Do you have a crush on anyone here at The Planet?

[AmazonDC]

yes... I will leave it at that

[storyspinner70]

What a delicious topic of discussion...too bad people don't name names, though, that could be really fun :D.

Um, full disclosure: I love telenovelas for the drama sooooo, that explains a bit about my mindset....lmao...

[JDeere]

Nope not at all

[DapperButch]

Nope not at all

You're no fun. :|

[JDeere]

You're no fun. :|

LOL well it's true I don't have any crushes on here

[~SweetCheeks~]

Oh yeah, its way more than a crush :cheer:

[Sweet Bliss]

:glasses:

I have, still single, luckily I enjoy my own company. It's brutal out there. Not really up to dancing with the Devil anymore. No, not jaded, just being open about how I am feeling/thinking..

My health is a major factor. Not a good candidate for "forever" scenarios.

In love with someone since 2009..... Look how well that turned out! LoL

Hopeless romantic thwarted by distance, timing and heart disease. What a combo.

I think "crushed" is a better description.

[Chad]

Looking around....still don't see my name. Haha.

I have a buddy crush. Truth be told the ladies here are beautiful so yes I am crushing. :)

[Bèsame*]

ahhhh, it's Almost Spring...



http://cucinakristina.com/wp-content/uploads/2014/01/loveintheair_front.png

It's fun reading between the lines ;)

[DapperButch]

Looking around....still don't see my name. Haha.

I have a buddy crush. Truth be told the ladies here are beautiful so yes I am crushing. :)

Kelt be my bro crush. I love that guy! A fantastic friend and a fantastic person! :beerbros:

[Chad]

Looks around.... nope still don't see my name.

I would like to have a beer with DapperButch, homoe, and many other friends here.

[Bèsame*]

Its the middle of spring....where is the flirting? If there are crushes, it's way too quiet around here!

Come out love birds.....



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[clay]

Kelt be my bro crush. I love that guy! A fantastic friend and a fantastic person! :beerbros:

Kelt be my crush, too, DB! Isn't he just amazing!!!!

[ferret]

Ha. I don't see my name, either :)

[Chad]

As far as I know no one has a crush on me.

:sunglass:

[afemmenatalie]

As far as I know, no one has a crush on me either!

[ferret]

I'm sure there are a lot of cool people on here worth getting to know, but kind of hard to do that when you don't get much of an opportunity to get to know them.

[Sweet Bliss]

I have crushed many a time.

Still single. Not complaining, just a statement.

Seems there are more than just a few things on people's "you must be" lists.

I don't think I ask for much, a wicked sense of humor, kind to children and animals and seniors, compassion and a great kisser. Not being a great kisser is my deal breaker, lol.

But seems to be too tall an order to find someone with the same list. Being egocentric again I guess.

Meeting folks online is a bit of a crap shoot. :jester:

[TL1]

Nods. Yes... bit more than a crush though.

[ONLY]

I love how a simple "hey, how are you" turns into a friendship, that turns into a cute "crush", then a HUGE CRUSH!!!!!, then LOVE, then "will you marry me?" and best of all...............when she says....."YES!!!!"

Thank you SS (f) for being my best friend, my "crush" , my Love and my Wife. I love you..to infinity n beyond xo

Yep still crushin' on her and now she is home to stay. No immigration barriers. Canada has let my crush and I be together without restrictions. Our life really starts.....

[MysticOceansFL]

It was a new friendship that turn into a stronger friendship to first thought of the morning, and last thought in the evening and inbetween. (xoxo to my girlfriend )

[AmazonDC]

Most definitely crushing on someone... She is gorgeous...

[ferret]

Maybe (a little). But logistically speaking, it would never work.

Still single and cool with that, but it would be wonderful if someone's "must haves" would put me to the head of the line. Nothing worse than hearing "you're really cute, but..."

Eh, who am I kidding. I wouldn't know what to think of someone had a crush on me.

Sue

[Sweet Bliss]

(f)(f)(f)
Have a crush on someone since 2009, sigh.
Never connected in person.
The heart wants what the heart wants.
(f)(f)(f)

[Sweet Bliss]

Maybe (a little). But logistically speaking, it would never work.

Still single and cool with that, but it would be wonderful if someone's "must haves" would put me to the head of the line. Nothing worse than hearing "you're really cute, but..."

I concur, no one says "you're really cute, but..." to me, it's usually something more like a direct hit in the solar plexis... like "My girl is...." or "I can't come visit, I'm moving in with my girl..."

You know, stuff like that.

[ferret]

I concur, no one says "you're really cute, but..." to me, it's usually something more like a direct hit in the solar plexis... like "My girl is...." or "I can't come visit, I'm moving in with my girl..."

You know, stuff like that.

That would most definitely sting. Why does it seem when we're ready for someone, we end up waiting? Maybe it's because we're really not ready. Who the hell knows.

Sue

[Sweet Bliss]

That would most definitely sting. Why does it seem when we're ready for someone, we end up waiting? Maybe it's because we're really not ready. Who the hell knows.

Sue

I have no idea, you might be on to something there. I find that for myself, I'm putting myself out there less and less. I feel too bruised some days, and others feel like Wonder Woman, and yet on others too cynical to be bothered with trying to date, probably the moon, lol. I finally went out to meet someone locally, had a lovely time, and no feedback. So the carnival ride continues...

:pirate-steer:

[ferret]

I have no idea, you might be on to something there. I find that for myself, I'm putting myself out there less and less. I feel too bruised some days, and others feel like Wonder Woman, and yet on others too cynical to be bothered with trying to date, probably the moon, lol. I finally went out to meet someone locally, had a lovely time, and no feedback. So the carnival ride continues...

:pirate-steer:


I continue to put myself out there (like a dang fool)...Always hoping. Right now i'd be happy to go on a date with someone local, but it seems either I attract people who don't have their shit together... Or I have no attraction to those who might be attracted to me. Why does this seem ridiculously next to impossible?

What sort of carnival ride are we talking - the Scrambler?

[Sweet Bliss]

I continue to put myself out there (like a dang fool)...Always hoping. Right now i'd be happy to go on a date with someone local, but it seems either I attract people who don't have their shit together... Or I have no attraction to those who might be attracted to me. Why does this seem ridiculously next to impossible?

What sort of carnival ride are we talking - the Scrambler?

That sounds about right Ferret. :jester:

Well being attracted is overrated in my book. Mostly because it's a physical reaction, not an intellectual one. Let's face it, fires burn hot in the beginning and then fade if the fuel is unavailable. Finding a really good reliable friend that can maintain a steady comfortable relationship with deep intellectual connection, emotional maturity, and compatible sense of humor is priceless. I find that letting go of the Forever Fairy tale is probably the best way to go. You know, no body odor, no morning breath, no flatulence, perfumed feet.... embrace the realness of real people, with all their flaws, odors, and bad habits. Finding someone who is genuine, real, who burps and farts and can laugh about it and not have a freaking stroke over it, someone with a plump tummy, wrinkles and thinning hair, bad teeth, and snores.... now that Ladies and Gentleman is a keeper.

[Chad]

Unfortunately no, I do hope other people here have crushes.

[Sweet Bliss]

Throw back Thursday...


Well I'm going to be totally insane today,
since it's the first anniversary of my Literally DEATH DEFYING Act
under anesthesia with a cracker jack surgery team...........



Dear Katniss, here is my out of comfort zone offering.:rrose:


Since 2007 on the DASH site
I have worshipped from afar
the following peeps.... :glasses:
Please note, this is not a list of crushes, this is my Hero Worship List... :typewriter:



Metropolis, Boots13, Greyson, Hym, Toughy,
Jesse, Shero, JAGG, KCButch, CS,
HELLBOI, Only, DanteM,
DapperButch, BigButchMistie, Blassr,
Daywalker, Handsome, American Butch,
RopeBurner, MusicMan, Weatherboi, ....
only on my second cup of coffee...
there are many more delicious peeps on this list...
so if you don't see your name it just means I'm not fully awake yet....

Since coming to BFP.... :glasses:

Another Hero Worship List... :typewriter:

:hamactor:
Ascot, Bob (aka LegendRyder), Firegal,
Ciaran, Dude, PrettyboiReg, Daktari,
Degotoga, Wolfy, PaPa, JoSmooze,
Trev, NCS, BKisButchenuff ...
and other incredible peeps I've had the pleasure
of having an exchange with online.

Remember, they are not crushes.

[cinnamongrrl]

Not all that much any more...

I think I'm in a soloist frame of mind these days.

[PoeticWitch]

Oh yes I do.. I love his mind.. so smart and witty.. curls my toes in an almost orgasmic way

[DapperButch]

Throw back Thursday...

Wow, I made the list. Thank you! :cheesy: I remember those peeps. I hardly ever posted on the dash site... I read daily, though.

[TL1]

I can say there are some interesting and lovely femmes here. :)

[AmazonDC]

Yep .. She consumes My every thought...

[Sweet Bliss]

Wow, I made the list. Thank you! :cheesy: I remember those peeps. I hardly ever posted on the dash site... I read daily, though.


Shows that I was paying attention, and you did not escape my notice. lol.

I miss the old dash site, DayWalker has taken over the reins, lots of newbies, some oldies but goodies..... not sure if the old gang will return. I so loved being part of that history many of us share. New face, New management... who knows?

Met my Knight in Shining Armor on the dash site. Alas, never met in person. The planets never seemed to line up, or was it stars? I forget.

BIG. Sigh. The heart wants what the mind cannot provide.

[Chad]

Yes! She is yummy.

:sunglass:

[QueenofSmirks]

Yes... even though we only connect on a very limited basis :sparklyheart:

[JDeere]

Yes I do......MYSELF ahahaha!

[Jedi]

It's way beyond crush by now.........but she does something crush worthy several time a day........so crushing hard

[CherryWine]

Perhaps.....:sunglass:

Just kidding....I definitely do. :heartbeat:

[LOQUI]

I was planning to go and visit the cardiologist, because My heartbeat has been acting irregular...now I know what's the cause! :heartbeat:

[homoe]

I was planning to go and visit the cardiologist, because My heartbeat has been acting irregular...now I know what's the cause! :heartbeat:

Just think of the co-pay you saved yourself...LOL:hangloose:

[Brooklyn]

I do. :king:

[Rugged]

Had a crush on her for years since
Meeting her at a b-f gathering. 😍

[femmeandstrong]

wayyyy past the crush stage lol

[Lyte]

Just arrived... gimme time. :p

[candy_coated_bitch]

Yes, I do.

[Chad]

YES!!!

This is way beyond a crush though.

:cowboy:

[LoyalWolfsBlade]

Reading this thread always makes me smile

As for having a crush

I seen to recall one or two

then there is this nagging feeling that someone still owes me a cage match or was that just a dream......

[Demure]

Do they have a pulse ;)

[Soon]

Do they have a pulse ;)

That made me smile as it is an amusing and flirty contradiction with your chosen name.
Complex and funny women appreciated around here. ;)

[Demure]

That made me smile as it is an amusing and flirty contradiction with your chosen name.
Complex and funny women appreciated around here. ;)

I do like contradictions it keeps people guessing *smirk*

[WolfyOne]

Dusting this thread...cough, cough, it's really dusty.

Clean furniture, so come on in, set a spell and tell us who is crusing who on the planet.

Me, I've had the same crush for many years here on BFP

Who will be next...

[candy_coated_bitch]

I have a serious crush on my gf of course.

And I have some friendly crushes here and there.

[WolfyOne]

I have a serious crush on my gf of course.

And I have some friendly crushes here and there.


You will always be one of my friendly crushes on BFP...miss the old days in this thread when we'd hang out and get all that posted to tell us who their crush here really was...me,
I'm going to stay tight lipped on my crush as she'll always be a dear friend and
I'm not sure I could ever cross that line and tell her.

[Chad]

I wish that I had a real crush on a lady here or a lady had a crush on me.

I do admire a couple of ladies on this site.

Seems that Texas and near by states are light on available femmes these days.

[candy_coated_bitch]

You will always be one of my friendly crushes on BFP...miss the old days in this thread when we'd hang out and get all that posted to tell us who their crush here really was...me,
I'm going to stay tight lipped on my crush as she'll always be a dear friend and
I'm not sure I could ever cross that line and tell her.

And you will always be one of my friendly crushes. I miss you so much;!!!

[AmazonDC]

No crush .. give it time don't know many people.lol

[Mel C.]

No crush .. give it time don't know many people.lol

methinks this has changed...no?

[JDeere]

Nope none at all!

[Gemme]

methinks this has changed...no?

Oh, He's beyond the crushing stage.

:innocent:

[AmazonDC]

methinks this has changed...no?

Oh it is way.. way beyond the crushing stage.lol Gemme is so much more to Me

[clay]

I fell way on past that crush stage..with nanners.....months ago....:)

You two are so adorable BTW!

[girl_dee]

I have several and i like it that way!!!!!

[nina03]

Well, in terms of butches, there is only one here for me, and it's way past "crush."
In terms of femmes, I have the sweetest femme-friend platonic kinds of crushes on several sweeties. The femmes here really lift my heart, and make me smile. Thanks, ladies.

[Greco]

Well, will admit to a crush...but...(f)


Greco

[AmazonDC]

I fell way on past that crush stage..with nanners.....months ago....:)

You two are so adorable BTW!

Lol thanks clay she is special to Me for sure

[girl_dee]

*nods spastically* :countpetal:

[nanners]

I'm crushing on my femme sisters...dee, Medusa, Gemme, nycfem, TsKajira, Orema and some others.They all mean so much to me and have been so supportive of me in so many ways.

[Lovebird_1989]

Whoever is single and a nice person, I'll probably fancy them anyway! I'm terrible for that, lol. But, when partnered up, I don't even notice anybody else, I'm that much of a smushy :awww: .

[Mel C.]

I'm crushing on a beautiful femme who has no idea how amazing she is ❤️🌹😘

[cathexis]

Yeah, I'm carrying at least two of those dreaded butch on butch online crushes in addition to my 24/7 D/s relationship.

Think I'm in over my head!!!

[nina03]

Not anymore, as far as butches, and yes always, as far as platonic femme crushes. It's time for me to be crush-free for a long long time.

[Greco]

crushing...what does it mean to me exactly?

as long as I've spoken with this lady she has
always demonstrated a balanced, intelligent, creative
way of being...she is compassionate, and a true friend
...Yes, she is beautiful visually, but even more so she
has a gorgeous spirit!

Will we ever move closer?...only time, and our choices
will dictate...but for now, and perhaps forever, I have
found a friend in the oddest (for me) of places. (f)

Greco

[hopelessromantic69]

2qt....crushing hard on her. She is sexy as hell! Don't get me started on her hot voice!

Hope springs eternal......

[Lyte]

Nope... not yet. ;)

[girl_dee]

*nods spastically*

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[akiza]

no i don't think so ^^

[girl_dee]

my crush is sexy and smart!

[Canela]

Indeed...
:blueheels:

[Femmewench]

My crush got crushed. Think I'll stick to Orange Crush. It's only calories not feel goods.

[Mel C.]

I'm so far beyond crush. 😍

[RockOn]

Well, of course ... several in fact! :)

I doubt they even know and that is just as well since I would not even consider a LDR. I already know LDRs do not work well for me.

To tell the truth, I am happy and content not being partnered. I do not feel incomplete or lacking in any way at all. This doesn't mean I don't look. ;) Just looking, admiring and having naughty thoughts has never once created major confusion in my life! LOL!

[AmazonDC]

It's so much more than a crush.. she is My heart

[VintageFemme]

I do believe I do have a little crush. What a lovely surprise!

[homoe]

Well, of course ... several in fact! :)

I doubt they even know and that is just as well since I would not even consider a LDR. I already know LDRs do not work well for me.

To tell the truth, I am happy and content not being partnered. I do not feel incomplete or lacking in any way at all. This doesn't mean I don't look. ;) Just looking, admiring and having naughty thoughts has never once created major confusion in my life! LOL!

:goodpost:

LOVED LOVED LOVED the way you worded things :hangloose:

[homoe]

Nope no crushes but there are a few people I would definitively like to hang out with in real time to shop, eat, and just sit and converse with......:hangloose:

[Esme nha Maire]

No. Deeply intrigued by a few, but not at crush depth, here.

[Lyte]

I like the way y'all have put it! Not at crush depth ... but intrigued ... hang out with ... eat with... shop with ... sit with ... and chat with... I'm thumbs up on all of that! :koolaid:


Nope no crushes but there are a few people I would definitively like to hang out with in real time to shop, eat, and just sit and converse with......:hangloose:

No. Deeply intrigued by a few, but not at crush depth, here.

[girl_dee]

i’m still crushing, really hard.. like its a hard crush or something :awww:

[Shystonefem]

I've had a few and the never knew it. I have one now.

[Degotoga]

Nope. And I'm confident that's a two-way street.

[Mel C.]

Nope. And I'm confident that's a two-way street.

Aww. I’m crushing on you my brother.

[cathexis]

I like the way y'all have put it! Not at crush depth ... but intrigued ... hang out with ... eat with... shop with ... sit with ... and chat with... I'm thumbs up on all of that! :koolaid:

Yupperz, sounds like the way I feel about a few here. Probably will never meet, however. My life is that of a hermit. Very much enjoy my time with BFP friends.

[ardentfemme]

Haha I'm so new here, I think it's a little early for me to have a full-fledged crush on anyone. But everyone is so interesting and friendly that I already can tell I'd be friends with quite a few of y'all in the real world.

[ardentfemme]

But let's be real, I've had at least a little crush on anyone I've ever met (even virtually) who knows how to operate a power tool.

[cathexis]

Okay, okay there've been 2...no... 3 that I would have entertained the idea of a little rumble in the jungle with.

[~ocean]

Still crushing ants !

[Degotoga]

Aww. I’m crushing on you my brother.

That's mighty sweet, and greatly appreciated, my brother. Now I gotta retract what I said...

Yes, there are some here that I think would be a load of fun to hang out with, but by no stretch of the imagination would I call it a crush. Except for Mel. The bromance is real, lol

[Bootsandheels]

Nope no crushes but there are a few people I would definitively like to hang out with in real time to shop, eat, and just sit and converse with......:hangloose:

I too really like this description! No...crushes. I find most people intriguing and interesting to get to know at least a little. It would have to be a pretty special butch with an amazing heart for me to start crushing but I do hope that happens someday.

[PlatinumPearl]

I can't say that I have a crush on anyone here on the planet but there have been maybe 1 or 2 soul connections where I would want to share space with them whether it be at a cafe, restaurant or participating in a common interest or hobby.

Feelings are delicate, I tend to not let them get the best of me. It takes a lot for me to get a crush on someone and doesn't happen so easily as it may for others. Once in awhile I do get a soul connection which is always a nice little surprise. :stillheart:

[girl_dee]

a certain femme has confessed that she has a (femme) crush on me.... and the feeling is VERY mutual! .. she says its my mind and heart, but i think its my smoking hot (middle aged and wrinkled ole) body she is crushing....... :blush:

[~ocean]

a certain femme has confessed that she has a (femme) crush on me.... and the feeling is VERY mutual! .. she says its my mind and heart, but i think its my smoking hot (middle aged and wrinkled ole) body she is crushing....... :blush:

I bet it's BOTH yanno some character wrinkles are love indents ~ u cant live w/ out loving life that's what they are........oh btw ur very sexy 2 :bunchflowers:

[Ascot]

I do have a crush, actually. I have a crush on this community. There are a few who I’ve gotten to know rather well. There are many with whom I have obliquely rubbed shoulders for years. There are a few minds I find interesting or strange, sometimes both at once. So yeah, I have a crush.

[Bootsandheels]

Yes...most definitely I am crushing on someone right at the moment...feels mighty fine and I am enjoying the feeling immensely!

[JDeere]

Me myself and i! Lol.

[Lyte]

And now for something completely different....

You know she's not crushing on you when you hear the toilet flush.

:p

[BullDog]

And now for something completely different....

You know she's not crushing on you when you hear the toilet flush.

:p

When she flushes without hanging up... I think it means you've reached a whole new level of "intimacy." I'm pretty sure it usually means heightened interest, lol.

[Lyte]

Possibly! But I'm pretty sure not in this case! Iol

When she flushes without hanging up... I think it means you've reached a whole new level of "intimacy." I'm pretty sure it usually means heightened interest, lol.


FSF,

I think that was you. :p

If she could manage that.... at this distance?! Crush nothin'... I'd marry the girl!! ;)

[BullDog]

Possibly! But I'm pretty sure not in this case! Iol

Well, I have been told by a few femmes that they didn't want to hang up... Perhaps they were just flushing my words down the toilet, but that hasn't been what I've been told, lol.

[BullDog]

Yes, of course, I have a crush!

[Esme nha Maire]

I do have a crush, actually. I have a crush on this community. There are a few who I’ve gotten to know rather well. There are many with whom I have obliquely rubbed shoulders for years. There are a few minds I find interesting or strange, sometimes both at once. So yeah, I have a crush.

D'accord, Ascot! The community here is fab! (Though that said, beginning to hear creaks here and there from the outer hull..)

[Clyde]

Yes.
.
.

[homoe]

Nope and I doubt anyone has one on me......but then I am a 2x4 butch so there is that....:giggle:

[Tovah]

I do . . .

[JDeere]

Whoever has a crush on me needs to confess. :jester:

[Wrang1er]

:canada::hockey:He's not on the Planet but I have a crush on Justin Trudeau.

[Reach *BANNED*]

I do. :tea:

[girl_dee]

Still crushing..........:awww:

[Sweet Bliss]

Since 2009, through all the posers, the users, the stalkers. the gold diggers the fakers, the takers, the hurricane, the pet deaths, the losses, the missed connections, the misunderstandings, the fear, the unknown, the giggling in the middle of the night, the stories we invented. the feelings.... the feelings I so wanted to be real, tangible... face to sweet face.


but no, just another message on this screen. Just one sweet face, laugh lines, crows feet, freckles, twinkling brown Irish eyes...... but no, just another message like all the others.... passing through, just passing through...

[Tuff Stuff]

Yep...she told me off once, OK, twice...and I liked it.

:bolt:

[Bèsame*]

On the planet...

Ahuh, a long distance one 😉

And not on the planet?? Oh maybe 😉

[Mel C.]

Still crushing..........:awww:

Me too my love!

[homoe]

Yep...she told me off once, OK, twice...and I liked it.

:bolt:

....:rofl: Your post cracked me up! Thank you so much I needed a laugh today

[girl_dee]

VERY much so.

[Mel C.]

VERY much so.

Still crushing here too :bunchflowers::wine:

[MsTinkerbelly]

I crush on people that make me laugh hard enough to spit my precious coffee at my screen, therefore......

Yes, I do have a crush on someone on BFP

:pirate-steer:

[homoe]

Oh I'll never tell.................

[Jedi]

I have a serious crush......it has turned into much much more over the years.....but when it all boils down to it......I still have a major crush on her!!!!
I hope it never goes away.

[Mel C.]

I'm head over heels with the woman I'm going to marry soon and it's all thanks to the Planet

:wine::bunchflowers:

[WheatToast]

yes, I do
:seeingstars:

[candy_coated_bitch]

I have a serious crush......it has turned into much much more over the years.....but when it all boils down to it......I still have a major crush on her!!!!
I hope it never goes away.

It better never go away. :|

I still crush on you, too!

[Sweet Bliss]

yes, I do
:seeingstars:

And.......? Keep talking. :glasses:

[Lyte]

Nope … I remain crush immune. Not sure if that's a good thing or not but there it is. :p

[~ocean]

since the ant season is over soo I can't crush those ~ I'm crushing dry leaves now a days :))):blueheels:

[WheatToast]

And.......? Keep talking. :glasses:

Nooooo. A good butch never tells such scandalous tales.
:typewriter:

[WheatToast]

Nope … I remain crush immune. Not sure if that's a good thing or not but there it is. :p

It's kinda fun, Lyte...

[ksrainbow]

I do not .....

[Chad]

I do not have a crush on anyone here but I wish that I did.

There is one lady in Houston, Texas that I would like to take out. She has met me several times. Ha!

:cowboy:

[cathexis]

Got a couple of crushes, but I'll never tell unless...........someone tortures it out of me .

[RebelDyke]

definitely not. Sorry... shrugs.

[girl_dee]

when i see that face........ that smile..... CRUSH....... :awww:

[Sweet Bliss]

Nooooo. A good butch never tells such scandalous tales.
:typewriter:

Scandalous??? I'm intrigued now, start talkin'.....:bunchflowers::jester:

[Bèsame*]

I want scandalous!

But all good things are possible!!

[Bèsame*]

Lt6r-k9Bk6o

[LOQUI]

I want scandalous!

But all good things are possible!!


I firmly believe that all good things are possible...they are indeed...

[Lyte]

I recall it as such ...vaguely... a long long time ago. :p


It's kinda fun, Lyte...

[Buckaroo]

i might have a crush on someone. I think i remember what a crush feels like.

[WheatToast]

Scandalous??? I'm intrigued now, start talkin'.....:bunchflowers::jester:

Aww, Bliss, I hate to disappoint you but I've thought about it and I no longer have a crush on anyone who is a member of BFP. Crushes are like seedlings--it takes work to make them grow, but a strong wind can uproot them and make them quickly wither away to nothing.

[Bèsame*]

Ahhhh, seedlings.


It's very cold here and very windy!

[C0LLETTE]

To all of you who have, over many years, expressed your undying love, massive crushes, and unbearable desire for me...i'm so sorry that i have been such an unfeeling, unresponsive bitch that i wasn't willing to meet you half way in Missouri or Iowa for a "get-to-know-you".

Truth be told, you've been saved a lot of grief and humiliating rejection. I'm only into women at least 20 years older than me and, given I'm 73, you probably wouldn't cut it. Be thankful.

P.S. If you're over 93 and know I'm kidding, please send pvt. message and nude photo.

[Sweet Bliss]

Aww, Bliss, I hate to disappoint you but I've thought about it and I no longer have a crush on anyone who is a member of BFP. Crushes are like seedlings--it takes work to make them grow, but a strong wind can uproot them and make them quickly wither away to nothing.

Ain't it the truth?
sigh... Still carrying a torch for a certain someone, can't seem to let go, can't seem to figure out how to stop being a fool for Love. The heart wants what the heart wants. Who am I to argue with illogical arguments? Makes even less sense. So I still toy with the idea that a miracle will occur, and they will decide to look me up and check my marital status. Stranger things have happened to me. So why not? There is a reason why no one else finds me irresistible.

[Mel C.]

My crush has only grown deeper. I have never been happier than I am right now. :bunchflowers:

[JDeere]

Nope no crushes.

[charley]

No - not being a zombie (and being vanilla), I doubt it will even be possible for me to find anyone here to have a crush on - that deep connection which motivated me to even find this site. So, just some posts and light stuff on here - a distraction - some R&R to take a break from the intensity of my passions. :)

[VintageFemme]

I do have one {four years now, that's a serious CRUSH!}

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[Play]

Let's just say my interest has been piqued.

:2butch:

[RebelDyke]

I sure do! I think that is all I can say at this time.


(for those who are following me...... :blink:)

[JDeere]

Nope my crush is not on the site!

Sorry ladies and gents!

[C0LLETTE]

I have huge crushes on all of you...that way if one drops out of the running there is always a replacement.

Oh come on, toughen up, you knew it was coming.

:shithappens::crybaby::sorry:

[Lyte]

I remain crush free. I'm starting to think I'm a tad flame-retardant. :fireman: lol

[Sweet Bliss]

I remain crush free. I'm starting to think I'm a tad flame-retardant. :fireman: lol

I keep looking for the laughing face button.... you know, on FB? good grief. You are funny.:phonegab:

[clay]

lol@ Lyte!!

I am not crushing on anybody here or in RT , as I am working on me for now!

[Lyte]

Always a wise and worthwhile endeavour! I'm gonna take a page outta your book! :koolaid:

lol@ Lyte!!

I am not crushing on anybody here or in RT , as I am working on me for now!

[Lyte]

Why thank you! *no bow emo either*

I don't think there is a laugh emo on BFP. I tend to use this one instead --- > :p



I keep looking for the laughing face button.... you know, on FB? good grief. You are funny.:phonegab:

[Gemme]

Why thank you! *no bow emo either*

I don't think there is a laugh emo on BFP. I tend to use this one instead --- > :p

Maybe this one?

:rofl:

Or this?

:superfunny:

Orrrrr….lol

:huhlaugh:

:cracked:

:lol2:

:piratelaugh:

There's more but I forget what they are.

[Kobi]

Why thank you! *no bow emo either*

I don't think there is a laugh emo on BFP. I tend to use this one instead --- > :p


:formalbow:

[Lyte]

OMG... I've never seen that one! Iol Thanks! :koolaid:

:formalbow:

[Lyte]

Why thank you! :formalbow:

:p


You are funny.:phonegab:

[clay]

Always a wise and worthwhile endeavour! I'm gonna take a page outta your book! :koolaid:

It has taken me quite a few lessons, to learn I just CAN NOT "fix" anyone. My nature & spirit is to believe "love can cure all".....and so I keep making same mistakes.

The very hardest pill to swallow, is why do I keep "just settling"...and again, the nurturer in me seems to attract ones I want to try to "heal" & "fix". No Bueno.

I have to be able to give all of me & if I am "broken" then I can't....

So now is MY time...:). Take care, Lyte!

[cathexis]

Sure, there might be a couple of fantasy figures, but since I don't leave my apt. except for drs. appts., I won't prove or disprove them.

Having an Anti-Social Personality helps me keep it all inside, and not have any difficulties r/t a crush.

[candy_coated_bitch]

I do. But then again you're supposed to crush on your own girlfriend.

[Bèsame*]

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[Kenna]

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:sparklyheart: :awww:

[Princess]

*knock knock knock*

Let's bring some fun and love back to these threads!

Who's caught your attention :)

[cathexis]

*knock knock knock*

Let's bring some fun and love back to these threads!

Who's caught your attention :)


Okay, I'll start.

Have a throb for someone who seems not to be very confident. Have had a few volleys with this one on various threads. Even though I haven't noticed them much before. We have many interests in common, playing off each other.
This is all you're gonna get.

[FireSignFemme]

I did, but now I don't. So I guess I'm back on the imaginary crush market.

[candy_coated_bitch]

I have one huge crush, and lots of friend crushes on butches and femmes.

[Princess]

Friend crushes are the best. I have lots of those!

[RebelDyke]

who doesn't have a friend crush!?!?


I have a dog crush...hahah i tell Pete i'm gonna marry him all the time. He is my little shadow.

[Princess]

who doesn't have a friend crush!?!?


I have a dog crush...hahah i tell Pete i'm gonna marry him all the time. He is my little shadow.

I have a crush on Pete too, he's awfully cute!

[RebelDyke]

I have a crush on Pete too, he's awfully cute!

....... :| (you can't have him! he is mine!)

[Princess]

....... :| (you can't have him! he is mine!)

Sharing is caring.

[Lyte]

Se moi... and... I've never heard of "friend crush." How does one crush on a friend? :blink:

who doesn't have a friend crush!?!?


I have a dog crush...hahah i tell Pete i'm gonna marry him all the time. He is my little shadow.

[easygoingfemme]

I have one huge crush, and lots of friend crushes on butches and femmes.

Friend crushes are the best. I def have a few of those.

Lyte- friend crushes are like... for me... either- you're my friend and I know we'll never hook up because of reasons 1-Z but you're hot and cute and fun and funny and smart and I like you a little bit that way.

Or, friends with no strings attached benefits ;)

[C0LLETTE]

I have a crush on Princess and her adorable "pinkiness" but she left me years ago. Tears flow. Why? Why? Why, I ask you.

[RebelDyke]

Se moi... and... I've never heard of "friend crush." How does one crush on a friend? :blink:

please see easygoingfemme's post regarding friend crushes.

Also, it is a crush that you do not necessarily express your feelings for because either you are in a relationship, or they are, or circumstances just do not match for a successful relationship at this time.

[Princess]

I have a crush on Princess and her adorable "pinkiness" but she left me years ago. Tears flow. Why? Why? Why, I ask you.



Hey now, only happy tears are allowed around here :)

[C0LLETTE]

:nothingtoadd:

:)

[Lyte]

Thank you!

Version A... sounds potentially painful but also kinda sweet. ;) I think ... there were a few 80s movies with similar themes.

Version B... I'm familiar with that one but in my much younger days! :p

Lyte- friend crushes are like... for me... either- you're my friend and I know we'll never hook up because of reasons 1-Z but you're hot and cute and fun and funny and smart and I like you a little bit that way.

Or, friends with no strings attached benefits ;)

[Lyte]

Ahh... versions C and D. Gotcha! Thanks! ;)

These are situations I'm familiar with or at least heard of, I've just never heard the term... friend crush. The term fits. :koolaid:



please see easygoingfemme's post regarding friend crushes.

Also, it is a crush that you do not necessarily express your feelings for because either you are in a relationship, or they are, or circumstances just do not match for a successful relationship at this time.

[Princess]

I crush on all of you a little each day

[cathexis]

please see easygoingfemme's post regarding friend crushes.

Also, it is a crush that you do not necessarily express your feelings for because either you are in a relationship, or they are, or circumstances just do not match for a successful relationship at this time.

Then there are those of us who run with flaming red hair in the wind. Devil may care, life only goes around once. I intend to pass with few regrets...said while mounting my black stallion.

As for one's relationship, compatibility in this sphere is crucial.

[RebelDyke]

Yanno I used to have a crush on someone on here... sometimes a few. Ya'll are such fabulous women.

But, i took to reading past posts on here and it really breaks my heart that people are posting that they have crushes on here "but they will never know"

sigh.. what is a world without love? you should at least let them know... maybe they are crushing on you too..... just sayin

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[Lyte]

I'm pretty sure I will remain ... never have... never will. :koolaid:

[C0LLETTE]

Yanno I used to have a crush on someone on here... sometimes a few. Ya'll are such fabulous women.

But, i took to reading past posts on here and it really breaks my heart that people are posting that they have crushes on here "but they will never know"

sigh.. what is a world without love? you should at least let them know... maybe they are crushing on you too..... just sayin

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I have no trouble accepting crushes. I'll even send you a bumper sticker!

[RebelDyke]

I have no trouble accepting crushes. I'll even send you a bumper sticker!

I'll pm you my mailing addy... hahah

[JDeere]

Yanno I used to have a crush on someone on here... sometimes a few. Ya'll are such fabulous women.

But, i took to reading past posts on here and it really breaks my heart that people are posting that they have crushes on here "but they will never know"

sigh.. what is a world without love? you should at least let them know... maybe they are crushing on you too..... just sayin

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And if you tell them and they dont feel the same, that hurts. Rejection hurts.

No thanks i stopped crushing and im staying away from things in life that are more realistic.

[RebelDyke]

And if you tell them and they dont feel the same, that hurts. Rejection hurts.

No thanks i stopped crushing and im staying away from things in life that are more realistic.

Everyone is afraid of rejection. Rejection is definitely not pleasant. However, at our ages (1. we should all be acting like adults here) we should be able to say "I am flattered but I do not feel the same way", and guess what....we all go about our day. We can choose to drop it and still talk because we value the friendship..... or we can let it eat us up inside, feel like a fool and never speak to that person again.

But stay with me here JDeere....what if they do feel the same way and the both of you have been wasting time not making a move? What if it turns out to be something truly amazing? Is it worth the risk?

[JDeere]

Everyone is afraid of rejection. Rejection is definitely not pleasant. However, at our ages (1. we should all be acting like adults here) we should be able to say "I am flattered but I do not feel the same way", and guess what....we all go about our day. We can choose to drop it and still talk because we value the friendship..... or we can let it eat us up inside, feel like a fool and never speak to that person again.

But stay with me here JDeere....what if they do feel the same way and the both of you have been wasting time not making a move? What if it turns out to be something truly amazing? Is it worth the risk?

😆at adults. Oh my sides hurt from laughing.

If they feel the same then go for it. But that's no guarantee it will turn out to be amazing or worth the risk.

[RebelDyke]

😆at adults. Oh my sides hurt from laughing.

If they feel the same then go for it. But that's no guarantee it will turn out to be amazing or worth the risk.

I never once said it was a guarantee... I asked... if it was worth the risk for taking any chance... Please re-read that post. :readfineprint: lol wish that lil guy wasn't angry

[Jedi]

Still crushing hard after all this time.............

[C0LLETTE]

I'll pm you my mailing addy... hahah

"Do it trembling if you must, but DO IT!" ~Emmet Fox

lol

[RebelDyke]

"Do it trembling if you must, but DO IT!" ~Emmet Fox

lol

haha. Yes, that quote has gotten me into trouble often. However, I definitely do not regret decisions I have made when I have utilized it. No matter how poorly the results turned out because it meant that I at least tried.

[JDeere]

I never once said it was a guarantee... I asked... if it was worth the risk for taking any chance... Please re-read that post. :readfineprint: lol wish that lil guy wasn't angry

😆😆😆i read it 3 times im still laughing at the adult part.

Nothing is guaranteed, this i know. But to me its not worth the risk.

[RebelDyke]

😆😆😆i read it 3 times im still laughing at the adult part.

Nothing is guaranteed, this i know. But to me its not worth the risk.

HAHA JDeere... I can HEAR said laugh of yours in my ear... and now I'm laughing and shaking my head at you...

[JDeere]

HAHA JDeere... I can HEAR said laugh of yours in my ear... and now I'm laughing and shaking my head at you...

LOL Im glad I could be of laughing service!

[cathexis]

Still crushing hard after all this time.............

Definitely not alone, Jedi. Got several crushes on BFP and any given time. Shut my eyes, they're right there. Fall asleep, and they appear. Fun, mischief, wild scenes and sex.

Too bad the body areas I expect to have residual sensation are as they were when I fell asleep....too bad!

A close-by hook-up or fwb would be ideal (but alas not likely possible with my partner in convalescence in a relative unfamiliar wee town).

She is as sexually radical as I am, but matching proclivities with a 25 year relationship may take some doing. However, not off the table for a good menage a trio. Would require just a matching of personalities.

[RebelDyke]

that is a hard yes. And I am thinking of taking it further. :|

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[kittygrrl]

no, i don't...but i am crushing on thisxR6HXL2kOcAadorable cat:sparklyheart:

[RebelDyke]

that is a hard yes. And I am thinking of taking it further. :|

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[JDeere]

Nope unless you count the one on myself! 😆

[RebelDyke]

Nope unless you count the one on myself! 😆

i am not even going to touch that one :|

[JDeere]

i am not even going to touch that one :|

HAHAHAHAHAHAHA skeered? :readfineprint:

[Stone-Butch]

If I tell you then you will know. Uh uh.

[RebelDyke]

If I tell you then you will know. Uh uh.

then you should at least tell the one you are crushin on!

[RebelDyke]

HAHAHAHAHAHAHA skeered? :readfineprint:

pah lease... i do not scare easily... lookin at that fine print... where does it say I have to touch everything of yours??? :giggle:

[FireSignFemme]

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[Tuff Stuff]

Yes. Unfortunately that's all it will ever be.

So keep posting will you..:rant:

:popcorn:

[RebelDyke]

Yes. Unfortunately that's all it will ever be.

So keep posting will you..:rant:

:popcorn:

It's good to see some people still have morals! You get kudos in MY book

[Chad]

Yes I do and she knows it. She is a member here but rarely logs in or posts. It is complicated. First, she is way too young for this old guy and lives in a distant state. Furthermore, we are both caregivers so it is a no win situation. We have been dear friends for more than 2 years and are destined to remain dear friends.

[C0LLETTE]

I have a crush on people with a good sense of humour...so, if you have one I have a crush on you. You know who you are.lol

[Bèsame*]

Crush the old fashioned way...send a Valentine. Go sign up in the Holiday card exchange thread..hurry..

Tic tock...time is a wasting!

[Chad]

Yes I do. She is not available so too bad but she is here on BFP and she may suspect my crush.

:cowboy:

[RebelDyke]

Yes i do. but I'll never tell :hangloose:

After all, she knows and that's what is important (f)

[Stone-Butch]

Don't think she is interested.

[Baby_Yoda]

:bowdown::asswhip::smileywhip:

[RebelDyke]

:bowdown::asswhip::smileywhip:

:goodpost:

[Kätzchen]

I don’t, but I do have a serious man crush on Dr. Fauci.

He’s so articulate, he’s a brilliant strategist, he’s got massive ‘street creds’ to face off against those who just don’t understand public health issues or what to do when our next health crises comes again (pandemic). Thanks for all you’ve done to protect people from con artists who don’t care about wellness for others.