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JDeere
03-17-2016, 09:53 PM
My mind is on my girlfriend and the conversation we had earlier this evening.
I think she wants me to grow up LOL
Kenna
03-21-2016, 06:10 PM
March 22 has been three years since Momma D suddenly left this world. My heart is still shattered.
homoe
03-21-2016, 06:27 PM
These bastards who refuse to do their jobs and hold hearings for the nominee that President Obama has picked to fill the vacancy on the Supreme Court!
firegal
03-21-2016, 07:38 PM
How gratefull i am for.......
Gayandgray
03-21-2016, 07:51 PM
Wishing I could live on a smaller paycheck......:cigar2:
Kenna
03-22-2016, 10:30 AM
In the next 10 minutes I'm headed to the Lake.
FireSignFemme
03-22-2016, 11:31 AM
The best way to keep people from giving me screwdrivers without incurring any wrath. I currently own 27 screw drivers, all of them gifted and I really don’t need any more.
candy_coated_bitch
03-22-2016, 12:16 PM
I wonder when/ if things will get better.
Lecheloco
03-22-2016, 01:25 PM
I have to much going on and it has been making me push everyone away , so I have been trying to analyze the why's and what's of it, that's what is on my mind
Gemme
03-23-2016, 05:50 AM
The best way to keep people from giving me screwdrivers without incurring any wrath. I currently own 27 screw drivers, all of them gifted and I really don’t need any more.
If you have any Stubbies, I'll take them.
:)
FireSignFemme
03-23-2016, 01:55 PM
If you have any Stubbies, I'll take them.
:)
I've got three stubbies you can have two as I only just need the one. They are in good shape, one Phillips, one standard, otherwise they match. Both are gray and orange Home Depot, specials – nothing expensive or vintage, sturdy enough though for average home repair needs. Just PM me where to send them l and I'll get them off to you in the mail straightaway Gemme.
Kenna
03-24-2016, 10:23 AM
Deciding what to do with the rest of my day...
How SOME people..
Not naming any names ahem
Some people are evil and just deserve to fall face first in a mud hole. Lol
MysticOceansFL
03-24-2016, 03:00 PM
Enjoying the summer light rain.
Judging by what my mind decided to think about for a 3 hour drive I would have to say that femmes are on mind.
:blink:
Still the ladies. I walk around in this world and wonder why ladies do not walk up and kiss me. Maybe tomarrow. :cowboy:
Kätzchen
04-03-2016, 08:38 PM
Friday, April 23rd.
And, putting together tentative plans for an up coming two week vacation in May.
Not sure exactly if I will get to do all the things I want to do, but I'm looking forward to having some time off to enjoy life.
:hk22:
JDeere
04-03-2016, 08:41 PM
Wondering if my birth father truly knows I exist or if my birth mother lied to him too.
TruTexan
04-03-2016, 11:16 PM
Knowing my late uncle must be laughing at us(myself and his son) while we were scrambling through paperwork trying to find his signed title to one of his trucks and not finding it. I know he's up in heaven having a good old jolly laugh at us and saying "HA I GOTCHA AGAIN" lol.
RockOn
04-04-2016, 01:11 AM
want to go back to sleep ...
It is now 2:04 a.m. ... woke up to pee a little while ago after having slept very hard for four hours ...
Couldn't go back to sleep and have already been to the kitchen twice (I graze when I wake up in the middle of the night) ... I have now consumed two rice krispy treats ... and ... fritos with 1/2 container of bean dip ... and about to go back to the kitchen for the third time ... thinking something very interesting, more interesting than last time, is automagically going to appear in my fridge ... it's a sickness, I tell you!!!!! :(
Rockinonahigh
04-04-2016, 03:54 AM
waking up at 4:15a.m. screaming don't touch me, don't fucking touch me punching at what was ever there while I was half awake now I cant go back to sleep.
Gayandgray
04-07-2016, 02:52 PM
My oldest Boston Terrier, Brandy. She will be 12 yrs old this coming July and today the vet told us she is in CHF. They started her on 3 different heart meds and they estimate she has 6 months left. We are devastated. But I know my dog and she is a fighter. I told the vet bull***t, she isn't going anywhere any time soon! She doesn't even act sick now! I think both my spouse and I have spent most of today crying. I never had children so our 4 dogs are my babies and I would do anything for them. Today was a real crappy day.......:confused:
Rockinonahigh
04-07-2016, 04:37 PM
I wonder how the new Doctor is going to turn out. Last week I finely had my G.P. see what she could do about my bad knee, she looked at the so called fat knee the other Doctors were talking a bout then said...that's what they are holding you up on?? Lets do something else, so there is hope, I have an appointment with him next Monday.
JDeere
04-07-2016, 09:18 PM
Dealing with stuff to get ready for tomorrow!
And how much I miss my Lady!
WolfyOne
04-11-2016, 05:38 AM
I've been MIA in posting and reading here, but miss y'all. For the last 3 months I've been working 6 days a week, 10 to 12 hour days and that is how it will be for a long while.. Sunday being my only day off. So looking forward to a nice Sunday to go river fishing.
Gemme
04-12-2016, 08:35 AM
I'm looking outside the window, seeing the rain and hearing the birds chirp and chatter and thinking about all the kindness that has been bestowed upon me recently. It's very much appreciated.
In a twist of irony...
Alzheimers
Kätzchen
04-13-2016, 11:00 PM
That when the clouds bring rain or when it's simply cloudy, that we have typical April weather.
But when there are no clouds, we have August weather : high 80s, low to mid 90s.
And it's only April.
By summer, it won't be summer.
It's hard to believe how hot it's going to be,
if it's only April right now.
girl_dee
04-16-2016, 08:00 PM
Took the route that Will Smith took, and stopping in the place he was gunned down in front of his wife. Makes no sense at all.
JDeere
04-17-2016, 03:51 AM
A mix of this and that!
Gayandgray
04-17-2016, 09:57 AM
Juggling our finances now that my hours have been cut. :|
~ocean
04-17-2016, 09:59 AM
Took the route that Will Smith took, and stopping in the place he was gunned down in front of his wife. Makes no sense at all.
Nothing makes sense anymore Dee ~
The eaglets Brutus and Lil Guy just cannot catch a break.
There was a partial nest collapse this evening. Most of the supporting bottom is gone as well as half the nest surface. What is left has shifted, continues to shift, and is listing precariously. How long it will stay intact is questionable.
The nest bed is supposed to be the size of a king sized bed. The structural depth is supposed to be 5-6 feet.
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Brutus has fledged and can fly as needed. He has also tried eating while perched before but hasn't mastered it. And, he is quite used to and adept at perching on a branch.
Lil Guy has barely branched. He has never flown. He has never tried to eat while on a branch. And, he likes to rest/sleep laying down. Perching is not his thing.
At least they were both well fed today. A full tummy will be helpful while they figure this out. Adaptability means survival in the wild.
Dad stopped by a bit ago, did a wtf did you kids do while I was gone cursory look and kept on going. Mom is keeping her distance. The kids get excited, hop up and down and flap when they see a parent, thinking food is coming. Jumping up and down right now would not be a good idea.
I'm getting too old for this shit. LOL.
JDeere
04-20-2016, 07:06 PM
That my girlfriend better hurry up and text me, I am getting a bit frustrated with this not texting calling stuff.
I know I am needy but sheesh really, I text/call right back because it is common courtesy.
MsTinkerbelly
04-20-2016, 09:53 PM
On my mind......
How much I miss my daughter.
The good news is Brutus and Lil Guy still have a home. The nest is holding. They have been fed. They cant lounge or rest spread out in the nest bed but both seem to be doing okay with spending the day branching. Lil Guy should fledge in the next day or so.
The bittersweet news is the eaglets Liberty and Justice seem to have left the area. They fledged a month ago but stuck close to home for meals, rest, and sleep.
They havent been seen since yesterday am. Parents were still bringing food by, tidying up, and spent the night in the nest tree but no sign of their offspring. Not even the parents have been around today.
This nest has been a pleasure to watch. The parents are super providers and protective caretakers. As a result, their offspring reach milestones together, have few episodes of drama, and bond deeply.
Another job well done parents!
And for L and J.....goodspeed lil buddies. You did everything together, including leave together on your new journey. Hopefully your bond will continue and will help you both during the toughest upcoming year of your life. 50% of eaglets do not survive the first year.
My kitty, she is suffering with a yucky sinus infection that is hanging on. I took her back to the vet and they gave us more antibiotics. I just want her to be well.
:cat:
Greco
04-25-2016, 12:04 PM
My visit to family, and friends soon.
Greco
cinnamongrrl
04-25-2016, 05:49 PM
Nothing profound...
Just that I really want some nutella but I have to go to the store for it...
I don't know if tired will win over craving...it's a close race atm...
Who am I kidding. Nutella wins
Brutus and Lil Guy are continuing to deal with a deteriorating nest.
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Brutus is doing well, tho he flies to the parents resting spot often to express his dismay with their menu selection. Both eaglets have taken to flinging uneaten amoured catfish over the side of the nest.
Lil Guy is 3 months old today and still keeping us waiting for his first flight. Most first flights are "oopies" rather than deliberate - a broken twig or branch, a misstep and flying it is. In the meantime, he seems intent on dismantling the elastic straps holding the camera wires in place. He has torn two off thus far.
cinnamongrrl
04-28-2016, 06:34 AM
Where to begin....
So I've had this same job for almost a year and a half. Started out great....slowly declined into not so great.
I realized some time ago I was ready for a change. I just needed to find a good job that fit my skills and helped me along on my path. So I did.
Now, my job that stressed me out is in the past and I'm feeling all kinds of anxiety about letting go. Seriously. What's that about?
I've always been an excellent letter goer. I don't dawdle I DO. I don't get why this is causing me so much angst. Unless it's going from familiar to not familiar. But...
I moved 800 miles away on my own to a new state, a new life really. I'm so not this girl who lives in the past and dwells on regrets...so...
I just don't get it. I guess it's just a matter of time. But I just feel so very sad...my heart almost hurts.
Two things;
First my kitty is not getting better with me throwing meds at her and then going to work everyday so I stayed home today to make sure she gets food and water even if I have to force it into her mouth.
Next a woman at work complains about me talking to project partners and coworkers everytime she is in a bad mood. I talk to people about business not personal stuff so it is not like I am sitting around chit-chating all day. I feel like she is targeting me and that is a form of bullying. So I am going to report her to HR. This makes me so angry.
Bèsame*
04-28-2016, 09:18 AM
My boss came in yesterday...shocker! I was there. She seems to stop by when I'm not, and then proceeds to throw me under the bus to my managers.
Anyways, she needs me..lol. Her boss will be in town next week. She actually let me give my input. And ....wait for it.... It worked!
It's always been her way. Which isn't always the best choice.
Not holding my breath, this can flip on a dime!
JDeere
04-28-2016, 10:31 AM
Making sure I have all my ducks in a row before I head out to travel this afternoon.
girl_dee
04-30-2016, 06:02 AM
South Carolina!!!
My neck issues......................:blink:.
Bèsame*
04-30-2016, 08:00 AM
My Dad...
I woke remembering a dream from last night. We were standing just inside the open garage door, looking at the night sky. I saw three shooting stars...........
Making me smile this morning.
My kitty, the vet pulled a hail Mary this morning if it works we are good if not things will be very bad. I am pouring all my hopes into my kitty for a full recovery.
afemmenatalie
04-30-2016, 01:43 PM
My kitty, the vet pulled a hail Mary this morning if it works we are good if not things will be very bad. I am pouring all my hopes into my kitty for a full recovery.
Chad, I am so sorry you and your kitty are going through such a hard time. I understand your pain and sadness while wondering if your precious cat will gain more time from the procedure the vet did. My thoughts are with you.
(I work doing hospice care for cats, so I REALLY think i understand)
Chad, I am so sorry you and your kitty are going through such a hard time. I understand your pain and sadness while wondering if your precious cat will gain more time from the procedure the vet did. My thoughts are with you.
(I work doing hospice care for cats, so I REALLY think i understand)
Thank you friend, you are sweet. I hope my kitty and I don't need hospice but you never know. I am putting all of me into hoping she will recover. I will know in a week how things are going.
Thank you for caring about me and my kitty.
Chad
Brutus and Lil Guy are continuing to work around the limitations of a nest that is now a 4th of the size it should be, with more falling away daily.
Lil Guy is gearing up to fly, branching out farther and farther, flying from branch to branch but he hasnt taken the plunge yet. He has had a couple of almost "oopsies" tho thanks to his older sibling. There was a pushing episode at the end of a branch and a butt wiggle in the nest bed that almost knocked him off. And a couple of times winds gusts caught him by surprise when his wings were fully extended.
Poor Dad tried a food drop off this morning. At this age, it is safer for the parent to drop food than to deliver food, even in an intact nest. The kids know a parent means potential food and are jockeying for position, in their mantling poses - draping their 6 foot wing spans like cloaks to block and secure an area. Parents are at risk if they try to bring food directly into the nest, so they tend to hover and drop.
Not sure if Dad himself fell thru a hole in the bottom of the nest or if he just dropped the fish thru the hole. But, you could see him thru the hole searching for the dang fish while dodging falling nest material, courtesy of his children flapping, jumping, and squeeing at the top of their lungs. He never attempted another flyby, so I'm gathering he didnt find it.
Was looking at pics from the horrid sibling rivalry stage when Lil Guy was struggling to get enough food to survive. Had forgotten the size difference, hence the reason I call him Lil Guy.
This was them about 6 weeks ago. Big difference for hatching just 1 day apart:
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This is them this morning (Lil Guy is the one with his back to the cam):
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Amazing and nerve wracking. :)
Teddybear
05-01-2016, 11:33 AM
Her.....how I miss her
Us.........knowing she misses me as much
Work.......a lot going on there
~ocean
05-01-2016, 07:35 PM
being grateful for having 2 amazing daughters is what's on my mind
Canela
05-01-2016, 08:33 PM
Death
PRINCE
My oldest and dearest friend,
Found already gone when her partner awoke that morning.
My friend's dad.
Taken off life support last week.
My loving and faithful companion of 13 years. I'm doing all I can, Dr's too but it doesn't look good.
This has been a very taxing few weeks...I'm all cried out...mostly.
Prayers welcome
cinnamongrrl
05-01-2016, 08:37 PM
Death
PRINCE
My oldest and dearest friend,
Found already gone when her partner awoke that morning.
My friend's dad.
Taken off life support last week.
My loving and faithful companion of 13 years. I'm doing all I can, Dr's too but it doesn't look good.
This has been a very taxing few weeks...I'm all cried out...mostly.
Prayers welcome
Consider prayers sent...and hugs too...
Canela
05-01-2016, 10:30 PM
Consider prayers sent...and hugs too...
Thank you sweet lady! Big hugs back atcha!
girl_dee
05-02-2016, 08:15 PM
that life has never been the same. Family spread out all over the place. I can't be everywhere at once, but I'm trying. I am getting too old for this!
That one day, one storm, one horrific twist of mother nature can really turn your world upside down, never to be the same again, ever.
Lil Guy finally fledged today. He made it to the tree across the way and back to the nest tree.
People were commenting on how he made a less than spectacular return, landing under the nest in a heap.
Knowing Lil Guy, that landing wasnt an accident. He knows Dad dropped 2 fish under there. He is still looking for them. :)
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Gayandgray
05-04-2016, 08:20 AM
My inability to forgive and forget when someone betrays me. I'm trying to work on not holding a grudge. After five months my former best friend wants us to work things out. She reminded me that my spouse's health is declining (as if I don't know this) and life is too short to hold grudges, and she wants to help me with her, etc etc. I really have to think hard on this.......:praying:
MsTinkerbelly
05-04-2016, 08:46 AM
My inability to forgive and forget when someone betrays me. I'm trying to work on not holding a grudge. After five months my former best friend wants us to work things out. She reminded me that my spouse's health is declining (as if I don't know this) and life is too short to hold grudges, and she wants to help me with her, etc etc. I really have to think hard on this.......:praying:
I know that it sounds trite, but forgiveness is so you can move on with peace. Forgetting on the other hand is not required...it gives us the little voice in our head that looks out for the safety of our heart.
Blessings:bunchflowers:
Gemme
05-04-2016, 09:28 AM
My inability to forgive and forget when someone betrays me. I'm trying to work on not holding a grudge. After five months my former best friend wants us to work things out. She reminded me that my spouse's health is declining (as if I don't know this) and life is too short to hold grudges, and she wants to help me with her, etc etc. I really have to think hard on this.......:praying:
I know that it sounds trite, but forgiveness is so you can move on with peace. Forgetting on the other hand is not required...it gives us the little voice in our head that looks out for the safety of our heart.
Blessings:bunchflowers:
Tinkerbelly's right; memory and forgiveness aren't the same thing. Always remember what happened so past mistakes aren't repeated but if you can find a way to let it go, good for you. I'm not good at forgiveness, but I don't let it eat me up either. Sometimes it takes a while. You can only do what you can do but don't let the actions of others make you change who and what you are and what you do.
If I am being brutally honest, and not knowing anything from Adam about the details, but from what you said....that sounds like emotional manipulation. A friend doesn't need to state the obvious. If she is ready and willing to help you with your spouse, from the goodness of her heart or some sense of regret or responsibility for what happened those months ago, good. If it's something designed to twist you up even more and manipulate things, then not so good.
Keep your options open and be willing to accept help (Being a caretaker is hard, so any help is a good thing, right?) but keep your eyes open and your head crystal clear.
I don't think it's unreasonable to say, "Hey, what happened was hurtful and I don't want to repeat it" and "I will take you at your word at this moment but you have to prove to me that I can trust you; show me you are worthy of my trust". Or whatever feels right to you.
I remember when you wrote about this before and it seemed that it really, really hurt you. Do not deny that hurt but don't let it close you off to the possibility of a genuine reconciliation either.
Gayandgray
05-05-2016, 08:56 PM
Thanks to both of you for your support. I know it's probably in my best interest to just forgive her and try to work on re-building our friendship. She is really trying hard to make things right, we have been friends a long time, and neither of us is getting any younger....... A lot of people my spouse and I know have either died recently or become disabled, and I'm telling myself that life is too short and something could happen and I may not have another chance to forgive and move on. I guess if things are meant to work out, then they will? At least we are able to sit down and talk now, that's a start.
Kenna
05-06-2016, 09:30 PM
My goofball, klutzy, "if anything can happen, it will happen to me" best friend. Who spent a big part of the day in Urgi-care.
JDeere
05-06-2016, 09:39 PM
My girlfriend mainly along with a jumble of 100 million other things.
JustLovelyJenn
05-07-2016, 11:00 AM
There are a lot of things on my mind...
... ONE... it's moving day... and this is the most anxiety inducing move I have have ever had... I am moving OUT of my house... and my parents are moving IN... my son will be staying here... My parents are going to keep him for the next two years while I finish school... because full time work, full time school, and full time autism mom... leads to mental breakdowns...
... TWO... I just ended another relationship... and its left me wondering... how I attract so many of the same type of person... I am questioning a lot because of this...
... THREE... I need to spend more time with my daughter. Shes such an amazing young woman, and before I know it shes going to be grown and gone... so much of my time goes to my son... I am missing out on her!
TheBodybuilder
05-07-2016, 11:55 AM
A very special, unique Femme....day and night, night and day...
~ocean
05-07-2016, 12:43 PM
:rrose:There are a lot of things on my mind...
... ONE... it's moving day... and this is the most anxiety inducing move I have have ever had... I am moving OUT of my house... and my parents are moving IN... my son will be staying here... My parents are going to keep him for the next two years while I finish school... because full time work, full time school, and full time autism mom... leads to mental breakdowns...
... TWO... I just ended another relationship... and its left me wondering... how I attract so many of the same type of person... I am questioning a lot because of this...
... THREE... I need to spend more time with my daughter. Shes such an amazing young woman, and before I know it shes going to be grown and gone... so much of my time goes to my son... I am missing out on her!
((((((( Jenn ))))))))))) your just a mother not GOD ~ you can only do so much ~ god bless your parents ~ you needed this help for a long time :) I wish you the best my friend and I respect how much you have taken on, where most would have run away .
HAPPY MOTHERS DAY , JENN
Shystonefem
05-07-2016, 02:47 PM
Nothing right now. I am trying to live in the moment.
Blade
05-07-2016, 04:04 PM
Wondering if I will be able to work next week...I'm doubting it, but you know I will try.
ProfPacker
05-07-2016, 06:42 PM
here it is. 6 years ago I left a job (took a buy out) because for the prior three years I had a supervisor that was unethical and I didn't keep my mouth shut about it. Well, you can guess who management protected: the EAP counselor (unrepresented) or the Manager of the Dept. when the buyout came I took it and luckily enough got the job I have now and love.
Time moves on...about 3 weeks ago I noticed that he viewed me on Linkedin. Today I get this scathing email (he had to go to my school's site to find my school email because the only contact info on there is an aol account, and then went into rate my professor. He left a horrible email that was filled with rage and some glee because of course students who post on Rate My Professor are usually anger at the professor and it is like a negative yelp
I am not breaking confidentiality or even what the agency was but this is the email:
Enjoyed reading the critiques of your performance by your students!They seem wise to you. As an working for me, I nailed you for constantly for using your cell phone during staff and clinical meetings and conducting personal business. I saw you as rude and self important. You could come up with clinical labels for a client but offer nothing of substance or usefulness in terms of interventions or case management techniques. Your case management was shoddy . And you never "implemented" anything. I heard you got the job because you were somebody's friend. it was reflected in your work standands and efforts. Really, you should be embarassed! But, of course now you teach,role model and use it as an opportunity to torture your students who are stuck with you as were your clients. Made4 sense why you enjoyed Robert's comraderie. Birds of a feather...
This is not true but I wonder what more this guy is going to do. It has been 6 years since I left there and never made contact with him again and hardly with anyone in the agency. He went to a lot of trouble to do this.
I wonder if I should be concerned. Will he go to my job? He obviously now knows where I work and what my contact info is. Trying not to catastrophize this but it is weighing on me a little. Any suggestions?
Thanks, I am trying to wind up the semester and it has been a stressful one so I don't need this.
PP
JDeere
05-07-2016, 08:47 PM
Do I have everything ready for work on Monday amongst a jumble of other stuff as usual.
Bèsame*
05-07-2016, 09:10 PM
sitting on the beach, with my feet in the waves, relaxing to the sounds of the sea.
I'd say, hurry up Sunday afternoon, but somehow, sleeping in and being under the covers is on my mind too!!
Sigh.
Brutus and Lil Guy were knocked off the nest tree in the wee hours of Saturday morning by an owl.
It is rare for an owl to attack a grown eagle. They usually target unguarded eggs and chicks in an eagles nest and have been known to tango with incubating parents.
The brouhaha brought the parents roosting nearby to the nest tree.
Brutus is fine tho a lil skiddish. Never left the tree all day. And was calling out frequently.
Lil Guy has not been seen since 3:30 am Saturday.
Ground crews searched the area from dawn to dusk without success. At least they didnt find any eagle remnants which is a hopeful sign.
Parents have kept a visible presence in the area and spent the night in the nest tree. All have been calling out but there has been no response.
One can only hope Lil Guy is somewhere nearby, unhurt, and either laying low or just unable to get his bearings after being thrown into the night.
He has proven himself to be one tough survivor. I'm hoping he will show up this mornin, squeeing for breakfast.
girlin2une
05-08-2016, 12:16 PM
So I have been doing a lot of writing lately... I find it quite therapeutic to write when I can't sleep...
This is a little tidbit of what I wrote during a moment of insomnia recently. It's all about being unique, which to me is so important.
When people remember you in the future, they won't remember you for how well you blended in; they are going to think about your quirks. So be brave in your quirkiness and stick out like a sore thumb. The people who try to hammer those quirks out of you are the ones who feel inadequate because they've spent their lives trying to blend in. They might convince you that you need to change those idiosyncrasies. But when God made you, that splash of red or flourish of pink or stubbly texture on the canvas looked good to Him. The works of art that the world remembers now are the ones that endured scorn in their time because they were extraordinarily different.
Sigh.
Brutus and Lil Guy were knocked off the nest tree in the wee hours of Saturday morning by an owl.
It is rare for an owl to attack a grown eagle. They usually target unguarded eggs and chicks in an eagles nest and have been known to tango with incubating parents.
The brouhaha brought the parents roosting nearby to the nest tree.
Brutus is fine tho a lil skiddish. Never left the tree all day. And was calling out frequently.
Lil Guy has not been seen since 3:30 am Saturday.
Ground crews searched the area from dawn to dusk without success. At least they didnt find any eagle remnants which is a hopeful sign.
Parents have kept a visible presence in the area and spent the night in the nest tree. All have been calling out but there has been no response.
One can only hope Lil Guy is somewhere nearby, unhurt, and either laying low or just unable to get his bearings after being thrown into the night.
He has proven himself to be one tough survivor. I'm hoping he will show up this mornin, squeeing for breakfast.
There are news reports out of North Fort Meyers that a woman found an eaglet in the vicinity of the nest area that was obviously injured. She was saying it appeared to have a broken leg and one talon hanging by tendons.
Florida Fish and Wildlife came out to investigate, but the bird was scared into the woods and flew away.
FWC couldn't confirm any injuries. They said if the bird turns up injured, they'll try to recapture it and get it to a rehab facility.
There are a lot of eagles and eaglets in this area. It is impossible to tell if this is Lil Guy until it is found.
Gayandgray
05-08-2016, 10:58 PM
My stepson coming over this morning to see his mom for Mother's Day and telling us that his wife has asked for a divorce.
There are news reports out of North Fort Meyers that a woman found an eaglet in the vicinity of the nest area that was obviously injured. She was saying it appeared to have a broken leg and one talon hanging by tendons.
Florida Fish and Wildlife came out to investigate, but the bird was scared into the woods and flew away.
FWC couldn't confirm any injuries. They said if the bird turns up injured, they'll try to recapture it and get it to a rehab facility.
There are a lot of eagles and eaglets in this area. It is impossible to tell if this is Lil Guy until it is found.
Someone finally found the footage of the attack on Lil Guy and Brutus. There is no sound.
It appears to show Lil Guy get hit twice. Once from the side which wakes him up and causes him to lose his balance but he remains perched, pissed, vocal, extending his wings and moving. A couple of minutes later, he is hit again from behind, knocking him off the branch. His wings are extended as he falls and his talons are pointing downward and intact.
He was introduced to the ground the day before the attack after he fell out of the tree trying to catch a food drop. The ground wouldnt have been a surprise to him. Then again, eagles dont normally fly at night.
A few minutes after Lil Guy tumbles, Brutus is spearheaded in the chest, knocking him clear off the tree.
It was good to have a visual. These were not talon attacks. These were 3 forceful head butts.
The ground crew was on the scene and searching within an hour of the attacks.
There have been several reports of injured juveniles being seen in the area the last couple of days. Lots of eagles, eaglets, juveniles, and subadults in the area.
Lil Guy hasnt been seen nor heard. But, nothing has been confirmed as of yet.
I remain hopeful he is still nearby, unharmed, but maybe traumatized. If he is still nearby and hurt, I am hopeful he will tap into the memory of the people from CROW rescuing him from the nest, treating him, and putting him back. Then maybe, he will not fly away from those trying to help him.
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storyspinner70
05-09-2016, 10:30 AM
I wonder if I should be concerned. Will he go to my job? He obviously now knows where I work and what my contact info is. Trying not to catastrophize this but it is weighing on me a little. Any suggestions?
Thanks, I am trying to wind up the semester and it has been a stressful one so I don't need this.
PP
Plan for the worst, as they say. I'm sure you've documented everything from before you were offered the buyout, if you haven't go back and collect and document as much as you can. If you have, gather everything together so it's convenient. Your job shouldn't need it, should he go to them, but you have it just in case. It'll make you feel better to know you have a plan. Anything he does publicly, rebutt immediately, but stay impersonal. Just the facts, ma'am. Ignore anything personal, like that email, unless it becomes harassment.
Generally speaking, people that bitter and hateful after that long a time are too cowardly to do anything other than send hateful emails or give an ugly review of you. If he does more, then you just need to let everyone know what really happened in a clear, dispassionate way. Most people aren't going to listen to that kind of ranting anyway. I doubt you ever need to do anything, especially after this long. You've been there five or six years now. They know you and your work ethic by now. They're not going to do anything based on heresay from someone who knew you six years ago and obviously has a hate on for you.
Don't worry at all. I doubt he does anything public. If he does something and people see you're not worried about it, they won't worry about it either.
ProfPacker
05-09-2016, 07:35 PM
thanks all for the support.
Got my second message to my work/school account. He can't do anything to me, I have tenure and am well respected at the college, ironically enough, I disguarded my files two months ago. I am going to use the Freedom of Information Act to get my employee file from the agency that I worked for. His last message today indicated that he wanted to confront my performance, unhandiness and total lack of integrity but I left before he go do it. As he said "mission accomplished" and then ended it with "now, a nice sunny afternoon to enjoy a walk in the park...."
I spoke to my boss at my current job and she stated that since he is harassing me at my work place I need to inform the College which I plan to do tomorrow.
I am going to look on thumb drives to see if I have the info.
Gayandgray
05-11-2016, 10:15 AM
All this crap going on at work. If things had worked out like I thought they were going too around Christmas, I would have my live-in sitter for my spouse and I could be working someplace else by now. However, that did not work out and I guess I just need to focus on the present and what I can do to keep from falling apart. If it wasn't for my spouse being sick, I would have quit that toxic job long ago. But I can't let it consume me, I have to take a deep breath and deal with it.:praying:
cinnamongrrl
05-11-2016, 11:38 AM
How when it rains it pours..
Figuratively and literally
My oldest kitty, we went to the vet today. She got steriods, eyedrops and weighed. She lost 1.5 lbs in two weeks. The vet said she is now on hospice.
My dear old friend and companion is now on hospice. That sucks.
My oldest kitty, we went to the vet today. She got steriods, eyedrops and weighed. She lost 1.5 lbs in two weeks. The vet said she is now on hospice.
My dear old friend and companion is now on hospice. That sucks.
Oh Chad....YES it does!!! Sends you & old friend gentlest of hugs & ear scratches.....you are in my heart my friend!!!
Oh Chad....YES it does!!! Sends you & old friend gentlest of hugs & ear scratches.....you are in my heart my friend!!!
Thank you Clay, I am having a hard time with this path.
Chad
Blade
05-11-2016, 05:18 PM
Wondering how long this physical healing business is going to take on my ole body. I DON'T HAVE TIME FOR THIS CRAP
girl_dee
05-11-2016, 09:40 PM
How much i miss believing in God. I want to believe in something but I just can't figure out what that is.
Thank you Clay, I am having a hard time with this path.
Chad
YVW. I totally understand.....just know you aren't alone.....
Lil Guy was found today, across the street from the nest by 3 young women who refused to give up on him.
He is now at CROW. The statement from CROW reads:
A juvenile American bald eagle “strongly believed” to be E8 was found in critical condition near the Southwest Florida Eagle Cam on Friday, the Clinic for the Rehabilitation of Wildlife said.
“The eagle arrived thin, dehydrated and very weak,” the agency said in a statement.
The eagle, which sustained a broken right leg, will be operated on during the weekend, then remain on strict cage rest, CROW said.
“The prognosis is guarded and CROW veterinarians will have more information after surgery is complete to repair the broken femur,” the agency said.
This is one tough lil fucker. Let's hope he has one more rally left in him.
Lil Guy was found today, across the street from the nest by 3 young women who refused to give up on him.
He is now at CROW. The statement from CROW reads:
A juvenile American bald eagle “strongly believed” to be E8 was found in critical condition near the Southwest Florida Eagle Cam on Friday, the Clinic for the Rehabilitation of Wildlife said.
“The eagle arrived thin, dehydrated and very weak,” the agency said in a statement.
The eagle, which sustained a broken right leg, will be operated on during the weekend, then remain on strict cage rest, CROW said.
“The prognosis is guarded and CROW veterinarians will have more information after surgery is complete to repair the broken femur,” the agency said.
This is one tough lil fucker. Let's hope he has one more rally left in him.
Lil Guy had surgery today to insert a pin in the fractured femur. He tolerated surgery well. There were no complications. He remains in critical care. Next update expected on Monday.
Kenna
05-14-2016, 06:58 PM
My son....
Lil Guy had surgery today to insert a pin in the fractured femur. He tolerated surgery well. There were no complications. He remains in critical care. Next update expected on Monday.
Funny in how the age of instant access, when it comes to eagle cams, you have to work backwards.
The rescuers of Lil Guy, finally recounted the story of his rescue and even made a u-tube slide show of it and his intake at CROW.
Apparently these 3 women are all employees of CROW who had been searching for him all week. He had been sighted on numerous occasions but was still strong enough to fly off when approached.
The area where he was finally captured was dense with foliage, requiring a machete to facilitate a search. He was seen and followed. Luckily, he got caught in the foliage which made it easier for them to cover and subdue him.
The fractured leg was his only injury. It is not known if this occurred because his talons were locked when the great horned owl hit him or if he hit the ground after he fell.
He was dehydrated from not eating. At this age their hydration comes from their food. He was a 2 day fledgling, too young to hunt. Even if he found food, with the broken leg, he may not have been able to hold it to feed himself.
CROW had to force feed him when he arrived. He is now eating on his own. He is probably thrilled he doesnt have to fight for food or wait for food. He can actually enjoy it without stuffing himself as fast as he can.
As you can see from the pics, he isnt so little anymore. But, that is definately Lil Guy.
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selty
05-15-2016, 08:36 AM
On my mind always are my friends and family who are having difficulties. Troubles or pain.. And how i can help them in any way.
I am thinking to start a fund me page for one such person who has been a friend since we were kids and her daughter is now in a wheelchair and cant talk or do anything her mother now feeds her. She had 2 kids
Which now my friend is raising her grandchildren and tending to her daughter.
Todays update from CROW:
Little Guy remains in critical and guarded condition from Saturdays surgery. The eagle was placed on strict cage rest and will continue to receive supportive care.
cinnamongrrl
05-16-2016, 09:22 AM
I'm feeling waffley about working for this facility for a year...
Some of their politics remind me of why I got out of long term care in the first place...
Gayandgray
05-16-2016, 12:22 PM
Brandy had a mini- stroke during the night. She will be 12yrs old in July and is in CHF but she was doing ok. Early this morning we were rushing around letting the other 3 dogs outside and getting their meds, then we went in town to the vet. They are telling us we have to wait and see....... She might come out of this and be ok, or she might get worse. It broke my heart when I saw her head drooping and she fell. Being a cna, I know the signs all too well. And she was disorientated and it sadly reminded me when my spouse had her last mini- stroke. We are faced with making a decision now if she doesn't bounce back. My poor little dog!!!!!!! :vigil: :praying:
A sad heart for all the BFP pets who are very ill and compassion for their owners!!
It sucks to know our furbabies are aging & with that comes illnesses & catastrophies.
My heart goes out to the parents of said ill furbabies.....I send you all a gentle hug.....and love....:rrose::tea:
Brandy had a mini- stroke during the night. She will be 12yrs old in July and is in CHF but she was doing ok. Early this morning we were rushing around letting the other 3 dogs outside and getting their meds, then we went in town to the vet. They are telling us we have to wait and see....... She might come out of this and be ok, or she might get worse. It broke my heart when I saw her head drooping and she fell. Being a cna, I know the signs all too well. And she was disorientated and it sadly reminded me when my spouse had her last mini- stroke. We are faced with making a decision now if she doesn't bounce back. My poor little dog!!!!!!! :vigil: :praying:
I am so sorry to hear that your pup had a stroke.
You are in my thoughts.
Chad
Today's update from CROW:
Lil Guy has been quiet, alert and responsive. He has not regurgitated any food the last couple of days. He was fed soft pieces of rat today- probably didnt need to know that huh.
He was observed to be hock sitting and for the remainder of the time is in the prone position (laying flat with the chest down and back up) and has been moved to a larger enclosure to encourage movement.
Although positive signs, he is still receiving pain medication and remains in critical and guarded condition.
Still working backwards here. The fracture he sustained had already started healing by the time he got to CROW. But, it was displaced i.e. not in proper alignment. Thus, they had to rebreak it (gross I know), pin it in place internally, and apply a plate externally with pins to hold it in place.
Takes 4-6 weeks for human bone to heal. Eagles should be about the same. Hopefully, there is no infection during the process. Then, he faces more surgery to remove the external hardware. Then rehab.
If he is able to use the leg and talon at 100% he will be released back into the wild. His sibling and parents will be long gone by then. But, he can hook up with a group of other juveniles - as they usually do for the first year.
If he does not have full use of that leg and talon, he will need to go to a sanctuary for non releasable eagles.
One step at a time.
The funny news is I think his sibling is missing him. Altho he has all the food provided by the parents to himself, he tends not to eat the tail end of fish. The tails, by hook or crook, were always Lil Guy's.
This weekend, Dad brought a humongous fish for lunch. Brutus ate 2/3's of it. He hid the tail part in the maybe 1 foot square section of nest that is left. Mom came along later and started eating the remainder. Brutus went nuts. He was mantling, puffed up, making enough noise to raise the dead, and actually kind of went after the momma, forcing her to fly off. Others said he was upset cuz he was saving that for later. I think he was saving it for Lil Guy, just in case. He didnt eat it. But, he protected it.
JustLovelyJenn
05-17-2016, 09:39 PM
I haven't been coming to the site as often lately. I have been dealing with a lot. Every now and then I come on and vent before I jump back in the deep end... today I came on and checked my reps... and read some of the posts since my last visit...
So now... I am thinking about how lucky I am to have this site as support, and as family... How much I appreciate all of you. I have been here for along time. I interact a little... but I guess I have never really stopped to wonder who is really watching. I am not great at interacting and sometimes my posts are more to help me process then to look for something in return...
But, you have all been watching, and when I really fall and struggle I am so grateful to have you. Thank you all for your words of comfort, support, and help.
My kitties, with my oldest kitty in hospice at home these days so everytime I come home from work I am so stressed out about the kitty's condition.
I had to go on an overnight business trip and was terrified about what I would come home to. Luckily, the kitty was the same as I had left her. I am force feeding her now so I hate to leave the house.
A special shout out and big thank you for all the support from friends here.
RockOn
05-18-2016, 09:28 PM
Trying to shut my brain down so I can sleep ... I don't think we can close on the home by May 31st. It took longer than expected for the well water test to come back. It came yesterday and the water is fine. Still, it threw us behind anticipated schedule. I am trying to turn it all off and not wait for any tid bit of info because it is making me nuts. My loan originator assures me the home is mine. I believe her. I would not ever have believed all the hoops one has to jump through to buy a home. At any rate, it will work out and be a done deal eventually.
Bubala
05-19-2016, 12:36 AM
I feel inadequate as a woman because I'm not a slut.... I don't let my friends or my friends' grabby butches put their hands on me. What more I am disgusted by the audacity! I will slap that hand right off of me and make sure that the massage is heard loud and clear! I am even more disgusted with femmes who claim to be someone's friend but when their friend's butch feels them up they just stand there... Lack of disapproval is the approval or even further an invitation yes please more of that. I know that I'm way too zipped up.... I'm a horrible human being but my policy is Hell No!!! I'm a lady and if I am your friend I will ALWAYS respect that! On the note of grabby butches, I do not blame them, theirs is to try, ours is to slap the shit out of the mare idea of such act and draw the line, making sure that the line is Very sharp! Maybe this is why I will never have gay friends... I just cannot deal with this sort of sleazy drama... I cannot even stand to watch it from the sidelines it disgusts me...
Being a slut is of high value it's top priority must have feature in this world...I'm sorry that I lack that. I'm a lady I crave deep emotional connection and all my relationships were based on that and deep respect. I am not judging anyone... I just vote for transparency... If you're not for commitment don't fake it! I try to be a good friend but I cannot watch this shit go down and stay silent... So I must detach and let them all fuck each other any which way until it all goes up hell... I don't feel safe being unprotected like that. A single girl with scrupulous has to watch herself.
I'm ready to be attacked and torn apart with words now. Fire off!
RockOn
05-19-2016, 03:54 AM
My 5:30 haircut after work is on my mind. I have been so busy and have neglected myself by allowing hair to grow unreasonably long. People at work love it. I hate it! Going to have Terri buzz it short! I am excited to be rid of this mop! Hot weather is here to stay and it ends up wet when I work outdoors.
My 5:30 haircut after work is on my mind. I have been so busy and have neglected myself by allowing hair to grow unreasonably long. People at work love it. I hate it! Going to have Terri buzz it short! I am excited to be rid of this mop! Hot weather is here to stay and it ends up wet when I work outdoors.
I hear ya! Need mine cut too. Where I work they like my hair and actually tell me that I need to cut it lol.
Stone-Butch
05-19-2016, 05:54 AM
you can count me in on a haircut. Must be butch week for cuts. I go today TG
Gemme
05-19-2016, 07:08 AM
... On the note of grabby butches, I do not blame them, theirs is to try, ours is to slap the shit out of the mare idea of such act and draw the line, making sure that the line is Very sharp! Maybe this is why I will never have gay friends... I just cannot deal with this sort of sleazy drama... I cannot even stand to watch it from the sidelines it disgusts me......
I'm ready to be attacked and torn apart with words now. Fire off!
No attack here; just confusion.
Why would you not blame grabby butches for trying to put their hands on you? Everyone is responsible for their own actions. That whole 'blame the girlfriend/wife/mistress and not the man/boyfriend/husband/butch' thing is played out and outdated. It's just another projection of the propaganda to pit woman against woman in this world.
Also, I'm pretty sure my gay friends would be insulted by the sleazy drama comment but you are not alone in promoting that stereotype so it is what it is.
I can't blame you for being pissed. If someone that was partnered tried to get freaky deaky with me, I'd definitely have some serious issues with that as well. What I wouldn't do is blame anyone but THAT PERSON for their actions.
Stud_puppy1991
05-19-2016, 10:49 AM
There's a lot on my mind. For instance how I keep having ex friends and roommates still attempting to cause drama and my ex girlfriend and how she keeps going back and forth and getting my hopes up. I've got sleep on my mind because I haven't slept. And I'm just all over the plasce
Blade
05-19-2016, 05:57 PM
I'm with yall got a haircut today. We did a #1 back and sides, I do have about 2 or 3 inches left on top
JustLovelyJenn
05-19-2016, 08:16 PM
I started making lists today because I have too many things on my mind and cant keep them all in order... too much to do, not enough time to do it.
Today's update from CROW:
Today, Lil Guy received a second radiograph (x-ray) since the eaglets operation on Saturday, May 14.
His condition was upgraded to guarded based on blood work and clinical condition but protein levels are still dangerously low.
The fracture site and pin placement from the surgery look good and today he was able to stand and walk normally but still spends a majority of time down and sleeping.
The eaglet is responding to intensive care and is moving from a predominately liquid diet to a soft solids diet. ( Yes, Jesse I will save you from hearing todays menu LOL).
Body weight has increased but he still remains extremely thin. He was at 6.4 lbs on admission. He should be at 8.
Although Lil Guy still has a lengthy recovery, it was encouraging that the eaglet was willing to bear weight on its leg and use its foot and claw in a normal fashion which indicates normal nerve function.
Jesse
05-21-2016, 12:40 AM
Lol! It's okay Kobi. I made sure to not be eating dinner when I read today's report. :)
No attack here; just confusion.
Why would you not blame grabby butches for trying to put their hands on you? Everyone is responsible for their own actions. That whole 'blame the girlfriend/wife/mistress and not the man/boyfriend/husband/butch' thing is played out and outdated. It's just another projection of the propaganda to pit woman against woman in this world.
Also, I'm pretty sure my gay friends would be insulted by the sleazy drama comment but you are not alone in promoting that stereotype so it is what it is.
I can't blame you for being pissed. If someone that was partnered tried to get freaky deaky with me, I'd definitely have some serious issues with that as well. What I wouldn't do is blame anyone but THAT PERSON for their actions.
Today's update from CROW:
Today, Lil Guy received a second radiograph (x-ray) since the eaglets operation on Saturday, May 14.
His condition was upgraded to guarded based on blood work and clinical condition but protein levels are still dangerously low.
The fracture site and pin placement from the surgery look good and today he was able to stand and walk normally but still spends a majority of time down and sleeping.
The eaglet is responding to intensive care and is moving from a predominately liquid diet to a soft solids diet. ( Yes, Jesse I will save you from hearing todays menu LOL).
Body weight has increased but he still remains extremely thin. He was at 6.4 lbs on admission. He should be at 8.
Although Lil Guy still has a lengthy recovery, it was encouraging that the eaglet was willing to bear weight on its leg and use its foot and claw in a normal fashion which indicates normal nerve function.
Gayandgray
05-22-2016, 07:22 AM
Taking Brandy back to the vet tomorrow. She has gotten better but the stroke has really slowed her down on some days. I guess as we all get older we have good days and bad days?????
Little Guy continues to show signs of improvement.
This morning the eaglet was bright and alert during surgical wound care cleaning and blood work.
He ate some fish fillets on his own yesterday and weighs approximately 8.5 pounds.
The eaglet was fully standing this morning and vocalizing after treatment. He remains in guarded condition.
We will have another update on Wednesday.
Fish - his favorite. Vocalizing - his specialty and his way of saying more food!
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Kenna
05-24-2016, 11:25 PM
The Mountain Laurel in Virginia....and hunting for wild raspberries and blackberries.
Bèsame*
05-25-2016, 07:22 AM
Can three days go by quickly? Or will they drag on, cause I'm looking forward to starting vacation Friday night! !
Gemme
05-25-2016, 07:26 AM
Can three days go by quickly? Or will they drag on, cause I'm looking forward to starting vacation Friday night! !
It can go by in flash. I'm already on my 2nd day of 3 off. Yesterday flew by and it's already mid-morning today. Eek!
Todays update from CROW:
Lil Guy's condition has been upgraded to fair.
He is now routinely standing and using the right injured leg, but still won’t perch and spends a lot of time lying down.
He is bright and alert and eating a diet of semi-soft fish fillets and meat. The eaglet requires assistance during feedings but has been slowly eating on its own.
Blood work abnormalities have resolved and are back to normal.
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The not wanting to perch yet is understandable to me. He had and internal fixation of his broken bone, plus has external hardware on the leg to hold everything in place. The thought of perching, to me, sounds like major "ouchie" time.
The "spends a lot of time laying down" made me chuckle. With the exception of learning to fight for meals, he was always a bit of a slug. Between the malnutrition and being the younger sibling, he was not a great initiator. He was slow to perch and to fledge. And, he loved his down time in the nest bed.
Glad the dangerously low protein has resolved.
This is one tough lil bugger.
Gayandgray
05-27-2016, 09:46 AM
This weekend, I'm off at the nursing home and working at the kennel!!! Can't wait!!!!!! And I will work in the yard tomorrow. Got a few tree limbs to cut down.
It's a nice day out! Will take the dog for some running and playing after work. Also a party this weekend... Ready!
I think that I want a girlfriend, anyone want to fix me up?
A nice lady that is fun, smart, sweet, and funny.
Todays update from CROW:
Lil Guy continues to be bright, alert, responsive and using the right leg in a normal fashion.
The eaglet is being fed whole prey items and still requires assistance with eating. He continues to gain weight.
The next update will be this Tuesday when he is scheduled for xrays and blood work.
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On a brighter note, Lil Guy's older sibling Brutus is now a free and independent juvenile eagle gracing the skies in parts unknown!
The parents have been spending time in the nest tree daily since Brutus left. The nest itself is totally gone. It is unknown if they will try and rebuild there or find another spot for the next season.
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For all that has happened at this nest and with Lil Guy, other eagles have not fared as well this nesting season.
The 3 non releasable breeding couples in Tenn laid a combined 9 eggs, none of which were viable.
The Decorah, Iowa nest continues to have problems. One of their 3 eaglets died 2 weeks ago. That was attributed to being the youngest sibling and the last fed in an area where food was apparently scarce.
Wednesday, another eaglet and the mother were both experiencing obvious distress. Mom was staggering around the nest, falling down with wings spread. They think, this was the result of contaminated food. Pesticides and poisons ingested by their prey affects them as well.
Mom recovered within a few hours. The eaglet did not survive. The remaining eaglet wasnt affected.
Considering how slowly the government usually moves, it took just 2 hours for local wildlife people and the feds to do all the paperwork to intervene in this situation. They needed to remove the dead eaglet and any remaining food from the nest asap to protect the safety of the parents and the remaining sibling.
cinnamongrrl
05-30-2016, 01:40 PM
It occurred to me the other day that the vast majority of residents at facilities I've worked at are white. You don't very often see Asian or Latinos...and in an area where there are numerous Native Americans, they also account for 0% of our clientele.
This speaks volumes to me about cultures and how (or if) they truly value their elders.
Just my .02
JustLovelyJenn
05-30-2016, 09:47 PM
I had a really hard weekend with my son... and thats on my mind. He is not getting any better right now... and I know his doctors say that the changes we have made are contributing to that and to have patience while he adjusts... but its so hard... so many tears.
I am also so glad I had today for myself. It was a wonderful day and it made me giddy.
RockOn
05-30-2016, 09:55 PM
so sorry things are difficult right now for you regarding your son ...
RockOn
05-30-2016, 09:59 PM
I am fascinated with alligators. I google and read about them.
Came across this news article a little while ago. NOT FASCINATING IN THE LEAST!!! It is purely horrible!
http://www.telegraph.co.uk/news/2016/05/30/crocodile-snatches-woman-during-night-swim-in-australia/
LOQUI
05-30-2016, 10:01 PM
The agenda for this week...It is going to be a busy, interesting and productive one!
Today's update from CROW:
Lil Guy continues to improve since having surgery on May 14 to repair a broken femur in the right leg.
The eaglet is perching, vocalizing and gaining strength. Over the weekend he ate a little on his own but still requires some assistance during feeding.
Blood work came back normal.
This week the eaglet is expected to be moved to an outside enclosure where it will have more room to build its strength and spread its wings.
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This is super news!
LOQUI
05-31-2016, 07:44 PM
on my mind: I better stop eating these sunflower seeds...:|
Canela
05-31-2016, 08:41 PM
What movie I should watch tonight...hmm
LOQUI
05-31-2016, 09:23 PM
...something sweet....but I better not!
RockOn
06-01-2016, 08:28 PM
This is consuming my mind:
last lap and desperately looking for the home stretch ... I know I can make it ... I know I can ...
I am rising up ... I will do it!
FireSignFemme
06-02-2016, 01:12 AM
I am fascinated with alligators. I google and read about them.
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Early this am Lil Guy was moved to the small flight enclosure outside to give the eaglet more room to spread its wings and help build strength in its right leg.
The move outside is to also encourage him to eat on its own without assistance.
If he continues to improve over the next couple of weeks, the next step will be to remove the pin from his femur.
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MysticOceansFL
06-02-2016, 07:05 AM
My girlfriend- and her new job and the people there.
My neighbor- I took him to tmh because he complained of having chest pains.
My father and older brother- cause my father is much older now and my older brother going through chemo.
Gayandgray
06-03-2016, 07:35 PM
I'm wondering about online veterinary assistant/veterinary technician colleges........ :hangloose:
cinnamongrrl
06-05-2016, 06:28 PM
The other day I saw an elderly couple at the grocery store. They were standing looking at books and the man was lovingly rubbing her hip as they stood. After a few seconds his hand slid down and he softly patted her bottom. It was just such a sweet and obviously natural exchange. And all I could think was...I want that someday. Nothing more nothing less.
RockOn
06-05-2016, 07:11 PM
Hey cinnamongrrl,
Awesomely sweet!
Thank you for sharing it with us. :)
Bèsame*
06-05-2016, 08:55 PM
aww vacation is over...it's officially time to remember the days of the week.
RockOn
06-05-2016, 09:06 PM
Will you be traveling back to work by car or boat?
Hope the roads are safe. Be extra careful!
Kenna
06-05-2016, 10:22 PM
My appointments tomorrow and Tuesday.
Bèsame*
06-05-2016, 10:45 PM
Will you be traveling back to work by car or boat?
Hope the roads are safe. Be extra careful!
I'm lucky, the road to work just opened up this evening. It's passable. However if you live off that road, some of them are still closed. The river is slowly receding.
Happy move in day!
My mother, this isn't looking good at all..:(
Jury duty, I'm on call all this week. I wonder what happens if I just leave town in the middle of it :blink:
JustLovelyJenn
06-07-2016, 01:00 AM
This time of year is so busy... I can't even seem to figure out what is on my mind... maybe... tomorrow at work I am going on a field trip with the freshman. It should be really fun! or... the paper I am trying desperately to finish by tomorrow night. Possibly... the fact that I hate sleeping alone, no matter how long I do it.
RockOn
06-07-2016, 02:45 AM
Slept for 2.5 hours .... errrr think "passed out" is a far better description , up and working at trying to unpack immediate need things.
Stocked fridge with 3 gallons milk. I know it would be dreadful to run out of milk at this point in time and there's not any zippy marts close-by. Also pound of Colby cheese, a dozen large orange gator-ades, 2 six packs of cokes. I will have to adjust and pre-plan all my food needs here in this rural area.
It's all good but sure will welcome normalcy back into my life which will happen when I am totally unpacked and settled in. I cannot even think of those 5 storage rooms I still have to haul. Right now, they are back in the city. I am going to pretend there is only one and go from there. LOL! :)
Finally closed on the home yesterday afternoon. I am already so much in love with my little home in the woods. So quiet all evening. Very calming not to hear loud city noise. Jennifer and Kevin are tuckered out from anticipation of knowing something HUGE was up. Right now, Kevie is snoring and Jennifer just opened her peepers - which are all red and glossy. Since I got up around 2:30 a.m., I see she is keeping herself positioned up against Kevin to be able to look up and see me in the kitchen when she opens her eyes.
For the time being and probably for a few more days, we are doing the "drag the mattress and flop" thing in the dining room. I told them we are camping out with added luxery of an air-conditioner. Heh Heh!
My body is so beaten up. I remember my early twenties in Army Basic Training ... right now, feeling like I have been in Basic Training for a month. I will be 60 before this summer is gone. I think busy lite weight work around here for a few days is in order ... about out of energy for straining and lifting heavy things. I wrestled that appliance hand truck yesterday up and down little embankments at my former place to the point of using special words ... was pretty loud a couple of times.
I wish I could have accepted offers from friends to help me move but it was so important to me to do it all myself. Even the guys at work offered help with large appliances.
I am a genuinely thankful person.
A man in the grocery store about an hour ago. He walked right up to me looked me straight in the eye and gave me a little smile so I smiled back then he stuck his hand out and gave me a firm hand shake. As he turned to walk away I said how are you and he said that he was out of work and walked on.
I have no idea who he is or how I know him or if I know him. Now I wonder if I owe him anything. Does he expect me to hire him or find him work? Am I in his debt? I have no idea.
This is on my mind.
Relief, mom's cancer is not back. The pathology report came back with something the surgeon, her RN, and I, all had to look up. :blink:
It should be okay (I hope) in a month or so with current, enhanced, treatment.
:moonstars:
Gayandgray
06-08-2016, 11:45 PM
The online vet assistant college I looked into. You do the majority of the work online, but of course you do an externship at a participating animal hospital. I thought there would be one closer to me and that the hours would be more flexible...... Oh well there are plenty more to check out.
Bèsame*
06-09-2016, 06:54 AM
My crazy schedule today...I get home to make a real dinner and spend time with Blaze. This week has been cray cray!
easygoingfemme
06-09-2016, 07:24 AM
Relief, mom's cancer is not back. The pathology report came back with something the surgeon, her RN, and I, all had to look up. :blink:
It should be okay (I hope) in a month or so with current, enhanced, treatment.
:moonstars:
I am SO glad to hear this! Happy dance for you and your mom.
easygoingfemme
06-09-2016, 07:25 AM
Reliving moments of seeing Florence and The Machine live last night with my daughter. Wow... what a performer, what a performance. What a night!
Relief, mom's cancer is not back. The pathology report came back with something the surgeon, her RN, and I, all had to look up. :blink:
It should be okay (I hope) in a month or so with current, enhanced, treatment.
:moonstars:
Kelt.....as I said in a user rep...this is great news and hoping that whatever "enhanced" & "current treatment" is a huge success!
You & mom are in my heart & thoughts buddy!!!!
I am SO glad to hear this! Happy dance for you and your mom. ME TOO! Thank you. :cheesy:
Latest update from CROW on Lil Guy:
The IM pin (intramedullary pin) which is used to join fracture bones has been removed from the right leg. Additional pins remain in the eaglets right leg and will be removed as the leg continues to improve.
Since being moved to the outside small flight enclosure last week, the eaglet has been bright, alert and perching on higher perches. He still requires some assisted feeding but is eating more on his own.
A class of second graders from Michigan, who have been following the nest this year, wanted to help with the costs of Lil Guy's care. They started a fundraiser called Coins of CROW, hoping to raise 50 dollars. They ended up raising over 600 dollars!
So far, over 30,000 dollars has been raised to help offset the costs of Lil Guy's care.
CROW is updating faster than me. LOL.
The remaining pins have been removed from Lil Guy's right leg. The eaglet has started to bear more weight on the leg and use the right talon. He is eating frequently on his own without assistance and continues to remain bright, alert and responsive.
The next update will be on Monday.
They made a short video of him stuffing his face. It's just a fish. Nothing weird.
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It really sucks to feel practically invisible to someone that says they care
grenade
06-09-2016, 10:54 PM
It's always when I'm exhausted that my kid's nurse calls in. I need a work from home job.
MsTinkerbelly
06-10-2016, 02:17 AM
Earthquake!!!!
Orema
06-10-2016, 05:01 AM
Earthquake!!!!
Woke me up, too!
As some of you know I am a dad and with father's day coming up I have been thinking that it would be a great time to take my son's and grandson fishing.
I love family time!
:thumbsup:
Sweet Bliss
06-10-2016, 08:21 PM
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:wine:
Today's update from CROW:
Lil Guy is currently fighting an infection in the broken bone of the right leg and is receiving daily antibiotics.
A culture was taken to identify the bacteria causing the infection so the eaglet can receive the highest standard of care possible.
His blood work came back normal and the eaglet continues to eat on its own and is perching.
The eaglet will not be moved back outside to the small flight enclosure until the infection clears.
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Kind of a bummer but an understandable setback. Good that he is still stuffin his face.
If you watched the video of him and the fish last week, you might have heard him making a clicking sound in between bites. Thats an eagle's way of warning others away from their food. It's good that he is doing this.
Thankfully, he is old enough to not become imprinted with the people-food connection.
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This weekend CROW got a new patient. A pelican hatchling from Sanibel that was found on the ground. It arrived lethargic and bleeding from the eye. It has been placed in an incubator where it sleeps a majority of the time and is intermittently vocalizing. It has been striking at food (fish) and remains quiet, alert and responsive. The pelican will receive fluid and nutritional support.
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LOQUI
06-13-2016, 04:12 PM
these are just a few of things on my mind:
...the deceitful brevity of life
...a presentation I need to prepare
...going to the dry cleaning, post office
...the 'what's for dinner' question
...the sublime and the mundane
Gayandgray
06-13-2016, 05:55 PM
How some people who claim you are so important in their life can act so non-chalant when you tell them they are hurting you.
Update from CROW:
Lil Guy continues to fight a serious infection in the right leg at the location of the femur fracture.
The eaglet began receiving antibiotics on Monday so it's too early for results.
The results of a blood chemistry profile have come back positive/normal. This test is used to measure different chemical aspects of the blood including kidney function.
He continues to eat on his own and has maintained a body weight of approximately 7 pounds. (He was up to 8.5)
Blade
06-15-2016, 12:04 PM
the family of my best bud in college
Shystonefem
06-15-2016, 12:05 PM
Why can't people just go off into the sunset and leave others alone?
Why do other people get involved?
What drives people to thrive on drama?
I love my drama free life and want to keep it that way.
grenade
06-16-2016, 07:24 PM
That people only want to engage when I'm the fun friend.
grenade
06-17-2016, 03:17 PM
Everything but what I need to focus on.
I have rough draft for a week long celebration of our organization planned for September. Complete with three events, food, decorations. (Nothing I actually get paid to do)
I planned activities for another department to tie into my theme.
I need to make a call that I've been putting off since yesterday. (What I'm actually paid for)
I will in 13 minutes.
Jesse
06-17-2016, 05:32 PM
How crazy it is to deal with Microsoft! I just spent 3 hours on chat, and then phone with them because I evidently had a counterfeit version of Windows 7 Professional running on my desktop.
First they told me I had to purchase a new OS, then I was informed that oh yes, I could buy a product key but it would cost $79 + $119.99 for them to "assist" me with the install. I was polite, but stuck to my guns and finally got the right person in tech and bought the product key for $40 and stayed on the phone while they installed it remotely. All seems good now! :)
A man in the grocery store about an hour ago. He walked right up to me looked me straight in the eye and gave me a little smile so I smiled back then he stuck his hand out and gave me a firm hand shake. As he turned to walk away I said how are you and he said that he was out of work and walked on.
I have no idea who he is or how I know him or if I know him. Now I wonder if I owe him anything. Does he expect me to hire him or find him work? Am I in his debt? I have no idea.
This is on my mind.
Mystery solved!!
That man is my liquor store guy. He was not "out of work" he was OFF work. Hahaha. He had a treat waiting for me at the store tonight.
Happy endings, yay!
ferret
06-17-2016, 07:06 PM
It....hurts...When a friendship/relationship/whatever..."should" go both ways. Not one person putting in the effort. It makes me wonder what would happen if I suddenly stopped communicating with the people in my life who are important to me (am I important to them). I'm a good person, a decent person, and am generally liked....Or at least I thought I was. So why is it just me doing the work - 95% of the time with a good portion of the people I have in my life. If I am indeed worth your time, best you start stepping up.
Kenna
06-17-2016, 09:27 PM
It's been a long, productive day. I'm ready for a salon day.
Bèsame*
06-17-2016, 11:12 PM
Father's Day. Everyone is talking about it. Or I'm just more aware this year.
I miss my Dad, this will be the first one without him.
Gemme
06-18-2016, 05:30 AM
It....hurts...When a friendship/relationship/whatever..."should" go both ways. Not one person putting in the effort. It makes me wonder what would happen if I suddenly stopped communicating with the people in my life who are important to me (am I important to them). I'm a good person, a decent person, and am generally liked....Or at least I thought I was. So why is it just me doing the work - 95% of the time with a good portion of the people I have in my life. If I am indeed worth your time, best you start stepping up.
There's something I've learned along the way that may be helpful to you. You are treated how you let yourself be treated. If you expect and demand to be treated well and equally, you either will be or you won't have to worry about that relationship going forward. Don't be a tyrant but don't be a door mat either. People will push you as far as you let them. Boundaries are good for everyone.
Good luck with whoever is being problematic.
CROW's Lil Guy Update:
Happy National American Eagle Day! Lil Guy continues to fight a serious infection in the right leg at the location of the femur fracture. The eaglet continues to eat on its own and is gaining weight and weighs approximately 8 pounds.
He is putting weight on the infected leg and using its talon to grip. The eaglet was moved back outside today to the small flight enclosure to help reduce stress and allow the eaglet more room to move.
The next update will be this Wednesday.
easygoingfemme
06-20-2016, 12:22 PM
I really wish someone or something could have warned me about how much patience I was going to need today so I could have prepared better.
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Recent radiographs show improvement in the infected bone. A bacterial culture was taken today from the bone to see how well the antibiotics are working and we expect to have those test results back next week. He remains bright, alert and gripping with both talons. The eaglet remains outside in the small flight enclosure where it has been standing and perching.
We will have another update on Monday. If anything should change in his status before then we will be sure to let you know.
Talon
06-23-2016, 10:46 AM
That it's a real trip how different the view can be from the outside, verses the inside.
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Recent radiographs show improvement in the infected bone. A bacterial culture was taken today from the bone to see how well the antibiotics are working and we expect to have those test results back next week. He remains bright, alert and gripping with both talons. The eaglet remains outside in the small flight enclosure where it has been standing and perching.
We will have another update on Monday. If anything should change in his status before then we will be sure to let you know.
Lil Guy needs a heavy dose of antibiotics to treat the infection in the injured bone.
However, bird bones are some of the hardest things to treat with heavy drugs, further complicating his recovery. Three different types of “very bad bacteria” were cultured from his infected bone, said CROW hospital director, Heather Barron.
“They are what we call multi-drug resistant,” she explained.
Antibiotics don’t always penetrate into the bone very well and unlike humans, it’s a complicated scenario the way birds’ bones work,” Barron said. “The side bone and upper arm bone communicate with the respiratory system.”
The antibiotics he’s on presents an additional type of challenge.
A lot is unknown and there can also be potential powerful side effects.
“In particular, it’s very difficult on the kidneys,” Barron said.
But she says right now he is doing just fine. Staff makes sure he stays hydrated, which helps make sure his kidneys stay healthy. It’s too early to tell whether he will return to the great open air.
Usually, Barron said, a normal cycle for the drug lasts about 4-6 weeks.
“But we’re hoping because that particular type of drug is so difficult on the kidneys, we can get the infection under control sooner,” she said.
If the antibiotics do their job without harming his kidneys, CROW will need to make sure he is a strong flyer and he’ll have to show that he’s capable of hunting on his own before he can be integrated back into the wild.
Barron said it might still take a few weeks to build up his strength.
He’s still getting physical therapy on his leg,” she said.
The process is remarkably similar to the same grueling regime humans go through. First doctors give him something to relax, like a Valium.
Then he’ll get pain medication, Barron said, if the session is going to be extra painful.
“It’s just like we do it in people,” she said. “We’ll work out his full range of motion. Use hot or cold packs.”
His injured leg is still a tiny fraction shorter than the other one, but Barron doesn’t think it will impede his ability to hunt and survive in the wild.
His wound is still healing, she said, but otherwise, he is bright and alert and eating very well, and flying around his cage.
CROW wants to put a federal leg band on Little Guy if he’s released so they can identify him in the future.
They don’t have a license to put a band on him, but Barron said she’s thinking about reaching out to other places like the Audubon Society for help.
Massive
06-24-2016, 07:46 AM
I hate knowing that from today everything I post anywhere will have people assuming I'm a xenophobic, misogynistic, bigoted and thoroughly ignorant bastard. I didn't vote for the current government nor to leave the European Union. I actually care about the future for my 15 month year old neice, who will now have no choice but to live with the consequences of the idiocy of the general public in Britain. We cannot talk about the United Kingdom or being 'Great Britain' we gave that up when we gave up our human rights.
Daniela
06-24-2016, 09:25 AM
I hate knowing that from today everything I post anywhere will have people assuming I'm a xenophobic, misogynistic, bigoted and thoroughly ignorant bastard. I didn't vote for the current government nor to leave the European Union.
As an American, I welcome you to the club :D
Seriously, though...I'm starting to get a little concerned that this is foreshadowing of what might happen to us in November.
Kenna
06-24-2016, 10:53 AM
My pharmacy called to "verify the very large copay, we want to check with you before we fill it because it's a substantial amount".... STOP RIGHT THERE! What's on my mind is....I've encountered several customer service reps lately that need to improve their listening skills.
My response to the one that called: Look on the back of the script, my doctor attached a coupon to get it for free. I told that to the guy I gave it to yesterday. ...he put me on hold, then came back on to say he was sorry, it went through for zero now. ...
:readfineprint: :readfineprint:
JustLovelyJenn
06-24-2016, 12:07 PM
This year so far is on my mind...
So much has happened and its all a little overwhelming.
Last week I was diagnosed with diabetes. It's just another thing in the long list of things that are wearing me thin. In talking with my doctor about everything that's going on with my health, she convinced me to try mood stabilizers again for my anxiety. She also wants me to look for a therapist... I haven't convinced myself to do that one yet. I went from taking NO pills to taking them twice a day, and now testing my blood sugar every day as well...
It's just a lot.
JDeere
06-24-2016, 06:50 PM
Whether or not I should go out this evening.
Bubala
06-24-2016, 07:03 PM
There is so much Israeli sadness in me, so much life, and heart and passion, spiteful resilient joie de vivre, insane determination sprouting from that darkness of that immanent and inherent sadness. The laughter, natural, spontaneous, uncontrollable, infectious, so easy to share, so damn projectable into the world, easy to relay to others. But the stubborn sadness, aggregate essence of the utter melancholic exhaustion, so heavy, so deeply embedded into my own shadow, impossible to grasp, impossible to isolate, impossible to do away with, never stops ticking.... Armed with comedy, even the greatest fighters sometimes just need a bite of silence and a sip of space... Close your eyes and breathe.... home... for whatever that means... One must carry on, one must always carry on.
I was supposed to work today but they cancelled it at the last minute. (Yesterday). It's nice outside so I think I will go play some basketball.
What is on my mind though is I have an important appointment Monday. I'm nervous but in my mind things are being put into perspective. Letting go of certain lingering negativities of recent past happenings. Knowing life is short and it's much better to find the positive things and enjoy them. There's a lot of good in my life I feel grateful for. And I plan to make the most of it. And I want everyone in my life and everyone else to be happy.
Ok mushy moment over......
Bèsame*
06-25-2016, 08:59 AM
Waking up remembering the yucky dream I had.
There was a wet mattress, that me and another woman moved, only to find a grey snake. (I hate snakes!) We made a fast get away and I had to leave behind the orange envelope purse and my pillow. ???
Next, as someone else went to go retrieve my purse and pillow...there was an orange and green octopus (a painting I saw at The Craft Store yesterday) crawling in a dead tree (how veins were explained to me yesterday, like an upside down tree). The octopus's legs, were shedding and being gooey...and the legs became shorter, and it turned into a spider type thing..and tried to chase me.
....I woke up..... remembering as I was telling Blaze, how much color there was. The gooey dripping, legs being shed. He says, write that down, it would be a good sci-fi movie...yeah, a huh...I'm rolling my eyes now! Lol
Venus007
06-25-2016, 09:42 AM
Although I understand the power of tragedy to pull a community together, and am grateful for it. I really really really wish that what it took for people to just be humane to each other wasn't some horrible inhumanity. Couldn't it take just a little less force, eventually, soon, please
JustLovelyJenn
06-25-2016, 10:46 AM
What is on my mind this morning is my son and his struggles. I wish I knew how to help him, how to make it easier... He is just getting worse and worse... and its hard on everyone.
JDeere
06-25-2016, 04:33 PM
Having a talk with my girlfriend about some of my thoughts and feelings.
RockOn
06-26-2016, 05:25 AM
on my mind ...
This new serta memory gel-foam mattress is wonderful. I am sleeping so much better.
just one thing ...
My old mattress was a queen-size. I deliberately bought this new one in a king size. Figured to give Kevin and Jennifer, my dogs, plenty of extra room so they don't feel the need to sleep so close to me.
They have not caught on yet that they have lots of extra space just for themselves.
:(
Food is on my mind. I am tired of my cooking and I am tired of having to eat all the time. I wonder if a personal chef would be in the budget.
:cowboy:
Orema
06-26-2016, 07:45 AM
Nail polish remover. I need to buy some this morning.
grenade
06-26-2016, 09:41 AM
I'm already thinking about everything I need to do at work this week. I'll try to distract myself and reclaim my brain.
C0LLETTE
06-26-2016, 02:33 PM
Nail polish remover. I need to buy some this morning.
Nice thing about people ( butch or femme ) who use nail polish ( or remover ): they don't tend to bite their nails...a most unattractive habit.
Degotoga
06-26-2016, 03:34 PM
The coming week. It will be a hard grind with 48 hours on, 48 hours off, 48 hours on, but the silver lining is several consecutive days off afterwards. I got this, but I'm gonna be worn smooth out when it's all said and done. Such is the life of a public servant...:fireman::firetruck:
Everyone be safe and have a great week.
stargazingboi
06-27-2016, 01:37 PM
That the littlest dog with health issues just doesn't seem to gain any weight. She eats like a champ, but just doesn't seem to be able to gain weight and my head is spinning with all the reading I have been doing on how to help her. The only thing I haven't tried is a raw diet...I think that maybe next.
Todays update from CROW:
Little Guy has been moved from the small flight enclosure to the large flight enclosure.
Test results are expected later this week to determine how well the antibiotics are working on his leg infection and we will share the results when they become available.
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candy_coated_bitch
06-27-2016, 04:49 PM
My injured ankle and whether or not I need to go to urgent care tomorrow.
RockOn
06-27-2016, 09:11 PM
try one of these ankle supports
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Blade
06-27-2016, 09:15 PM
Wanting to get back to work and get my traveling shoes on
Jesse
06-27-2016, 09:25 PM
I fired my lawn guy this evening. He does a great job on the lawn, but it seems his priorities have shifted quite a bit in the last 3 months, and he is not showing up when he is supposed to. He was supposed to have done my lawn this past weekend and didn't show or call. Sorry buddy, last straw.
Kenna
06-29-2016, 11:49 AM
Snakes....I've seen more snakes this year than other years put together. I hate snakes.
Orema
06-29-2016, 12:16 PM
FOOD (yes, in all caps)
I had dental work this morning and my gums are sore. All I can eat is soup and I want something substantial. Now.
Snakes....I've seen more snakes this year than other years put together. I hate snakes.
*looks around* snakes? :runforhills:
Little Guy took his first flight this morning after being moved to the large flight enclosure earlier this week.
The eaglet flew back and forth several times landing on high perches. He will receive daily conditioning to build strength and endurance to increase flight durations.
The eaglet is eating very well on its own and is being offered fish in a pool as live prey.
Bone culture results are still pending.
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Kenna
06-29-2016, 09:43 PM
*looks around* snakes? :runforhills:
This was me today....
:quickdraw: :quickdraw: :quickdraw:
Which was after, of course, the neighbors heard me scream...
(When I shot the snake, I looked up to find my baby goat...who had ran off to hide under the old utility trailer. Poor baby.)
Bèsame*
06-30-2016, 10:59 AM
I should remember this...but I don't. Each and every time I take my car in for an oil change, it's never returned to me in the same seat position. Never fails...I sign off the work order, and being chatty...I forget. Go out to the car, and get in. SMACK, my head, shoulder and knees! Ouch.
I'm tall, and the service person, is always short..lol
I always go back in and request they return the seat back to its original position.
easygoingfemme
06-30-2016, 11:18 AM
A lot! My whole world is just like... WOOOOSH right now with lots of changes. All good changes. Some planned, some totally unexpected. Some for me, some for my daughter. Lots to keep up with. Lots making me happy.
Orema
06-30-2016, 01:40 PM
Work . . . . . . . .
A friend. I was reading FB and saw that an old buddy had been married a year. How did I miss that?
My priorities must be off.
JDeere
06-30-2016, 07:31 PM
How bitter some folks are! How toxic it can be to others around them and how to separate yourself from them as well!
Little Guy UPDATE: We have received the bacterial culture test results and they indicate that the antibiotics have improved the bone infection.
The eaglet will receive an oral and safer antibiotic for the next couple of weeks to clear the remainder of the infection.
The radiographs (X-rays) show overall improvement and blood work remains positive.
He continues to eat on its own and is bright, alert and responsive. The eaglet will continue to receive daily conditioning to help build strength and endurance.
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Bèsame*
07-01-2016, 11:19 PM
Sunday will be a year I have not had my Dad, to call, visit, or laugh with. But it is not a year that I haven't missed him or thought about my memories. I've cried with my Mom on more than one occasion.
Since Father's Day, I'm thinking about everything that happened before he left. What I was doing, what he was doing. I counted the hours, the days, the weeks.
The year has almost come full circle. He is on my mind.....
C0LLETTE
07-01-2016, 11:23 PM
Time to hang up some paintings.
Last night I received an incredibly dense 7 page tax addendum that I swear doesn't have one word of english on it. It's meant to modify an already existing 42 page document that isn't much better. It took me a year to sort out the first one. This needs to be digested and ready to sign early next week. :thinking:
I believe I have new plans for the fourth of July weekend. *Oy vey*
candy_coated_bitch
07-02-2016, 06:42 AM
This weekend and about the things I'm nervous about and more importantly the things I'm excited about!
LOQUI
07-02-2016, 11:00 AM
...friendship, and the multiple meanings of it...
Gayandgray
07-02-2016, 03:36 PM
What is on my mind is I'm wondering if I could possibly find a nursing home job CLOSER to me, right now I have a 45 minute commute one way, that would allow me to get FMLA right away instead of having to be there a whole year first??????:seeingstars::seeingstars:
I am planning a trip to NY does anyone want to hook up? PM me.
JDeere
07-03-2016, 03:56 PM
How to deal with the upcoming week at work, missing one day due to the holiday is gonna kill my check.
Blade
07-03-2016, 08:41 PM
Two things on my mind today
Would have been my Nannie's 93rd birthday. She was in such good shape we always thought she would out live all of us.
9 years today I lost my dearest friend and neighbor. Normally I don't dwell on it. Today I went next door to check on the new neighbors dog and suddenly had a meltdown. Suddenly I could see the pool that is no longer there and her laying in the bottom of it. I miss you so much every day Cindy Lou.
Bèsame*
07-03-2016, 10:46 PM
I'm dealing with 3rd shift loneliness.
grenade
07-04-2016, 01:32 PM
I am so bored!
kittygrrl
07-04-2016, 04:21 PM
YEVCRdTBeYc
JDeere
07-06-2016, 06:38 PM
Being glad I finally putting up clothes that were clean but taking over my bed!
Now I can sleep in more then one spot!
Kätzchen
07-06-2016, 10:39 PM
I've always thought that I would never move again. But lately, I've been giving lots of thought to moving from where I have lived for the past twenty, or so, years. One step at a time. Keeping it super simple. It's time for a new beginning in my life. And I'm excited that I'm going to move. : )
Brooklyn
07-08-2016, 05:08 PM
The senseless, senseless killings. Every day a new shooting. It just makes me grieve for the human race.
MissItalianDiva
07-08-2016, 05:09 PM
Society and all the uneccesary turmoil. Also wondering when my 14 hour work days will ever end. I just need a vacation
grenade
07-09-2016, 04:09 PM
Yesterday at noon, my client went into cardiac arrest. She was revived but is comatose now. I was with her from noon until 3:30 am. I'm heading back up soon. I'm trying to remain positive but I'm emotionally drained.
The eaglets leg infection has improved and no longer requires antibiotics.
His pectoral muscles have increased in strength and this will help build endurance, agility and flight duration.
He is eating very well and will soon be introduced to live prey to assist with the development of natural hunting instincts.
He will continue to receive daily conditioning. The carpal bumpers and tail guard have been removed.
The eaglet currently weighs 7.9 pounds.
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TruTexan
07-12-2016, 04:27 PM
A local Baptist Church not flying their flag at half mast. It irritated me enough to call them and remind them that all flags this week are lowered to half mast because of the shootings. I think it was disrespectful, period.
Bèsame*
07-12-2016, 04:30 PM
There is a Pokémon in my parking lot at work!
Lol lol
P.s. I'm not playing!
TruTexan
07-12-2016, 04:32 PM
All these shootings and the anger and confusion going on. Reminds me of things that happened in the 60's and 70's I've been reading about.
I think History is repeating itself.
TruTexan
07-12-2016, 04:36 PM
There is a Pokémon in my parking lot at work!
Lol lol
P.s. I'm not playing!
LOL grab it and run like hell. lol
Wondering if some of the choices I make are the right ones. Things I wish I could make sense of that do not make sense.
Orema
07-13-2016, 05:55 PM
– work
– a vacation
– retirement
Glenn
07-16-2016, 10:30 AM
Gee...What a wonderful world...The butch-femme social club I was always lookin for nearby, turned out to be at my local Catholic church! A bunch of retired Catholic nuns, finially wearing regular clothes, instead of those cut-out cardboard costumes, are still doing their social and charity events, and always looking for volunteers. That one eighty something retired stone butch nun was sooo sweet. What An Amazing Revelation!
Gayandgray
07-17-2016, 09:32 AM
I've been doing a lot of thinking about how I kinda wasted most of my younger years drinking and partying, job-hopping, not thinking at all about the future and what I needed to do to prepare myself. My spouse and I both partied and danced and lived it up, and never planned for the NOW. Here I am 47 yrs old with no 401k, making good money as a CNA Team Leader but would rather just clean up after dogs and do commercial cleaning, but knowing that won't pay the mortgage. I'm going through a mid-life crisis, according to my family doctor, because of my hormones as I'm starting menopause. I look back and say damned why didn't I go to school, learn a trade, do something?????? Why did we wait so long to buy the house?? Why didn't I stick with the job closer to home???? All this coulda, shoulda, woulda crap is what's on my mind right now. Oh and the grandkids and all their drama, and my stepson's pending divorce, blah, blah, blah. I just wanna run away to the islands for a few months!!!!:|
Anybody care to join me??????? LOL!:jester::jester::jester::jester::jester::jeste r:
I've been doing a lot of thinking about how I kinda wasted most of my younger years drinking and partying, job-hopping, not thinking at all about the future and what I needed to do to prepare myself. My spouse and I both partied and danced and lived it up, and never planned for the NOW. Here I am 47 yrs old with no 401k, making good money as a CNA Team Leader but would rather just clean up after dogs and do commercial cleaning, but knowing that won't pay the mortgage. I'm going through a mid-life crisis, according to my family doctor, because of my hormones as I'm starting menopause. I look back and say damned why didn't I go to school, learn a trade, do something?????? Why did we wait so long to buy the house?? Why didn't I stick with the job closer to home???? All this coulda, shoulda, woulda crap is what's on my mind right now. Oh and the grandkids and all their drama, and my stepson's pending divorce, blah, blah, blah. I just wanna run away to the islands for a few months!!!!:|
Anybody care to join me??????? LOL!:jester::jester::jester::jester::jester::jeste r:
Haha! I will join you and your spouse to the islands. Y'all sound like fun people. Dancing and partying youth away. I did the same thing. I went to college in my late 20's so I have played catch up all this time.
Hang in there, you will get it all figured out. Take things one piece at a time. Definitely get a 401 or other retirement plan as soon as you can.
Chad
Brooklyn
07-17-2016, 10:54 AM
The news alert that just came to my phone - 3 Baton Rouge police officers dead - 3 injured - in an ambush mirroring Dallas as it happened right outside police HQ as well.
Sad but true, this will not stop - until the policemen that are killing unarmed black human beings are brought to justice - as they should be - as they should have been LONG before they were caught on cell phones, etc. This is not something that just happened overnight.
Wake up, America.
anotherbutch
07-17-2016, 11:24 AM
I'm terrified for the future that is being created for my grandchildren....
Angeltoes
07-17-2016, 03:36 PM
How can a transman be a misogynist?? I was driving along with a friend who is trans and he was displaying a bit of road rage. Whenever a bad driver got in front of him he would speed up to check and then sneer 'yup, figured it was a woman.' Is that not sheer craziness....? I would say so!
Kenna
07-17-2016, 05:16 PM
My friend who had a stroke is finally home from the hospital. I will soon be traveling to see them after my doctor appts are over. Wish I could go now. She and her daughter called me asking for my help. I feel guilty for having to postpone.
Orema
07-17-2016, 05:17 PM
Paying my bills.
cinnamongrrl
07-17-2016, 09:21 PM
Apparently I've become the talkative southerner that northerners can't wait to get away from...
Fine..
Not fine.
Meh
CherryWine
07-20-2016, 05:17 PM
Every time I see a racist, homophobic, pro-Trump, or sexist post pop up on my news feed as posted by my supervisor (happens quite often), I harken back to the time that I intended to text a fellow colleague and instead sent a text to my supervisor that read "(Supervisor's Name) is such a damned ignorant prude!"...as she was sitting in the room directly across from me loudly complaining about her child being exposed to a family-oriented LGBT television show.
At the time I was M-O-R-T-I-F-I-E-D. Nowadays the memory just brings a smile to my face. :)
Part of Yesterday and today have been rough for me. For reasons that I do know, I have been emotionally all over the map. Easily aggravated and irritable. (And no it's not hormone related lol). Hoping a little thinking followed by sleep will help.
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