Which term(s) do you prefer?

DapperButch · 01-20-2011, 07:07 PM

I say girlfriend or partner.

She calls me her partner. I don't think she uses the term boyfriend with others, but I know that is another label for me in her head.

DomnNC · 01-20-2011, 07:30 PM

It depended upon the situation. Some places we called each other husband/wife. Some places with people in the know Master/slave. Some places where they wouldn't allow us to check off husband/wife it was significant other or domestic partner. Sometimes I called her bitch/slut/girl/etcetc, sometimes she called me an evil bastard/fucker/mean ass/etcetc, lol, it just depends (note - bitch was meant in the most fondest of ways as did evil bastard, usually, chuckles).

iamkeri1 · 01-22-2011, 02:05 AM

Before my late husband transitioned and we were able to legally marry (which made us husband and wife), we called each other lifemates. I still like that term.

Blessings to all of you who are sticking it out together, no matter what youcall each other.

Smooches,
Keri

01-20-2011, 07:07 PM	#1
DapperButch Roadster Guy How Do You Identify?: FTM, Stone Butch Preferred Pronoun?: He Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: Northeast Posts: 7,745 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 26,545 Thanked 26,810 Times in 5,772 Posts Rep Power: 21474858	I say girlfriend or partner. She calls me her partner. I don't think she uses the term boyfriend with others, but I know that is another label for me in her head. __________________ -Dapper Are you educated or indoctrinated?

01-20-2011, 07:30 PM	#2
DomnNC Timed Out How Do You Identify?: Male Preferred Pronoun?: He/Him Relationship Status: Widow Join Date: Sep 2010 Location: Permanently Banned 11/15/2011 Posts: 1,223 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 2,618 Thanked 2,582 Times in 837 Posts Rep Power: 0	It depended upon the situation. Some places we called each other husband/wife. Some places with people in the know Master/slave. Some places where they wouldn't allow us to check off husband/wife it was significant other or domestic partner. Sometimes I called her bitch/slut/girl/etcetc, sometimes she called me an evil bastard/fucker/mean ass/etcetc, lol, it just depends (note - bitch was meant in the most fondest of ways as did evil bastard, usually, chuckles).

01-22-2011, 02:05 AM	#3
iamkeri1 Member How Do You Identify?: femme woman Preferred Pronoun?: she Relationship Status: solo Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: Central Florida Posts: 905 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 302 Thanked 2,153 Times in 659 Posts Rep Power: 16642920	Before my late husband transitioned and we were able to legally marry (which made us husband and wife), we called each other lifemates. I still like that term. Blessings to all of you who are sticking it out together, no matter what youcall each other. Smooches, Keri