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firie
06-17-2010, 04:04 PM
I like riding the bus. Reminds me of NYC, which is where I wish I was right now.

JustLovelyJenn
06-17-2010, 07:18 PM
There is just one thing i CANT get off my mind right now....

DADDY IS PACKIN'

:drool: :bowdown: :drool: :waitinggirl: :drool:

Jet
06-17-2010, 07:27 PM
My grandmother. I'd rather be with her than be here in this life.

http://i489.photobucket.com/albums/rr257/lionoflionsman/Grandma-for-print-b_w.jpg

My pencil drawing of her.

Enchantress
06-17-2010, 08:06 PM
At this moment...

News that my Aunts cancer was not removed by the mastectomy after all. It has made its way into her lymphatic system.

fiercegrrl
06-17-2010, 08:11 PM
there are reason i watch fluffy tv all the time. 5 minutes of the news and i wanted to throw bricks through the TV.

Gemme
06-17-2010, 08:51 PM
Some simple yet profound words keep swirling about my head, dipping in and out of my subconsciousness and they feel right and I like that.

Sweet Bliss
06-18-2010, 01:42 AM
Just curious,

What does it mean if someone says they will call you on Thursday, and on Thursday email you they are going to the races with friends after work, but when you check the race schedule you discover that the last race ended an hour before they email you.

What does it mean when the same someone tells you that their work schedule changed and they are now working 11am to 7pm, but the pre mentioned email you just received shows they got off work at 4 something, went to the races that are already done, and couldn't possible be there with their friends?

Just curious, does this mean i'm being LIED TO AGAIN?

Note to "he who is lying": Your "get out of the dog house" card has already been used....you only get one.

~Bo
06-18-2010, 03:10 AM
Some simple yet profound words keep swirling about my head, dipping in and out of my subconsciousness and they feel right and I like that.





Are they........."Bo is great"? :cheesy:

Delish
06-18-2010, 03:21 AM
Are they........."Bo is great"? :cheesy:

LOVES that you are soooooooo modest lmao

Kenna
06-18-2010, 04:10 AM
Someone I care about really not feeling well today. I hate it when I can't make them feel better or take their aches and pains away. Thankful it's their Friday.

Gemme
06-18-2010, 07:22 PM
Are they........."Bo is great"? :cheesy:

Ummm, no. But thank you for playing! :cheesy:

JakeTulane
06-18-2010, 10:57 PM
How one evening can change your thought process.

Venus007
06-18-2010, 11:14 PM
I am really tired of having to hide at my job. I wish I could just be who I am, as I am instead of going through subterfuge. I wish my work culture was different and I REALLY wish the stakes were not so high. It won't be long now before I can go somewhere else so that even if I can't fly my freak flag high, I don't have to deny it's existence. Ugh

AtLast
06-18-2010, 11:25 PM
Someone I care about really not feeling well today. I hate it when I can't make them feel better or take their aches and pains away. Thankful it's their Friday.


I know, this is hard. A friend of mine is dealing with moving with arthritis and a knee that is giving her such grief. It hurts me when people I care about are having a rough time.

You are a good friend!

AtLast
06-18-2010, 11:26 PM
Are they........."Bo is great"? :cheesy:

Ah, what the hell.. Bo IS great!!!

SuperFemme
06-18-2010, 11:36 PM
today the hospital blocked this website for being vulgar.

inbetween morphine shots i may or may not have made the IT people suicidal. assholes.

see me? it worked. i'm posting.

AtLast
06-18-2010, 11:50 PM
I believe in forever, I've known it. Yet, we can't stop the flight of spirits that take it from us. We simply have to live knowing our every mortal moment is a gift we must nurture and give our heart permission to feel again. We can do this. We must do this to continue to be human.

I tire of laments of lost loves or being hurt. No one is immune from this. Nor from having your lover die. Grieve and heal, then open your senses again because there is something grand yet to be experienced. You (I) will regret not taking this chance.

amiyesiam
06-19-2010, 12:47 AM
today the hospital blocked this website for being vulgar.

inbetween morphine shots i may or may not have made the IT people suicidal. assholes.

see me? it worked. i'm posting.

good for you!

Softly
06-19-2010, 12:52 AM
-K is awesome. we have so much in common yay :D
-R is so adorable and I am glad she already feels comfortable with me.
-Tomorrow is going to be super busy w/Daddy, we have a bridal shower to go to THEN a birthday party :/ so exhausting.
-More D, please.

Nat
06-19-2010, 01:59 AM
It seems lately I go through my days aching for sleep and then I get in bed and have zero desire or inclination to sleep at all. I seem just so wrapped up in anxiety and worry, and it seems somehow that I am half happy and half miserable most of the time. I wish I could take a tour of the minds and feelings of other people. I've lived so many years in various simultaneous moods. Heavy, dark, brooding - then light, peaceful, flexible, playful.

Sometimes I am so sure that I've always been myself, that I have a very solid sense of self - then, at times, it's hard to know what a self is at all. Things seem so so so defined at times, and then the lines all blur and all the paint runs together and there is nothing solid at all in this world. Sometimes my skin seems so real and so mine - then sometimes I look down at my arm and imagine it could just as easily belong to another person entirely. Sometimes, when I've been overdosing on meditation, this body of mine seems like clothing I've outgrown, and this whole world seems so far from where I am.

I have a friend who almost died once in the hospital. She says she encountered God that day. She says she knows she is supposed to live because he sent her back, but she yearns to return to Him.

I cannot say I've experienced similar, but there have been days this year where life has seemed like such a distant and unreal thing - where it seemed like light and connectedness was the real reality, the overwhelming reality.

My beautiful gf will be done soon with her summer class, and we are planning to spend our time indulging in whatever enjoyments we can squeeze in before it's time for her to return to school. I am going to be meeting her parents soon. :) She really is the most awesome person. She's just beautiful through and through. Her computer-programmer mind and her bee-stung lips and her knack for understanding inexplicable people and her melancholy eyes, her long legs, her freckles, the peace she carries with her, her military bearing, her sweet oval face and her proud forehead, her tomboy grace, her swan neck, her quiet and funny observations, her strange and charming drawl, her ethics. Well, and then there's a light shining from her somehow. She seems just made of moonlight and fire. I never could have imagined her before I met her, and when I met her, I was not looking for a new relationship, but she poured all that light and fire into me and it was such a balm to my troubled, troubled soul.

Last September, a friend told me what her father had told her about relationships. He said, "You know it's the right relationship when the two of you are better together than either of you are apart - when the sum adds up to more than the two of you alone." Having just come out of the opposite type of relationship - where no matter how much love there was between us, the relationship made us both less than we were individually - this little piece of advice was so timely. Hearing it gave me the chance to say to myself, "I want that."

And that's what I want still.

Miss Scarlett
06-19-2010, 06:28 AM
The documentary "For the Bible Tells Me So" has just started on the Sundance Channel. We hosted this film as part of Pride Charlotte in the past but I was never able to attend the showings.

This morning I've decided to sit down and watch it.

sylvie
06-19-2010, 07:30 AM
that my baby niece is theeeeee most adorable sweet lil girl ever...
my stepsister arrived yesterday and i very rarely get to spend time with my niece because they live in another province..

she was 1 yr old in May, and she's grown sooo sooo much!!
and she's so smart like her Auntie syl !
:jester:

~Bo
06-19-2010, 08:17 AM
Ah, what the hell.. Bo IS great!!!





Yayyyyyy!!! At least I got ONE buddy. :cheer:



We are buddies, right????? :worried:

JakeTulane
06-19-2010, 08:57 AM
Ever present wonderment.

Sam
06-19-2010, 09:51 AM
my conversation last night, listening to her talk to me
i felt every ounce of compassion

Equal

Wryly
06-19-2010, 10:38 AM
It might not seem so but I am trying. Too much? Too little?
I am not good at this stuff.

Scota_Parisi
06-19-2010, 10:49 AM
Five years ago this month, I began the process of "coming out" by telling my husband (of 12 years). He then helped me by angrily outing me to our families and a few of our friends. His gay brother tried to tell me that I was coming out "too late" for women that come out in their later years. My very lesbian (and quite lesbian chic) therapist told "I don't think you are gay." She of course was no different than the women I met when I was younger in the military. Apparently being pretty wasn't gay enough for them. Wanting to wear my heels, my makeup and my hair stylish - wasn't militant lesbian enough.

Then there was "The Butch" who really was just one of those militant lesbians styling herself as butch. She said she wanted to help me understand what a real lesbian is, all the while purporting to tell me what a "Femme's" role was. She, in all honestly, was a lazy woman who wanted someone to clean and pick up after her all the time while hiding behind the Butch Femme status.

Thinking a lot lately about the road that led me to this point.. to here. Have had a lot of Butch / Femme friends come and go over the past few years. Met some wonderful BF couples, that have shown me the amazing possibilities out there.

Dated one woman who will never come out. Not that you couldn't tell by looking at her, but she just won't. Fear of family and her church - she came out to me. We've been close friends practically our entire life. It turned out, that I was safe for her. Safe can leave a person very lonely. And lonely hurts in a whole variety of ways. Safe can also lead you to dark areas, you never thought you'd tread. I don't require that my partner be screaming in the streets, but it was hard when my Dad died and she was there in a "just friends" capacity. Likewise when hers passed away. How could one mourn, worried that someone "might see"?

Yep, I've met a couple of you who in the end, broke my heart. But truthfully, as painful as it was, that had never happened before. The closest thing I could ever relate to it up until I came out, was anything involving my children. And for the joy of feeling love, I will hang on to the roller coaster with all my strength.

To know and feel love and feel that love being returned.. FINALLY... feel it. Yeah, it hurts like hell sometimes - but.. life's funny - and .. I have come out of all of these things ... better for them.

The best is yet to come. I tuck my memories in a special place in my heart.

They make me who I am today, a kick ass, beautiful femme !!!

{/scota tangent off}



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Andrew, Jr.
06-19-2010, 12:13 PM
What is on my mind is how come people lie to cover their true self. I guess that they haven't grown up yet. I just don't know.

Soon
06-19-2010, 01:01 PM
a swim and a soak in the jacuzzi with trashy mags

WolfyOne
06-19-2010, 09:41 PM
Well, day 2 of giving the cats their new medicine and I only got a little scratch on my forehead from one of them. I washed and got the peroxide right away. Good thing I'm still taking antibiotics. Only 8 more days of chasing 13 cats all over the house to give them pills. Dang, I'm tired already. It takes 2 of us to get the pills down them and they aren't any happier about it than we are. I certainly hope when it's all over that we don't have to go through it again. I want Shadow and Mama Kitty better and whichever one is the carrier. I'm just sorry we have to medicate all of them because of it. Poor Webster peed himself, he was so scared when I grabbed him. He's the kitty that doesn't like to be touched by people. He's been that way from the time we trapped him as a baby with his brothers. So, between the cats and mowing this weekend, I'm certainly getting a workout. My poor aching back and another reason to pop another kind of pill into my mouth.

Gemme
06-19-2010, 10:43 PM
I should be in bed now but I'm totally wired. I need to find a way to bottle this energy so I can pull it out tomorrow, when I fall into my late morning slump.

Blaze
06-19-2010, 10:51 PM
http://www.johnmanningarchive.org/show-image/794194/John-Manning-Archive/Red-Hat-Man-Woman.jpg

Being Butch is hard...

fiercegrrl
06-20-2010, 08:57 AM
I'm gonna pretend I'm feeling ok for a couple if hours then I'm probably gonna take myself to the ER. I haven't kept and food water or water or meds down since Thursday. and since I can't get this nausea under control it's time to get someone else to give it a go.

*Magic_and_Silk*
06-20-2010, 10:44 AM
I'm gonna pretend I'm feeling ok for a couple if hours then I'm probably gonna take myself to the ER. I haven't kept and food water or water or meds down since Thursday. and since I can't get this nausea under control it's time to get someone else to give it a go.

I hope you will be okay soon!

That is too long to go without water. I wouldn't wait.

Soon
06-20-2010, 11:41 AM
The 2010 GOP platform in Texas supports laws that criminalize sodomy and suggests that straight people who support same-sex marriage should be penalized with jail time.The GOP platform was quoted as openly stating:

“We oppose the legalization of sodomy. We demand that Congress exercise its authority granted by the U.S. constitution to withhold jurisdiction from the federal courts from cases involving sodomy,” the GOP platform reads. Meaning that even though the U.S. Supreme Court overturned sodomy laws last decade (ironically in a case that stemmed from Texas), Texas Republicans would like the state to have the power to criminalize LGBT folks for having sex.

“We support legislation that would make it a felony to issue a marriage license to a same-sex couple and for any civil official to perform a marriage ceremony for such,” reads the GOP platform.

If a straight person were to aid and abet a gay couple with marriage in Texas, th GOP would like to see that person serve mandatory jail time.

“We believe that the practice of homosexuality tears at the fabric of society, contributes to the breakdown of the family unit, and leads to the spread of dangerous, communicable diseases,” the platform reads.

http://gltnewsnow.com/2010/06/19/texas-gop-wishes-to-punish-straight-people-who-support-gay-rights/

http://www.1888932-2946.ws/TexasGOP/E-ContentStrategy/userfiles/2010_RPT_PLATFORM.pdf

bigbutchmistie
06-20-2010, 12:06 PM
We live an hour away from each other and yesterday "J" worked a twelve hour day, went home made sure kids were ok, and took them to their dads, and drove over here to spend time with me... I cooked her spaghettie, texas garlic toast, and brownie since she loves chocolate.. Made a her a bubble bath, and let her relax.. She passed out dead asleep for 12 hours. :) Then when she woke up she looked at me with those beautiful eyes and smiled that beautiful smile, and I melted all over again...

On my mind is that and how funny it is that once I revamped my list, someone who I thought I would never date completely takes my breath away.... :)

Corkey
06-20-2010, 01:16 PM
The 2010 GOP platform in Texas supports laws that criminalize sodomy and suggests that straight people who support same-sex marriage should be penalized with jail time.The GOP platform was quoted as openly stating:

“We oppose the legalization of sodomy. We demand that Congress exercise its authority granted by the U.S. constitution to withhold jurisdiction from the federal courts from cases involving sodomy,” the GOP platform reads. Meaning that even though the U.S. Supreme Court overturned sodomy laws last decade (ironically in a case that stemmed from Texas), Texas Republicans would like the state to have the power to criminalize LGBT folks for having sex.

“We support legislation that would make it a felony to issue a marriage license to a same-sex couple and for any civil official to perform a marriage ceremony for such,” reads the GOP platform.

If a straight person were to aid and abet a gay couple with marriage in Texas, th GOP would like to see that person serve mandatory jail time.

“We believe that the practice of homosexuality tears at the fabric of society, contributes to the breakdown of the family unit, and leads to the spread of dangerous, communicable diseases,” the platform reads.

http://gltnewsnow.com/2010/06/19/texas-gop-wishes-to-punish-straight-people-who-support-gay-rights/

http://www.1888932-2946.ws/TexasGOP/E-ContentStrategy/userfiles/2010_RPT_PLATFORM.pdf


I will never set foot in that god awful state again in my life.

UofMfan
06-20-2010, 01:35 PM
The 2010 GOP platform in Texas supports laws that criminalize sodomy and suggests that straight people who support same-sex marriage should be penalized with jail time.The GOP platform was quoted as openly stating:

“We oppose the legalization of sodomy. We demand that Congress exercise its authority granted by the U.S. constitution to withhold jurisdiction from the federal courts from cases involving sodomy,” the GOP platform reads. Meaning that even though the U.S. Supreme Court overturned sodomy laws last decade (ironically in a case that stemmed from Texas), Texas Republicans would like the state to have the power to criminalize LGBT folks for having sex.

“We support legislation that would make it a felony to issue a marriage license to a same-sex couple and for any civil official to perform a marriage ceremony for such,” reads the GOP platform.

If a straight person were to aid and abet a gay couple with marriage in Texas, th GOP would like to see that person serve mandatory jail time.

“We believe that the practice of homosexuality tears at the fabric of society, contributes to the breakdown of the family unit, and leads to the spread of dangerous, communicable diseases,” the platform reads.

http://gltnewsnow.com/2010/06/19/texas-gop-wishes-to-punish-straight-people-who-support-gay-rights/

http://www.1888932-2946.ws/TexasGOP/E-ContentStrategy/userfiles/2010_RPT_PLATFORM.pdf


I am so glad you posted this HSIN. It is a perfect example of what I tell people who tell me that they vote for the candidate not the party.

We have to remember that each party has a platform and no matter how much we may like a certain candidate, it all boils down to the party's platform and ideology.

Andrew, Jr.
06-20-2010, 04:52 PM
Why don't drivers pull over for ambulances, fire trucks, and police cars?

Why don't drivers pull over and let those in funeral processions stay together?

Rockinonahigh
06-20-2010, 05:29 PM
Being u are giveing the cats meds have u tryed geting a syringe and crushing the pills and mixing them in some cream or milk.Then just slide the syrings in the corner of the mouth and squirting the meds in.do make shure u crush the pills real good and the hole at then end of the syringe is big enough for the meds to get through.Or mix it with some food they like and see if they will eat it.This works for me when I need to give my fur kids meds they dont want.Good luck buddy.

Wryly
06-20-2010, 05:44 PM
she sent a PM!

*sigh* :seeingstars:
I am so easy.
:byebye:

Dylan
06-20-2010, 06:20 PM
argggghhhhhhhhh, so much left to do, and it's already 7:30...arghhhhhh


Dylan

JakeTulane
06-20-2010, 06:59 PM
The last phone call that I received. Painting. and Books.

AtLast
06-20-2010, 07:27 PM
She's quite lovely...

:seeingstars: :byebye:

Gemme
06-21-2010, 01:06 AM
Arts 'n crafts!

Shadowboi2010
06-21-2010, 01:10 AM
How to get back where I was before.

Andrew, Jr.
06-21-2010, 10:05 AM
~Violence (w)

If he/she hits you once, you can be sure he/she will hit you again. You can count on that. - Me

Gemme
06-21-2010, 11:20 AM
Hidden meanings of things.

Passionaria
06-22-2010, 03:36 PM
https://mail.google.com/mail/?ui=2&ik=614a6d2942&view=att&th=12941e6f2d924f3c&attid=0.1.1&disp=emb&zw
The year is 1910
One hundred years ago.
What a difference a century makes!
Here are some statistics for the Year 1910:
************ ********* ************
The average life expectancy for men was 47 years.
Fuel for this car was sold in drug stores only.
Only 14 percent of the homes had a bathtub.
Only 8 percent of the homes had a telephone.
There were only 8,000 cars and only 144 miles of paved roads.
The maximum speed limit in most cities was 10 mph.
The tallest structure in the world was the Eiffel Tower !
The average US wage in 1910 was 22 cents per hour.
The average US worker made between $200 and $400 per year ...
A competent accountant could expect to earn $2000 per year,
A dentist $2,500 per year, a veterinarian between $1,500 and $4,000 per year, and a mechanical engineer about $5,000 per year.
More than 95 percent of all births took place at HOME .
Ninety percent of all Doctors had NO COLLEGE EDUCATION!
Instead, they attended so-called medical schools, many of which
Were condemned in the press AND the government as 'substandard.'
Sugar cost four cents a pound.
Eggs were fourteen cents a dozen.
Coffee was fifteen cents a pound.
Most women only washed their hair once a month, and used Borax or egg yolks for shampoo.
Canada passed a law that prohibited poor people from entering into their country for any reason.
The Five leading causes of death were:
1. Pneumonia and influenza
2. Tuberculosis
3. Diarrhea
4. Heart disease
5. Stroke
The American flag had 45 stars ....
The population of Las Vegas , Nevada , was only 30!!!!
Crossword puzzles, canned beer, and iced tea hadn't been invented yet.
There was no Mother's Day or Father's Day.
Two out of every 10 adults couldn't read or write and
Only 6 percent of all Americans had graduated from high school..
Marijuana, heroin, and morphine were all available over the counter at the local corner drugstores.
Back then pharmacists said, 'Heroin clears the complexion, gives buoyancy to the mind,
Regulates the stomach and bowels, and is, in fact, a perfect guardian of health'
( Shocking? DUH! )
Eighteen percent of households had at least one full-time servant or domestic help ....
There were about 230 reported murders in the ENTIRE U.S.A. !

Dylan
06-22-2010, 04:09 PM
I keep forgetting that I'm wearing Mahhh Woman's GIANT bright pink sunglasses, and I keep wondering why people are looking at me strangely


Question Gender,
Dylan

Jet
06-22-2010, 04:16 PM
I was sitting here thinking about a 72-page book I designed and I remembered it was 4/c over 2/c because of budget constraints. Then I came to realize what a battle it was to design around budget constantly, and the unending pressure of workloads and a demanding marketing departments.

I put up with that? And to think I'm going after in-house corporate again! Sheesh....
I may rethink this...

Zimmeh
06-22-2010, 07:53 PM
This upgrade for my iPhone software should have been giving a warning label on Apple's site. It is going to take nearly two hours for this software to be updated.

SuperFemme
06-22-2010, 08:54 PM
Have you ever watched kids
On a merry-go-round?
Or listened to the rain
Slapping on the ground?
Ever followed a butterfly's erratic flight?
Or gazed at the sun into the fading night?
You better slow down.
Don't dance so fast.
Time is short.
The music won't last.

Do you run through each day
On the fly?
When you ask "How are you?"
Do you hear the reply?
When the day is done
Do you lie in your bed
With the next hundred chores
Running through your head?
You'd better slow down
Don't dance so fast.
Time is short.
The music won't last.

Ever told your child,
We'll do it tomorrow?
And in your haste,
Not see his sorrow?
Ever lost touch,
Let a good friendship die
Cause you never had time
To call and say "Hi"?
You'd better slow down.
Don't dance so fast.
Time is short.
The music won't last.

When you run so fast to get somewhere
You miss half the fun of getting there.
When you worry and hurry through your day,
It is like an unopened gift....
Thrown away.
Life is not a race.
Do take it slower
Hear the music
Before the song is over.

~ anonymous ~

Gemme
06-23-2010, 01:18 AM
Gram was right; I'm one helluva pistol and I pack a nasty punch. :weightlifter:

~Bo
06-23-2010, 02:30 AM
Gram was right; I'm one helluva pistol and I pack a nasty punch. :weightlifter:






:hiding: ..........

Miss Scarlett
06-23-2010, 04:38 AM
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My hair - went for a cut & style yesterday. Had 5:15 pm appointment. Arrived at 5:20 - they know I walk over from my office and told me that if I ran 5 min late it would not be a problem. Upon arrival I was asked if perhaps 5:30 would be a better time for me. I told them that 5:15 was fine and that I had been delayed at work. My stylist informed me that my appointment was for 5 - told her since I got off work at 5 I would never schedule for that time. (I have their appointment card on my desk - been looking at it for 6 weeks and it clearly says 5:15) When she cut my hair she was obviously in a hurry. (As she started a friend of hers arrived and had to wait for her to finish, then they raced out the door.) Did not give me the style I asked for. Barely trimmed my hair, used no styling product except for some over-priced version of FrizzEase (not even hairspray!), blew out my hair and left. When I asked her to trim more off the top of my hair she got snippy (no pun) about it, snatching up her scissors and clipping away making sure to get as much hair as possible in my face. She also argued with me about the trim telling me that it as longer because she blew the curl out. I paid $40 plus a tip for this and she definitely did not deserve the tip. I paid for a cut & style and I got a trim. Definitely was oversharged. I could have gotten a better cut at a super cheap, you get what you pay for, type chain salon. My hair looked good until I stepped outside the salon. As soon as the wind hit it what little style there was disappeared and it flattened. She did not cut enough off my hair and as a result it flattens out. I am not supposed to be able to make a mini ponytail with the back of my hair. When I was there last month she took her time and actually styled my hair, used products to make it look good when she blew it out and took pride in her work. Guess I got in her way last night. Once they fix this tragedy I will have to look for another salon - I definitely won't be able to go back because she'll likely scalp me.

OK, ranting over. Thanks for letting me vent.

Daktari
06-23-2010, 04:56 AM
Mind? I have no mind, insomnia and night sweats took it!

NJFemmie
06-23-2010, 10:40 AM
http://chzhistoriclols.files.wordpress.com/2010/06/af77d164-f6b9-490a-93e6-73c67074956e.jpg

fiercegrrl
06-23-2010, 10:58 AM
I had such a wonderful, fun, and relaxed day yesterday with my friend and her partner. I felt so loved. it's a friend that I never would have thought would become such a large source of support and love. it's a huge gift that I will do my best to treasure.

Boots13
06-23-2010, 12:01 PM
I spent so much time physically preparing for this trip that I was more than confident hitting the trail.

But mental conditioning was another thing.

I stayed out of the touristy areas and in the poorer sections of La Paz when I was in the city. And stayed in my tent in the country and the mountains while away from the city.

I wasnt mentally prepared for the sad, harsh conditions that I saw. Conditions that were so much more trying than what I saw in Argentina, Ecuador and Peru.

The most obvious hardship was the street level and field workforce, most visibly comprised of female and children. No school for the kids

The lack of potable water (thank you global warming) ; the utter lack of hope in the sustenance routine of making it through the day. Day after day after day. And the stray dogs, so many. I saw two get hit and heard another get hit. Dogs, dead by the roadside.

Pollution so thick from buses that it hung like a spectre of things to come. The taste of diesel and dirt and the offensive smells of open sewers that I cant seem to get out of my nose...and I've been blessed with 2 showers since getting home at 4 am.

The mountain climbing was a cakewalk, compared...

Andrew, Jr.
06-23-2010, 02:34 PM
The heat and what the homeless are doing to survive this.

Cancer.

Pain in my heart and soul.

Gemme
06-23-2010, 04:13 PM
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My hair - went for a cut & style yesterday. Had 5:15 pm appointment. Arrived at 5:20 - they know I walk over from my office and told me that if I ran 5 min late it would not be a problem. Upon arrival I was asked if perhaps 5:30 would be a better time for me. I told them that 5:15 was fine and that I had been delayed at work. My stylist informed me that my appointment was for 5 - told her since I got off work at 5 I would never schedule for that time. (I have their appointment card on my desk - been looking at it for 6 weeks and it clearly says 5:15) When she cut my hair she was obviously in a hurry. (As she started a friend of hers arrived and had to wait for her to finish, then they raced out the door.) Did not give me the style I asked for. Barely trimmed my hair, used no styling product except for some over-priced version of FrizzEase (not even hairspray!), blew out my hair and left. When I asked her to trim more off the top of my hair she got snippy (no pun) about it, snatching up her scissors and clipping away making sure to get as much hair as possible in my face. She also argued with me about the trim telling me that it as longer because she blew the curl out. I paid $40 plus a tip for this and she definitely did not deserve the tip. I paid for a cut & style and I got a trim. Definitely was oversharged. I could have gotten a better cut at a super cheap, you get what you pay for, type chain salon. My hair looked good until I stepped outside the salon. As soon as the wind hit it what little style there was disappeared and it flattened. She did not cut enough off my hair and as a result it flattens out. I am not supposed to be able to make a mini ponytail with the back of my hair. When I was there last month she took her time and actually styled my hair, used products to make it look good when she blew it out and took pride in her work. Guess I got in her way last night. Once they fix this tragedy I will have to look for another salon - I definitely won't be able to go back because she'll likely scalp me.

OK, ranting over. Thanks for letting me vent.

When you go back, I wouldn't let her cut it. That's what management is for. I had this happen too. I finally found a stylist I thought did an okay job with my hair and she did...two times previously...then on what turned out to be her last day...she did a piss poor, suck ass job.

She was distracted and kept getting interrupted and I didn't have the balls at the time to say "I want a stylist. I am paying for a stylist. If you are not going to act like a stylist, then I want another one. Now."

I wouldn't have that problem today. :blink:

Soon
06-23-2010, 04:18 PM
Work Stupidity

:blink:

lipstixgal
06-23-2010, 04:21 PM
OMG I ordered something from online store and its taking Fedex a week to get it here and I paid 7.25 dollars for shipping. Fedex sucks for sure. I live in NJ and the package is still in Utah according to tracking and it won't get here until the 25th of JUne!!

Blade
06-23-2010, 04:22 PM
Umm do we work at the same place and I didn't know it?

Work Stupidity

:blink:

Leigh
06-23-2010, 04:46 PM
Just thinking about My future, and how I'm finally almost healed up enough to start living :thumbsup:

WolfyOne
06-23-2010, 09:44 PM
We are on day 6 of medicating 13 kitties without any fatalities to them or their human slaves. 4 more days of medicine and the 2 obvious sickees get to go back to the vet for a check up. We're hoping for a really good outcome from this medicine. I'm so tired of crawling under the bed, the desks, the cabinet in the living room and any other place they think they can hide when we start rounding them up.

Ryobi
06-23-2010, 10:57 PM
All starting at 5am tomorrow.

Thursday, 20 hour workday.
Friday, 18 hour workday.
Saturday and Sunday, both 16 hour workdays.
Monday, 10 hour workday.
Tuesday, I'll be too tired to sleep.

Sam
06-23-2010, 11:20 PM
was so exhausted today i fell asleep and missed a call

Andrew, Jr.
06-24-2010, 08:40 AM
CNN "Gary and Tony Have A Baby" at 8pm tonight. I have heard it is a tear-jerker documentary. Love is love no matter what.

theoddz
06-24-2010, 08:57 AM
I'm going to hang on to this full beard I've grown for a while. I'll shave it when it finally becomes so hot (and I break out) that I can't stand it......or someone at work cracks down on me because of the respirator masks we have to wear. :|

~Theo~ :bouquet:

JakeTulane
06-24-2010, 09:53 AM
Dancing.

I really want to go dancing.

Gemme
06-24-2010, 11:16 AM
Sometimes, when life is difficult, out of the darkness comes an oasis in the form of another human being and sometime that person is exactly what you need.

JustBeingMe
06-24-2010, 11:37 AM
I ponder why I am having to wait so long to find the outcome to a difficult proceeding happening. I just want it over with already and I am just stuck in the muck of having to wait Wait WAIT this out. Enough Already Damn It. I shouldn't be going throught this crap in the first place !

JustLovelyJenn
06-24-2010, 11:39 AM
I'm kinda tired of almost, and on my way, I would really like just one thing to be, THATS IT!!! and I FINALLY MADE IT HAPPEN!!

JustBeingMe
06-24-2010, 11:51 AM
Wondering where the person is at the other end of the tunnel holding the flash light so I can see my way outta the hell I am in.:blink:

AtLast
06-24-2010, 12:29 PM
Attempting to install a dedicated electrical circuit for my spa. Just not feeling like I can do it and it is expensive to have an electrician do it. ARGH.. one of the reasons I don't think I can is the very reason I have a spa.... my hands and fingers are very arthritic! Just don't believe I have the hand strength and dexterity to do this kind of work anymore. Pisses me off, as I have a lot of carpentry, electrical skill.

ravfem
06-24-2010, 01:16 PM
i will avoid going outside for any reason at all between now & September because of the heat & humidity. i am very fortunate to have ac and to not have to work outside.

But the people who aren't fortunate enough to have ac and the ones who work outside in this weather are on my mind. i worry for them, as well as the animals who are trapped outside.

Every summer, people and animals here, mostly dogs with ignorant owners, die from the heat. Unfortunately, i think this year is going to be worse than usual.

:candle:

UofMfan
06-24-2010, 01:19 PM
Friday night.

Soft*Silver
06-24-2010, 01:50 PM
how in the heck did I get two spots of poison ivy on my upper chest and two tiny spots on my thumb? When I get into PI, I usually get it all over myself. And if I was near it, how did it only infect those few little spots..???

Ms. Tabitha
06-24-2010, 01:53 PM
I'm thinking it might be nap time
:blink:

Just_G
06-24-2010, 03:03 PM
I think the back seat is extremely under rated. :winky: Just sayin'....

Rockinonahigh
06-24-2010, 03:56 PM
Whats on my miond....Boy what a question for today...As I just got back from a prelimanary confrence with the nerosurgons about my back...If I will be able to handle the opp when it happends,it depends on what kind of opp I will have but the whole thing has me unsettled about after care,my fur kids and everything else.Now faced with it all I realise thats why I havent had the surgery yet....

Andrew, Jr.
06-24-2010, 04:51 PM
Rockinonahigh,

You know I am with you on this. I was in the same position you are in. My furkids are my life. I do everything, and I mean everything with Dino. He goes with me everywhere, and sleeps with me and the 3 cats.

Is there someone who can take your furkids for a few days? Or what about using the PetsMart Hotel for a couple of days of your surgery/post surgery recovery time? It sucks I know. I just don't know what the answer is for you.

Being sick is hard on everyone. :candle:

Andrew

fiercegrrl
06-24-2010, 05:18 PM
nausea.
I cannot get it GONE.

i've got 8 different things in me for nausea and still feel green around the edges. I wish I knew why it has become a problem in the last week.

stupidfuckingcancer.

Leigh
06-24-2010, 06:14 PM
I know the gesture was appreciated, but the outcome deflated Me a little :sigh:

Rockinonahigh
06-24-2010, 06:14 PM
Andrew
Thanks buddy for the consern,my son lives hear and can take care of the kids when he is home also I can get a friend who lives behind me that my kids know to stop by and check on them.It depends om what kind of surgery I will have as to how long recovery will be,what was described to me was stabliseing both sides of my spine with rods and cuting away part of the vertabra to releave the pressure on my spinal cord.I have had these disk degenrating for a long time so some times thay arent to bad others it gets to pinching more then im in a world of hurt.I realy am not up to this cause frankly, part of me is worried they are going to mess it up worse.Then there is that im not shure about after care as I dont want some old crabby person who I wont get along with to be hear careing for me or being around my fur kids as they are very protective of me.Im not use to anyone takeing care of me as ive been doing it myself for years.

Sachita
06-24-2010, 06:20 PM
sometimes people suck.

Jet
06-24-2010, 06:58 PM
getting through the last 20 minutes of this workout. i'm taking a break

sweetfemme247
06-24-2010, 07:00 PM
Im just thinking alot about things................. getting my room done but no energy to do it. wanting to lay down but Im talking to someone and I dont want to.

bigbutchmistie
06-24-2010, 07:26 PM
Hoping I get to see her this weekend. But I know she has to work and one of her kids are sick... :(

MissItalianDiva
06-24-2010, 07:27 PM
Wondering when I am going to walk again without feeling like I am sitting on someones head

Gemme
06-24-2010, 08:28 PM
how in the heck did I get two spots of poison ivy on my upper chest and two tiny spots on my thumb? When I get into PI, I usually get it all over myself. And if I was near it, how did it only infect those few little spots..???

Maybe it was on the furbabies' fur?

I'm thinking it might be nap time
:blink:


I agree. I just got up from one.



This story is on my mind right now:

http://www.aolnews.com/nation/article/newspaper-ad-reunites-mother-patty-langdon-and-son-todd-smith-after-43-years/19529903?icid=main|main|dl1|link3|http%3A%2F%2Fwww .aolnews.com%2Fnation%2Farticle%2Fnewspaper-ad-reunites-mother-patty-langdon-and-son-todd-smith-after-43-years%2F19529903

Dylan
06-24-2010, 09:15 PM
Gotdam fire ants got me everywhere


I'm Finding Blisters In Places I Didn't Think Ants Should Reach,
Dylan

Corkey
06-24-2010, 09:16 PM
Gotdam fire ants got me everywhere


I'm Finding Blisters In Places I Didn't Think Ants Should Reach,
Dylan

Break out the benedril

Mister Bent
06-24-2010, 09:30 PM
Gotdam fire ants got me everywhere


I'm Finding Blisters In Places I Didn't Think Ants Should Reach,
Dylan


Occupational hazard.

We made a list the other day:

Bee sting
Fire ants
Snake bit
Sunburn
Poison Ivy, Oak, Sumac
Ticks
Biting spiders (black widows, brown recluse, et al)

So far I have bee sting + poison oak + ticks + fire ants + developing skin cancer.

I really would like to avoid snake bit.

Dylan
06-24-2010, 09:36 PM
Occupational hazard.

We made a list the other day:

Bee sting
Fire ants
Snake bit
Sunburn
Poison Ivy, Oak, Sumac
Ticks
Biting spiders (black widows, brown recluse, et al)

So far I have bee sting + poison oak + ticks + fire ants + developing skin cancer.

I really would like to avoid snake bit.

Don't forget chiggers...those are fun

I don't think I sunburn anymore...roofing did me in for skin cancer.

I hope to god I don't get a bee sting...that would really suck for me. I really need an epi pen or two

Corkey, I did the benedryl immediately


Oh, And Don't Forget Heat Stroke,
Dylan

Soft*Silver
06-24-2010, 09:36 PM
just how much and how far is this poison ivy going to spread? It is now on my face, my hand, and my chest. Dammit. I am suppose to get an upper GI tomorrow and am wondering if they wont let me take it now. Which means my surgery will get postponed. This is NOT making me happy.

Mister Bent
06-24-2010, 09:39 PM
Don't forget chiggers...those are fun

I don't think I sunburn anymore...roofing did me in for skin cancer.

I hope to god I don't get a bee sting...that would really suck for me. I really need an epi pen or two

Corkey, I did the benedryl immediately


Oh, And Don't Forget Heat Stroke,
Dylan

Chiggers, yep.

Heat stroke, it was 102º here today, actual temperature. What the hell.

You could irrigate a small field for what came pouring off of me the past two days.

It's going to be a long summer.

Corkey
06-24-2010, 09:40 PM
just how much and how far is this poison ivy going to spread? It is now on my face, my hand, and my chest. Dammit. I am suppose to get an upper GI tomorrow and am wondering if they wont let me take it now. Which means my surgery will get postponed. This is NOT making me happy.

Take a bath in oatmeal bath soap, you can spread it just by touching your spots. Yes they will probably cancel, til you are no longer showing blisters. Oh the cloths you were wearing, yea toss them in a plastic bag and dispose of them, the oils from the ivy will not come out of your cloths and if you try to wash them, anything they come into contact with will also have the oil on them.

Mister Bent
06-24-2010, 09:58 PM
Take a bath in oatmeal bath soap, you can spread it just by touching your spots. Yes they will probably cancel, til you are no longer showing blisters. Oh the cloths you were wearing, yea toss them in a plastic bag and dispose of them, the oils from the ivy will not come out of your cloths and if you try to wash them, anything they come into contact with will also have the oil on them.

If the poison ivy oils are all washed off, then no, it won't spread from skin contact. Whatever oozes from your blisters won't spread the rash, those are serum secretions as with any wound. Your clothes are still "infected" but before tossing anything, I'd research options.

It's the body's reaction to the urushiol oil, which travels in the blood stream that creates the rash. New eruptions are simply new reaction sites, but they come from within. One infection from contact can last up to 3 weeks.

There are many excellent sources of information, but when researching last week (poison oak, thanks!) I came across this site (http://www.knoledge.org/oak/). Be sure to read the "etiquette" section to maintain your sense of humor.

I've been using Ivarest with pretty good success controlling the itch.

Soft*Silver
06-24-2010, 10:24 PM
after reading the post from Mr Bent, and going to the web page he linked, I realized why I might have gotten it!

I have been on predisone (steroid) for 4 months. Its one medication they are treating my ankylosis spondylitis (bamboo back) with. I quit taking it two weeks ago! I betcha I have been rolling around where there has been poison ivy and never getting it because of the steroid...and now that I dont have the steriod, places that I weeded before, are now places of doom for me!

so...I still have some predisone...I am going to start taking it again...I need to nip this in the bud as soon as possible because I dont want to delay my surgery!

Corkey
06-24-2010, 10:30 PM
If the poison ivy oils are all washed off, then no, it won't spread from skin contact. Whatever oozes from your blisters won't spread the rash, those are serum secretions as with any wound. Your clothes are still "infected" but before tossing anything, I'd research options.

It's the body's reaction to the urushiol oil, which travels in the blood stream that creates the rash. New eruptions are simply new reaction sites, but they come from within. One infection from contact can last up to 3 weeks.

There are many excellent sources of information, but when researching last week (poison oak, thanks!) I came across this site (http://www.knoledge.org/oak/). Be sure to read the "etiquette" section to maintain your sense of humor.

I've been using Ivarest with pretty good success controlling the itch.

I think I was under the assumption she had them spreading from her touching the spots, hense still had the oil still on her hands. Other wise yes the blisters themselves aren't spreadable. I've used oatmeal compresses to help with oozing of the welts, it did shorten the life of the welts by a few days and it made it not itch as badly.
Good luck, and try not to itch.

Ebon
06-25-2010, 02:17 AM
Wondering if the reason I can't sleep is insomnia or fomo.

Zimmeh
06-25-2010, 05:38 AM
That my roommate is lazy and might want to stop cussing out the person who babysit's her little boy...

Soon
06-25-2010, 05:40 AM
work and moving day.

:vigil:

PinkieLee
06-25-2010, 07:54 AM
What's on my mind...

How refreshed I feel after FINALLY getting a relief from back pain to get a good night's sleep. It's amazing that it only took a muscle relaxer and nice glass of wine.

SuperFemme
06-25-2010, 01:56 PM
work and moving day.

:vigil:

moving?

noooooooooooo.................

may the force be with you.

chefhmboyrd
06-25-2010, 01:56 PM
sex
sex
sex
sex

Soft*Silver
06-25-2010, 02:57 PM
why do marshmellows give me indigestion?

Scorp
06-25-2010, 02:59 PM
Eat peppermints or chew peppermint gum. It helps with nausea.

why do marshmellows give me indigestion?

Scorp
06-25-2010, 03:02 PM
Dinner is on my mind....And I think it's going to be this tonight:


http://digestingaustin.files.wordpress.com/2009/04/msg1.jpg

ravfem
06-25-2010, 03:21 PM
just how much and how far is this poison ivy going to spread? .....

Speaking of PO/PI...

anyone heard about people with the ability to "talk" it, and other things (warts, the pain from burns, etc) away? Here in the south, a lot of us are huge believers in these "gifted" people.

When we were kids, my brother was so allergic to PO/PI that he would erupt in blisters all over his legs on a pretty much weekly basis every summer, whether he was around the plants or not. Finally, my mama asked around (cause these magical people don't advertise, nor do they accept monetary payment for their services) and found a woman in the neighboring town who had the ability to talk it away. We all piled in the car (it was fascinating, even for me, a non-believer) and off we went.

She lived in an old mill house, and was a sweet woman. She sat next to my brother and murmured indistinguishable words while rubbing both her hands over his knees & legs, for about 10 minutes.

After that eruption cleared up, he never had it again.

Now, i tend to be a very logical, scientific thinker about pretty much everything, so i personally believe it was just coincidence and his body finally decided it had had enough. But whatever the reason....people puts lots of stock into these "gifted" people.

*Magic_and_Silk*
06-25-2010, 03:24 PM
Speaking of PO/PI...

anyone heard about people with the ability to "talk" it, and other things (warts, the pain from burns, etc) away? Here in the south, a lot of us are huge believers in these "gifted" people.

When we were kids, my brother was so allergic to PO/PI that he would erupt in blisters all over his legs on a pretty much weekly basis every summer, whether he was around the plants or not. Finally, my mama asked around (cause these magical people don't advertise, nor do they accept monetary payment for their services) and found a woman in the neighboring town who had the ability to talk it away. We all piled in the car (it was fascinating, even for me, a non-believer) and off we went.

She lived in an old mill house, and was a sweet woman. She sat next to my brother and murmured indistinguishable words while rubbing both her hands over his knees & legs, for about 10 minutes.

After that eruption cleared up, he never had it again.

Now, i tend to be a very logical, scientific thinker about pretty much everything, so i personally believe it was just coincidence and his body finally decided it had had enough. But whatever the reason....people puts lots of stock into these "gifted" people.

I believe it without a doubt. I also have personally experienced the power of "Pow wow" magic.

Wonderful stuff!

dark_crystal
06-25-2010, 03:42 PM
i can't believe it has been a year since MJ died...wish we woulda loved him as much when we had him as we did a year ago tomorrow

Sam
06-25-2010, 10:55 PM
:hangloose:NYC pride

Lady_Wu
06-26-2010, 12:07 AM
I'm feeling tired and of the "I can't do this anymore mood". I have no one to tell it to, so here goes:
How long do I do this? We've supposedly been "together" for over 6 years. I tried to go slow at first, to do it right. I had my own place as an address for 3 of them but never got to live there. You wouldn't let me. You brought me here after 2 days and I never got to enjoy my own place again. Yes, we were in love. But I wanted my own place too. To have MY space. But your mother got mad, abandoned you/us and we were both sick I mean really sick. She took care of your meds, brought you meals, took care of you when you got sick. I stepped in and did all that. Yes, you saved my life by bringing me from where I was and took care of me when I was really sick. And continued to do so. I know and appreciate it beyond words. But I have been saving your life since I recovered. You have been continually ill from nearly the time I recovered. I loved you so I took care of you, take care of you. I bring you nearly all your meals in bed b/c you are too ill to get out of bed. I check your blood sugar around the clock. I 've saved your life from diabetes so many times I cannot count. I did. do these things b/c of love. But, dear one, I am getting so, so tired. I am very ill, too. I need to be taken care of but I come home from the dr so tired my eyes are crossing. And then you have a major health crisis. I have to figure which, maybe allm of your illnesses is going haywire and take measures to correct it. Usuaually you cannot help me in this process. You have gone catatonic, cannot talk, cannot move. So I struggle to make you comfortable, to make sure your O2 is on you, that your blood sugar is at the right level, check to see which meds you have taken. All this while I want desperately for someone to take care of me for a while. Not for long, nothing too much. Just one week of being able to sleep without worry that the alarm will not work, that your sugar will not drop, that whatever is making you so sick that you literally cannot lift a fork to your mouth unaided won't kick in while I sleep. I get so lonely, my love. I used to have you for company. We have no friends in this dead little town. While you sleep your life away, in whatever world your illnesses have locked you into, I am here in a place where I have lived for so long and not made even ONE friend. Do you know how unheard of that is for me? I make friends easily. If I had kept my little apt, I would have at least acquaintaces to say hello. People to talk with. I was going to reorganize the library there. I already knew the name of the best librarian at the town library behind the building, I had a handicapped apt for when I got my wheelchair. Now I cannot even walk down the street by myself b/c I walk with a cane and the street is too dangerous. I know that you did not intend for life to turn out this way. But while you sleep you life away in your illnesses, I want desperately for a shoulder to lean on. for someone who is awake and can make and bring me coffee in bed once in a while. Someone who can do all the things you promised me in the beginning. I feel myself starting to hate this place you've brought me to, this cold. unfriendly . lonely place. I look at you and remember our love at the start, I've never looked my age but now I feel twice that. I feel more like a nurse than a partner. Oh, love, what do I do?

Rook
06-26-2010, 01:15 AM
How can a European country think of {and produce} a reality show where the Winner gets an all-expense paid Kidney transplant...
And I'm over here in fuck-it-all u.s.a on a long-ass waiting list, risking enormous Debt, and tons of excuses?

guh
:candle: :badmood:

Miss Scarlett
06-26-2010, 10:29 AM
I wrote this as part of my response to a friend's editorial column about the need for LGBT friendly members of our local government in order to achieve acceptance for everyone in our metro area. We have a culture of apathy where I live and that is in all communities not just the LGBT. It is extremely frustrating that everyone wants rights and privileges but very few offer to actually pitch in, much less support our efforts.

I'm not giving up - ever...

Here's part of what I wrote:

We CAN make changes individually and as a community. Imagine what our lives would be like had Stonewall never happened – 41 years ago this weekend a small group of people had had enough. Several years prior to Stonewall there were the riots at Compton’s. And what about Harvey Milk, Barbara Gittings, Frank Kameny, Harry Hay, Larry Kramer, Del Martin, Phyllis Lyon and many others? Their actions helped to further open the closet door for us…but that door has yet to be knocked off its hinges.

We can do this if we just get out there and get to work. Understand that we WILL meet with resistance. Change will NOT happen overnight. But if we continue to do little or nothing that closet door will begin to close inch by inch. If you don’t believe me I have 2 words for you: Prop 8.

Gemme
06-26-2010, 11:38 PM
I was talking on the phone tonight and realized that I am content. Quite so, actually. It's refreshing.

Jet
06-26-2010, 11:45 PM
Insomnia.................

Venus007
06-26-2010, 11:49 PM
Why can't Republicans be more like Dr King or Thomas Jefferson and less like Sen. Santorum or George W Bush.

violaine
06-26-2010, 11:56 PM
best homemade savoury rosemary bread ever :)

Rook
06-27-2010, 01:08 AM
I really....REALLY...don't wanna send an email to fetLife admin asking to fix a typo.....
cuz I know the answer....
and I'm not doing that shit a 3rd time..
:sunglass::seeingstars:

afixer
06-27-2010, 06:35 AM
http://i228.photobucket.com/albums/ee23/hillcitytn/elinor.jpg
elinor

Andrew, Jr.
06-27-2010, 08:22 AM
Former VP Dick Cheney is in the hospital with heart issues again. Wondering if this is it or if he is going to bounce back again. :tarot:

Jet
06-27-2010, 08:54 PM
a meeting this week. I hope it goes well.

RockOn
06-27-2010, 09:16 PM
I had dinner tonight with an interesting woman. Now I am wondering if she is trying to come out at age 40. She confided she had been with women ... really enjoyed being sexual with women. Told me when I went to San Fran for chest surgery, she would go with me to take care of me. (I never asked her to help me.) And she had tons of questions about the way I do things in bed, my strap-on, how all that works ... blah, blah, blah ... She is very attractive but I have never given any thought until tonight. She asked me to go eat with her. This woman has always been very affectionate in our friendship but tonight the hugging and the kissing on the cheek seemed more "something" than before. I cannot really read this. Just have to wait and see. I have been told I am a two by four butch. The fact is, lots of times I don't know if a woman is coming on to me ... or just being affectionate and friendly. Maybe it is nothing. Maybe it is something. Time will tell. She has the sexiest freckles and tonight it has started ... now I am driving myself nuts wondering if she has freckles on her titties too. Oh my gosh! :)

Rook
06-28-2010, 01:59 AM
I'm trying to figure what this Sez...
w/o wasting time on LD calls.....
http://i265.photobucket.com/albums/ii214/amor_en_silencio_77/hebreo.jpg

Gemme
06-28-2010, 02:57 AM
I'm trying to figure what this Sez...
w/o wasting time on LD calls.....
http://i265.photobucket.com/albums/ii214/amor_en_silencio_77/hebreo.jpg

Chances are really good that it's not what the owner thinks it is. :blink:

ruthie14
06-28-2010, 04:16 AM
Dr says I need to destress... but my life keeps adding to it. I need to go back to the drawing board and figure out something I can do for a living that won't stress me out but still make enough money to live on. Love life is sucky, health is a problem because of asthma and stress. I need a new life. I am usually and upbeat and positive person, but the last couple of years are starting to wear me out. I hate how I feel about my life and I keep trying to find a way to fix my situation, but everytime I figure something out, somehow and in someway it is unaccessable. The latest being I was sent an application from a college for a course to learn the new electronic medical records thing. Gov't funding etc finally came in and I don't meet any of the criteria to even take the courses. I would need a couple of years of experience in IT and or the health field to qualify to even learn it. I don't have that so I need to figure something else out now. I am overwhelmed.

Miss Scarlett
06-28-2010, 04:35 AM
Chances are really good that it's not what the owner thinks it is. :blink:

I agree with you Gemme. But it's early and I'm in a hurry....at first glance (and I hope I am wrong) it may read "kill" - being more closely related to "killing"... the first 2 letters on their own are used for "life". But I have to go to work now otherwise I would devote more time. This is just my very early initial impression and like I said I may be wrong.

theoddz
06-28-2010, 08:48 AM
Getting things ready and plans made for the union Human Rights conference coming up in August at the Trump Taj Mahal in Atlantic City, NJ. :)

~Theo~ :bouquet:

chefhmboyrd
06-28-2010, 09:51 AM
my brother, Jim, and his lover Kerry are headed to Iowa today to get married.
i wish i could be there, but it is too far and short notice
i wish them the best
he said they registered at Century 21
lol
:balloon:

Spirit Dancer
06-28-2010, 10:16 AM
Doctors Reports:seeingstars::candle:
A reminder not to try and chat while taking tests:seeingstars:

Andrew, Jr.
06-28-2010, 10:32 AM
:penguin: Joan Rivers urges young gay stars to stay in the closet. She stated that coming out will ruin their career, and income potential.

:penguin: Oxford's leading researcher, Mark McCarthy has discovered 12 new links in the largest diabetic gene study, mostly for type 2 diabetes, including Europe, USA, and Canada.

:penguin: Supreme Court Justice Ruth Bader Ginsberg's husband, Martin, 78 yo, died from mestatic cancer. Last week they celebrated their 56th wedding anniversary. He is being buried at Arlington National Cemetary. He was a well-known lawyer, and professor at Georgetown.

BornBronson
06-28-2010, 11:48 PM
Eating another bowl of Golden Puffs cereal...then hitting the hay.


I'd go say goodnight to Jesse,but she seems to be full of herself tonight.That tarball.*sigh*

ravfem
06-29-2010, 11:00 AM
people :bunchflowers::koolaid::clover::duck::stillheart:

places :farmtree::tea::moonstars::missing:

things :seeingstars::pirate::brainsucker::balloon::poc-nod::wateringgarden::greendollar::seconddoh: :raspberry:

Soft*Silver
06-29-2010, 02:06 PM
I came back from my PCP and she is scheduling a neurological work up including a brain scan. Another Dr was going to do it but then decided to wait. I have been having some pretty serious issues with memory and confusion. When my PCP saw all the meds I am on (I thought i had told her the other Drs were prescribing me these meds...I must have assumed I did and just plainly didnt) she is thinking the meds are interacting badly...so she is going to talk to my other Drs and then they are going to look at my work up and brain scan together.....


can I schedule this in between my surgery for my hiatal hernia, my shoulder repair surgery and my back surgery? All to be done in the next 6 months...

so my mind is literally on my mind...

Leigh
06-29-2010, 02:38 PM
Dear *

Thank you for our talk last night, and how it has helped Me to bring out a side of Myself that I didn't think would ever come out. I consider Myself extremely lucky to have you as My friend, so thank you for being there for Me ~ it sure does mean alot :rose:


Me

Andrew, Jr.
06-30-2010, 09:47 AM
Larry King, 77 yo, is retiring for good. I wonder if Larry King Live on CNN will continue under a new name? The show continues on until November. I hate to see the show end. I enjoy it. :scarytv:

Watching Wimbleton.

Getting dr's appointments when I want them. Not when it's convenient to the doctor. Amen.

Ex-QB's son, 2 yo, drowns in a hot tub - a headline that caught my attention. It was Randall Cunningham's son. He played for the Eagles then the Vikings and retired in 2002. His son died in their Las Vegas home. A nanny found the child. She tried cpr, and called for help. It was too late. RIP. :praying:

Travelers ads on TV with the animals are adorable. I just love the rattle-snake. Literally. A snake with a baby rattle it's holding by it's tail. :superfunny:

Ebon
06-30-2010, 09:50 AM
Back to work today. After a nice 3 day vacation. Also am I too picky, I was wondering about that as well.

Soft*Silver
06-30-2010, 10:20 AM
I have invited people over for a cook out at my place next week. They are folks from my home group in AA. I havent hosted in months. Well, heck, years! I am so eager to do this. I use to have these get togethers every week in the summer for my old home group. My yard is set up for wonderful parties. I love sharing my life and am looking forward to doing this more often...

WolfyOne
06-30-2010, 11:08 AM
Yesterday our 2 obvious kitties with mouth infections had to go for their 2 week check up after their 10 days of meds. They still have the infection, but it's much better. The vet sent us home with another 10 days of Baytril for them, poor babies. Last night they really put up a fight taking the meds and I felt so bad for them. Today I have to separate them from the pack when R brings home more cat litter. I decided we needed to clear out one of the bedrooms and let them have it instead of them being isolated in cages for 2 weeks. Either way, they're not going to like being separated from all of us. I can see it now, I'll be taking one of our cots and setting it up in the room to sleep with them some nights and if not me then R. Those kitties really have us trained as they tug at our heartstrings. And in case I never said what the cats were diagnosed with after the culture came back, it was Pasteurella Multocida and Gram Negative Organism. It was the reason my finger got infected and I wound up with Cat Scratch Fever.

Wryly
06-30-2010, 01:06 PM
I was in my late 20s before I managed to stop biting my nails. Previously I tried various things to stop but was never able to. Then at one point I told myself to stop - and I did. However, sometimes the habit comes back - usually I realize what I am doing and stop right away. Sometimes I don't realize until I bite a nail down to where it bleeds. I did this the other day. Man, it is so difficult to type with a messed up finger!

I really do know better.

JustBeingMe
06-30-2010, 02:23 PM
Wondering what news I will hear in the next few days or week. UGH.:canoworms:

NJFemmie
06-30-2010, 02:25 PM
Six minutes until I leave to go home.

I miss home today.

I miss it every day, but I REALLY miss it today.

:(

Canela
06-30-2010, 03:01 PM
All set for the hurricane which they are reporting is just under where we are...settling in for the rest of whatever is about to happen...there are tornadoes now where we hardly ever get any...thankfully Alex is at a Category 1 and that's a blessing...

How amazing...it's so beautiful outside now...there is rain and breeze--the heat is no longer...it feels a little muggy but the breeze helps...my daughter helped get everything ready and we are going to hunker down...

I trust God for all things and I am praying for minimal-to-no damage...will see you all on the other side...

Love and blessings-Shug

Random
06-30-2010, 03:08 PM
Once an addict, always an addict...

It doesn't matter if you stop using five mins ago or 20 yrs and 16 days ago..

The urge when it hits, is just as hard to resist..

Andrew, Jr.
07-01-2010, 09:57 AM
My older sister is a recovering addict. I haven't spoken to her in years because of it. I can only hope and pray that one day something changes her mind, body, and spirit. I so dearly miss her. I know my time here on earth won't last forever.

Jesse
07-01-2010, 10:12 AM
My upcoming move and my sis and nephew's two week visit with me. :)

*Magic_and_Silk*
07-01-2010, 11:06 AM
Knives....

moxie
07-01-2010, 11:17 AM
Narcissistic personalities.

chefhmboyrd
07-01-2010, 12:56 PM
Mom is feeling a bit better, but they are putting in tubes to drain infection and the MRSA has her down with pneumonia.

i am glad my nephew is up there, my brother and his new husband should be back tonight. Da is doing good, having the baby there keeps him busy. Well not really a baby, he will be 5 next saturday.

just hoping she feels better enough to come home soon.

Soft*Silver
07-01-2010, 06:39 PM
wondering where Camo is. He is MIA...and I am worried

*Magic_and_Silk*
07-01-2010, 10:05 PM
...The gorgeous sky after the thunderstorm today, all dark...with the sun shining in from the West and a rainbow in the East...
...The pounding rain and the music it made.
...The smell of the wet forest; it reminds me of how lucky I am to live in such a beautiful place.
...Words that make me tremble, in a good way, and the person who wrote / spoke them.
...Friends that do so much for me, even when they don't know it (because even the smallest kindness counts).
...How incredibly fortunate I am to be alive, reasonably healthy and able to enjoy my life.
...A funny little dog that makes me laugh until my sides hurt.
...The Morning Glories that actually grew in the tiny aluminum wash tub that I planted them in, against all odds.
...Sweet Gala apples....

THAT is what is on my mind.

MissItalianDiva
07-01-2010, 10:27 PM
A cocky butch who thinks he is the cat's meow

Waldo
07-01-2010, 11:23 PM
A cocky butch who thinks he is the cat's meow

That could be half the butch population. Gotta narrow that down. :pile:

NJFemmie
07-02-2010, 04:42 AM
I am wondering why the hell I'm at the office so #@^$@# early. :blink:
On a better note, Mare has off this entire weekend (hot-diggity damn! woot!)
It might be a long day, but I am going to have a great weekend.

Daktari
07-02-2010, 05:12 AM
I am wondering why the hell I'm at the office so #@^$@# early. :blink:
On a better note, Mare has off this entire weekend (hot-diggity damn! woot!)
It might be a long day, but I am going to have a great weekend.

I'm wondering why you're in the office so early too? :cheesy:
I hope you and Mare have a wonderful weekend :winky: :winky:



She is.
Her hair is.
That I get her all to myself for a whole weekend! :cheer:

NJFemmie
07-02-2010, 06:29 AM
I'm wondering why you're in the office so early too? :cheesy:
I hope you and Mare have a wonderful weekend :winky: :winky:



She is.
Her hair is.
That I get her all to myself for a whole weekend! :cheer:

I've been trying to complete a project that has been riddled with constant interruption for the past three days - and I couldn't take it anymore. I figured if I came in at 6:30 and had at least an hour and a half of quiet time, I would complete it, and I did! OH HAPPY DAY!!

Thank you, we will :) I think I'm going to drag her to the Borgata for the weekend.

Hope you have a great one too ;)

Daktari
07-02-2010, 06:43 AM
I've been trying to complete a project that has been riddled with constant interruption for the past three days - and I couldn't take it anymore. I figured if I came in at 6:30 and had at least an hour and a half of quiet time, I would complete it, and I did! OH HAPPY DAY!!

Thank you, we will :) I think I'm going to drag her to the Borgata for the weekend.

Hope you have a great one too ;)

Happy Day indeed...well done on completion.

Thank you, we're off to a party and camping over on Saturday so we'll have lots of fun. Just having her to myself with no assignments to finish or marking to do will be bliss :clap:

Random
07-02-2010, 07:05 AM
I need to get this damn cat a louder bell..

Three birds she has caught this season..

Thank goodness only one was dead, but mom had to corral the other two and place catch and release...

Louder bell.. asap...

MsTinkerbelly
07-02-2010, 07:52 AM
Our 2nd year Wedding Anniversary is tomorrow! Eight years together, 2 years Wed in the State of California.:rrose:

We picked tomorrow for the movers to take the big stuff to the new house.:blink:

The new stove I bought last night.

The upcoming sale of Mom's house.

The two week October trip to Europe.

Our daughter is going to be a senior in a couple of months.

No wonder I feel like this -->:jester:

Life is indeed good!:wine:

WolfyOne
07-02-2010, 09:32 AM
R and I joined the YMCA last night, so we could get some much needed exercise. This morning we were there at 6am. She went to the pools to do laps and I went right to the treadmill. She did 7 laps in 20 minutes and I did 1.18 miles in 20 minutes. It was enough exercise for both of us on our first day. After a week of once a day workouts, we're hoping to increase it to going twice a day. We both need to drop some weight along with the needed exercise. I'd like to tone up my upper arms without turning it back into muscle right away until I can drop some weight but am unsure how to go about at the moment, so for now I'll just keep on walking on the treadmill.

Soft*Silver
07-02-2010, 11:08 AM
gardens a re a work in progress....and the more I do, the more I envision more to do....

I am really frustrated over this topsy turvy planter I have. Two years ago I used it for tomatoes and they grew like crazy. Now I am using it again for tomatoes and the dang thing is dying....grrrr

Dylan
07-02-2010, 11:23 AM
YAY! We don't have to go to the laundrymat anymore, because we finally hooked up the washer and dryer...that's a bonus

But now, I have to do a bunch of laundry, clean out the car, do the dishes, and pack our bags before we go outta town to see bf-ers

And of course, it's been drizzly and cloudy for the last couple days...until I actually go outside to start cleaning out the car, and of course, the sun comes out, and it's hot and humid as hell outside


Gahhhhh, Moving To Cooler Parts Just Won't Come Soon Enough,
Dylan

JustBeingMe
07-02-2010, 01:08 PM
I wish I was taking that trip to see other Planeteers!! I could use the time away that's for sure, and some good ol' laughter with others and some new friends. So to all the Planeteers able to go meet up, HAVE A GREAT TIME!!!
B.

NJFemmie
07-02-2010, 01:16 PM
Vacation next month.
Actually, according to Mare, 22 days.
After this past week, I wish I were heading there now.

Dylan
07-02-2010, 01:17 PM
No No Noooooooooooooo

The power CANNOT go out today!

Come back on!


Cinderella's Got Too Much To Do!,
Dylan...now has half washed clothes and dishes, and half dried towels...nooooooooooo!

Dammit, and I think the transformer blew which means it's going to take forever!

Random
07-02-2010, 01:56 PM
gardens a re a work in progress....and the more I do, the more I envision more to do....

I am really frustrated over this topsy turvy planter I have. Two years ago I used it for tomatoes and they grew like crazy. Now I am using it again for tomatoes and the dang thing is dying....grrrr


Mine rotted my tomato at the base..

*Sad face*

It was full of blossoms when it broke... lovely grape tomatos..

JustBeingMe
07-02-2010, 02:51 PM
Prayer chain, for me.
I need it.

Soft*Silver
07-02-2010, 02:51 PM
mine is a german heirloom...

princessbelle
07-02-2010, 02:57 PM
That i had a really easy day at work and it's my Monday, so that is such a blessing.

That coming home to a pouncing white puppy makes everything in the world simply perfect.

Andrew, Jr.
07-02-2010, 03:01 PM
The Dutch beat/knocked out Brazil in the World Cup.

QVC July 31st Kelly Ripka and Kim Kardasian are teaming up to sell items to benefit Ovarian Cancer Research. One of my biological sister's has this cancer, and is in remission going on year 9.

Jesse
07-02-2010, 07:10 PM
Shaving my head
pizza that's on it's way
driving to GA tomorrow.

Soft*Silver
07-02-2010, 07:27 PM
coming home from a family get together to find out my demented old dog had an accident in the house...shaking my head and cleaning without scolding her...it was my fault. I knew she has been having problems with bathroom stuff lately and its the 4th holiday and fireworks scare her....I should have taken her with me or gated her on the front porch. Sighing...

its going to be a tough last year....

~Bo
07-02-2010, 07:50 PM
I love the July 4th holiday. Except for the fireworks cause they skeer my pup half to death.
And people in the area are already shooting them off. My poor lil guy is hiding under the bed shaking like a leaf. :(

ruthie14
07-02-2010, 08:38 PM
Ok realize I am a little toasted and have just had a bad dating experience, but I joined a new dating site and checked out a couple I have been on for a little while. Same ppl, same crap. No one interested in me or interesting to me. REALLY? Are there no local butches out there? WTF .... trying NOT to get depressed but really. Thank God I have a party planned for tomorrow or it would be even worse. I feel like giving up. Why bother? Women I know locally aren't interested.. and women a little farther out of my scope aren't interested. In a 25-50 mile radias no one. Crap.............

chefhottie25
07-02-2010, 10:19 PM
work is on my mind. we are about to have our bussiest weekend. I worked 12 hours today...and saturday and sunday look the same. thank god that I love to cook.

Gemme
07-03-2010, 11:55 PM
I love the July 4th holiday. Except for the fireworks cause they skeer my pup half to death.
And people in the area are already shooting them off. My poor lil guy is hiding under the bed shaking like a leaf. :(

I absolutely HATE this time of year because of idiots shooting off the fireworks. It's illegal here to shoot them off before the 3rd of July and after 11pm but they do it anyway and I'll be getting off of work tomorrow at 11pm and have to be up by 5am. I don't foresee a lot of sleep before Monday morning. *grimace*

Miss Scarlett
07-04-2010, 09:17 AM
The last 6 weeks or so have been pretty rough for me. Lots of work stress - some real and some my own creation. Forgetfulness and mental confusion worsening gradually reaching a climax last Tuesday. Drove home in tears - so confused and frightened. Not going into detail here - suffice to say I have an understanding of the terror dementia can induce in people.

Met with my doctor Wednesday morning for my regular appointment. Most of the time was taken up with discussion of the last 6 weeks and the events of the previous day. He diagnosed sleep deprivation and exhaustion. Took me off the 5HTP/Carbidopa for the next month and ordered me to get at least 8 hours sleep per night. Had been averaging about 4-5. Possibly too much serotonin but more likely lack of sleep.

Talked with my closest work friend who told me she noticed the gradual onset of confusion, forgetfulness, etc. over the past 6 weeks. (Wish she had asked me about it but that doesn't matter now.) Told her what my doctor said. She agreed to keep me updated on her observations for the next month. She's also a close friend of the boss and yes, I am careful what I tell her.

Boss is on vacation this coming week. Before we shut down on Friday we had a meeting wherein she gave me my instructions/directions for the coming week. Then she gave me a lecture related to an incident from way back in March and told me she did not want any "stupid phone calls" from me (see below). Almost did not have Monday off for the 4th holiday...asked the boss if she wanted me to come in on Monday and she asked if I had plans. Told her I had not planned to go out of town but planned to have the day off because we did last year and because the courts, etc. are closed. She mumbled something like she had not planned for me to be off and I told her if she wanted me to be there I would. Then she decided since everything was going to be closed we'd just consider it a paid holiday.

I think she has just put or reactivated some monitoring/tracking/blocking software or something on my office computer. (One of her previous assistants spent the boss's vacation week online playing games, shopping and job searching.) In the year I have been there the boss has never been on my computer. We are networked so there is really no need for her to use my machine. When I get to work in the morning I open our legal software, check office email, check online court calendars and check our bank accounts online for automatic debits. I go to the court calendars and bank account from the address toolbar dropdown thingy and the same things are always there. Except for Friday morning - on Friday I noticed the last address on that thing was the homepage for our broadband service. I never type that in because I have a shortcut on my desktop to go to the email account. I have nothing to fear from this software because I don't web surf during the day. I check my personal email at lunch and right before I leave but I won't be doing that now - not a big deal. If she wants to track then go for it - I have nothing to hide.

I cut the boss a lot of slack. She has not had an entire week off for nearly 2 years. Also a lot of really bad stuff has happened in her world over the past couple of years: her house burned to the ground killing her beloved parrot (space heater for the bird caused the fire); husband is jerk; daughter going away to college; caseload at work getting heavy and previous assistants have been unreliable; and until recently she was the only income in her family because her husband (an engineer) lost his job in the meltdown. Loads of pressure on her.

Here's what happened in March: On a Friday, naturally, a client caused a huge ruckus at the courthouse that spilled over into our office. The worst had already happened before it landed on my doorstep yet none of that mattered to her. My sin was that I had placed 2 calls to the boss who told me the day before she would be "out of the office" that day. Could not get her on phone. Turned out she had gone out of town, no cell phone signal and no phone where she was. I am no genius by any stretch of the imagination but I do know the difference between "out of the office" and "out of town." I did not learn she was out of town until the following Monday when she came in from Court, asked me to tell her what happened on Friday and then blasted me with both barrells and then threw the empty gun at me. Left me with the distinct impression she lacked confidence in me and my abilities.

Sam
07-04-2010, 09:18 AM
Happy 4th of July ya'll

Mister Bent
07-05-2010, 09:56 AM
The Wonder Wheel (http://www.wonderwheel.com/)

Queerasfck
07-05-2010, 10:05 AM
The Wonder Wheel (http://www.wonderwheel.com/)

Wow, ain't you something.......
I used to go here when I was a youngster.............

Playland (http://www.ridezone.com/parks/ny/rye/playland20.htm).

http://www.westchestermagazine.com/galleries/427/12406-RyeDragon-Coaster_CURTESY-OF-PLAYLAND_1932.jpg

Playland as seen in the movie BIG!

http://www.redstaplerchronicles.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/01/zoltar%20in%20big.jpg

Mister Bent
07-05-2010, 10:15 AM
Rye playland most recently gained infamy when a kid fell out of the boat on Ye Olde Mill ride and drowned.

There was also an incident of choking on chewing gum.

Dangerous place!

turasultana
07-05-2010, 10:24 AM
Wow, ain't you something.......
I used to go here when I was a youngster.............

Playland (http://www.ridezone.com/parks/ny/rye/playland20.htm).

http://www.westchestermagazine.com/galleries/427/12406-RyeDragon-Coaster_CURTESY-OF-PLAYLAND_1932.jpg

Playland as seen in the movie BIG!

http://www.redstaplerchronicles.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/01/zoltar%20in%20big.jpg

I used to go there too! Friday nite fireworks and the dragon coaster - and mighty mouse. Paddle boats on the lake.

princessbelle
07-05-2010, 10:32 AM
Waffle-House

DamonK
07-05-2010, 10:39 AM
A hot girl

WingsOnFire
07-05-2010, 10:41 AM
Another hot girl...

WingsOnFire
07-05-2010, 10:41 AM
Waffle-House

I LIKE WAFFLE HOUSE!!! YUMMMMYYYY!!!!! YEAH FOR WAFFLES...

Becca.. who is on a sugar high at the moment...

princessbelle
07-05-2010, 10:43 AM
I LIKE WAFFLE HOUSE!!! YUMMMMYYYY!!!!! YEAH FOR WAFFLES...

Becca.. who is on a sugar high at the moment...

Yeah for sugar highs!!!! :eatinghersheybar:

WingsOnFire
07-05-2010, 10:47 AM
Yeah for sugar highs!!!! :eatinghersheybar:

lol.. will come crashing down soon..

DamonK
07-05-2010, 10:47 AM
Driving....

princessbelle
07-05-2010, 10:48 AM
lol.. will come crashing down soon..

uh huh, but it is well worth it!!!! bouncing is fun!!!! :byebye:

WingsOnFire
07-05-2010, 10:49 AM
Hotels with jacuzzi tubs... and hot women..

WingsOnFire
07-05-2010, 10:50 AM
uh huh, but it is well worth it!!!! bouncing is fun!!!! :byebye:

The wonderful things about tiggers.. is tiggers a wonderful thing... their tops are made of rubber... their bottoms are made of springs... they bouncy bouncy bouncy bouncy fun fun fun fun fun... the wonderful thing about tiggers... is hes the only one...

oohhhhhhhhh... you didnt mean that kind of bouncing!!

:giggle: :giggle:

princessbelle
07-05-2010, 10:53 AM
The wonderful things about tiggers.. is tiggers a wonderful thing... their tops are made of rubber... their bottoms are made of springs... they bouncy bouncy bouncy bouncy fun fun fun fun fun... the wonderful thing about tiggers... is hes the only one...

oohhhhhhhhh... you didnt mean that kind of bouncing!!

:giggle: :giggle:

Actually....i did

*smiles

DamonK
07-05-2010, 11:00 AM
I don't believe either one of you

princessbelle
07-05-2010, 11:04 AM
I don't believe either one of you

It's a true story....

T is for Tigger and it is spelled: T I double G ER

DamonK
07-05-2010, 11:07 AM
It's a true story....

T is for Tigger and it is spelled: T I double G ER

LOL True it is

WingsOnFire
07-05-2010, 11:13 AM
I don't believe either one of you

ummmm maybe this is what we meant??? :trampoline::bedfuck::trampoline:

That would be more fun... atleast for me... :waiting girl:

DamonK
07-05-2010, 11:16 AM
Worship...

MissItalianDiva
07-05-2010, 12:06 PM
In the back of your mind thoughts.....

Daktari
07-05-2010, 12:14 PM
...what a doofus I can be *sigh*

Gemme
07-05-2010, 05:18 PM
Some folks can't handle their sugar.

*grin*

Ebon
07-05-2010, 05:23 PM
Some folks can't handle their sugar.

*grin*

Thanks for putting my business out in the streets!

ButchEire
07-05-2010, 05:24 PM
*taking notes* :D

Thanks for putting my business out in the streets!

Gemme
07-05-2010, 05:26 PM
*taking notes* :D

Gonna slip him a sugar Mickey? :blink:

AtLast
07-05-2010, 06:09 PM
Learning about South African apartheid from a woman born and raised there. A primary source of information so different than what I have to do as a US citizen living such a long time after black slavery here to learn about what individuals have experienced.

fiercegrrl
07-05-2010, 06:33 PM
The airconditioning has broken. This means there will be some nekkid swimming once dark hits!

Miss Scarlett
07-05-2010, 07:51 PM
Waffle-House

For a while ALL of the Waffle House locations here in Charlotte had really really low health inspection scores. In fact, the one closest to where I live was shut down by the Health Dept. for violations in 2007. According to the news story: "The Waffle House on South Blvd was closed by the health department after receiving a 59 on their sanitation grade. They recently received an 86, requested reinspection, and then received an 80. The followup to that one was the 59 that shut them down (anything below a 70 automatically closes the establishment). The health dept said it was the worst score they can remember in Charlotte. Infractions included poor employee hygiene, and live and dead roaches."

http://www.wsoctv.com/news/13797758/detail.html

Diners were allowed to finish their meals if they had already been served their food....

The restaurant was closed until about a year ago. Now it is so clean even the parking lot and exterior of the building looks freshly scrubbed.

Still, you could not pay me to eat there.

BoDy*ShOt
07-05-2010, 08:07 PM
spaghetti-o's...*heart* *heart* *heart*...and an adult weekend. ((:

hahahaha!

Strappie
07-05-2010, 08:16 PM
spaghetti-o's...*heart* *heart* *heart*...and an adult weekend. ((:

hahahaha!

Did that come with adult toys too?

BoDy*ShOt
07-05-2010, 08:18 PM
Did that come with adult toys too?

why yes...yes it did...royal blue and sparkley...jealous?! LOL

Gemme
07-05-2010, 08:35 PM
I usually have an ironclad stomach but when Lucy yacked on the rug next to my feet (while I was eating), I had to give myself a few minutes after it was cleaned up to locate my appetite again.

Sadly, I've become a weakling.

Soft*Silver
07-05-2010, 08:35 PM
I should not have let my medication run out

bonne-maman
07-05-2010, 08:42 PM
Spa is so annoying. Getting all toppy on me about my status and all.:whine:

She did grill the steaks without burning them though. No need for the :firetruck:

Spa
07-05-2010, 08:46 PM
Just keepin it real, Bonne.




ETA: Still kinda mad you didn't let me use your Fist the Cook apron.

bonne-maman
07-05-2010, 08:52 PM
Just keepin it real, Bonne.




ETA: Still kinda mad you didn't let me use your Fist the Cook apron.

I seem to remember you insisting on wearing the, "I love my daddy" apron.

Glenn
07-06-2010, 03:20 AM
Curly needs to stop bringing two foot long snakes in my room. That's the fourth one this week. Now I have to rescue another one, and take it back to the lagoon. :|

rockybcn
07-06-2010, 03:49 AM
I wish there was a BF community here in Barcelona. I would love to hang with like minded folks who enjoy going fishing,have a few beers and laugh til we cry! I miss that special camaraderie!

Miss Scarlett
07-06-2010, 04:19 AM
:coffee:It's way too early in the morning for this...

Alas, I did not get the 8 hours of sleep as ordered by my doctor last week. Only managed about 6 - tossed and turned most of the night. On the positive side I did get loads of sleep Fri, Sat and Sunday nights.

Kätzchen
07-06-2010, 05:04 AM
A lot...

I seem to be more sensitive as I have aged, among other things.

NJFemmie
07-06-2010, 06:19 AM
I'm considering pouring a bottle of cold spring water on my head and parking myself in front of a fan. This air conditioner guy better be here this morning.

NJFemmie
07-06-2010, 06:40 AM
People never HAVE to do anything. No one is ever owed anything. When someone does something positive or just nice for someone else, why is it so hard for some to at least acknowledge it? People tend to walk around as if the world owes them. It's no wonder half of humanity walks around bitter.

MsTinkerbelly
07-06-2010, 08:12 AM
We're done with moving!

Time to celebrate and start having guests....:tea:

Andrew, Jr.
07-06-2010, 10:37 AM
Linsay Lohan...she is out of control.
What are party peanuts?

Just_G
07-06-2010, 10:45 AM
Right now the only thing I have going through my mind is a boy's night with Cheech tonight :beerbros:...it's been MONTHS since we have done this and I really reaLLY need it! After having a few beers, I am hoping I will have mustered the courage to finally shave my head! Not bald, mind you....just short enough that I no longer want to pull it because of stress or anxiety due to my trichotillomania. Plus, the shorter hair that is growing back in will blend in instead of looking thin there. There IS a method to my madness...:clap:

Leigh
07-06-2010, 11:15 AM
I've been thinking alot about My transition lately, stressing over how to tell My family and friends that I'm becoming a guy soon and just wanting to get the ball rolling!

Strappie
07-06-2010, 05:50 PM
why yes...yes it did...royal blue and sparkley...jealous?! LOL

Well if it was blue and sparkley, that might scare me! I like neutral colors myself.. lol

~maybe a little jealous~

Strappie
07-06-2010, 05:53 PM
Right now the only thing I have going through my mind is a boy's night with Cheech tonight :beerbros:...it's been MONTHS since we have done this and I really reaLLY need it! After having a few beers, I am hoping I will have mustered the courage to finally shave my head! Not bald, mind you....just short enough that I no longer want to pull it because of stress or anxiety due to my trichotillomania. Plus, the shorter hair that is growing back in will blend in instead of looking thin there. There IS a method to my madness...:clap:

Hand me that electric razor and I'll cut it off for you!

After all thats what friends are for, right?

Strappie
07-06-2010, 07:08 PM
Some folks can't handle their sugar.

*grin*

Pour some sugar on me!!

Corkey
07-06-2010, 07:26 PM
My wife is on my mind.

bigbutchmistie
07-06-2010, 07:30 PM
Taking "Nadia" Home snicker

tckkfthuKyI

Its not fair Bette had all the fun LOL

BoDy*ShOt
07-06-2010, 08:04 PM
what is on my mind?....reunion logistics :)

MaggieBluIze
07-06-2010, 08:08 PM
what is on my mind?....reunion logistics :)

Yay!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! :)

Strappie
07-06-2010, 08:30 PM
I just stubbed my toe..... Damn that smarts!!

Blade
07-06-2010, 08:32 PM
Yawningggggggggggggg. Hmmmmmmmmmm bed finally. Long long long long day.

Soft*Silver
07-06-2010, 10:13 PM
my MRI on my brain came back normal. I am relieved. No tumour. Now we can start looking for another reason why my memory is slipping...

AtLast
07-06-2010, 11:33 PM
Thinking I need to just take a mini-road trip. Anywhere quiet and calm.... camping type trip. Now, I better start riding my old cat around in my RV. He has to go with me because he has to have sub-q fluids every other day. Gotta figure out how to do this. Can't leave him home...

LOL... my little Frog Dog and the cat, camping!!!

Just_G
07-06-2010, 11:48 PM
What a great boy's night out with Cheech tonight....and after a few brews, I managed to give myself the best haircut I have had in a while!!

Glad things ended on a good note tonight...I needed that!

Gemme
07-07-2010, 02:35 AM
A talk earlier today that alleviated some concerns I'd begun to have about something.

Ebon
07-07-2010, 03:04 AM
I don't think I will ever use anything else as therapy besides music. I can deal with myself as long as there is music there to help me learn the lesson that the Universe is trying to teach me.

WingsOnFire
07-07-2010, 03:11 AM
When my elderly dog Ladybug will get over her skin infection and completely regrow her hair.. she is pulling it out fast as it can grow in... 3 months of iodine/coal tar baths have wore me out.. But I will never stop trying to make her more comfortable... even when I am allergic to iodine:blink: .. (thank you Daddy for doing those baths!

Ebon
07-07-2010, 03:45 AM
That there are some people that take life waaaaayyyy too seriously. I've found quite a few on here. But I still love ya!! Forgive me if I don't have the tact. lol

WolfyOne
07-08-2010, 12:24 PM
I opened a small shrimp ring for lunch and didn't stop until it was gone
I left nothing for anyone else even though I thought about sharing,
but it didn't get past the thought
Some things are just way too good for sharing

Jet
07-08-2010, 01:47 PM
I left my lettuce and pineapple in the sack at the store this morning.
I'm pissed.

PinkieLee
07-08-2010, 02:27 PM
Great, I am now craving shrimp ~ thanks to Wolfy
and Pineapple ~ thanks to Jet.

theoddz
07-08-2010, 02:56 PM
Getting the big frog house cleaned today. Myra and Ivan are both doing some serious hating on me, as they sit in the dreaded little critter keeper, waiting for me to finish and take them home. Myra wee'd on me and Ivan, well, Ivan's taking it all in stride and enjoying the time he's been able to spend in my warm hand. He's a character!!! :winky::frog::frog::heartbeat:

Next are the errands before the long work weekend. :|

~Theo~ :bouquet: