WHO is on your Mind ... Why?

~baby~doll~ · 06-02-2013, 11:16 AM

a friend and sometimes lover named Sarah who passed away two months ago. i miss her

LukeCian · 06-02-2013, 11:32 AM

Someone with an 80's dance card

~baby~doll~ · 06-02-2013, 11:36 AM

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Originally Posted by LukeCian

Someone with an 80's dance card

did we still get our dance cards filled in during the 80's or did we just begin to sway to the music in our hearts?

LukeCian · 06-02-2013, 11:42 AM

Well that is a good question. As I remember it I think there was a lot of swaying going on. But recently I have found the dance card thing to have Me feeling some type of way.

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Originally Posted by ~baby~doll~

did we still get our dance cards filled in during the 80's or did we just begin to sway to the music in our hearts?

Princess · 06-02-2013, 12:45 PM

There are several people on my mind today, most of which are my fantastic friends. Its nice to wake up to a room full of them and it brought a huge smile to my face. I am so thankful for them!

Dominique · 06-02-2013, 12:59 PM

I'm thinking about Amy Winehouse. I've spent the last two hours watching U tube video's of her. Much like Janis Joplin, the addiction was stronger than intelligence. Sad.

This one is my favorite, before the drugs began to ruin her. ~Valerie, with Mark Ronson~

Wrang1er · 06-02-2013, 01:03 PM

My cousin is on my mind. I have been having conversations lately that bring thoughts of her. I miss her very much.

GraffitiBoi · 06-02-2013, 11:45 AM

I'm thinking about a couple of people. My cousin Kim is one. Hard to believe she's been gone 2 1/2 years now. I'm also thinking about... Someone else... Who I wish would come give me a massage. My body hurts.

Kobi · 06-30-2013, 04:29 PM

Am thinking about my Aunt Vicky. She died last night. She was 92.

It is sad but a blessing. Is very difficult to watch the people you love slowly lose their memory. It is difficult to see them in a nursing home when their behavior makes it difficult to manage them at home. It is difficult when they kind of remember which part of the family you belong to but cant recall exactly who you are.

But, I will always remember her as one of the strong, independent, vocal women in my family. I will remember how she dressed impeccably well into her 80's, easily being seen as a hetero femme extraordinaire. I will remember how she matched her brothers in volume, tone, facts, and fist pounding on the table as she defended those less fortunate (guess where I got it from) during the family holidays around the table discussions - aka the informal Italian summit to solve the worlds problems.

I will also remember how she made sure I had stuffed artichokes every Easter.

It truly is the little things.

RIP Auntie. You will be fondly remembered and deeply missed.

MsBluem · 06-30-2013, 07:05 PM

Someone who I fell in love with all over again this weekend. We have the best, most perfect (for us at least) friendship I could ask for. I really needed this weekend.

girl_dee · 11-02-2013, 06:50 AM

my mother, and for a bazillion reasons..........

06-02-2013, 11:16 AM	#1
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