Stone Butches

SweetJane · 01-02-2012, 09:12 PM

Chai,there's a stone femme thread.

chai~ · 01-02-2012, 10:56 PM

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Originally Posted by SweetJane

Chai,there's a stone femme thread.

I know there is a thread, but it seems foggy to me. I've read it, and I was just wondering what your personal interpretation was.

It seems like the butch's definition is pretty black and white, don't touch/feminize x, y, z. More often then not, this is it.

The femme definition seems a lot messier. Femme will touch, or won't touch.
Femme, will BE touched, or WON"T be touched.

I don't know how to navigate this, so I am just looking for clearer takes on it.

Thanks any way tho!

CherylNYC · 01-02-2012, 11:24 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by chai~

I know there is a thread, but it seems foggy to me. I've read it, and I was just wondering what your personal interpretation was.

It seems like the butch's definition is pretty black and white, don't touch/feminize x, y, z. More often then not, this is it.

The femme definition seems a lot messier. Femme will touch, or won't touch.
Femme, will BE touched, or WON"T be touched.

I don't know how to navigate this, so I am just looking for clearer takes on it.

Thanks any way tho!

I agree that 'stonefemme' can be confusing because it can mean two different things, but SweetJane was making the point that this thread is about stone butches. Your questions about femmes who are stone would be more appropriate in another thread.

chai~ · 01-02-2012, 11:30 PM

you're right, sorry. I was just understanding from the posts, that stone femmes were also voicing their points of view on these relationships. so it would be acceptable to ask here.

SweetJane · 01-03-2012, 01:04 AM

Chai hun, no harm done. And you're very right the definitions among stone femmes are broad spectrum. But for me, I'm the complement of a stone butch. My surrender and response is a gift. I touch but not in intimate areas. But that's my definition.

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01-03-2012, 01:04 AM	#5
SweetJane Member How Do You Identify?: stone femme Preferred Pronoun?: she Relationship Status: always solo Join Date: Sep 2011 Location: New Mexico Posts: 368 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 380 Thanked 815 Times in 198 Posts Rep Power: 4309958	Chai hun, no harm done. And you're very right the definitions among stone femmes are broad spectrum. But for me, I'm the complement of a stone butch. My surrender and response is a gift. I touch but not in intimate areas. But that's my definition.