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05-13-2014, 01:29 PM
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The word I see most often here is expectations. Sometimes expectations become such that nothing else matters. We expect that the carnal will happen, we expect the chemistry to be there, we expect that this "one" will be "the one".... It happens because expectations don't match reality....
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05-13-2014, 02:50 PM
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I have met some of my best friends online (specifically on this site) I also have formed several relationships too. In my community, butch-femme really isn't around so meeting people online gives me an outlet to my community that I desperately need! Have I met some creepers?? Absolutely. But, I have also met people I will love for the rest of my life. As long as you are safe, follow your gut and make sure you have someone you can call incase things go bad, I say go for it. There is so much potential and a whole other world you can reach online. It's pretty incredible!
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05-13-2014, 03:25 PM
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 ExMrsD and I didn't really have time for expectations beyond what promised to be a crackin' shag  ...we met within a fortnight of getting each others details on a UK bf site through an ex. We always said we were having the longest one night stand in history.The time I felt hurt most, and felt most used by, was one that had, apparently, good reason after good reason not to meet for several months. I found out why afterwards...she was still seeing her alleged ex. Expectations built during many, many hours on the phone and online. Sadly, the reality definitely didn't meet the expectations. It's also my experience that there can be more than one great love or grand passion for everyone. I've been lucky enough to have had two thus far...with fun fillers in and around them. I sure don't rule out another. Keep the faith 
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