WHO is on your Mind ... Why?

GraffitiBoi · 06-02-2013, 11:45 AM

I'm thinking about a couple of people. My cousin Kim is one. Hard to believe she's been gone 2 1/2 years now. I'm also thinking about... Someone else... Who I wish would come give me a massage. My body hurts.

Kobi · 06-30-2013, 04:29 PM

Am thinking about my Aunt Vicky. She died last night. She was 92.

It is sad but a blessing. Is very difficult to watch the people you love slowly lose their memory. It is difficult to see them in a nursing home when their behavior makes it difficult to manage them at home. It is difficult when they kind of remember which part of the family you belong to but cant recall exactly who you are.

But, I will always remember her as one of the strong, independent, vocal women in my family. I will remember how she dressed impeccably well into her 80's, easily being seen as a hetero femme extraordinaire. I will remember how she matched her brothers in volume, tone, facts, and fist pounding on the table as she defended those less fortunate (guess where I got it from) during the family holidays around the table discussions - aka the informal Italian summit to solve the worlds problems.

I will also remember how she made sure I had stuffed artichokes every Easter.

It truly is the little things.

RIP Auntie. You will be fondly remembered and deeply missed.

MsBluem · 06-30-2013, 07:05 PM

Someone who I fell in love with all over again this weekend. We have the best, most perfect (for us at least) friendship I could ask for. I really needed this weekend.

girl_dee · 11-02-2013, 06:50 AM

my mother, and for a bazillion reasons..........

girl_dee · 11-02-2013, 08:24 PM

Breakfast with Pajama!

Tommi · 11-03-2013, 11:21 PM

My lady love who stayed besied me, and the ones who journey with us, and one hell of a medical team. Three months of radiation treatments are over, and I am alive and well.

cinnamongrrl · 05-05-2014, 06:15 PM

someone I love dearly...they have a sick parent... and all I can do is give hugs and my love.....

06-30-2013, 04:29 PM	#2
Kobi Infamous Member How Do You Identify?: Biological female. Lesbian. Relationship Status: Happy Join Date: Feb 2010 Location: Hanging out in the Atlantic. Posts: 9,234 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 9,840 Thanked 34,630 Times in 7,640 Posts Rep Power: 21474861	Am thinking about my Aunt Vicky. She died last night. She was 92. It is sad but a blessing. Is very difficult to watch the people you love slowly lose their memory. It is difficult to see them in a nursing home when their behavior makes it difficult to manage them at home. It is difficult when they kind of remember which part of the family you belong to but cant recall exactly who you are. But, I will always remember her as one of the strong, independent, vocal women in my family. I will remember how she dressed impeccably well into her 80's, easily being seen as a hetero femme extraordinaire. I will remember how she matched her brothers in volume, tone, facts, and fist pounding on the table as she defended those less fortunate (guess where I got it from) during the family holidays around the table discussions - aka the informal Italian summit to solve the worlds problems. I will also remember how she made sure I had stuffed artichokes every Easter. It truly is the little things. RIP Auntie. You will be fondly remembered and deeply missed. __________________

06-30-2013, 07:05 PM	#3
MsBluem Member How Do You Identify?: Queer femme Preferred Pronoun?: feminine ones are fine Relationship Status: open Join Date: Jun 2013 Location: Indiana Posts: 397 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 333 Thanked 1,844 Times in 371 Posts Rep Power: 16353569	Someone who I fell in love with all over again this weekend. We have the best, most perfect (for us at least) friendship I could ask for. I really needed this weekend. __________________ “Never forget who you are, for surely the world won’t. Make it your strength. Then it can never be your weakness. Armor yourself in it, and it will never be used to hurt you.”

11-03-2013, 11:21 PM	#6
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05-05-2014, 06:15 PM	#7
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06-02-2013, 11:45 AM	#1
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11-02-2013, 06:50 AM	#4
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