What TO DO in a relationship.....

[Miss Scarlett]

Originally Posted by Brock

honest
honest
honest

And by the way, omitting things/parts is a form of deception. I call it exactly what it is ... which is lying.

Originally Posted by Katniss

How many times can I rep the above post? Seriously. None of this "I lied out of love or to spare your feelings" cr@p either. What that usually means is you are justifying your own misbehavior. At the very least you don't respect me enough to think I can handle my own emotions and make my own decisions based on the truth. Liars are just manipulators who haven't grown up enough to be in adult relationships. Give me hard truth any day because we can build something solid on that.

Katniss~~

Originally Posted by JAGG

You took the words right out of my mouth !!! AMEN !!!

Mine too!

I'd rather be hurt with the truth than be betrayed by lies.

If someone doesn't love me enough to be truthful, they really don't (or never did) love me at all.