats to everyone who is still working on, or even thinking about quitting! If this is something that you really want, then it will be yours.
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Keep it up and never pick up again. Soooo happy for you . Today is a grand marker for you. You need to treat yourself with something in honor of your continued choice to say no. .
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![]() Congrats, and on your anniversary, it is on my birthday...We should have celebrated. I still am, I have decided it needs to be a birthday month. WOW, I can see that image , of all those cigarettes. Way to go. I have much respect for those that can do this, as I have been told it is harder than drugs and alcohol. My Mom and my ex were heavy smokers, then one day, it was time to put them away. My Mom kept a pack in the freezer.? Peggie kept one in the medicine cabinet. Last edited by Tommi; 01-19-2013 at 08:59 PM. |
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And yes celebrating with you would be an honor..smiles I also kept some around as a crutch incase to show I had some to myself..I was recently able to dismiss those..ha After recieving news of the emphysima/copd after I quit. And enduring lack of air even when I did not smoke...I have deeper appreciation of living and air in my lungs. Also an added true fear of the outcome...which I know from working in medical field for so long. I am thankful for every second I am aware and breathe. .
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![]() 594 hours: 04 minutes: 51 seconds since my last cigarette Still craving them pretty bad most of the time, but am determined not to smoke. I was on Chantix but I just could not handle the side effects, primarily the extreme nausea that would last about two hours after each pill. I decided to take myself off of it and just go it alone. (Am allergic to patches and not a fan of gum...had one of the e-cigs but it just makes me want a real one.) Now I carry around a lil box of tic tacs, and every time have a craving I pop one in my mouth. So far, so good! ![]() |
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Keep it up..step through the hard moments..each nicci last 5 minutes ..remember that..it makes it easier..and don't forget to breath and take your moments still to re group. Smiles...Again..CONGRAT! .
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I am doing it with e cigs.
For two weeks I've been weaning myself down off the real shit. If all goes well today will be my first day of no real ones. I learned the hard way that I cant have emergency cigarettes around .Period. That would be like quitting drinking and having an emergency bottle up in the cupboard ![]() But I had to try it, yes I did. Sooo much harder than quitting drinking. The e cigs are taking the edge off but the emotional ( OMG Your best friend, your constant source of stuffing emotions is fucking outta heah?!!!!REALLY?) stuff is surfacing. I am also worried about my personality changing because I don't feel "right".... snort |
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As for personality, I understand about not feeling "right." I have been one cranky cruel bitch, and I still don't recommend looking at me the wrong way. LOL Needless to say, I am hoping it's just the lack of cigs and that I am not really this much of a bitch and just never noticed it before lol |
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Yes this is as hard or close to it as heroin..wow huh...but it is truely doable. Keep it up and stay busy..but don't forget to breath. Stay with your method don't stop it to early. And I suggest reading all posts for great ideas. Welcome to being a non smoker..smiles ,
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