And how are you feeling?

[Kätzchen]

I’m feeling annoyed: Reason no 1) where the hell are all the crazy people who take out the bad people??? Reason no 2) I’m sick of that toxic orange dick that keeps on with their horrifying behaviors and their sicko fans who keep feeding that grifter’s piggy bank.

Yeah. I’m feeling annoyed.

[Soft*Silver]

Ecstatic!

It’s official! I’ve known for a while that they were going to offer it to me, but today it’s a done deal. I accepted my new job! After three months, many interviews and many job offers, I finally negotiated my way into the job that I wanted! Once again, I am working with seniors in a case management type of way, in HUD Housing. And I decided to take on full-time work. We’ll see if I like that. I have been semi retired and have only worked part time for the last decade or so. But I really like this kind of work and at my last job where I did the same thing, I often wished I had more time.

I never worried that I wouldn’t find a job. I just worried I wouldn’t find the job I wanted. But now I can say I have!

[Blade]

Tired, I walked all over the RV camper show today. I'm worn out

[Kätzchen]

Tired, I walked all over the RV camper show today. I'm worn out

We have a massive homeless population problem in our metro area where homeless people in RV’s (new and dilapidated used vehicles) occupy streets in neighborhoods and its just a terrible battle for both homeless RV owners and home owners. Such a struggle!

[kittygrrl]

waking from a dream ..

[kittygrrl]

Snowed practically all day..not my favorite

[Stone-Butch]

Felling pretty good. Calm cool and collected. My brother is coming tomorrow and we go to dinner and a stage show. I am sitting here at 330a.m. it is 34F, I have the window open and the breeze is so cool and calm. I feel relaxed with the world.

[Soft*Silver]

Owies…… I had a tooth pulled today because it split down the middle. It didn’t hurt at all when he pulled it. But everything’s worn off that made that possible and now I’m feeling the pain!

[GeorgiaMa'am]

Owies…… I had a tooth pulled today because it split down the middle. It didn’t hurt at all when he pulled it. But everything’s worn off that made that possible and now I’m feeling the pain!

Owies indeed! Tooth pain is just the worst, at least it seems so when it happens. I hope you feel better soon. In the meantime, let me share my go-to remedy for the pain: soak your tooth in whiskey. Put it on a cotton ball if you wish, or just swish it around your tooth. It works better than anything available OTC from the drug store; my dentist agrees. Again, I hope you are quick to heal.

* * *

I am doing somewhat better these days. I am watching what I eat and keeping a food diary. I think that is helping.

[Orema]

Good. Starting to feel antsy and wanting to go away for a few days, but I think it’s some kind of anxiety so I’ll just stay home for now.

[Stone-Butch]

Feeling great, my brother called this minute to let me know he got home so I am happy. We are both feeling way up and I hope this moment last a while,.

[Orema]

Tired. I received the pneumonia shot yesterday and I think it affected my sleep last night. Only slept a couple hours and then a bunch of cat naps and I'm feelin' it this morning.

[Soft*Silver]

On Monday I took 3 shots…flu, pneumonia and Rsv. The Rsv one was incredibly painful the next day. I wanted to cry!!!!

Tired. I received the pneumonia shot yesterday and I think it affected my sleep last night. Only slept a couple hours and then a bunch of cat naps and I'm feelin' it this morning.

[nhplowboi]

Yep way too many at a time. Take some Tylenol and you will get over it,

[Soft*Silver]

I knew that was a lot at one time. But I had to get them for my new job ASAP. I did take Tylenol. and I’m fine now. It was only a day of pain. The kind of pain that does stop.


Yep way too many at a time. Take some Tylenol and you will get over it,

[Kätzchen]

Three days in bed and lots of hydration and Kleenex and medicine and I am feeling much better. I still don’t feel like I am completely healed, but I’m definitely feeling better. (f)(f)(f)

[Stone-Butch]

Feeling pretty well these days. We got all that snow we were threated with but it is mostly gone now.

[GeorgiaMa'am]

Still feeling pretty sick, not much change.

[Soft*Silver]

I’m chomping at the bit to get my hands back inside the Earth and grow things we had a couple weeks of really glorious spring, like weather, followed up recently by a few days of ice and snow. Which is nothing abnormal for Ohio, but it gave me false hope that we would have an early spring. I even ordered fertilizer from my blueberries and daylilies, hydrangeas, lilacs my spring bulbs, my roses, etc. they’re sitting on my enclosed front porch, laughing at me…

[GeorgiaMa'am]

I'm feeling better since I went to see the pain management doctors. I can no longer take any NSAIDs due to Chronic Kidney Disease, and I really need at least some ibuprofen for my knees. (My knees are bone on bone, now - there's no more cartilage or cushioning material left in there.)

They prescribed Tart Cherry, since it has worked for me before in conjunction with NSAIDs. They also prescribed Turmeric/Curcumin, as it is another powerful natural anti inflammatory. They work almost as well as ibuprofen, as long as I don't walk too much. I can at least get to sleep at night now.

One thing I have noticed is that nothing tastes right anymore (sort of like when I take antibiotics - nothing tastes like it's supposed to). It's not like I taste the tart cherry or turmeric - it comes in gelatin capsules. It could also be due to the fact that I have had to cut down on salt due to the kidney disease. But I don't think that's it, at least not all of it.

Has anyone else taken either of these supplements and noticed a difference in the way your food tastes?

[Orema]

I'm feeling better since I went to see the pain management doctors. I can no longer take any NSAIDs due to Chronic Kidney Disease, and I really need at least some ibuprofen for my knees. (My knees are bone on bone, now - there's no more cartilage or cushioning material left in there.)

They prescribed Tart Cherry, since it has worked for me before in conjunction with NSAIDs. They also prescribed Turmeric/Curcumin, as it is another powerful natural anti inflammatory. They work almost as well as ibuprofen, as long as I don't walk too much. I can at least get to sleep at night now.

One thing I have noticed is that nothing tastes right anymore (sort of like when I take antibiotics - nothing tastes like it's supposed to). It's not like I taste the tart cherry or turmeric - it comes in gelatin capsules. It could also be due to the fact that I have had to cut down on salt due to the kidney disease. But I don't think that's it, at least not all of it.

Has anyone else taken either of these supplements and noticed a difference in the way your food tastes?

I took Turmeric but didn't notice a difference in tasting food. It helped me but only minimally, but minimally is something when you have bone-on-bone damage. I'm glad I took it. I don't take it anymore, but am glad I did.

I didn't take tart cherry, but I would have tried it if a reliable source would have recommended it.

FYI: I couldn't take ibuprofen and my doctor wasn't going to give me anything stronger. So I relied on OTC Tylenol, Tumeric, canna salves on the knees, lots of veggies, as few carbs as possible, canna oil/edibles to sleep.

Good luck. Bone on bone is no joke.

[Soft*Silver]

I’ve taken turmeric for the pain and it really made a difference that I could notice. I have to be off of it a month and then I’ll go back on it again. You’re not supposed to have long-term usage without breaks.

The tart cherry supplement interests me. I’ve never taken it as a supplement, but I have eaten tart cherries when my pain has been enormous, and they too have helped enough for me to notice. I didn’t even know you could get it and supplement form!

For losing your taste, no I did not notice that happening to me when I was using turmeric. Take a look at your tongue and see if it is a different color than you’re used to or if you tastebuds look different. Your tongue can tell you a lot about your health. If you suspect that there’s any visible to your tongue, please go see the doctor.

[Soft*Silver]

On Friday we had down pouring rain so all my plans were canceled

But Saturday and Sunday I have been working for hours out in the gardens. I’m waking them back up again. I got soil delivered. I don’t put it in my garden beds because I’m just not physically capable of doing that. I have a gardener/handyman that helps me outside. He’ll do that.

But for the past two days, I’ve been raking and weeding and seeding and fertilizing. Used my green House over the winter as a storage area and I’ve been clearing that out and organizing it. It’s almost ready for the seeds to get started. (Had I brought them inside and started them inside, I would’ve done it in March.) I bought a Collapsible garden wagon that I am in love with, and I’ve been hauling things back-and-forth with ease!

How am I feeling? I am sore all over. My lips are chopped and my face has traces of sun all over it. I am really tired and I am assuming that tonight is going to be an early night. But this kind of soreness is a relief from the soreness I feel all winter from not being able to move around. When I don’t move, I get so incredibly sore, the kind of soreness that hurts deep to the bone entrenched in all my muscles. But the soreness I feel today is from movement, which releases all the memory of the pain from the winter, and hardens up my muscles so that we can continue doing this all summer long . It is something I look forward to every year. That has relief associated with it.

[easygoingfemme]

I am feeling relaxed and happy. Happy Monday!

[Soft*Silver]

I’m really a mess of emotions. I’m grieving still over the loss of my last job. I’ve worked with the most destitute people I’ve ever worked with. Criminals drug addict prostitutes. But I came to know them as people learn through life stories, and I felt like I was making a difference in their lives toward the end of their lives. And then I got laid off. I got another job doing the same thing with the same population as in low income elderly. But none of them are as fragile and vulnerable as my last group. To be honest, I’m almost bored.
Yesterday, I saw that the company that I used to work for is hiring. Same position but in a different building but close to the one that I used to work with. Those people are even more destitute. And it pays 70 and $10 more an hour. However, that company is folding. It is in so much legal trouble nationally and it’s being sued for $6.5 billion in a class action suit. Many of the staff are included in that for not providing adequate services. So well, I could go back to , working with the truly indigent and make a lot more money, I have a really 99% chance of being sued along with the company and the company folding and I would be out of a job again.
The company I’m with now has so many benefits and is so polished and professional. Their training and benefits are incredible! But I’m bored!


I don’t know what to do!

[Bèsame*]

Feeling really blessed. Absolutely calm and happy. I'm rolling with the flow.

Done with the dental issues for Mom. We have gone a different route now. This is taking way tooo long. A new dentist!!

Still smiling from yesterday's bbq and conversation with Boss Butch. We always have such a good time! She did a great job with making baby back ribs!

[Gemme]

I’m really a mess of emotions. I’m grieving still over the loss of my last job. I’ve worked with the most destitute people I’ve ever worked with. Criminals drug addict prostitutes. But I came to know them as people learn through life stories, and I felt like I was making a difference in their lives toward the end of their lives. And then I got laid off. I got another job doing the same thing with the same population as in low income elderly. But none of them are as fragile and vulnerable as my last group. To be honest, I’m almost bored.
Yesterday, I saw that the company that I used to work for is hiring. Same position but in a different building but close to the one that I used to work with. Those people are even more destitute. And it pays 70 and $10 more an hour. However, that company is folding. It is in so much legal trouble nationally and it’s being sued for $6.5 billion in a class action suit. Many of the staff are included in that for not providing adequate services. So well, I could go back to , working with the truly indigent and make a lot more money, I have a really 99% chance of being sued along with the company and the company folding and I would be out of a job again.
The company I’m with now has so many benefits and is so polished and professional. Their training and benefits are incredible! But I’m bored!


I don’t know what to do!

Keep the current job and maybe volunteer with the population that brings you fulfillment? I'm sure there are a ton of charitable organizations that could use your experience and help!

[easygoingfemme]

I'm feeling worried about a turtle I encountered yesterday.

I was out on a bike ride along the river and I passed by a fence that was starting to fall down and something really large was at the top of it. As I got closer I saw it was a MASSIVE snapping turtle who was stuck on the fence. It looked like she had been there for a while as her shell was covered in dry mud. And.. literally she had tears coming out of her eyes. Can turtles cry? I watched her for a while trying to figure out what to do. Then another person rode by and saw her and stopped with me. Together we were able to sway the fence back and forth enough that she came un-stuck and rolled onto the ground. She landed on her back but was able to flip over to the right side. We watched her for a few and then went back on our rides. On my way back I saw she was still in the same place but had her head out looking up at the fence so I'm afraid she might have started back up it again. Then I felt horrible that I didn't pour some water on her after getting her off the fence.

So, I will bike back out there later today to see if she's back on the fence or anywhere in sight of the area.

She was magestic. Massive feet and a long prehistoric tail. Her face was so expressive. I hope she's okay. We assumed she was looking for a place to lay eggs.

[nhplowboi]

Feeling pretty good. Trying to talk myself into going to Noho Pride today. Hey it's something to do and it's always fun to watch the Derby in a Noho bar.

[GeorgiaMa'am]

Feeling pretty good. Trying to talk myself into going to Noho Pride today. Hey it's something to do and it's always fun to watch the Derby in a Noho bar.

What is a Noho?

[nhplowboi]

Noho is short for Northampton (Mass). Back in the day that town was the height of Queerdom in Mass..

[Stone-Butch]

I feel great. My brother is feeling better and is coming in Mon. or Tues. and we will go to dinner. I miss him so much but when he is off his oats he does not want company so I am glad he feels better. I bought him a few things I think he will like. I do love to surprise him as he does me often. We will talk about family and good memories and I love it.

[Bèsame*]

Like a little kid when the ice cream truck goes by!

Well, actually, it kinda did. But I hopped in and went to the ice cream stand. Boss butch, came over and picked me up and off we went. Hot fudge sundays and a small cup of ice cream , pup cup, for the dog!

Can I say, life is fun?
I'm so content on how easy breezy things are.

[GeorgiaMa'am]

Feeling pretty well these days! The herbal cures that the pain management doctor gave me seem to be getting up to speed. I've had a few instances where I had to have some ibuprofen, but mostly I'm getting by on herbs.

I had a great time seeing some old friends on Thursday (and I looked terrific - I have photographic evidence). We reminisced and talked about everyone who wasn't there, and promised to do it again soon. Who knows if that will happen? but I hope so. We were a really tight group back in our 20s, and on Thursday night our conversation picked up right where we had left off, as if we had all seen each other the day before.

[Soft*Silver]

Well, I put my back out! Many years ago I had a car accident for the semi and it did damage to my back. I am as recovered as I can be, and unusually Run circles around people. But I really did a number on my back on Friday. I helped them get ready for rummage sale at work.
I thought for sure I’d be better by now, but I’m not. Waiting to hear from my doctor, but she wants me to walk into ER or to her office.

[kittygrrl]

happy
IS6n2Hx9Ykkw perks

[easygoingfemme]

I feel energized, happy, and positive. I've been making a lot of life changes and pieces are falling together in a whole new level of goodness.

[GeorgiaMa'am]

I feel pretty good! I'm catching up on my to-do list. Other people who owe me stuff, like documents, are catching up on their to-do lists and the stuff I need is rolling in. I fell off the weight loss wagon for a short while, but I have now lost and surpassed what I had lost before I fell off. I've been dieting for long enough now that I'm not hungry all the time; the only time I have hunger pangs is right before bed, but I'm getting better at saving some calories to use then. I'm also getting better at eating the right things at night so I don't wake up hungry in the middle of the night. Groceries have been bought and the house is well-stocked. Bills are getting paid, and I have enough to pay them. Ms. Brittany is doing well and we play a lot. My herbs are working and I can now get up and down the stairs once a day without having to spend the next day in bed. I even cooked dinner last night! something I haven't done in at least a month. The Braves suck right now, but eh, what the hell . . .

[Kätzchen]

Well, I guess I had too much fun over my birthday weekend because I have a summer cold (it better not be Covid).

But it’s probably because of all the stress of that sickening person occupying the month of May (WTH!). I feel like he should take his own Covid advice. :blink:

[Bèsame*]

Feeling so blessed to be in such a beautiful part of Paris. I guess with all cities there are going to be ugly parts. As we were driving back from Disney Paris, I saw so much graffiti and just ugly. I was anxious that was what we were headed in to. But, ooo la la, a few turns and twists, this part is absolutely what resembles Paris. Cobblestone streets, balconies filled with flowers and quaint shops. There are fresh food stores, fish, fruits, cheese, chocolates, flowers and meats. I suppose most stop for dinner ingredients on the way home.

It's been lightly raining, so romantic umbrellas all over. We are exploring the neighborhoods. We are so close to the orginal Moulin Rouge theater. And if you walk another half a block..you see all the sex shops!!

Let's just say..this is a wonderful experience!! Smiling that this is a dream come true!

[nhplowboi]

Pretty damn elated!!! The justice system did it's job! I know there will be appeals but just the fact a jury has spoken and made it clear djt is not above the law.

[easygoingfemme]

Pretty damn elated!!! The justice system did it's job! I know there will be appeals but just the fact a jury has spoken and made it clear djt is not above the law.

Same! I couldn't believe when the verdicts started rolling in!

I'm feeling energized.

[Soft*Silver]

I have been swearing ever since I got home from work today and found out that damn stupid fat groundhog ate every one of my beets Down to the Naked stems! Then he continued munching on my bush green beans like he needed a side salad to go with the main course!
Little rat, fat bastard ate the rest of my newly planted, black-eyed Susans again, like he was a dirty mustached Uncle on your dad side, rummaging through the refrigerator and eating all the leftovers!

Tomorrow the little bastard is going to encounter the special groundhog kryptonite spray and pellets that showed up on my doorstep today just in the nick of time. My husband said if that doesn’t work, he’ll buy me an electric cattle prodder. I was all for this until I realized he just wanted to watch me run after the damn groundhog and videotape it…

[cinnamongrrl]

Honestly… tired.

12 hour shifts kick my butt.

However, I’m packing to leave for the Cape. Should’ve done it yesterday but….. meh

[Bèsame*]

Feeling a wee bit sleepy. I'm taking a day to combat jet lag. . I got home late last night after getting in 11.5 flying time in. ✈✈

[nhplowboi]

Sad, upset, uneasy....not sure what to call it. I have decided to replace my old slate roof. Last year I spent $1500 a month in fuel oil to heat this place and I know most of it was going up through the roof. Now.... there is a BIG black walnut tree about 8 to 10 feet away from the house. I have been leaning towards an insulated metal roof that will not work well with the fall bombardment of black walnuts from this tree. I have contacted a person to remove the tree today and am feeling sick about it.

[Kätzchen]

I’m feeling a bit lazy today and will just take care of me by spoiling myself with a nice nap later today but only after I spoil myself with some exercise and swimming at my local gym. I might cook up some yummy food too. Just taking time for me is all that is necessary for today. :stillheart:

[Bèsame*]

Absence does make the heart grow fonder! She was so excited that I came home from vacation.
I saw her Sat at her lunch break.
We worked together on Sun.
Last night we met for burgers and beer. I shared vacation pictures. And tonight, she rode her bike over to see me.


I'm just happy happy! This , what ever we have and heading to, feels soo good. Easy peasy!

[Gemme]

Concerned. 2024 hasn't been kind so far. I hope that the second half of the year will progress more in my favor.

[Chancie]

I’ve been having a terrible time with extremely painful tendonitis. My foot feels much better, but I missed weeks of water aerobics, and I couldn’t bowl for several weeks. I can’t really garden either. It’s been so demoralizing.

[Stone-Butch]

Feeling a little sad. The little one will not be here for her 8th birthday and I have not missed one since she was born but they will go to Turkey for two months and come back for school. Too early to send anything but I can double up Xmas. I hope they all have a safe and happy trip.

[GeorgiaMa'am]

Sore but good. I started physical therapy at a new place this week. All the therapists have been very nice so far (I don't respond well to being berated). They also seem to know what they're doing. I have high hopes that this will help.

[kittygrrl]

She hurt me, i deserved it

[Stone-Butch]

Just spoke to my buddy and she is coming over for the weekend. We will go down to Church St. (better known as Gay Town) and have lunch and check things out. Sounds like a plan to me.

[nhplowboi]

Sad.....it just came across the wires that Willie Mays has passed. Boy have we lost some athletic greats this year!

[ksrainbow]

The wheat harvest of my family owned farm land is/has been taken by natures fury. We never know and always *bet* for a good outcome.

Tonight-our outcome was not a good one.

Ks-

[Stone-Butch]

Feeling super lethargic with this heat and humidity. Just want to drink water.

[Bèsame*]

I'm feeling really good! The pain in my upper abdomen has subsided, I just needed to tweak my diet. Yet, will wait for the x-ray results.

I have two days off, so it's really a weekend for me!

I had dinner with her last night. And as always, great conversation and sincere laughing.

[Soft*Silver]

I had the worst case of leg cramps I’ve ever experienced, last night while I was sitting in my recliner. When they were mostly over, I couldn’t even stand up right. I was bent at the knees, and feared trying to straighten them out because I was terrified of that pain coming back
Today they still hurt. I am wondering where these came from! I’ve been having them for the past couple weeks and I’ve been trying to eliminate the possibilities of their origin. Last night was terrifying and today I’m still reeling.

[Kätzchen]

Cheerfully depressed :tease:

:blink:

[Stone-Butch]

Feeling better now that my brother is home from the hospital and healing well. Hoping there are no complications.

[GeorgiaMa'am]

Feeling a little crispy, since I burned a hole in my shin. Microwave, hot mashed potatoes . . . you can imagine. It's a second degree burn, but smaller than a silver dollar, which is the guideline for seeing the doctor. But, I have an unrelated doctor's appointment tomorrow anyway, so I'm going to get her to look at it.

[Bèsame*]

my heart is full of joy

I just spent a couple of hours volunteering at the summer camp at church. I love having kids around. Tonight, it's a much older version than what I'm used to. I saw bracelets galore, crocks of every style, grown out haircuts on the boys. To see their innocence and their awkwardness. We've all been there.

[GeorgiaMa'am]

Feeling a little crispy, since I burned a hole in my shin. Microwave, hot mashed potatoes . . . you can imagine. It's a second degree burn, but smaller than a silver dollar, which is the guideline for seeing the doctor. But, I have an unrelated doctor's appointment tomorrow anyway, so I'm going to get her to look at it.

Doctor says it looks good, no infection. New skin cells forming. No need for debridement. (Whew!)

Yet, I'm depressed - just finished paying bills for the month. (Sigh.)

[Gemme]

I had the worst case of leg cramps I’ve ever experienced, last night while I was sitting in my recliner. When they were mostly over, I couldn’t even stand up right. I was bent at the knees, and feared trying to straighten them out because I was terrified of that pain coming back
Today they still hurt. I am wondering where these came from! I’ve been having them for the past couple weeks and I’ve been trying to eliminate the possibilities of their origin. Last night was terrifying and today I’m still reeling.

Have you tried any of the following: pickle juice, Gatorade, bananas, extra hydration, stretching, "rolling out" the muscle or a TBS of mustard? Cramps are typically the result of an imbalance of any of the following: potassium, calcium or magnesium so if any or all of them are out of whack, it will be Charlie Horse City.

[Bèsame*]

my heart is full of joy

I just spent a couple of hours volunteering at the summer camp at church. I love having kids around. Tonight, it's a much older version than what I'm used to. I saw bracelets galore, crocks of every style, grown out haircuts on the boys. To see their innocence and their awkwardness. We've all been there.

My joy that night turned in to the biggest sadness ever.

After I got home, I found that my Mom had passed away peacefully in her sleep. I was not prepared to find her that night. My heart is very sad with missing her. She always told me she was going to be hanging out for another 10 years.

It's been awfully quiet here these past days without her. My friends definitely have come thru for me. There are future visits planned and I've had lot and lots of phone calls. My house is full of flowers and my boss butch has been my rock. So happy to have her in my life.

Life will be forever changed without my Mom...I miss you💝

[Stone-Butch]

Besame I am so so very sorry you lost your wonderful mother. I lost mine unexpected also and I was devistated. I can only say I am happy you are with someone who is there to comfort you. The worse thing in this world can happen for many is losing their mother and not a day goes by she is not on my mind. Mothers are so precious and with them gone, a piece of your heart is sure to follow. Try to keep all the wonderful times with her in your mind and you will find a little comfort there. My mom passed in 2005 and to me it is like yesterday. The only comfort is that she was with you and not like many, alone in the world.

[Gemme]

My joy that night turned in to the biggest sadness ever.

After I got home, I found that my Mom had passed away peacefully in her sleep. I was not prepared to find her that night. My heart is very sad with missing her. She always told me she was going to be hanging out for another 10 years.

It's been awfully quiet here these past days without her. My friends definitely have come thru for me. There are future visits planned and I've had lot and lots of phone calls. My house is full of flowers and my boss butch has been my rock. So happy to have her in my life.

Life will be forever changed without my Mom...I miss you💝


I am so, so very sorry. (w)

[Bèsame*]

I'm still very sad. More so today, it's the anniversary of my Dad's death.

There have been some happy moments though..
Yesterday, boss butch took me to the beach.
AndToday, I received more flowers.

....There were tears today as I went back to work.

[Stone-Butch]

Feeling a little better knowing the temp. is going to go down in a couple days to at least a comfy day so I can enjoy the park without burning to death or sufficating. This has to be the hottest most humid summer on record. I will be glad when the fall finally comes and hopefully with improve this weather.

[Stone-Butch]

86F not a breeze humid as all get out. I would like to emerge if possible. Gets depressing unable to go out and about but the park would be intollerable right now. Go shopping, get food, come back. All in air conditioning. Not hot for some folks but killer to cold living folks.

[GeorgiaMa'am]

Most of the time I just stay in the A/C, but today I have to go out: dr. appt., oil change and emissions test. It's supposed to get up to 91*F, which is bad enough, but it's also supposed to rain off and on. High humidity, bad hair day. Oh, and I also have to change my tag. That's just a screwdriver and two bolts, but it might be what does me in.

[easygoingfemme]

Feeling a bit overwhelmed. I'm quite involved in taking care of my elderly parents, mostly my father. Mom is still a spitfire but is nearing 80. My father broke his hip last week, just fell getting up out of his chair. Surgery was successful and today we move him to rehab. I don't see him recovering to a point where he can go home. It's a lot of navigating his health care, insurance, finances, and my mother's emotional load around it all. We will need to sell their house no matter what. She can't keep up with it alone and he can't get around in it anymore. My full time job is at a high with multiple stresses. And it's hot AF.



On the upside, over the winter, I signed up for an adult rowing team and that starts tonight. I'm committed to keeping that self care piece - 4 hours a week. The class tonight is on land teaching the team how to carry boats and other instructions. Then on Thursday evening we hit the river. I'm really looking forward to that.

[Bèsame*]

feeling a little elated, (which good feelings are far and few these days)

I was sent to another location to help with inventory. In fact my third one in two months. They must like me! Lol

Anyway, I met a cute woman. We had a few conversations during our 3 day stint. I think my gaydar was working, but this is not my norm. I gave her my phone number, under the pretense of a work thing.

She smiled and thanked me. And I said...I hope our paths cross again.
She said, I hope so!

Sounds promising and maybe, just maybe, I'll hear from her.

[Soft*Silver]

I’m feeling zapped of Energy. I had Covid and most of the symptoms are all gone and I’m no longer contagious, but it feels like I’m waking up from a long long sleep. Foggy and dizzy and weak. Earlier today I decided that I would walk around my garden just to see it again. I haven’t been out there since this started. I leaned over to grab a vine and I don’t know if I passed out or what, but I ended up face-planting myself in the middle of a grove of nasturtiums. It took me a while to get out.
so I guess I’m not going outside again for a while

[easygoingfemme]

I'm feeling some relief from emotional weight. There have been a number of unresolved matters that are out of my control but weigh on me heavily and they are starting to come together.

[easygoingfemme]

I’m feeling zapped of Energy. I had Covid and most of the symptoms are all gone and I’m no longer contagious, but it feels like I’m waking up from a long long sleep. Foggy and dizzy and weak. Earlier today I decided that I would walk around my garden just to see it again. I haven’t been out there since this started. I leaned over to grab a vine and I don’t know if I passed out or what, but I ended up face-planting myself in the middle of a grove of nasturtiums. It took me a while to get out.
so I guess I’m not going outside again for a while

I'm so sorry to hear this and that's a scary experience in your garden. Are you okay?

[Soft*Silver]

I'm so sorry to hear this and that's a scary experience in your garden. Are you okay?

Yes, very good. I actually went and visited my sister today. Lots of the fog is lifting. I just can’t solve algebraic puzzles yet (never could, so I’m not holding my breath, lol)

[Bèsame*]

Relived. My three 12 hour days are behind me. At the end of the week, I will have worked 51 hours. Wow!

My feet and legs are saying, thank you for the 8 hours today. *sigh* I'll get a full 8 hours of sleep. Yay!

[Soft*Silver]

I'm so sorry to hear this and that's a scary experience in your garden. Are you okay?

Sorry I didn’t answer before. Yes I’m OK. Got a little scratched up in the fall, but I’m OK. I returned to work and worked for days this week and then today I was just so exhausted. There was no way I could go in. It takes a while to come back from Covid.

[Kenna]

Thankful. ..
That I met a dear friend a little more than 14 years ago and where our journey has developed.

That I moved to the Carolinas many years ago because I've met some amazing people and gotten to travel to some incredibly beautiful places.

Thankful that when I was facing soul crushing grief last year, a dear friend never let me down...then stood beside me again this year when I tried to correct some stupid decisions.

Thankful I have a home that allows me to go help close friends.. then how safe that home feels to return to.

Thankful for security, common sense and quiet, cool nights.

Thankful for a certain kind of pain that taught me lessons.

Thankful for kindness and gentleness.

Thankful for compassion.

Thankful that the news I received from a doctor recently wasn't near as bad as it could have been.

[Gemme]

Tired as Hell.

[cinnamongrrl]

I’m pretty excited.

I now work for Yale health care. This requires me to make the trip to New Haven (tomorrow actually) to sign in with security and get a spiffy badge. I’ve decided to make a day of it. Yale has an amazing science museum that I’m going to peruse. Then a coffee shop and hopefully a bookstore followed by a brewery.

I feel a bit nerdy with my itinerary…..but when at Yale…. 😃


And I can officially start saying I went to Yale lol

[ksrainbow]

https://www.npr.org/2024/09/18/nx-s1-5115873/tupperware-bankruptcy

My Mom was a Tupperware believer-
I inherited hers and cherish mine-
So many bowls with out lids -
RIP roof less containers :(

Ks-

[easygoingfemme]

I’m pretty excited.

I now work for Yale health care. This requires me to make the trip to New Haven (tomorrow actually) to sign in with security and get a spiffy badge. I’ve decided to make a day of it. Yale has an amazing science museum that I’m going to peruse. Then a coffee shop and hopefully a bookstore followed by a brewery.

I feel a bit nerdy with my itinerary…..but when at Yale…. 😃


And I can officially start saying I went to Yale lol

How was it? Sounds quite thrilling!

[cinnamongrrl]

How was it? Sounds quite thrilling!

It was really cool! I never heard anything good about New Haven, but I’m happy to report that there are many cool things to do there! I highly recommend!

[GeorgiaMa'am]

https://www.npr.org/2024/09/18/nx-s1-5115873/tupperware-bankruptcy

My Mom was a Tupperware believer-
I inherited hers and cherish mine . . .

Oh no! Tupperware bankruptcy? That's so sad! 50 cents a share! That's devastating! I hope they work out a new good business plan.

I really need a couple of new cereal containers. I better order them soon!

I also inherited Tupperware pieces, some originally from my grandmother. They are that opaque white non-color, and some even have the Tupper "seal" on the lid. They're still hanging in there.

I think I might have some of your lids, ks. Somehow I lose bowls but not the lids.

[GeorgiaMa'am]

I am feeling $384 poorer. The AC unit was fixed today, and I actually feel like I got lucky; the repair technician didn't have the part I needed, so he actually altered a universal part to fit my system. It took him like an hour. And, not once did he try to tell me it was time to get rid of my AC unit and buy a new one.

I realize $384 is almost nothing these days to have a service tech come to your house to fix anything. I don't think it's even possible to get any kind of car repair for under $400.

Still - I wanted that $384 for something else. Oh well.

And thankfully I am COOOOOOOOL again!

[Soft*Silver]

Bored, angry, frustrated, scared, lonely, worried, etc.


I have a thing going on with my left eye. I have a hole in my macula. That means I’m off work for a while. I’m worried about my vision. My partial disability from work hasn’t kicked in and my bills are piling up. I’m tired of being home! I’m so frustrated that I can’t be productive! I’m angry that the doctors aren’t turning the paperwork in on time. I used to yearn to have extra days off. And now I don’t know what to do with myself

[Bèsame*]

Right now I'm feeling 1000% percent better than I have the last 3 days.

Let me tell you, the girl, Hurricane Helene, did not come to play. It was hard to watch it form and see the projected path. I was feeling pretty lucky that we hadn't even come close to any other storm.

That thing just exploded and grew to be ginormous I had a few days to prepare, and two 12 hour shifts in there as well. (I do need sleep in-between, lol)Monday was the preparation. Come Thursday, forecasted paths and time tables. Ok, great, it will be tropical storm for me. That first band that came thru, extreme thunder and lightning. Ok, it got real.

Work on Tuesday, Wed and Thursday was really busy. I tried not to watch weather reports, but talking with customers brought out storm anxiety.

We closed early last night. It was getting closer! My car was shaking from the wind gusts as I drove home. I got home and turned on classic rock on the radio, and turned up the volume. No need to hear every wind gust. Lol As the storm approached , it was running parallel to my coast. The wind getting louder and the rain pounding, very stressful. Anxious for it to hurry and pass. The eye of the storm was over a hundred miles away, yet there was going to be tidal surge. The water didn't effect me, it was the hurricane wind gusts that freaked me out. I never lost power! Yay to having A/C to sleep with. As soon as that eye passed, oh probably like 20 miles north, everything changed. Oh so much calmer, for sure.

Back to work today, and facing customers with them dealing with the aftermath. Our coast took a beating, for sure!!

Now I am at home and have tomorrow off. I'm hoping to have a great night sleep. And after eating chocolate ice cream, life is good right now!!

Feeling relaxed...

[GeorgiaMa'am]

Right now I'm feeling 1000% percent better than I have the last 3 days . . . And after eating chocolate ice cream, life is good right now!!

Feeling relaxed...

Bèsame* I'm so relieved for you! You were on my mind, along with all the BFPers in our corner of the country.

I find that chocolate ice cream cures many things.

[Bèsame*]

Bèsame* I'm so relieved for you! You were on my mind, along with all the BFPers in our corner of the country.

I find that chocolate ice cream cures many things.

I hope the rain that followed, didn't effect you soo bad.

[GeorgiaMa'am]

I hope the rain that followed, didn't effect you soo bad.

I'm fine, my house is fine, the boy is fine, the dog is fine. I don't even have any big limbs down in the yard. I'm much luckier than many. Thanks for asking.

Has anyone heard from clay?

[easygoingfemme]

GeorgiaMa'am and Besame* I'm so glad you're alright!


I'm feeling very thankful that it's the weekend. I have a fundraiser for work this morning but then the day is mine.

[Bèsame*]

I'm fine, my house is fine, the boy is fine, the dog is fine. I don't even have any big limbs down in the yard. I'm much luckier than many. Thanks for asking.

Has anyone heard from clay?

Clay is fine💝
We kept texting back and forth while Helene was making a huge presence . He is my hurricane evacuation place if needed.

[ksrainbow]

My son was here today ( a brief visit ) and we were discussing Helene and how lucky we are living in Kansas. We could never imagine having winds of her strength with drenching rain for hour upon hour! Granted we have our rain storms with winds up to 60 mph with heavy rains-BUT not at the duration you all went through :blink: !

:gimmehug: from Ks-

[GeorgiaMa'am]

I'm feeling down, quite blue actually. I don't know why. I'm staying in bed.

[easygoingfemme]

This has never happened before, but about halfway up the mountain I was climbing yesterday a knot formed in the muscle behind my left shoulder blade. I'm prone to knots there but usually from spending too much time on my computer at work or something like that. Not from hiking. It hurts!

[Soft*Silver]

Relieved! My partial disability was approved and I get my first check next week and I can breathe the sigh, relief and not worry about my bills

[easygoingfemme]

Relieved! My partial disability was approved and I get my first check next week and I can breathe the sigh, relief and not worry about my bills

Oh that has to be such a relief. I'm so glad you got the approval.

[GeorgiaMa'am]

I'm feeling better than I did a few days ago. Now if only I could get some sleep . . .

[GeorgiaMa'am]

Too excited to sleep. I guess I can sleep on the beach . . .

[kittygrrl]

busy...love autumn so much..

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[Kenna]

Profound grief
In multiple layers

[Toolio]

Feeling overwhelmed because I had to move into an assisted living facility at 55.....my roomate is a 90 year old woman that is a paper hoarder.....could be worse I guess....I have a housemate that has dementia too

[Gráinne]

Mixed feelings, as usual. Why can't emotions come one at a time?

I'm going to Illinois on a research trip next week, leaving Sunday. There's so much I should be doing here, and a lot of situations I'm not wanting to leave unresolved. On the other hand, I desperately need some getaway time. A whole week of pouring through records or searching through cemeteries-my idea of heaven! Maybe getting away will give me a better picture of the aforementioned situations so I can think clearly.

[Kätzchen]

I feel ready for the ensuing chaos that will grow stronger each day after Election Day in November. I stand with millions of other Americans uniting behind Kamala Harris.


VOTE BLUE 💙💙💙💙

[Stone-Butch]

Will let you know tomorrow.

[Bèsame*]

Nervous, anxious and stressing.

This Milton is breaking me down. I'm evacuating like I won't have a home to come back to. Packing up my car with clothes and all things sentimental. All my Mom's quilts. The grandfather clock my Dad made. Important papers, photos, pictures off the wall. My Mom's apron and cookbooks.

This isn't looking pretty.

[easygoingfemme]

Nervous, anxious and stressing.

This Milton is breaking me down. I'm evacuating like I won't have a home to come back to. Packing up my car with clothes and all things sentimental. All my Mom's quilts. The grandfather clock my Dad made. Important papers, photos, pictures off the wall. My Mom's apron and cookbooks.

This isn't looking pretty.



I can't imagine. I know you're doing what you can do be safe. Will you be in touch with Clay? Are they an option to go to?

[Stone-Butch]

Well here goes, I had a lunchen set with a woman I met in a chat room. She kept inviting me to have lunch and after a couple of weeks I went. OMG.. I had never had such an unenjoyable lunch in my life. This woman seemed nice in her emails and after a while I decieded to meet her. The first one yet in person . Well I can tell you it was a strain to finish lunch. She was attractive and that was the end of it. She was loud, rude, vulgar and argumentative. I was embarrased as this is where my brother and I usually lunch. Beauiful halibut lunch spoiled by this awkward woman. SO I went to the room, withdrew my membership and hoped she would not contact my email again. So far so good. This was only yesterday and I am still reeling from spending valuable time on this woman. Knowing what I have seen I would not take her to a dog fight after this and would hope she feels the same. Sorry for the run-on but my day is not happy.

[Stone-Butch]

Sometimes things have to go wrong so that there can be a right.

[Soft*Silver]

Starting to get a little nervous. Monday morning early I have to go for an MRI on my brain.

[easygoingfemme]

Starting to get a little nervous. Monday morning early I have to go for an MRI on my brain.

I hope you are able to pass through the weekend without too much built up worry and that Monday goes well all around.

[easygoingfemme]

I'm tired after a very long work week and busy night on-call last night. However, I'm excited to go get my nephews shortly to take them to Fright Night at 6 flags. We were supposed to go tomorrow evening when it is more scary but that is getting rained out. So we get the daytime version today. It will be fun. And chaotic. My youngest nephew has autism/add/adhd so I expect it will be pretty overstimulating but we shall see. This is what they are begging to do, so, we do!

[GeorgiaMa'am]

I am a little worried about my injured toe. I wore flip flops too long on vacation and my toe got a wound rubbed into it. It seems to be getting worse, not better. Out of overprecaution, I'm going to urgent care tomorrow.

Also, I'm feeling sore because I slipped and fell in the shower. A few bruises, but everything seems okay.

[Kätzchen]

https://i.etsystatic.com/41057121/r/il/8b629f/5397501258/il_794xN.5397501258_j01l.jpg

[kittygrrl]

Starting to get a little nervous. Monday morning early I have to go for an MRI on my brain.

how was your MRI?

[easygoingfemme]

I'm feeling a defeated.

My father is making some very poor decisions about his health and safety and there's nothing I can do to stop him. He plans to vacate his assisted living facility and come home. This won't end well. He will break something else and be back in the hospital and then probably a nursing home instead of the nice assisted living facility he has now that I worked my ass off to get him into just months ago. It will be a logistical nightmare and I just hope my mom doesn't have a stroke riding it out.

I was supposed to go stay with good friends downstate this weekend but things are too unsettled to feel right going. Then we got the news this afternoon that Phil Lesh died today. We all know each other from touring with Grateful Dead and it's a sad blow. The party that was slated for tomorrow has taken a different tune. My best friend is hosting and she's devastated and normally I'd jump in the car and fly out to her to help but I can't because I have to stay close to home and she's about a 3 hour drive.

The shining star is I already had tickets to take my elder nephew, daughter, and daughter's partner to see Rocky Horror Picture show tonight and it will be my nephew's first experience with it. I think he will love it.

[Stone-Butch]

Quite down. Already thinking of another Xmas alone. My brother will visit but that is not a partner. I am fed up.

[Soft*Silver]

how was your MRI?

MRI was good. There were a few white spots in the gray matter that they’re going to watch. Usually very early indication of memory loss/dementia forming, but the doctor said that many people who undergo extreme stress and trauma, end up with these kind of white spots. I wish I could explain this with medical terms, but I can’t remember them. Lol

[Soft*Silver]

So I had my follow up appointment regarding the macular hole in my left eye. They were giving it time to try to heal on its own, but unfortunately, it actually doubled In size. So I’m having macular surgery on November 25. The good news is that I’m able to return to work now until my surgery date and then I’ll be off for another two weeks while I recover.
It really sucks getting older. I am so young in my head, but my body says otherwise. Yesterday I spent all day washing and bleaching every pot and tray in my greenhouse. I planted fall bulbs. I dug up and moved some blueberry bushes. And I composted a bunch of stuff. And I thought I had taken it easy because in my younger years that would’ve been a couple hours worth of work and I would’ve probably done several more hours. But Instead, I ended up with very sore muscles and so exhausted that I couldn’t stand up in the shower! How the hell did I get here lol
But I still run circles around most people, my age. I’m really active for somebody who is 67. I’ve had some major health issues and gotten into some really bad accidents that laid me up for a while, but I still kick butt! In my head, I’m young.
Sometimes I sit and meditate and go back in time and remember when my skin was tight and my eyes were brown And my hair was curly and chocolate and auburn. I remember I never burned in the sun. I just grew darker. And I had the strongest thighs, from riding horses bareback sunup to sundown. I remember how rounded my breasts were and that without a bra, they stood up and smiled at everyone who passed them by. My lips were full, and my smile carried kisses for those I loved. My body never hurt. I could work on the farm and work full-time at a job! I would work up a good sweat, and today, I sweat whenever I work at all!!!
I love this body of mine even though it is aging. It holds so many memories. It has done so much in the world. Life was a good ride…

[kittygrrl]

Yesterday I spent I’m young.
Sometimes I sit and meditate and go back in time and remember when my skin was tight and my eyes were brown And my hair was curly and chocolate and auburn. I remember I never burned in the sun. I just grew darker. And I had the strongest thighs, from riding horses bareback sunup to sundown. I remember how rounded my breasts were and that without a bra, they stood up and smiled at everyone who passed them by. My lips were full, and my smile carried kisses for those I loved. My body never hurt. I could work on the farm and work full-time at a job! I would work up a good sweat, and today, I sweat whenever I work at all!!!
I love this body of mine even though it is aging. It holds so many memories. It has done so much in the world. Life was a good ride…

your words make a beautiful poetry Soft, thank you

[GeorgiaMa'am]

I feel relieved, because I voted early.

[Bèsame*]

It's a new day and the last day of vacation.

I'm here to say, I survived the ER yesterday. I took a nasty fall smack on the side of my face. For sure I need to see the dentist when I get home, but after a CT scan, there is no concussion. Just a lovely bruise colored bump. Luckily under my bangs.
So we all know that quick move to get to the bathroom cause it's not gonna wait ..well, be careful. I've learned my lesson.

Football starts earlier here!! Quick run to See's and Tjmx.

[GeorgiaMa'am]

I feel pretty good. I just woke up not long ago, and I went outside for awhile. It's cool and breezy and definitely feels like autumn. Brittany loved running around in the leaves. Unfortunately, she eats them if I don't watch her, and then she spends a day being sick. But she left them alone today, at least out of her mouth. It's overcast outside, and looks like it rained a little earlier. Long past time I got out my sweats and sweaters and flannel shirts.

[easygoingfemme]

I'm feeling rage. My emotions have been so high this morning. I had to drive around before work because I was angry crying but then I got to work and everyone else was angry crying and in disbelief.

We set up a smashing station on the property, away from the building. We brought out old plates and computers that don't work anymore and have been going out and breaking things, smashing, shattering glass. As we started cleaning up, we thought that we could make art of this. I'm going to get some vulva molds. We will fill them with epoxy and smashed glass and call it "Grab this"

All of the staff and clients (clients are all women, recovering from being homeless, many are not citizens, most came here fleeing domestic violence and trafficking) are stunned. I just don't know what to do with this reality.

Watching this happen last night, sitting with my non-binary child and their trans partner... was terrifying. Waking up to this nightmare... just... wtf.

[GeorgiaMa'am]

Feeling like I want to fly low and stay under the radar. Stay in bed with my head under the covers. Not spend any money and save as much as possible.

But that's exactly what I can't do. I know there's too much work to be done now. Helping people who need it. Fighting for trans rights and women's reproductive health. Fighting to keep the rights we have won. Propaganda protest art. Protesting. Kicking the Democratic party into fixing itself, or starting a new centrist independent party. Electing non-Republicans at the local level. Running for local office.

It's overwhelming, the amount of work there is to do now. And I'm old, or getting there - we'll have to depend on Gen-Z for a lot of this. We'll have to support them as best we can. It's their world now. But it's still my world too, and I'm responsible for doing my part.

But just for today, I'm staying in bed. And tomorrow I have to get up and do something.

[Gayandgray]

Well my spouse is coming home on hospice today. I’m feeling so many emotions right now. This has been a long, wild ride together and I’ve enjoyed and cherished every minute of it. I don’t know how I’m gonna cope without her. I don’t even want to think about it. I do have support which I’m so grateful for. But I’m dying inside. Getting old sucks!

[easygoingfemme]

Gayandgray, I am so very sorry to hear this. My heart is with you both. I'm glad you have support but this is heartbreaking. I'll keep an eye out for when you're able to check in here.

[Stone-Butch]

Feeling really good. My brother came and stayed the weekend and we had a delicious fish supper, watch some tv I had saved for him and chatted a lot as we always do about family. He is so easy going it is a pleasure to spend time with him. I would't trade him in even if I could LOL.

[GeorgiaMa'am]

Starting to feel a little Christmas-y. The tree is up and decorated. I made the arrangements for my family's Christmas dinner at a restaurant. I started my Christmas card list. I did a little shopping. Nothing too strenuous or involved (okay, I never took the Christmas tree down after last year, so the only difference is now we turn the lights on).

Time for Hallmark Christmas movies and my standard yearly faves:
- The Nightmare Before Christmas - singalong!
- It's a Wonderful Life - B&W, I go old school
- Auntie Mame - the Rosalind Russell one, not the one with Lucille Ball

Time to listen to the holiday playlists and drink hot chocolate. Time to wish for snow (I don't think Brittany has ever seen snow - I wonder if she would like it?). Time to get out my sweaters and party dresses. Time to share joy and love and kindness and good feelings.

Yeah, I'm feeling it.

[Bèsame*]

I'm so in shock. Again, how did this happen??
I took my sweet painful self to the ER yesterday afternoon. Test after test. I was in So much abdominal pain. Possible blood clot in my lung. That got ruled out. Extra elevated white blood cells. That pointed to infected gallstones. It hurts to breathe. Very uncomfortable. Well, I kinda thought I might be admitted and got my cats ready. I had a very uncomfortable night with morphine and Percocet. I had laparoscopy surgery this morning to remove my gallbladder. Let me tell you 3 small incisions later, instant relief! Oh my gawd, what a different from 12 hours earlier. I. Had. Surgery. Unbelievable.

I've been trying sleep but no rest for the patient. I've aced physical therapy. My demeanor is 100% better! I was so hungry I ate hospital lunch of sliced turkey and sweet potatoes. I've had one visitor and another is on her way.

I'm still in shock over the last 24 hours. I'm just saying, I think I've had enough of this stress nonsense. When will I catch a break??

I think I'll be going home tomorrow.

What a 48 hours!

[Stone-Butch]

Take care of you and get well soon Besame.

[GeorgiaMa'am]

I had my gallbladder out a few years ago, and it was just as you described. It's good to go ahead and get it out because, as I'm sure they told you, unless it is out you just keep having those attacks over and over. Feel better soon!

(One thing that really helped me during recovery was an ice pack. If you have some soreness or aching, grab a pack of frozen peas.)

[clay]

I'm so in shock. Again, how did this happen??
I took my sweet painful self to the ER yesterday afternoon. Test after test. I was in So much abdominal pain. Possible blood clot in my lung. That got ruled out. Extra elevated white blood cells. That pointed to infected gallstones. It hurts to breathe. Very uncomfortable. Well, I kinda thought I might be admitted and got my cats ready. I had a very uncomfortable night with morphine and Percocet. I had laparoscopy surgery this morning to remove my gallbladder. Let me tell you 3 small incisions later, instant relief! Oh my gawd, what a different from 12 hours earlier. I. Had. Surgery. Unbelievable.

I've been trying sleep but no rest for the patient. I've aced physical therapy. My demeanor is 100% better! I was so hungry I ate hospital lunch of sliced turkey and sweet potatoes. I've had one visitor and another is on her way.

I'm still in shock over the last 24 hours. I'm just saying, I think I've had enough of this stress nonsense. When will I catch a break??

I think I'll be going home tomorrow.

What a 48 hours!

Hey Shell, call us if you need anything!

[Bèsame*]

It's been 5 days since surgery. I'm sore, but getting around more. I tried sleeping in my bed last night, and it was a fail. Lol. The couch keeps me pretty much in a stable position, the bed, allowed me to stretch out more. Well, ouch! I have this incision right at my belly button. That area is swollen and bruising in color. I'm left to wearing lounge (sleeping) pants.

I used an ice pack one night that ended up leaking. I had a dish towel to catch it. It was too wet, I put it on the coffee table next to me. And of course, it still continues to leak. All over the hospital papers! Rolling my eyes...what else can happen??
I dried them out and then ironed them flat.

Can I catch a break??

[easygoingfemme]

Bèsame*, I hope you turn the corner to feeling much better soon.

I'm feeling... exhausted. Am I alone in this? Between the politics and the weather and lack of sun... I want to like crawl into a cave for a week or a month or more.

[Bèsame*]

Feeling in the holiday mood. And it's really early than usual.

Today the temp dropped and I'm a little chilly. I'm wearing red plaid flannel sleeping pants, a red long sleeve v neck tee. I pulled a comforter off my Mom's quilt rack. It's a Christmas one!

I was burning balsam fir wax melts earlier.

I'm excited, yet unsure how the Holidays will play out this year.

Oh yeah, Christmas movie channel every night.

[easygoingfemme]

I'm feeling rejuvenated after a much needed afternoon with good friends. We met up in Woodstock. I spent my lunch money on art and essential oils before we even got to the restaurant we were going to. It was a treat myself kind of day. I had an amazing tempeh reuben sandwich. We've all been going through it so we toasted with various mimosas, bloody mary's and a little whiskey for me. We took up space for three hours talking about everything and tipped very well for the time. Then we wandered town and stopped at many small businesses. I picked up a sage and lavender smudge stick and will go smudge the house I'm buying shortly.

[Soft*Silver]

Nervous. Today I’m having my eye surgery.

[GeorgiaMa'am]

Really satisfied. I just finished today's Christmas gift shopping, and I'm almost done altogether. I still need to make a trip to the liquor store, but after that I'll be done.

I was afraid I would not be happy with this year's gift giving, because my family decided to do a white elephant gift exchange. That cut way down on the number of gifts I had to buy. But I am really pleased with the gifts I have purchased, and I think the recipients will be pleased, too. I'm also happy at the extra $ in my bank account.

I have done remarkably well in not buying myself a bunch of stuff, too. Maybe it's because I have spent less time looking at sales.

[easygoingfemme]

Nervous. Today I’m having my eye surgery.

How did it go? I hope you're doing well.

[Stone-Butch]

Feeling low. My best bud has got herself hitched up do cancel ny. All my friends have significant others and I refuse to be a third wheel. Goodbye Xmas and New Years..........Bah humbug.

[Bèsame*]

Family memories....we always had a good time

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[Soft*Silver]

My eye surgery went well, but it took twice as long because they found eight tears and detachments in my retina that they had to fix as well as the hole in my macula. I can’t see anything out of my left eye other than color. Vague shapes. I’ve been laying face down 24 seven. Except for Thanksgiving dinner. They did say I could sit up to enjoy the family dinner, but now back to face down. However, now I’m able to sit up more! ButI’m worried about the outcome of the surgery. I really can’t imagine how my eye is going to come back into focus

[easygoingfemme]

My eye surgery went well, but it took twice as long because they found eight tears and detachments in my retina that they had to fix as well as the hole in my macula. I can’t see anything out of my left eye other than color. Vague shapes. I’ve been laying face down 24 seven. Except for Thanksgiving dinner. They did say I could sit up to enjoy the family dinner, but now back to face down. However, now I’m able to sit up more! ButI’m worried about the outcome of the surgery. I really can’t imagine how my eye is going to come back into focus

That sounds awful. Are you able to listen to audio books or something? I hope everything turns out back in full focus.

[kittygrrl]

[QUOTE=Soft*Silver;1299658]My eye surgery went well, but it took twice as long because they found eight tears and detachments in my retina that they had to fix as well as the hole in my macula. I can’t see anything out of my left eye other than color. Vague shapes. I’ve been laying face down 24 seven. Except for Thanksgiving dinner. They did say I could sit up to enjoy the family dinner, but now back to face down. However, now I’m able to sit up more! ButI’m worried about the outcome of the surgery. I really can’t imagine how my eye is going to come back into focuss/QUOTE]

Dear Soft Silver, Im sending the best blessings and thoughts towards your complete recovery ..take care, be hopeful :rrose:

[Kenna]

Kinda scared...as this will be my first full day alone after major spine surgery. I hope the pups behave.

[Soft*Silver]

I’m heading to the emergency room. I fullybelieve I have pneumonia. My granddaughter had it and then my husband had it. I’d start coughing three days before my eye surgery but it wasn’t wicked until this weekend. I’m worried about the pressure It’s putting on my eye when I cough. A round of antibiotics and a steroid shot will get me going well again.

Still can’t see anything but forms out my left eye. I got back to the surgeon on Wednesday. I’ve ever so grateful this happened in the winter when I didn’t have gardening stuff to do!

[Soft*Silver]

Sigh…. Not pneumonia. Being checked for pulmonary embolism.

[Stone-Butch]

In the last days I have left in my chat room I was speaking to a woman for a little while and heard nothing for about a week so I emailed and enquired if she did not wish to keep communication going and she answered me by saying I was RUDE.. first time in over 60 yrs I have been called rude and NEEDY. OMG, I am feeling sick to think someone things I am rude and needy, wanting attention. I told her to have a nice Xmas and a good week. End of story. TY for listening.

[Bèsame*]

In the last days I have left in my chat room I was speaking to a woman for a little while and heard nothing for about a week so I emailed and enquired if she did not wish to keep communication going and she answered me by saying I was RUDE.. first time in over 60 yrs I have been called rude and NEEDY. OMG, I am feeling sick to think someone things I am rude and needy, wanting attention. I told her to have a nice Xmas and a good week. End of story. TY for listening.

Stone, from what I know about you from here, you seem very kind and considerate. You will come across others who are just mean and hurtful. Her grace was not showing by using those words towards you! You keep doing you and continue to watch out for red flags.

[Kätzchen]

I’ve been, I guess, suffering from heartbreak in my life. I’ve come down super sick today and cancelled my doctor visits and my class at the gym… I’m staying home and taking care of me. I’ve got some leftover roasted turkey and some vegetables, so home made soup will simmer on the stove today.

*achoooo*

(I need Puffs tissues with lotion, please and thank you)

* cough cough*

[GeorgiaMa'am]

*achoooo*

(I need Puffs tissues with lotion, please and thank you)

* cough cough*

Puffs with lotion are the best for frequent blowers. I order them by the case from Amazon.

I'm sorry you're feeling poorly. Hopefully the turkey veg soup will help. Take care.

[Stone-Butch]

Besame* ty for your kind words. I try to be upright and honest and I certainly never intend to hurt anyone. True, I am Stone but not my heart. I find walking away and biting your tongue is the best way to handle people like that and not give them the satisfaction of an ongoing nonsensical disagreement. Not in my forte. I ty again and appreciate your input. Will you be my girl friend? LOL Oh no, I was rude, sorry. Kidding here, forgive me for needing a chuckle. NOW I am feeling much better.

[easygoingfemme]

In the last days I have left in my chat room I was speaking to a woman for a little while and heard nothing for about a week so I emailed and enquired if she did not wish to keep communication going and she answered me by saying I was RUDE.. first time in over 60 yrs I have been called rude and NEEDY. OMG, I am feeling sick to think someone things I am rude and needy, wanting attention. I told her to have a nice Xmas and a good week. End of story. TY for listening.

I've talked to rude and needy people before and they certainly would not have waited a week before checking in if I had gone silent. I'm sorry you had this experience. It doesn't seem she's a good read of character, so, yup. Hope she has a good week.

[Kenna]

Sore, exhausted but thankful

[Stone-Butch]

Well, I went to see Santa today and he asked me "ho ho ho what do you want for Xmas" so, quietly I whispered in his ear. Santa said "ho ho ho, well you aren't gonna get it"!

This is how I feel.

[iamkeri1]

Oh No, Stone,
Cut by Santa, the deepest cut of all.
Whatever it is you want, I hope you get, whether Santa comes through or not.
Bad Santa!
Smooches,
Keri

[GeorgiaMa'am]

Like I'm forgetting something important, but I can't think what it is. I have consulted my calendar to no avail.

[GeorgiaMa'am]

Bummed out. I was supposed to go to our local LGBTQ group meet and greet today, and I completely forgot it. I slept in and woke up at 3pm, the time when it was supposed to start. I had my whole outfit planned, including a new shirt I bought just for the occasion: it says "LIVE LIFE LIKE A BOOK FLORIDA WOULD BAN" in rainbow Pride colors. I guess I will just have to wear it to our local LGBTQ coffee shop. Hopefully, the local group will meet again soon. I really want to get to know these people.

[easygoingfemme]

I'm not feeling great. Definitely coming down with something. Bah. I really don't want to go in to work. Alas, I'm looking for something comfortable to wear and gearing up for the tasks ahead. I have a two hour mandatory training on how to conduct performance evaluations on staff. On zoom. Cameras on. Please everyone, send me your best "stay awake" vibes.

[Kenna]

How does my best friend say it?... Happy as a puppy with two tails.

[Kätzchen]

I’m feeling better since last week when I came down with some viral illness, for which I am grateful. But I have lingering sadness and that’s okay, really. When certain people in your family or life pass on (death) or you lose someone you thought you’d never lose (death of a relationship), it’s a challenging task to not cave into feelings of despair and lose hope or sight of better things that might come and help you to feel better. ❤️‍🩹

I’m keeping it simple: one day at a time. Moment by moment, if necessary.

[theoddz]

I'm a bit sad today, after learning that the last of my Chinese Aunties (Dad's side of the family) passed away this past Sunday morning. Auntie Julie was 102 years old and lived to be older than any of Dad's 6 siblings or any of their spouses.

I remember Mother telling me that Auntie Julie had been a runner up in one of the Miss Hawaii pagents, back in the day, and she was certainly a fine looking lady, even well up into her last years. She was an incredibly kind and good natured woman, too, and I'll always remember what a kind smile she had.

Unfortunately, Dear Wife and I won't be able to fly back to Hawaii for Auntie Julie's funeral, but we will be sending our condolences in the form of flowers, a sympathy card and a monetary gift to our cousins.

~Theo~ :bouquet:

[Bèsame*]

Actually feeling rather accomplished. I had 4 MRI'S this afternoon. Cranium and thoraic area. 40 min each. I'm not claustrophobic but I was wondering if I could do that. Well I did.

4 more on Friday..there has to be a 48 hour resting period between dies. (Contrast)

I'll be waiting for answers.....

[kittygrrl]

timeDCkJ5lGPqFsisn't on

my side...

decaf

[Soft*Silver]

I am feeling ecstatic! I went to my eye surgeon today, and he said that my eye has healed perfectly! I have the same surgery on the other eye two years ago, and I have scarring in it that I will never be able to get rid of. So I was extremely worried That this eye would end up with scarring as well. But not to worry because there is none!
And by pneumonia is going away! They thought I had blood clots, but then they determined it was pneumonia. And the new stronger medication is working!
I can breathe a sigh of relief! I can actually go back to work again! And Christmas will not be ruined!

[Gayandgray]

They don’t think my spouse, my husbutch,the love of my life is going to make it till Christmas. I’m dying inside. This is the absolute hardest thing I have ever done, watching her fade away like this.

[GeorgiaMa'am]

I am basking in the glow of another family holiday over, and well done. Everyone was in a good mood and talkative. The toddler and tween behaved well. The white elephant gift exchange was enjoyed by all, and people understood my jokes. The food was not great (I will be leaving a Yelp review) but it was okay. The drinks were flowing and they were reasonably priced and tasty. I've always thought if my family drank, the holidays would go down more easily, and I was proven right. (The older generation were teetotalers, my generation was cautious, but the younger generation drinks openly, so now my generation does too.)

My drink was called a Vampire Barbie - it was bright pink and had edible glitter with fruit. It was also delicious.

I'm so glad it's over! for another year. So in addition to glowing, I'm relieved.

[cinnamongrrl]

Trepidatious AF

So I did a thing…..

I saw a dog in dire need of rescue. He was set to be euthanized on Monday. I saw him late Saturday, started making calls Sunday. Long story short, no one wanted him because of his medical conditions ( severe dermatitis, alopecia, HW +, malnourished etc) He didn’t have a chance in hell of rescue. And he was not adoptable. He had to be pulled by a rescue. So I made calls and found a rescue.

Cliff notes version: he’s out (yay!!) but now he’s having breathing issues and is spending the night at the vet in Houston.

I feel soooo helpless just waiting for news. He’s getting an X-ray tonight. Hopefully the HW isn’t so progressed that it’s causing CHF. Time will tell.

I almost bought him toys at the store tonight. But I don’t even dare to name him.

[GeorgiaMa'am]

Sad. Tired. Disengaged. Hungry. I don't know why. I suspect my antidepressants aren't working any more.

[Kätzchen]

I’ve been trying to not let my feelings have the ‘upper hand’ in my daily life life. Sometimes I feel outrage for those who elected to choose a felon and his uncouth billionaire buddies to occupy offices better equipped with professionals who know how to run the ‘show’. Then I’m also super concerned and fucking scared for those of us who aren’t billionaires. Truly a WTFH moment, if ever there was one before, which I’m sure there has been before. Ages ago, the last time a megalomaniac was elected to power.

I won’t be long before the apocalypse ruins the world as we used to know it.

But I feel like a made a good choice to buy certain things before the punishing tactics of the insane takes over the world and brings it all crashing down.

At least, there is that.

[GeorgiaMa'am]

Pretty well. I had two caffeinated drinks today, and that always makes a difference in my mood. Hopefully, I won't have any trouble getting to sleep tonight.

Also, I got a sweet Christmas card from a friend today. It really made my day.

[cinnamongrrl]

Pupdate!

His X-ray was not great; it showed an enlarged heart and fluid in his lungs. The vet couldn’t tell if it was a bad cold, advanced HW or cancer.
He did say he thought Bowser ( his shelter name) is younger than his intake states. He says he remains in good spirits despite his obvious discomfort.

Two days post iv antibiotics, various topicals and oral steroids, his foster has reported that he is breathing better, walking easily and even wags his tail and plays with her other dogs. He also appears to be cat friendly.

Nothing is 100% certain. It will take months before we know the extent of the HW damage. But he seems to have a lot of fight. And a huge appreciation for
The love he is now showered with.

I’m thinking of calling him Sam…


Trepidatious AF

So I did a thing…..

I saw a dog in dire need of rescue. He was set to be euthanized on Monday. I saw him late Saturday, started making calls Sunday. Long story short, no one wanted him because of his medical conditions ( severe dermatitis, alopecia, HW +, malnourished etc) He didn’t have a chance in hell of rescue. And he was not adoptable. He had to be pulled by a rescue. So I made calls and found a rescue.

Cliff notes version: he’s out (yay!!) but now he’s having breathing issues and is spending the night at the vet in Houston.

I feel soooo helpless just waiting for news. He’s getting an X-ray tonight. Hopefully the HW isn’t so progressed that it’s causing CHF. Time will tell.

I almost bought him toys at the store tonight. But I don’t even dare to name him.

[GeorgiaMa'am]

I woke up really early this morning and crying. I had been dreaming and was missing my Mom.

I was also mad at my sister. I gave her a very simple list of things I wanted from our Mom's house. It has been over a year and she has still not delivered. It's not like I asked for a lot of expensive stuff. I asked for some sentimental stuff, and a few practical things, and I told her exactly where to find most of it. My sister has brought me some of it, but also some stuff I didn't even ask for and surely did not want. (I'm looking at you, painting of an Amish couple with "Welcome to the (last name) home" on it, currently in a trash box.)

I couldn't stop crying, so I got up and ordered an All Star special from the Waffle House that delivers. As I suspected, a pecan waffle made me feel better.

I will have to think of a way to light a fire under my sister. All she thinks about these days is her grandbaby and the next one on the way.

[easygoingfemme]

Cinn, I'm rooting for Bowser/Sam! I knew a Bowser (he passed a few years ago) he was a Basset Hound and was the sweetest.

I'm feeling calm. Two days off of work and not an overloaded agenda.

[cinnamongrrl]

Completely drained. Been a whirlwind.

The move. Seeing the post Helene devastation first hand. Just trying to find some normalcy and homeostasis.

And now I must drive to Houston…that will actually feel relaxing by comparison!

[GeorgiaMa'am]

Calm and rested. I had some things to do today, but nothing onerous. Everything is ready for tomorrow. I will get to bed early and am looking forward to a delicious Christmas stollen for breakfast that a friend made for me. I'm looking forward to opening presents, and more importantly to me, watching the boy open his presents. I'm looking forward to eating cookies from my grandmother's recipe - they are traditional every Christmas with us. And I will eat as many as I want and not care one little bit. :)

[easygoingfemme]

I'm feeling good. The November/December holiday run, for my primary circle, has completed. Tonight was cooking dinner for my parents with my kiddo and their partner, while listening to good dance music from the 50s and dancing while cooking. There was makeshift swing dancing, while cooking salmon, roasting broccoli, and mashing potatoes. Everyone ate well and then we played a few hands of cards. Now, almost 7pm, My father is safe back at assisted living, mom has a drink and is watching her shows, the kids are home, and I'm getting ready to get back to work early tomorrow morning. Win win win.

[GeorgiaMa'am]

Happy and full. The day was full of presents, food, naps and TV. We watched Miracle on 34th Street (the one with Maureen O'Hara, who people used to say I looked like when I was younger and my hair was red) while we ate dinner. I forgot to make the cherry cobbler, but after dinner we were so stuffed we didn't care. There are plenty of sweets around here anyway. I also forgot to open the wine, but since I'm the only one who drinks it, and I'm plenty happy now anyway, it doesn't matter. Life is good. Merry Christmas to everyone!

[GeorgiaMa'am]

Awake. It's 3:30 am and I can't sleep. This is supposed to happen on Christmas Eve, not Christmas night! Maybe I should have opened that bottle of wine after all . . .

[cinnamongrrl]

Tired but happy….

[GeorgiaMa'am]

I've been feeling a little down since Christmas. I was feeling kind of guilty about it too, since I had such a good Christmas with friends and family around.

But then I heard a story on NPR about how it is not unusual for some people to get depressed between Christmas and New Year's. People have been running around (sometimes for months), busy, eating treats, seeing friends, and celebrating in general. Now that it's okay to rest, because everything is more or less done, it's hard to change into "relax mode".

This made me feel a little better. And now I'm up for New Year's Eve and the Rose Parade tomorrow and the UGA/Notre Dame game. Tomorrow afternoon I will take a long nap.

[Stone-Butch]

I feel like saying HAPPY NEW YEAR TO ALL in this fine butchfemmeplanet !!!!

[GeorgiaMa'am]

Not so great. The crazy terrorists in New Orleans and Las Vegas have really got me down - those poor dead people and their families and friends. My sister has friends who were planning to go to the French Quarter that night, but decided at the last minute to stay in Meridien and go to the Sugar Bowl the next day. Last I heard they were still trying to decide whether to wait an extra day and go to the game, or just safely head back home. Either way, they are fine. But it could so easily have gone a different way. My sister and her husband could easily have decided to go with them. It's too close, just too close.

[Orema]

Not too good physically. I'm losing weight and on the most part it's going well, but it's been rough these last couple days. The crazy fatique started when I reduced my water intake. Guess I shouldn't have done that. I'm hoping some electrolytes will help out to get me back into the swing. If not, I'll call my doctor and see what they recommend.

On the good side, I'm thrilled that the former First Lady, Michelle Obama, has delined her invitation to President-elect Trump's inauguration without explantion. I love that she's not showing up for her man, her President, nor her country. I'm here for this.

[GeorgiaMa'am]

I'm excited! My family has a new member - a baby boy. My niece delivered him today at about 12:30 pm. She was showing signs of pre-eclampsia, so they induced her about a month early. But the baby is totally fine, his lungs are fully developed, he doesn't even have to spend any time in NICU. My niece is also totally fine. No pics yet (why doesn't somebody just snap a pic of the kid? it's been hours!) but hopefully soon.

[easygoingfemme]

I'm wiped out.



Work has been very high-stress.
I'm in the stretch of home buying that is very stressful.
We got the results of my father's MRI yesterday and it showed signs of a stroke and moderate shrinkage of the brain. He hardly talks anymore. It's so hard to know what he's thinking.
I'm not sleeping well at all.

[GeorgiaMa'am]

I'm feeling very accomplished and secure. My pantry, fridge and freezer are straightened out, and I have bought groceries to fill in the gaps. I've got menu plans for the next week or so, and food for the next couple of weeks. My staples are full. My emergency backup shelf-stable food is full. There is plenty of chocolate in the house. All is well.

[easygoingfemme]

I'm feeling nostalgic. As I prepare to buy the house that my great great grandparents built, my mother found her father's diary of his upkeep of the house. I spent today spot sanding the floors and re-finishing them while thinking of all of my family who has walked those floors. Great Great Grandparents, Great grandparents, grandparents, my parents, my mother's cousins, my brother, my daughter, so many friends and extended family. I never met my maternal grandfather, he died young. But his diary of the house is... priceless. Every renovation, every purchase, down to every pound of nails, was detailed. He detailed every guest who came for any holiday, the day my mother moved from her nursery to her big room (she was 12!) It's a profound history to have. Nothing was taken for granted and everything was worked for, earned, paid off, and appreciated.

My Grandfather called my Grandmother "Spooky". We don't know why that was his pet name for her. I think it's because she was quiet and could easily "sneak up" on people when she was just being herself. I wish we knew the story for sure though.

The floors I'm finishing will never be perfect or pristine. I hope I never need to replace them. There's a lot of history in that wear and tear.

[GeorgiaMa'am]

Disheartened. There are so many repairs that need to be made around my house, and today there's a new one - the right side railing of my stairs broke. The left one was already broken. And I really need those rails to get up and down the stairs.

I have several other minor repairs that need to be done, too, and I just can't afford to keep up with them all right now. In my younger days, I could have done most of them myself, and what really gets to me is now I'll have to pay someone an arm and a leg to do them.

It's really depressing and kind of embarrassing that I can't take care of all this myself, right away. But at least over the next few months I should be able to get some things fixed, at least the most important things.

[Kätzchen]

Not too good. Just heard that Carlos Santana is in agreement with Dave Chappelle when it comes to us.

I am so over these old-ass, tired-ass, not-as-good-as-they-think-they-are, used-to-be celebrities and their poisonous thoughts on us.

And there is NO ONE, not one single person out there to counter this thinking. It burns me up to no end.

I remember when the Bey-Hive made his ass apologize (https://www.jacksonville.com/story/entertainment/local/2017/02/16/carlos-santana-changes-his-tune-beyonce-i-have-utmost-respect-her-artist-and/15742792007/). We ain't even got a bey-hive to rely on.

I'm tossing out any music I own by him. I just got rid of the MP3s and next will be any albums.

When Elton John was recorded in the press as saying he didn’t support legalization of weed (or its cousin, hemp), I did the same thing: I’m enraged by his stupidity, his gross sense of royal ass entitlement, etc. Brother Elton wouldn’t be the rich fucker that he is, if those of us who partake of these products had never ever bought his albums of music, etc.

Carlos & Elton, and those just like them, will never be admired by me, ever again, nor will their music touch my ears.