Do you have a crush on anyone here at The Planet?

[Nomad]

Ut oh..... Cupid do your thing here!


if Cupid comes anywhere near me i'm gonna set your pants on fire. :p

[SleepyButch]

if Cupid comes anywhere near me i'm gonna set your pants on fire. :p

That made me laugh.. thanks.. lol

[Mr Nice Guy]

Did someone call Cupid? Lol Your lucky I just got up. I don't have my Cupid outfit on yet. ;) Ok good morning everyone!! Hope you all have a wonderful day today. I tried to put a pic up in the Gallery thread again. It didn't work. Oh well. I'm off to work.

[Spikester]

Taking a look around in here

[Julien]

Hello to one and all,
How are the crushes going this morning? None for me at this time, but I'd like to keep an open mind and look forward to seeing my friends on the crush thread. Hi Beloved, Breezy, Mr Nice Guy, Alix, SleepyButch just to name a few. Keep up the cheer and positive vibes going.
:jester:

[Ciaran]

Did someone call Cupid? Lol Your lucky I just got up. I don't have my Cupid outfit on yet. ;) Ok good morning everyone!! Hope you all have a wonderful day today. I tried to put a pic up in the Gallery thread again. It didn't work. Oh well. I'm off to work.

I'd love to help you upload your photo Nice Guy.

However, in the interests of full transparency, I need to say that, if you are a good looking guy, I might need to photo-shop your photo before I upload it. All part of my masterly plan to eliminate all competition ;)

[Ciaran]

Crushes are like Christmas

Yes, they always seemed more important when you were younger but they still come around, you start getting excited and, before you know it, you've spent a lot of money, have a sense of anti-climax and think never again .... until it all starts again the next year.

[Gráinne]

Yes, they always seemed more important when you were younger but they still come around, you start getting excited and, before you know it, you've spent a lot of money, have a sense of anti-climax and think never again .... until it all starts again the next year.

Maybe Christmas is a lot like falling in love, even down to lots of books and magazines telling us how to do it right. But I'm a big kid at heart and try not to be cynical.

[Mr Nice Guy]

I'd love to help you upload your photo Nice Guy.

However, in the interests of full transparency, I need to say that, if you are a good looking guy, I might need to photo-shop your photo before I upload it. All part of my masterly plan to eliminate all competition ;)

Well it looks like you might have to do that. Lol I might take you up on that when I get home. I tried to copy URL thing twice. My iPhone didn't do either when I tried. Ok back to work. That did crack me up.

[Mr Nice Guy]

Come on baby light my fire. Ok now that's out of my head I can say... Bring on the Hot Femmes!! Oops, that was in my head too. Lol
Hope everyone is having a wonderful day.

[puddin']

today i'ma crushin' on photos on cajun_dee's fb page!

[aishah]

today i'ma crushin' on photos on cajun_dee's fb page!

me too! beautiful :)

[WolfyOne]

Personally, I think this community has a whole lotta of purdy intelligent femmes that are crushable

I'm just not going to make a list of names for fear of leaving someone out

[Nomad]

i now have a bdsm brain crush on aishah. she makes me think and i like that kind of pain.

[aishah]

i now have a bdsm brain crush on aishah. she makes me think and i like that kind of pain.

aww! *blushes* that's sweet! i'm not used to people crushing on me. :bunchflowers:

[LoyalWolfsBlade]

I wonder who can't crush on any of the special unique femmes here on the Planet....so yes yes I am crushing :seeingstars: but sorry Mr. Nice Guy no name from me today bro :hangloose:

If anyone knows the secret to not crushing send me a pm pleaseeee:confused:

[Mr Nice Guy]

Crush- a burning desire to be with someone who you find very attractive and extremely special.This was on google. I can honestly say that I don't have that burning desire yet. Lol. Maybe someday. Hope you all have a crushable day!! Now I've got to go confess something. ;)

[Ginger]

I think I reported I was having a crush. It was someone I saw on the train every morning. Then I realized today I hadn't seen her in a while, and my crush had completely evaporated.

Crushes are like that. Sizzling hot, stir it around, then you look in the skillet and it's all cooked out.

[Ciaran]

I think I reported I was having a crush. It was someone I saw on the train every morning.


Given how bad the train service is here in London, I'd crush on any single train driver (irrespective of their sexuality, gender, appearance or personality) if I saw them arriving into my station on time.

I'm easy that way :blush:

[Ginger]

Given how bad the train service is here in London, I'd crush on any single train driver (irrespective of their sexuality, gender, appearance or personality) if I saw them arriving into my station on time.

I'm easy that way :blush:


Officials at the Tube have been duly warned.

[SleepyButch]

Hello all you crushers and crushees... I have to admit, that I have a crush. It's a great feeling, not sure how long it will last but I'm enjoying it for now and possibly for tomorrow too and the next day.. and the next...

[ferret]

No crushes for me. And I'd have to be hit over the head with a dang 2X4 if someone was actually crushing on me.

[Mr Nice Guy]

Good for you!! It is a nice feeling. I'm always happy when this happens. I really am a romantic fool. :)

[Leigh]

I've developed a few friend crushes, such awesome people how could I not? :D

~ Julien, who has a very handsome smile

~ aishah cuz she rawks of course

~ alexri cuz he's a cutie

~ Parker, just cuz I love the motorcycle :D

~ Ciaran cuz those are a beautiful pair of eyes

~ Wolfy cuz hy cleans up quite nicely


I know there's even more but I'll come back again :)

[puddin']

actually, today i yam uncrushin' on linus, who took me quicksilver boots away... hmmmpffft

[SleepyButch]

Good for you!! It is a nice feeling. I'm always happy when this happens. I really am a romantic fool. :)



I am a hopeless romantic and also love to see people crushing on each other. Mr Nice Guy.. it's your turn!

[Mr Nice Guy]

I know, I know. :). Maybe someday.

[SleepyButch]

I know, I know. :). Maybe someday.


Come on now.. you're a nice looking guy.. you are nice. . romantic... what else?


Come on ladies.. before Mr Nice Guy is gone.


Maybe I should borrow your arrows and shoot you with em.... lol

[Mr Nice Guy]

God help me. Lol Thanks for the compliment. I'm just me. I think I might have blushed. That's the second time today that happened. Sheesh. Lol

[SleepyButch]

God help me. Lol Thanks for the compliment. I'm just me. I think I might have blushed. That's the second time today that happened. Sheesh. Lol

Not sure I've ever made a Butch blush.. tonight is a good night lol.

Carry on...

[Mr Nice Guy]

Yup I blushed. It sucks. I'm bashful so it happens.

[Leigh]

Your too modest Nice, your a handsome butch for sure :)

[Mr Nice Guy]

Leigh, I've always been modest. It's who I am. :) Oh and I can be a goofball too. :)

[Leigh]

Certainly nothing wrong with being modest :)

[Mr Nice Guy]

Damn you type fast. Lol. Thank you Leigh. :)

[SleepyButch]

Yup I blushed. It sucks. I'm bashful so it happens.

Not a damn thing wrong with blushing ... I do it myself. lol

[Leigh]

Blushing is under rated :)

[Mr Nice Guy]

The price to being Cupid is to always be unlucky in love. It's my kryptonite. Lol

[Leigh]

I think Cupid is just waiting to drop the right girl in your lap Nice :)

[SleepyButch]

I think Cupid is just waiting to drop the right girl in your lap Nice :)

I stole cupid's bow and arrows so I'm working on it.. shhhhhhhhh

[Mr Nice Guy]

Well you'll have to find me first. Lol --> runs

[Nomad]

well damn. damn and damn and damn and damn even.

[Ginger]

The price to being Cupid is to always be unlucky in love. It's my kryptonite. Lol


You know I'm the last person who should give love advice. But that isn't going to stop me.

Here is my advice: Mr. Nice, pretend you're lucky in love. Be that lucky person. Say things that a person lucky in love would say, like, "The price to being Cupid is to always be lucky in love."

Anyway, what have you got to lose?

And you might even get lucky. :)

[Mr Nice Guy]

What did I do? Did I say something bad? Huh?

[Ginger]

What did I do? Did I say something bad? Huh?

Oh god, no. Just ignore me. I don't know what I'm talking about. But I mean well!

[Nomad]

What did I do? Did I say something bad? Huh?


who? you? nahhhhhhhhhhh. :cracked:

[Leigh]

I stole cupid's bow and arrows so I'm working on it.. shhhhhhhhh

**sits back and watch** Dang where's the popcorn? lol

Well you'll have to find me first. Lol --> runs

Aww why run? Don't you like SleepyCupid and his arrows? :vigil:

[Mr Nice Guy]

Thank you Island, I'm not trying to be negative. I'm a realist.
Hey Nomad, for a second I thought I did something. Phew!!

[SleepyButch]

well damn. damn and damn and damn and damn even.


That's a lot of damns... I'm just sayin.

[SleepyButch]

**sits back and watch** Dang where's the popcorn? lol



Aww why run? Don't you like SleepyCupid and his arrows? :vigil:

Maybe it's the diaper?? Was that going overboard?

[Mr Nice Guy]

Ya Nomad what's with all the damns? Lol

[tazz]

yeah... i'm startin' a wee crush... *blushes*

[jenn73]

Would love to.....But I am new on here. Was a regular LONG ago on bf.com. L-O-N-G ago. LOL
Nice to get back in the groove....


~Jenn

[Parker]

I've developed a few friend crushes, such awesome people how could I not? :D

~ Parker, just cuz I love the motorcycle :D


HA!

It's for sale if you want to buy it :winky:

[LeftWriteFemme]

thought I'd mention....
http://sphotos-b.xx.fbcdn.net/hphotos-snc7/575969_3943399077709_2090842649_n.jpg

[Mr Nice Guy]

Good morning crushers and crushees, I hope you have a wonderful day today!! :)

[~ocean]

Theres not enough crushing going on in here . ** Lets try a new way.** DESCRIBE what u would like your CRUSH to :
1, Be like.
2. Look like ..
3. Treat u like.

I'll start , Like my profile says , hy has to have integrity,stand by me, cause hy knows me, Loving and passionate.

Hy has to ge very butch, a tad vain, meaning hy cares how he is preceived.

Hy has to treat me w. respect,always there when it comes to defending my honor, cause he knows me,

YOUR TURN ~~

[Bleu]

le sigh...

[SleepyButch]

Theres not enough crushing going on in here . ** Lets try a new way.** DESCRIBE what u would like your CRUSH to :
1, Be like.
2. Look like ..
3. Treat u like.

I'll start , Like my profile says , hy has to have integrity,stand by me, cause hy knows me, Loving and passionate.

Hy has to ge very butch, a tad vain, meaning hy cares how he is preceived.

Hy has to treat me w. respect,always there when it comes to defending my honor, cause he knows me,

YOUR TURN ~~

I'll play..

Now this is just for a crush right?

1: Be like: Okay, she must be witty, a little sarcastic, intelligent, funny

2. Look like: Must be femme.... not specifics other than that


3. Treat u like: The King that I am! Seriously.. just banter with me, treat me with respect, flirt with me.


As far as more.... I am pretty picky about who I date or am with. Takes a special someone to catch my eye and keep it.

[Jess]

for those about to crush....

SALUTE!

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[bkisbutchenuff]

Crushing away!
:D

[rockstar lover]

There's a couple of femme crushes I'm having right now. Well maybe more like pre-crushes...observing & learning for now :)

[Breezy]

I have a crush. This one has heart.

Good morning, my friends! How are you all?

Okay playing the game ~ocean began


Be like: kind, compassionate and fully engaged in life.

Look like: does not matter , it is unimportant.

Treat you like: Loving, giving, kind and compassionate.

[Leigh]

HA!

It's for sale if you want to buy it :winky:



LOL if I had a driver's licence & could afford it sure why not :p

Hmm what do I want my crush to be like? Lets see:

1, Be like ~ Charming, flirty, romantic, has a sense of humor
2. Look like ~ this part isn't important
3. Treat u like ~ treat me right, that's all I ask

[WingsOnFire]

I have a crush. This one has heart.

Good morning, my friends! How are you all?

Okay playing the game ~ocean began


Be like: kind, compassionate and fully engaged in life.

Look like: does not matter , it is unimportant.

Treat you like: Loving, giving, kind and compassionate.



Ditto for me

[thedivahrrrself]

Theres not enough crushing going on in here . ** Lets try a new way.** DESCRIBE what u would like your CRUSH to :
1, Be like.
2. Look like ..
3. Treat u like.

I'll start , Like my profile says , hy has to have integrity,stand by me, cause hy knows me, Loving and passionate.

Hy has to ge very butch, a tad vain, meaning hy cares how he is preceived.

Hy has to treat me w. respect,always there when it comes to defending my honor, cause he knows me,

YOUR TURN ~~

Ocean, I like this! Even though I'm slightly beyond the crushing phase now (though it did start out as a big crush), I'll play...



1, Be like: passionate, intelligent, sweet, politically informed, drama-averse, affectionate, and a wee bit sarcastic (a pinch of silly doesn't hurt either)

2. Look like: Anderson Gay Cooper hehehehehehe :tease:
No, seriously, I dig short hair, bright eyes, laugh lines, a square jaw and a menacing smirk.

3. Treats me like The Queen of Awesomeness that I am! (and occassionally must remind me of that in those moments where I forget) Respects me, expects the best out of me, able to calmly handle occassional moments of complete and utter irrationality.

[Bleu]

1. Be like...your wonderful self.
2. Look like...the good Lord made you.
3. Treat me like...you'd like to be treated.

:byebye:

[KayCee]

Ocean.. that was a great idea you brought up here. Gets 'thangs' agoin' fo tha crushin' folks...lol

[Julien]

~ocean, what a great "ice breaker" to get this thread going again.

My turn:
Be like: a passionate Lady who believes in the possibilities of the future; a witty sense of humor to compliment my own.
Look like: the lovely Femme that she is
Treat you like: with respect and loyalty

[Mr Nice Guy]

Hey Crushers, popping in to say hi. Hope you all are having a good day. :) ok back to work for me. :)

[laruss]

There's not enough crushing going on in here . ** Lets try a new way.** DESCRIBE what u would like your CRUSH to :
1, Be like.
2. Look like ..
3. Treat u like.

YOUR TURN ~~

My ideal crush...
1. Kind, considerate, self aware, calls me on my shit, adventurous, full of life, must have a love of learning, and be a woman who loves me and all my quirks.
2. A Butch who is very comfortable in their own skin.
3. Depending on the moment... a princess, a lady, a whore, a queen, a partner, an equal, and like someone they cannot live without, while knowing they could they just choose not too.

[bkisbutchenuff]

This is simple yet hard...



1, Be like.
2. Look like ..
3. Treat u like.

1) She must be goal oriented, true and honest from the beginning
2) She should be herself at all times... - but must have femme qualities (yum)
3) She should treat me as I treat her - with the utmost respect and support!

[Mr Nice Guy]

Ocean, another great idea and another way to crush or meet true love. Who knows?

[Ginger]

My ideal crush...

I can't follow in step with the posts I'm seeing here, as heartfelt and thoughtful as they seem.

That's because I think people are talking about crushes as if having a crush is synonymous with falling in love, or an indicator of someone they could care about.

But falling in love is not what I'm talking about, when I talk about a crush. I'm not saying one definition is better than the other, I'm just saying mine is different.

To crush on someone, all they have to do is answer a need, fill a gap that exists at that particular time in my life.

For example, if I am feeling invisible, and someone makes me feel visible, I might very well crush on that person. If I am feeling unappreciated sexually, and they appreciate me sexually, even in a cyber way, I might crush on that person.

On the Internet it's easy for me to crush in this way, because there are no distractions, like what the person looks, sounds and feels like in person. It can just be about that one pure need-being-met phenomenon.

It has happened to me every time I've entered a new social website community. I'm just as vulnerable to it now as I've always been.

And I don't think it's a bad thing at all, this experience that I'm identifying as a crush.

But it isn't the same as falling in love.

If I am going to fall in love with you, you have to do more than answer some un-met need in me. If I am going to love you, I have to admire, adore and be fascinated by your inner and outer self. I have to see how you interact with others, how you treat people who have less power than you, how consistent you are, in your behavior; how reflective and honest you are.

The turn this Thread has taken has made me realize I'm not working with the same core of expectations about what it means to have a crush.

But it is good to see what the Thread has done, which is to have encouraged people to reflect on what will trigger their initial attraction to a person they might consider dating, and could maybe love. Or at least that's what I think I'm hearing. And what it's done for me is make me think a lot about how love starts and what makes it go away. That's what I got out of the crush thread. I feel glad for that.

[Mr Nice Guy]

Your words are beautiful and heartfelt. I just want to say thank you. :)

[rockstar lover]

Theres not enough crushing going on in here . ** Lets try a new way.** DESCRIBE what u would like your CRUSH to :
1, Be like.
2. Look like ..
3. Treat u like.


YOUR TURN ~~

1. grounded, sexy, sweet, romantic, someone willing to take a chance on love, witty, quirky, spiritual, giving
2. the femme goddess she was destined to be
3. her partner, lover, best friend, equal; she would treat me with the love, respect and adoration that I show to her.


Am I asking for too much?!

[ferret]

I'll play.

Be like: Witty, intelligent, genuine, affectionate.
Look like: Femme, but don't freak out if you break a nail or get dirty.
Treat me like: You would like to be treated and like an equal. Nothing more, nothing less.

[LoyalWolfsBlade]

Theres not enough crushing going on in here . ** Lets try a new way.** DESCRIBE what u would like your CRUSH to :
1, Be like.
2. Look like ..
3. Treat u like.


My turn I think.

My crush must be a unique woman in some way...stand out from the "clicks"a strong woman yet can be vulnerable and turn to me, self aware, comfortable with who she is, has a thirst for learning not just academically but in life, funny, open to new experience, and must be okay with the simple fact that I am male ID that hates labels.....to begin with

How she looks is not important because I have a wide range of taste for a physical appearance....yet she must have inner beauty....that is what will keep me interested

Treat me like a friend always, with respect, as the knight I am in my heart, as, as I treat her, flirt with me even after she catches my attention, most important like she really wants to get to know me....

Those are but a few qualities for someone to have that will cause me to crush on her....now if your talking about developing a relationship and falling in love she should have all of the above but also should be open to a LDR with the knowledge that while I do NOT own a U-Haul I am also the type to change the LDR into something more tangible....she should love music, animals, and be love staying at home alone with me and much as going out

[grenade]

I'll play.

Be like: Witty, intelligent, genuine, affectionate.
Look like: Femme, but don't freak out if you break a nail or get dirty.
Treat me like: You would like to be treated and like an equal. Nothing more, nothing less.

Breaking an acrylic or gel nail, hurts like hell. It would take a high pain tolerance not to freak out. I bent one back today and almost cried. Almost.

[tazz]

i think, i do, i dunno, i desire...

A Crush!!!

a very unique and special Crush... and be it i dont Crush on just anybody... plus i dont Crush for the sake of having a Crush in order to fill loneliness.

i am Ready and Willing for my next Crush ;)

[Nomad]

<partial quote.

If I am going to fall in love with you, you have to do more than answer some un-met need in me. If I am going to love you, I have to admire, adore and be fascinated by your inner and outer self. I have to see how you interact with others, how you treat people who have less power than you, how consistent you are, in your behavior; how reflective and honest you are.

The turn this Thread has taken has made me realize I'm not working with the same core of expectations about what it means to have a crush.

But it is good to see what the Thread has done, which is to have encouraged people to reflect on what will trigger their initial attraction to a person they might consider dating, and could maybe love. Or at least that's what I think I'm hearing. And what it's done for me is make me think a lot about how love starts and what makes it go away. That's what I got out of the crush thread. I feel glad for that.

this. just this.

[ferret]

Breaking an acrylic or gel nail, hurts like hell. It would take a high pain tolerance not to freak out. I bent one back today and almost cried. Almost.


Aw, Gren. God love you :) I think what I'm trying to say is more along the lines of low-maintenance. And I'm sure breaking an acrylic or gel nail hurts like a mofo.

Sue

[Mr Nice Guy]

Breaking a nail sucks. I know this from dating women with nails. Ow!! Bending back or breaking at the quick hurts like hell. I'm good at mending boo boos. :)

[Nomad]

i dont have a clue what my crush would be like. but it got me to thinkin what i want to be like, look like and treat me like the next time i crush, or even if i never crush again.

the next time i crush i want to be someone who takes up more room in a relationship rather than the person who backs up from rather than steps up to who she is. my biggest mistake in life is embracing worry instead of letting go. when i do this i forget to be exactly who i am and i begin to be someone who will do anything to make everything right which is not a possible thing to begin with.

the next time i crush i want to look like a truer version of myself, not the self i think i should be or think someone else is hoping i'll become. this is a lie that i trick myself with and the only thing it leads to is a sense of unworthiness which is also a lie because i am completely worthy of love.

the next time i crush i want to treat myself the way i would treat someone i love. i know that everyone has bad moments or bad days or even bad weeks but underlying all that crazy is love. love is a whole that is so much larger than the sum of its parts but we focus on the feeling it creates in our bodies and minds rather than on the things that love is supposed to mean. love, the verb, is made up of respect, compassion, honesty, trust, faith, loyalty, healthy expectation, accountability, endurance and humor. i am guilty of treating myself to none of these things and so i am also guilty of depriving my partner of them. this makes the circumstance of love into a noun which deprives it of its texture and and suppleness, rendering it into something that is 2 dimensional. when love becomes a noun its easier to take things for granted and to let yourself slip into non-recognizing behavior. i consistently fail to recognize myself as someone i should love; love with all the active components that make it a 3D experience. when i treat myself 2 dimensionally i teach other people to treat me that way also. and worse, i do the same to them.

i think we need to spend more time sincerely learning to crush on ourselves for a change. if we loved ourselves that much how could anyone else fail to see how worthy we are of the effort? maybe even more importantly we might be able to convince others that they should love themselves just as fiercely because they are worth the effort too.

[~ocean]

((((nomad )))) seems u have gone threw alot .. for this i am sry .. u need to heal b4 u can even entertain the thought of crushing anyone .. keep talking it helps :) ~~

[Mr Nice Guy]

Nomad, we are here for you like Ocean said. I healed from a heartache by posting til I let it all out. It really helped a lot. Now I'm just hanging and waiting for whatever or whomever comes next. I'm ready for love! There I said it. :). I must admit that I read this and think I sound like a goofball. :)

[~ocean]

BTW its a drive in kinda night :)) ~~ just saying

[The_Lady_Snow]

My crushes on people are in no way tied to romantic feelings, nor are they set with an expectation of a hook up or relationship, they're like flirtatious non boundary crossing admirations:)

That's why they are great to have because they're light like mojitos!

[WolfyOne]

I'd like to know my crush accepts me as I am...flawed
Does not want to change me into someone they want me to be

I lost part of me in my last relationship and getting it back has taken a few years, so with that said, I want an independent person who likes to co pilot every now and again, but won't put a strangle hold on me and will hold me loosely. It's great to have the same friends and also great to have friends that we don't have to share, but are friendly towards us when we're all together. I want someone that will work with me instead of against me. If I make a mistake, I'll eat it and say I'm sorry, but I don't want to be reminded of it for years. I am not perfect and would like for my crush to be flawed, too...I may have missed something in this post, so I reserve the right to come back and answer any questions one may toss out at me.

So, anyone interested in crushing on me after reading that?

[WolfyOne]

My crushes on people are in no way tied to romantic feelings, nor are they set with an expectation of a hook up or relationship, they're like flirtatious non boundary crossing admirations:)

That's why they are great to have because they're light like mojitos!


I never had a mojito, but I do admire you as a person :)

[The_Lady_Snow]

I never had a mojito, but I do admire you as a person :)


They're delicious, mojitos!

[Mr Nice Guy]

Ok peeps, today is tell your crush day. Don't you love these special Holidays. So stand up and shout it out to the world!!:)

Today I am crushing on..... _________.


*** Hey I can't help myself. ;)

[Breezy]

My ideal crush...

I can't follow in step with the posts I'm seeing here, as heartfelt and thoughtful as they seem.

That's because I think people are talking about crushes as if having a crush is synonymous with falling in love, or an indicator of someone they could care about.

But falling in love is not what I'm talking about, when I talk about a crush. I'm not saying one definition is better than the other, I'm just saying mine is different.

To crush on someone, all they have to do is answer a need, fill a gap that exists at that particular time in my life.

For example, if I am feeling invisible, and someone makes me feel visible, I might very well crush on that person. If I am feeling unappreciated sexually, and they appreciate me sexually, even in a cyber way, I might crush on that person.

On the Internet it's easy for me to crush in this way, because there are no distractions, like what the person looks, sounds and feels like in person. It can just be about that one pure need-being-met phenomenon.

It has happened to me every time I've entered a new social website community. I'm just as vulnerable to it now as I've always been.

And I don't think it's a bad thing at all, this experience that I'm identifying as a crush.

But it isn't the same as falling in love.

If I am going to fall in love with you, you have to do more than answer some un-met need in me. If I am going to love you, I have to admire, adore and be fascinated by your inner and outer self. I have to see how you interact with others, how you treat people who have less power than you, how consistent you are, in your behavior; how reflective and honest you are.

The turn this Thread has taken has made me realize I'm not working with the same core of expectations about what it means to have a crush.

But it is good to see what the Thread has done, which is to have encouraged people to reflect on what will trigger their initial attraction to a person they might consider dating, and could maybe love. Or at least that's what I think I'm hearing. And what it's done for me is make me think a lot about how love starts and what makes it go away. That's what I got out of the crush thread. I feel glad for that.

I hear you, darlin. Crushing for me is very similar. I do leave myself open for interpretation by others here. Please do not think you have incompatible views. Some view crushes one way and others of us view them another. :rrose: It's all good.

I am glad to know I am not the only one who views a crush as not being in love or necessarily leading to being in love. I have to know a person well, in person, through at least a year or two.

[clay]

pssst.....my crush is a secret....<wink>

[ruffryder]

ALL MY CRUSHES IN THE PAST HAVE JUST HAPPENED! THEY WERE ALL DIFFERENT. I THINK FOR ME MY CRUSHES WERE PEOPLE THAT WERE IN MY LIFE AND I SAW ALMOST ON A DAILY BASE, TEACHER, FRIEND, A SCHOOL MATE. I'VE HAD SOME ON THE INTERNET ALSO, FRIENDS THAT I'VE WONDERED WHAT IF.. BUT I THINK THE ONE THING IN COMMON IS THAT THEY ARE SOMEHOW IN MY LIFE. NEVER REALLY CRUSHED ON A CELEBRITY. NOT SO SURE I'VE ALWAYS TOLD THEM OR ANYONE! LOL MAYBE SOME ONLINE IF IT WENT BEYOND A FRIENDSHIP.

MY QUESTION IS WHO HAS TOLD THEIR CRUSH THAT THEY WERE CRUSHING? WAS IT GOOD FEEDBACK OR DID IT CRUSH YOUR HEART?

MY CRUSH RIGHT NOW IS MY ONE AND ONLY BABY. :)

[Breezy]

In my opinion, a crush does not need to be returned to me. Sure it is fun when a crush is returned, however, it is not about being the love of my life. I have nothing to lose or feel "crushed" about as a result.

[Ginger]

Nomad wrote:

"...the next time i crush i want to look like a truer version of myself, not the self i think i should be or think someone else is hoping i'll become."


Ouch. You got me.

[Hollylane]

Psssst....I'm thinking about you. :stillheart:


pnVOt2LK2Gg

[Mr Nice Guy]

I would like to have a crush turn to love. Thats just me. :)

[Nomad]

Ok peeps, today is tell your crush day. Don't you love these special Holidays. So stand up and shout it out to the world!!:)

Today I am crushing on..... _________.


*** Hey I can't help myself. ;)


no fair leaving that line blank!!!!!

[Mr Nice Guy]

no fair leaving that line blank!!!!!

Ha ha ha. So who are you crushing on, Nomad? ______?

[shiagirl]

Good Evening all you crushers our lurkers;
I haven't been around for awhile. I have missed reading this thread.

I still have a few crushes that will now just have to remain only crushes and not go anywhere but a crush.

I am very interested in one and one only and partly why I haven't been seen in these parts lately lol.

I hope all my peeps are doing well on here and crushing away and having fun.

I went to post my new pic since I read back a few and saw that many of you said the gallery is now updated but it still won't let me in :(

[rockstar lover]

I would like to have a crush turn to love. Thats just me. :)


No it's not just you :) When it's the right person, time, place, & when the stars are all aligned properly...it will happen! That's what I believe:flowers:

[Nomad]

Ha ha ha. So who are you crushing on, Nomad? ______?

it's not my line mensch. i dont have to fill it. :p

[tazz]

i'm missing my Crush... :rrose:

[Mr Nice Guy]

Hey Rockstar, I feel the same. Time will tell.

Hey Nomad, my iPhone won't let me fill out that line so I'll put them here.
1.Laruss- because she has my back.
2. Nomad- because your real and I like what you say.
3. LeftWriteFemme- because she's from Jersey.
There's more.... Some I would like to be real friends with and a few I would like to date.
Didn't expect that now did you. ;)

[puddin']

today i'm crushin' on da kitteh thread...

[~ocean]

good morning crushers and crushees ~~

[Breezy]

Good morning, ~ocean! How are you today? :rrose:

[~ocean]

(((((breezy )))))) gm sexyyyyyy ~~~~ I'm alive ! u ?

[Breezy]

{{{{{~ocean}}}}}

I am well this morning! :D. It s peaceful and quiet. Wassup in your world?

[~ocean]

I'm up LOL thats about it ~~ enjoy coffee ~

[2qt]

Someone mention coffee? Today my crush is.......Coffee.... Snickers

[Mr Nice Guy]

I think I'll have coffee too. Didn't sleep well last night so I could use some. :)

[SleepyButch]

Hello fellow crushers... how are we doing this fine Sunday? I'm too tired to look back, did I miss any new crushes?

[Nomad]

attention crushers,

today i am here to acknowledge my permanent and lifelong crush on Mr. Nice Guy for the classy way hy handles hymself in the face of mistaken perspective and unfairly directed energy.

i'm gonna let hym propose marriage as soon as hy converts. :rabbi:

[SleepyButch]

attention crushers,

today i am here to acknowledge my permanent and lifelong crush on Mr. Nice Guy for the classy way hy handles hymself in the face of mistaken perspective and unfairly directed energy.

i'm gonna let hym propose marriage as soon as hy converts. :rabbi:

Although I do not have a crush on Mr. Nice Guy, I have to agree. It's hard when some people misperceive you by your words.
Keep on being the mr. nice guy that we have all come to know and admire.

[Mr Nice Guy]

attention crushers,

today i am here to acknowledge my permanent and lifelong crush on Mr. Nice Guy for the classy way hy handles hymself in the face of mistaken perspective and unfairly directed energy.

i'm gonna let hym propose marriage as soon as hy converts. :rabbi:

Now that cracked me up. Thanks I needed that. But aren't we suppose to meet first before I get down on one knee? Or is this an arranged marriage that I don't know about. Lol

[Mr Nice Guy]

Although I do not have a crush on Mr. Nice Guy, I have to agree. It's hard when some people misperceive you by your words.
Keep on being the mr. nice guy that we have all come to know and admire.

Thank you Sleepy, I don't plan on ever changing who I am. I couldn't even if I wanted to. I will admit that I was hurt but I will get over it and continue to be me and help and support others as needed. I am Cupid after all. :)

[tazz]

Thank you Sleepy, I don't plan on ever changing who I am. I couldn't even if I wanted to. I will admit that I was hurt but I will get over it and continue to be me and help and support others as needed. I am Cupid after all. :)

***i could use a Cupid as well as an Angel about now :)

[Mr Nice Guy]

***i could use a Cupid as well as an Angel about now :)

Hang around here Kiddo and see what happens. You never know in the Crush thread. :)

[Leigh]

I have one main crush and alot of little friend crushes :D

[Medusa]

Nomad/MrNiceGuy/Etal,


I specifically instructed the users of the gallery thread to leave the drama in the other thread and NOT to drag it all over the forums. You two are skating perilously close to a time-out with this line of conversation.

Drop it immediately, or get a 30-day vacation.

Thanks,
Admin

[Electrocell]

Think I'm just going to crush on myself --it's safer that way. What's that called narcissism? Yeah that's what I'm going to do.:pipe::huhlaugh:

[Julien]

Hello to one and all,
Well I would have had a big crush on an Olympian, but Dara Torres didn't make the cut for 2012. However, you've got to admire her bid for the 2012 Olympics. I'll just have to go to Women's Soccer, since Fastpitch Softball is not on the venue. Bummer.

[Canela]

I'm crushing on:

Mr Nice Guy for sure...(sorry Nomad, no disrespect to you about your intended...lol)

Femme crush on Nomad, cuz I love her boldness and can appreciate that.

Rockstar Lover cuz he's my new friend

Spirit Dancer, another femme crush

Turtle, where's Turtle...I crush you mi amigo!

I crush on Tommi all the time, cuz he's incredible...

And ~Ocean...where's she at? ~Ocean, my other femme crush...

SleepyButch, cuz he's just sweet...

ETA: Julien...cuz he's cool like that.

Snow Snow, cuz she aint afraid to be who she is...just sayin'

There will be more I'm sure, but for now, this is what comes to mind.


~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~


I want to define/qualify my crush factor, though...

I admire and just gotta give props for the kind of peeps you are...

So my crush means that I get the awesomeness of each of you.

That's my essence of crush....:blush:

[~ocean]

((((canela )))) ~~~ hey sexyyyyyy :) I've been playing around in the arcade on a yucky cloudy rainy day .. ~~

You forgot Julien ~~ I would have started off w. Julien :) just saying ~

[Mr Nice Guy]

I just want to say sorry to Admin for all the drama I started. It won't happen again.

[Julien]

((((canela )))) ~~~ hey sexyyyyyy :) I've been playing around in the arcade on a yucky cloudy rainy day .. ~~

You forgot Julien ~~ I would have started off w. Julien :) just saying ~

Hey ~ocean, it is bright and sunny here. Come on down, I'll be waiting. Oh and thanks for the thought from you.:sunglass:

[Mr Nice Guy]

Thank you Canela, your very sweet. :)

[Julien]

I'm crushing on:

Mr Nice Guy for sure...(sorry Nomad, no disrespect to you about your intended...lol)

Femme crush on Nomad, cuz I love her boldness and can appreciate that.

Rockstar Lover cuz he's my new friend

Spirit Dancer, another femme crush

Turtle, where's Turtle...I crush you mi amigo!

I crush on Tommi all the time, cuz he's incredible...

And ~Ocean...where's she at? ~Ocean, my other femme crush...

SleepyButch, cuz he's just sweet...

ETA: Julien...cuz he's cool like that.

Snow Snow, cuz she aint afraid to be who she is...just sayin'

There will be more I'm sure, but for now, this is what comes to mind.


~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~


I want to define/qualify my crush factor, though...

I admire and just gotta give props for the kind of peeps you are...

So my crush means that I get the awesomeness of each of you.

That's my essence of crush....:blush:

Thank you for the notice Canela. Hope you're having a great day.

[Canela]

Thank you Canela, your very sweet. :)


Awwww....so are you!

[Canela]

Thank you for the notice Canela. Hope you're having a great day.


Thank you, Julien...I woulda added you on the next go round...without the nudge...(*w)

I like your input on the "getting published" thread.

I hope your day is wonderful. Mine is pretty good.

[Nomad]

I'm crushing on:

Mr Nice Guy for sure...(sorry Nomad, no disrespect to you about your intended...lol)

Femme crush on Nomad, cuz I love her boldness and can appreciate that.

Rockstar Lover cuz he's my new friend

Spirit Dancer, another femme crush

Turtle, where's Turtle...I crush you mi amigo!

I crush on Tommi all the time, cuz he's incredible...

And ~Ocean...where's she at? ~Ocean, my other femme crush...

SleepyButch, cuz he's just sweet...

ETA: Julien...cuz he's cool like that.

Snow Snow, cuz she aint afraid to be who she is...just sayin'

There will be more I'm sure, but for now, this is what comes to mind.


~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~


I want to define/qualify my crush factor, though...

I admire and just gotta give props for the kind of peeps you are...

So my crush means that I get the awesomeness of each of you.

That's my essence of crush....:blush:

awww. thanks for the femme-crush moment. i was sad that no one crushed on me. as for my 'intended' i've decided to call off the wedding. we're incompatible as anything but friends. (i'm too crazy for nice guys) :cracked:

[Canela]

awww. thanks for the femme-crush moment. i was sad that no one crushed on me. as for my 'intended' i've decided to call off the wedding. we're incompatible as anything but friends. (i'm too crazy for nice guys) :cracked:

Well, no more sadness...there you go...femme crushes count, too.

Sorry to hear about your wedding being called off...I wasn't sure what I was gonna wear....(yes, I assumed I was invited to the wedding). I woulda crashed anyway...I saw the movie and I took notes!

[Mr Nice Guy]

Left before I made it to the alter. Lol you both are sweet and make me laugh. :)

[Nomad]

Well, no more sadness...there you go...femme crushes count, too.

Sorry to hear about your wedding being called off...I wasn't sure what I was gonna wear....(yes, I assumed I was invited to the wedding). I woulda crashed anyway...I saw the movie and I took notes!




:cracked:

you are killin' me with that! of course you were invited! my :rabbi: asked about you specifically!!!!

[Nomad]

Left before I made it to the alter. Lol you both are sweet and make me laugh. :)

somehow i imagine you'll cope with the pain of it all mensch.

[tazz]

awww. thanks for the femme-crush moment. i was sad that no one crushed on me. as for my 'intended' i've decided to call off the wedding. we're incompatible as anything but friends. (i'm too crazy for nice guys) :cracked:

***ok... i have a cute small crush on Nomad... you just speak to me grrl... and i thank you for that :)

[Mr Nice Guy]

I can handle that and more and someday I hope to get married and when I do I hope it's someone like my Femme friends. Or maybe it will be a Femme friend. Who knows?

[tazz]

Well, no more sadness...there you go...femme crushes count, too.

Sorry to hear about your wedding being called off...I wasn't sure what I was gonna wear....(yes, I assumed I was invited to the wedding). I woulda crashed anyway...I saw the movie and I took notes!



***i'm with ya Canela... i would've crash the wedding as well! ;)

[Canela]

Left before I made it to the alter. Lol you both are sweet and make me laugh. :)

You know, this is all your fault.

It wouldn't happen if you weren't such a romantic love muffin...

[Canela]

:cracked:

you are killin' me with that! of course you were invited! my :rabbi: asked about you specifically!!!!

Oh! What an honor to be singled out by your :rabbi:

Well, it woulda been a nice wedding...big sigh...

[Mr Nice Guy]

I can't help it. I'm butch on the outside and a big softie on the inside that I share with the people I care about. I love romance and the smiles that it brings when it starts. ;)

[SleepyButch]

I'm crushing on:

Mr Nice Guy for sure...(sorry Nomad, no disrespect to you about your intended...lol)

Femme crush on Nomad, cuz I love her boldness and can appreciate that.

Rockstar Lover cuz he's my new friend

Spirit Dancer, another femme crush

Turtle, where's Turtle...I crush you mi amigo!

I crush on Tommi all the time, cuz he's incredible...

And ~Ocean...where's she at? ~Ocean, my other femme crush...

SleepyButch, cuz he's just sweet...

ETA: Julien...cuz he's cool like that.

Snow Snow, cuz she aint afraid to be who she is...just sayin'

There will be more I'm sure, but for now, this is what comes to mind.


~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~


I want to define/qualify my crush factor, though...

I admire and just gotta give props for the kind of peeps you are...

So my crush means that I get the awesomeness of each of you.

That's my essence of crush....:blush:


Well ty kindly.. this just made my day.

[Leigh]

I love watching all these crushes :)

[Breezy]

It is so quiet here in this house. No kids. I need to get out into the land of the living. I think I'll go to the pub later tonight. Hope you all have a fantastic evening. :bunchflowers:

[clay]

{{{{{{{{{{{{{{bree}}}}}}}}}}}}} hey beautiful! Have fun....enjoy yourself!!

[alexri]

Watching all of you crush has been more exciting than the Olympics :)

[Ginger]

***ok... i have a cute small crush on Nomad... you just speak to me grrl... and i thank you for that :)



Well you're gonna have to arm wrestle me for Nomad's hand ... or at least have a slap fight in jello!

[rockstar lover]

I'm crushing on:


Rockstar Lover cuz he's my new friend


There will be more I'm sure, but for now, this is what comes to mind.


~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~


I want to define/qualify my crush factor, though...

I admire and just gotta give props for the kind of peeps you are...

So my crush means that I get the awesomeness of each of you.

That's my essence of crush....:blush:


Aww...thanks Canela :) The feeling is mutual:bunchflowers:

[Breezy]

{{{{{{{{{{{{{{bree}}}}}}}}}}}}} hey beautiful! Have fun....enjoy yourself!!




{{{{{clay}}}}} I shall try. Thank you.

[Mr Nice Guy]

This is why I love this thread. It's so sweet and full of fun and romance. Ok more fun then romance but I like it anyway.

[WolfyOne]

I was thinking about crushes today.
I have a lot of friendly crushes on those I adore and/or admire.
I also thought that if I had a personal crush on someone or was crushed on by someone I clicked well with,
I'd like to think it could move into love at some point. I'm not looking for a UHaul move, but long term at my age would be nice.

[Nomad]

I can't help it. I'm butch on the outside and a big softie on the inside that I share with the people I care about. I love romance and the smiles that it brings when it starts. ;)

ugh. will you stop that? you might get some of it on me. :annoyed:

[Nomad]

Well you're gonna have to arm wrestle me for Nomad's hand ... or at least have a slap fight in jello!


JELLO! JELLO! JELLO! JELLO! (say it with me people!)

:happyjump:

[Ginger]

JELLO! JELLO! JELLO! JELLO! (say it with me people!)

:happyjump:


I get to pick the flavor (licking lips)

[Nomad]

I get to pick the flavor (licking lips)


freak!

i so love you right now! hahahahahahahahahahaha

[Mr Nice Guy]

ugh. will you stop that? you might get some of it on me. :annoyed:

Lol. Wouldn't want that now would we. That made me smile.

[Canela]

I was thinking about crushes today.
I have a lot of friendly crushes on those I adore and/or admire.
I also thought that if I had a personal crush on someone or was crushed on by someone I clicked well with,
I'd like to think it could move into love at some point. I'm not looking for a UHaul move, but long term at my age would be nice.

Hi. My name is CANELA and I am a crusher...I've been crushing for as many years as I can remember...and I have to admit that I have a crush on Wolfy.

I can't help it. He's my friend, a great guy and a gentleman to boot. Who wouldn't?

That is all.

[Canela]

ugh. will you stop that? you might get some of it on me. :annoyed:

Eeeeuuuuwwwww....

[WolfyOne]

Hi. My name is CANELA and I am a crusher...I've been crushing for as many years as I can remember...and I have to admit that I have a crush on Wolfy.

I can't help it. He's my friend, a great guy and a gentleman to boot. Who wouldn't?

That is all.


You may not know this, so I'll tell you...you just put a really BIG smile on my face and brightened my night.
I should go to work tomorrow with that smile.

BTW, you are one of my favorite personal crushes for as long as I can remember.
Someday we shall meet at a reunion and/or Chicago and eat good pizza together, lol.

[Canela]

You may not know this, so I'll tell you...you just put a really BIG smile on my face and brightened my night.
I should go to work tomorrow with that smile.

BTW, you are one of my favorite personal crushes for as long as I can remember.
Someday we shall meet at a reunion and/or Chicago and eat good pizza together, lol.

Awwwww, Wolfy, really? I feel so invisible here, mostly...(not today) But that is very kind of you to say. (Don't say it cuz I say it...) lol

As far as the pizza--that sounds like a plan!

[WolfyOne]

Awwwww, Wolfy, really? I feel so invisible here, mostly...(not today) But that is very kind of you to say. (Don't say it cuz I say it...) lol

As far as the pizza--that sounds like a plan!


I never say anything I don't mean...unless you're one of my family members and make me really angry. It's that saying without thinking first then that comes out of my mouth because my brain didn't process through the anger they caused me to have.

You aren't invisible to me, I'm just slow at making my feelings aware to anyone for many reasons. I'm really approachable, but often afraid to approach. Too many times burned will do that to a person.

[tazz]

I never say anything I don't mean...unless you're one of my family members and make me really angry. It's that saying without thinking first then that comes out of my mouth because my brain didn't process through the anger they caused me to have.

You aren't invisible to me, I'm just slow at making my feelings aware to anyone for many reasons. I'm really approachable, but often afraid to approach. Too many times burned will do that to a person.

***you speak my language WolfyOne!! but, on the contraire for me, i've been told i either come across Wonderfully/full of light...OR...Brash. either way, i'm vulnerable.

[Canela]

I never say anything I don't mean...unless you're one of my family members and make me really angry. It's that saying without thinking first then that comes out of my mouth because my brain didn't process through the anger they caused me to have.

You aren't invisible to me, I'm just slow at making my feelings aware to anyone for many reasons. I'm really approachable, but often afraid to approach. Too many times burned will do that to a person.


I know what you mean...when I get angry (which had been alot the last few weeks) things that I don't normally say come flying out of my mouth at record speed! I regret it after but it's already out there. Glad things have finally settled down around me.


Thanks Wolfy, what a very sweet thing to say. I always feel invisible but decided to come out and have fun today. Otherwise, I don't really post much like today...this has been a wonderful outlet for me. I certainly appreciate you and what you say to me. You've always been very kind and respectful and fun...as I think back, you try to include me, too--like when you asked me to come to the reunion and you were so nice even offering me to show me around and introduce me. I'm blessed to have a friend like you.

And yes, getting burned does teach us doesn't it? Sometimes, too well.

[Breezy]

Good morning Crushers and Crushettes~ :D

Hope you all have a lovely Monday!

[Julien]

Hello to all the crush worthy folks out there. I hope your day is beyond great and you keep cool. It looks like it will be sizzling here on the Gulf Coast. :tanning:

[~ocean]

Good afternoon everyone :)

[Julien]

Hi ~ocean and Breezy, I'm glad to see you. Where is everyone else? The Monday Blues got you in its grasp? Or is it just the Dog Days of Summer? Which ever it is I hope you all are well. No crushes today, but someone recently made me take notice. :|

[tazz]

i have been dumped by my crush :( but i guess i deserved it... ? :|
they told me i came across too strong... :confused:

ayep... it's a Monday allright.

so no crushes for me today... anybody else??

[DamonK]

Why yes, yes I do!

[tazz]

awesome DamonK... sending you continuous energy for your crush to last... :)

[Ginger]

Don't worry about it, Tazz.

What's "coming on too strong" to one person will be "just right" to another person.

Keep your eyes open! This place is crawlin' with people to crush on!




i have been dumped by my crush :( but i guess i deserved it... ? :|
they told me i came across too strong... :confused:

ayep... it's a Monday allright.

so no crushes for me today... anybody else??

[tazz]

Don't worry about it, Tazz.

What's "coming on too strong" to one person will be "just right" to another person.

Keep your eyes open! This place is crawlin' with people to crush on!

***thanks IslandScout! i appreciate that. i certainly hope so :)

too bad i am not able to make the reunion (unable to afford it this year)
maybe next year

[Ginger]

IslandScout has a crush on me because I just helped her.

:tattletale:

So true, June. So true!

[Mr Nice Guy]

Hey Peeps, I'm home. Hope you all are having a good day.

[~ocean]

welcome home ~~

[Mr Nice Guy]

Thanks!! That's right people, Cupid is in the house. Anyone need a shot in the heart? A gentle shot that is. ;)

[~ocean]

holaaaaaaaa ((( Julien ))) just those monday blues !

[Breezy]

Thanks!! That's right people, Cupid is in the house. Anyone need a shot in the heart? A gentle shot that is. ;)

I do, please.

[~ocean]

(((( breezy )))))))) holaaaaa darling ~~~

[Breezy]

(((( breezy )))))))) holaaaaa darling ~~~

{{{{{~ocean}}}}}} hiya sugar!

[~ocean]

** sings while mr nice guy aims his arows ** hit me w. ur best shot .. fire awayyyy

[Mr Nice Guy]

Now I'm going to dance. ;)

[Breezy]

Okay, I am ready for people for company besides family.

[~ocean]

HA ~~~~ Toss' Mr. Nice Guy a top hat and cane .. u already have that bright stage smile :) ..

[Mr Nice Guy]

Hey Breezy, any food with that party? I'm hungry. Lol

[Breezy]

Pizza and hot wings so far. The kids are cooking. I meant I am ready for being around people besides family. I am a tad contemporary lonely.

[Mr Nice Guy]

Thank you Ocean. Listen...tap...tap...tap. Got my tap shoes on too. I'm going to dance in honor of Chicken wings. Hey Bree, save me a slice of pizza too. :)

[Breezy]

LOL. Okay you got it darlin.

[Mr Nice Guy]

Now I'm going to do the Hustle for pizza. Yes I have a stupid grin on my face. Thanks Bree. Yahoo!! Food!

[Julien]

holaaaaaaaa ((( Julien ))) just those monday blues !

Hey there ((((~ocean)))) hugs all around :rrose::gimmehug:

[WolfyOne]

** sings while mr nice guy aims his arows ** hit me w. ur best shot .. fire awayyyy


I'm thinking you should be singing...♪ cupid draw back your bow ♪ and let your arrow go ♪

[Mr Nice Guy]

It's quiet in here tonight. Maybe the crushers are at Breezys party. :)

[ferret]

Nope. No crushes for me. And still hoping that someday someone will come on and hit me over the head with the proverbial 2X4.

Sue

[Mr Nice Guy]

Ferret, if you hang out here enough someone's bound to crush on you. :) it's a crushable place. :)

[tazz]

me having a crush?? bahahahahahaahhaaaaaaaaaaaaa.... JK

[Mr Nice Guy]

I believe in positive thinking and fate. But that's me. ;)

[tazz]

i do too Mr. Nice Guy... i was just being sarcastic.. if i offended i'm sorry

[Mr Nice Guy]

No offense taken silly. So let's see what happens. I'll go put on my Cupid outfit and stand behind you. You let me know which one and I'll let an arrow fly. ;)

[SleepyButch]

Pizza and hot wings so far. The kids are cooking. I meant I am ready for being around people besides family. I am a tad contemporary lonely.


Well what time do you want us over? I don't need any food... just the company.

[SleepyButch]

I think I could use a shot from the cupid stash. Hit me right where it counts... lol

[Mr Nice Guy]

----------------------->:stillheart:

[Mr Nice Guy]

Did I miss? I can't find my glasses. Shoot!

[tazz]

I think I could use a shot from the cupid stash. Hit me right where it counts... lol

***me too SleepyButch... ok Mr. Nice Guy... Hit Me!! ;)

[tazz]

No offense taken silly. So let's see what happens. I'll go put on my Cupid outfit and stand behind you. You let me know which one and I'll let an arrow fly. ;)

***will do! thanx! :D

[Leigh]

I constantly crush on my Daddy :)

[SleepyButch]

Did I miss? I can't find my glasses. Shoot!

Hmmmm.. I didn't feel a thing.

[Breezy]

C'mon over Sleepy! We'd love to have you stop in. Anyone else wanna come by? We watched 90's comedy movies, tonight. It was a blast.

[SleepyButch]

C'mon over Sleepy! We'd love to have you stop in. Anyone else wanna come by? We watched 90's comedy movies, tonight. It was a blast.

I'll be right there.. although.. I have no idea where you live.... lol

[Canela]

----------------------->:stillheart:

Oh snap! And here I thought you were kidding! You really are Cupid! You've got the costume, arrows and everything!

Hey KoolAid! (Yells for the KoolAid guy)..."ya gotta see this!"

[Mr Nice Guy]

------->:stillheart: (Tazz)
I might have fallen asleep but I didn't forget.
Hey Canela, I liked Koolaid as a kid. Mr Koolaid is a great person to hang with. I bring the candy hearts and he brings the grape Koolaid. Although I'd rather have pizza. ;)

[WolfyOne]

I would like some Kool Aid
The old hippie in me thinks it's groovy


And lastly good afternoon y'all :)

Another long hard day at work, but happy to just have a job in today's economy

[ferret]

Ferret, if you hang out here enough someone's bound to crush on you. :) it's a crushable place. :)

LOL. Should I be holding my breath??

Sue

[WolfyOne]

LOL. Should I be holding my breath??

Sue


No because if you hold it too long, you won't be any good to anyone including yourself :|

[Mr Nice Guy]

Hey Ferret, no don't hold your breath, just let me know when you want a shot of love. :) We don't need you passing out due to lack of oxygen. Lol

[tazz]

------->:stillheart: (Tazz)
I might have fallen asleep but I didn't forget.
Hey Canela, I liked Koolaid as a kid. Mr Koolaid is a great person to hang with. I bring the candy hearts and he brings the grape Koolaid. Although I'd rather have pizza. ;)

thanks Mr. Nice Guy... hopefully your Cupid arrow will go in the right direction... as i'm not directing it lol ;)

[Mr Nice Guy]

Oh it will hit you or your crush where it counts. Lol :)

[tazz]

Oh it will hit you or your crush where it counts. Lol :)

now that song "hit me with your best shot! fire away!!" is on my mind lol
thanx ;)

[Mr Nice Guy]

I'd rather sing that then see a license plate that says Oklahoma and start singing that! Lol. Which I have done. ;)

[Leigh]

I always crush on my Daddy but i also have a new friend crush :)

[Mr Nice Guy]

Leigh, it's so nice to see people happy and your one of them. You go girl!!:)

[~ocean]

(((( leigh ))))) wont belong now .. countdown time !! :)

[Breezy]

Well Crushers and Crushettes. I will be spending much less time here. Work, swapping with my brother going to see about my Mama, the kids and grand kids there. I have spent way too much time in cyberland. Back to check in every once in awhile because I am going to bizzy.

[Mr Nice Guy]

I would like some Kool Aid
The old hippie in me thinks it's groovy


And lastly good afternoon y'all :)

Another long hard day at work, but happy to just have a job in today's economy


Hey Wolfy, my favorite when I was a kid was grape.

[Canela]

------->:stillheart: (Tazz)
I might have fallen asleep but I didn't forget.
Hey Canela, I liked Koolaid as a kid. Mr Koolaid is a great person to hang with. I bring the candy hearts and he brings the grape Koolaid. Although I'd rather have pizza. ;)

I don't have kids at home anymore but I do keep a stash of Black Cherry KoolAid for nostalgia's sake. It's my favorite. Pink lemonade is also really good. Yeah, I'm old school...."HEY KOOLAID!"....

(Think he's getting slow in his old age...)
:koolaid:

[Mr Nice Guy]

I don't have kids and I am so old school that I have grape Koolaid and have old school music on my iPod. I'll never grow up. Lol

[SleepyButch]

Okay kids... I love having crushes.. they make the day that much more brighter.. woohooo

[Mr Nice Guy]

The light, the light it's burning my eyes. Lol
Hey Sleepy, glad your having a good day. :)

[WolfyOne]

I'd rather sing that then see a license plate that says Oklahoma and start singing that! Lol. Which I have done. ;)


Hey, I live there...where the winds go sweeping down the plains
or something like that....I'm not born and bred here, so I don't really know the words

[Mr Nice Guy]

I saw the musical and since then I've sang that song over a thousand times. It seems like a great place to visit. I do the same thing when I see the word New York. Then I get everybody at work or family singing too. I guess I'm just a natural born singer....not! I'm just a goofball.

[Mr Nice Guy]

You know one time I was delivering mail at a customers house and she came out and we started talking. It was about musice and our tastes. She was in her late 60's and started singing hip hop. I started dancing while handing her her mail. That was the funniest thing ever. Now when I see her we sing to each other. Lol

[ferret]

Hey Ferret, no don't hold your breath, just let me know when you want a shot of love. :) We don't need you passing out due to lack of oxygen. Lol

Is it a special kind of love? *grin* Thanks for making me chuckle, you guys.

Sue

[Mr Nice Guy]

It's a groovy kind of love. Lol :)

[WolfyOne]

It's a groovy kind of love. Lol :)


Yes, but which version?

So, love and Kool Aid are groovy....doesn't get much better.

[Mr Nice Guy]

For me it's Phil Collins. That's the only one I've ever heard.

[tazz]

You know one time I was delivering mail at a customers house and she came out and we started talking. It was about musice and our tastes. She was in her late 60's and started singing hip hop. I started dancing while handing her her mail. That was the funniest thing ever. Now when I see her we sing to each other. Lol

**and i bet you are quite the dancer! ;)

[Mr Nice Guy]

Ya I guess. I've been told I bite my lip. Lol.

[2qt]

Is it a special kind of love? *grin* Thanks for making me chuckle, you guys.

Sue

It's more like a stick in the butt with an arrow sort of love... When it hits you just go all gooey eyed and before you know it BAM there it is..... lol

[Mr Nice Guy]

Yup, it's the kind that makes you grin ear to ear.

[~ocean]

hmmmm i was in oklahoma the play in HS .. lol and i cant help but start singing it everytime someone says oklahoma

[Mr Nice Guy]

Oh my friggen God!! Really? Ocean I can't believe you said that. Cool! I thought I was the only one. Yahoo!! I'm not weird. :)

[~ocean]

ahuh .. lol... was a trip ! .. i brake out into a song any given time .. within reason of course .,. last month i woke up singing in italian .. its a song i heard alot growing up .. i was liek dayummm .. lol canu imagine someone singing in their sleep

[Mr Nice Guy]

I think it would be cool to wake up singing. I sing a lot at work. One day I sang Christmas songs to my customers and it was 90 out. It was my way of trying to stay cool. Needless to say it didn't work. Lol

[~ocean]

ha ~~~ blame it on the past heat wave ~ just saying :)

[SleepyButch]

The light, the light it's burning my eyes. Lol
Hey Sleepy, glad your having a good day. :)

Sorry! Didn't mean to put my brights on... lol

[Mr Nice Guy]

Sorry! Didn't mean to put my brights on... lol

I was hoping you got the joke. Phew!

[SleepyButch]

I think it would be cool to wake up singing. I sing a lot at work. One day I sang Christmas songs to my customers and it was 90 out. It was my way of trying to stay cool. Needless to say it didn't work. Lol

I sing all the time even if I'm not good at it. I find myself in a restaurant or store singing out loud to their music until someone I happen to be with says.. you know you are singing loud right? Lol.. I had no clue.

I too sing the O.K.L.A.H.O.M.A. song all the time.

[Mr Nice Guy]

Maybe we should star a singing group. Lol