Do you have a crush on anyone here at The Planet?

[SomethingBeautiful]

I'm very protective of those I crush on so I really hope otherz aren't crushing on mine!

[dixie]

See? Another reason why I don't voice my crushes. If I do, then this is usually what happens. Then I'm all goofy/awkward/twitterpatted. (Not like I'm NOT those things around a crush anyway, but still...)

http://funny-pictures-blog.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/07/Le-crush.jpg

[TheMerryFairy]

I'm very protective of those I crush on so I really hope otherz aren't crushing on mine!

*Smiles* That is quite cute.

I don't know who you're crushing on so I can't answer that for you. If you are in contact with them maybe let them know how you feel about interactions and boundaries?

I understand being naturally protective. I am too of my friends and people who I have an interest in. I don't want to hurt anyone.

I am friendly and flirty in general but the ones I crush on who I'm interested in more than a friend way I am direct with.

I am sure if your crush has a crush on you that is an actual interest then you have nothing to worry about.

I hope this helps.

Personally regardless of a crush on me, while flattered I make sure they know I am not interested in anything more than a conversation or friends. I try not to do inuendo's. It's too easily mistaken.

[clay]

my crush has left the building....:(......:blink:

[SleepyButch]

my crush has left the building....:(......:blink:

Can we have them arrested and brought back???

[clay]

Can we have them arrested and brought back???

yes...I just called the PoPo...:)......:police:... Yay! Thanks...

[SleepyButch]

yes...I just called the PoPo...:)......:police:... Yay! Thanks...

Where there is a will.. there is a way my friend...

[clay]

Where there is a will.. there is a way my friend...

oh absorutewy......Imma gonna lay back and let someone find me to crush on...:)

[SleepyButch]

oh absorutewy......Imma gonna lay back and let someone find me to crush on...:)

Now you are talking.... if you build it.. they will come.. if you wait.. they will show up... how can they resist...

Maybe I should follow that advice.... hmmmm

[clay]

Now you are talking.... if you build it.. they will come.. if you wait.. they will show up... how can they resist...

Maybe I should follow that advice.... hmmmm

there ya go....
we iz two handsome bois...who can possibly resist us?.....we gotz wine and chocolate....sooo....:)......

[KCBUTCH]

oh absorutewy......Imma gonna lay back and let someone find me to crush on...:)

I think I'll lay back to and wait until someone crushes on me for a change...:moonstars:

[SleepyButch]

there ya go....
we iz two handsome bois...who can possibly resist us?.....we gotz wine and chocolate....sooo....:)......

Oh I am realistic.. there are plenty that would resist... but a few who will not... when it's meant to happen it will happen... crush or otherwise... until that time.. I'm just gonna relax.

[clay]

Oh I am realistic.. there are plenty that would resist... but a few who will not... when it's meant to happen it will happen... crush or otherwise... until that time.. I'm just gonna relax.

I agree...we just hang out, relax, and enjoy watching...:)

[dixie]

there ya go....
we iz two handsome bois...who can possibly resist us?.....we gotz wine and chocolate....sooo....:)......

You know I have a friend crush for you. (Does that mean you will sneak me some chocolate? lol) ;)

I think I'll lay back to and wait until someone crushes on me for a change...:moonstars:
It won't take long, my friend. :praying:

[clay]

You know I have a friend crush for you. (Does that mean you will sneak me some chocolate? lol) ;)


It won't take long, my friend. :praying:

awww dixie.....thanks dahlin'....:chocolate:....always chocolate.....for dixie...I haz always crushed you, my friend

[KCBUTCH]

You know I have a friend crush for you. (Does that mean you will sneak me some chocolate? lol) ;)


It won't take long, my friend. :praying:

I'm in no hurry- I know what I have to offer, no need for concern...

[Bella~Vita]

[QUOTE=clay;736402]I agree...we just hang out, relax, and enjoy watching...:)[/QUote


I predict 3 beautiful women for all 3 of you handsome bois ... with plenty of love . :hk4:

Now can I have some chocolate please? :eatinghersheybar::chocolate::chocolate:

[KCBUTCH]

[QUOTE=clay;736402]I agree...we just hang out, relax, and enjoy watching...:)[/QUote


I predict 3 beautiful women for all 3 of you handsome bois ... with plenty of love . :hk4:

Now can I have some chocolate please? :eatinghersheybar::chocolate::chocolate:

:wine::bunchflowers::chocolate::chocolate::chocola te::chocolate::chocolate::chocolate::chocolate::ch ocolate::chocolate::chocolate::chocolate::chocolat e::chocolate::sunglass:

[Bella~Vita]

[quote=Kat_Fl;736418]

:wine::bunchflowers::chocolate::chocolate::chocola te::chocolate::chocolate::chocolate::chocolate::ch ocolate::chocolate::chocolate::chocolate::chocolat e::chocolate::sunglass:

Weeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee asugar highhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh .... thank you KC :eatinghersheybar:

[KCBUTCH]

[quote=KCBUTCH;736430]

Weeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee asugar highhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh .... thank you KC :eatinghersheybar:

the pleasure of giving a femme pleasure is all mine :eatinghersheybar::eatinghersheybar::eatinghershey bar::eatinghersheybar::eatinghersheybar::eatingher sheybar::eatinghersheybar::eatinghersheybar::eatin ghersheybar:

[clay]

[QUOTE=clay;736402]I agree...we just hang out, relax, and enjoy watching...:)[/QUote


I predict 3 beautiful women for all 3 of you handsome bois ... with plenty of love . :hk4:

Now can I have some chocolate please? :eatinghersheybar::chocolate::chocolate:

:wine:....to counter act alll that chocolate rush....:).
Thank you for the compliment, Kat.....:)

[JustLovelyJenn]

Oh, yes please. You can add to my assessment list. In particular, I'm looking to add to my "absolutely prohibited" list I.e. the things that, if you answer in the affirmative, I will be unable to date you, irrespective of how beautiful you or your shoes are or how good your lasagne tastes.


As I try to be flexible in my dating habits, I only currently have 4,368 "absolutely prohibited" issues. These range from having watched at least one episode of any tv show with "Redneck wedding" in the title through to asking me to dress as a nun (the only time I did this was a one-off, okay?).

That is an impressive list, and while it might limit your options, it certainly guarantees you get what your looking for. Now, have you included on this list... a tendency to whine? Or how about a history of poor fashion choices? I mean, style is a very important factor after all.

[TheMerryFairy]

That is an impressive list, and while it might limit your options, it certainly guarantees you get what your looking for. Now, have you included on this list... a tendency to whine? Or how about a history of poor fashion choices? I mean, style is a very important factor after all.

How important? I mean I know things like mullets and 80's wear is a crime against fashion but is it really one of the top checklist things?

[JustLovelyJenn]

How important? I mean I know things like mullets and 80's wear is a crime against fashion but is it really one of the top checklist things?

Well, yes.... BUT... my idea of a crime against fashion is pretty extreme... I enjoy individuality and uniqueness... SO... we are talking like... people of walmart... type crimes. Get my drift?

[TheMerryFairy]

Well, yes.... BUT... my idea of a crime against fashion is pretty extreme... I enjoy individuality and uniqueness... SO... we are talking like... people of walmart... type crimes. Get my drift?

Oh I do & sometimes WHAT a drift that can be! LOL

[dixie]

http://sd.keepcalm-o-matic.co.uk/i/keep-calm-and-crush-on-23.png

[Ciaran]

Only 4,368 deal-breakers? You're much too lenient *cough*.

So do fabulous heels that even fit you mitigate any of the 4,368?

*walks away muttering something about watching Flavor Flav's School of Love*

There's no such thing as a mitigating factor. If someone has offended one of the 4,368 points, then it can never be - simple as that. She could have fabulous heels or be as sexy as Violet Crawley but it still wouldn't matter.

Flavor Flay's School of Love is actually not on the list as, given my positive view of humanity, I have been hoping that no adult would ever voluntarily watch an episode of that show. However, this needs to be re-appraised so the list is now up to 4,369.


Ps - Rock of Love was much better than that Flat show (which of course, I never watched). I had a bit of a crush on Megan.

[Ciaran]

That is an impressive list, and while it might limit your options, it certainly guarantees you get what your looking for. Now, have you included on this list... a tendency to whine? Or how about a history of poor fashion choices? I mean, style is a very important factor after all.

The list doesn't include a blanket "crimes against fashion" prohibition but includes various more specific prohibitions. These include wearing crocs or dungarees. Perhaps, the most significant style-related issue on the list is actually one of the top 10 and it's "never to have had a 1980's style perm."

Probably the greatest fear in my life is to fall madly in love with a woman, think I will spend the rest of my life with her .... And then her friend posts a photo of her from 1987 on facebook with hideous perm and a smile. At that stage, the love turns to a combination of pity and revulsion and I can never look at her in the same way again.

[Gráinne]

There's no such thing as a mitigating factor. If someone has offended one of the 4,368 points, then it can never be - simple as that. She could have fabulous heels or be as sexy as Violet Crawley but it still wouldn't matter.

Flavor Flay's School of Love is actually not on the list as, given my positive view of humanity, I have been hoping that no adult would ever voluntarily watch an episode of that show. However, this needs to be re-appraised so the list is now up to 4,369.


Ps - Rock of Love was much better than that Flat show (which of course, I never watched). I had a bit of a crush on Megan.

Crivins. No hierarchy of points? No 10 do not pass Go, do not collect $200 points, then 4,359 "suggestions"?

The OCD in me needs an even 4,400 points. I'm sure there's a few depths of tastelessness and appalling behavior you haven't even thought of yet; I'm sure I, I mean, we will help you ;).

[TheMerryFairy]

The list doesn't include a blanket "crimes against fashion" prohibition but includes various more specific prohibitions. These include wearing crocs or dungarees. Perhaps, the most significant style-related issue on the list is actually one of the top 10 and it's "never to have had a 1980's style perm."

Probably the greatest fear in my life is to fall madly in love with a woman, think I will spend the rest of my life with her .... And then her friend posts a photo of her from 1987 on facebook with hideous perm and a smile. At that stage, the love turns to a combination of pity and revulsion and I can never look at her in the same way again.


See I don't know if I could do this. I have a MASSIVE crush on Molly Ringwald STILL! Ally Sheedy too, of course. oh John Hughes *swoon*

[GraffitiBoi]

Still no crush on the planet but it's all good. I'm crushing vicariously through you all.

[Bleu]

http://rawrclothing.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/06/crush-crush-crush.jpg

[TheMerryFairy]

http://cdn.gurl.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/03/crushes.jpg

[dixie]

http://30.media.tumblr.com/tumblr_m0j4a3o88O1r2dgvso1_500.jpg

[Trev]

Yeehaww Crushers another weekend is close. I do hope everyone is staying warm, one way or another. Reading all these posts from the last few days makes me all warm and fuzzy.

[TheMerryFairy]

http://30.media.tumblr.com/tumblr_m0j4a3o88O1r2dgvso1_500.jpg



LOL this reminds me of someone & it makes me smile. On rare occasion I get like this but honestly usually I just sit back and watch it amused. I like harmless talk and crushing.

[dixie]

http://25.media.tumblr.com/tumblr_m96k59Wsly1qeoo18o1_500.png

[LoyalWolfsBlade]

Let me see does today end in "day" then yup I must have a crush or two :seeingstars: on people on this site and maybe even in this thread but a gentleman never tells ALL his secrets.....:wine::bunchflowers:

[LoyalWolfsBlade]

It is Friday so I am officially wishing ALL those with a crush or even two a Happy Friday...it is the weekend a grand time for developing a crush or hey even revealing a crush.....

Yes I want names and stealing the age old promise made by others in here "what is revealed in the crush thread stays in the crush thread" :sunglass: at least for a short time anyway....

[dixie]

http://head-heart-health.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/08/shhh-its-a-secret.jpg

[Breezy]

I have a huge crush on

[MissItalianDiva]

I feel like spilling more crushes so here is another..

I official crush clay and hys relationship statuses and preferred pronouns (I may or may not randomly look for hys name in threads just so I can read what it says now)

[jcisbutch]

indeed i have a BIG old crush

[Bèsame*]

Oh my gosh...it's Crush count down, 20 days for the Crush Holiday. We better start crushing it out....hmmmmm ........

[jcisbutch]

Oh my gosh...it's Crush count down, 20 days for the Crush Holiday. We better start crushing it out....hmmmmm ........

maybe you're crush is just right around the corner Unique...

[Bèsame*]

ahuh...

Around the corner, down the street, across the bridge, under the underpass, past exit 546, over the county line, in the next city, over that state line. Someone get that crush GPS! Lolmaybe you're crush is just right around the corner Unique...

[jcisbutch]

ahuh...

Around the corner, down the street, across the bridge, under the underpass, past exit 546, over the county line, in the next city, over that state line. Someone get that crush GPS! Lol

lo no one likes a smart butt!!! crushes dont know distance crushes only know hearts Unique...hehe

[LoyalWolfsBlade]

Oh my gosh...it's Crush count down, 20 days for the Crush Holiday. We better start crushing it out....hmmmmm ........

hmmmm sounds like an expensive time coming maybe I should trim down how many I am crushing on??? Then again maybe not!!!!!

[Trev]

Oh Crushers...... You won't believe it..... :|

[dixie]

Oh Crushers...... You won't believe it..... :|

Well, don't keep us in suspense......

[LoyalWolfsBlade]

Thinking I am grateful I can NOT get into chat although I keep trying or there would be others for Me to crush on.....

[Angeltoes]

Yes. Want want want. :awww:

Sun

[Sunny]

I crush on the Femmes in the Crush thread!!!!

[Trev]

Well, don't keep us in suspense......

A gentleman would never kiss and tell..

[Bleu]

A gentleman would never kiss and tell..

:cupid:
Ah Ha! So, you've kissed!?!?! :cheer:
Squuueeeeeeeee!:awww:

[JustLovelyJenn]

Can I be crushin' on my own self confidence??? Cause I am pretty sure I am lately!!

[~ocean]

CRUSH ~ I still crush ants :) ~

[TheMerryFairy]

Can I be crushin' on my own self confidence??? Cause I am pretty sure I am lately!!

Of course you can! There's nothing sexier! *smiles*

[WolfyOne]

Why is it, when you find someone you're attracted to, they more than likely don't live in your neighborhood?

[LoyalWolfsBlade]

Why is it, when you find someone you're attracted to, they more than likely don't live in your neighborhood?


This question bears repeating....

[TheMerryFairy]

I still have a couple of crushes. It makes my feeling of floating all that more special and calming.


I think I am crushing on my self confidence and bold personality too. I don't care who likes it or not, I'm going to keep being ME.

[dixie]

Why is it, when you find someone you're attracted to, they more than likely don't live in your neighborhood?

Not in the same neighborhood, same side of the country, same freakin continent....

I'm thinking that is just one more reason to give up on the crushing. But dammit, it's so much fun!

[Trev]

:cupid:
Ah Ha! So, you've kissed!?!?! :cheer:
Squuueeeeeeeee!:awww:

Rumors I am sure .... but nothing is slipping past these lips :innocent:

[bright_arrow]

:rrose: You could say that!

[DamonK]

Um.

Yeah.

I gots a crush.

[Ciaran]

Why is it, when you find someone you're attracted to, they more than likely don't live in your neighborhood?

One obstacle for me in terms of potentially crushing on gorgeous women on this site is that most of the members are based on the other side of the pond.

Nothing bad with that per se. However, I always feel a bit uneasy crushing on someone who drives on the wrong side of the road or who pronounces "fillet" as "fill-ay" or who, when I say I would like some chips, brings me a bag of crisps instead.

It just feels rather risky and daring in a "lost in translation" kinda way ;)

[WolfyOne]

Happy Sunday Crushers :)

May you have a delightful or delectable day of crushing.

[dixie]

Happy Sunday! It's a perfect day to take that first step...if you haven't already.

You'll never know until you try! ;)
http://t0.gstatic.com/images?q=tbn:ANd9GcQ01MQ5Hhp-dPDXVIFqzkfX0HO3V74fplX0vj9xIBjL0YXwTIfhWG1v7DV8Pw

[dixie]

http://24.media.tumblr.com/1e26187a3608478e7e46cdc1ef0c0ba8/tumblr_mh084yN0pb1rmvkq1o1_500.jpg

[oksoftbutch]

Haven't been here long enough to get bit......but I bet she will show up eventually.....whomever she may be.... :praying:

[dixie]

http://www.polyvore.com/cgi/img-thing?.out=jpg&size=l&tid=50580067

[Random]

Does it count to have a crush on a screen name?

I've had a crush on walkawayjoe for YEARS...

I know almost nothing about the person behind the name, but I still get a lil shiver when I see it...

Grin...


ya... even my crushes are non personal..

[dixie]

Does it count to have a crush on a screen name?

I've had a crush on walkawayjoe for YEARS...

I know almost nothing about the person behind the name, but I still get a lil shiver when I see it...

Grin...


ya... even my crushes are non personal..

That is a crushable name. All I know about the person is that they lived 10 minutes from me. (Years ago, no clue now.) That's about all I learned lol

Wait...not personal?? I shall pout now. What about your crush on me????

[~ocean]

CAsprJ3yTpU BUMP IT UP ~ For all your crushers out there ~

[PaPa]

http://www.dpsgproductfacts.com/product_images/CRUSH_CHERRY_20.png?v=1338927336

[TheMerryFairy]

http://www.dpsgproductfacts.com/product_images/CRUSH_CHERRY_20.png?v=1338927336

MY favorite! Then orange, then cream soda :)

[KCBUTCH]

https://sphotos-b.xx.fbcdn.net/hphotos-ash4/190755_10151151559161467_1722479218_n.jpg

Me and the only Crush I'll admit to at this time (my dog)
I get my snuggling in just fine :)
-

[Random]

That is a crushable name. All I know about the person is that they lived 10 minutes from me. (Years ago, no clue now.) That's about all I learned lol

Wait...not personal?? I shall pout now. What about your crush on me????

Lil girl.... I don't have a crush on you...

I occassionally want to put you against a wall or tie you to a bed and do very bad things to you... (very bad things in a very good way.... smile)

The thought of taking my thumb and smearing your lipstick has caused me a pig moment or two over the years...

That's not a crush... That's just plan honest lust...

[dixie]

Lil girl.... I don't have a crush on you...

I occassionally want to put you against a wall or tie you to a bed and do very bad things to you... (very bad things in a very good way.... smile)

The thought of taking my thumb and smearing your lipstick has caused me a pig moment or two over the years...

That's not a crush... That's just plan honest lust...

I adore you!!! lol :awww:

[Ciaran]

Crivins. No hierarchy of points? No 10 do not pass Go, do not collect $200 points, then 4,359 "suggestions"?

The OCD in me needs an even 4,400 points. I'm sure there's a few depths of tastelessness and appalling behavior you haven't even thought of yet; I'm sure I, I mean, we will help you ;).

Okay, so having considered the due diligence, comprehensive questionnaire approach to crushing, it became clear that it just wouldn't work for me. Robust? Yes, but I calculated it would take a lady about 10 years to complete the due diligence checks and that's slightly too long for me.


Therefore, I decided to get the best mathematical minds together to come up with an easier to use statistical model to ascertain which crushes are worth progressing and which are not. This approach is shown below:

http://i926.photobucket.com/albums/ad103/ulyssesgq/Graph_zps615ae026.jpg


Via this approach, each crush is scored against a number of high-level categories on a 0-100 scale. The scores are then fed into the graph and the individual results are overlaid by polynomial trend analysis (I've never been one for "poly" to date but there's no harm in trying new things now and again). The polynomial analysis smoothes the underlying trend and clearly shows which crush is potentially compatible and which is not. In the example above, crush 1 is worthwhile pursuing whereas crush 2 is not (sorry - crush 2).


Therefore, the new approach to crushing is straightforward - simply score the potential crushee across broad categories, enter into the system, quick look at the graph and decide who to try to win.


This has followed extensive "product" development (well, 0.5 mins) and is still in the testing phase to ensure there are no bugs or faulty equations as, otherwise, the software may tell me that I should be pursuing Sarah Palin or Janis Lane.


ps - as an exclusive offer to BFP members only, I'm currently offering copies of this software for an introductory price of $1,000 (paypal accepted).

[MsM]

It's official, I have a crush on Ciaran's brain.

I would like to lick it please. Many times. Yes.

[-Red-Flag-]

Hello crushers ... It's been a while .. What's shaking ??

[dixie]

Hello crushers ... It's been a while .. What's shaking ??

'Bout damn time.

[Ciaran]

It's official, I have a crush on Ciaran's brain.

I would like to lick it please. Many times. Yes.


I always dreamed that someone would crush on my eyes or my amazing body. I guess that beggars cannot be choosers ;)


That said, the visual of someone licking my brain brings back squeamish memories of Indiana Jones ..... I'm now not going to be able to sleep tonight, will be sleep-deprived in work all of tomorrow and, thus, even grumpier than normal. Thanks VERY MUCH MsMarla :cool:

[MsM]

I always dreamed that someone would crush on my eyes or my amazing body. I guess that beggars cannot be choosers ;)


That said, the visual of someone licking my brain brings back squeamish memories of Indiana Jones ..... I'm now not going to be able to sleep tonight, will be sleep-deprived in work all of tomorrow and, thus, even grumpier than normal. Thanks VERY MUCH MsMarla :cool:


*LIIIIIICCCCCCCCCKKKKKK* Nom Nom. That's what you get for having sexy brains. I'm sure your body and eyes are quite sexy but as I dunno what you look like you have to settle for my oral skills on your tasty brain.

[Ciaran]

*LIIIIIICCCCCCCCCKKKKKK* Nom Nom. That's what you get for having sexy brains. I'm sure your body and eyes are quite sexy but as I dunno what you look like you have to settle for my oral skills on your tasty brain.

I look just like Arnold Schwarzenegger ****



**** well, except for the total absence of any muscle definition or physical strength, much smaller in height, different hair and eye colour. Actually, come to think of it, if Danny de Vito could be his twin, so could I.

[Trev]

Well alright I can't beat any of that. Hello Crushers!!

[WolfyOne]

I was coming in here earlier to say hello crushers
And then my eyes became crossed from trying to read Ciaran's chart

I'm back and better even though when I left I was still good

[SleepyButch]

Soooo I've had a crush now for about a month on a gal (yes the human variety this time) who I did not meet through this wonderful site... but... still... she is worth mentioning because even though we will only ever be crushes, we are meeting this weekend for some crush fun!

Oh how I love my life sometimes....

[dixie]

I love that squirrel....

https://sphotos-b.xx.fbcdn.net/hphotos-frc1/734435_10151307113882144_440753881_n.jpg

[Duchess]

Hello beautiful crushers!!!

[TheMerryFairy]

I love that squirrel....

https://sphotos-b.xx.fbcdn.net/hphotos-frc1/734435_10151307113882144_440753881_n.jpg



I am not *THAT* unlucky lol. I too love that squirrel.

[jac]

Still like to come in here to see who's crushin' who.

Mine is an obvious crush but a crush all the same. Crushin' on my Spritz :cheesy:

Carry on crushers and have fun with it!

[Kitten.With.A.Twist]

ROFLMAO that is the funniest thing I have read in ages!!!!!

[Gráinne]

I look just like Arnold Schwarzenegger ****



**** well, except for the total absence of any muscle definition or physical strength, much smaller in height, different hair and eye colour. Actually, come to think of it, if Danny de Vito could be his twin, so could I.

You'd be identical, if Arnold Schwarzenegger had a Northern Irish accent ;).

[dixie]

http://fc08.deviantart.net/fs70/f/2012/343/0/8/free_grumpy_cat_icon_by_glad_sad-d5njvpw.png

[clay]

I have a couple new friendly crushes.....:)....but they will remain cloaked in secrecy....just cause.....:bunchflowers:

[dixie]

Enjoy the crushing, crushers! :)



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[clay]

Enjoy the crushing, crushers! :)



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oh, it is just decadent....innocuous, sweet crushes....:)

[dixie]

http://funny-pictures-blog.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/11/The-Crush.jpg

[Mtn]

I am SOOOOOOO crushing my beautiful girl after 2 years together. Happy Anniversary sylvie, I adore you. Allllll my love and allllll my kisses!

[GreeneyedMe]

:shocking: might just be a possibility....

[MarquisdeShey]

...a crush?... what is a girl to do amidst this sea of ... well endowed loveliness... yes, one must crush...

[EmpressM]

Oh YES! Crushing hard! But shhhhh! It's a secret! For the moment anyhow...

[Random]

Enjoy the crushing, crushers! :)



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OMG...

I had a crush on this Butch Top for YEARS...

The couple time I talked to him in in private, I was a blathering idiot.. I knew just about everything about him and he knew nothing about me

*blush*

I'm sure he thought I was more than slightly odd... Not in the way that I am slighty odd, but in that bad slighty odd way...

Sigh..

[dixie]

OMG...

I had a crush on this Butch Top for YEARS...

The couple time I talked to him in in private, I was a blathering idiot.. I knew just about everything about him and he knew nothing about me

*blush*

I'm sure he thought I was more than slightly odd... Not in the way that I am slighty odd, but in that bad slighty odd way...

Sigh..

Yup, totally been there. Recently, even... and as for blathering idiot, oh honey...I will stutter, stammer, and make absolute zero sense, especially in person around a crush. Dammit. *le sigh*

[Ciaran]

Ok, I've got a ticking clock now p.s. thank goodness my "l" key is working again ...


I was taking relationship advice today from my life coach (well, my personal assistant but she's basically my life coach and surrogate older sister, despite being a decade younger than I am).


She told me that I should aim to be married by the time I'm 40. We both agreed that I'd wanting to be dating casually for at least 6 months and more seriously for a further year before I popped the question ..... and then that we'd want at least a year to plan a wedding and so on.


Therefore, she worked out that, under this agreed plan, I've now got approx two weeks to find my future wife :praying::praying::praying:


Anyone here (preferably without a recent criminal record, although in my desperation I'll maybe overlook minor misdemeanours) want to get married in summer 2015?

[dixie]

Ok, I've got a ticking clock now p.s. thank goodness my "l" key is working again ...


I was taking relationship advice today from my life coach (well, my personal assistant but she's basically my life coach and surrogate older sister, despite being a decade younger than I am).


She told me that I should aim to be married by the time I'm 40. We both agreed that I'd wanting to be dating casually for at least 6 months and more seriously for a further year before I popped the question ..... and then that we'd want at least a year to plan a wedding and so on.


Therefore, she worked out that, under this agreed plan, I've now got approx two weeks to find my future wife :praying::praying::praying:


Anyone here (preferably without a recent criminal record, although in my desperation I'll maybe overlook minor misdemeanours) want to get married in summer 2015?

Sorry. I'm training for a Tough Mudder marathon that will be occurring during that time frame. Otherwise I'd be willing, simply because of your excellent fashion sense.

[dixie]

I think I'm just gonna start handing these out....makes it easier than saying it lol


https://sphotos-a.xx.fbcdn.net/hphotos-ash4/3529_466513540063994_840792358_n.jpg

[Random]

Yup, totally been there. Recently, even... and as for blathering idiot, oh honey...I will stutter, stammer, and make absolute zero sense, especially in person around a crush. Dammit. *le sigh*


Lucky for me it's only happened twice in my life...

I'm pretty direct and agressive when I'm interested in someone

Grin.... I remember the first time a butch told me to back down and let her wear the pants...

lol.. I don't even remember her name now.. If you have to tell me to back down, then you don't have what it takes to make me blush and stammer and generally act like a total fool....

Sort of miss that feeling... just a lil...

[clay]

OMG, this is too funny!!! Thanks for the chuckle...my friend

I think I'm just gonna start handing these out....makes it easier than saying it lol


https://sphotos-a.xx.fbcdn.net/hphotos-ash4/3529_466513540063994_840792358_n.jpg

[Gráinne]

Ok, I've got a ticking clock now p.s. thank goodness my "l" key is working again ...


I was taking relationship advice today from my life coach (well, my personal assistant but she's basically my life coach and surrogate older sister, despite being a decade younger than I am).


She told me that I should aim to be married by the time I'm 40. We both agreed that I'd wanting to be dating casually for at least 6 months and more seriously for a further year before I popped the question ..... and then that we'd want at least a year to plan a wedding and so on.


Therefore, she worked out that, under this agreed plan, I've now got approx two weeks to find my future wife :praying::praying::praying:


Anyone here (preferably without a recent criminal record, although in my desperation I'll maybe overlook minor misdemeanours) want to get married in summer 2015?

That's the Great Summer Of The Dissertation (I hope). Still, it's tempting only for more fabulous shoes than my own.

Interesting how, when you're facing a deadline, 4,369 deal-breakers and makers, plus an (eek!) graph boil down to "Please don't be a felon".

[Ciaran]

Sorry. I'm training for a Tough Mudder marathon that will be occurring during that time frame. Otherwise I'd be willing, simply because of your excellent fashion sense.


That is very disappointing. The champagne remains on ice.

Despite my sadness, I'll show the maturity to wish you well in your Tough Mudder marathon **


** but if you experience a wee bit of pain during it, it will soften my disappointment ;)




That's the Great Summer Of The Dissertation (I hope). Still, it's tempting only for more fabulous shoes than my own.

Interesting how, when you're facing a deadline, 4,369 deal-breakers and makers, plus an (eek!) graph boil down to "Please don't be a felon".


It's a great example of utilitarian pragmatism. My "life coach" has helped to make me realise that the clock is against me. Desperate times call for desperate measures.

ps - I was going to ask my life coach to marry me but she's a Jimmy Choo fan so the relationship could never work.

[MsM]

ps - I was going to ask my life coach to marry me but she's a Jimmy Choo fan so the relationship could never work.

Whoa Whoa.....You don't like Jimmy Choo?! Wow, and here I thought your brain and I had a real chance of making it work.

[jcisbutch]

yup yup totally do..mmhhmm...yup I have a big ole crush....:police:

[Ciaran]

Whoa Whoa.....You don't like Jimmy Choo?! Wow, and here I thought your brain and I had a real chance of making it work.

It's not so much that I don't like Jimmy Choo. It's that I don't like to be eclipsed in the footwear component of a relationship.

This is a sensitive subject for me - it's one of those fundamental relationship issues such as whether you want kids, whether you get joint bank accounts etc. There's only room for one DIVA in my relationships.

[~ocean]

still crushing ants lol~~

[deb0670]

yep, still crushing.. nope.. not saying on who.. shhh it's a secret.

[Bella~Vita]

Yes still watching ~ocean~ crush ants !:blink:

[Guy]

I hope they aren't red ants - that would freakin hurt!

[LoyalWolfsBlade]

Yup but I am sure that comes as no surprise.

However may I sugest you sit down before reading the next line.

I am so enthralled by my crush there just is not room for another at this time.

[SleepyButch]

No matter the circumstances, there is something very romantic about whisking away for the weekend to see your crush. Makes you feel all warm and fuzzy inside.

[Kent]

Sure do...

[MsM]

Perhaps a wee one.

[dixie]

I need to find a crush like this!!! *swoon*

https://sphotos-a.xx.fbcdn.net/hphotos-snc6/228013_412731035478702_324195378_n.jpg

[TheMerryFairy]

I need to find a crush like this!!! *swoon*

https://sphotos-a.xx.fbcdn.net/hphotos-snc6/228013_412731035478702_324195378_n.jpg



I would love a Valentine's date like this. Of course it likely wouldn't be the same tattoo and I would take my crush for dinner and continue the romance from there.

[TheMerryFairy]

http://www.personal.psu.edu/mes5687/blogs/firefly/sweet.baboo.jpg

[Sachita]

The past few weeks I have had the most vivid dreams and sexual fantasies involving quite a few members of this site. :) In fact I had another one last night. Some are just wayyyyy out there and others nice and pretty. I'm not sure why this has been happening but I like it.

Can you guess who I've been dreaming about?

[Kent]

still crushing ants lol~~

Ouch!! It must hurt to crush on ocean.. ;)

[Ciaran]

The past few weeks I have had the most vivid dreams and sexual fantasies involving quite a few members of this site. :) In fact I had another one last night. Some are just wayyyyy out there and others nice and pretty. I'm not sure why this has been happening but I like it.

Can you guess who I've been dreaming about?


I cannot guess but the phrase "quite a few" suggests something of an orgy going on. Consequently, I'm turning white with shock here and about to start to pray :praying:


That said, I'm exceptionally curious to know if, in these vivid dreams, those you dream about all tend to be very satisfying lovers or, even though its a dream rather than real life, are some a bit of a disappointment between the sheets?

[clay]

The past few weeks I have had the most vivid dreams and sexual fantasies involving quite a few members of this site. :) In fact I had another one last night. Some are just wayyyyy out there and others nice and pretty. I'm not sure why this has been happening but I like it.

Can you guess who I've been dreaming about?

I'm pleading the 5th...here....cause, well I am an :angel:BUT it would be my pleasure to be included in your nocturnal fantasies....:)...ya know I loves ya sweetie...!.....:bunchflowers:

[WolfyOne]

The past few weeks I have had the most vivid dreams and sexual fantasies involving quite a few members of this site. :) In fact I had another one last night. Some are just wayyyyy out there and others nice and pretty. I'm not sure why this has been happening but I like it.

Can you guess who I've been dreaming about?


I just know I'm in there somewhere ;)

[Sachita]

I cannot guess but the phrase "quite a few" suggests something of an orgy going on. Consequently, I'm turning white with shock here and about to start to pray :praying:


That said, I'm exceptionally curious to know if, in these vivid dreams, those you dream about all tend to be very satisfying lovers or, even though its a dream rather than real life, are some a bit of a disappointment between the sheets?


First of all I can only focus on one at a time. They appear different ways, different times and all with a unique venue, however all prove to be quite fulfilling in some way or another. Then again I am complex, diverse and perhaps a bit crazy! I have no plans on shattering my fantastic fantasies to dare pursue something real. Truth be known I think you were somewhere there engage in my lasagna whilst Wolfy did your job. :)

Wolfy, love muffins, you'll always be in my dreams. (wink)

Oh I lied about the pursuing. Should the opportunity present itself and it is even 50% as good as my dreams then I shall pounce upon it!

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The past few weeks I have had the most vivid dreams and sexual fantasies involving quite a few members of this site. :) In fact I had another one last night. Some are just wayyyyy out there and others nice and pretty. I'm not sure why this has been happening but I like it.

Can you guess who I've been dreaming about?

Oh oh me.. Pick me !!

-runs

[Sachita]

Oh oh me.. Pick me !!

-runs

Pick? you were there. :) That story much to long and intense to share! lol How could I have kinky fantasies and not think of you?

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Pick? you were there. :) That story much to long and intense to share! lol How could I have kinky fantasies and not think of you?

and its official.. I am blushing.. yep .. oy .. yeah.. -kicks a rock

[Sachita]

Oh and if I one is able to be the boi to my mistress, a butch to my femme, a daddy to my girl and grow a garden with me then I shall marry that one indeed!

[Trev]

Crusher...Lusters...Fantasies.... Oy My!!

I'm in....

[macele]

Oh and if I one is able to be the boi to my mistress, a butch to my femme, a daddy to my girl and grow a garden with me then I shall marry that one indeed!


i could be the southern to your virginia.


LOL

[dixie]

http://images.firstcovers.com/covers/s/single_taken_crushes-17.jpg

[Ciaran]

First of all I can only focus on one at a time. They appear different ways, different times and all with a unique venue, however all prove to be quite fulfilling in some way or another. Then again I am complex, diverse and perhaps a bit crazy! I have no plans on shattering my fantastic fantasies to dare pursue something real. Truth be known I think you were somewhere there engage in my lasagna whilst Wolfy did your job. :)



I'm a bit worried that "engaging in my lasagna" is a euphemism for something incredibly sordid and kinky.

It's 5am here, I've a long day ahead at work and, now, I cannot get images of a threesome with you and Wolfy out of my mind ...... It's mornings like this that I wished I smoked so that I might stop shaking.

[dixie]

I'm a bit worried that "engaging in my lasagna" is a euphemism for something incredibly sordid and kinky.

It's 5am here, I've a long day ahead at work and, now, I cannot get images of a threesome with you and Wolfy out of my mind ...... It's mornings like this that I wished I smoked so that I might stop shaking.

Dammit. I did not have that image in my head until you just voiced it aloud. I can even hear it said in your own voice, which definitely makes it stick in my head. Thanks. Thanks a lot. *said with only slight sarcasm, since I am indeed a voyeuristic, perverse individual*

[dixie]

In other news....I decided to voice a crush today. It worked out quite nicely. (Don't get excited, I still have no interest in dating.) :)

[MarquisdeShey]

Nein, ich kann geben diese Informationen ist es persönlich ... sehr persönliche ... rechts

[KCBUTCH]

Nein, ich kann geben diese Informationen ist es persönlich ... sehr persönliche ... rechts

die Ton-Intrigen. persönliche Information ist so saftig :phonegab:

[MarquisdeShey]

die Ton-Intrigen. persönliche Information ist so saftig :phonegab:

nur für diejenigen, die ihre Inhalte zu verstehen

[Tommi]

i could be the southern to your virginia.


LOL

scanning down the thread I saw that as a different v word....

Crushing on this thread

:pile::hanging:

[dixie]

I seem to be on a roll! Crush #2 (once again, don't get excited...this is a long list) has been informed. I have no idea if it is a new-found level of confidence or just a heightened level of my regular 'don't give a f*ck' state of mind. Either way, it feels rather liberating! :D

[Duchess]

I just know I'm in there somewhere ;)


Wolfy sweetie, I know you're feeling up a lot of people in their sexy dreams.;)

[dixie]

Oh, and I feel the need to clarify a statement:

When I say my "don't give a f*ck" state of mind, that does not mean I don't care about the people. What that means, is that I have decided to say what I feel, when I feel it, no matter what the universal consequence. If I do not put myself out there and communicate my thoughts and desires, I will never know. I leave it all in universal hands, but I must do my part as well. I don't care what my results will be. I am strong enough and centered enough to handle whatever comes my way. I just have to go for it.... :praying:

[dixie]

I'm struggling with articulation tonight, so maybe this explains it a little better.........

https://sphotos-b.xx.fbcdn.net/hphotos-prn1/69673_441565535916925_1735188831_n.jpg

[kannon]

I'm struggling with articulation tonight, so maybe this explains it a little better.........

https://sphotos-b.xx.fbcdn.net/hphotos-prn1/69673_441565535916925_1735188831_n.jpg



Amen sister. You're preaching to the choir.

[Sachita]

I'm a bit worried that "engaging in my lasagna" is a euphemism for something incredibly sordid and kinky.

It's 5am here, I've a long day ahead at work and, now, I cannot get images of a threesome with you and Wolfy out of my mind ...... It's mornings like this that I wished I smoked so that I might stop shaking.

well you know those brits are into all kinds of kinky things and fetishes. Its why I wish I lived there! lol

[MsM]

Oh and if I one is able to be the boi to my mistress, a butch to my femme, a daddy to my girl and grow a garden with me then I shall marry that one indeed!

I'm with ya Sachita, that's my boy in a sentence. 'cept she hates playing in the dirt, she helps anyway. :)

[ScandalAndy]

well you know those brits are into all kinds of kinky things and fetishes. Its why I wish I lived there! lol

YESSSSS! This statement. This must be why I love the UK. Also, pretty applicable to Canada. Jus' sayin'.

[WolfyOne]

It's official, after reading through these recent posts with my name, I am :blush:

[Sachita]

I love making boys blush. In fact I work hard at it.

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Is it safe to come back now ?

[~ocean]

lol poor red ~

[starryeyes]

This thread has a lot of bantering but no cold, hard facts. How's a girl supposed to be nosey!?!?

:sunglass:

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This thread has a lot of bantering but no cold, hard facts. How's a girl supposed to be nosey!?!?

:sunglass:

Awe :(

You will just have to wait to see how it all pans out :)

[Ciaran]

Truth be known I think you were somewhere there engage in my lasagna whilst Wolfy did your job. :)



I'm a bit worried that "engaging in my lasagna" is a euphemism for something incredibly sordid and kinky.

It's 5am here, I've a long day ahead at work and, now, I cannot get images of a threesome with you and Wolfy out of my mind ...... It's mornings like this that I wished I smoked so that I might stop shaking.


As I went about my business today, I tried to totally block this from my mind - and it appeared to be working


Then, totally out of the blue and in a meeting discussing the impact of quantitative easing on institutional investor demand for debt, I suddenly found my mind wandering and being transported to Sachita's Virginia home. There was a party happening there with many from this thread present and in various states of undress (or "no dress" in many instances).


Entering the house and excited to learn of what new experiences would confront me, Sachita told me that I wasn't there as a guest but as a domestic maid and my main task would be to bake lasagna for all attendees.


Under pressure and finding it hard to concentrate due to the orgy surrounding me, I over-cooked the lasagna. At that stage, an annoyed Sachita ordered me from the house and I was left outside, listening to the enjoyment and ecstasy indoors, with only Sachita's farmyard animals for company. To make matters worse, it then started to rain heavily destroying my Cavalli suit.


And then, quick as a flash I found myself back in a London office block. Never before have I been so glad to switch back to the subject of quantitative easing and institutional investor demand for debt ................

[Sachita]

As I went about my business today, I tried to totally block this from my mind - and it appeared to be working


Then, totally out of the blue and in a meeting discussing the impact of quantitative easing on institutional investor demand for debt, I suddenly found my mind wandering and being transported to Sachita's Virginia home. There was a party happening there with many from this thread present and in various states of undress (or "no dress" in many instances).


Entering the house and excited to learn of what new experiences would confront me, Sachita told me that I wasn't there as a guest but as a domestic maid and my main task would be to bake lasagna for all attendees.


Under pressure and finding it hard to concentrate due to the orgy surrounding me, I over-cooked the lasagna. At that stage, an annoyed Sachita ordered me from the house and I was left outside, listening to the enjoyment and ecstasy indoors, with only Sachita's farmyard animals for company. To make matters worse, it then started to rain heavily destroying my Cavalli suit.


And then, quick as a flash I found myself back in a London office block. Never before have I been so glad to switch back to the subject of quantitative easing and institutional investor demand for debt ................

My fantasy would be much different. I'm afraid that post would need to go to a different area. lol You would not be making food nor would you be wearing any suit! lol

[macele]

scanning down the thread I saw that as a different v word....

Crushing on this thread

:pile::hanging:


exactly, tommi ... lol

[Gemme]

L8p5t4uPCZQ

[alexri]

Oy10rRJ0Cuk

[dixie]

Damn adorable happy people crushing. :hangloose:

[WingsOnFire]

I absolutely love to crush here at the planet. Lately I have been thread crushing a Butch or two and like their posts. Nice to get to know someone by what they write. Then there is always my femme crushes Maggie, Leigh, Deb, my sweet NYFEMMEBCC, and a hnch of others.

[KCBUTCH]

femmes, femmes, everywhere-what's a boi to do besides crush-
OH ya nothing...:cigar2:

[chai~]

femmes, femmes, everywhere-what's a boi to do besides crush-
OH ya nothing...:cigar2:

ENJOY yourself~~~

[KCBUTCH]

ENJOY yourself~~~

not really enjoying anything but friendship here, but thanks anyway
fun is fun-nothing else

[chai~]

not really enjoying anything but friendship here, but thanks anyway
fun is fun-nothing else

I just meant enjoy your crushes and I am sure you have several femmes all aflutter and swoony for you!

[WingsOnFire]

Ok fellow crushers... Sir has said its my bed time so I pass the torch to someone else. Sweet dreams everyone. Happy crushing!

[KCBUTCH]

I just meant enjoy your crushes and I am sure you have several femmes all aflutter and swoony for you!

So what? I have a deeper center that is where my connections are found

[TheMerryFairy]

http://1.bp.blogspot.com/-lZgYPviF1d0/T4tq4MrlTvI/AAAAAAAAATg/ApI6LHaBrhs/s1600/hearts+and+bubbles.jpg

[Sun]

Hey Crushers...how are you all doing?

I have not been in this thread in a while. Its kinda fun to drop by though.

As I have said before...how could you NOT have a crush with so many fabulous lovely Femmes on this Planet?

I have a massive friend crush (how could I not?)

My crush is as beautiful on the inside as she is on the outside.

[TheMerryFairy]

Hey Crushers...how are you all doing?

I have not been in this thread in a while. Its kinda fun to drop by though.

As I have said before...how could you NOT have a crush with so many fabulous lovely Femmes on this Planet?

I have a massive friend crush (how could I not?)

My crush is as beautiful on the inside as she is on the outside.




I have a couple of those friend crushes too! :) Of course, I do have a couple of more that are deeper than that, but they are the only ones who know! There really are so many wonderful people here, I just don't want my words taken and ran with LOL

[Sun]

I have a couple of those friend crushes too! :) Of course, I do have a couple of more that are deeper than that, but they are the only ones who know! There really are so many wonderful people here, I just don't want my words taken and ran with LOL


Friend crushes are good as well as fun!

I have to say, I am really blessed with some amazing friends. Since I only own up to my Butch crushes in this thread I thought it was about time to come out about a femme crush ;)

Getting tired of the Butches chasing me!

Why are there no Femmes after me! Is this the Butch Butch Planet or whats up??

*smirk*

(WARNING: Sun is totally burnt out so take it all with a grain of salt. This has been a public service announcement)

[TheMerryFairy]

Friend crushes are good as well as fun!

I have to say, I am really blessed with some amazing friends. Since I only own up to my Butch crushes in this thread I thought it was about time to come out about a femme crush ;)

Getting tired of the Butches chasing me!

Why are there no Femmes after me! Is this the Butch Butch Planet or whats up??

*smirk*

(WARNING: Sun is totally burnt out so take it all with a grain of salt. This has been a public service announcement)



I am sure many are. Be careful what you wish for on here. I know who/what I want and I am going to cherish it as long as I can.

[Sun]

I am sure many are. Be careful what you wish for on here. I know who/what I want and I am going to cherish it as long as I can.

Truly I joke around a lot. That is because I enjoy life and am genuinely happy. I am not looking for femmes to be chasing me, I want to spend quality time with one femme only, and she knows who she is. She is sexy, smart, funny and has a beautiful heart.

Perfect recipe ;)

[TheMerryFairy]

Truly I joke around a lot. That is because I enjoy life and am genuinely happy. I am not looking for femmes to be chasing me, I want to spend quality time with one femme only, and she knows who she is. She is sexy, smart, funny and has a beautiful heart.

Perfect recipe ;)

Have you told her?

[Sun]

Have you told her?



Yes she knows.

[TheMerryFairy]

Yes she knows.

I really do wish you all the best, despite my emotional vulnerability tonight

[Sun]

I really do wish you all the best, despite my emotional vulnerability tonight

Thank you sweet friend. Its all good hon, we are friends. So the best is already happening because she is in my life.

See how the universe works?

Its all good.

[TheMerryFairy]

Thank you sweet friend. Its all good hon, we are friends. So the best is already happening because she is in my life.

See how the universe works?

Its all good.

I know just what you mean. I haven't felt this happy in a really long time. I am greatful for exactly where I am, who is in my life and what I have. I guess I should stop worrying and let myself be open to the rest.

[Sun]

I know just what you mean. I haven't felt this happy in a really long time. I am greatful for exactly where I am, who is in my life and what I have. I guess I should stop worrying and let myself be open to the rest.

As the earth begins to defrost and turn to spring visualize new life and the natural flow of nature. There is no fear that can keep the grass from growing or the river from running this is the miracle of the creator, that if we allow nature to flow, we too will become part of the natural flow. It is when we stop the flow of energy that we confuse ourselves. One of the things I talked to young lgbt people about last week in Atlanta is that we are conditioned in our culture to deny our intuition.

Just trust your intuition and all will be well :)

[Ciaran]

Over the past week or so, I've fielded an increasing number of requests via private message or facebook to reveal crushes. I'm not sure why this is but may relate to some of my posts on the asexuality thread.


I'm happy to do so. However, firstly, to get the awkward stuff out of the way ... I absolutely hate the term "butch up" (or "man up") and cringe when I see it here on this thread. However, I understand the underlying sentiment and I am happy to disclose.


I am in love with Tmbyfem and have been for almost eight years . We were in a relationship for some years but no longer are. I don't think we'll ever re-ignite the relationship but we remain very close - in fact, probably closer than ever. I love her more each day. The term "soul mates" sounds incredibly cliche and anodyne but it's real in this instance. Other than my mother, she is the only woman that I love and the only woman I want to be in love with. I'm happy with that. I'm a bit relationship-phobic.


Tmbyfem is a member here but not very active (was active on the dash site back in the day) and many here know both of us in real-life. I think that they can vouch for the connection. I've convinced her to come to Little Rock for the Reunion this year - this will be her first Reunion but she attended almost all of the dash site bashes. I'm so glad she is coming. She is a beautiful lady.


However, yes, I do crush. I LOVE to crush. Not in any serious sense like putting up posters on my wall or obsessing (well, except for Sharon Cuneta, a Filipina singer I am in love with ;) ) but in a more general, warm feeling.


Apologies for anyone I miss by accident and I acknowledge some of these femmes maybe aren't active on this forum / this thread but here goes:


Artdecogoddess: Love Pam. Probably less a crush and more admiration.

Dixie: a lot of superfluous online stuff. However, beautiful lady. Introspective underneath. Not much in common with her but could stare into her eyes for a long time. Needs to visit the British Isles.

Espressolover: Manila is embedded in my heart.

Gemme: I'm guessing I've met a woman more gorgeous somewhere, someplace but genuinely cannot think of when or where. Truly beautiful.

Isadora: nothing needs be said :)


Island Scout: Anyone who understands 1950s Brooklyn has the key to my heart.


Lady Merrick: Cannot resist her heels on my lap. I'm back in NYC in May and want to meet up again with her so much.

Nat: last time I posted something complimentary about Nat, this site crashed for two days. Not sure if that was a sign or not but thought I'd repeat it here. Love her perspective, her warmth and her relationship with Missy.

Nycbbwfemme: again, less a crush and more an admiration. I love "real" and this woman is REAL. Let's meet up for a coffee when I am in NYC in May.

Poison: Different time, different place, we'd be happily married.

Sachita: can fantacise about me anytime.

Starryeyes: needs to let me know when next visiting Europe. Great couple energy with Justin. I love their love (if that makes sense).


As for Butch crushes?

None for me but love Wolfy's continued contribution to this thread. Importantly, I love Moonie and Blistex - I probably didn't realise how much until we all got the chance to meet up again last autumn ..... and also love the rawness of KCbutch's energy and honesty. I know all these butch folk in real life and look forward to meeting up with all of them during the course of 2013.



Over and out,

Ciaran :)

[Sachita]

I'm your walk on the wild side!

actually I'm not your typical alpha femme. I'm like Martha Stewart. I can whip it up in the kitchen, build you a wonderful home and be so romantic it would literally make your head spin. I pay attention to details and full of surprises. HOWEVER, it all comes at a huge price.

I think that one of things I love the most about a D/s dynamic is that it can loom outside of physicality. If the combination is right, there is true chemistry it can be so thick for a very long time. It truly is a dance, a cat and mouse game that is both mind fucking and playful at the same time.

I love the notion that you can connect outside the here and now. Too many people place way too much value on the physical. Like you I need so much more before my clothes come off. I need to soar and feel a very strong connection. I think flirting and playing is healthy. I love it until I meet the one.



Over the past week or so, I've fielded an increasing number of requests via private message or facebook to reveal crushes. I'm not sure why this is but may relate to some of my posts on the asexuality thread.


I'm happy to do so. However, firstly, to get the awkward stuff out of the way ... I absolutely hate the term "butch up" (or "man up") and cringe when I see it here on this thread. However, I understand the underlying sentiment and I am happy to disclose.


I am in love with Tmbyfem and have been for almost eight years . We were in a relationship for some years but no longer are. I don't think we'll ever re-ignite the relationship but we remain very close - in fact, probably closer than ever. I love her more each day. The term "soul mates" sounds incredibly cliche and anodyne but it's real in this instance. Other than my mother, she is the only woman that I love and the only woman I want to be in love with. I'm happy with that. I'm a bit relationship-phobic.


Tmbyfem is a member here but not very active (was active on the dash site back in the day) and many here know both of us in real-life. I think that they can vouch for the connection. I've convinced her to come to Little Rock for the Reunion this year - this will be her first Reunion but she attended almost all of the dash site bashes. I'm so glad she is coming. She is a beautiful lady.


However, yes, I do crush. I LOVE to crush. Not in any serious sense like putting up posters on my wall or obsessing (well, except for Sharon Cuneta, a Filipina singer I am in love with ;) ) but in a more general, warm feeling.


Apologies for anyone I miss by accident and I acknowledge some of these femmes maybe aren't active on this forum / this thread but here goes:


Artdecogoddess: Love Pam. Probably less a crush and more admiration.

Dixie: a lot of superfluous online stuff. However, beautiful lady. Introspective underneath. Not much in common with her but could stare into her eyes for a long time. Needs to visit the British Isles.

Espressolover: Manila is embedded in my heart.

Gemme: I'm guessing I've met a woman more gorgeous somewhere, someplace but genuinely cannot think of when or where. Truly beautiful.

Isadora: nothing needs be said :)


Island Scout: Anyone who understands 1950s Brooklyn has the key to my heart.


Lady Merrick: Cannot resist her heels on my lap. I'm back in NYC in May and want to meet up again with her so much.

Nat: last time I posted something complimentary about Nat, this site crashed for two days. Not sure if that was a sign or not but thought I'd repeat it here. Love her perspective, her warmth and her relationship with Missy.

Nycbbwfemme: again, less a crush and more an admiration. I love "real" and this woman is REAL. Let's meet up for a coffee when I am in NYC in May.

Poison: Different time, different place, we'd be happily married.

Sachita: can fantacise about me anytime.

Starryeyes: needs to let me know when next visiting Europe. Great couple energy with Justin. I love their love (if that makes sense).


As for Butch crushes?

None for me but love Wolfy's continued contribution to this thread. Importantly, I love Moonie and Blistex - I probably didn't realise how much until we all got the chance to meet up again last autumn ..... and also love the rawness of KCbutch's energy and honesty. I know all these butch folk in real life and look forward to meeting up with all of them during the course of 2013.



Over and out,

Ciaran :)

[MegBluEyz]

[QUOTE=Ciaran;742017]

"I am in love with Tmbyfem and have been for almost eight years . We were in a relationship for some years but no longer are. I don't think we'll ever re-ignite the relationship but we remain very close - in fact, probably closer than ever. I love her more each day. The term "soul mates" sounds incredibly cliche and anodyne but it's real in this instance. Other than my mother, she is the only woman that I love and the only woman I want to be in love with. I'm happy with that. I'm a bit relationship-phobic.


Tmbyfem is a member here but not very active (was active on the dash site back in the day) and many here know both of us in real-life. I think that they can vouch for the connection."




---I tip my hat to you my friend. When I see you both here in San Diego there is no doubt of the wonderful and unique connection that you two have. Love has many faces and this is a beautiful one.

[BoDy*ShOt]

Thank you sweet friend. Its all good hon, we are friends. So the best is already happening because she is in my life.

See how the universe works?

Its all good.

the Universe works in wonderfully good ways indeed..

[SoulShineFemme]

Yup I still have a ginormous crush on ONLY!! She makes my world go 'round! :rrose:

[WolfyOne]

I'm enjoying the posts I've read tonight and smiling as a I read

Of course, the smile could be the half bottle of wine I've already consumed :blink:

[Trev]

A cozy Saturday night... hope everyone and their crushers are cozy together, somehow :wine:

[Bard]

why yes oh yes I do have a constant and ever growing crush on my beautiful sexy perfect wife

[oksoftbutch]

OK....is it alright if I have mild crushes? Because that's all I'm getting so far....Don't get me wrong...there are smoking hot women here....but....the one I kind of really like doesn't come here.....sigh......
:|

[WolfyOne]

Welcome to Super Bowl Sunday Crushers

And like the Super Bowl, you never know what may happen with crushes, if you just give it a try
Shout out, tell them, tell all of us
Be brave, run until you reach their end of the field...touchdown, no fear ;)

This is my analogy for today, so carry on crushers :)

[WingsOnFire]

as always... Crushing hard on my WolfyOne... I can't believe its been 4 years almost since I met you!

[Trev]

Sunday Funday so get hold of your Crush and get to some fun!

[TheMerryFairy]

In the words of Etta James: "I want a sunday kind of love" Good morning crushers :)

[dixie]

Guilty.

http://cdn.iwastesomuchtime.com/December-27-2011-00-38-16-.png



BUT worth it............ ;)

http://d24w6bsrhbeh9d.cloudfront.net/photo/4353946_700b.jpg

[TimilDeeps]

I feel like, every day, I develop another crush. Kinda fun ;)

[dixie]

Knowing how awesome crushing feels, this is a useful reminder sometimes. :)

http://notsalmon.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/08/POSTER-rush-crush-MED.jpg

[little_ms_sunshyne]

Knowing how awesome crushing feels, this is a useful reminder sometimes. :)

http://notsalmon.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/08/POSTER-rush-crush-MED.jpg

LOVE IT! I am crushin on this post! lol

[Scuba]

I hate to admit it...

...my crush is a crush widow today :|

I'll be crushing the Ravens, tacos, chips and to-die-for cake ;)

[little_ms_sunshyne]

I hate to admit it...

...my crush is a crush widow today :|

I'll be crushing the Ravens, tacos, chips and to-die-for cake ;)

It will be over soon...u best be crushing hard on her tomorrow!!!! Lol you two are too cute :)

[WolfyOne]

I just hope whoever hooks up with me in the future likes football or understands how much I like football and can live with it either way :|

[oksoftbutch]

I hear ya.......at least let us hang out and watch.....eh? :footballpass:



I just hope whoever hooks up with me in the future likes football or understands how much I like football and can live with it either way :|

[Sunny]

I have nachos with extra cheese sour cream, wings with blue cheese dressing, cole slaw, hot dogs and sauerkraut and cannoli's for dessert.... uhum I would like to offer my crushes some of my super bowl food. lol

[Bèsame*]

I just hope whoever hooks up with me in the future likes football or understands how much I like football and can live with it either way :|

Perhaps that crush will compromise? Just show interest in the others likes is a need we all have :)

[GreeneyedMe]

I just hope whoever hooks up with me in the future likes football or understands how much I like football and can live with it either way :|

Love football!! So any future crushes that are into it are safe with me!! Haha...I have burgers, steak fries, chips and dip, and cheesecake! Go Ravens!!!

[StrongButch]

Not today! Think im gonna just stick to taking pictures!

[Sun]

So, what I used to do on Superbowl Sunday, when I was a young pup, was cruise the women's shoe departments and perfume counters at fabulous department stores.

Fascinating to see how many lovely people were out shopping on this day.

Not into football, at all.

Basketball, I am down for.

[Sun]

Love football!! So any future crushes that are into it are safe with me!! Haha...I have burgers, steak fries, chips and dip, and cheesecake! Go Ravens!!!

Now who could turn down a good burger AND cheesecake?

Yall can have the game, I will take the food!!

[Corkey]

My crush made pizza and is sitting here next to me watching podcasts and netflix. It's the presence of the love of my life that matters.:glasses:

[amiyesiam]

My crush made pizza and is sitting here next to me watching podcasts and netflix. It's the presence of the love of my life that matters.:glasses:


We haz company? :rofl::pointing:

Love you:hk20:

[chai~]

Knowing how awesome crushing feels, this is a useful reminder sometimes. :)

http://notsalmon.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/08/POSTER-rush-crush-MED.jpg

<3 this!!!!

[Scuba]

It will be over soon...u best be crushing hard on her tomorrow!!!! Lol you two are too cute :)

Indeed!! I got it covered ;)

[SleepyButch]

Lots of stuff going on in here. It's great when you haven't been in here in a day or two and there are several pages of crush info to read.

This is my last day with my crush here in dreary, cold PA but she is so warm and affectionate, it's hard to remember it's freezing!

This crush will probably last for some time and I will enjoy it for as long as it does. Such a great way to start a new year!

Hope everyone had a great weekend!

[WingsOnFire]

Today I am crushing on my femmes nyfemmebcc and Gemme...

[StrongButch]

Im saving myself for Janet Jackson. Till then im taking pictures! (lol)

[Duchess]

Hi gorgeous peeps!! Somebody needs to spill the beans.:)

[WolfyOne]

Hi gorgeous peeps!! Somebody needs to spill the beans.:)


Will this work?
It's a mixed bunch, just like us ;)

http://doniganmerritt.files.wordpress.com/2011/06/spilled_jar_of_beans_452bib00269.jpg

[TheMerryFairy]

http://dagmarbleasdale.com/wp-content/uploads/2013/01/Valentines-Day-card-free-printables-2.jpg

[Breezy]

I am still crushing big on one in particular and Sun and Wolfy and SleepyButch and PaPa and everyone here and a couple femmes and :rrose:

[DamonK]

Head over heels

[ScandalAndy]

Lots of stuff going on in here. It's great when you haven't been in here in a day or two and there are several pages of crush info to read.

This is my last day with my crush here in dreary, cold PA but she is so warm and affectionate, it's hard to remember it's freezing!

This crush will probably last for some time and I will enjoy it for as long as it does. Such a great way to start a new year!

Hope everyone had a great weekend!



Well bring her out! You're both in my state on my birthday! sheesh!

[SleepyButch]

Well bring her out! You're both in my state on my birthday! sheesh!

We had other plans but ty for the offer!

[MarquisdeShey]

https://sphotos-b.xx.fbcdn.net/hphotos-snc7/c8.0.403.403/p403x403/307298_335037339935719_943240365_n.png

PS: More brave does not exist... I'd still hope they would be braver than I am ... lol

[dixie]

https://sphotos-b.xx.fbcdn.net/hphotos-prn1/549981_584799828201026_692678690_n.jpg

[GreeneyedMe]

http://sphotos-b.xx.fbcdn.net/hphotos-ash3/580496_10151447624194743_1169613371_n.jpg

[LoyalWolfsBlade]

Hi gorgeous peeps!! Somebody needs to spill the beans.:)

Duchess I have been crushing on you since my original name on here and this is the third name for me....so how is that for spilling the beans :sunglass::byebye:

[Kent]

Duchess I have been crushing on you since my original name on here and this is the third name for me....so how is that for spilling the beans :sunglass::byebye:

KnightsBlade,

Way to go!!! Spill those beans, let it all out... Thanks for stepping out of the box and getting it all out there!!

Have an awesome good day!

[Duchess]

Duchess I have been crushing on you since my original name on here and this is the third name for me....so how is that for spilling the beans :sunglass::byebye:

I am deeply honored love!!!

[Duchess]

KnightsBlade,

Way to go!!! Spill those beans, let it all out... Thanks for stepping out of the box and getting it all out there!!

Have an awesome good day!

Kent, I know you must have many Femmes tracking you down.:)

[Kent]

Kent, I know you must have many Femmes tracking you down.:)

No, Duchess.. not really... But, there are a couple or so that I'd like to track down.. ;)

[Duchess]

No, Duchess.. not really... But, there are a couple or so that I'd like to track down.. ;)

Do tell darling!!

[dixie]

Do you still wonder why I rarely reveal my crushes? lol

https://sphotos-b.xx.fbcdn.net/hphotos-prn1/71460_423529051056358_1426466924_n.jpg

[Tommi]

Do you still wonder why I rarely reveal my crushes? lol

https://sphotos-b.xx.fbcdn.net/hphotos-prn1/71460_423529051056358_1426466924_n.jpg




:superfunny::rofl:

[Duchess]

Spit it out Dixie darling.:)

[Kent]

Do tell darling!!

Duchess...

Now, you know I just turned red...

[little_ms_sunshyne]

Do you still wonder why I rarely reveal my crushes? lol

https://sphotos-b.xx.fbcdn.net/hphotos-prn1/71460_423529051056358_1426466924_n.jpg




Dixie if you were a booger, I would pick you!!!! <3

How is that for flirting? Lol

[dixie]

Dixie if you were a booger, I would pick you!!!! <3

How is that for flirting? Lol

omfg! Yes, now I know why you are my best femme friend! It was just meant to be!!!! LMAO

[little_ms_sunshyne]

omfg! Yes, now I know why you are my best femme friend! It was just meant to be!!!! LMAO

And there is more where that came from! As you can see I am extra smooth! :p You should see my pathetic attempts to strut off as my ankle never fails to roll!!!!

[dixie]

And there is more where that came from! As you can see I am extra smooth! :p You should see my pathetic attempts to strut off as my ankle never fails to roll!!!!

Or tripping down the stairs...or running into a wall...yeah, we are smooth.

Isn't it sad that you and I have PROVED that we can run down busy streets in our highest heels yet we can NOT successfully strut away from a butch?? Sheesh. :blush:

[little_ms_sunshyne]

Or tripping down the stairs...or running into a wall...yeah, we are smooth.

Isn't it sad that you and I have PROVED that we can run down busy streets in our highest heels yet we can NOT successfully strut away from a butch?? Sheesh. :blush:

Don't I know it!!!! I tried to take a duck face pic and what do I look like? An angry bird! Lol Lord help me! I could be hopeless!

[dixie]

Don't I know it!!!! I tried to take a duck face pic and what do I look like? An angry bird! Lol Lord help me! I could be hopeless!

Gurrrrlll.....you crack me up!!! You know you are hot though my dear. We just can't help that we're slightly awkward sometimes lol

[little_ms_sunshyne]

Gurrrrlll.....you crack me up!!! You know you are hot though my dear. We just can't help that we're slightly awkward sometimes lol


Gracias Amiga!!! We are FABULOUS! You crack me up on a regular! I need the smiles at the end of the day :)

[dixie]

Gracias Amiga!!! We are FABULOUS! You crack me up on a regular! I need the smiles at the end of the day :)

Yes we ARE! lol I'm here whenever you need me darlin. :)

[dixie]

Have a good weekend and enjoy those crushes! :)


http://t2.gstatic.com/images?q=tbn:ANd9GcQCv9Pjwc2wtkqbYJ5PnB7CuvPmDbxpu Y5UQtM8IRcevmmWmhUnyg

[Smiling]

No. I do not have a crush on anyone here, but that is mostly because I don't know anyone here (at least I don't think so) and not because you aren't all delightful individuals, lol.

(I'm just entertaining myself; please don't mind me)