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Old 06-29-2015, 06:04 PM   #1
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After searching through the parenting forum, I was unable to find a thread pertaining to this issue. My apologies if there is one and I just haven't found it.
My daughter just recently turned 6. She has been toilet trained since she was 18 months old and since then has rarely had a daytime accident. She just doesn't wake up when she needs to -for lack of a better term- "pee" at night. She has been wearing a pull-up at night and very rarely wakes up dry.
Here is my issue and its rather two-fold as my mum seems to always need to offer her opinion whether I want it or not...
After speaking with my family Dr., I was reassured that it is normal and she will outgrow it. She says many children don't have mature bladders at this age.
My mum, on the other hand has many opinions and says basically that she is not trained and I must be doing something wrong...
I am very frustrated...
If anyone has any thoughts to share, advice or the like, I am open to suggestion.
I realise that I am complaining about my mother, but I really would love to hear of any 'like' stories and/or experiences.

Girl, your family dr. is right. Many times children's bladders aren't matured enough to not wet while still sleeping. I was one of those children growing up and I outgrew it. Don't freak out, your daughter isn't being lazy and not getting up it's just that bladders are not always mature in some children like they are in others to hold pee and wake them up with the urge to go. It may help your daughter to not be wet in the mornings if you will not allow her to drink anything an hour before bed time, that works for some children too, not all, but some. Just a suggestion.
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Thank you Tru... I actually don't allow her anything to drink 2 hours ahead of bedtime AND I take her to the bathroom before I go to bed...
I do not think she is lazy and have never made a huge issue of it... My mother seems to think I must be doing something wrong... That bothers me A LOT



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Girl, your family dr. is right. Many times children's bladders aren't matured enough to not wet while still sleeping. I was one of those children growing up and I outgrew it. Don't freak out, your daughter isn't being lazy and not getting up it's just that bladders are not always mature in some children like they are in others to hold pee and wake them up with the urge to go. It may help your daughter to not be wet in the mornings if you will not allow her to drink anything an hour before bed time, that works for some children too, not all, but some. Just a suggestion.
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Thank you Tru... I actually don't allow her anything to drink 2 hours ahead of bedtime AND I take her to the bathroom before I go to bed...
I do not think she is lazy and have never made a huge issue of it... My mother seems to think I must be doing something wrong... That bothers me A LOT
If it weren't for the opinions of our Mothers, we would be pretty terrific wouldn't we? Maybe there are some things she just doesn't need to know?

Nothing wakes my daughter up (earthquakes, firecrackers etc...), and she had the same issue off and on until she was 8 or so years old.

You know your child, and if the doctor says she is fine, then go with your gut.
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it would've been fine and dandy if she didn't know, but my daughter (and son) are staying at my parents overnight tonight and my daughter fell asleep this afternoon after swimming in their backyard pool and unfortunately had an accident in their spare room and bed...so...my mother called me to tell me that she thinks my daughter needs diapers! I'm almost certain she didn't make my daughter feel badly in any way... seems to just be me she puts pressure on...


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If it weren't for the opinions of our Mothers, we would be pretty terrific wouldn't we? Maybe there are some things she just doesn't need to know?

Nothing wakes my daughter up (earthquakes, firecrackers etc...), and she had the same issue off and on until she was 8 or so years old.

You know your child, and if the doctor says she is fine, then go with your gut.
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hmmmm.... I just thought about deleting the previous post because it seems like I am on a rant regarding my mum.... I apologise for that...
its good for people to realise I am human and am allowed to rant about my mum... she is wrong. I know this. My daughter will outgrow this phase...
It just seems like everything I try to do to alleviate the issue of bed-wetting is getting me no where...
ok ok ok RANT OVER
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