New sex partner=new toys? Your opinion

alexri · 03-02-2013, 07:43 PM

This is a personal call for people, and a discussion between someone and his/her partner. I can understand both opinions/sides.

Some might need to buy new toys because of size/comfort issues.

Some may need to buy new toys because of wear/tear/age.

Some feel better buying new toys in honor of the new relationship, or don't want to keep the old toys because of a bad breakup.

Some insist on replacing toys, especially ones for anal, for safety concerns.

Some won't buy new toys because his/hys cock is personal to him, or his/hys harness was custom-made to fit.

Some won't because of finances.

Some don't feel the need to because they don't see the toys as belonging to an ex they are no longer with, no more than they would get different underwear, sheets or bedding after breaking up with someone.

Some don't feel the need to because they've used condoms and protection and have kept their equipment clean and sterilized.

Some look and think no big deal- his/hys lips kissed someone else, hands, tongue... you get the picture.

To each their own. The final resolution rests among those in a relationship having a discussion about what they both want and can work with.

03-02-2013, 07:43 PM	#11
alexri Member How Do You Identify?: - Join Date: Jul 2012 Location: - Posts: 549 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 1,209 Thanked 2,799 Times in 468 Posts Rep Power: 21474850	This is a personal call for people, and a discussion between someone and his/her partner. I can understand both opinions/sides. Some might need to buy new toys because of size/comfort issues. Some may need to buy new toys because of wear/tear/age. Some feel better buying new toys in honor of the new relationship, or don't want to keep the old toys because of a bad breakup. Some insist on replacing toys, especially ones for anal, for safety concerns. Some won't buy new toys because his/hys cock is personal to him, or his/hys harness was custom-made to fit. Some won't because of finances. Some don't feel the need to because they don't see the toys as belonging to an ex they are no longer with, no more than they would get different underwear, sheets or bedding after breaking up with someone. Some don't feel the need to because they've used condoms and protection and have kept their equipment clean and sterilized. Some look and think no big deal- his/hys lips kissed someone else, hands, tongue... you get the picture. To each their own. The final resolution rests among those in a relationship having a discussion about what they both want and can work with.