What is on your mind

[akiza]

where is gone my singlehood wish for 2018? sigh ok a little bit freaking out here

[Kenna]

Insulation
Drywall
Plumbing
Power (solar components)
Propane or wood stove
Floor plan (pick favorite)
Feature wall with live edge wood and hidden storage
Ceiling fans
Do I splurge on my claw foot tub?

[Gemme]

Do I splurge on my claw foot tub?

Yes, absolutely.

Love them!

[JDeere]

To go to the clinic tomorrow for my infected toe or ride it out till Monday to see if it gets better.

[easygoingfemme]

It's a kind of weird snow day at work. It snowed heavy all night. I got up early to shovel and jumped in during a small lull in the storm to drive to work. Bare bones staff are here. Building residents are being super chill. I'm playing Grateful Dead a little louder than usual in my office and there's talk of a pizza party for the staff who did come in. My work husband is getting me a gluten free pizza. I can totally take this type of snow day.

[JDeere]

What shirt to wear tonight. Long sleeve or short sleeve?

[AmazonDC]

My brothers gender revile...My future and what I want... so many things too many to list

[Kenna]

All I've got to get done in the next couple months.

[girl_dee]

that when something is right and you want it, you have to “throw everything at it”. That’s where my mind is.

[Ender]

Pride week is next week at my University, and I just read a poster that said Ivan Coyote is going to be speaking at my University! I would go, but I have a show to help produce during that time. :(

[RockOn]

Gavin is on my mind. He is the Rottweiler I rescued from the highway about a month ago. The vet told me Gavin did not have a mean bone in his body. He also said I hope he will not hop your fence and leave.

Gavin ate a big dinner tonight. Then over the fence he went. Gone. Some dogs cannot be fenced in.

I gave him my very best. My heart is broken. I don't know, maybe I should think about rescuing those little fi fi type pooches

[RockOn]

I have been riding the roads looking for Gavin with no luck. I had to fill out a late slip this morning at work.

I hope so much he is okay. Wish he could have been able to complete his heartworm treatments and stayed at least long enough to have eye surgery. His eyelids turn under, cause his eyelashes to scratch his eyes.

Gavin has been someone's dog for about 9 years. Not only did they beat him but they did not meet any of his medical needs either.

Gavin rubbed off his collar and rabies tag on a stump. I found it a little ways down the driveway. The boy does not like fences and collars.

Safe passage to you Gavin!! I will not forget you. Should you return, there will always be a place for you with us.

[TL1]

My wisdom teeth need to come out. The space for them has always been tight and caused problems. Them coming out isn’t a big deal but I’m really aggravated that they will only do one at a time. 1st is this week but that’s 4 separate visits. I would go somewhere else but this place is good and seems to cost a little less. Dental work can be expensive when it’s all out of pocket. I tried to talk them into 2 at a time but it was a no go. That should be up to me and not them, my mouth, my pain.

[JDeere]

Alot of things i cant control or are out of my hands at this time.

[Medusa]

On my mind - I am SO not ready for work tomorrow but this week will conclude some shit that's been on my mind for way too long.

So mote it be!

[~ocean]

18"+ of snow ~ :praying: winter please go away ~

[Bèsame*]

Don't underestimate me.

I know more than I say, think more than I speak & notice more than you realise.

[JDeere]

Knowing that im not included in funeral arrangements for my birth mother when she passes.

[Gemme]

18"+ of snow ~ :praying: winter please go away ~

Word.

I am not excited about the next 24-25 hours and the aftermath, especially since I have to go and work out in the stuff.

Boo snow!

[akiza]

i don't know what to do

[easygoingfemme]

Our estimated snowfall has declined to 2- 5 inches. Yay. That will make the day a lot easier. However, I hope it's enough that the board meeting I'm supposed to be at tonight gets cancelled.

[RockOn]

I am wondering if others feel this way. It is like I have "F*CK WITH ME" written across my forehead.

I got a brake job done yesterday. Dropped it off at 8:30. The manager did my paperwork. I asked him the price of an oil change too. He said $59.00. I laughed and told him that was ridiculous and to add 2 or 3 quarts today. New pads and rotor resurfacing for both front were on special, $60.00 off for $129.99 ... it was the same for both rear ones too. I told him to call me as soon as it was inspected and tell me what it needed and give me the price. He did not call. I called at 11:30, he was not there but the mechanic who was mumbling and not much audible said they could go on and start then ... it would be ready at 1:30. Since I could not hear him much, I said,"so it is only the front ones and it will be $129.99 plus the oil, right?" He said, "yea." I called at 1:30 before I told my ride to take me. I asked the total charge and it was $448.00. They replaced both front rotors with new ones. I started laughing and asked for the manager. He was not available. On the ride over there, the manager called. I told him he needed to adjust the price before I got there and bring it down to $129.99 and 2 or 3 quarts of oil because that is the quote the mechanic agreed with me on at 11:30. He said the rotors could not be turned because they were too far gone. I said that was his problem since he never found time to call and tell me ... and that his mechanic told me $129.99 at 11:30 before he started the work. When I walked in, I ensured all the customers were aware of this conflict. This manager even tried to pull a fast one about the oil. He said it was store policy not to add oil but to do an oil change. I told him he had this same knowledge this morning when I asked him to add 2 or 3 quarts ... and that I would not pay for the oil change either. He adjusted the total down to $144.11 and asked if it was acceptable to me. I said it was fine. Also informed him if I had heard from him and he had told me the rotors needed replacing with new ones and quoted me the $448.00 before the work started, I would have gladly paid for them but I did not play little boy games.

I do not enjoy having to act this way one bit but sometimes it is necessary to rise to the occasion. :(

[girl_dee]

Going to work ,and i just don’t feel like it. My mind is elsewhere :awww:

[Orema]

Work. There’s a project I’ve been delaying for a few weeks, but I need to tackle it today or at least start on it. Part of my job is keeping my manager smiling and she won’t be a happy camper if I keep kicking this to the bottom of my to-do list.

Work life could be worse.

:bow:

[kittygrrl]

coffee, music, garden ..i do my best thinking inSJpWgLakkXIthe dark

[nanners]

How happy I am!
I played hooky today from work and have had a lazy morning, now its time to kick into high gear and get some stuff done!

[LOQUI]

...If I tell you, can you keep the secret?
:curtain:

[Chained Daisy]

My car and my stupidity are on my mind. I am in the habit of leaving my front door unlocked, safe neighbourhood syndrome maybe. So today a new delivery driver called, I was upstairs and he opened the door and left a parcel in the porch, I came straight down and as I walked through the house I could see him sitting in his van eyeing my car and the house up closely for quite a while. I picked up my parcel and locked my door, still he sat and watched. My keys are kept not far from the door in a dish, keys to the house and car, convenient for any would be burglar or car thief. My door will be locked from now on and the keys have been relocated.

[kittygrrl]

Steven Hawking passed today...without his illuminated mind, the world feels dimmer

[Kenna]

Acknowledgement...it may be a silent exchange, but worthy to take the time to Acknowledge someone's journey and efforts.

[Medusa]

On my mind - Tomorrow morning. Important appointment. WOOT.

[JDeere]

How many people i have to meet today. Im nervous about being asked a ton of questions. However i got told by a few that i look like mom and have her mannerisms.

[candy_coated_bitch]

The multiple blessings I received today.

[Gemme]

That I should NEVER go back to Staples. I like office supplies. It's not a fetish like some but they are fine. What gets me is that I can find crafty stuff in their clearance sections. They even have calendars on sale for 2 bucks each now so I had to get the Paris one that's all black and white. Those pictures will make AMAZING backgrounds for mixed media projects.

[RockOn]

I love finding the little gadget sale bins at Lowes and Home Depot. I recently found some tiny Gorilla brand acrylic hinges. A perfect use for them will suddenly arise in the future. :)

[JDeere]

Wondering if there will be any delays for my flight back to Texas. And getting a copy of moms death certificate so i can travel with some of her ashes.

[Kenna]

Getting estimates for my truck tomorrow and making sure they do it right. I found visible damage that the Toyota dealer didn't notice or add to the estimate.

[VintageFemme]

Sorry I'm late for work.

I was leaving my apartment and then I sat down.

[Orema]

– work
– vacation
– her

[Gemme]

That I have to play the lottery to win the lottery.

:blink:

[akiza]

kami the administration here is sooo slow -_-

[cathexis]

What in the world did I do to get a ZIT on the tip of my nose?

[homoe]

What in the world did I do to get a ZIT on the tip of my nose?




Sometimes nothing at all. ZITS have a mind all of their own and show up when and where we least expect or want them!

[Orema]

The bombings in Austin, TX

[clay]

Agree with you, Orema.

The world is spinning off its axis....:(

[Gayandgray]

My stepdaughter. We are trying yet AGAIN to convince her to go into treatment for her drug and alcohol addiction. I’m trying my best to be patient and understanding, sympathetic, etc. However, I also have a ton of other stuff going on and don’t really need this drama right now. I keep telling my spouse if her daughter doesn’t WANT to get her life together then there is no point in begging and pleading with her. We’ve had intervention after intervention and I’m wore out.

[Signmypapyrus]

Most of my activism is with disability and so mental health after the shootings, but today a young woman expressed her own rage and pain about her disability and toward other people (ie why can’t she save the world?). She’s on my mind right now. I’m worried about her.

[Kenna]

Getting estimates for my truck tomorrow and making sure they do it right. I found visible damage that the Toyota dealer didn't notice or add to the estimate.

Really pissed at this particular Toyota Collision Center and their refusal to fix my estimate to represent the additional damage or even bother to quote what a whole new bumper/labor to replace it would cost. They lost my business when they tried to push me into making an appointment to leave it there but said they couldn't give me an estimate.

[Kenna]

I should have bought that snow blower.

[Bèsame*]

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[Gayandgray]

My spouse’s oldest daughter that we found out has liver cancer. My poor spouse who is devastated. She already has enough on her plate being disabled like she is, then having to deal with her daughter here with her addictions, and now the oldest has cancer. Life just really sucks sometimes.....

[JDeere]

Deciding whether or not to go out tonight.

[Bèsame*]

Its a good day to be present. not the future, nor the past. It's all about now.

And about now, I'm tending to that stupid packing tape thing. I'm tangled and so far, cut myself once.

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[CherryWine]

Mostly the ebb and flow of life. I’m feeling rather introspective today thanks to a good heart-to-heart with a dear friend last night. We both seem to be at a place where we need to take a look in the mirror and then give ourselves a good kick in the ass.

I’m going to leave this here for anyone else who might need it....

“We have so little faith in the ebb and flow of life, of love, of relationships. We leap at the flow of the tide and resist in terror its ebb. We are afraid that it will never return.

We insist on permanency, on duration, on continuity; when the only continuity possible, in life as in love, is in growth, in fluidity…

Intermittency—an impossible lesson for human beings to learn…

Perhaps this is the most important thing: simply the memory that each cycle of the tide is valid; each cycle of the wave is valid….

One must accept the security of ebb and flow, of intermittency.”

- Anne Morrow Lindbergh

[JDeere]

That the druggies are back at it again, stealing copper off ac units and stealing complete pool filter systems right out of backyards.

[Kobi]

The loss of the local entrepreneur is on my mind these days.

I went to have my car serviced today. The "local" dealer is part of a regional conglomerate which translates into better deals on new vehicles but negatively affects service. I rarely see the same service advisor twice. The turn over both in service and sales is about 95% every 6 months.

They now have centralized scheduling for appointments ( a call center by any other name is still a call center). This is fine if you just want an oil change or need an inspection sticker. If you are having a problem, it is a different story.

And, based on todays visit, I am gathering they are running out of service advisors who actually know something about cars. A service advisor should know more than me about cars. Todays order taker was pleasant but clueless. The service manager, who also does not look familiar, resorted to mansplaining my car to me. It didn't turn out well. LOL.

I learned my dentist sold his practice to a conglomerate out of the midwest. Not sure how this works. He is still my dentist. The practice name didnt change but I expect the overall financing did. This would explain why I cannot get a refund for being wrongly charged for something.

I keep changing veterinarians because they keep being bought out and now like to order unnecessary tests and xrays, per the protocol, just to boost the bottom line aka the vet cannot exercise their own judgement based on their own experience.

I am really not liking this.

I like developing working relationships with the folks I use for things. I like seeing familiar faces, hearing familiar voices, and feeling confident in the professionals I use.

[Gemme]

Two of my customers are on my mind tonight. One just lost her mother and is trying to find a way to live her life without her best friend and the other is homeless, living in his truck, but refuses to do anything to help himself.

[JDeere]

That im sick of being single. I would really like to.start dating again.

[Bèsame*]

I can't find the can opener. I have a can of tuna, and because I can't open it, I really want it!

[kittygrrl]

on my mind..watercolor washes, cookies, wine

[Ender]

Between this site and another LGBT+ forum I frequent, I think I like this place more because there's a lot more people who have had more life experience, and I love seeing/having that.
Y'all are the best.

[Kenna]

I can't find the can opener. I have a can of tuna, and because I can't open it, I really want it!

That sounds like the time my son and I wanted to cook a chicken for dinner but didn't have a pot or silverware of any kind in our new apartment.
*sending Besame a P-38 survival can opener and a box of tuna packets*

[Bèsame*]

That sounds like the time my son and I wanted to cook a chicken for dinner but didn't have a pot or silverware of any kind in our new apartment.
*sending Besame a P-38 survival can opener and a box of tuna packets*

Thank you soooooo much!
I was determined to find that opener, and success was made this morning. However, funny you should mention a pot and Silverware. Right now, I have a deluxe set, compliments of Wendy's!
And I have a friend who is bringing pot. (Yes, our conversational exchanges have sounded like a drug deal..lol)

Lunch will be tuna!!

[Wrang1er]

Besame...You could have scrapped the top of the can against cement until you wore down the edges. I saw it on YouTube. :)

[Blade]

My right knee started bothering me Monday and each day it hurts worse and seems weaker. I guess next week I will have to go to the Dr and have it checked out. Lord I hope it isn't anything serious. I'm finally getting ahead financially. Until I started having these stomach issues. I've racked up a lot of medical bills with this and don't need to be out of work with anything like knee surgery or anything like that. So that is what's on my mind.

[Gayandgray]

Way too much right now! Thinking about my spouse’s daughter and how hard this is going to get. My stepson and I are trying to plan ahead because you never know. We have to see if the doctor will even say it’s ok for her to fly, because she is in such poor health, we have to board all three dogs.... Then we have the never ending drama with the grandkids and their addictions. They don’t have custody of their babies, of course, so when my spouse wants to see her great grandkids we have to arrange it with their other grandmothers who have custody. A friend suggested I try going to Al Anon meetings ( not sure how to spell) and I’m going to look more into this. The stress is just too much. The other day when we got the news about her granddaughter my spouse nearly lost it. I had to pick her up off the floor because she fell down crying and screaming. These kids don’t realize how bad their drug/alcohol addictions are tearing the families apart.

[Gemme]

Besame...You could have scrapped the top of the can against cement until you wore down the edges. I saw it on YouTube. :)

Or stabbed the top with a sharp knife a few times.

Depends on how much time you want to invest and how much danger you feel is acceptable.

[homoe]

I can't find the can opener. I have a can of tuna, and because I can't open it, I really want it!

OMG what an EXCELLENT opportunity to meet a new neighbor!

[Sweet as Cake]

The thing that's been on my mind all day is the fact that - I spent the entire day yesterday with a friend ( that I haven't known long), and she was constantly looking at her phone !!!
( Facebook, messages, etc., I guess ?). I am getting really tired of everyone doing that these days !!! When I am with someone, I give them my undivided attention, look them in the eyes, hang on every word, and enjoy good conversation !!! ( the way it should be !!:o ). Sure, I love my phone, iPad, etc., but they are for private time !! I treasure actual "personal" interactions with people !

Does anyone out there feel the same way ??!!
:byebye:

[JDeere]

The thing that's been on my mind all day is the fact that - I spent the entire day yesterday with a friend ( that I haven't known long), and she was constantly looking at her phone !!!
( Facebook, messages, etc., I guess ?). I am getting really tired of everyone doing that these days !!! When I am with someone, I give them my undivided attention, look them in the eyes, hang on every word, and enjoy good conversation !!! ( the way it should be !!:o ). Sure, I love my phone, iPad, etc., but they are for private time !! I treasure actual "personal" interactions with people !

Does anyone out there feel the same way ??!!
:byebye:

Nope im used to it now because people wont change what they do when it comes to phones, etc.

[JDeere]

Way too much right now! Thinking about my spouse’s daughter and how hard this is going to get. My stepson and I are trying to plan ahead because you never know. We have to see if the doctor will even say it’s ok for her to fly, because she is in such poor health, we have to board all three dogs.... Then we have the never ending drama with the grandkids and their addictions. They don’t have custody of their babies, of course, so when my spouse wants to see her great grandkids we have to arrange it with their other grandmothers who have custody. A friend suggested I try going to Al Anon meetings ( not sure how to spell) and I’m going to look more into this. The stress is just too much. The other day when we got the news about her granddaughter my spouse nearly lost it. I had to pick her up off the floor because she fell down crying and screaming. These kids don’t realize how bad their drug/alcohol addictions are tearing the families apart.

I understand the frustration and pain but an addict wont change until they are truly ready. My suggestion as ive been on both sides, cut off said children till they get help. Go to as many al anon meetings you can and seek therapy. Good luck.

[CherryWine]

OMG what an EXCELLENT opportunity to meet a new neighbor!

Obviously you are not an introvert. I'd probably stab a few fingers off using Gemme's method first before this thought ever crossed my mind...lol.

[Gayandgray]

The thing that's been on my mind all day is the fact that - I spent the entire day yesterday with a friend ( that I haven't known long), and she was constantly looking at her phone !!!
( Facebook, messages, etc., I guess ?). I am getting really tired of everyone doing that these days !!! When I am with someone, I give them my undivided attention, look them in the eyes, hang on every word, and enjoy good conversation !!! ( the way it should be !!:o ). Sure, I love my phone, iPad, etc., but they are for private time !! I treasure actual "personal" interactions with people !

Does anyone out there feel the same way ??!!
:byebye:


I’m with you! Especially when it’s a friend I don’t get to see too often and they pay more attention to their phone than to me. I feel like why did I even bother to get together?

[TL1]

Getting a blood sugar monitor. I’m not diabetic but have times where they say I am pre-diabetic then times they say I’m not. Feeling more health conscious these days and have a desire to improve and keep tabs on what is going on with my body. No major health issues happening and I’d like to keep it that way.

But from what I’ve read those monitors can be pretty off on the numbers so I’m still researching which one is best.

[JDeere]

Being drug to good friday church services. Im only going so i can get food afterwards.

[Gayandgray]

Being drug to good friday church services. Im only going so i can get food afterwards.

Maybe they will have a ham and scalloped potatoes??? I wouldn’t mind some of that.

[Gemme]

Obviously you are not an introvert. I'd probably stab a few fingers off using Gemme's method first before this thought ever crossed my mind...lol.

Maybe an ice pick instead of a knife? Less chance of cutting. Higher chance of stabbing though.

:thinking:

[JDeere]

Maybe they will have a ham and scalloped potatoes??? I wouldn’t mind some of that.

Idk what will be for dinner. All i know is i really dont want to go to church

[uglyboi]

When I stop singing I have to immediately load the dishwasher then start break dancing.

[SnackTime]

All the things that need to be done in the next 8 days

[girl_dee]

getting through the next 7 work days.

[JDeere]

How to get back into working while my health is still questionable

Trying to get through this month with all the doctors appointments i have

[girl_dee]

My brother is on my mind. Today is his birthday. It's always a sad day for me. He is 56 today. i suppose i am sad because i know he is out there, not cerebrating his birth or existence, when it should be celebrated.

Another year of not knowing where or how he is, and another year of him not having his family who loves me anywhere near him.

i also wonder if my mom even thinks about him.

[Kenna]

Going solar powered....

[clay]

I am starting to empower myself. I am cutting toxicity out of my life. I have always been kind, turn the other cheek, and such. NO MORE! That is often mistaken as "do what you wish to me"

This is in my personal life, and nothing here on this planet!

[Gemme]

My work schedule for the day.

[Bèsame*]

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[Orema]

Playing in the sun; I wanna go buy a swim suit and some sunglasses.

We just had a team meeting at the local Panera and we sat outside.

I'm back at work and want to go back out and play.

I know ... I need to sit here, do my work, and be grateful I have a job that I like.

Still ... playing in the sun and having fun is what's on my mind.

:poc-cool:

[cathexis]

Sex...sex...sex...great rough sex!

Partner has Lesbian Bed Death, but I don't....this is very miserable!

A third is needed in our relationship. We have agreed to go poly., but
in this small town in the middle of nowhere in a place where I haven't seen
anyone suitable for a third.

We will move to Albany in the next year.:cigar2:

[JDeere]

Hoping that my doc gives me a different anxiety medication

[Gayandgray]

Going back to work tomorrow. I’ve been off for five days but they have been stressful as hell and I feel like I need another five days to recuperate!!:seeingstars:

[JDeere]

One more year without her at crawfish boil.

[Bèsame*]

On my mind...I'm wondering if an exchange has been made if baby blues were mentioned???

😉

[JDeere]

Trying to move on....

[Bèsame*]

There is a local band I really want to see. I'm thinking this is where I find my courage and go by myself. It's about 45 min away, to a place I've never been.
The thoughts of who will know if i got home safe run wild thru my mind.
On the other hand, i can say when was the last time i did something for the first time?


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[Kenna]

There is a local band I really want to see. I'm thinking this is where I find my courage and go by myself. It's about 45 min away, to a place I've never been.
The thoughts of who will know if i got home safe run wild thru my mind.
On the other hand, i can say when was the last time i did something for the first time?


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It was soooooo worth it when I got up the courage recently to do something I've wanted to do for the last 8 year's (go to Hot Springs by myself for the first time and to Emerald Village to go camping by myself). It was actually empowering to step out of my box.
Make sure you and a person or persons of your choice download the Life360 app. It helped me tremendously on my recent travels. (And helped recover my stolen phone)

Go have FUN! :cherry: :cherry:
I've never been to a concert or to see a band.

[Kätzchen]

A lot ..... my mom, my boy's, life, how to stay cool this summer (I got to find an energy efficient fan, so I can keep my power bill low like during the winter months).

Shopping therapy. :eyebat:

[Bèsame*]

There is a local band I really want to see. I'm thinking this is where I find my courage and go by myself. It's about 45 min away, to a place I've never been.
The thoughts of who will know if i got home safe run wild thru my mind.
On the other hand, i can say when was the last time i did something for the first time?


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Well, I said, self....
Your going to do this! It's now a addition to my bucket list.

I've narrowed down a couple of cute outfits. Of which are smaller sizes.
I've mapped out a travel plan.

Is it Friday yet?

[candy_coated_bitch]

My play date Friday. Wheels are turning...

[FireSignFemme]

Thinking about Summer and the things I want to get done before the heat full force hits us.

[Kenna]

I miss my furbabies. I hate having to board them til Monday. I know my WooBear is all outa sorts with just his Minion pillow to curl up to. Breaks my heart.

[JDeere]

Well, I said, self....
Your going to do this! It's now a addition to my bucket list.

I've narrowed down a couple of cute outfits. Of which are smaller sizes.
I've mapped out a travel plan.

Is it Friday yet?

Lucky you. Ive been wanting to see randy rogers for some time now. Where did this performance take place at? And did you have fun?

[JDeere]

On my mind, currently, that i.scored 3 tickets to see Miranda Lambert with Little Big Town in August!

Happy Birthday to me!

[Chad]

What the future holds.

I will make it fun and happy. I will decide my own future. I just need to make a plan for the next 5 years.

[firecat242]

on my mind....did we ever get the answer to who let the dogs out?

[firecat242]

Here is one for ya....why is it that we all seem to be looking for the same qualities in a person/mate but we can never seem to find each other????:seeingstars:

[Signmypapyrus]

Here is one for ya....why is it that we all seem to be looking for the same qualities in a person/mate but we can never seem to find each other????:seeingstars:

That’s an interesting one!

My mom is really sick, and long story, has been sick for a while. I’m on call in case I need to go be with her. So that’s on my mind right now.

[Kenna]

Ya know... :jester:
I think my lopsided brain has a mini Carpenter's Level built in (if you really know me, you'd be nodding agreement) somewhere between both ears and a little to the left...as this catty-wompus damn camper is about to drive me nutts. And my sister says "why do you need to bring your tent tomorrow? There's plenty of space to sleep here." :jester:

[akiza]

i'll just be online most of the day it'll stop me from walking to the doors in my head who have too much spiders i hate to think of their existance

[Chained Daisy]

Here is one for ya....why is it that we all seem to be looking for the same qualities in a person/mate but we can never seem to find each other????:seeingstars:

Or you find someone who loudly proclaims all of said qualities and pretty soon you discover most are sadly lacking :|

[Kobi]

The eaglette at Berry College who had not yet fledged got knocked off the branch and out of the tree during the night by an owl.

Dont know where it is. Dont know if it is hurt. Cannot hear it on the cams.

Hope they at least get a glimpse of him before graduation starts today.

Found him. Still in nest tree below nest. Flapping up a storm.

[Mel C.]

On my mind is how excited I am to be living in sin with her soon.

[girl_dee]

On my mind is how excited I am to be living in sin with her soon.

SwoooooOoooOooooOon... you sweet talker.......... :awww:

[firecat242]

This is on my mind: the fact that May is National Masturbation Month.

Please discuss amongst ya'selves.....

[homoe]

This is on my mind: the fact that May is National Masturbation Month.

Please discuss amongst ya'selves.....

....:giggle:.............

[Dominique]

The shack across the street (in the back right by my driveway) seems to like having weeds and vines growing all over it. This has been going on for a few years now. The vines wrapped around utility lines and slowly were creeping in my direction.

High winds and heavy rain the past two days have now brought the vines down and right near my driveway. They look like TARZAN swings. :seeingstars: Naturally the shack that was cultivating these things, is not over here cleaning them up!!

So out I go with my pruning shears, (with every intention of dragging the TARZAN swings over to the shacks' property) and the utility lines are intertwined. I am not touching that:byebye:

[JDeere]

A plethora of items.... Too many to post.

[Orema]

I think I just felt an earthquake ... if so, I'm hoping there's not much damage.

[Gemme]

A smorgasbord of goodies and logicals.

[Kätzchen]

Today I'm crossing items off my shopping therapy list. I'm making ATC's and I'm also going to make pretty drapes to put up over my west and east windows of the house.... so I can keep the house cool during very warm days.

[FireSignFemme]

Trump withdrawing us from Iran Nuclear Deal.

[Bèsame*]

https://i.pinimg.com/736x/1e/18/e6/1e18e663cb1183a20babfa25a80832c0--funny-sayings-funny-memes.jpg

[girl_dee]

i just watched this, and i found it extremely interesting!

https://www.hulu.com/never-ending-orgasm

[knight]

I am out of pickles

[Reach *BANNED*]

They activated the Amber Alert last overnight. My heart hurts for that little girl and I hope they find her before it is too late.

[Gemme]

I am out of pickles


Blasphemy!!!

[Bèsame*]

I am out of pickles

https://i.pinimg.com/originals/29/86/e3/2986e3d4cafebf9bc446151025432b50.jpg

[homoe]

https://encrypted-tbn0.gstatic.com/images?q=tbn:ANd9GcTY59-Xt34rMWpB15SA1IsUAR20aTB3pTtcytifvLQ77p8t__5Krw


OR maybe these?

[Kenna]

Adapt, Improvise, Overcome.

[knight]

Blasphemy!!!

I know, I am like a deer in headlights right now!

[knight]

https://i.pinimg.com/originals/29/86/e3/2986e3d4cafebf9bc446151025432b50.jpg

lol exactly like that

[homoe]

https://encrypted-tbn0.gstatic.com/images?q=tbn:ANd9GcSHFHlKkKibg2Rha2ZDmnCfMm9lWGgAT iHgU7xhvy3XTTqvbEQDwA

[Gemme]

I know, I am like a deer in headlights right now!

Whatever did you do?

[homoe]

https://encrypted-tbn0.gstatic.com/images?q=tbn:ANd9GcTJb3v6M6e5ZR_zLYgHlvlCpufWpMvYq 2CAN2f75YLouw0TlmGc

[LOQUI]

...a step back doesn't always means defeat, at times, it will be a gain... :praying:

[Reach *BANNED*]

An update: They found the mother and little girl. Both were ok. Apparently there is a custody battle going on that caused the mother to take her daughter.

Just a good breath of relief that they were both fine.



They activated the Amber Alert last overnight. My heart hurts for that little girl and I hope they find her before it is too late.

[JDeere]

This 2 day headache can go away any time now.

[Canela]

Just replaying the Lovely Day I spent with my mama. I love her.

[Chad]

They are all sweet until they move in. Then you wake up to Dr. Jeckel and Mr. Hide.

Just from experience.

[clay]

They are all sweet until they move in. Then you wake up to Dr. Jeckel and Mr. Hide.

Just from experience.

Chaqueso....so sorry you experienced that buddy, but.....my own experience has been that
..........not all are Dr Jekyll & Mr. Hyde.....and usually soured relationships can be attributed to both parties, right my friend?:praying::|

[Chad]

Chaqueso....so sorry you experienced that buddy, but.....my own experience has been that
..........not all are Dr Jekyll & Mr. Hyde.....and usually soured relationships can be attributed to both parties, right my friend?:praying::|


Thanks buddy,

I am not perfect but what you see is what you get. I don't hide anything.

Chad

[knight]

Whatever a responsible person would do... I went to the store..Whatever did you do?

[knight]

ahh.. beautiful stunning spring, floods, mudslides and yes fires!

[FireSignFemme]

My son's step grandmother. When my A/C went out she loaned me a fan. When she was recovering from hip surgery I loaned her my walker. I accidentally broke the fan. She kept the walker, transaction almost complete. Today, buried in the back room, I found the basket that goes with it – mission accomplished. She's really good to my sons, and though the years has been kind to me. It's difficult seeing her struggle, watching her health deteriorate. I hope when I die, rather than the process just dragging on and on it happens quick and sudden and I die instantly in my sleep.

[Bèsame*]

All things Wedding, this week. It's count down. I know, it's a girl thing.

I'm thinking my English accident, (giggling) just might come out sometimes. I just won't get my knickers in a bunch! s
http://3.bp.blogspot.com/-3xshAqpGQjk/UUHz-Hl6-EI/AAAAAAAAHTg/dZqc_oOU27E/s1600/IMG_0425.JPG

[girl_dee]

My pup dixi is on my mind. She has been with me for a few moves, and has been a champ. Now i am making the BIG move, without her. It's been since September and i still miss her every.single.day.

[girl_dee]

What is on my mind now is how as soon as i made the below post about my Dixi, i checked my mail.

There is a card addressed to Dixi, from the vet saying its time for her shots. They know she passed away, so i’m taking this as a sign that she is thinking of me too.

[Medusa]

Sex. I’m ready for JD to get home. 😬

[Reach *BANNED*]

People and their sense of entitlement. Not a good look for anyone. There are times I wish I could buy a lot of humble pie and pass it around.

[VintageFemme]

Vacation. Florida in 27 days and I can't wait! I'm going to see friends I grew up with and haven't seen in over forty years. Everyone should do this in their old age; it's very exciting. {and a little frightening!}

[girl_dee]

SIX more sleeps!!!

:drool::cheer::cheerleader::cheesy:

[clay]

And another......a breaking story....:praying:

[Chad]

And another......a breaking story....:praying:

It looks bad, I am checking on friends and colleagues in that area.

[charley]

And another......a breaking story....:praying:

terrible news, watching now, heart is heavy for the loss of precious life

[Kätzchen]

My two sons, I'm always worried about their safety in today's racially charged society. The racial prejudice in our country is sickening and heart breaking.

[girl_dee]

the more i look at Harry the more i wonder who his real father is.

[JDeere]

Being sick for the last 3 days.

[Reach *BANNED*]

How many lives have to be taken before something changes? Is our country REALLY that blind? I believe it is. Or it is that they just see what they want and let the lobbyists run the show. At the expense yet again of young lives.

[Bèsame*]

https://i.pinimg.com/736x/2f/c4/c8/2fc4c8a8148fdd70d0fd2b01d367586d--saturday-morning-quotes-weekend-quotes.jpg

[Gemme]

How many lives have to be taken before something changes? Is our country REALLY that blind? I believe it is. Or it is that they just see what they want and let the lobbyists run the show. At the expense yet again of young lives.

If they started shooting up congressional meetings and sessions, it would be a different story. You would get whiplash from how fast they pushed legislation through.

[Kobi]

If they started shooting up congressional meetings and sessions, it would be a different story. You would get whiplash from how fast they pushed legislation through.


Tried that already. James Hodgkinson shot up with GOP baseball team last year.

Teenage boys with grudges against their classmates dont aim for politicians.

[JDeere]

This troublemaker puppy in the house!

[Chad]

The ladies are on my mind. I am from the south and we are very polite here. I am very polite. I wonder if it is possible for an old guy like me to meet a OFOS lady in Texas.

[JDeere]

The ladies are on my mind. I am from the south and we are very polite here. I am very polite. I wonder if it is possible for an old guy like me to meet a OFOS lady in Texas.

Good luck, they are there but its few and far between, maybe join online groups for ofos folks in Texas.

[Chad]

Good luck, they are there but its few and far between, maybe join online groups for ofos folks in Texas.

Hey buddy, that is good advice. I would have never thought of that. Thank you

[JDeere]

No problem, if you have Facebook I know they have tons of different bf groups!

[Bèsame*]

Beauty and the Beast. Didn't we all look past the beast, to his kindness?

Beauty is in the eye of the beholder.

[Buckaroo]

ive packed and loaded my jeep. I leave early tomorrow morning for texas. Its gonna be a long drive but ive got good tunes and my 2 little furbabies to keep me company. Hopefully will get to do some storm chasing along the way. NO hail!

[JDeere]

ive packed and loaded my jeep. I leave early tomorrow morning for texas. Its gonna be a long drive but ive got good tunes and my 2 little furbabies to keep me company. Hopefully will get to do some storm chasing along the way. NO hail!

Where you gonna be when you get back in Tx?

[Buckaroo]

ill be in Woodson, Tx. North Central Texas...but might make a quick trip to austin to see my brother. Are you close?

[JDeere]

ill be in Woodson, Tx. North Central Texas...but might make a quick trip to austin to see my brother. Are you close?

Austin is like 2 hours from me. I live Nw Houston.

[Gemme]

I miss Austin!



I'm waging a war in my head. I am going between being lazy and watching TV all day and being productive and organizing the linen closet and pantry. Who knows which side will win?

[Canela]

The Bridges of Madison County.... going to watch that tonight....

[Reach *BANNED*]

I was reading a local newspaper yesterday and they had a list of the parades that will be run next Monday. I could not believe my eyes when I saw there were only 4???!!! ONLY 4. There are more parades at Thanksgiving, Halloween, and Christmas. Yet, when it comes to remembering our fallen soldiers who are protecting us- 4 parades? Makes my heart sick.

[Chained Daisy]

A bathroom renovation thats been on the cards for a while but is now a priority due to a leak. I have the funds set aside to cover it but I`m not looking forward to all the mess, dust, noise and general inconvenience. I used to love a project once upon a time.....I must be getting old !

[clay]

The Bridges of Madison County.... going to watch that tonight....

One of my all time faves. I just watched it again in December. It is an awesome movie if you haven't ever seen it...:) Enjoy!

[Gemme]

I think Mother Nature is going to give me my birthday pressie early.

Not good.

:blink:

[JDeere]

How to move on after finding out my ex got engaged today. Im fucking heartbroken and very hurt.

[clay]

Waking from a really bad dream.....I simply MUST smudge my place, head, & heart tomorrow....:seeingstars:

[Canela]

One of my all time faves. I just watched it again in December. It is an awesome movie if you haven't ever seen it...:) Enjoy!


Hey Clay!

Actually, I've seen it before and yes it's an awesome movie! I was thinking how it's been a long time (years) since I'd seen it and thought It'd be nice to watch again using my point of reference now. Bet it's just as touching...thanks!

[Gemme]

I think I'm staging a coup against myself as I am still here online instead of being in bed.

[Canela]

The Group of African American Dykes on Bikes I saw on my way onto the island this afternoon. They were on some gorgeous hogs, trikes and very nice crotch rockets...some had a woman, some did not, about 20 of them... The patch on their leather vest said DEM GYRLS.

I'm pretty sure I've lusted with my eyes already. Dammit....

[JDeere]

I somehow injured my pinky finger on my left hand and no clue how it happened.

[Reach *BANNED*]

How my work ethic does not change even on day's off. That is not necessarily a good thing.

[VintageFemme]

It's just too hot to be outside and I fear this may be a record heat Summer for us. I don't remember the last time it was this warm this soon. I Googled coolest weather city in the Summer yesterday LoL Seattle and Portland win. I should seriously think about relocating. Sorry for the whinefest, it's just a little hellish around here. {117 days until Autumn}

[Bèsame*]

https://crenshawconsultingassociates.com/wp-content/uploads/2014/03/993icecream_cone.jpg


this is on my mind

[Kobi]

Some days, people are a giant pita. My new housekeeper cancelled the day before she was to start. Then the chiropractor made an adjustment booboo that necessitated a second trip. And then the USPS delivered my package to the wrong address.

I miss the days when people showed up as scheduled, did the work right the first time, and didnt make foolish errors.

[Gemme]

Taking stock of my life has been on my mind today. Sure, there are dark parts that I wish weren't there.... liars/users/abusers/etc... but overall, I'm good.

I have a roof over my head, food in my belly and clothes on my back. Of course, it could be better. I could win the lottery or suddenly find myself in the midst of a windfall. That would be great but it's seriously highly unlikely to happen so I can't sit around and wait for it.

Instead, I've made a plan that will help me get myself where I want to be financially/physically/emotionally/etc in time. It will be a journey to get there, but like everything else in this world, the journey is what makes it what it is.

Also, I'm thinking about whether taking someone to court would matter in the scheme of things.

Basically, deep stuff.

[RebelDyke]

I will never understand why people lie.

The whole push you away. Only to pull you back in and when they get caught. Their famous line is. It wasnt me. In fact. They gaslight. It was them. Its never me. I wouldnt do that because it is crazy

The lies we spin today are remembered in the futures of tomorrow. It's what you're doin in your tangled web. And I must say. Your past is damn ugly and twisted with all those lies. I dont know how you sleep at night with all these games.

Life is too short. Go out and enjoy peace. Enjoy nature. Look to the stars. Love unconditionally. You will be happier.

Right? Isn't that what they say?

[JDeere]

That its gonna be another hot ass day outside. But I remind myself that this happens every year.

[Gemme]

It's gonna be miserable for the first few hours of the day. I'm going to do my best to limit my time outside, but really only because my hair is on point and I don't want it to get ruined by the humidity.

:blink:

[homoe]

Some days, people are a giant pita. My new housekeeper cancelled the day before she was to start. Then the chiropractor made an adjustment booboo that necessitated a second trip. And then the USPS delivered my package to the wrong address.

I miss the days when people showed up as scheduled, did the work right the first time, and didnt make foolish errors.



.......AMEN!

[Bèsame*]

I will never understand why people lie.

The whole push you away. Only to pull you back in and when they get caught. Their famous line is. It wasnt me. In fact. They gaslight. It was them. Its never me. I wouldnt do that because it is crazy

The lies we spin today are remembered in the futures of tomorrow. It's what you're doin in your tangled web. And I must say. Your past is damn ugly and twisted with all those lies. I dont know how you sleep at night with all these games.

Life is too short. Go out and enjoy peace. Enjoy nature. Look to the stars. Love unconditionally. You will be happier.

Right? Isn't that what they say?

What? You took the words right out of my mouth!

[Chad]

Home repair.

Looks like the fire alarm on my high ceiling is malfunctioning. I am pondering trying to fix it on my own or call an electrician.

The main issue is that I hate climbing the extension ladder when I am alone. I am not a young buck anymore. Ugh.

I am pondering the situation.

:deepthoughts:

[Kätzchen]

My son's, my mom, family stuff. Mostly my mom and my boy's.

[uglyboi]

I believe at times Beasley thinks I'm a ghost because sometimes she tells me that she can see right through me.

[Kätzchen]

I believe at times Beasley thinks I'm a ghost because sometimes she tells me that she can see right through me.

I hope you and your wife, Beasley, are doing well, it's good to see you out on the boards. :balloon:

[Dominique]

I'm heading towards a minimalistic lifestyle. I'm on my second round of "pitching" things and it's slightly easier. BUT NOT EASY. If it was, I'd be done by now. The whole process is emotionally draining. If i could just open a drawer and throw it all away, but NO! I have to (for some strange reason) look at almost everything and reminisce. :blink:

[Medusa]

Never say "never", especially in matters of the heart :blueheels:

[2qt]

That I sometimes struggle to understand why, how or what.....

[JDeere]

Getting all the stuff packed into boxes and moved into the bathroom so we can have new carpet put in.

[Happyfemme]

I am wondering if the fact that my now ex partner and I were not able to make things work may be due, in part, to the fact that she does not perform gender in a masculine or butch way. She did have some qualities related to more butch type activities but she does not identify as butch. I very strongly identify as femme and find that the energy and balance of a butch femme relationship works so well for me. I enjoy even the small things like someone opening the door, helping me with heavy items, ordering both of our dinners at the restaurant, and the butch confidence and dominance within certain aspects of the relationship. I know everyone is different so this is just my thoughts about the matter. Thank you for reading my post.

[FireSignFemme]

I've been working on decluttering too. It feels like there needs to be some sort of 12 Step program around this because I'm finding it incredibly difficult to do. Well it's all done now... It's just I keep wanting to go back to certain boxes and retrieve stuff, I'm really having to white knuckle it to refrain from doing so. I watched this show once where some sort of psychic healer person was helping a woman declutter and they had to go over each piece and do this whole letting go ritual of saying goodbye to everything item by item. Oh and they had to thank the stuff they released/gave back to the universe too. One... item... at... a... time. Well I'm not Methuselah. I figure I've got maybe 30 good years left on this planet – I don't want to waste 10 of it on this crud. Nope I have to get rid of this stuff. Even then I'll still have all that stuff of mine in my son's storage unit to go through.

[Gemme]

I've been working on decluttering too. It feels like there needs to be some sort of 12 Step program around this because I'm finding it incredibly difficult to do. Well it's all done now... It's just I keep wanting to go back to certain boxes and retrieve stuff, I'm really having to white knuckle it to refrain from doing so. I watched this show once where some sort of psychic healer person was helping a woman declutter and they had to go over each piece and do this whole letting go ritual of saying goodbye to everything item by item. Oh and they had to thank the stuff they released/gave back to the universe too. One... item... at... a... time. Well I'm not Methuselah. I figure I've got maybe 30 good years left on this planet – I don't want to waste 10 of it on this crud. Nope I have to get rid of this stuff. Even then I'll still have all that stuff of mine in my son's storage unit to go through.

I'm doing the same thing. Some things aren't too hard to toss but there are some items that I am ridiculously attached to and they are not particularly meaningful---no particularly sentimental memories or events connected to it.

My connection to 'stuff' is stupid but I'm getting through it slowly. I just keep telling myself, "What is the worst that will happen if I donate/gift/trash this?" Most of the time, the answer is "I'll have to buy it again" which is silly when you think of my attachment to it.

The money's gone so I'm not 'saving' anything by keeping the item and I'm not considering getting rid of anything that I use regularly. Everything on the chopping block is stuff that I can't use at all or have not used in months or even years.

I totally understand what you are saying!

[JDeere]

All this preparation for carpet is ridiculous. I can see spending the money on other certain things on the house. I just wish they would move out, this house is gonna end up bleeding them dry.

[hopelessromantic69]

That I sometimes struggle to understand why, how or what.....

What about “When”? Ducking!!

[Reach *BANNED*]

I was thinking about how more often than not the price we pay for things does not necessarily match the quality. However, I was also thinking it depends on the item being purchased. Like I pay a lot for my shoes and sneakers and they last me a long time. Then today I bought a new pair of earbuds w/ mic for $30 after sending back the $150 Beats pair that I had. I synced the new set in less than 5 minutes and the buds fit perfectly in my ears. Again paid less- and got better quality than paying more.

However, I shall also say it really does depend on what you are buying. I would not use a blanket statement and say ALL things high priced do not match in quality, etc.

It would be cool to have a thread where people could give examples like I did. It would be interesting to see what others think and what things they have purchased that fall in line on either side of the fence.

[Chained Daisy]

I was thinking about how more often than not the price we pay for things does not necessarily match the quality. However, I was also thinking it depends on the item being purchased. Like I pay a lot for my shoes and sneakers and they last me a long time. Then today I bought a new pair of earbuds w/ mic for $30 after sending back the $150 Beats pair that I had. I synced the new set in less than 5 minutes and the buds fit perfectly in my ears. Again paid less- and got better quality than paying more.

However, I shall also say it really does depend on what you are buying. I would not use a blanket statement and say ALL things high priced do not match in quality, etc.

It would be cool to have a thread where people could give examples like I did. It would be interesting to see what others think and what things they have purchased that fall in line on either side of the fence.

Thats a great idea for a thread Reach and hacks and dupes as you suggest would be useful too.

[JDeere]

Prepping for my class on Saturday to see if i get the job or just to further my training and discuss pay rate, etc seeming it sounds like i got the job.

[Happyfemme]

My ex works at the same agency as I do which is fine because we are both very professional and don't work in the same division but sometimes I have to interact with her which can be somewhat dysregulating.

[Chad]

Home repair.

Looks like the fire alarm on my high ceiling is malfunctioning. I am pondering trying to fix it on my own or call an electrician.

The main issue is that I hate climbing the extension ladder when I am alone. I am not a young buck anymore. Ugh.

I am pondering the situation.

:deepthoughts:


The electrician was here yesterday and for 100 bucks he relieved my mind that I do not have an electrical issue at my smoke detector. We came up with a solution to the battery issue by using a smoke detector that will be hard wired to the house with no backup battery (on order).

More than that I made friends with two local men. The electrician's helper seemed like an "old hippie" and I get along very well with old hippies.

Well worth 100 bucks.

:cowboy:

[Canela]

Actually, I'm trying not to think...I have a huge decision to make about work and a new, more specific job to my licensing and I gave it up to my higher power to help with it...

but it keeps creeping in...

(Sigh)

:blink:

[2qt]

Almost everything people do in life today seems to have a mobile app.... Why can't I find an app that gives me more time in a day whilst still getting all the things done that I need? Someone needs to make one of those!

[JDeere]

My background check isnt done yet but i know there isnt anything on it. I heard there was a glitch in the new computer system at work.

[Chad]

I found out today that the next family party will be in Brazil. I was hoping for a 4th of July party but that will not happen. I will be saving up for Brazil and I hope that mom can come too.

[LeftWriteFemme]

-nwdjQmc_N8

[Reach *BANNED*]

How I find that I am in a place in my life where it is the little things that move me. Where I feel and see far better than I ever have. There is need for grand gestures or extravagant things. A smile, a flirt, or a bashful look- it is amazing what happens when your heart and mind are open.

[Kenna]

A battery bank busbar. Dammit.

[Reach *BANNED*]

How I find that I am in a place in my life where it is the little things that move me. Where I feel and see far better than I ever have. There is need for grand gestures or extravagant things. A smile, a flirt, or a bashful look- it is amazing what happens when your heart and mind are open.

I meant to say there is NO need for grand gestures or extravagant things. THIS is what happens when I am wiped out from the day and try to write. :blink:

[akiza]

why am i still single again? jk ^^ hope the next days will be ok ^^

[LeftWriteFemme]

xmGmvXore84

[Reach *BANNED*]

Many things are on my mind. Most of which put me to feeling happy. I feel the anticipation of good things. I will keep my heart and mind open to it all.

[Kenna]

My new Rav4...I'm thankful for it, but I just can't seem to like it or love it as much as I loved my truck. I didn't realize until it was gone how much I enjoyed that simple, base of the line Tacoma.

[Reach *BANNED*]

I cannot stop thinking about those sheep we lost last night. My housemates buried them today while I was away from the farm and they asked if I wanted them to wait- but I told them no, it was hard enough seeing what I saw last night, I could not bring myself to help bury them today. Have you ever had your heart hurt so much that you can feel it in your throat? That is how I have felt since this happened.

Even more than that the fact that this person did not stop. We are on a country road so there are no cameras or anything that would have gotten a license plate or description of the vehicle. So basically, they got away with it. I am guessing they might have been under the influence and maybe that is why they did not stop. Or they just did not care.

I am a firm believer in karma, so what does not happen right away the Universe will take care of.

However, for now- I will mourn.

[Medusa]

Today was such a whirlwind.
My Papaw was put on comfort care this morning which meant a mad-dash to the hospital. It also meant being around family members whom I chose to take space from 2 years ago.
It was as awful as it sounds.
BUT...my Sister is due on Wednesday with my perfect little niece and JD will be here in an hour and we are going to heal up all the rough spots.

I felt my spine today. Hard and strong and vibrant.

[Chad]

My ex from the 90s (not on this site). She is coming to help move mom next weekend. She is so kind to my mom and that makes me think.

A femme that is kind and loves my family is special. I am happy that she wants to be in my life and wants to spend time with my family.

We were not a good match as a couple but I am happy to say that she is my dear friend.

[RockOn]

on my mind ...

three things I cannot locate after I moved two years ago ...

1. a really nice (expensive) set of cobalt drill bits

2. tool which measures and sets spark plug gaps

3. my best dick

And the measure/set gapper is such a nice one - it is not the coin looking type but the blade kind ... has feelers as well as gappers

I want to install fresh plugs in 2 chainsaws today. Plus one needs a new chain. Most times the gaps in new plugs are fine but since I cannot find my little set of blade gapper gizmos, this will likely be when I need it.

I have searched and searched for it. Woe is me! Well, I will pick up another one when I go into town tonight or tomorrow.

Actually, when I drill down into my thoughts a little deeper, I think I may be looking for an excuse to take a nap.

Nap??? Did I hear someone mention a nap? Excellent idea! Lights out!

(but still hoping my lost stuff turns up)

[Gemme]

on my mind ...

three things I cannot locate after I moved two years ago ...

1. a really nice (expensive) set of cobalt drill bits

2. tool which measures and sets spark plug gaps

3. my best dick

And the measure/set gapper is such a nice one - it is not the coin looking type but the blade kind ... has feelers as well as gappers

I want to install fresh plugs in 2 chainsaws today. Plus one needs a new chain. Most times the gaps in new plugs are fine but since I cannot find my little set of blade gapper gizmos, this will likely be when I need it.

I have searched and searched for it. Woe is me! Well, I will pick up another one when I go into town tonight or tomorrow.

Actually, when I drill down into my thoughts a little deeper, I think I may be looking for an excuse to take a nap.

Nap??? Did I hear someone mention a nap? Excellent idea! Lights out!

(but still hoping my lost stuff turns up)

Were they all in the same box?

:blink:

[RockOn]

The first two were likely together but the third one would have been in a military helmet bag along with similar but it was not.

Although, I must be honest ... I am not at all an organized packer/mover. And there are still some boxes in the third bedroom that I've not opened -->> maybe they are there. I have no idea what is in those boxes in the closet. I've been saving those to open when I need a surprise present. Maybe I will open them tomorrow - take a peek.

Thanks for your question. It made me remember those boxes.
:)
BTW, I did get unlazy, the spark plugs are in and the chain is on the one that needed a replacement. All of it works fine. I cut a lot of 4" to 6" discs off logs I cut down months back. Great for stump burning ... burn a very long time!

[Merlin]

My beautiful girlfriend she’s constantly in my thoughts :)

[RockOn]

Reach, I am very sorry about your loss of you sheep.

[kittygrrl]

i gazed at my first dragonfly of the season. It made me happy.

[homoe]

..



That credit card bill that'll be showing up in a few weeks........:|

[homoe]

My ex from the 90s (not on this site). She is coming to help move mom next weekend. She is so kind to my mom and that makes me think.

A femme that is kind and loves my family is special. I am happy that she wants to be in my life and wants to spend time with my family.

We were not a good match as a couple but I am happy to say that she is my dear friend.

I wish everyone could have an experience with an ex like this! I consider myself very fortunate that I do.

[girl_dee]

4:00 pm... I miss being home

[Gemme]

I saw I Feel Pretty today and loved the message. So true! I have come to really adore Amy Schumer as a comedic actress. I like her better in movies than on stage but I absolutely love her 'don't give a fuck' personality.

[Plaidandroses]

I cannot stop thinking about those sheep we lost last night. My housemates buried them today while I was away from the farm and they asked if I wanted them to wait- but I told them no, it was hard enough seeing what I saw last night, I could not bring myself to help bury them today. Have you ever had your heart hurt so much that you can feel it in your throat? That is how I have felt since this happened.

Even more than that the fact that this person did not stop. We are on a country road so there are no cameras or anything that would have gotten a license plate or description of the vehicle. So basically, they got away with it. I am guessing they might have been under the influence and maybe that is why they did not stop. Or they just did not care.

I am a firm believer in karma, so what does not happen right away the Universe will take care of.

However, for now- I will mourn.

How awful. I'm so sorry.

[JDeere]

What to wear tomorrow night. Some folks from high school and myself are meeting up for 90s night at Big Texas in Spring. I cant wear any of my 90s clothes lmao so i cant enter the contest, but can't wait to see everyone.

[Happyfemme]

A very interesting study regarding body position, testosterone, and cortisol. By using up more space such as arms and legs spread out, the body increases testosterone levels and decreases cortisol levels. This can lead to positive outcomes regarding confidence levels.

[Reach *BANNED*]

I STILL cannot get this song out of my head from yesterday. Woke up with it and it looks like at some point I will be going to bed with it.

l7vRSu_wsNc

[Mopsie]

On my mind...

Quiche

[Happyfemme]

Making sure that the people I am friends with are my friends because we enjoy each other's company not because I can do things for them. I am realizing that may be the case with some people so I am working disconnecting from them and connecting with people that just enjoy our friendship.

[CherryWine]

I am concerned for a loved one who is going through a depressive episode. He is pushing people away, and it is really hard to watch.

I’ve been looking back on some other relationships/friendships and realize that those people may have been going through something similar, and I did not handle things as they should have been handled at the time. I didn’t fully understand what was going on or perhaps, even, I was just more selfish at those times.

It’s not something that you can just snap out of.

Hopefully going forward, I can be a better and more supportive friend.

That’s what’s on my mind.

[Gemme]

On my mind...

Quiche

What kind?

:eating:

[easygoingfemme]

What kind?

:eating:

mmmm Quiche...

[VintageFemme]

I'm going to be a Mina {grandmother} again! So so excited!!!

[JDeere]

I went through my closet again, i gave dad 4 t-shirts that ive never worn. He has way too many holey old shirts, he was happy. I figure since things arent going so good, that something simple may make his day.

[cinnamongrrl]

My mom...

She's on a lot of pain meds (she has four kinds of.cancer.it turns out) and it's almost like she's only half here now. I miss her spark and humor. I just miss her and want her to be better ♡

[Bèsame*]

https://i0.wp.com/boomsumo.com/wp-content/uploads/2016/12/love-1.jpg?resize=500%2C700

[girl_dee]

I'm going to be a Mina {grandmother} again! So so excited!!!

congratulations!!!!!!