It Hurts Me.

[JustJo]

Originally Posted by Firedance

I am sick of Butches who say to me;

"Hey, why don't you go use your charms and get us ___(insert object here)___."

or,

"Hey go work your magic so we don't have to wait."

or,

"Go flirt with that guy so we can get out of here".


No.
No, No, No, and Hell No!


I spend all day every day, verbally and non-verbally telling cis-guys their advances are not welcome. I am friendly, funny, polite, and very, very, firm. I expend great amounts of energy simply asserting my Identity every day and I will not sell out my sexuality or my identity to get you an extra piece of toast!

~Fire.

Wow....honestly, I'd be pretty furious with anyone who asked me to do this....

I also find that I tolerate less and less bullshit as I get older....and I was also probably a smart-mouthed bartender for wayyyyy too long....so I'd probably say, "uh huh, you want me to offer him a blow job and see if I can get you a ham steak?"

Sometimes people need to have it made clear exactly how much of an asshole they are being.