only another butch would understand

Diva · 11-20-2009, 10:29 PM

Because I know that sometimes, some wear their feelings on their sleeves about so many things, if there is any confusion on my part about which pronoun one prefers, I ask in a matter~of~fact way. I just want to know so that I will avoid any hurt feelings.

It doesn't make me cringe to make another person more comfortable with their identity.

kassykit · 11-24-2009, 06:06 AM

I try to not use pronouns, i use names, reason being is unless i really really know you i have a horrid memory!

and at least with chats and forums...........every time you post your name is RIGHT there for me!!!

am sorry if i slipped up at any time and offended!

Just don't blow up at me say

"hey kass" and correct me nicely

-sends warm fuzzy hugs for those that want them and stuffs-

11-24-2009, 06:06 AM	#2
kassykit Member How Do You Identify?: Just me Preferred Pronoun?: she, her, Relationship Status: Single Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: TN Posts: 160 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 115 Thanked 135 Times in 54 Posts Rep Power: 1725537	I try to not use pronouns, i use names, reason being is unless i really really know you i have a horrid memory! and at least with chats and forums...........every time you post your name is RIGHT there for me!!! am sorry if i slipped up at any time and offended! Just don't blow up at me say "hey kass" and correct me nicely -sends warm fuzzy hugs for those that want them and stuffs- __________________ =kassy= r/t Mishy =Love shared is love doubled.... pain shared is pain cut in half..........share your life with me, and i'll share mine with you...

11-20-2009, 10:29 PM	#1
Diva Timed Out How Do You Identify?: Diva Preferred Pronoun?: Diva Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: Chez Diva Posts: 11,879 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 9,263 Thanked 17,175 Times in 5,239 Posts Rep Power: 0	Because I know that sometimes, some wear their feelings on their sleeves about so many things, if there is any confusion on my part about which pronoun one prefers, I ask in a matter~of~fact way. I just want to know so that I will avoid any hurt feelings. It doesn't make me cringe to make another person more comfortable with their identity.