Changing last names

[selty]

I was reading some of these posts about name changing with marriage and I see many people have very deep feelings about it,

I myself feel that it would be an honour to carry the name of my partner, to feel the sense of belonging to them.

ok I know that sounds a bit old school but I feel that in life and work I am very strong and can hold my place in any work with men or women and feel that the home and personal life with my partner is something completely different.

I don't feel that my femininity or even my ability to portray a woman of authority is changed in any way by the name I choose.

heck I could change my last name to mud and it wouldn't make a difference to the woman I am.

so with marriage I just find it as an honour to carry my spouses name