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Old 03-25-2010, 01:30 PM   #1
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Women cheat just like men do. It isn't just one sided, and that is the impression I am getting reading this thread.

Nobody knows what happens in a relationship between a couple. That is between them. Alot of debate can go on about how their passion has fizzled, both are working long hours, one bought a new car while so and so needs one, then the kids, and on and on. All this is - is an educated guess. That is all it is. The truth lies with the couple. Maybe they have decided to part ways. Who's business is it? Not mine. Not yours. That is gossip. And it's wrong imho.

I think of the saying, and forgive me I am not sure of how it actually reads, but it is something along the lines like "Hell hath no fury like a woman scorned" aka it is payback time. That is not what life is about.
Both sexes cheat. What I am saying is that it is more honorable to break up first...or to just be poly in the first place.

I know every single person I mentioned in my posts is a woman. Not one single man.

But we don't have to agree.
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Both sexes cheat. What I am saying is that it is more honorable to break up first...or to just be poly in the first place.

I know every single person I mentioned in my posts is a woman. Not one single man.

But we don't have to agree.
Butches cheat, Femmes cheat, in fact the only species that doesn't for sure I think is the goose. Shrug.
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Good to know. If soemthing ever happens with Cynthia, I will keep transpecies dating in mind.
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Pondering which is cuter, in case I ever am single again.
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Pigs and dolphins have sex for pleasure. Wolves do it like they do on the Discovery Channel.

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Penguins are monogamous for only one mating season.
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obviously, i do not watch enough animal planet. although, i have to wonder if they're not onto something there. that would certainly broaden the gene pool, wouldn't it? (which has nothing to do with the topic at hand...sorry for the diversion)
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obviously, i do not watch enough animal planet. although, i have to wonder if they're not onto something there. that would certainly broaden the gene pool, wouldn't it? (which has nothing to do with the topic at hand...sorry for the diversion)
How hard is it to me monogamous when all your potential mates look EXACTLY THE SAME.
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It's funny you ladies both spoke up. From a guys pov, I really thought this was about a guy cheating. I think in society you see more of men cheating than women. And if women stray...it goes un-noticed or isn't focused upon.

I call bullshit Andrew..

If a woman cheats, she is cast as

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It is all about talking or communication. That is key in all relationships.
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Monica Lewinsky?

Right? Naughty bad Monica who led poor poor Clinton, mind you no one made him get his dick sucked, no one made him fuck her with a cigar, and no one forced him to cheat on his wife..
Princess Di? (they certainly focused on her more than Camilla Parker)

Di, well Charles was sticking his dick in Camilla, she was supposed to sit back and watch like a good little girl right? Cause that is what good Queens do, sit back and watch the guy do whatever..
Now she decides fuck it and gets her nookie wet, all hell breaks out, her crown taken, and I still say killed...

Recently Leanne Rhymes....

Here we go again, the bad bad vixen strayed the poor guy who is married with kids, she turned into a serpent struck him with her venomous ways and he had no choice...

Poor victim cheaters...

Makes me wanna vomit a bit...

Fuck this excuse for cheating, this whole new I am addicted to sex, it's just an excuse for a new reality show with Dr Drew..
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It's funny you ladies both spoke up. From a guys pov, I really thought this was about a guy cheating. I think in society you see more of men cheating than women. And if women stray...it goes un-noticed or isn't focused upon.
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It's funny you ladies both spoke up. From a guys pov, I really thought this was about a guy cheating. I think in society you see more of men cheating than women. And if women stray...it goes un-noticed or isn't focused upon.
Yes, I agree that is a stereotype of men

But every person I mentioned...women!

People are just people.
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It's funny you ladies both spoke up. From a guys pov, I really thought this was about a guy cheating. I think in society you see more of men cheating than women. And if women stray...it goes un-noticed or isn't focused upon.
Monica Lewinsky?
Princess Di? (they certainly focused on her more than Camilla Parker)
Recently Leanne Rhymes....
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You're kidding, right? Let's have a seance and discuss this with all the women killed by their boyfriends or husbands who found out they were cheating or who thought they were.
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It's funny you ladies both spoke up. From a guys pov, I really thought this was about a guy cheating. I think in society you see more of men cheating than women. And if women stray...it goes un-noticed or isn't focused upon.
i am still fuming about this. i mean, do we share the same planet? i don't get it. How many women are killed a YEAR, i wonder, based on accusations of infidelity? i still can't get over it, that i even saw this on this site. It's damaging to ME to hear things like this expressed, things that i thought most people knew better than to say.
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