Do you have a crush on anyone here at The Planet?

[WolfyOne]

I know there's a couple crush threads, but no one hardly ever writes about who they crush on here at The Planet.
It's great that I see pics of famous people others crush on, but I want to see posts about people we've come to know and adore or even love here.

So, with that said....let's get it started in here :)

[dixie]

Yes, I do...but it's a "secret". :giggle:

[Dreams]

you first...

[StillettoDoll]

Yep I got one! :huhlaugh:

[Corkey]

I crush my wife nightly:vigil:

[WolfyOne]

you first...


I do bro, but she'll more than likely never know

Now it's your turn

[WolfyOne]

Yes, I do...but it's a "secret". :giggle:


You could whisper it in my ear and as you know, I'm never going to tell a soul. Especially if I don't hear the words you whisper.
Or, you could text me, send snail mail, PM or IM me...well, you could, you know.

[lillith]

I have a mad crush, but like Wolfy, they will never know. Sigh...the joy of being the friend.

[WolfyOne]

I have a mad crush, but like Wolfy, they will never know. Sigh...the joy of being the friend.


I hear you and understand the joy of being a friend.
Always know that a friendship must evolve before relationship can start

Here's the pot calling the kettle, lol.

[Jar]

I have a crush but she wasn't born soon enough :p

[AtLast]

Yikes! Have to defer to my longtime crush on the Duchess. Always safe with that one!

But, of course I have had crushes on femmes here at times. There are some fantastic women here! Sometimes I wish I was a pilot and had a plane so I could actually meet them!

[Dreams]

I do bro, but she'll more than likely never know

Now it's your turn

it's you and always has been..:awww:

[WolfyOne]

it's you and always has been..:awww:


I'm telling mom you're not being fair :blink:

[Jar]

it's you and always has been..:awww:I KNEW it! You two have been an item forever. Just own up to it!:goodluck:

[atomiczombie]

If I did, I wouldn't tell a soul....

[scootebaby]

was this thread created just so ppl could say they had a crush or to actually SAY/TYPE it out for the whole world to see?

let me see if i can get something started---and let me add that i crush on personalities,posts, and SNs more than anything bc i dont know what a lot of ppl look like---so just a start

my girlfriend Jo of course--and if u ask her i do get a wild hair to crush her at times(its just my way of letting her know how much i love her:) )

Miss Diva--southern and charming!
Miss Duchess--i see her as statuesque and beautiful(altho ive never interacted with her)
Mr & Mrs Day--their groovy love
Blade--he types in orange and we've always meshed well
Nina--her curious relationship with Dave & Cody...and her rambling,random posts that i rarely understand,but always smile at.

Im engrossed in "Something To Talk About" so my mind isnt on this completely,but hopefully this gets something started and ill come back with more later

[Dreams]

I KNEW it! You two have been an item forever. Just own up to it!:goodluck:

only when you won't come down to the creek with me..

[WolfyOne]

I KNEW it! You two have been an item forever. Just own up to it!:goodluck:


Dreams be my twin and nuttin more and that's all I'm owning :raspberry:

Now I hafta tell our mom on you, too

[WolfyOne]

was this thread created just so ppl could say they had a crush or to actually SAY/TYPE it out for the whole world to see?




Either/OR
I thought it would be nice to pay homage to those we like or appreciate
Perhaps someone will make a new friend
Or another will make a love connection

[proximitywithoutintimacy]

Never had a crush on anyone here - but I have a feeling someone has had one on me - and lost interest (or stopped talking to me altogether) once they found out I was seeing someone. :|

[LaneyDoll]

Either/OR
I thought it would be nice to pay homage to those we like or appreciate
Perhaps someone will make a new friend
Or another will make a love connection

Now that is a sweet sentiment. How often do we truly show appreciation to our friends? Probably not nearly enough :)

:sparklyheart:

[Rockinonahigh]

Yep we got some awfull pretty ladies on the planet,I hope to met some of them one day,thats all im sayin.

[Gayla]

Yes.

And I'm pretty sure she knows at this point. :)

[AtLast]

I do hear tell that some have been fortunate enough to meet via the site and developed romances..... really...

:byebye:

[JustJo]

Well, since my sweetie was already in here crushing on people....my turn. :)

I still crush on my mean ass sweetie Scoote :love1:

And....

Gentle Tiger...who I think would bring me donuts and make snickers milkshakes for me and who shares my geeky love of Lean 6 Sigma and project management...

Linus...who is wicked smart

Dixielady...who evidently shares my deep affection for smart ass, cute, funny cat pics

puregrrl...because she's a red head like my Rooster (and her posts make me giggle frequently)

weatherboi('s cooking)...the dinners hy makes for Lady Snow sound incredibly yummy (okay, I know that's cheating, but have you read the "what are you having for dinner thread???)

...and I'm sure there are more but it's early and I'm still on my first cup of coffee :coffee:

[ScandalAndy]

I'll crush on anyone as sweet and chivalrous as most of the butches around here. :) They're so flipping charming!!

[Delish]

I'll crush on anyone as sweet and chivalrous as most of the butches around here. :) They're so flipping charming!!

Amen sista ;)

[dixie]

Either/OR
I thought it would be nice to pay homage to those we like or appreciate
Perhaps someone will make a new friend
Or another will make a love connection

Oh, well damn. That means I need to lengthen my list. Hmm...ok, so other than my "kinda-sorta-secret" crush...

-Snowy...fierce and fabulous, and we have the same bday, so there's good Leo kinship there lol
-MrSunshine...my bestest road trip/late night movie buddy, who has a bday after mine so more good Leo kinship lol
-Wolfy...mad skillz on the dancefloor and my most trusted confidante
-Jo & Scoote...they're just too damn cute bantering back and forth as a couple
-Ami & Corkey...also cracks me up with their banter and heartwarming with their shmoopiness :)
-princessbelle...such pink HK sweetness who makes me into an animated native character on her zombie island lol
-GT...donut fuckery
-Thee Daywalkers...awesomeness
-Diva...wickedness in such a sweet package :sunglass:
-Gayla...always cracks me up
-hpychick...unexpected friendship
-Pixie...fun and such a great soul
-Theo...such a dear sweet friend who can always make me smile
-teh Arwen...makes me use my brain in the most creative ways
-DaddyJune...*shiver*
-BohemianRhapsody...the most genuinely awesome person I am proud to call friend
-Cara...delightful devilment in such an innocent package, although I wish she lived closer because she would be an instant bff
-Julie...there is no one I respect and admire more
-Stiletto & Blaze...two of my fav folks I've met in a very long time
-ScandalAndy...love her attitude and style

I know I'm leaving out lots of folks, but hey...it's too early in the morning for me...lol

[ScandalAndy]

-ScandalAndy...love her attitude and style




GRRRRRL! I made the list! I love your sass too, miss! What a lovely sweet thing to say about me, thank you so much!

(psst! you might be cluing us in to who you're crushing on by virtue of leaving them off your list ;))

[dixie]

GRRRRRL! I made the list! I love your sass too, miss! What a lovely sweet thing to say about me, thank you so much!

(psst! you might be cluing us in to who you're crushing on by virtue of leaving them off your list ;))

Well thank you!

(And yes, that probably is true...lol)

[princessbelle]

Oh, well damn. That means I need to lengthen my list. Hmm...ok, so other than my "kinda-sorta-secret" crush...

-Snowy...fierce and fabulous, and we have the same bday, so there's good Leo kinship there lol
-MrSunshine...my bestest road trip/late night movie buddy, who has a bday after mine so more good Leo kinship lol
-Wolfy...mad skillz on the dancefloor and my most trusted confidante
-Jo & Scoote...they're just too damn cute bantering back and forth as a couple
-Ami & Corkey...also cracks me up with their banter and heartwarming with their shmoopiness :)
-princessbelle...such pink HK sweetness who makes me into an animated native character on her zombie island lol
-GT...donut fuckery
-Thee Daywalkers...awesomeness
-Diva...wickedness in such a sweet package :sunglass:
-Gayla...always cracks me up
-hpychick...unexpected friendship
-Pixie...fun and such a great soul
-Theo...such a dear sweet friend who can always make me smile
-teh Arwen...makes me use my brain in the most creative ways
-DaddyJune...*shiver*
-BohemianRhapsody...the most genuinely awesome person I am proud to call friend
-Cara...delightful devilment in such an innocent package, although I wish she lived closer because she would be an instant bff
-Julie...there is no one I respect and admire more
-Stiletto & Blaze...two of my fav folks I've met in a very long time
-ScandalAndy...love her attitude and style

I know I'm leaving out lots of folks, but hey...it's too early in the morning for me...lol




Woooohooo i made someone's crush list.

Crushin on you Ms. Dixie with the pretty purple font and sweetness with a punch.

Femme crushes make me smile!!!!!

[dixie]

Ack! One of the first folks I meant to put on my list, I somehow left off! (Sorry!!!!:praying:)

-Apoc...also fierce and awesome, another that I am proud to call friend (especially when she calls me out on things I forget! LOL ;))
-nycfembbw...my pen pal from long ago, one of the sweetest, kindest folks I've ever met
-weatherboi...food porn
-Billy...hilarious mr princess with the pink feather boas
-sharkchomp...great friend who feeds my fb gaming habits lol
-ruffryder_0187...one of my most long-time friends who has always been there for me



Ok, who else did I forget? I know there are lots. *le sigh* lol

[Jar]

I know I'm leaving out lots of folks, but hey...it's too early in the morning for me...lol


:watereyes:

[dixie]

:watereyes:

Aww! Sweetie I'm sorry!

-Jar...another long time friend who always makes me smile and says the nicest, sweetest things...and who is also supposed to help Wolfy give me dance lessons LOL :)

[Inked_Trinity]

Aww! Sweetie I'm sorry!

-Jar...another long time friend who always makes me smile and says the nicest, sweetest things...and who is also supposed to help Wolfy give me dance lessons LOL :)

LMAOOOOOOOOOOO Umm Dixie.... this is starting to sound a bit like an Oscar acceptance speech :sunglass:

[dixie]

-sassy_girl...sweet and sassy, who posts great photos that I love to look at
-Tapu...hilariously sarcastic, who enjoys true crime maybe even more than I do
-Inked_Trinity...who checks on me when I'm feeling blue and calls me out on posting too much apparently LOL!


Ok, I'm done for a while. I will take my lil golden statue and go play in another thread now...LOL

[princessbelle]

I'm just gonna say i second Dixie's list.

Must easier that way. LOL

[dixie]

I'm just gonna say i second Dixie's list.

Must easier that way. LOL

I had no idea it would be that hard when I started naming names. There are too darn many people I like and admire! lol

[Inked_Trinity]

-sassy_girl...sweet and sassy, who posts great photos that I love to look at
-Tapu...hilariously sarcastic, who enjoys true crime maybe even more than I do
-Inked_Trinity...who checks on me when I'm feeling blue and calls me out on posting too much apparently LOL!


Ok, I'm done for a while. I will take my lil golden statue and go play in another thread now...LOL

BRAVOOOOOOO!!! (standing and applauding)

[princessbelle]

I had no idea it would be that hard when I started naming names. There are too darn many people I like and admire! lol

I know right? I did that one time on some thread, don't remember. I kept going back and back and back....omg.

It's not easy when you are surrounded by so many beautiful, fabulous people in your life.

But, how wonderful is that!!!!

[dixie]

BRAVOOOOOOO!!! (standing and applauding)

You know I'm sticking my tongue out at you, right? :sunglass:

[Jar]

Aww! Sweetie I'm sorry!

Thanks! :cheer:

[luciddreamer]

welll...I am still fairly new to the site and haven't been on here much to develope a crush...lol.However.. You all are awesome and unique to me ! :sunglass:

[Novelafemme]

i love crushes!! i crush on folks a gazillion times a day and tell them so as often as i can. (f)

Mister Bent, simply because he has the word "jerkface" in his profile!

AtLastHome, because she is a fabulous dancer and welcomes life with open arms. and i am guessing would be a FABULOUS catch, ladies!! ;)

Little Man, for being an amazing photographer and just all around nice guy!

Strappin, for that should be illegal tongue and that heart of gold.

Cherryfemme, for her wardrobe and her classic beauty.

ScandalAndy, for her brains and her ability to shock even me. ;)

The Lady Snow, even though she can be mean to me I know she's a softy inside. shhhhhhhhh

PinkieLee, for radiating acceptance and joy all around this here planet!

Greyson, for his quiet strength and gentle soul.

theoddz, for his amphibians.

oh dear...this list could go on for days.... :)

[ScandalAndy]

I have such a braincrush on Novelafemme, we were obvs separated at birth. :)


i love crushes!! i crush on folks a gazillion times a day and tell them so as often as i can. (f)

Mister Bent, simply because he has the word "jerkface" in his profile!

AtLastHome, because she is a fabulous dancer and welcomes life with open arms. and i am guessing would be a FABULOUS catch, ladies!! ;)

Little Man, for being an amazing photographer and just all around nice guy!

Strappin, for that should be illegal tongue and that heart of gold.

Cherryfemme, for her wardrobe and her classic beauty.

ScandalAndy, for her brains and her ability to shock even me. ;)

The Lady Snow, even though she can be mean to me I know she's a softy inside. shhhhhhhhh

PinkieLee, for radiating acceptance and joy all around this here planet!

Greyson, for his quiet strength and gentle soul.

theoddz, for his amphibians.

oh dear...this list could go on for days.... :)

[ScandalAndy]

P.S. I am LOVING this thread for giving me a real insight into who these posters are and what they're like. As a noob I see these names all the time, the regular posters and commenters, the ones who seem to have everyone as their friend, but I haven't gotten a chance to know them yet. It's great to hear what their friends/lovers/family admire about them. :) Thank you!

[Ciaran]

If there are any mature femmes here who have lots of money they are happy to spend on me and make good lasagne, I'm crushing on them.

If they are also prepared to manage my domestic affairs (i.e. to do my cleaning and ironing), then I'm in love with them.

[Stitch]

Maybe :seesaw:

[scootebaby]

Aww! Sweetie I'm sorry!

-Jar...another long time friend who always makes me smile and says the nicest, sweetest things...and who is also supposed to help Wolfy give me dance lessons LOL :)

are you saying you are such a bad dancer you need TWO teachers??? :lol2:

[dixie]

are you saying you are such a bad dancer you need TWO teachers??? :lol2:

Why yes, yes I am. I'll admit it...lol

[Dreams]

:watereyes:

don't worry Jar i reported her...:readfineprint:

[WolfyOne]

I think we need a BIG group hug
I am so feeling the love flow in this thread

Planet People Rock...'nuff said!!!

[lillith]

I has a crush...shhhhhhh.....don't say nuffin, k? *giggles and blushes*

[WolfyOne]

I has a crush...shhhhhhh.....don't say nuffin, k? *giggles and blushes*


Your secret is safe with me
I won't take it out of this thread to anyone :seeingstars:

Can't say my twin won't go blabbing it now that you posted it

[dixie]

don't worry Jar i reported her...:readfineprint:

Oh jeez...

-Dreams...so that the trifecta of teasing me will be complete
-Kannon...for being another of my oldest, dearest friends
-PinkieLee...so much fun and such a great person
-MsTabitha...adore her and the funny things she posts

[sweetfemme247]

nope no crushes, they all end badly

[lillith]

Your secret is safe with me
I won't take it out of this thread to anyone :seeingstars:

Can't say my twin won't go blabbing it now that you posted it


It sounds like your twin and I need to have a discussion. lol

[Dreams]

It sounds like your twin and I need to have a discussion. lol

and that would be about?..

[WolfyOne]

It sounds like your twin and I need to have a discussion. lol

and that would be about?..


Looks to me like you'll be having that discussion asap :byebye:

[lillith]

and that would be about?..

Whether there will be "blabbing" about my crush. :blues:

[Jar]

Looks to me like you'll be having that discussion asap :byebye:

Yea baby! the little butt is back!! I have a crush on Wolfy's butt :cheer:

[Dreams]

Whether there will be "blabbing" about my crush. :blues:

just so you know my twin is a fibber..just ask mom..

[Dreams]

Looks to me like you'll be having that discussion asap :byebye:

i'm telling mom..just sayin..

[jules5041]

well of course, but a girl never tells...

[WolfyOne]

After reading all these post, I must say, I have many crushes on a whole lot of people here that I truly admire for one reason or another

Since i don't want to leave anyone out, I'm not naming names
Those that know me or cross in threads can probably guess you're included in those names I won't mention

Lastly, still crushing on the lady from here that may never know

[StillettoDoll]

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[Janny]

Not a crush...perhaps a femme crush? I adore Fancy, sassy_girl, hpychick and ZimmygLrL.


When I first joined I had a crush, but sadly hy treated me like a kid sister...OUCH! It's probably for the best 'cause I think hy has two of the likes of me for a mid morning snack. :p
;

[girl_dee]

Yes, I crush my Daddi and my Sister !!!

Oh and all my FC's still melt my :stillheart:

[girl_dee]

Not a crush...perhaps a femme crush? I adore Fancy, sassy_girl, hpychick and ZimmygLrL.


When I first joined I had a crush, but sadly hy treated me like a kid sister...OUCH! It's probably for the best 'cause I think hy has two of the likes of me for a mid morning snack. :p
;

I adore you too! :bunchflowers:

[girl_dee]

Yea baby! the little butt is back!! I have a crush on Wolfy's butt :cheer:

I have always been very fond of that shaking baby booty!

[lillith]

Crushing on *mouth's the name*. Oh wait you guys can't see that huh?

Goes skipping out....tra la la la la

[ScandalAndy]

I saw it!!

[FlowerFem]

Maybe a small one, but that's all.

[EmpressM]

Oh yes, definitely. Totally crushing hard and hy already knows! I'm pretty sure hy likes me too! :D

[tapu]

Building up to one...? :o

[Soft*Silver]

yep....(f)

[Starbuck]

Yes, I have a bit of a crush on someone here. I don't think she knows it. I kinda wish we lived closer so at least we could become friends. (f)(f)

[bigbutchmistie]

Nope Im just a tough nut to crack I guess :)

[DapperButch]

YES!
tantalizingfemme... :tongue:

[*Anya*]

Main Entry: crush
Function: noun

1 : an intense and usually passing infatuation <have a crush on someone>; also : the object of infatuation

Hmm...intense? Infatuation? :|

[Guy]

Yup Yup I have a HUGE crush :countpetal:

[atomiczombie]

Ok so I have a little one....

[bigbutchmistie]

Ok so I have a little one....

:) Whhhhhaaaaat? LOL starts singing Drews got a crush Drews got a crush :) Im glad for ya bro! I hadnt seen you ever crush on someone publicly! She must be AWESOME

[bigbutchmistie]

Yup Yup I have a HUGE crush :countpetal:

I bet I know who it is :) LOL

[atomiczombie]

:) Whhhhhaaaaat? LOL starts singing Drews got a crush Drews got a crush :) Im glad for ya bro! I hadnt seen you ever crush on someone publicly! She must be AWESOME

Ok, so this is a little crush and the person lives way far away, so it's not like anything is going to happen lol.

[bigbutchmistie]

Ok, so this is a little crush and the person lives way far away, so it's not like anything is going to happen lol.

Ya never know :) And besides Drew still has a crush LOL

[WolfyOne]

I find a few femmes here quite crush worthy
Still, not naming names :)

[ArkansasPiscesGrrl]

I have to admit I have a couple of small crushes (ok, maybe more like interested looks from afar) at some of the butches on this site.

Once I actually get to MEET some of them (and perhaps others that haven't yet caught my eye) at the Reunion, then perhaps I could admit to a real 'crush".

Hmmm... wondering if any of them will be "crushable". (that sounds kinda funny, doesn't it? Brings to mind something small like a bug, or an aluminum can, or an empty chip bag!)

[Lazy Daze]

It is wayyyyyy more than a crush! He owns my heart forever ;)

[crashhere4eva]

I have to admit I have a couple of small crushes (ok, maybe more like interested looks from afar) at some of the butches on this site.

Once I actually get to MEET some of them (and perhaps others that haven't yet caught my eye) at the Reunion, then perhaps I could admit to a real 'crush".

Hmmm... wondering if any of them will be "crushable". (that sounds kinda funny, doesn't it? Brings to mind something small like a bug, or an aluminum can, or an empty chip bag!)

:sarcasmalert: Hmmm, a Femme associating crushing on us with crushing a bug... I got a good giggle outta that one. LOL!!

[ScandalAndy]

I totally spend way too much time ogling butches and crushing hard on people and the statements they make. Wouldn't trade it for the world.

[Shadowboi2010]

I haven't yet, but I look forward to developing one!

[~Bo]

I haven't yet, but I look forward to developing one!





It's me, isn't it? :eyebat:

[Nat]

I have friend-crushes and brain-crushes aplenty here. I'm so glad I get to get to go to the reunion. :)

[Fancy]

I have friend-crushes and brain-crushes aplenty here. I'm so glad I get to get to go to the reunion. :)

You're one of my brain crushes.

:glasses:

[JazzGirl]

I have several! :hk2:

[The_Lady_Snow]

I sho' do, dirty perverted Friday night sneak through my window "glen"...

;)

[PumaJ]

LOL! My "crush" moved out here to where I am, moved in :hk13:, then we registered our Domestic Partnership with the county & state.

First came a few weeks of email conversations which led to months of long distance phone conversations :phonegab: that grew ever more honest & interesting leading to mutual heart melting :love1: Eventually, we realized we'd formed a relationship as boifriend & girlfriend. We wanted & needed to meet in person & spend time together. Finally, we were able to do that during the summer :hk34: Thankfully, our heart connection :hk2: was confirmed.

:hk19:

[AtLast]

Hell..... I'm just going to do it...

nah.....

[AtLast]

LOL! My "crush" moved out here to where I am, moved in :hk13:, then we registered our Domestic Partnership with the county & state.

First came a few weeks of email conversations which led to months of long distance phone conversations :phonegab: that grew ever more honest & interesting leading to mutual heart melting :love1: Eventually, we realized we'd formed a relationship as boifriend & girlfriend. We wanted & needed to meet in person & spend time together. Finally, we were able to do that during the summer :hk34: Thankfully, our heart connection :hk2: was confirmed.

:hk19:

It is always super to hear about actual relationships that get started here. Wishing you the best future together as DPs!!!

[tantalizingfemme]

YES!
tantalizingfemme... :tongue:

I might be crushing on you too....well, maybe just a little bit. ;)

[*Anya*]

I plead the 5th...

[MysticOceansFL]

Yeah , maybe , kinda , sorta, why you asking? lol.

[JazzGirl]

It just increased by two fold.

:hk2:

[SoNotHer]

Ah, this is such an interesting thread, and "crush" is such an interesting word for this, isn't it? Crush as in crushed, as in turned to mush, as in hush, he might be reading...

:-)

[luv2luvgirls]

maybe a lil one ;)

[tapu]

Oh, all right! All right! You've gotten it out of me! I do!

[1QuirkyKiwi]

Yes, I do! I've seen her/hym on a Butch-Femme dating site and on here, only I haven't worked up enough courage, yet to say "Hello!" LOL! ......I'll just go nd make cowardly chicken noises to myself until I find my courage (wherever I left it, lol!)

[Gaige]

uh huh...a beautiful southern woman

[BugsAndKisses]

I automatically have a crush on anyone here with a tree frog tattoo...or at least I shall have a crush on the tattoo.

[bigbutchmistie]

Lemme think, um NOPE still not crushin :)

[Gaige]

Yes I think I may have a little one. I'm in an area today that is a deadzone and it's driving me a little crazy. I just drove down the road to post this. :/

[ScandalAndy]

lol, I used to!

[clay]

I absolutely do...grin

[Gaige]

Ok...I am back up the road. Maybe it is a tad more than little.

[genghisfawn]

Ah, this is such an interesting thread, and "crush" is such an interesting word for this, isn't it? Crush as in crushed, as in turned to mush, as in hush, he might be reading...

:-)

I think of crush as in crushed, turned to paste for what is more of a waste than a taste of disappointment?

[Leigh]

A small one, but just as friends ~ kinda hard not to ;)

[smouldering]

Yeahh so what, maybe i do! lol

[Mister Bent]

She makes my wheat belly wiggle.

[1QuirkyKiwi]

You surely betcha, I do! ;) My honey has joined! :)

[WolfyOne]

I do.....that is all :blink:

[Mr Nice Guy]

Nope, not yet. :)

[Parker]

Why yes. Yes I do. :winky:

[Sachita]

I have a few! :)

[midwest chick]

Yeah, I think so...

[Sachita]

I do.....that is all :blink:


Me right? kiss lol

[funkyfemme]

but of course!
how's a girl not to with all these yummy Butches and Daddies hanging around??
:drool: :drool: :drool:

[Licious]

Umm. Minor crushes or major ones? Maybe... I do... never know...

[Sachita]

No one is naming names? I double dog dare you!

[Gaige]

No one is naming names? I double dog dare you!

I can’t reveal my crush. I’d have to let her know first and not through this thread. Besides, it’s recent and way too early to mention. What if it subsides tomorrow? I think I’ll wait to see where this is going, if anywhere. You may hear back from me on this…or not.

[Sachita]

I can’t reveal my crush. I’d have to let her know first and not through this thread. Besides, it’s recent and way too early to mention. What if it subsides tomorrow? I think I’ll wait to see where this is going, if anywhere. You may hear back from me on this…or not.

hahhaha well it ain't rocket science! Hate to tell you this but you aint all that hard to figure out. :) Maybe it will at least make it to the reunion. :)

[Sachita]

I can’t reveal my crush. I’d have to let her know first and not through this thread. Besides, it’s recent and way too early to mention. What if it subsides tomorrow? I think I’ll wait to see where this is going, if anywhere. You may hear back from me on this…or not.

oh wait, hmmmm I'm south of you, I'm southern. awwww sucks I had no idea! I think you're adorable.

[Gaige]

oh wait, hmmmm I'm south of you, I'm southern. awwww sucks I had no idea! I think you're adorable.

lmao, i think you need to check the dates on posts.

[Sachita]

lmao, i think you need to check the dates on posts.

I know - just kidding with you. You're still cute, just not my crush. My crush is on the other side of the US :( otherwise I'd be making a fool of myself to get hys attention.

[Gaige]

hahhaha well it ain't rocket science! Hate to tell you this but you aint all that hard to figure out. :) Maybe it will at least make it to the reunion. :)

apparently i am because your assumption is wrong. :)

[WolfyOne]

Me right? kiss lol


You may or may not be on my short list
After all, you are cute, can cook, play in dirt and like to fish

KOTC for you :)

[Sachita]

You may or may not be on my short list
After all, you are cute, can cook, play in dirt and like to fish

KOTC for you :)

I think you're pretty cute too wolfy! muah!

[greeneyedgrrl]

perhaps, perhaps, perhaps. :cheesy:

[clay]

[COLOR="RoyalBlue"]Most definitely! I blow her a kiss every night! grin/COLOR]

[Mr Nice Guy]

Hey, if your crushing on me just tell me. I'm cool like that. :)

[1QuirkyKiwi]

Hey, if your crushing on me just tell me. I'm cool like that. :)

Inquirying minds want to know; if a Femme has a crush on you, how does she catch you? After all, you are an Elusive Butch! LOL! ;)

*Disclaimer: I'm out of the running for this conquest!*

[Mr Nice Guy]

Finally, someone asked. Answer: very slowly. ;)

[1QuirkyKiwi]

Finally, someone asked. Answer: very slowly. ;)

LOL!

Slowly....as in; slowly, slowly, catchy Monkey?

[Mr Nice Guy]

Not sure what that means. But I guess yes. I'm in no rush. If its meant to be it will happen. Thanks for asking. Basically I just hang in the background and read whats going on and help if I can. That's me. :)

[1QuirkyKiwi]

Not sure what that means. But I guess yes. I'm in no rush. If its meant to be it will happen. Thanks for asking. Basically I just hang in the background and read whats going on and help if I can. That's me. :)

It's an English idiom that means eventually you will achieve your goal. :)

I wish you the best of luck in your search and every health and happiness in life. :)

[Mr Nice Guy]

It's an English idiom that means eventually you will achieve your goal. :)

I wish you the best of luck in your search and every health and happiness in life. :)


Thank you. That's very sweet of you. I wish you the same. :)

[WolfyOne]

Sitting here reading the last few posts and like Elusive, I'm cool with a femme telling me she has a crush on me

Even though I have a few crushes and admire many here, I usually just kick back and wait patiently
I'm at that age, if something is ever to get started, you should come a knocking
As bold as I am at times when writing, I'm kind of quiet in person until I get to know you

[Sachita]

Sitting here reading the last few posts and like Elusive, I'm cool with a femme telling me she has a crush on me

Even though I have a few crushes and admire many here, I usually just kick back and wait patiently
I'm at that age, if something is ever to get started, you should come a knocking
As bold as I am at times when writing, I'm kind of quiet in person until I get to know you

You know there are so many butches like this or at least from what I can see. Honestly Wolfy if you want something bad enough you make a plan and you work towards it. My advice

[buttercupmuffin]

No crush here... Haven't been around long enough... one may have caught my eye as a potential crush, but I let that go. :moonstars:

[clay]

hahhaha well it ain't rocket science! Hate to tell you this but you aint all that hard to figure out. :) Maybe it will at least make it to the reunion. :)

^5 cool lady!!! Grin.... so adorable, isn't it?

[TimilDeeps]

currently crushing on this cup of coffee . . . :tea:

[Gaige]

No crush here... Haven't been around long enough... one may have caught my eye as a potential crush, but I let that go. :moonstars:

yeah same here. moving on.....

[Gemme]

I crush my wife nightly:vigil:

Well, for goodness sakes, Corkey! Let her up!

Never had a crush on anyone here - but I have a feeling someone has had one on me - and lost interest (or stopped talking to me altogether) once they found out I was seeing someone. :|

I call that respectful boundaries, actually.

[Corkey]

[QUOTE=Gemme;520942]Well, for goodness sakes, Corkey! Let her up!

Um ...No :hk20:

[WolfyOne]

You know there are so many butches like this or at least from what I can see. Honestly Wolfy if you want something bad enough you make a plan and you work towards it. My advice


It's not that easy for some of us, honestly
Besides, whomever wants to be with me, must love rescued kitties
Finding good loving homes isn't easy or a quick find, so I continue to keep and love them

Right now the only plan I have going in my mind is getting out of OK and into AR
Hopefully everything else will fall into place afterwards

[Sachita]

It's not that easy for some of us, honestly
Besides, whomever wants to be with me, must love rescued kitties
Finding good loving homes isn't easy or a quick find, so I continue to keep and love them

Right now the only plan I have going in my mind is getting out of OK and into AR
Hopefully everything else will fall into place afterwards

I think most of us are animal lovers. Why you going to Arizona?

I am thinking about building a great big giant outdoor atrium type of thing with little treehouses all inside for a big cat rescue. The shelters are turning them away now. I have some rescued cats now but the problem is i am allergic :( but I make sure they get what they need and I will build something once I have the extra money.

[WolfyOne]

I think most of us are animal lovers. Why you going to Arizona?

I am thinking about building a great big giant outdoor atrium type of thing with little treehouses all inside for a big cat rescue. The shelters are turning them away now. I have some rescued cats now but the problem is i am allergic :( but I make sure they get what they need and I will build something once I have the extra money.


AR=Arkansas
I take allergy meds daily as I am allergic, too...I'll suffer a little, so they no longer have to run the streets scared
If you ever open a cat rescue, I'd be tempted to join in and help
Actually any kind of animal rescue as I'm good with animals of all kinds
Heck, I might even be inclined to look up a retired professor I know and ask him about that grant writing you asked about
He taught my ex how to write grants for a veterans project they were working on

Perhaps consider a few used mobile homes on your property to house your help and live independent of other help

[1QuirkyKiwi]

It's not that easy for some of us, honestly
Besides, whomever wants to be with me, must love rescued kitties
Finding good loving homes isn't easy or a quick find, so I continue to keep and love them

Right now the only plan I have going in my mind is getting out of OK and into AR
Hopefully everything else will fall into place afterwards

I’ve been turned down for rescuing kitties, either because they are doggie lovers or just hate cats. I appreciate cats aren’t for everyone, at the same time, I cannot give up fostering (and adopting them if they are happy here and want to stay). I grew up with my family rescuing and adopting animals (for a few years we had 26 animals living with us that included 2 pigs, 1 sheep, 8 rabbits, 5 dogs and 6 cats!).

My 5 furbabies are recent adoptions in the last 4 years. Before that, I had a couple with the last one passing at 18 years in 2008.

K isn’t a cat lover, yet, she is willing to accept them and me for fostering them….it’s a compromise as I’m learning to yield a little to allow her to protect me (not sure if that’s the correct word), she’s not taking my independence away from me, but, wants to do things for me.

Wolfy, the lady you seek is out there waiting for your paths to cross….you will find each other eventually. :)

I wish you every health and happiness in life! (f)

[Ciaran]

Even though I have a few crushes and admire many here, I usually just kick back and wait patiently
I'm at that age, if something is ever to get started, you should come a knocking
As bold as I am at times when writing, I'm kind of quiet in person until I get to know you

Understand that approach but, if the other party also takes that approach, then "never the 'twain shall meet". Sometimes it does no harm, if waiting for the door to knock, to leave the door slightly ajar :)

[Mr Nice Guy]

I rescued a starving cat outside of my condo a couple months ago. She's slowly gaining weight. I was going to find a home for her but one day I came home and she kissed me and I fell. She's mine now and her name is Baby.

[Gemme]

Totally off the thread topic, but related to the current kitty internal topic:

I had a customer tell me yesterday that her husband and son were fishing a few months back and there was a bridge near where they were set up. Someone threw something over the bridge as they drove over it and it fell into the water. Her hubby and son paddled up to it and found it was a pillow case tied in a knot and inside the pillow case was an all black kitten.

Some people have issues with all black cats around Halloween and this was right about that time. I know when I had Wolfy (Wolfinator, not to be confused with our very own Wolfy here), I had to be VERY careful around Hallow's Eve. People are mean.

My point is: they saved her and now she's bossy and very, very loved!

I love happy endings.

[1QuirkyKiwi]

I rescued a starving cat outside of my condo a couple months ago. She's slowly gaining weight. I was going to find a home for her but one day I came home and she kissed me and I fell. She's mine now and her name is Baby.

Awww! That is wonderful to read. (f) I take it you are both crushing on each other, lol! Glad she is gaining weight and now has a happy, loving home. :)

[Leigh]

I think I'm just gonna crush on my cats, thats much easier :p

[WolfyOne]

It's ok to be off topic every now and again
Crushes come in all shapes, sizes and with or without fur, perhaps not always here on BFP

Ciaran, I'll remember to leave the door ajar
Perhaps someone one day will walk through it

[1QuirkyKiwi]

Totally off the thread topic, but related to the current kitty internal topic:

I had a customer tell me yesterday that her husband and son were fishing a few months back and there was a bridge near where they were set up. Someone threw something over the bridge as they drove over it and it fell into the water. Her hubby and son paddled up to it and found it was a pillow case tied in a knot and inside the pillow case was an all black kitten.

Some people have issues with all black cats around Halloween and this was right about that time. I know when I had Wolfy (Wolfinator, not to be confused with our very own Wolfy here), I had to be VERY careful around Hallow's Eve. People are mean.

My point is: they saved her and now she's bossy and very, very loved!

I love happy endings.

So glad she's happy and in a loving home, too! I love that sh'e bossy; she sounds like Kia Ora (one of my girls) who's very bossy, lol!

[Sachita]

Understand that approach but, if the other party also takes that approach, then "never the 'twain shall meet". Sometimes it does no harm, if waiting for the door to knock, to leave the door slightly ajar :)


Ciaran thank you! It's true. I don't chase after anyone, however if I'm interested in someone I find some way to let them know and see if it;s reciprocated. Keep in mind that you can have a crush but you don't cat on it because you don't feel you have enough in common to pursue but it's a crush nonetheless. It's ok to put it out there.

I have a crush on Ciaran because she just so fucking intelligent and from reading her post I bet we'd have hours and hours of unreal conversation.

I have a crush on Scubadyke because she just so fucking sexy hot adorable with the right amount of edge.

I adore Greco's passion for animals, the environment and food safety. It's a spiritual crush.

lemme see who else... hmmm YOU Wolky cuz you just sooooooo freaking sweet.

I've got some others but I'm still waiting for just the right one to pounce on!

[Ciaran]

I have a crush on Ciaran because she just so fucking intelligent and from reading her post I bet we'd have hours and hours of unreal conversation.


Thank you :) .... no doubt that we'd have hours and hours of unreal conversation (if you could understand my accent) and, in all probability, likely disagree on more than we'd agree on but would disagree in a respectful way.

That said, I think that the jury is out on my intelligence levels :D

[Sachita]

Thank you :) .... no doubt that we'd have hours and hours of unreal conversation (if you could understand my accent) and, in all probability, likely disagree on more than we'd agree on but would disagree in a respectful way.

That said, I think that the jury is out on my intelligence levels :D

Trust me- I would understand you. The only real area I wouldn't be interactive on is politics. I have completely lost interest in it.

Cheers.

[Martina]

Awww. One of my cats is named Baby. She was a stray too. She started out being called the baby because she was younger, 6 months about, and then it just turned into her name.


I rescued a starving cat outside of my condo a couple months ago. She's slowly gaining weight. I was going to find a home for her but one day I came home and she kissed me and I fell. She's mine now and her name is Baby.

[SweetJane]

I think I'm just gonna crush on my cats, thats much easier :p

Leigh, I agree with you...Now if only I could have a cat at my place....Sigh

[Mr Nice Guy]

Yes I crush on my pets. :)

[genghisfawn]

Okay, yes. It's alarming but nice.

[Lazy Daze]

Its way more than a crush...I love Guy with all my heart and soul.

[amiyesiam]

I crush my wife nightly:vigil:

there are not words

shakes head, laughs

here are some on's for you dear: on on on on on on on

[ONLY]

HELL YEAH!!!!! :drool::bowdown::freak:

[mplsgrrl]

Crushed. Indeed.:rrose:

[Gemme]

there are not words

shakes head, laughs

here are some on's for you dear: on on on on on on on

I TOLD him to let you up but he said No.

:blink:

[midwest chick]

gee, thought it was kinda obvious who I'm crushing on...

the rollercoaster gy with the HOT tattoos!

[MysticOceansFL]

I don't believe in crushes.

[macele]

a crush is a precious feeling! o so sweet.

i have a crush on Inked_Trinity. she's the cooliest cool on the planet! lol

everybody'dliketohavewhatshe'sgot!shecancool'emdow nwhenthey'resmolder'inhot!

she's butch, but i like her anyway LOL.

o behave!

[Finn]

I sure do,,yet it is far more than a crush. I Love this Lady with all of my heart and soul. She's the nicest ,sweetest,and most wonderful woman I have ever had the pleasure to know and Love.. You're the best My LadyHawk and I am yours totaly..OOXX

[Ciaran]

I don't believe in crushes.

I believe in crushes.

[Mr Nice Guy]

I'm with you on that one. I believe in them too. :)

[Kelsfemme]

I think I might possibly, sort of, kind of, maybe have a crush on someone. But I know it's a bad idea.

[clay]

no kels...crushes are so sweet, so secretive, and one's to enjoy as she/hy sees fit!
So go on....relish that crush girl!

[Kelsfemme]

I know for a fact it's not a good idea. But they are just so smart, and witty, and different. But I know how it ends, and it's not good.

[clay]

ahhh, ok then...was just encouraging you to enjoy the 'crushing"...have an awesome day! :)

[spritzerJ]

way beyond crush for me too... I blame hys amazingness.

[willow]

I think I might possibly, sort of, kind of, maybe have a crush on someone. But I know it's a bad idea.

I don't believe a crush can ever be bad.

It may not be wise to speak of it or act upon it but that doesn't make it bad, or wrong. Savour the feelings and emotions it evokes in you.

And, when it passes, remember it fondly. (f)

[Mr Nice Guy]

Sorry, I had to put my 2 cents in.

Kels, I think crushes are great!! They make your heart beat fast. Life is short and you never know what could happen if you told someone. I mean you could get rejected or even better make a friend or more. I would rather tell someone myself then wonder what if. That's just me. I love seeing who crushes on who. I mean not everyone tells. So that part sucks. I'm just a romantic soul. :)

[DapperButch]

gee, thought it was kinda obvious who I'm crushing on...

the rollercoaster gy with the HOT tattoos!

Who? Seriously, I don't know who it is, but maybe that is b/c I don't tend to notice that stuff, anyway.

[Inked_Trinity]

a crush is a precious feeling! o so sweet.

i have a crush on Inked_Trinity. she's the cooliest cool on the planet! lol

everybody'dliketohavewhatshe'sgot!shecancool'emdow nwhenthey'resmolder'inhot!

she's butch, but i like her anyway LOL.

o behave!

LMAOOOOOOOOOOOOOO Damn Mac! I had forgotten about that ^!

[Inked_Trinity]

gee, thought it was kinda obvious who I'm crushing on...

the rollercoaster gy with the HOT tattoos!

Well it's good thing.... I'd hate to be in this crush thing all alone! ;)

[dixie]

crush(es) = noooooooooooooooooo!

[genghisfawn]

*trembles...*

[VintageFemme]

one or two. or six or seven ;)

[mustangjeano]

I am in agreement with vintagefemme. I have at least 3 or four crushes---fun--and there are so many lovely femmes here--how can a guy help it.

[Rockinonahigh]

A fue,hear and there...A gentleman never tells.

[Mr Nice Guy]

Still nope. But love reading this thread.

[Licious]

Hey, if your crushing on me just tell me. I'm cool like that. :)

Hmm. I think the ladies are too shy to tell you. Maybe if you turn around and promise not to peek they can say.

[Mr Nice Guy]

You have known me since the other B-F and you know I can't help but peek. I'm like a cat, curious about everything. Lol.

[Mr Nice Guy]

Ok let's see who else is crushing on the planet. Sorry I can't help myself. I like reading this thread and seeing who crushes on who. -meow

[Skittlesluver]

Sure I have lots of crushes...Orange Crush, Blue Crush, Red Crush...oooohhh waiitt...you mean...ahem...I plead the 5th amendment :police:

[girl_dee]

one or two. or six or seven ;)

You KNOW i crush you, don't tell the others....:heartbeat:

[1QuirkyKiwi]

OK! I’ll admit that I have one or two dozen crushes here!

….There’s ‘Phwoar’ with hys knee buckling smile and swoon inducing witty charm.

….There’s ‘Hubba-Hubba’ with hys seductive eyes and smile.

….Of course, there’s ‘Whoa there hot stuff’ with hys sensually flirting ways setting all Femmes hearts aflutter!

….Oh! And not for getting ‘Hey handsome’ with hys dashingly handsome good looks; who has a smile that would melt the coldest of hearts and a sense of humour to win over them over, too!

K is fine with me having all these crushes as my arms aren’t long enough to reach; so it’s a look, but, no touching situation, lol!

:countpetal:

:kissy:

:stillheart:

:cheesy:

[Mr Nice Guy]

Cool!! I love when you all pop on and post. Anymore out there? Enquiry minds want to know. ;)

[SweetJane]

Crushes? Hmmmmm..... well now. Let me think.....

[clay]

ohh a DOZEN, at least. There are so many gorgeous femmes/ladies/women here....how can I pick JUST one? Yummmm
so yes, I DO have crush(es)...absolutely

[SweetJane]

Well now there are a few here.......

[TimilDeeps]

Being new here, not yet. Once I get around I will crush on as many people as humanly possible.

[Gemme]

Nope......

[Sassy]

"Do you have a crush on anyone here at The Planet?"

Nope. :D



... with so many awesome people, how could a gal crush on just one? *laughs*

[Mr Nice Guy]

Well at least I'm not alone in the "Nope" department. :)

[DapperButch]

You know, for years I have looked at these "crush" threads and had the same thoughts.

1) I have never had a crush

2) I am not sure I know what a crush is.

I am thinking that maybe the definition of crush is "sort of" liking somebody?

That doesn't happen to me. I like a person, I never "sort of" like a person.

Maybe someone can explain it to me?

I suppose I might sometimes "think" I like a person. Like I could say to myself, "I think I like this person". Is that a crush?

[Greyson]

You know, for years I have looked at these "crush" threads and had the same thoughts.

I suppose I might sometimes "think" I like a person. Like I could say to myself, "I think I like this person". Is that a crush?


Yes. I too have been reading the crush thread for many years and I can't remember anyone ever actually giving a name to their crush. The exception would be they say the name only if it is a matter of community knowledge that they are partnered, dating, married. As anyone else noticed this?

[DapperButch]

Yes. I too have been reading the crush thread for many years and I can't remember anyone ever actually giving a name to their crush. The exception would be they say the name only if it is a matter of community knowledge that they are partnered, dating, married. As anyone else noticed this?

Well, that is something different from what I was talking about, although I do agree that it is sort of a pointless thread for the reason you indicate.

What I am saying is that I have never felt I have ever had a crush on anyone, ever, anywhere. Here I am defining crush as being "sort of" liking someone. So, I was asking for a definition.

[Mr Nice Guy]

I think when you crush on someone it means you like them. That's my definition. I crushed when I was younger but not since.

[princessbelle]

Well, that is something different from what I was talking about, although I do agree that it is sort of a pointless thread for the reason you indicate.

What I am saying is that I have never felt I have ever had a crush on anyone, ever, anywhere. Here I am defining crush as being "sort of" liking someone. I am confident in my "liking" of someone. So, I was asking for a definition.

Goodness Gracious you two!!!!

Yes Dapper, IMO a crush is sorta liking someone. It's like you see someone out a club and you talk to them and you sorta like them. It's like the stage between not knowing them and knowing them.

Online it is easy to have a crush on someone. You like what they post, their pics but you don't really know them till you exchange emails, phone calls, likes, dislikes and meet them. Then you know...you know?

It's not complicated. Honest. And as far as posting in here. If i may, it's like a game of sorts. If you have a "crush" you see if someone that you are crushing on has a crush. And if they do, you hope it's you.

Well, i mean if you are single of course. It's suppose to be fun!!!!!!!

;)

[DapperButch]

I think when you crush on someone it means you like them. That's my definition. I crushed when I was younger but not since.

Ok, well, that is rather simple. For some reason I assumed it more complicated than that. Thanks.

[Greyson]

Well, that is something different from what I was talking about, although I do agree that it is sort of a pointless thread for the reason you indicate.

What I am saying is that I have never felt I have ever had a crush on anyone, ever, anywhere. Here I am defining crush as being "sort of" liking someone. So, I was asking for a definition.

I don't have a hard and fast definition of "crush." I do know if I find myself thinking of them, enjoy talking with them, spending time with them, I may have a crush on them. For me, "crush" does not mean I am interested in a romance or sexual liaison. It can, but not necessarily.

I'm fortunate, I still crush on my girlfriend. She holds my interest and even better the crush is mutual.

[The_Lady_Snow]

oh yes, yes I do....

[DapperButch]

Goodness Gracious you two!!!!

Yes Dapper, IMO a crush is sorta liking someone. It's like you see someone out a club and you talk to them and your sorta like them. It's like the stage between not knowing them and knowing them.

Online it is easy to have a crush on someone. You like what they post, their pics but you don't really know them till you exchange emails, phone calls, likes, dislikes and meet them. Then you know...you know?

It's not complicated. Honest. And as far as posting in here. If i may, it's like a game of sorts. If you have a "crush" you see if someone that you are crushing on has a crush. And if they do you hope it's you.

Well, i mean if you are single of course. It's suppose to be fun!!!!!!!

;)




Ohhhhhh, I see. Thank you! (seriously!)

[SweetJane]

Yes. I too have been reading the crush thread for many years and I can't remember anyone ever actually giving a name to their crush. The exception would be they say the name only if it is a matter of community knowledge that they are partnered, dating, married. As anyone else noticed this?

That's the point of a crush thread. You aren't supposed to announce who has caught your eye. Those who are the focus of the crush often know because they are in communication with the crusher and it just makes them smile when they see that the crusher has a crush on the crushee and they hope it's them.

[Ebon]

That's the point of a crush thread. You aren't supposed to announce who has caught your eye. Those who are the focus of the crush often know because they are in communication with the crusher and it just makes them smile when they see that the crusher has a crush on the crushee and they hope it's them.

Unless they are a stalker. I love her new curtains.

[Cid]

Hey Princessbelle, I think you're right. A crush is supposed to be all about the fun of it all. I think it's exciting and adds flavour to an otherwise boring day. So, whatever your description of 'a crush' is, it's more about the fun of it all than anything else.

Oh, and I never admit to anything.. ;)

[Gemme]

You know, for years I have looked at these "crush" threads and had the same thoughts.

1) I have never had a crush

2) I am not sure I know what a crush is.

I am thinking that maybe the definition of crush is "sort of" liking somebody?

That doesn't happen to me. I like a person, I never "sort of" like a person.

Maybe someone can explain it to me?

I suppose I might sometimes "think" I like a person. Like I could say to myself, "I think I like this person". Is that a crush?

Ok, well, that is rather simple. For some reason I assumed it more complicated than that. Thanks.

I don't have a hard and fast definition of "crush." I do know if I find myself thinking of them, enjoy talking with them, spending time with them, I may have a crush on them. For me, "crush" does not mean I am interested in a romance or sexual liaison. It can, but not necessarily.

I'm fortunate, I still crush on my girlfriend. She holds my interest and even better the crush is mutual.

For me, it's the initial woozy warm 'n fuzzy you get with someone in the verrrry beginning of the relationship. Kind of like what Belle is saying. The butterflies in the tummy when you see an email from them or the unconscious smile that plays across your face when you read a post of theirs or the seed of the 'what if' game. What if s/he/y is single and knows I exist, etc.

Remember when we were kids and passed the note that said, "If you like me, check yes or no"? It's like that feeling you had right before you found out what his/her choice was and then, if it was yes, there was an additional burst of warm 'n fuzzy and you crushes a bit more.

Crushes can be nice. That little thrill in the tum tum does it for me. Or it used to. Nowadays, I'm fresh out of crushes.

[Gemme]

Unless they are a stalker. I love her new curtains.

What's wrong with stalkers? They let you know if your fashion sense is off or if you need to do laundry or buy soap.

:blink:

[Princess]

Definately a bit more than crush but enjoying every single second! :)

[ScandalAndy]

Yes. I too have been reading the crush thread for many years and I can't remember anyone ever actually giving a name to their crush. The exception would be they say the name only if it is a matter of community knowledge that they are partnered, dating, married. As anyone else noticed this?

Well, that is something different from what I was talking about, although I do agree that it is sort of a pointless thread for the reason you indicate.

What I am saying is that I have never felt I have ever had a crush on anyone, ever, anywhere. Here I am defining crush as being "sort of" liking someone. So, I was asking for a definition.

lol, i stalk this thread all the time in case someone puts my name, because i'm too dense to know if someone actually likes me or is just being nice. :)

[Mr Nice Guy]

I feel the same as Scandalandy, I wouldn't know if someone crushed on me unless they hit with something or left me a note. I loved getting those if you like me circle yes or no notes. I miss those days. Things were so much easier. Of course I just hang in the background so that's probably why. No biggie. :)

[1QuirkyKiwi]

lol, i stalk this thread all the time in case someone puts my name, because i'm too dense to know if someone actually likes me or is just being nice. :)

I feel the same as Scandalandy, I wouldn't know if someone crushed on me unless they hit with something or left me a note. I loved getting those if you like me circle yes or no notes. I miss those days. Things were so much easier. Of course I just hang in the background so that's probably why. No biggie. :)

Yep! Same here! :o ….I’m very observant about people’s behaviour and body language, but, completely clueless when someone has a crush on me, lol! Of course the use of a message, a gigantic neon sign, a 2x4 with my name on it or standing in front of me and saying so have always been affect ways for me to find out! :blink: LOL!

At school we passed ‘love notes’ around; Lee sent me one and I thought it was a joke. She asked me why I threw it away, so when I told her I believed it to be a wind-up she told me how she felt about me….see! Blunt is always best, lol!

When K told me she thought I was beautiful and asked me out for coffee, my initial reaction was one of an animal caught in the headlights: “What me? ….Ummm….yes, I’d like too, thank you!” She laughed at my reaction and thought it was cute, lol! :o

A Butch here has a crush on me and has told me so a while back and a friendship has developed because of it. :)

I may secretly send a wink to my crushes; soooo, anyone getting one will either feel flattered or completely terrified! LOL!

[Daktari]

...several

[clay]

I haz crushes...and I like for them to be "secret" for the most part....however, I HAVE stepped up and told said person(s) I crushed her/them!! GRIN!

[girl_dee]

Crushes..

Well for heck sake there are so many kinds of crushes.. for example...

a REAL fall on your face kinda :tongue: crush = gaga over someone

a FC (femme crush) i crush SO many femmes around here, hopelessly devoted to each and every one of them :awww:

also a FC (friend crush), could be anyone that i have come to crush over the years... :gimmehug:

a crush doesn't always mean you wanna grab the Uhaul! Sometimes it just means HEY I think you are crushable!

[SweetJane]

I feel the same as Scandalandy, I wouldn't know if someone crushed on me unless they hit with something or left me a note. I loved getting those if you like me circle yes or no notes. I miss those days. Things were so much easier. Of course I just hang in the background so that's probably why. No biggie. :)

Yep those middle school days were always easier.

I'm still so new in the community, I, too, often need a 2x4 upside the head to realize that somebody is trying to get my attention....

[SugarFemme]

Amen to the 2X4. I just always assume people just want to chat with me and nothing more. Too bad there wasn't an app or something for sending those cute little notes we used to hand out in school <g>. Or, for a novel idea, we could actually be really grownup about it and tell the person we are crushing on that we are interested in them LOL. And that little piece of advice was definitely a, "Do as I say not as I do", piece of advice LMAO




Yep those middle school days were always easier.

I'm still so new in the community, I, too, often need a 2x4 upside the head to realize that somebody is trying to get my attention....

[puddin']

why yes i do actually... sev'ral in fact.

[Glenn]

[QUOTE=SweetJane;524849]Yep those middle school days were always easier.

Yep..if someone gave you one of those little candy hearts on Valentines day that said Be Mine in red poison and you ate it- then your fate was sealed.

[girl_dee]

a check yes or no note!!!!! :heartbeat:

Apparently i am a 2x4 femme :|

[1QuirkyKiwi]

a check yes or no note!!!!! :heartbeat:

Apparently i am a 2x4 femme :|

There seems to be a few of us! :blink:

Hey Butches!! Can you take the less subtle approach? Please and thank you! :cheesy:

[Mr Nice Guy]

I would tell someone if I crushed on them. Im not afraid. Ok maybe a little. :)

[clay]

well put, Ms. dee...thanks hon!!Crushes..

Well for heck sake there are so many kinds of crushes.. for example...

a REAL fall on your face kinda :tongue: crush = gaga over someone

a FC (femme crush) i crush SO many femmes around here, hopelessly devoted to each and every one of them :awww:

also a FC (friend crush), could be anyone that i have come to crush over the years... :gimmehug:

a crush doesn't always mean you wanna grab the Uhaul! Sometimes it just means HEY I think you are crushable!

[SugarFemme]

For me, I don't believe I would ever admit my "crush" to the person. Not out of fear. But I just LOVE the thrill of the "chase". It just works for me.

[VintageFemme]

You KNOW i crush you, don't tell the others....:heartbeat:

...and i think i just fainted :heartbeat: swoooon~

[sanee66]

I believe I could have a couple of crushes if the recepients didnt seem so untouchable sigh..

[Mr Nice Guy]

This is the perfect day to tell someone you crush on them or wish them a Happy Valentines day. So for all the crushers and crushees, Happy Valentines day!! Now off to work. :)

[girl_dee]

...and i think i just fainted :heartbeat: swoooon~


*fans you very spastically!* :winky:

[Mr Nice Guy]

You know I was thinking. It's to bad you can't send mystery PMs that tell someone you have a crush but be able to hide your name. Or something like that. Although then the thread would be quiet and I wouldn't be able to lurk here and read all the posts. Never mind. :)

[justkim]

You could always send your crush a pm and start a conversation... nothing wrong with that... if anything you can walk away knowing you have created a new friendship...

You know I was thinking. It's to bad you can't send mystery PMs that tell someone you have a crush but be able to hide your name. Or something like that. Although then the thread would be quiet and I wouldn't be able to lurk here and read all the posts. Never mind. :)

[Mr Nice Guy]

No crush for me yet. But if I did I would just say it. :)