What TO DO in a relationship.....

[bigbutchmistie]

Originally Posted by Cajun_dee

This last part is especially true, but sometimes we don't divulge the bad in us not realizing we could potentially hurt someone in the long run.

I don't agree with the going to bed angry part, sometimes I need an overnight to regroup and think. I am always better the next day where I can talk clearly... or especially if what has made me angry/upset happened late at night.

Each person is different I guess. For me, I have learned after losing so many impotant people in my life to work it out no matter if it took all night so to speak. You might never get that chance... And I dont want my last memory to be of fighting or disagreeing. thats just me....

[girl_dee]

Originally Posted by bigbutchmistie

Each person is different I guess. For me, I have learned after losing so many impotant people in my life to work it out no matter if it took all night so to speak. You might never get that chance... And I dont want my last memory to be of fighting or disagreeing. thats just me....

Good point, yes we are all different, but strangling someone because of their stupid behavior at midnite because I didn't want to be angry at them would not help my situation.

Oh you meant talking, yes yes..that too....