Singles

[Leigh]

Good afternoon to my fellow Singles,

Well I'm also sick; I had a doctor come down to see me yesterday and I got the most wonderful gift a girl could ever ask for (not!) ............ I am stuck with bronchitis! I got meds and such so I'm good but this cough is brutal and I just don't feel well so I am going to be trying to get alot of rest today but I still wanted to stop by and say Happy Valentine's Day to everyone here :)

[gaea]

Hello. I am new to this site. How is everyone on this fine Singles Awareness Day?

I have heard that 3 times now im curious why is today called single awareness day? I have been single for some time now and i do not believe i have ever heard this before today.

[The Oopster]

I have heard that 3 times now im curious why is today called single awareness day? I have been single for some time now and i do not believe i have ever heard this before today.

my guess is because it's a day that you are definitely reminded that you are single!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

i'm happy for others but all the pictures and stuff does get hard for some one that doesn't have it so after awhile seeing it all does get a little brutal!

[SweetJane]

Singles Awareness Day... Yeah it does make singles very aware of not having a sweetie on Valentine's Day. But I'm grateful for really good friends right now!

[gaea]

my guess is because it's a day that you are definitely reminded that you are single!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

i'm happy for others but all the pictures and stuff does get hard for some one that doesn't have it so after awhile seeing it all does get a little brutal!

I am reminded every day...today is no different.

[spike]

I am reminded every day...today is no different.

It just makes it harder than most days on a day like today. I hope it gets better for all of us. We all deserve the best.

[Zimmeh]

Hope you all had a great day! Today was my second day at the college and I am enjoying.

Zimmeh

[gaea]

It just makes it harder than most days on a day like today. I hope it gets better for all of us. We all deserve the best.

it really wasn't that hard for me, i guess i just stopped paying attention to things like this a long time ago.

the ideal valentines day for me would be to go out and take some food to local homeless people or buy some blankets and hand them out..that would put a smile on my face. of course helping people puts a smile on my face anyway i do what i can when i can.

[spike]

it really wasn't that hard for me, i guess i just stopped paying attention to things like this a long time ago.

the ideal valentines day for me would be to go out and take some food to local homeless people or buy some blankets and hand them out..that would put a smile on my face. of course helping people puts a smile on my face anyway i do what i can when i can.

You seem to have a really great spirit and I like that. I did exactly this over the holidays this past year. It was very fulfilling.

[cuddlyfemme]

Good Morning Singles! I hope everyone is smiling and happy :) My ribs are hurting me big time, unfortunately there's nothing they can do for broken ribs...you have to tough it out and I'm not a toughy lol
Have a wonderful day!

[cuddlyfemme]

it really wasn't that hard for me, i guess i just stopped paying attention to things like this a long time ago. the ideal valentines day for me would be to go out and take some food to local homeless people or buy some blankets and hand them out..that would put a smile on my face. of course helping people puts a smile on my face anyway i do what i can when i can.
Thats so sweet

[gaea]

You seem to have a really great spirit and I like that. I did exactly this over the holidays this past year. It was very fulfilling.

It is a great feeling and it is fulfilling sometimes people just need someone to talk to or even just the kindest gesture can go so far.

[spike]

It is a great feeling and it is fulfilling sometimes people just need someone to talk to or even just the kindest gesture can go so far.

So very true. I get tired of talking to myself most of the time so other people to talk to and get stuff off of my chest is a wonderful feeling.

[Heavenleahangel]

Good Morning, Everyone! Happy Hump Day! I hope everyone's week is going well. I've been doing better than I thought I would be. Thanks to everyone who messages me and sends me positive energy and prayers.

[gaea]

So very true. I get tired of talking to myself most of the time so other people to talk to and get stuff off of my chest is a wonderful feeling.

yes it is.

[Leigh]

Just came to say hello to my singles family :)

[Electrocell]

Good afternoon to my fellow Singles,

Well I'm also sick; I had a doctor come down to see me yesterday and I got the most wonderful gift a girl could ever ask for (not!) ............ I am stuck with bronchitis! I got meds and such so I'm good but this cough is brutal and I just don't feel well so I am going to be trying to get alot of rest today but I still wanted to stop by and say Happy Valentine's Day to everyone here :)

Sorry to hear that I've had it before know what it feels like . Like someone sitting on your chest.

[Electrocell]

Good Morning Singles! I hope everyone is smiling and happy :) My ribs are hurting me big time, unfortunately there's nothing they can do for broken ribs...you have to tough it out and I'm not a toughy lol
Have a wonderful day!

Sorry hon never had a broken rib but they say it can be painful even when you breathe. You don't need to lift anything either if you can keep from it.

[cuddlyfemme]

Sorry hon never had a broken rib but they say it can be painful even when you breathe. You don't need to lift anything either if you can keep from it.
Yes it is painful when you breath, cough, sneeze, get out of bed etc..There's nothin that can be done for broken ribs, you have to let them heal on their own :( I'll try my best not to lift anything either

[Gaige]

Yes it is painful when you breath, cough, sneeze, get out of bed etc..There's nothin that can be done for broken ribs, you have to let them heal on their own :( I'll try my best not to lift anything either

i may have missed this but how did you break your ribs?

[cuddlyfemme]

i may have missed this but how did you break your ribs?
I slipped on a bar of soap in the shower

[Gaige]

I slipped on a bar of soap in the shower

Damn...makes me thankful for my liquid soap. hope you heal quickly.

[SweetJane]

I slipped on a bar of soap in the shower

Cuddlyfemme, I'm so sorry you're hurting. And from just a quirky accident.

Rest, heal, try not to do too much.

[SweetJane]

Good Morning, Everyone! Happy Hump Day! I hope everyone's week is going well. I've been doing better than I thought I would be. Thanks to everyone who messages me and sends me positive energy and prayers.

Big Hugs! I'm glad you are doing better---and better than you though!

[ruffryder]

Cuddly wishing you a speedy recovery. ouch!


Singles have a great day!!

[Electrocell]

Gaea Just wanted to thank you for the birthday wish --can't seem to send you a message on here.

[cuddlyfemme]

Damn...makes me thankful for my liquid soap. hope you heal quickly.
Ironically, usually I use lavander liquid soap...I haven't used a bar of soap in a while

[cuddlyfemme]

Cuddlyfemme, I'm so sorry you're hurting. And from just a quirky accident. Rest, heal, try not to do too much.
Thanks sweetie, I'm trying my best to take it easy but its hard when you're on your own....thank you!!!!

[cuddlyfemme]

Cuddly wishing you a speedy recovery. ouch!


Singles have a great day!!

Thanks Ruff!!!!

[Zimmeh]

CF,

Get to feeling better!

Zimmeh

[cuddlyfemme]

CF,

Get to feeling better!

Zimmeh

Thanks Zimmeh!!!!

[cuddlyfemme]

Good Morning Everyone!!!! Have a wonderful day!!!

[Gaige]

Good Morning Everyone!!!! Have a wonderful day!!!

thanks, you do the same.

[Zimmeh]

You are welcome! I came down with a sinus infection thanks to our crazy weather down here in Orlando!

Zimmeh


Thanks Zimmeh!!!!

[ScandalAndy]

*sends soup and blankets to everyone who's feeling under the weather*

I'm contemplating hiding under my desk because I'm on week four of this new diet, and all I want are freaking carbs. CARBS.

Tomorrow's Friday!!

[Gaige]

So, I’m thinking about a name change. Something like Handy Devil. That way I don’t lose the initials that I go by already and I am pretty handy. :) thoughts?

[Leigh]

Well I finally think this bronchitis is starting to go away but still coughing like crazy ~ hope it'll be gone very soon!

cuddly ~ sorry your hurting hun, I hope you get better soon :)

[Zimmeh]

That sounds great!

Zimmeh

So, I’m thinking about a name change. Something like Handy Devil. That way I don’t lose the initials that I go by already and I am pretty handy. :) thoughts?

[EdaleneF]

Single people who are unattached are left out of the party every Feb. 14. But a new study indicates a way that lonely singles can at least increase their likelihood of not being alone next Valentine's Day; by buying a home. Home owners, the study indicates, get more dates than renters. But it is not by a massive amount. Source of article: Love and the home owner (https://personalmoneynetwork.com/moneyblog/2012/02/14/love-homeownership/). I posted this here because as what the title said, "Singles". So I'm expecting that no one here is in a relationship right now. I'm new here anyway.

[ScandalAndy]

guess i better get into the real estate market!



Single people who are unattached are left out of the party every Feb. 14. But a new study indicates a way that lonely singles can at least increase their likelihood of not being alone next Valentine's Day; by buying a home. Home owners, the study indicates, get more dates than renters. But it is not by a massive amount. Source of article: Love and the home owner (https://personalmoneynetwork.com/moneyblog/2012/02/14/love-homeownership/). I posted this here because as what the title said, "Singles". So I'm expecting that no one here is in a relationship right now. I'm new here anyway.

[ruby_woo]

Single people who are unattached are left out of the party every Feb. 14. But a new study indicates a way that lonely singles can at least increase their likelihood of not being alone next Valentine's Day; by buying a home. Home owners, the study indicates, get more dates than renters. But it is not by a massive amount. Source of article: Love and the home owner (https://personalmoneynetwork.com/moneyblog/2012/02/14/love-homeownership/). I posted this here because as what the title said, "Singles". So I'm expecting that no one here is in a relationship right now. I'm new here anyway.

Aww, man. :( The average home price in Vancouver is $752,380 (http://www.vancouversun.com/business/Average+housing+price+shows+slip+Greater+Vancouver +Fraser+Valley/6161763/story.html). Renter4life.

[cuddlyfemme]

Aww, man. :( The average home price in Vancouver is $752,380 (http://www.vancouversun.com/business/Average+housing+price+shows+slip+Greater+Vancouver +Fraser+Valley/6161763/story.html). Renter4life.
Home prices in Columbia are high too.....I'll be a renter fo life

[cuddlyfemme]

Good Morning Everyone!!! Happy Friday!!!!!

[sarahwho]

TGIF! This has been a long week!

[~BluEydFemme~]

http://i163.photobucket.com/albums/t310/paige1956/Happy_Friday_Pixie.jpg
I Hope Everyone Is Having a Wonderful Friday!!!!

[ferret]

Morning, singles. Still not giving up hope that there is actually someone "out there" for me, but damn if she's not taking her time. LOL.

Happy Saturday, all.

Sue

[Countyfem]

Happy Sat to all hope everyone had a good day! Sitting here waiting for it to rain, wish it would snow...but doesn't look like that's in the cards this time.

[Mr Nice Guy]

I'm looking for a new love baby...ya ya ya. ;)

[cuddlyfemme]

Good Morning Everyone! Happy Sunday! I hope you all enjoy your day no matter what you are doing

[sarahwho]

Happy Sat to all hope everyone had a good day! Sitting here waiting for it to rain, wish it would snow...but doesn't look like that's in the cards this time.

You'd want it to snow why?

[cuddlyfemme]

Hey HD, did you change your screen name to RL???

[Gaige]

Hey HD, did you change your screen name to RL???


yes i did. didn't go with Handy Devil. asked a friend and she didn't like it. so i went with the easy option...my name/initials

[PrivateeroftheDeep]

Just stopping in to wish everyone a Happy Sunday and a good start to the new week. New here, so just going around and reading forums that pop up and subscibing to them. chuckling. Going to save this one too.

:pirate-steer:

[ScandalAndy]

Just stopping in to wish everyone a Happy Sunday and a good start to the new week. New here, so just going around and reading forums that pop up and subscibing to them. chuckling. Going to save this one too.

:pirate-steer:

Welcome to the Planet! You're going to love it here. lots of great people, and plenty to talk about!

[PrivateeroftheDeep]

Welcome to the Planet! You're going to love it here. lots of great people, and plenty to talk about!

Hi Scandal or Andy?,

Thank you for the welcome. I think I will. I am looking forward to having tomorrow off and am going to try not to be on here all day. chuckles. Do you have tomorrow off?

Jaymes
:pirate-steer:

[ScandalAndy]

Hi Scandal or Andy?,

Thank you for the welcome. I think I will. I am looking forward to having tomorrow off and am going to try not to be on here all day. chuckles. Do you have tomorrow off?

Jaymes
:pirate-steer:

Not I, said the little red hen! I don't have a holiday until May. Silly corporate vacation schedule!

Enjoy your free time! Honestly, it's easy to spend a whole day here. There is a ton to read!

[ferret]

We're supposed to get a snow "storm" here today. And I know everyone's gonna freak out because this is Kentucky. No one knows how to drive here.

[Countyfem]

You'd want it to snow why?

Why, to build a snowbutch of course!


Jaymes welcome to the planet! The folks here are super nice.

Hope everyone enjoys their Sunday, its raining here with just a wee chance of snow showers tomorrow.

ferret I have to agree
no one in NC can drive either (well except for me lol) , no matter what the weather!

[PrivateeroftheDeep]

Why, to build a snowbutch of course!


Jaymes welcome to the planet! The folks here are super nice.

Hope everyone enjoys their Sunday, its raining here with just a wee chance of snow showers tomorrow.

ferret I have to agree
no one in NC can drive either (well except for me lol) , no matter what the weather!

Hi County,

Thank you for the welcome, yes I have found them to be, so far.

A snowbutch? I think you should show us a pic when you are finished. :)

Hope you do not get too much snow, never fun to navigate.

Jaymes

:pirate-steer: << I love this guy

[Zimmeh]

Good Afternoon Everyone,

I will be headed out to Epcot with friends this afternoon. I have to agree Ferret and CountyFem! The people here in Florida cannot drive and they cause more accidents when it is raining! If it really snowed down here, I would be staying off of the sidewalks :)

Welcome Jaymes to the planet and glad to hear you are liking it! I have been here awhile and I have met some wonderful people, both online and in person at our last Reunion. :)

CF, how are you feeling?

Have fun,

Zimmeh

[PrivateeroftheDeep]

Good Afternoon Everyone,

I will be headed out to Epcot with friends this afternoon. I have to agree Ferret and CountyFem! The people here in Florida cannot drive and they cause more accidents when it is raining! If it really snowed down here, I would be staying off of the sidewalks :)

Welcome Jaymes to the planet and glad to hear you are liking it! I have been here awhile and I have met some wonderful people, both online and in person at our last Reunion. :)

CF, how are you feeling?

Have fun,

Zimmeh

Hi Zimmeh,

Thank you for the welcome. I am looking forward to meeting new people and I saw the advertisement on the front page about the Reunion, but I have not read on it yet. I will have to take the time to do that.

Have fun at Epcot :)

Jaymes
:pirate-steer:

[Zimmeh]

If you get a chance to attend, please do! I had so much fun that I came home hoarse from laughing :)

You are welcome and we are leaving in a few minutes for Epcot.

Zimmeh

Hi Zimmeh,

Thank you for the welcome. I am looking forward to meeting new people and I saw the advertisement on the front page about the Reunion, but I have not read on it yet. I will have to take the time to do that.

Have fun at Epcot :)

Jaymes
:pirate-steer:

[ruby_woo]

Good morning singletons. I plan to spend yet another day at Ikea- fourth time this year. Setting up an apartment is time consuming, but decorating has been fun!

Zimmeh, I'm jealous you live so close to Epcot and Disney. I've never been.

[PrivateeroftheDeep]

Good morning singletons. I plan to spend yet another day at Ikea- fourth time this year. Setting up an apartment is time consuming, but decorating has been fun!

Zimmeh, I'm jealous you live so close to Epcot and Disney. I've never been.

Hi ruby,

I LOVE Ikea !! :) What type of things are you buying? I have a bed from Ikea and absolutely love it !!

Hope you are having a good day.

Jaymes
:pirate-steer:

[Leigh]

I just came to say hi to everyone, see how all of my fellow singles are doing :-)

[Mr Nice Guy]

Single and happy. :)

[ruby_woo]

Hi ruby,

I LOVE Ikea !! :) What type of things are you buying? I have a bed from Ikea and absolutely love it !!

Hope you are having a good day.

Jaymes
:pirate-steer:

I've bought so much stuff at Ikea lately I ought to be embarrassed. I got a new wrought-iron bed that I love with the fancy slats that took five hours to put together, a bookcase, a side table, a desk. Later I got some dishes and bedding. Today, I want to maybe get lamps, another desk (a tall one that I can use as a cutting table), some organizey boxes (you know the ones), and this Audrey Hepburn print I saw. I love Ikea! :)

[PrivateeroftheDeep]

I've bought so much stuff at Ikea lately I ought to be embarrassed. I got a new wrought-iron bed that I love with the fancy slats that took five hours to put together, a bookcase, a side table, a desk. Later I got some dishes and bedding. Today, I want to maybe get lamps, another desk (a tall one that I can use as a cutting table), some organizey boxes (you know the ones), and this Audrey Hepburn print I saw. I love Ikea! :)

Hi again ruby,

No need to be embarassed I would be right there with you buying everything in sight. I am like that with Bed, Bath, and Beyond as well. It sounds likes you have bought some wonderful things. Yes, I do know the boxes you are talking about, chuckles. My bed was like that as to how much time it took to put it together. However, once I did - it was worth all of those hours. :)

Happy shopping !! :)

Jaymes

:pirate-steer:

ps. I hope no one gets sick of me using the pirate guy all the time, I love him too. :)

[ferret]

[QUOTE=ruby_woo;531114]Good morning singletons. I plan to spend yet another day at Ikea- fourth time this year. Setting up an apartment is time consuming, but decorating has been fun!

I miss Ikea and Crate & Barrel. This is why I do my furniture/decorating shopping when I go back home to visit MN.

[ruby_woo]

[QUOTE=ruby_woo;531114]Good morning singletons. I plan to spend yet another day at Ikea- fourth time this year. Setting up an apartment is time consuming, but decorating has been fun!

I miss Ikea and Crate & Barrel. This is why I do my furniture/decorating shopping when I go back home to visit MN.

Ooh, Crate & Barrel. We don't have that in Vancouver, but I used to love that store when I lived in San Francisco! We have a fun store up here called HomeSense, that's everything for your place you could ever want- fancy cooking stuff, decor, plush towels and bedding.

Gah I love shopping.

[cuddlyfemme]

Hi ruby, I LOVE Ikea !! :) What type of things are you buying? I have a bed from Ikea and absolutely love it !! Hope you are having a good day. Jaymes :pirate-steer:
Ikea is one of my favorite stores along with Crate and Barrel. I love to shop!!!

[cuddlyfemme]

Good Afternoon Everyone, I will be headed out to Epcot with friends this afternoon. I have to agree Ferret and CountyFem! The people here in Florida cannot drive and they cause more accidents when it is raining! If it really snowed down here, I would be staying off of the sidewalks :) Welcome Jaymes to the planet and glad to hear you are liking it! I have been here awhile and I have met some wonderful people, both online and in person at our last Reunion. :) CF, how are you feeling? Have fun, Zimmeh
Hi Zimmeh,

I hope you had a good time when you were out. As for me, I still hurt alot...its worse when I cough or sneeze. The doc has me on Vicoden for the pain. She says it'll take a few months for broken ribs to totally heal

[cuddlyfemme]

Good Morning Singles! Happy Presidents day to those of you in the States. Not going to do much today, just follow doctors orders and take it easy. Its a beautiful sunny day in SC....maybe I'll try to go out for a walk...we'll see
Have a wonderful day!!!

[Mr Nice Guy]

Hey Singles, hope you all are having a great day!!

[blueeyes226_l]

Hello everyone. I hope all of you are having a nice week so far. I'm home again and VERY BORD. Nothing to do because,I did it all yesterday. My Mom worked my butt off yesterday. But,thats ok as long as it helps her.

[Zimmeh]

Hope you all are having a great day! Life has been very hectic for me since I started working at the school.

Have a great Sunday,

Zimmeh

[cuddlyfemme]

Good Morning Singles! Happy Sunday! What does everyone have planned for the day?

[ScandalAndy]

G'MORNING!!!

How are you all enjoying this fine Monday? Personally, I wish I worked 10 hour days and had a three day weekend every week to catch up on my sleep!

[~ocean]

i work 4 10 hr days .. u dont catch up on ur sleep . u just find other stuff to do lol

[Zimmeh]

I also work four ten hour work days and I picked up a part time job :)

Zimmeh

i work 4 10 hr days .. u dont catch up on ur sleep . u just find other stuff to do lol

[Sunny]

Hi Everyone,
Happy Munday Morn lol It is cold this morning. Going to cuddle up in bed and pull the covers over my head!!!! I wish all of you a fun filled day! Ciao!

[Delish]

Happy Monday Friends :)

[asphaltcowboi]

moring everyone..happy monday!! its windy like crazy here today.. going to go out an button down everything outside then come in and find a good movie! hope everyone is well an safe!

[Sunny]

I am watching a Bette Davis movie... Talk about drama!!!

[Athena Page]

Well it has been monday and I have feel of the happy wagon today and have let shit get to me.

[asphaltcowboi]

well happy tuesday everyone... hope all are well and safe.. ugh i have jury duty this morning...

[Countyfem]

Good morning singles! Hope everyone has a wonderful day...have blue blue skys and warm sunshine here in NC. And kudos to the little bird that woke me up this morning, such a happy song he was singing.

[ferret]

Glad the weather is starting to turn nice in KY. I've got some serious spring fever.

Happy Tuesday, all.

Sue

[Leigh]

Hi to all my fellow singles, wish you all of you a fantastic day :-)

[nycbutch]

Well, NYButch is on hys way home.... looks like I'm off the market!:hk2: Such a sweety! :goodscore:I am a lucky femme! :love1:

and I am one very, very happy butch!!! so blessed to have found a femme as beautiful, inside and out, as you, Ruthie!!! :cupid: :heartbeat::heartbeat::heartbeat::heartbeat:

[Leigh]

YAY Ruthie, its about darn time you found someone sweetie ~ you SO totally deserve it :-)

Good evening to all of my fellow singles!

[RNgirl]

Good evening everyone:rubberducky:

[Breathless]

Good Day all!!
Plans for the weekend anyone?

[Licious]

I agree Ruthie, you totally deserve it.

Have a great Thursday and weekend everyone!

:bow:

[asphaltcowboi]

mornin everyone... hope all have a great day... i have a busy full of work weekend.. have a tractor coming today to clear my lot... ugh... lot of work but it will be nice when its done

[RNgirl]

Hi all!! Hope everyone is having a good day!!! :)

[Finn]

Hello Everyone;
Just stopping by to wish everyone a great Thursday .. Hope you a/ALL have a good one *S*
:byebye:

[Countyfem]

Congrats Ruthie!

Beautiful day here NC, having a cuppa and listening to some tunes...going to be a gorgeous sunset
Hope all you singles are well!

[ScandalAndy]

Okay, I'm coming in here to take a break!

I just got home from the store where I picked up some kids' clothing to donate this weekend, now i'm doing laundry and experimenting with gluten-free cooking, which is boggling my mind. There's wheat in EVERYTHING!!!

Tomorrow I head to the city after work to interview someone for my next feminist blog article, then Saturday morning I"m volunteering at a children's outreach program, then going to a dance party fundraiser for the Philly Rollergirls.

I'm exhausted just reading about it.


What are you all up to this weekend? :)

[Leigh]

What are you all up to this weekend? :)


Happy Thursday evening singles!

This weekend, Saturday evening to be specific, I'm going out to dinner & bowling with my best gal friend from high school :-)

[RNgirl]

TGIF!!! Hope everyone has a great weekend!!

[StoneOne]

great weekend for all. Snow today here but a warm up the next couple of days. Love to the beautiful femmes and up high for the guys.

[Sunny]

It's my Dad's birthday and he is turning 86. I hope I get to live that long. LOL
A hello to all the SINGLES and high five to the bros and a :rrose: for the Femmes!!!! Spring is just around the corner!!! Love is in the air.........:police:

[Countyfem]

Happy Friday to all you handsome butches and fabulous femmes!
Sunny tell your dad happy birthday for me and give him a big ol'hug!
Hope everyone has a enjoyable weekend, be safe!

[Leigh]

Coming in to say good evening to my fellow singles, wishing you all a fantastic weekend :-)

[sarahwho]

Stopping in to say hi! Actually have had a very nice beginning to the weekend, which is a very COOL thing! Usually it's SO boring or so quick....one or the t'other!

[Leigh]

Good morning to my single friends ~ I hate being sick, just got over bronchitis and now I'm sicker than a dog ......... hopefully everyone will have a good Sunday :-)

[ferret]

Woke up to a good amount of snow today. And we had thunderstorms and tornadoes last Friday. Definitely a very odd winter.

[blueeyes226_l]

Leigh,
Sorry to read your sick. Hope you get to feeling better real soon.

[blueeyes226_l]

Ferret,
We have had a very odd winter. I'll never for get the storm we had Jan.13th. My best friend of 40 some years was out side in the bad storm. She fell in a snow bank and froze to death. I really miss her. We was going to start having coffee with each othere. She was the typ she didn't care if you was a Lesbian she would still care about you. A typ of Christian you loved to be around. The last time I saw her she was danceing with her hubbie. Back in my olden days her and I where drinking buddys. Well,life goes on.

[sarahwho]

Awww, what a sad thing to happen!

Yes, it's been an odd winter in Ohio too! First snow, then a day later temps in the 50's-60's. But some years I wonder if spring is non-existent too!

[StoneOne]

and remember we are all on our way to somewhere.....

[Bad_boi]

Being single rocks. I do want a fwb though.

[Rook]

pffT...
Weather in Ohio sux...
Winter weather advisory ...wait..no....Flood Warning...oh hold on hold on, there's more....big boobie prize, TORNADO watch With Severe T-Storm -kermit cheer- yaaay! {not!}
Meanwhile, I'm cradling kleenex {with vicks, the joys of being able to breathe..} trying to keep safe & alert....

http://i265.photobucket.com/albums/ii214/amor_en_silencio_77/goodmorning_20_29_.gif

[ferret]

Poor Rook. The weather is actually decent in the Louisville area today. The snow has melted, and being able to run around without any jacket at all is pretty darn nice. I have to say, however, that I'm more than ready for spring and for the weather to make up its damn mind.

[Wryly]

beautiful weather here - - near Detroit. Out and about earlier but inside cleaning house now.

Most of the time I don't mind being single. But every once in a while I get tired of it. I'd love to have someone to talk to about stuff, to have someone there, to be there for someone.
I've tried putting myself out there but it just never seems to work out. *sigh*

[ferret]

Wrly, if it helps I can totally relate. Hang in there, my friend.

[Mr Nice Guy]

Wryly, your not alone. I'm in the same boat. I don't mind being single it's just that sometimes I miss the other half. So hang in there.

[Breathless]

I miss the having someone to cook for..and someone to tell my day too.. with my head on his chest hearing about his day.. however.. single has its perks :)

[ferret]

I just want a date. No expectations. I never realized how hard this would actually be.

[sarahwho]

Rook, you know what they say about Ohio....if you don't like the weather, wait a little bit and it will change! lol.

I miss having someone too, but sometimes it's ok too. It's the days when I am "so" worked up "internally", that I really miss having someone....have to take "matters in my own hands" so to speak.

[Rook]

Yeh, being single does have its major perks....

Don't have to be careful not to 'appreciate' a beautiful lady walkin by...
Don't hafta worry that you're flirting too much for someone's taste....
Don't have to place a bet you're sleeping on the couch for a week or more simply cuz u asked someone out for a beer......
Don't have to worry the Game u wanna watch is gonna be cancelled due to the inevitable Season Finale of 'Desperate Housewives' or 'Law & Order'....
No squabbles over what to eat...or where to eat it....
No worrying about pissing a person off simply cuz well....they're moody....{that time of month, where's the chocolate ?!?!?!}

Bad side of it?
A pillow doesn't quite cuddle back...
It's actually more fun to eat With someone.
Healthy debates on idiotic stuff like 'which Owl is cuter', or 'Why a particular Ferret is overtly aggressive towards one and a total baby with another' (same for cats or dogs)....
Going out alone can be an unpleasant adventure...{this must be a personal thing...I visit some places cuz it's fun to observe, NOT cruising, kthnxbai}
A shower can be far more Interesting with company(hehe).....
A decent excuse to spend 2 fuggin hours shoppin for food.
No need to 'appreciate' whatever/whomever walks by....
Another excuse to spend hours within a Florist shop..heh

Yep, the joys of being QuirkyAlone in Ohio {it's sunny at the moment, btw}
http://www.picamatic.com/show/2009/01/07/06/13/1690980_476x480.jpg
:mohawk:

[flirtyokie]

Still working on trying to find the perks of being single. I guess not being under someone's thumb all the time. And I do enjoy flirting with all the lovely butchies!

I miss having someone to come home to, cuddle up to, ask advice to, make love to, make meals for, etc etc etc....

But I am looking forward to dating again!

[StoneOne]

sometimes it is good to just spend time with one's self.... make sense ?

[Countyfem]

sometimes it is good to just spend time with one's self.... make sense ?

That does make sense, but on the other me, myself and I are getting tired of each others company! LOL

Hope everyone has a terrific friday!

[Silverseastar]

There are lots of little "misses" but for me the big one seems to be feeling like someone especially cares to love me up if I've had a no-good very bad day. I carry a lot of responsibility in my day to day life and knowing I can just let go and let down the in charge place and be nurtured and safe is a huge one for me.

Even though I'm starting to date a little that type of trust and intimacy takes a while to really grow and usually comes about from feeling that a relationship is deepening.

[StoneOne]

That does make sense, but on the other me, myself and I are getting tired of each others company! LOL

Hope everyone has a terrific friday!

Try being Stone and spending to much time with me, myself and I..... good weekend to U!

[flirtyokie]

:hamactor:

Talking to myself is starting to get to me! And I'm tired of making all the decisions. I have to boss people around at work all day. I'd prefer to answer to someone when I got home! lololol

[sarahwho]

For me....lonely femme....says it all.

[WolfyOne]

I keep reading in here, so I thought I'd post

For me, being single the last 2 years has given me the opportunity to get a clear head, again.
Now that I have done that, I can open my heart to others.
I don't mind being single, but I miss the company of a partner.
As much as I love my rescues, I miss not having someone to talk to at home.
I can eat alone, but miss cooking and sharing meals with another.
For as much as it's great waking up alone some days, it would be great waking with someone, too.
Knowing I can be independent and not co-dependent is something I am relearning that I lost somewhere along the way in my last relationship.

Have a great weekend singles :)

[MysticOceansFL]

Have a great week end , singles:glasses:

[Mr Nice Guy]

I feel the same as Wolfy.

[imadiva]

You all sound like very awesome and amazing people. My question is did anyone on the single thread ever date each other? If not why ? I can look at the posts and see a few really Great Couples forming here !!! Just an outside observation ! xoxo

[WolfyOne]

You all sound like very awesome and amazing people. My question is did anyone on the single thread ever date each other? If not why ? I can look at the posts and see a few really Great Couples forming here !!! Just an outside observation ! xoxo


I have not dated anyone in this thread, but I do have an ex registered here that never comes to the site anymore.

I'm probably the oldest amongst these singles, so reading their posts is enjoyable for me, also.

[Rook]

In this particular thread? I'm not sure, diva....
I have a bad habit of not reading back-postings past 2 pages...
Short attention span will eventually make Me forget my intention to Post.:blink:

[Zimmeh]

I did date someone from this thread. Hy lives in Ireland, which is hard to really make time for each other. We are still very good friends!

Zimmeh

You all sound like very awesome and amazing people. My question is did anyone on the single thread ever date each other? If not why ? I can look at the posts and see a few really Great Couples forming here !!! Just an outside observation ! xoxo

[Licious]

There are lots of little "misses" but for me the big one seems to be feeling like someone especially cares to love me up if I've had a no-good very bad day. I carry a lot of responsibility in my day to day life and knowing I can just let go and let down the in charge place and be nurtured and safe is a huge one for me.

Even though I'm starting to date a little that type of trust and intimacy takes a while to really grow and usually comes about from feeling that a relationship is deepening.



Someone who cares about my day, good or bad. Who wants to know how the errands went. Who likes to find out what new song I enjoy. Who shares my small successes and little failures. Yes, I miss that. You are so right.

[Mr Nice Guy]

Hey Singles, yes it would be nice if we could all find love with this thread. I wish it was that easy. If it was I would be hanging out here more often. I'm like Rook, I'm lucky if I read the whole page. Of course most of the time I can't find my cheaters( glasses). Lol

[Heavenleahangel]

I love this thread and will come back shortly to post. Have a great weekend, everyone!

[Countyfem]

You all sound like very awesome and amazing people. My question is did anyone on the single thread ever date each other? If not why ? I can look at the posts and see a few really Great Couples forming here !!! Just an outside observation ! xoxo

These folks do sound very awesome and amazing don't they!

I'm a year out of a 14 year relationship (well technically two as the last year we cohabitated we had gone into room-mate mode) so just now putting my toes back into the dating pool. Most of the singles here live quite aways from me and I'm not sure if a LDR would work for me. I know reading other threads that people have made it work for them, and Zimmeh I see you gave it a try.

How do the rest of you feel about LDR's?

Oh by the way hope everyone has a great weekend! The weather here is just beautiful today!

[TimilDeeps]

These folks do sound very awesome and amazing don't they!

I'm a year out of a 14 year relationship (well technically two as the last year we cohabitated we had gone into room-mate mode) so just now putting my toes back into the dating pool. Most of the singles here live quite aways from me and I'm not sure if a LDR would work for me. I know reading other threads that people have made it work for them, and Zimmeh I see you gave it a try.

How do the rest of you feel about LDR's?

Oh by the way hope everyone has a great weekend! The weather here is just beautiful today!

Been in one and it worked. It did end but not because of the distance. Whether someone lives down the road; or across the country, it really does depend on the people involved in the relationship.

Few more weeks and I'll be enjoying that beautiful weather!

[Silverseastar]

I also live far away from most up here in Canuckistan (aka Western Canada).

I have done long distance but never met anyone from here. I mostly just like to share with folks who know how it feels in this place in life.

[BoDy*ShOt]

...Knowing I can be independent and not co-dependent...

This is why I ended my last relationship. I felt like I had hopped onto that co-dependency hamster wheel,again.. and one day I looked at her and said that I wanted to move out.. I need to know I can make it on my own.. I need to know that the changes I'm making in me are for me and not for someone else b/c that's how she/he wants me to be.

So. Re-finding & re-learning the Independent me, here I come.. Olly, Olly Oxen Free!

[Leigh]

Just came to say ho to everyone, hope your all having a wonderful weekend :)

[ruthie14]

Hello singles.... seems like I'm back in the saddle and single again. :fastdraq:

I lost a good friend on valentines day. I loved her very much! She was one of the best women I have ever met! Funny, humble and could tell you stories of the "old days" like no one else. I will miss her greatly!:vigil:

On a happier note, I had a great rehearsal this morning and tomorrow's concert should be quite a show. Gonna be a LOT of fun!

Hope everyone is having a wonderful weekend.

Ruthie (f)

[ruthie14]

Here is a link to one of the songs we will be singing tomorrow night. This is the same group of folks a few years ago... the opera students are different however.

It is finished - YouTube

Enjoy!
Ruthie

[Gemme]

These folks do sound very awesome and amazing don't they!

I'm a year out of a 14 year relationship (well technically two as the last year we cohabitated we had gone into room-mate mode) so just now putting my toes back into the dating pool. Most of the singles here live quite aways from me and I'm not sure if a LDR would work for me. I know reading other threads that people have made it work for them, and Zimmeh I see you gave it a try.

How do the rest of you feel about LDR's?

Oh by the way hope everyone has a great weekend! The weather here is just beautiful today!

I've been in a couple and, as Timil said, the longevity of the relationships had nothing to do with the distance although, honestly, dating local is so much easier (unless you break up). Basically, it is what you make of it.

I'm recently out of a relationship that initially started long distance but quickly moved to a local thing, so we didn't have much of the stressors that came with LDRs.

Some of the perks of LDRs:


receiving packages in the mail

phone sex

Skype/webcam (you can control the lighting if you are having a bad hair day, etc)

the 'knowing' that someone, somewhere is thinking about you and thinks you are important

[BoDy*ShOt]

good morning, good morning!

I am single, hear me roar! (-;

[ferret]

I've found it really hard to find any single lesbians in Kentucky, so I wouldn't necessarily be opposed to an LDR. For all I know, the "one" could be down the road from me or in another state. I suppose if that person was a 2-4 hour drive instead of a 7 hour drive would be a little more do-able, but who knows. I'm pretty much open to anything at this point.

Sue

[sarahwho]

Just stopped in to say hi! This daylight savings switch has me so http://www.websmileys.com/sm/sleep/schla03.gif that I can't keep my eyes open. Off to bed for me!

[cuddlyfemme]

Good Morning Singles!!!! I hope everyone has a wonderful day. Its supposed to be beautiful in SC
Gemme, I like your thoughts on being in an LDR

[flirtyokie]

Being in Oklahoma, odds are I'll end up in an LDR. That's fine by me though, the possibility of moving away from here again sometime is appealing to me anyway.

The worst downside is if you get insecure. You wonder what they are doing or if they feel the same way.

The upside is it can keep you from moving too fast and you get so much time to really just talk instead of making out all the time. If you live really far apart, you get to have fun adventures meeting in between. :girlonatv:

[cuddlyfemme]

Being in Oklahoma, odds are I'll end up in an LDR. That's fine by me though, the possibility of moving away from here again sometime is appealing to me anyway.

The worst downside is if you get insecure. You wonder what they are doing or if they feel the same way.

The upside is it can keep you from moving too fast and you get so much time to really just talk instead of making out all the time. If you live really far apart, you get to have fun adventures meeting in between. :girlonatv:

I know what you mean. Living in SC, my only hope is an LDR also

[Countyfem]

Good morning singles

Well lets just say I would give a LDR a chance, I'm one of those one-on-one type...if I'm interested then my focus will be on you. I have always been this way.

cuddlyfemme you should meet us down in Savanna next sat for St Pats day,
Should be a lot of fun!

[cuddlyfemme]

Good morning singles

Well lets just say I would give a LDR a chance, I'm one of those one-on-one type...if I'm interested then my focus will be on you. I have always been this way.

cuddlyfemme you should meet us down in Savanna next sat for St Pats day,
Should be a lot of fun!

Good Morning Countyfem :) Like, you, if I'm interested I'll focus 100% on the Butch....there just doesn't seem to be any Butches in SC
The St Pats Day get together sounds fun! Will message you

[Sunny]

How the heck is everyone?????? We have had some beauuuutifullll weather here. I have been very busy with my Dad. He is finally showing his age. It is a tough thing to watch your parents age. It is a circle.
Soooo what has everyone been up to? I see LDR's are a toppic. I think they can work. It all depends on the people involved. It always seems the ones you are interested in are far, far away...... :police:

Have a great Day!!! Yeah I cannot sleep again!!!!!!! I think I am turning into a Vampire LOL Sleep during the day and up at night.

[ruthie14]

Morning Singles! Hope you all have a wonderful day! Friday is in sight!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

[Heavenleahangel]

Good Morning, Everyone! I hope you are having a fantastic week and are enjoying getting ready for spring. We have had amazing weather here in the great upstate NY region. We may even hit 80* by the middle of next week! I already got my pedicure for sandal weather! :sparklyheart:

[luv2luvgirls]

Good Morn fellow singles :)

I have really enjoyed reading all of your comments on LDR's
I never had a problem with an LDR,of course who wouldnt want close,but w/ an ldr I can go slow and really get to know the person and vise versa.That appealed to me, I am not so sure now.. but being another one of the butches in KY,there is not tons of choices to meet single femmes. Where I am at I need to travel the least 2 hrs for a gay club

well another great sunny day! hope everyone has a great day

[Zimmeh]

Good Morning Everyone,

It has been awhile since I've posted in here. I've been working like a mad hatter and I've been dating someone.

Have a great day and even though I'm no longer single, I will continue to visit!

Zimmeh

[ScandalAndy]

Good Morning Everyone,

It has been awhile since I've posted in here. I've been working like a mad hatter and I've been dating someone.

Have a great day and even though I'm no longer single, I will continue to visit!

Zimmeh

Oooooh, congratties Zim! When do we get to meet them?!? :)

[cuddlyfemme]

Good Morning Everyone,

It has been awhile since I've posted in here. I've been working like a mad hatter and I've been dating someone.

Have a great day and even though I'm no longer single, I will continue to visit!

Zimmeh

Congrats Zimmeh!!! I'm really happy for you

[cuddlyfemme]

How the heck is everyone?????? We have had some beauuuutifullll weather here. I have been very busy with my Dad. He is finally showing his age. It is a tough thing to watch your parents age. It is a circle.
Soooo what has everyone been up to? I see LDR's are a toppic. I think they can work. It all depends on the people involved. It always seems the ones you are interested in are far, far away...... :police:

Have a great Day!!! Yeah I cannot sleep again!!!!!!! I think I am turning into a Vampire LOL Sleep during the day and up at night.

Hi Sunny!!! Its good to see you pop in here. You're right about parents and the circle. It reallly is hard to deal with. I know sometimes I just look at my mom.
You need to stop being a vampire or come play with the cats as they are nocterunal and I don't want to play at 3am lol
You're right about LDR's depending on the 2 people involved. There has to be alot of trust in being one of the main things. Whatever Femme ends up with you will be very lucky....no matter where she lives!

[cuddlyfemme]

Good Afternoon everyone! Its a beautiful day in SC. The temp is supposed to get up to 88...I don't know what the temp is now because I'm not looking at a thermometer but judging by how hot it was when I went outside today, it sure feels like it! Spring has finally sprung. Time for pedi time to wear with the sandals and sundresses

[nycbutch]

How the heck is everyone?????? We have had some beauuuutifullll weather here. I have been very busy with my Dad. He is finally showing his age. It is a tough thing to watch your parents age. It is a circle.
Soooo what has everyone been up to? I see LDR's are a toppic. I think they can work. It all depends on the people involved. It always seems the ones you are interested in are far, far away...... :police:

Have a great Day!!! Yeah I cannot sleep again!!!!!!! I think I am turning into a Vampire LOL Sleep during the day and up at night.

Hey Sunnnnnny!!! the weather this week sure was beautiful....except today....but not to worry, it's going to be great the next week or so!!! I know what you mean about the Dad thing! It's rough when the roles are reversed, but we are lucky to still have them!!!

I am definitely not into LDR's. Like to be within driving distance at least....most I'll do is a 2 hr drive....and that's pushing it!

I think the sleeping thing is an age thing too! I've been having trouble sleeping the last year or so....I sleep for 4-5 hrs then I'm awake and laying there for an hour or 2 before I fall back out. Makes for a very sleeeeeepy day!!!

[ruthie14]

http://i1109.photobucket.com/albums/h434/kpilkerton/St%20Patricks%20Day/Betty%20Boop%20St%20Patricks%20Day/stpatbettyboop.gif

Happy st patty's day!

[Luckydwg07]

Good Morning Everyone,

It has been awhile since I've posted in here. I've been working like a mad hatter and I've been dating someone.

Have a great day and even though I'm no longer single, I will continue to visit!

Zimmeh

Good to hear Zimgtl.....happy for ya

[ruthie14]

Happy Monday Singles..

[Heavenleahangel]

Good Monday Morning, Everyone! Hope your week is fabulous!

[tara_kerrie]

Well I am single again. How does a person learn to live without a person that they wannna spend the rest of their lives with...i just let hurt feelings convince me different. How do you convince yourself that life goes on. It has been 72 hours and I cant eat or sleep.

[Heavenleahangel]

Well I am single again. How does a person learn to live without a person that they wannna spend the rest of their lives with...i just let hurt feelings convince me different. How do you convince yourself that life goes on. It has been 72 hours and I cant eat or sleep.

Awww, KerrieH, I am sooo sorry. I know the feeling and I know it does get better. Just hang in there and take it one day at a time. Stick close to your friends. There are many of us on here that will lend an ear. {{{Hugs}}} to you....

[laruss]

Hi everyone, hopefully it's not too late to join into this group. I am new to the site and very grateful to have found a community of support.

About me, I am widowed for almost 2 years now, the first year was impossible and than I woke up and started living again. I am now single but have important people in my life. But not that ONE important person.

I currently live in Alberta, Canada but I am moving to BC in June, so starting all over again on my own.

Most of the time I really enjoy being single and some would say I have the best life. I have my place to myself, my children are grown and gone, I have a great male friend who spends the night occasionally I have a wonderful female friend (who I love) that spends the night occasionally and the rest of the time I have for myself, my friends and the work I do.

I am an artist and writer and really try to enjoy life.

However, I find there are times when I really miss having that one person, the person to hold you when you just need holding, the person you can come home at the end of the day to and they just know you well enough to see that you need to discuss something or not. The one person who is always there when you need them and that one person I can be there for.

I am at a point in my life where I am connecting more to the female energy and would love to find a woman to share my life with.

Okay, this wasn't meant to be a personal ad, I just wanted to share a bit about myself.

I look forward to getting to know people here and learning more about how we all cope with the day to day work of being single.

Thanks, L (w)

[Leigh]

Hi Singles,

My oh my its gorgeous weather out this time of the year, which is NOT like the normal march weather here in Winnipeg. Usually we are dealing with snow drifts, blizzards, winter jackets/hats/scarves/mitts etc and now here we are there is NO snow whatsoever and I was outside not long ago with shorts and a tank top on. I'm pretty much back to being single but I think its best for now; I'm working on getting a job and concentrating on losing weight so those things are more important to me right now than being with someone. It'll happen when its meant to happen, for now I am happy with just being able to get my life back on track and once it is I will be then ready to walk a path with someone who will love me for who I am ~ nothing more and nothing less!

Zimmeh ~ You honey are one of the most awesome women I've had the privilege of getting to know and I'm very glad that you have found someone ........... YOU totally deserve it :-)

Hell we all deserve to find love, and when we do it'll be worth the wait :heartbeat:

[Zimmeh]

Thank you Leigh!

It took me two years to find hym :)

Zimmeh

Hi Singles,

My oh my its gorgeous weather out this time of the year, which is NOT like the normal march weather here in Winnipeg. Usually we are dealing with snow drifts, blizzards, winter jackets/hats/scarves/mitts etc and now here we are there is NO snow whatsoever and I was outside not long ago with shorts and a tank top on. I'm pretty much back to being single but I think its best for now; I'm working on getting a job and concentrating on losing weight so those things are more important to me right now than being with someone. It'll happen when its meant to happen, for now I am happy with just being able to get my life back on track and once it is I will be then ready to walk a path with someone who will love me for who I am ~ nothing more and nothing less!

Zimmeh ~ You honey are one of the most awesome women I've had the privilege of getting to know and I'm very glad that you have found someone ........... YOU totally deserve it :-)

Hell we all deserve to find love, and when we do it'll be worth the wait :heartbeat:

[sarahwho]

Well I am single again. How does a person learn to live without a person that they wannna spend the rest of their lives with...i just let hurt feelings convince me different. How do you convince yourself that life goes on. It has been 72 hours and I cant eat or sleep.

I'm totally sorry! It takes time to feel the hurt and work thru it.


Hi all singles, HAPPY TUESDAY!

[ferret]

I've started to think that maybe I'll never find who/what I'm looking for. I realize that no one person can be everything, but that doesn't mean you have to settle. Maybe the best thing I can do is just NOT look; however, there are times when I think it would really be nice to have someone around to share things with...My other half, I suppose.

Sue

[Mr Nice Guy]

Hey Singles, still single and waiting. Hope everyone is having a great day. :)

[Luckydwg07]

I've started to think that maybe I'll never find who/what I'm looking for. I realize that no one person can be everything, but that doesn't mean you have to settle. Maybe the best thing I can do is just NOT look; however, there are times when I think it would really be nice to have someone around to share things with...My other half, I suppose.

Sue

Totally get it! Don't give up sh is out there.sometimes the search is a fun journey in itself meeting new people as you search for your gal. I have found some friends along the way.still searching myself.

[Luckydwg07]

Wednesday already...hope everyone is having a great day.

[Silverseastar]

Have a great hump day everyone :)

Here in Vancouver it's really very beautiful with blue skies and not a single cloud to be seen.

[fever]

Hello laruss. Sorry to hear about your loss. I live in BC, just a bit east of Vancouver. Give me a shout when you are moving, and we can share a coffee on the porch, watching the sheep graze and enjoying the beauty of mother nature.

Hi everyone, hopefully it's not too late to join into this group. I am new to the site and very grateful to have found a community of support.

About me, I am widowed for almost 2 years now, the first year was impossible and than I woke up and started living again. I am now single but have important people in my life. But not that ONE important person.

I currently live in Alberta, Canada but I am moving to BC in June, so starting all over again on my own.

Most of the time I really enjoy being single and some would say I have the best life. I have my place to myself, my children are grown and gone, I have a great male friend who spends the night occasionally I have a wonderful female friend (who I love) that spends the night occasionally and the rest of the time I have for myself, my friends and the work I do.

I am an artist and writer and really try to enjoy life.

However, I find there are times when I really miss having that one person, the person to hold you when you just need holding, the person you can come home at the end of the day to and they just know you well enough to see that you need to discuss something or not. The one person who is always there when you need them and that one person I can be there for.

I am at a point in my life where I am connecting more to the female energy and would love to find a woman to share my life with.

Okay, this wasn't meant to be a personal ad, I just wanted to share a bit about myself.

I look forward to getting to know people here and learning more about how we all cope with the day to day work of being single.

Thanks, L (w)

[laruss]

Hello laruss. Sorry to hear about your loss. I live in BC, just a bit east of Vancouver. Give me a shout when you are moving, and we can share a coffee on the porch, watching the sheep graze and enjoying the beauty of mother nature.

I will do that. Thanks for the invite.
L:flowers:

[Leigh]

Nice to see more canadians here ~ I'm form winnipeg :-)

[ruthie14]

Hope everyone is having a great weekend! A bit rainy and gloomy here...getting ready for family birthday party tomorrow. Meatballs and sausage with gravy, peppers and onions, potato salad, baked beans and lemon cake. Yummy!

[ruthie14]

http://i215.photobucket.com/albums/cc163/Lchmst/happy-sunday-7.jpg

[ruthie14]

Hello singletons... Hope everyone has a wonderful week! :rrose:

[fever]

This is my favourite time of year. Everything seems fresh. I watched my grandkids running around the property where I am moving, and I smiled. I made the right decision. Imagine! Being positive and thanking mother earth every day for her blessings works!!!!

I went to nowandthen's birthday party in Seattle yesterday. What fun! I love the intelligence mixed with compassion and a pure soul that makes Tee such a fine butch.

Have a splendid week everybody!

humbly, :praying:

Candice

[Heavenleahangel]

Good Morning, fellow Singles! Fever, I must agree with you! Spring is a remarkable time! We had a sneak peek of it the past couple of weeks and now it's back to our normal temps of the 40's and 50's during the day with the 20's at night! I know the good weather will return, sooner than later I hope! :bunchflowers:

[sarahwho]

Hello all you singles!

I have been trying to figure out a way to talk to a butch that has NO conversation ability (or maybe just as shy as me) that works at a local gas station - can we say GORGEOUS! Oh my! Might be another month or two before I work up the courage to speak again.:hamactor: Maybe I'll write to hym c/o the gas station and just YOU ARE GORGEOUS! lol

[ruthie14]

Came across this skit and thought I would share it with all of you! I wish they would bring this show back.. it was soooooooooooo funny!
pocket gay friend.wmv - YouTube

[laruss]

Hello all you singles!

I have been trying to figure out a way to talk to a butch that has NO conversation ability (or maybe just as shy as me) that works at a local gas station - can we say GORGEOUS! Oh my! Might be another month or two before I work up the courage to speak again.:hamactor: Maybe I'll write to hym c/o the gas station and just YOU ARE GORGEOUS! lol

The best way to talk to someone is just chit chat, don't jump into how gorgeous they are right away. Every time you are at the station stop for a few minutes to just chat and say hi, ask them about themselves. Turn on the flirt a little but don't over do it. Just be yourself. If you ask an open ended question they are forced to chat a bit as opposed to a grunt or a nod. Good Luck

[sarahwho]

Good idea! I've been trying to not go every day, but sheesh, that's about hard! Yesterday I went and got a coffee...hoping to talk about anything, but hy just watched me watching hym! Oh well, am trying anyway.

[ruthie14]

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[laruss]

I love Spring... even if today there is a foot of snow that wasn't there last night. But, I know it will be gone in a day or two.

But with Spring in the air, all the horny girls are out, including me.

I have a date this weekend with someone I met on Saturday, I wasn't even flirting because I thought she was with someone. When she asked for my number I questioned her and she explained (straight friend). So... something to look forward to this weekend. I am excited, feels like forever since I have been on a date. Oh, maybe because it has been.

She is super sweet and really cute... wish me luck.

[sarahwho]

I love Spring... even if today there is a foot of snow that wasn't there last night. But, I know it will be gone in a day or two.

But with Spring in the air, all the horny girls are out, including me.

I have a date this weekend with someone I met on Saturday, I wasn't even flirting because I thought she was with someone. When she asked for my number I questioned her and she explained (straight friend). So... something to look forward to this weekend. I am excited, feels like forever since I have been on a date. Oh, maybe because it has been.

She is super sweet and really cute... wish me luck.

Good luck!

Happy Easter!

Well, I bombed out, so back to looking.....**sigh**

[cuddlyfemme]

Good Morning everyone! I hope everyone had a good Easter if you celebrate the holiday. I spent mine with my cats lol I hope you all have a beautiful day!

[Seeocean2011]

Sorry it did not work out..
Maybe you should come to texas and see all of us:-)

[laruss]

I have a date this weekend with someone I met on Saturday, I wasn't even flirting because I thought she was with someone. When she asked for my number I questioned her and she explained (straight friend). So... something to look forward to this weekend. I am excited, feels like forever since I have been on a date. Oh, maybe because it has been.

She is super sweet and really cute... wish me luck.

So as a "date" I would have to say it was ok, but I guess my idea of a "date" is different then some others.

If I am "dating" someone I want to get to know them to see how compatible we are together, what we have in common, etc.

Don't get me wrong, I'm not a prude. I'm not opposed to sleeping with someone right away if that is what has been mutually decided, but if you want to get to know me don't jump me as soon as you get me alone. That's not dating in my books.

I sent her on her way the first night telling her I wanted to get to know her and see where things might go and the very next day she jumped me again so I figured what the F* and decided to go for it.

Yes, it made for a fun afternoon, but now in my mind she has been relegated to F* Buddy as opposed to someone to get to know.

Am I alone in this thinking? Is this the norm now a days, it's been a while since I have "dated".

[laruss]

Good luck!

Happy Easter!

Well, I bombed out, so back to looking.....**sigh**

Sorry it didn't work out, it's tough when they are shy. It's hard to get a conversation going. Don't take it personally, she didn't get to know you.

[ruthie14]

happy hump day friends. Feeling a little down today. Having trouble with my wrist so I went to the dr. She thinks it may actually be a problem with my neck. I already have neck trouble so something new isn't welcome. I had xrays today because insurance demands it, but it won't show anything. Xrayed my neck and my wrist. Next week I see a hand surgeon, and in early may I see my neck dr. Then they will send me for an mri. Wish they would just look at the xray results and schedule the mri that we all know is going to be nessassary. Save me 2 days pay in dr visits. We shall see.

Night all,
Ruthie

[Finn]

Hello Everyone...Just a quick stop to wish everyone a great Friday.. Ruthie,,sorry your wrist is so crummy,hope it gets better soon and they can figure out whats going on with all that too..(f)*S* Sarah,,(f),,never give up ,,they say there is someone for everyone ,so you will find Hym when your time is right*S*.... Me on the other hand ,,lol,,Well let's just say I am doubtfull of that saying *S* .... Enjoy your Thurday one and a/ALL....
Any Femmes in MA?
:byebye:

[Mr Nice Guy]

Still single and whistling a tune. :)

[Library_girl]

I have a date tomorrow and I'm a little nervous about it. She is a non-planet butch. Seems very nice. Wish me luck.

And hey, butches here on the Singles thread.....AHEM, there are femmes on the singles thread! Doesn't 1 + 1 = 2 ? Okay, some people don't do the distance thing. But some of us might! Just wanted to throw that out there.

LG, Playing Miss Matchmaker for all the single femmes and for Herself :goodluck:

[tazz]

hey All... just a single, very attractive, athletic, available cutie here!! just sayin' ;)

[LesboNascarFan]

Single and looking...

I am a very loyal, honest, fun loving tomboy.

[Seeocean2011]

Single, Big Kid at heart,looking for the femme that looks cute in my Long John Silvers hat..he he he:-)

[sarahwho]

Sorry it did not work out..
Maybe you should come to texas and see all of us:-)

Might try that! :tease:

[Mr Nice Guy]

Sarah, I just read your post and wanted to say, "hang in there" it will happen when you least expect it. :)

* still single and eating meatloaf.

[ruthie14]

I have a date tomorrow and I'm a little nervous about it. She is a non-planet butch. Seems very nice. Wish me luck.

And hey, butches here on the Singles thread.....AHEM, there are femmes on the singles thread! Doesn't 1 + 1 = 2 ? Okay, some people don't do the distance thing. But some of us might! Just wanted to throw that out there.

LG, Playing Miss Matchmaker for all the single femmes and for Herself :goodluck:

So how did it go?

[Library_girl]

So how did it go?

It went really well, better than I thought it might! Teaches me about making assumptions, huh? :) I am usually the one pursuing.....this time I'm being pursued.....so, karma has come around and given me a swift kick in the ass. LOL

Another date tomorrow night!

[Mr Nice Guy]

Still single and playing with my kitty. Ok that didn't sound right but you know what I mean. Lol

[ruthie14]

It went really well, better than I thought it might! Teaches me about making assumptions, huh? :) I am usually the one pursuing.....this time I'm being pursued.....so, karma has come around and given me a swift kick in the ass. LOL

Another date tomorrow night!

OH wonderful! I love being pursued! Until I catch hym that is! lololol

[Reader]

Sarah, I just read your post and wanted to say, "hang in there" it will happen when you least expect it. :)

* still single and eating meatloaf.

This is ALWAYS true. Why is that?

[Sunny]

How is everyone????
So glad to hear that some people are no longer single.
To all the singles, you are not alone. I think we all are looking for that special person to fulfill our lives. Just because two people are single does not mean they want to be with each other. And others will settle because they do not want to be alone.

If there is anyone who is truly lonely and you would like to chat sometime let me know. We are a community and need to be there for each other.
And now my lame joke.... I was out to lunch with a friend of mine and her daughter Mia. The waitress took our orders and then the waitress asked Mia, who had her teddy bear with her, if teddy wanted anything to eat. Mia replied" No thanks, he is stuffed!!!!

[bkisbutchenuff]

I am where I am becasue its where I should be....taken a while for me to understand that....
I am in search of my Princess...I will find her and I will be the boi/butch/Daddy she has been waiting for....
In the meantime...I'm going to continue to meet lovely Femmes, have fun and enjoy the life I've been given!
BK

[cuddlyfemme]

How is everyone????
So glad to hear that some people are no longer single.
To all the singles, you are not alone. I think we all are looking for that special person to fulfill our lives. Just because two people are single does not mean they want to be with each other. And others will settle because they do not want to be alone.

If there is anyone who is truly lonely and you would like to chat sometime let me know. We are a community and need to be there for each other.
And now my lame joke.... I was out to lunch with a friend of mine and her daughter Mia. The waitress took our orders and then the waitress asked Mia, who had her teddy bear with her, if teddy wanted anything to eat. Mia replied" No thanks, he is stuffed!!!!

That is so lame lol

[cuddlyfemme]

Good Morning Singles! I hope everyone is enjoying their day. The weather is strange here....yesterday is was in the high 80's and today its supposed to be in the mid 70's
No matter what you are doing today, I hope its a good one!

[Leigh]

Still kicking around here, hope everyone is well :)

[Beloved]

Another single here. I'm 37 and I am downright FABULOUS! Independent, self sufficient, intelligent, and a good baker. :wine:

[Reader]

Another single here. I'm 37 and I am downright FABULOUS! Independent, self sufficient, intelligent, and a good baker. :wine:


a good BAKER!?! Sorry, I just have to ask, what's your specialty?? cookies? cake? brownies? baked alaska?

maybe we need a 'what's your fav dessert' thread. :)

[Mr Nice Guy]

Still single and sometimes wishing I was in my twenties again.

[Beloved]

I like to bake cookies, cupcakes, cakes, brownies, etc. My baking is mostly vegan. Where in Jersey are you, Hunter Green? I am a Jersey girl living out of state but planning on moving back.

[sarahwho]

Sarah, I just read your post and wanted to say, "hang in there" it will happen when you least expect it. :)

* still single and eating meatloaf.

Doubting it serious today, but then again, you might be right.

[ferret]

40, butch, sane, independent, sense of humor, and a brain. I have a lot of different interests, know what I'm looking for, and I think I'm a decent person worth getting to know. While I'd like to find someone within my general area, not sure that's going to happen. I don't exactly like the idea of an LDR, but you never know.

[SweetJane]

Waving at all the singles. Good luck in your search.

[tazz]

this single gal...
works out at my gym like a "Beast," loves my 5 yr old fox terrier mikki; am honest, give-the-shirt-of-my-back to you kind of individual, witty, kind, the Best girlfriend you will ever have; 5'3" 110 lbs., light brown hair with greys, sky blue eyes, and an awesome smile, heart, & soul.

[Leigh]

Single canadian femme, just hanging around looking to chat with new people :)

[ruthie14]

Nice to see some new faces.. Welcome all!

*leaves tea and cookies*

Have a great monday! (f)
Ruthie

[sarahwho]

Hi everyone! Spent a quiet day at home today...took the day off to celebrate my bday. Got caught up on some paperwork that who knows WHY I held on to! Most of it hit the trash! Now I have different places to "stash"...ha..ha! Watched a cool movie called "One Fall" - good watch and just chilled!

Had dinner w/my parent's and son. Talking about our summer vacation in Maine - I [U]can't[U] wait! One day off has me salivating for a week and a half! Wish I could take all my 3 weeks at one time. Can't tell I'm getting "older" can ya?

Hope it wasn't a bad Monday for all!

[Mr Nice Guy]

Hey Sarah, when are you coming to Maine? I live in NH. There are a couple of New Englanders around. Would be cool to meet.

[Beloved]

New England should have a meet up! Anyone can come who doesn't mind traveling, but we should have one.

[sarahwho]

Hey Sarah, when are you coming to Maine? I live in NH. There are a couple of New Englanders around. Would be cool to meet.

It looks like sometime in August. My parent's have a cottage in Fryeburg on Lovewell pond. Where in NH do you live?

[Mr Nice Guy]

I'm in Manchester. We did a get together about 7 years ago. But it sounds like fun. :)

[Leigh]

Just came in to say hi to all of my friends :)

[sarahwho]

I'm in Manchester. We did a get together about 7 years ago. But it sounds like fun. :)

That's only about 2 hours south of me. We used to fly into Manchester, and then my parent's would pick us up and we would drive up. But my son and I now go to Portland, rent a small suv, and drive over to the cottage.

[ruthie14]

turns out the pain in my hand is partially, a nerve problem in my elbow. Dr wants to take care of the elbow and see what happens to the wrist. MRI didn't show anything in the wrist. Most likely a small tear they can't see. If it doesn't calm down, they may go in and "do some scraping" ouch! will schedule surgery for elbow soon. Still have neck dr to see. For now, had cortizone shots today. Almost passed out from the second one on my wrist. dr said the med affected my diabetes.

Sister and her wife have been visiting from Alaska. Neighbors rotty jumped the fence and bit my sisterinlaw. Had to report it. Police had to come out. Now they are claiming we are harrassing them... uhhh really?? Police don't believe him. Rotty was not registered so he is being slapped with a fine. Has to provide proof of up to date shots. They will not put in a new fence (of course he told the cop he would) bc he is out of work (always out of work) and can't afford it. REALLY??? and we can?? Have to do it in order to keep my 72 year old mother and my little Bella safe. Thanks God for a home depot credit card and a family friend who will let us pay him on time for the labor and not charge us much as it is.

[Mr Nice Guy]

That's only about 2 hours south of me. We used to fly into Manchester, and then my parent's would pick us up and we would drive up. But my son and I now go to Portland, rent a small suv, and drive over to the cottage.

That's cool. I've lived here for over ten years and plan on moving back to Mass.

[Leigh]

Still single, figured I'd come in and say hello to everyone :)

[Zimmeh]

Boston is a great city to live in and I miss living there!

Zimmeh

That's cool. I've lived here for over ten years and plan on moving back to Mass.

[greeneyedgrrl]

So as a "date" I would have to say it was ok, but I guess my idea of a "date" is different then some others.

If I am "dating" someone I want to get to know them to see how compatible we are together, what we have in common, etc.

Don't get me wrong, I'm not a prude. I'm not opposed to sleeping with someone right away if that is what has been mutually decided, but if you want to get to know me don't jump me as soon as you get me alone. That's not dating in my books.

I sent her on her way the first night telling her I wanted to get to know her and see where things might go and the very next day she jumped me again so I figured what the F* and decided to go for it.

Yes, it made for a fun afternoon, but now in my mind she has been relegated to F* Buddy as opposed to someone to get to know.

Am I alone in this thinking? Is this the norm now a days, it's been a while since I have "dated".

i had something similar happen recently, but i told her to kick rocks instead! :p (i felt like my boundaries weren't being respected) and i agree... there's nothing wrong with getting physical right away, if it's mutually agreed upon.

dating is rough sometimes. smh

[greeneyedgrrl]

Hello singles! I haven't been in here for a while... hope everyone is doing well!
:)

[laruss]

Anyone in the Kelowna BC area? I'm just moving there and will need friends as I am leaving everyone behind.

Also on a separate note. Has anyone had any luck with pinksofa.com ?

[bigbutchmistie]

Hello everyone! I hope everyone is doing well... :) Have a great week!

[Mr Nice Guy]

Still single and singing... I'm singing in the rain.
Just singing in the rain.

*** ok it's not raining. It's just stuck in my head. :)

[Leigh]

I just wanted to come and say hi to my friends :)

[Darbonaire]

just saying hello.....

[Teddybear]

hello to all the lovely ladies here on the thread and also to all the butches, ftm's.

Hope everyone is doing well and will have a great day

[bright_arrow]

Anyone in the Kelowna BC area? I'm just moving there and will need friends as I am leaving everyone behind.

Also on a separate note. Has anyone had any luck with pinksofa.com ?

I was on pinksofa..it kept matching me with my *insert non-complimentary word* ex, and I did not like the 'feel' of the site.

Alas I am not single, very much far from it.. I just wanted to post some encouragement. I was not looking when I found my partner. Far from it, as was she, and we had our up's and down's and baggage to work through - but if it feels right to you, stick with it. It's too easy to give up, but that doesn't make it right.

I feel the need to emphasize: communicate! You aren't a mind reader nor are they, and passive-aggressive is not always the best way to do things (though goddess knows I do it). If you can't speak about it, write it out. Leave it for them when you're not around if you need to express it without looking at them. But no matter what, communicate. Don't hold it in. It makes relationships a lot smoother, and you have a better idea of what you are getting into :) This goes for friendship as well, of course.

Good luck in love dear Planeteers :bunchflowers:

[Beloved]

HI all! I am single but I have a date coming up! :fireworks: Woo-hoo!

[Leigh]

Still single and ready to find my Prince Charming :)