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Bčsame*
03-23-2014, 09:54 PM
Seeing the sun come thru the wet pine trees. It rained last night and they were all sparkly this morning. It's beautiful to see other parts of the country:)

Yay vacation!

willow
04-09-2014, 08:27 AM
Holding day old chicks. Just the fluffy ones. The sticky ones can wait awhile. :cluck:

JustLovelyJenn
04-09-2014, 08:56 AM
my sons snuggles and excitment this morning...

Daktari
04-09-2014, 10:22 AM
What a joy a freshly barbered hair cut/growing quiff is.

Can I also just say; I love the baldy baldness of the detailer - even closer than reg. clippers w/no comb guard.

Can I finally just say; My barber dude offered to do a straight razor shave instead of the detailer. Next time mate whilst we're still growing the quiff and keeping the top bit...before it gets too much and I whizz it all off again :cheesy:


ETA: posting this here instead of the correct thread has definitely raised a smile here :cheesy:

Kenna
04-12-2014, 10:40 PM
I had a great day filled with many simple things that brought me much joy...
started with an early breakfast with my roomie...then to an old fashioned locally owned hardware store where we chatted with some awesome folks and got 3 really pretty tomato plants...then on to a local green house where we picked up a large flat of more tomatoes, eggplants, cucumbers, and 3 beautiful butterfly plants called Lantana...then almost home to drop off several tomato plants and a large pack of seeds for growing beans to our elderly neighbor that has THE MOST GORGEOUS raised garden beds you've ever seen! Made his day!!! ...then on to the roomie's parents to drop gardening stuff off and visit with them and their sweet granddaughter (a.k.a the Christmas Elf)... home again to unload and take trash to the dump...then drive WAY OUT in the country to visit a small family owned chicken hatchery/certified farm to learn more about raising healthy chickens and inquire about buying different breeds....this is where I started to feel like a little kid all excited about the baby chicks...because the lady had sold all the current babies, we only got to look and learn...until I found one TINY three day old soft fuzzy feisty sweet chick that had a crippled leg...I couldn't resist!! She is now our newest adopted adorable baby...and I have completely enjoyed setting up her new home and taking care of her...she LOVES getting her water from a little syringe, using the reptile hot rock I had kept from previous critters to keep warm, and she's eating very well both from my hands and from her little bowl. She's soooooo tiny but very feisty and a real fighter! We named her Uno...for her one working leg. Poor baby! Actually my roomie named her but it stuck. I can't help it....I absolutely love taking care of baby critters!! She really stole my heart today!

We got other chores done that made me feel good ...but I can't stop checking on Uno and making sure she's ok all cuddled up on her hot rock.

Kenna
05-23-2014, 10:25 PM
After stacking two mats/cushions in the truck bed to help pad my old bones...
Looking up at the stars, watching fireflies, enjoying the cool night air, listening to some silly birdie who forgot that birds go to bed when the sun goes down, hearing frogs down by the creek, loving the heavy scent of honeysuckle all reminds me of when I would camp out on our old garage roof or my gramma's back porch on nights just like tonight....
Only then I wasn't so spider or bug phobic....
Its really a gorgeous night...minus the mosquitoes and the neighbors dogs..

WildHorses
05-23-2014, 11:43 PM
Knowing she smiled big today.

Kenna
05-31-2014, 08:41 AM
Finding a good morning treasure, exciting and joyful in wide eyed wonder!

Medusa
05-31-2014, 10:25 AM
Keeping my eyes toward next Thursday night when we start our journey toward a weeklong vacation in New Orleans! WEEEEEE!

Gemme
05-31-2014, 01:19 PM
It's a beautiful day, things are going my way and I saw this:

Glam4Good Project (http://www.huffingtonpost.com/mary-alice-stephenson/dreams-come-true-watch-tw_b_5397783.html?kjnfkgn&icid=maing-grid7%7Cmaing9%7Cdl28%7Csec1_lnk3%26pLid%3D482711)

Diablo
05-31-2014, 02:06 PM
My baby Pearl cuddling with me this morning. I love her soooo.

Daktari
05-31-2014, 02:55 PM
A breathing meditation

The Pops coming out of surgery with a new hip to match the other one.

Fellowship service

Daktari
06-01-2014, 05:45 AM
Waking up to a sunny Sunday

Morning prayers

The Wuppster fighting to get on my lap for said prayer time. :awww:

Gemme
06-01-2014, 07:20 PM
I saw The Nut Job today!


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Kenna
06-01-2014, 09:17 PM
Seeing many beautiful gifts of nature today.

Smiling
06-02-2014, 05:32 AM
Quantum Entanglement!

Bčsame*
06-02-2014, 06:47 AM
Quantum Entanglement!

http://fireelf.com/Thumbnail/28/Jacaranda-Street---Jacaranda-Tree--Sydney--Australia.jpg

Please Quantum Entangle this over my way ! I miss these!

Smiling
06-02-2014, 10:59 AM
Go stand in your backyard; and no peeking! lol, stand out of the way, though; I'm not sure exactly what happens if it teleports on your poor toes, lol, but it's likely to mess up a girl's pedicure.

Beaming it over in 5, 4, 3, 2....

http://i1306.photobucket.com/albums/s577/Bree524/imagejpg1_zps852ec00e.jpg

:cheesy:

sportyspice95
06-13-2014, 09:18 PM
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SoulShineFemme
06-21-2014, 08:51 AM
What brought me joy was FINALLY being home after a looooooooooong time on the road. I got to fall asleep and wake up in ONLY's arms. (HEAVEN!!)
We have plans for fun times with ONLY's sweet boy.
All is right with the world today. :):)

Venus007
06-21-2014, 11:04 AM
House quiet, kitchen kinda clean, making 3 different kinds of lemonade
1. Cucumber lemonade
2. Watermelon lemonade
3. Super tart old school lemonade

Putting my lime cilantro chicken in to marinate

love to cook

Kenna
07-22-2014, 07:16 PM
Warm, sweet, perfect chocolate Baklava from Fadi's....I am so loved!

nekohl
07-22-2014, 07:28 PM
Fruitcake, kale, and a big fat toad at my door.

WingsOnFire
07-22-2014, 07:44 PM
several things brought me joy today...

first thing was Dutch Bros.. I love my coffee in the morning... it really helps me start my day...

my lunch was soooo yummy... all american sandwich from Winco.. love this sandwich...

and my babies... I love the way they greet me when I get home like I havent seen them in weeks lol..

EnchantedNightDweller
07-22-2014, 08:09 PM
He asked me today! :love1:

LoyalWolfsBlade
07-22-2014, 08:35 PM
I changed the way she looks at chocolate covered cherries today

SnackTime
07-23-2014, 07:32 PM
Taking the road bike out this morning before work.

Impromptu phone call.

Medusa
07-26-2014, 10:06 AM
Tomato joy!!! I have a ton of Roma tomatoes and fresh basil from the garden and I'm about to make sauce!! Woot!

Talon
07-26-2014, 12:03 PM
Getting all of the lovely art supplies delivered today....I will enjoy breaking it all in...:playingcat:

clay
07-26-2014, 12:15 PM
My honey making this a really special day for me! A new NOOK HD+ with 10" screen, a gift card to buy books online, my neck chain and matching bracelet, and giant cupcakes in Red Velevt AND Germnan Chocolate to have later. Being taken to breakfast this AM and having dinner at my fave :sushi: place this afternoon!!!

Having wonderful wishes from my friends here!!!

Thanks everyone for the huge smiles!!

JustLovelyJenn
07-27-2014, 12:40 PM
Singing happy birthday to a friend on the phone!

Daktari
07-27-2014, 03:51 PM
Being accepted as a service member at tonight's meeting.

A calm women's meeting for the first time in weeks.

Loads of out of town visitors at this evening's meeting.

Venus007
07-28-2014, 10:08 AM
Laying on the couch, the big dog under my legs and the little one curled up by my side, I'm reading and gingerly sipping ginger tea for my stomach

So grateful for paid sick days, dogs, ginger lemon tea, and good AC

BounceBounceBabyBoi
07-28-2014, 12:52 PM
I'm sending my first email
to a very sweet lady to start
the process for my transition.
I'm so excited :)
I qualify for a "scholarship" to
obtain my upper surgery and
my T for a year.
:)
I've been working on this for a while
now so this is VERY promising.
fingers crossed!!!

Daktari
07-28-2014, 03:02 PM
Much...

Seeing teh young 'un start on step one.
Being of service
Big I's share
Being able to be an 'ear' for someone who badly needed it after tonight's meeting.
Being greeted by Her Royal Greyness when I came in tonight.

cinnamongrrl
07-28-2014, 04:43 PM
The same thing that has for a week straight....

every glimpse I get of those beautiful mountains....

they just surround me like a hug from mother earth :)

MysticOceansFL
07-28-2014, 04:55 PM
What brought me Joy today was that having good friends or a friend keeping you on track of things and getting a thank you from I gift I sent in the mail to a special femme and talking with her again seeing where things might go.

Charmingbutch21
07-29-2014, 06:44 AM
Another cool front in the Deep South. ;) It was 60 degrees this morning. There was a little nip in the air. It feels great! High of 83 today. I'll take it, especially after it was pushing 100 this past weekend.

HoldMeSteady
07-29-2014, 11:45 AM
Having time to spend with my foster dog and one of "my" dogs at the same time. Breaking up a fight by telling them to sit and stay with treats. Teaching the new one to stay EVEN while another one is getting a treat!

MysticOceansFL
07-29-2014, 03:00 PM
Facing every day as a new beginning and keeping a positive attitude with everyone and everything. And spreading happiness to everyone I meet online or off...

WingsOnFire
07-29-2014, 03:24 PM
good morning coffee talk with someone I met that lives in CA.. can't wait to make a visit there one day. I have lived in OR for 2 1/2 years and have never been to WA or CA

JustLovelyJenn
07-29-2014, 03:48 PM
good morning coffee talk with someone I met that lives in CA.. can't wait to make a visit there one day. I have lived in OR for 2 1/2 years and have never been to WA or CA

This really has to change sissy!!!! I am only a few hours away! And Cali is on my list for this year!!!!

lilapache
07-29-2014, 04:20 PM
hearing my son and daughter laugh and cut up with each other... for most of their lives they have fought like dragons *hence the double dragon tat on my back*... but now they are living together and helping each other and enjoying each others company... along with their significant others... this.. brings me joy because we are all we have now...

Talon
07-29-2014, 04:52 PM
Kisses on my face....

starryeyes
07-29-2014, 05:03 PM
My life!! :-D

Orema
07-29-2014, 05:18 PM
Seeing an old friend who retired last year and is doing well. She is really enjoying her life. She rides a Harley (it's beautiful—ivory and black), has ridden one for decades, and she's joined a group of Harley ridin' women.

She's also going to Vegas, Park City, and Yellowstone next month (not on her bike but in her car). It was just great seeing the smiles on her face and her excited spirit. She even lost a few pounds though she didn't need to.

We'll have lunch again before she leaves for Vegas if she can fit me in her busy schedule.

I miss seeing my friend at work, but I'm thrilled for her and seeing her smiling face made my day.

nekohl
07-29-2014, 06:36 PM
I got an egg! The first egg!!
Not sure which of the hens laid it but you would have thought I won the lottery when I found it.
Can't wait to see if I get to collect again tomorrow!

ONLY
08-02-2014, 08:07 PM
Taking my nephew out for lunch and a movie. Was great spending time with him :)

EnchantedNightDweller
08-02-2014, 09:10 PM
Watching my daughter have fun with her friends at Main Event even though I'm dying inside. Being able to put my needs aside for someone else.

WingsOnFire
08-02-2014, 10:37 PM
knowing he will be home in a few hours and safely tucked in his bed... I miss his voice and storytime... last night I go to sleep without it. Happy girl :waitinggirl:

starryeyes
08-02-2014, 11:56 PM
Went on a date and had Ethiopian food and went to the Movies to see Lucy (don't recommend it). Now, laying in bed with my PJs on eating crack aka: chocolate malted crunch ice cream from Thrifties getting ready to watch Drag Race reruns. Joy!!

candy_coated_bitch
08-03-2014, 12:36 AM
Ridiculous conversations with my crazy chat friends.

CyberStud
08-03-2014, 02:34 AM
My bathroom scales! We don't usually get along, but today it look like we are becoming the best of friends. The information shared between us was truly a joyous moment.

:pile:

Zimmeh
08-03-2014, 03:33 AM
Leaving work on time and looking forward to spending today with Ruff :)

Zimmeh

nekohl
08-03-2014, 07:17 PM
Dinner at my cousin's house out in the country. I played with her babies and took in the views of the mountains. Lots of family hanging out.
Wonderful Sunday
:heartbeat:

SirenManda
08-03-2014, 07:34 PM
I bought honey a telescope. Like a big one. Ever since he was little he always wanted one but they couldn't afford those kinds of gifts. Surprised him when I got home with it, his face was priceless.

JustLovelyJenn
08-03-2014, 08:28 PM
This whole week has brought me joy!!

Time so deep in the woods even a car cant be heard...

Friends who appreciate and love me unconditionally...

Meeting a new friend, no... chosen family member... a trans man who happens to be my friends uncle!

Skinny dipping for hours every day I was gone!

cinnamongrrl
08-03-2014, 08:29 PM
a morning spent perusing the Blue Ridge Parkway....

Jacques not knowing the meaning of "stranger" and delighting folks everywhere we went....

learning new things....

the epic beauty of the blue ridge mountains....words can not express...

a happy decision to meander through Black Mountain on my way home...and the lunch and ice cream that ensued there...

it was a blessed day.... Im a truly lucky girl...

Diablo
08-03-2014, 08:57 PM
hearing her voice today.....

theoddz
08-03-2014, 11:08 PM
Talking to my cousin Chuck the other day, and remembering our conversation about the "other side" of my mother's (and our) clan. My mother's stepbrother, by my Swedish grandfather's first wife (Grandma Anderson was his second wife), settled in the Seattle area and I have a whole other group of relatives there. Uncle George's son, my cousin Chuck, retired from the Army as a Lt.Col., after 36 years of service. He's a really great guy and simply adores my mom.....his "Aunt Lou"!!!! LOL

We're all getting on Ancestry.com and doing genealogy these days!!! What fun we're having, too!!!! :thumbsup:

~Theo~ :bouquet:

rubygirl
08-05-2014, 01:21 PM
What brought me joy today...

...having my assignment (due tomorrow) just about done :byebye:

deathbypoem
08-05-2014, 02:19 PM
Watching the kitties stretch after just waking up. Oh the life.!

EnchantedNightDweller
08-05-2014, 02:58 PM
Laughing with girlfriends! :superfunny:

Gemme
08-05-2014, 06:33 PM
This kid (http://www.aol.com/article/2014/08/05/adorable-little-kid-takes-over-tv-interview/20942062/?icid=maing-grid7%7Cmain5%7Cdl42%7Csec1_lnk2%26pLid%3D511158) is fabulous!

Kenna
08-05-2014, 06:49 PM
My two best friends...they just don't know how important they are.

Blade
08-06-2014, 02:07 PM
the feeling of accomplishment working with a young man at my job. It is so hard for him to work together with someone. He so badly wants to out work anyone he works with. When I work with him I've tried everything to make him understand, we are working toward the same goal, and if we work together we can get there quickly and at the same time. Today he got it, chuckles....tomorrow is another day though.

So it brought me joy to see a coworker, understand that, I'm trying to teach him the value and importance of working together, and he got it...today.

EnchantedNightDweller
08-06-2014, 04:14 PM
Girlfriend time - confession, validation, and laughing our butts off! :giggle:
Joyful healing for the soul.

rubygirl
08-06-2014, 11:10 PM
What brought me joy today.......

...knowing my son cares about me

cricket26
08-07-2014, 07:35 PM
being recognized at work for a job well done :)

Blade
08-07-2014, 08:13 PM
getting off work before working 12 hrs for the past 2 weeks has brought me joy and allowed me garden time, nap time and TV time later at night

LeftWriteFemme
08-16-2014, 04:02 PM
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cinnamongrrl
08-17-2014, 07:21 PM
waking up at 7:15...

slowly opening my eyes and seeing the most lovely morning light shining on the tree outside my window....

getting a lot to-dos to-done

the love I am given every day...

Blade
08-17-2014, 07:29 PM
Spending a little time with my parents and the Christmas elf

Football

Naps

Sleeping in this morning

Liam
08-17-2014, 10:42 PM
Having more energy.
Less fluid is coming out of the drains.
I took three walks today, and that really helped with the cabin fever.
How quickly I am healing.
:)

WildHorses
08-17-2014, 10:57 PM
Being able to spend quality time with my girl. It is important to make the moments/days count.

MysticOceansFL
08-18-2014, 04:49 AM
Getting over my flu completely .

Gemme
08-18-2014, 11:41 AM
It was yesterday but I'm still happy about it. Gordon won at Michigan. First time in over a decade he took first there. Good for him!

theoddz
08-18-2014, 12:49 PM
My endless source of laughter, joy and love........this new little pastel calico kitty named "Lollie".....as in "Lollipop". :awww::heartbeat::cat:

She's turning into a regular little "Daddy's girl". :winky:

~Theo~ :bouquet:

Gemme
08-18-2014, 06:40 PM
Taking the time to get a pedi with my manicure. Now my toes are a glittery turquoise and my nails are a glittery light aqua.

Purdy!

Kenna
08-22-2014, 08:24 PM
A quote and picture on my FB ...the pic is too large to post ...it has 2 kids carrying mason jars filled with fireflies...and the quote says "Fill your life with those that light your path."...

This brings me joy for many reasons...including my mom's story of leaving a jar of fireflies for her dad at the top of their stairs to "light his way". Sadly he died when she was 7 years old but it's her fond memory.

Kenna
09-15-2014, 09:38 PM
My hummingbirds that bring me joy every day to watch their feisty selves.

Certain accomplishments I've made in the last several months that have opened doors to a better quality of life.

Teamwork

My son returning to the east coast...

An awesome dinner with important, appreciated, trusted friends.

My life and the many positive changes and healthy choices I've made.

Kenna
09-17-2014, 09:30 PM
The best, most productive and positive doctor appointment I've ever had!! It's very rare for me to "just click" with a doctor but I believe she must be the best on this side of the Mississippi!!! I'm so thankful we are starting to get stuff taken care of and that she pays such attention to detail....she's awesome!! And I know she will help me work on improving my quality of life.

Kenna
09-19-2014, 07:38 PM
An amazing day filled with the beauty of nature, mountain streams, waterfalls, laughter, meeting new, fun friends, finding tiny critter prints in the sandy mica mud that made me smile at the tiny wonders of mother nature, private and secluded apple and asian pear orchard, a gorgeous trout pond load full of fat trout who keep "Howard the Duck" company, campfire and sunshine breaking thru the rain, ....and that "awe struck", FUN, exciting feeling at experiencing something I've never done and "feeling like a kid again" finding beautiful treasures at a Gem Mine...I have a WHOLE bag filled with REAL Emeralds (my favorite), Garnets, Moon Stones, Purple Amethest (sp?), and several other stunning stones that the lady said were large enough to cut several large gems from. I have ALWAYS wanted to own a real emerald!! I was so excited I was giddy!! ...the Garnets are the size of golf balls!!

And the whole day spent with two of my best friends.

WildHorses
09-19-2014, 09:52 PM
Seeing my buddy today after finding out earlier this week he has cancer. He is doing well and up to the same old jokester he is.

He and his wife are hanging in there-together. They have been together for what seems like forever and she is not giving him permission to let the cancer beat him.

cinnamongrrl
09-20-2014, 05:00 AM
yesterday.....

sitting and watching the fluffy clouds roll by and not giving a thought to the time or anything else....right at that moment, that's exactly where I was supposed to be....

later the same day.....

an incredibly massive rainbow made a showy appearance over the mountain. It was so broad that all the colors could be clearly seen. Ive never seen yellow in a rainbow show so vibrantly....

Sweet Bliss
09-20-2014, 06:31 AM
Waking up to Fall kissing my soul spot...

RockOn
09-20-2014, 06:37 AM
Watching see Walter run brought me joy. Cracked me up big time!

Here are 2 video links on youtube about a dog named Walter who absolutely loves the sea.

Enjoy! :)


http://youtu.be/UowkIRSDHfs


http://youtu.be/ZEFP3J_lIa8

RockOn
09-24-2014, 10:17 PM
It brought me joy to hear the elderly drug addict lady next door is moving away OCT 1st. Her brother took her car from her after an incident at the bank. She was strung out at the bank. The manager came out in the parking lot, talked to her long enough for the police to arrive. I am certain he knew how dangerous it would be for her and everyone else on the road if he allowed her to drive away. She was sent to an out of town treatment center without her relatives knowing what was happening. If she had not been an elderly person, the police would have arrested her. She only stayed 3 days. Her brother is having her put into an assisted living place. No more car for her. She is happy about it. I am too! It got way too scary a few times ... and annoying as hell other times. The week before the incident at the bank, she had me over there checking her front doorknob and lock 3 times. There was not a thing wrong with it except she forgot how to lock and unlock her front door in her stupor. I would have to repeat over and over again like I was instructing a 3-year old ... and she could never understand me. I think she always perceived me as her own personal handyman. I really did not mind going over and putting her bookcase together and other little things. But as her mind became more pickled, I did not want to be around her - much too frustrating. And I got tired of pulling up in the driveway, seeing her sprawled out on the ground... and having to go over there, pick her up and take her inside. If she was not moving away, I would still help her when she was on the ground. But YAY! Don't have to do it any more. I talked to her a bit after she was off the dope a few days. Told her she was a drug addict and that it would kill her. She does not think she is. She said those people in the treatment center were yelling and crazy. Also, hugged her and said she had nothing to be ashamed about because it was an illness like any other illness. Hugged her again and walked away.

Being around her, I was able to see my disease up close.
Will be forever thankful I chose sobriety around age 30.
That chit gets really messy - looking in a hurry!

*doing the happy wiggle butt stone butch dance now* LOL!

LeftWriteFemme
09-26-2014, 06:44 PM
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grenade
09-26-2014, 07:24 PM
I spent a few blissfull hours holding, kissing and breathing in my baby nephew. Pure joy.

Blade
09-26-2014, 07:28 PM
Enjoyed supper with great friends that I haven't seen in months

Kenna
09-29-2014, 08:38 PM
I sent my best friend a care package filled with her favorite treats and things to make her smile...love sending fun care packages.

Then I had a fantastic visit with a retired couple that are dear friends....had so much fun listening to their funny stories and sharing a lot of laughter...I had taken them a huge batch of homemade chicken n dumplins...in return they gave me homemade blueberry wine made from their organically grown LOCAL berries (OMG!! YUMMM!!) and some fresh from oven, skillet fried corn bread. The best part was seeing them heathly and happy.

RockOn
09-29-2014, 08:43 PM
found out today I am being assigned a brand new project all my own ... my baby from the ground up ... I make the calls, I make the decisions ... the agents in the field I will be gathering info from wear badges ... I will insist, after they get to know me better, on having an honorary badge myself ... (butch giggles) ... I am serious!

how fun!! :)

Kenna
09-30-2014, 11:19 AM
it really made my day to give great news to a dear friend and know it made her day and made her smile. It's really awesome when plans come through and good neighbors help each other out.

starryeyes
09-30-2014, 12:25 PM
Today is my baby Smudge's 2nd birthday. I am going to buy him a doggie cupcake and take him on a long walk. He brings me joy, everyday. <3

Daktari
09-30-2014, 01:22 PM
Random conversations with random folks.

Sweet Bliss
09-30-2014, 02:46 PM
Waking up with five cats nesting on and in my feather comforter and 85 pound Sophie next to me.

Pure heaven.

firegal
09-30-2014, 03:36 PM
After mowing the lawn...drinking a grape soda out of a glass bottle!

oboejive
09-30-2014, 04:27 PM
Even despite spending $1100 on my car, getting it fixed so that I don't have to worry about my steering going :)

nekohl
09-30-2014, 05:49 PM
Joy #1 Having a lunch date with my boy Fruitcake. He loves to play fetch.

Joy #2 Fresh sushi and a chilled Orangina for dinner

Kenna
10-01-2014, 11:32 AM
It feels really good to make someone's day, and make them " so happy they could cry", just by a simple act of kindness, friendship, compassion, and a dash of "Paying it forward".

fever
10-01-2014, 02:38 PM
Eyebrows threaded, legs waxed, wonderful facial.


This femme had the royal treatment today.............:bunchflowers::bunchflowers:

JDeere
10-01-2014, 03:06 PM
My own plate of chocolate chip cookies

cinnamongrrl
10-01-2014, 04:43 PM
My life taking a complete turn around for the better...

Coming home soon...a real home...

Friends and the great love they show me...
:praying:

SleepyButch
10-01-2014, 05:16 PM
Taking a shower brought me joy and not because I am now clean as a whistle but because when I'm in the shower, I like to do the norm, wash the flowing locks, my body, shave the face... and then... I like to turn the water up so it's nice and hot and just sit there with the water running over my body. I get lost in it at times and forget where I am. It just feels so damn good. Today, that brought me joy.

firegal
10-01-2014, 08:10 PM
Simple communication.....texting.... Good people....good texts!

Canela
10-01-2014, 11:29 PM
My new place...what a huge difference it makes to have your own space! I love it!

Got to have that housewarming part-ay! Just a small intimate affair...

Getting closer and closer to my goals.

New opportunities.

My chiwinnie all clean and pretty and enjoying the calm...

Kenna
10-04-2014, 02:15 PM
I woke up early without ANY pain...got an early start to my day...enjoyed the company of a good friend and yummy coffee while we drove to Charlotte and found some great, inexpensive materials at Habitat for Humanity Restore to complete several of my projects...was so excited to find beautiful mosaic tiles for a table top and a nice chandelier for my mason jar light idea....had fun at lunch...made a special trip to my favorite hardware store where the staff are always so helpful and love to hear about my current projects...came home and am having a bunch of fun and creative excitement working to "transform" an old sewing machine wrought iron base (that I got for very cheap) into a gorgeous tile topped table to resell at my new shop...the hardware guy said I should ask $200 for it when done because it's so unique...that's a huge profit and makes me very happy to feel my creativity come back!!

Having my new shop and getting special projects done that I can make good money from makes me feel really awesome to be self sufficient again, without going back to work for the "corporate world". I love being self employed in a job where I can be so creative and the sky's the limit!!!
So happy I feel like dancing!!

Daktari
10-04-2014, 02:20 PM
Being kind to myself
Giving m'self permission to draw outside the lines.

A new flat cap...to replace the small black Kangol that went astray.

Flight itineraries.

Penmarked Femme
10-04-2014, 03:07 PM
Chocolate. Pizza. Singing...in that order.

Canela
10-04-2014, 04:21 PM
Getting ready...

Great friend...

An understanding beautiful heart...

Tomorrow's game and all the good natured (and some not so good natured) ribbing between Dallas Cowboys and Houston Texans for the Governor's Cup game! GO COWBOYS!!!

A season of new blessings...

JDeere
10-04-2014, 04:26 PM
Getting ready...

Great friend...

An understanding beautiful heart...

Tomorrow's game and all the good natured (and some not so good natured) ribbing between Dallas Cowboys and Houston Texans for the Governor's Cup game! GO COWBOYS!!!

A season of new blessings...

Say it ain't so! A femme who like the Cowboys! Excellent taste!(f)

Blaze
10-04-2014, 04:40 PM
Clean yard, trees trimmed, clean house.. Spanish 102.9 jamming as I accomplished all the ad bove.
Cool weather, calm heart. Quiet times interrupted by true salsa and cumbia musicia...that got the hips as shoulders wanting to move without shame. .life is grand.. I take it as its given..life is nothing but rhythm and movement.. salsa and merengue. .

Blade
10-04-2014, 08:12 PM
So far 10 hrs of football. Man I love this time of year!

JDeere
10-04-2014, 08:18 PM
Good food, good football and good family.

cinnamongrrl
10-04-2014, 09:13 PM
Buying two new pillows and a soft cozy blankie...

And

Giving directions to a lost fella....made me feel more like a native and less like a transplant :)

Canela
10-05-2014, 11:50 AM
:cheer:

Watching my all time favorite football team...

Dallas Cowboys!!!

That's mah boys!

:cheer:

cinnamongrrl
10-05-2014, 12:40 PM
It was a tiny thing but...

My work family got me pumpkin pancake mix at Trader Joe's :)

It really did make my day...

JDeere
10-05-2014, 02:12 PM
Dallas Cowboys beating the Houston Texans in OT!

nekohl
10-05-2014, 04:57 PM
Lunch with the family, and then a girl's day!
I love the girls. We always have so much fun together. This girls day involved sex shops and corsets :)
Joy!

Blade
10-05-2014, 07:35 PM
Visiting with Mom this evening. She was in good spirits and way talkative. She had summonsed me over there this evening. To my surprise she presented me with my grandmothers original engagement ring and wedding band and the gold cross my grandfather gave to my grandma as a graduation gift. WOW so beautiful, and knowing he only made $7 a week. No telling how long he had to save to buy these items.

I am thankful to have these symbols of their young love a love that lasted
61 yrs til his death. I could only hope to ever find a love like this. Doesn't seem like people have that kind of staying power these days.

SleepyButch
10-05-2014, 08:14 PM
Seeing My little trout friends swimming in the stream down at Turner Falls today. One of my most favorite things is to sit by a moving body of water.. creek.. river.. stream..etc.. and watch the fish.. whether they be big or small.

It brings me joy.... relaxation.... and peace.

Blaze
10-06-2014, 05:23 AM
She did...
The atmosphere mixed with the hemisphere.
Seeing through her eye's, her passions, her goals.
Being floored that she's such a Classy and vibrantly interested woman.
She hears and acknowledges as well as she fluently speaks...
Thud...
Beautiful
Articulate
Feisty
Witty
Real
Down to earth
Kind and caring
Humorous
If this is what a date feels like, can you mark the calender of life with that smile of yours?

Canela
10-06-2014, 07:21 AM
Say it ain't so! A femme who like the Cowboys! Excellent taste!(f)

It was an exciting game, wasn't it?

WAY TO GO COWBOYS!!

ProfPacker
10-06-2014, 10:13 AM
In my university system non tenure track employees come up for what is known as a Certificate of Continuous Employee after 5 years. It is like functional tenure. Today was the day I came up before the appointments committee and was approved with flying colors...unanimously. Now, it goes before all the chairs and deans on 10/23 and I have been told that I will sail through. In this day and age it is wonderful to have job security.

LeftWriteFemme
10-06-2014, 07:14 PM
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love is a funny thing

Kenna
10-06-2014, 07:45 PM
I've had a lot to smile about today and felt really great that I was able to enjoy being outside almost all day. This past summer's heat tortured me and I'm so thankful for cooler weather.
This morning I got tickled that it's the first day I had to wear my favorite hoodie...while enjoying coffee and finishing the grouting on my snazzy table project...

Before the morning dew could burn off, I got to watch a large flock of beautiful wild turkeys so close to my yard that I could see details of their plumage.
Then I listened to a young red tailed hawk in the trees behind the house...I was "in my element" enjoying the gifts of mother nature around me.

I couldn't help but smile and feel such pride at my completed project and how stunningly beautiful it turned out!! Made me so happy ...especially since my health prevents me from doing several of my old hobbies, and I hadn't done stone tile work in a long time. It's an awesome feeling to get my fight back and be inspired again by my creativity.

Then my favorite elderly neighbor showed up to "spectate" as he said, my work. A retired custom home builder and craftsman, he was thrilled with it and gave me some incredibly encouraging, supportive comments and advice. He spent two hours chatting with me and helping me finish the tedious job of grouting the edges. I must admit I soaked up his encouragement and his excitement at how nice it turned out.

This day was truly a gift and so full of positive, healty, peaceful, empowering energy...
My soul is so content and happy.

ProfPacker
10-07-2014, 06:35 AM
OMG...In my quest to pamper myself, I bought a ticket to Fleetwood Mac on Saturday night. For this, I don't care if I go alone.

OMG:seeingstars:

Blade
10-08-2014, 07:05 PM
Eating supper out at the picnic table, with a slight cool breeze. listening to the birds and crickets and the chirp of the flying squirrels. Those jokers are so fast ya can't see them. Having enough daylight left when I get home the last 3 days to enjoy the property.

Kenna
10-16-2014, 09:34 PM
Some very serious, healthy, healing time....knowing that the east coast near my son is where I belong at this time...there's just something about the stunningly beautiful east coast beaches that bring my heart and soul such joy and peace. I feel a "real connection to the land", rather in the Blue Ridge, Appalachians (where I was raised), Smokies...or at my favorite beaches from between Ocean City MD, Virginia Beach...to Folly and Edisto.

The clear, crashing surf here just seems to wash away stress and worry.

Kenna
10-19-2014, 11:31 AM
Another full morning at Folly Beach with sparkling clean soft sand, low tide and soothing water and gently flowing tide pools to wade in...just a stunning awe inspiring day!!
So much to look forward to and so many treasures to be delighted with!!

bright_arrow
10-21-2014, 03:58 AM
1:1 conversation talking about family

Kenna
10-30-2014, 11:30 PM
Going through a bunch of old pictures of my son, his half brother (that I always wished were my boy) and his best buddy with their goofy, happy grins. Such cute little boys that I had so much fun raising. Good kids happy times.

Blade
11-02-2014, 08:01 PM
Spent most of the day with my parents. Very blessed to still have both of them. Chuckles...very blessed to be able to come home as well. They are a joy, but they can be a lotof work as well

EnchantedNightDweller
11-02-2014, 11:29 PM
Playing the Wii Pacman with my daughter. :pacman:

LaDivina
11-02-2014, 11:52 PM
Singing happy birthday at midnight to someone who's very special to me. :)

WildHorses
11-03-2014, 12:52 AM
A nap... lazy day

Blade
11-03-2014, 09:16 PM
Researching items I bought at auction and finding interesting info and much higher pricing than I paid for the items

Kenna
11-30-2014, 06:34 PM
Three messages from my son...
It was only three but that was more than I had yesterday

A. Spectre
11-30-2014, 07:19 PM
purchased a kick ass knife to dice herbs for my many, many dishes I am learning how to prepare.

tonight, 1/4 of fresh parsley, 1/2 cup of fresh parmesan, 1/4 cup of fresh thyme. 1/4 cup of fresh parsley.

it really is cathartic. i have been missing out all these years.

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Blade
11-30-2014, 07:23 PM
Spending the day with Mom

Daktari
11-30-2014, 08:41 PM
Hearing a girl sing.

Kenna
12-06-2014, 10:15 PM
Two hummingbirds....

And being confident that I made the right decisions....

EnchantedNightDweller
12-06-2014, 10:33 PM
Seeing my daughter dance in the Christmas show at Six Flags Holiday in the Park. :cc:

~baby~doll~
12-06-2014, 11:35 PM
getting together my night pills without help.

cinnamongrrl
12-09-2014, 06:33 AM
Twas the other day but still....

I'm doing a purge...closet, unnecessary belongings...etc. I just want a more simplistic and less possession obsessed life....

I recently lost about 30lbs and now I need to assess what fits and what doesn't.

Most things in my closet are big now; my old jeans just fall off...but before I left Massachusetts I had bought these sky blue scrub pants. In the size I typically took..so I didn't bother to try them on. When I went to wear them, they were Wayyyy too tight. I hadn't taken into consideration at that time that I had gained weight...so...I sadly put them in the closet...

The other day, I tried them on and they are actually too loose now...sad, because even though I thrift shop, these were brand new. They aren't good for wearing to work, but I wear scrub bottoms around the house cuz they're comfy...(I'm wearing them right now!)

Bottom line is....when I feel stuck in a rut...I need to look around and count my blessings... I worked hard to get to where I am (weight wise, life wise) and even though I'm not done yet, I need to acknowledge my accomplishments from time to time. I tend to be my own worst critic.

So this is me saying YAY ME! :bunchflowers:

girl_dee
12-12-2014, 09:04 PM
Coming home after 11 hours of working spreadsheets.

Blaze
12-12-2014, 09:26 PM
Being loved.
Being heard.
Listening.
Compassion.
Hugs.
Awesome kisses.
Being spoiled.
Spoiling her.
But No expectations. ..
Eden..
Deep, Invested Love...

CherylNYC
12-12-2014, 09:53 PM
The big motorcycle show is in town! YAY!!

SleepyButch
12-12-2014, 10:22 PM
Watching Frozen. Who would have thought that at my age, it would have brought me so much joy but it sure did.

Femmadian
12-12-2014, 10:48 PM
Seeing both ducks and gulls alike swimming around and swishing their tail feathers in the newly flooded low-lying areas around the city. They were a little pop of joy in an otherwise grey and rainy day.

Also, how fresh and clean the air now smells in my normally industrially-scented city... What a welcome change! It does not feel like December at all! :thumbsup:

JustLovelyJenn
12-13-2014, 10:37 AM
A cup of coffee the roommate made!! with gingerbread oreos!!!!

Blaze
12-13-2014, 10:49 AM
Acorns and it's message*

Blade
12-13-2014, 09:28 PM
Dinner and cruising around with Mom looking at Christmas lights. We are both like kids at Christmas time

JustLovelyJenn
12-14-2014, 01:10 PM
A little tiny bit of time to myself.

Kenna
12-19-2014, 08:59 PM
A special treat!! :cheesy:

Daktari
12-19-2014, 09:48 PM
Aurals.....

Blade
12-21-2014, 02:02 AM
Took a ride, found a quaint little tow I didnt know existed actually 2 of them

Smiling
12-21-2014, 06:37 AM
Listening to the birds sing and having a cup of tea. I hope I can hear birds every morning when I move next week. It is one of my favorite pleasures.

nekohl
12-21-2014, 08:25 PM
It's been a while, but my orchid finally bloomed again today. Happy Winter Solstice!

Daktari
12-21-2014, 08:31 PM
A meeting
Service
A man-sandwich
Reading to...

Bčsame*
12-21-2014, 10:12 PM
The beautiful sanctuary the backyard has become.

Not only the pink flowers, but the fire pit and water fountain. I know many a day and night will be spent out there⛲️♨️🌸🌺🌸

LaDivina
12-23-2014, 12:24 AM
Skype-dancing.

Smiling
12-23-2014, 01:23 PM
I have been offered the job! They are preparing my offer letter this afternoon.
Now for the scary part - telling my managers I am leaving; and, since it is a transfer, they have to release me and give a time frame when I can go.

Please keep your fingers crossed that the offer is a lucrative one!

cinnamongrrl
12-23-2014, 01:31 PM
I have been offered the job! They are preparing my offer letter this afternoon.
Now for the scary part - telling my managers I am leaving; and, since it is a transfer, they have to release me and give a time frame when I can go.

Please keep your fingers crossed that the offer is a lucrative one!

YAY!!!! Fingers duly crossed!! AGAIN!

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Smiling
12-23-2014, 01:48 PM
Thank you so much! :cheesy:


YAY!!!! Fingers duly crossed!! AGAIN!

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cinnamongrrl
12-25-2014, 06:47 AM
The sun is out today...after 5 days straight of rain....

It's a Christmas miracle :)

Queenie
12-25-2014, 08:20 AM
Spending xmas day with my husband and our cat, ed. Bliss!

JDeere
12-25-2014, 10:20 AM
Getting chocolate and lots of it! Santa did good!

Jess
12-25-2014, 12:58 PM
the best Christmas gifts ever...even with an ocean between she has given me the most amazing Christmas morning I have had since I was a child.
I.am.so.grateful.

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Blade
12-25-2014, 11:15 PM
My little great niece OMG she is precious. She is soft spoken, very laid back, and she is very respectful. Uses her Ma'am's and Sirs and please and thank you without being prompted. She's pretty smart for a 3 yr old and she is beautiful. Long dark hair with curls, dark eyes and skin. She was just a joy to spend time with. AND she insisted on being outside with us as we were target practicing this evening.

Jesse
12-26-2014, 12:22 AM
70F degree weather for Christmas Day.

Having a good conversation with a friend of mine.

Playing with Sadie and her new "babies"

Making a banana pudding cheesecake...YUM!

Playing here on the Planet.

cinnamongrrl
12-26-2014, 05:56 AM
SNOW!!!!!

I don't know WHAT made me look outside early this morning, but I did and there it was. :)

It was like waking up on Christmas morning when I was a kid...

It's just a dusting, of course. No snowmen or women will be created and no snow angels for sure...but....

My lingering New Englander was very happy to see it :)

Clyde
12-26-2014, 06:14 AM
Beautiful sunrise out my windows, which means there will actually be SUN today (yey)!

Talon
12-26-2014, 12:03 PM
I am in awe of how ignorant I have been, as to how incredibly fortunate that I am.
I've had such a truly wonderful holiday...so happy and joyful...I am grateful beyond measure.

Blade
12-28-2014, 12:52 PM
Was last night, went to my best freinds Christmas party. Enjoyed that tremendously, beautiful night, not to cold outside,delish food. Homemade everything, tater soup chili, and all sorts of baked goodies and dips. FL was in rare form. He rarely drinks anymore but himand Jack got reaquainted last night. It always brings me joy to spent time with those I love

Kenna
12-28-2014, 10:03 PM
The BEST Christmas, Birthday and relaxing days before and after that I've enjoyed in a long time. So fun, happy, peaceful, content and comfortable!! Filled with good times, great company, fantastic, loyal friends, lots of treats and lots of laughter!!
I feel like I've been on an extended vacation.

Bčsame*
12-28-2014, 10:09 PM
A lovely conversation about champagne. Mmmm, Happy New Year's treat.

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SleepyButch
12-28-2014, 11:09 PM
Getting my hair cut.. it's the small things....

JDeere
12-28-2014, 11:22 PM
Having some time off from certain things in life.

cinnamongrrl
12-29-2014, 06:48 AM
Finding a lil radio station in Western NC that first played Celtic music, then bluegrass....

Good music makes a lovely drive all the gooder :)

Smiling
12-29-2014, 08:50 AM
Awakening naturally after 7 hours of the soundest sleep I've had literally in years and feeling completely refreshed and ready to get out of bed and get moving.

I attribute most of it to my head facing north as I slept in accordance with good Feng Shui principles. Also, my room is totally white as are all my bed linens. There is nothing else in the room save a ceiling fan. It was like sleeping suspended in a cloud.

The dark rings under my eyes are almost completely gone.

This is not normal for me at all. But I like it.

Gráinne
01-08-2015, 08:37 PM
The craziest coincidence ever. Thanks to Facebook, I found a childhood friend I went to camp with 40 years ago. She went to college with a high school friend of mine but neither of us knew that. And further coincidence, we're in the same field.

Logicaly
01-08-2015, 08:40 PM
Finding out breakfast was cooked for me while I got ready for work and now dinner being cooked when I get home!

SleepyButch
01-08-2015, 08:48 PM
My goofy dog brings me joy every damn day. The way he plays with his toys, the looks he gives me, and the way he is such a baby even though he is over two years of age. I find myself smiling a lot more when I spend time with him. His brother makes me smile too but not in the same way that my little guy does. Sigh...

Bard
01-08-2015, 08:52 PM
Our Pup Phoebe and Kitty Piper cuddling at my feet I know it was the heating pad they both really wanted but it was wicked cute

CherryWine
01-08-2015, 09:12 PM
I've been out of town for business this week and have been pretty stressed out. It has just been a tough week in general. Tonight the CEO took us all out for dinner and bowling. He plays every week in a league, so he is pretty good at it. Well, he beat me by two damn points! I have not bowled in over 5 years, so I was pretty surprised at myself as was everyone else...lol. I may just have to take up bowling as a new hobby. :D Anyway, it relieved some stress, and I actually had fun with my coworkers and some new colleagues. What's really going to bring me joy, though, is when the plane lands back home tomorrow.

bright_arrow
01-09-2015, 04:52 AM
Dress shopping! Some lucky girl got four dresses and already has plans for where to wear two of them :-)

Daniela
01-09-2015, 06:33 AM
Waking up to this

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I should add, I'm still awestruck every time it snows...since I'm from GA!

A. Spectre
01-09-2015, 07:34 AM
heavenly creatures, the manatee

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cinnamongrrl
01-09-2015, 09:25 AM
Yesterday:

I had had a pretty hard day at work...my water bottle was frozen and I was dying of thirst....I stopped at McDs to get a sweet tea...and the lady was sooo nice and called me sweetheart...and I nearly cried...lol Instead, I thanked her for being so nice, and told her not everyone had been today. She said, "well let me know who it was...I will go kick their butts!! I can you know..." that gave me a good giggle :)

Today:

My boss left me a nice message thanking me for my help. She hurt her wrist and couldn't do a job alone. She also said how great my work is and how happy she is to have me working for her. She said she feels like she won the lottery :)

Also Today:

I finally got my student ID number from the local college so I can see about taking the class I need (fingers crossed that there's an opening...hopefully not everyone feels a pressing need to take anatomy...)

Logicaly
01-09-2015, 07:21 PM
Having my entire team in office laughing and having a good time and now knowing I am going home soon to take my girl on a date!

goodlilfemme
01-09-2015, 07:50 PM
what brought me joy today , i held a new baby in my arms at work today cus the mom is one of my regular customers and its her third baby. she knows i have 10 nieces and nephews babies are so stinkin cute just cant get enough.

imperfect_cupcake
01-09-2015, 09:00 PM
I went back to read old threads started in 2010 and read some absolutely fascinating and wonderful debates with excellent topics.
I miss those kinds of threads.

MsTinkerbelly
01-10-2015, 01:33 PM
I went back to read old threads started in 2010 and read some absolutely fascinating and wonderful debates with excellent topics.
I miss those kinds of threads.

I miss them too!

Reasons why there are not critical thinking threads:

1. We (generally) are getting older, and don't have the time, or aren't able to put our thoughts into coherent sentences (ok this one is me)

2. The people who enjoyed a lively debate have moved on, or have been banned.

3. People feel safer posting nonsense (ok me again)

4. Ex drama has forced some to move on or post pap for fear of censure.

5. Threads are derailed by a few who cannot keep to topic.

Or God help us, the threads like "white privilege", where much time is wasted while white people repeat over and over that they are not privileged because they have xyz blood twice removed, or they know 45 people of color etc...

Anyway, if you start something worth talking about, i will try to keep up!

Prudence
01-10-2015, 01:44 PM
Bought a kerosene heater. I was without electric for 3 days last season. My area have very large pines and they have a very shallow root system. Needless to say they took out a bunch of power lines. best thing about my neighbors they all came to the rescue with chain saws. Problem was pines where down miles before you could get to us. The electric company has been here and marked several trees to take down.. havent seen them as yet tho.

Gráinne
01-10-2015, 02:29 PM
I miss them too!

Reasons why there are not critical thinking threads:

1. We (generally) are getting older, and don't have the time, or aren't able to put our thoughts into coherent sentences (ok this one is me)

2. The people who enjoyed a lively debate have moved on, or have been banned.

3. People feel safer posting nonsense (ok me again)

4. Ex drama has forced some to move on or post pap for fear of censure.

5. Threads are derailed by a few who cannot keep to topic.

Or God help us, the threads like "white privilege", where much time is wasted while white people repeat over and over that they are not privileged because they have xyz blood twice removed, or they know 45 people of color etc...

Anyway, if you start something worth talking about, i will try to keep up!

I think it's partly all of these, plus (for me), my BFP time is "fun" time. I don't really want to get into heavy stuff but just want to wind down. I read but rarely contribute to the "heavy" topics.

Perhaps it's also a lack of knowledge or experience in whatever topic is being discussed.

Related to #1, I have noticed that occasionally there are "correct" opinions and beliefs here, and if someone differs, I have seen a verbal smackdown. That in itself might be a topic, however problematic. I just don't have the verbal skills to articulately hold my ground opinion-wise. So, people like me give way to the far more skilled debaters, who then either move on or get in trouble. A few still come around now and then.

bright_arrow
01-10-2015, 03:27 PM
Meeting new friends
Going to the Haight in San Fran
Painting my nails to match my dress for the company Christmas party

Looking forward to finding a bubble tea in the city!

Mel C.
01-10-2015, 05:08 PM
One or more of my dear friends joining the Planet!

Lunch and errands with mom and dad (I'm fond of them)

imperfect_cupcake
01-11-2015, 12:21 AM
Ok, for me, it's not about trying to be right, it about articulating what I think and *why* I think what I do. The defence of "I'm entitled of my opinion" .... Well of course you are. I'm also allowed to question the reasons and logic behind the opinion. And if someone doesn't have very good reason or logic, then it's not a sound opinion. Just like someone saying "you are triggering me" when what they actually mean is "I'm offended" I will challange. I'll challange an opinion I don't agree with and I will expect some form of logical explanation that has validity to it. If it doesn't, I'll point it out.
If it does, I might learn something new. That's rather the point, for me. If I have a logical fallacy in my argument because of something I hadn't considered, I hope someone will point it out. That may cause me to look at things differently.

Granted, there are things I will no longer debate, like sex workers rights, but I was reading old threads where I thought "huh, oh yeah, I ihad forgotten that point. It's actually something quite valid... "

But if the people who are posting in this community no longer enjoy that kind of thing, even if it takes them against certain opinions, then I can understand. I loathe drive by posts where someone just dumps an opinion without reading the arguments of the thread and thus a dogpile of "no it isn't!" Occurs. It can feel like one is buried like that. I figure of three people have already expressed my opinion and argument and there is nothing new I can add, then there isn't a point for my post. So I get the "I hate being dog piled on" assertion.

There was a polite agreement at one forum about that .... Can't recall which one.

Anyway, that was the whoe point of me going to forums, to stretch my learning. I have local friends for fun fluffy conversations. So I miss it sometimes. I cut my teeth on queer theory here, and although the older discussions I couldn't really be arsed with anymore, I do miss having new ones. Or people posting about dilemmas.

I've got people to talk abut sandwich fillings with, which is actually a very valuable thing. And I know not everyone has that. Nor is interested in learning by discussion and debate. I'm not as adept as I used to be, brain rot and all, but I still like some brain yoga.

Thanks Grianne and Ms tinkerbelly. Thee feedback is actually food for thought.

Logicaly
01-12-2015, 01:24 AM
Walking down the street in China Town, her hand in mine and our mouths full of a delicious coconut bun! The sounds of the city around us and knowing that this is life and we are living it.

JDeere
01-13-2015, 01:40 PM
Being able to come home from class and get loves from the dog kid.

And being able to lay in bed on a rainy day.

Bard
01-13-2015, 09:03 PM
A coworker who had Tylenol :seeingstars: I have a hella headache and only had Motrin that right now I am not allowed to take with the blood thinners I am on.. finding a pack of only somewhat mangled peanut butter crackers in my duty bag I am so not prepared tonight.. :police::cigar2:

Firedance
01-18-2015, 06:17 PM
The quiet certainty of knowing I am Loved...
...And a REALLY big burrito!
:hangloose:

Bčsame*
02-20-2015, 12:54 AM
a new store is calling my name

kittygrrl
02-20-2015, 01:02 AM
Coconut Cake, by the bay

JustLovelyJenn
02-20-2015, 10:41 AM
Its camping day!!!!

LeftWriteFemme
02-20-2015, 01:01 PM
qaWoFcgd-kg

Bard
02-20-2015, 03:37 PM
Making plans to go up north for some good wine and great people :rrose:

JustLovelyJenn
02-22-2015, 07:00 PM
My beautifully helpful son!

GeorgiaMa'am
02-25-2015, 03:41 PM
A cup of warm cocoa and a warm doggie on my feet, while I watch the sleet outside.

cinnamongrrl
02-25-2015, 04:13 PM
Waking up to a pretty, pinkie sunrise :)

kittygrrl
02-25-2015, 05:45 PM
fog
chocolate cookies

Kenna
03-17-2015, 09:06 PM
Thinking today, how many good, positive things have happened for me so far this year.
Patience is being rewarded.
Hopefully more good news to come soon.

candy_coated_bitch
03-17-2015, 11:15 PM
Sketching in my journal.

WildHorses
03-17-2015, 11:42 PM
qaWoFcgd-kg


I really appreciate you sharing this.

femmeandstrong
03-17-2015, 11:48 PM
.... reading with a good friend...

:fastdraq:

Blade
03-18-2015, 04:53 PM
IT"s A GIRL

starryeyes
03-18-2015, 05:52 PM
Checking into my flight. 20 more hours to my birthday vacay <3

Miss Scarlett
03-20-2015, 07:58 AM
My husband, who has been sick with pneumonia for over a week, actually got some sleep last night and is feeling a little better this morning. We see his PCP this morning and hope she has good news for us.

Kenna
03-25-2015, 08:05 AM
Being comfortable... being peaceful...being at peace with decisions I've made...being confident...and after doing my morning chores and tending to all the critters, enjoying my little, quiet Haven.

anotherbutch
03-25-2015, 11:59 AM
Getting another persons perspective about a personal issue can be very uplifting.. :pirate-steer:

C0LLETTE
03-25-2015, 04:53 PM
Joy: when my lawyer said "Don't worry about this anymore. Let me handle it."

JustLovelyJenn
03-25-2015, 08:47 PM
My children, always.

Rockinonahigh
03-25-2015, 09:13 PM
Having my A1c test come in with normal results...priceless.

Gemme
03-26-2015, 05:30 AM
This (http://www.aol.com/article/2015/03/25/dj-collaborates-with-dominos-delivery-guy/21157627/?icid=maing-grid7%7Cmain5%7Cdl21%7Csec1_lnk2%26pLid%3D633470) actually made me laugh this morning. These guys are so fun!

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Kenna
03-26-2015, 01:44 PM
This entire day has given me joy and a peaceful feeling of deep content and happiness.
I am in my element!! In my "zen" garden of favorite surroundings!!

Wish I could share pictures of just how beautiful my day has been...

NC sure does have some gorgeous places to relax, enjoy nature and meet great people.

And I'm so proud of myself for parking the camper in JUST THE RIGHT SPOT on my first try!!

Gráinne
03-26-2015, 11:42 PM
Believe it or not, it's the mess of stuff and furniture in the middle of my daughter's room. She's getting ready to paint it this weekend, and I'm reminded that I own my house. Mine, mine, mine, mine, mine!

Kenna
03-27-2015, 02:10 PM
So happy I could dance and play in the rain!!!
My two beautiful, witty, bright, feisty, wildly smart nieces made my day!! Over the last five years, they've blossomed into such amazing young women. I am beyond proud! My youngest niece is visiting a Florida college this week (much warmer state than where they're from)...I'm so happy for her that she's willing and ready to "break out of the box" of the little "ghost town" of our hometown that doesn't offer room for growth. It feels so damn good to reconnect with them again!!
I am truly blessed!

Kenna
03-28-2015, 10:33 PM
Seeing and hearing two of my dearest friends happy and proud of themselves. Although for different reasons, it was extremely rewarding to share in their happiness.

CherryWine
03-28-2015, 11:51 PM
A parade and JSU's Sonic Boom. They never disappoint. :)

kittygrrl
03-29-2015, 02:43 AM
a kind heart

JustLovelyJenn
03-29-2015, 01:33 PM
Cuddling on my own bed with my own pillows... I missed them, even for just one night.

MysticOceansFL
03-29-2015, 02:11 PM
An understanding kind hearted soul.

Peeper
03-29-2015, 02:32 PM
The scent of our grass after the first spring cutting.

Virago
03-29-2015, 03:14 PM
Life in general :)
But today, especially that my God daughter and her new husband are coming to visit

clay
03-29-2015, 04:07 PM
having our wonderful weekends......she is such a kind, gentle soul.....I am blessed!

GraffitiBoi
03-29-2015, 04:18 PM
Finding a guy who is parting out his old Mercedes and is willing to sell me all the remaining parts I need to restore mine for only $130!!!!

cinnamongrrl
03-29-2015, 04:47 PM
Being in my element...

Seeing Jacques happy and hiking...then sleepy on the ride home :)

The views...endless rolling blue tinged mountains..

Hearing only the sound of my footsteps for a long while..

Teddybear
03-29-2015, 05:02 PM
Spending the day with Ms Cricket. Celebrating the one yr anniversary of my moving to Texas. What a great yearWhat.

Violette
03-29-2015, 09:43 PM
Getting to hold my kid today.

Getting supportive texts from my friends.

Eating a really tasty egg sandwich.

candy_coated_bitch
03-29-2015, 11:39 PM
A cozy, relaxing Sunday together.

Kenna
04-03-2015, 08:55 PM
The full moon on a quiet night over the lake...

Getting to spend the day with family and close friends.

Finding a FANTASTIC little, classy Tavern in a cute little town that's certainly worth visiting again.

Hearing Mawmaw in good spirits, out enjoying her day for the first time in weeks after surgery.

A trip out on open water right at sunset...

Finding out that my son did find time to call his gramma while she was in the hospital.

Laughter and HEALING, HEALTHY, PEACEFUL Energy and Communication between the best of friends.

It doesn't get any better than this.

Blaze
04-03-2015, 09:13 PM
Living life to it fullest...
Sharing a beautiful moon.
Sharing dreams that coincide.

Feeling Free. ..
Being able to be real, relaxed, united.

Taking in the excitement of the little things, that mean so much.

Sharing the laughter, the heartaches, the everyday mess, that we unclutter together. making us stronger...

You are my Joy, my life, my Love. ...

CherryWine
04-03-2015, 09:31 PM
We sat on the patio and watched a thunderstorm roll in. It was quite an impressive light show with lots of loud rumbles of thunder in the distance.

The little things.

Bevidotcom
04-04-2015, 02:08 PM
watching last autumns leftover leaves, all dry and crispy crumbly, skittering across the road in the wind. It was a happycrazy leave dance!

Smiling
04-04-2015, 02:24 PM
Losing my head and a bustling beehive.
Spicy tea.

Tierney
04-04-2015, 02:59 PM
Taking my Mom to lunch and just talking. Sharing memories.

Amulette
04-04-2015, 04:00 PM
A stranger saying "I love you" for no reason at all......

WolfyOne
04-04-2015, 04:39 PM
Letting my friend's little dog take me for a walk on a windy day through the neighborhood.