Singles

[CharmingLee]

Hello all....single butchie here. Its been year since my second LTR ended. That one lasted 6 yrs. Older and wiser now.

[oksoftbutch]

If you weren't so dang far ......


Good Evening my fellow single peeps! I, too am single and currently FREEZING!!! :cold:

I am officially hanging out my "Now Taking Applications" sign to find the
"one". Its awful cold in this king size bed! I I stay single much longer, I may have to invest in an electric blanket!!! Interested parties may PM me for further information!!! ;-)

[GreeneyedMe]

Good Evening my fellow single peeps! I, too am single and currently FREEZING!!! :cold:

I am officially hanging out my "Now Taking Applications" sign to find the
"one". Its awful cold in this king size bed! I I stay single much longer, I may have to invest in an electric blanket!!! Interested parties may PM me for further information!!! ;-)


Freezing here too!! (Single too....) I think I am now up to three blankets PLUS my comforter on my bed....

[ScandalAndy]

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ohhhhh gurrrrrrrl! I seriously just started cackling in my office!!! :)

[clay]

Good afternoon singles!!!
Hope everyone is having a good weekend. I know all the folks up the NE Coast aren't...:(.

It is a beautiful, Carolina blue sky here and 61 degrees. I am in a pair of cargo shorts and polo shirt...:)...(pls. don't h8 me...:(...)

Sending warm sunshine and huigs to you all...


Have a splendid evening everyone.....:hangloose:

[oksoftbutch]

For the first time in many years I actually have a hookup for Valentines. Not sure what will happen....but the good part is spending time with a woman I really like....
:drool:

[dixie]

For the first time in many years I actually have a hookup for Valentines. Not sure what will happen....but the good part is spending time with a woman I really like....
:drool:

Yay!!! Congrats! :D

[TimilDeeps]

Good afternoon singles!!!
Hope everyone is having a good weekend. I know all the folks up the NE Coast aren't...:(.

It is a beautiful, Carolina blue sky here and 61 degrees. I am in a pair of cargo shorts and polo shirt...:)...(pls. don't h8 me...:(...)

Sending warm sunshine and huigs to you all...


Have a splendid evening everyone.....:hangloose:

you just tooooooooo sexy in those cargo shorts . . .

[clay]

you just tooooooooo sexy in those cargo shorts . . .

:blink:


bettah call :firetruck: OR :police: OR I go get Thelma...:)

[TimilDeeps]

:blink:


bettah call :firetruck: OR :police: OR I go get Thelma...:)

bring me back coffee

[clay]

bring me back coffee

hack...hack...cough...cough....shut up coughing, I can't hear the lady....cough cough..
I'll have...giggles...a larged...giggles..cough cough iced mocha'ed coffeed...lol...cough cough

[K6trg]

Good evening singles! How ya'll be besides cold LOL ;)

[Library_girl]

Freezing here too!! (Single too....) I think I am now up to three blankets PLUS my comforter on my bed....

Freezing and single here too! Let's see....2 blankets, a quilt, and 4 dogs! (Only 2 of them are mine, the other 2 are temporary) The doggies are the warmest :) though I'd prefer human warmth!

[NickE TimeLord]

:jester: i'm single again after 9.5 years and i don't have a clue what to do next.. i know jumping right into a new serious relationship isn't a swell idea...but i would like to date..maybe..kinda..if i was sure what that meant..i'd like someone to go to dinner.with..to films..well just about anywhere...beyond that simple beginning i am floundering..i haven't dated in...er..30 years?.. i am so in need of guidance.

[Italianboi]

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[Italianboi]

single tg butch/Daddy here ...pass by and say hello to all single bois and girls....here for u all :chocolate: and :coffee:....enjoy!!! :D

[curlyredhead]

I tend to post alot to the FTM TG Thread quite a bit. How about I add this one to my list of subscriptions. Hi my name is Curlyredhead, and I am single :)

[ScandalAndy]

GOOD MORNING!!!!


I discovered this bright light coming from the sky this morning when I was walking to the train. It hurts my eyes and gives me a headache. What is this phenomenon? (but seriously, I'm excited that we are finally starting to leave the six month period known as "winter" in the northeast)

[AnnRkey]

A singles thread huh ...

[cuddlyfemme]

Good Morning Singles!!! Sorry I haven't been around much...stuff went on. I hope everyone has a wonderful day!!!

[ScandalAndy]

Good Morning Singles!!! Sorry I haven't been around much...stuff went on. I hope everyone has a wonderful day!!!

Good morning, sunshine!!! :) We've been missing your energy around here!

[Italianboi]

good evening/morning all!!! coffee anyone??? :kettlepot: :)

[tara_kerrie]

Hello fellow singles. How is everyone doing?

[curlyredhead]

Hello fellow singles. How is everyone doing?

Hey there Kerrie how are you? I am doing alright this week is looking better and better as the days go by. I am looking forward to what's coming in the near future.

[Duchess]

Hello everybody.:)

[curlyredhead]

Hello everybody.:)

Hey there! Hope you are having a good day! Everyone enjoy St. Patrick's weekend have fun and be safe!

[MaggieBluIze]

Morning!!!! :)

I didn't even realize St. Patrick's Day is here.
Very sad, but true.
Kind of lost track of the time, apparently.

No plans ...
Hmmmmmmmmm ...
But this is Austin ...
I'm sure I can find something to be up to. :)

Have a wonderful weekend!!!!

:beerbros:

[bkisbutchenuff]

Stopping by to say hello....have a great Friday and a safe, fun, warm weekend!

[lusciouskiwi]

Good morning singles, I'm off to get my nails done. It's your Sunday evening ... what are you all up to?

[cuddlyfemme]

Good Morning wonderful Singles!!! I came back then had server problems now those problems have been worked out! I'm looking forward to catching up with those I know and getting to know those that I don't!!!

[lusciouskiwi]

Hope nobody od'ed on chocolate this weekend. :chocolate: :blink:

[cuddlyfemme]

Hope nobody od'ed on chocolate this weekend. :chocolate: :blink:

No chocolate here at all

[ruby_woo]

Good morning singles! It's a lovely, lovely day here in Vancouver. Dress without tights weather! I'm off to buy discounted Easter candy, and then hit the stores downtown to hopefully find something cute to add to my spring wardrobe. Have a lovely day everyone. :)

[KCBUTCH]

YEP single.... Healing, having fun, playing, enjoying, living...
and wishing everyone a great week

[Heavenleahangel]

Good Evening, fellow singles! I hope spring is springing and the weather in your neck of the woods is well, springy!!! :bouquet: We are still freezing!!! Am still looking for a bed warmer...

[Italianboi]

Good Evening, fellow singles! I hope spring is springing and the weather in your neck of the woods is well, springy!!! :bouquet: We are still freezing!!! Am still looking for a bed warmerd ...
me too!!!!! :D

Good evening to all on here!!! having a date with my chocolate truffle right now..:lol2:
hope you all had a fantastic Easter weekend...(f)

[Latino.Hrt]

.....***TAPZ ON MIC*****hi....single <clearzthroat>yeapthatzme_____

[SweetJane]

Just saying HI. Gosh it's been ages since I was in here....Still single.

[curlyredhead]

Good morning singles! It's trying to rain here in cloudy Dallas, TX but it doesn't look like much of anything will land on the ground. I hope everyone's week has gotten better. I am looking forward to getting my stitches removed on Friday. I am still single, but it's only been a few months. I am not in any rush to get anywhere. Have a good Tuesday!

[SweetJane]

It's a beautiful day in New Mexico. We have 300 days of sunshine here every year. Blessing and a curse. We need rain.

But the birds are singing and I'm getting ready to do some errands.

Have a great week everyone.

[lusciouskiwi]

It's a beautiful day in New Mexico. We have 300 days of sunshine here every year. Blessing and a curse. We need rain.

But the birds are singing and I'm getting ready to do some errands.

Have a great week everyone.

Any exciting errands on the list SJ? :)

Single and frustrated here. One cutie's whose communication skills are a bit ... rough shall we say and another cutie who communicates infrequently. Ugh!

What's a single blossom to do?

[SweetJane]

Any exciting errands on the list SJ? :)



I went to the Harley store and bought three great ladies tops. Love the fit and, of course, it's Harley Davidson.

Also did some more pricing for a weed whacker and a grill for my garden. I'll be getting both later in the summer.

Will be working out in my garden tomorrow hopefully.

[wahya]

Luscious maybe you have a 2x4 butch lol Sometimes us butches don't always have a clue lol

[BabyDaddy]

Daddy looking for a babygirl....message me if interested.

[dixie]

https://sphotos-a.xx.fbcdn.net/hphotos-frc1/384561_10151471547397144_1351402004_n.jpg

[CharmingLee]

The longer I'm single, the longer I start to like myself. :cracked:

[GreeneyedMe]

Single for 8 months..... It gets old sometimes, but I have grown within. I finally at age 47 know who I am, what I want, and the direction I am headed. It's a peaceful place. I like it here. But the single thing. It does get old.

[Girl_On_Fire]

I don't mind being single. I get a lot done. Having someone to flirt and chat with would be nice though. I think I might actually be ready for that now. Nothing too serious but it is spring after all...

[LoyalWolfsBlade]

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Single is ok but for a Daddy and a gentle man I vote for letting the heart grow and meeting someone that is as ready as you are...

[firecat242]

I don't mind being single. I get a lot done. Having someone to flirt and chat with would be nice though. I think I might actually be ready for that now. Nothing too serious but it is spring after all...

I agree with you Girl....single isn't such a bad thing.... but having someone to flirt and chat with would be a plus. That is what I am hoping to find on this site....some new friends and chat buddies....if more comes of it great otherwise I just want to have a good time.

[MysticOceansFL]

Nothing wrong with being single I mean I've been single for 12 years or more it does get a little tedious sometimes but I do miss having that special someone to share my life with.

[Beloved]

Single again and not particularly happy about it. I don't know why all my relationships fail. I must be too damaged.

[Electrocell]

Myself I would much rather be single than in a miserable relationship.

[Mopsie]

Myself I would much rather be single than in a miserable relationship.

You took the words right out of my mouth!

[luv2luvgirls]

You took the words right out of my mouth!

What she said!

[Diablo]

i had been single..for sometime..and actually enjoyed it. Dated who i wanted...visited different parts of the country... THEN i met HER and fell in love. Now that im single again...it feels so foreign and cold....all the colors have faded a tad. Hoping to find the fun in being single again.

[Stitch]

I am single again. It's hard being a 2x4 nerdy boi.

Seeking non 2x4 nerdy femme.

Can that happen?

[Mopsie]

I am single again. It's hard being a 2x4 nerdy boi.

Seeking non 2x4 nerdy femme.

Can that happen?


I'm trying to keep hope alive that it can happen ... but some days the hope falters... its been 5 years for me and so far I haven't found what I'm looking for....

[curlyredhead]

Myself I would much rather be single than in a miserable relationship.

I definitely have to say I completely agree!
The stress of a bad relationship took its toll on me, and now I am slowly coming back from it, and I am doing really well! Fitness, weight control, I look really good now! I am happy, and my old sense of humor is back too. I just gotta take care of me for now, till I find that cute girl that's perfect for me.

[prettyboyreg]

I haven't been in here in a while. Thought that I would stop by and say "Hello!" to all...

[wahya]

Single but miss holding a sweet femme in my arms. :)

[MsBluem]

Having one of those weeks where I just want to be wined, dined and cared for.


I just want to be taken care of for once instead of being the one doing all the caring.

[GraffitiBoi]

Single but miss holding a sweet femme in my arms. :)

Same here. Sadly, I am the type of person who needs to be hit by a few 2x4s before I realize a femme likes me. LOL

[Italianboi]

......Still single but I don` t rush into anything anymore.....enjoy life and take care about myself....:)

[Spikester]

Drop in to say hello to all the singles

[MsBluem]

Tried all the self care in the world this weekend but I'm still feeling super lonely. Even resorted to messaging ladies on okcupid.

Doubt I'll even get replies. Nobody ever seems terribly interested in me.


Which is a bummer because I'm a total babe that knows things about stuff and can cook.

[curlyredhead]

Tried all the self care in the world this weekend but I'm still feeling super lonely. Even resorted to messaging ladies on okcupid.

Doubt I'll even get replies. Nobody ever seems terribly interested in me.


Which is a bummer because I'm a total babe that knows things about stuff and can cook.

Oh stop, you will get replies, and even if you don't we still love you :). I am sure you are a total babe. I know how you feel we all have these days!

[MsBluem]

Aw, thanks. Good to know someone does. :-) Is there a specific thread for posting pictures of ourselves? I feel like being vain.

[Heavenleahangel]

Howdy to all my single peeps! I hope everyone's summer has gotten off to a good start! Here in Upstate, NY the weather just turned hot and humid! Yuck! It's definitely time to be as nekkid as possible to stay as cool as possible! Anyone wanna have a Super Soaker water fight?

[curlyredhead]

Aw, thanks. Good to know someone does. :-) Is there a specific thread for posting pictures of ourselves? I feel like being vain.

There is a Gallery on this site where you can upload photos of anything you like. If you need help on how to post to the Gallery, I will get you the directions. It's very easy.

[curlyredhead]

Howdy to all my single peeps! I hope everyone's summer has gotten off to a good start! Here in Upstate, NY the weather just turned hot and humid! Yuck! It's definitely time to be as nekkid as possible to stay as cool as possible! Anyone wanna have a Super Soaker water fight?

Water fight is on! Hope you are ready Heavenleahangel!

[MsBluem]

There is a Gallery on this site where you can upload photos of anything you like. If you need help on how to post to the Gallery, I will get you the directions. It's very easy.


Thanks! I'll try to figure it out on my break. :-)

Also, Water fight?!?!?! I want in.

[Heavenleahangel]

Hottt femmes in bathing suits (optional?) and good lookin bois chasing us with super soakers! This sounds like a FUN time!!!!

[MsBluem]

Hottt femmes in bathing suits (optional?) and good lookin bois chasing us with super soakers! This sounds like a FUN time!!!!

Best idea everrrrr. I'm going swimsuit shopping tomorrow. In search of a fierce fatkini.

P.S. I tried to upload photos but everything I have is a large file size. :-( Even after I resize them. Anyone want to help me out?

[prettyboyreg]

The water fight sounds like a rocking idea! Count me in! I'll be wearing board shorts and a rash gaurd...boring. :)

[MsBluem]

Swimsuit shopping was a bust. However, I did get a cute tie-dye sundress, new flip flops, nail polish and a new bag.

[Jar]

Wading back into the pool! Been way too long :flowers:

[Kent]

Hello everybody.:)

Hello Duchess..

Hi everyone..

How's it goin' today?

[MsBluem]

Hello Duchess..

Hi everyone..

How's it goin' today?

It's going. Talked my landlord into letting me pay rent late so I could stock up on extra groceries this week. "Go ahead. You're the easiest tenant I've had in a long time. I know you're good for catching it up."

I kind of hit the jackpot with cool landlords.

[Heavenleahangel]

Wading back into the pool! Been way too long :flowers:

Jar, you can join my super soaker water fight if you let me go swimming with ya! I promise to bring a swimsuit....I will even *wear* it!!!! Lol

[SugarFemme]

Just popping in to say hello. I have not been in here for a very long time. Happy Fourth to all.

[Chad]

Happy 4th of July!!

I am recently single again and this looks like the right place for me.

I hope everyone has a great day!

Chad

[LucyGirl]

Single but miss holding a sweet femme in my arms. :)

i know what you mean, with me though it is being held by a strong butch

[Heavenleahangel]

Happy 4th of July!!

I am recently single again and this looks like the right place for me.

I hope everyone has a great day!

Chad

At least you have some awesome fellow single peeps to hang around with. Ya never know when some cute femme will catch your eye...and your capture your heart!

[Heavenleahangel]

:fireworks: Happy 4th of July :fireworks: to my American peeps! I guess it's just a regular "Have a great evening/night" to those who aren't celebrating independence. (I'm trying to be politically correct, here.)

[MsBluem]

Sure would be nice to have someone to watch the fireworks with tonight. Perfect time for cuddling and stuff.

[Stitch]

I would like cuddling, and having a date, and having someone to like.

Dear Universe, I would like to have someone to like, who might actually like me back.

I had a really good time with someone at Pride in another city, and I don't get to feel like that very often.

Hello Other Singles!!!!

[wahya]

Sure would be nice to have someone to watch the fireworks with tonight. Perfect time for cuddling and stuff.
Hey I saw an awesome fireworks show tonight..All by myself. ( I got stood up) lol Know what? I was pretty good company. :)

[lusciouskiwi]

I was just looking at some member photos here. :blush:

[Kent]

It's going. Talked my landlord into letting me pay rent late so I could stock up on extra groceries this week. "Go ahead. You're the easiest tenant I've had in a long time. I know you're good for catching it up."

I kind of hit the jackpot with cool landlords.


MsBluem, glad your landlord is so understanding. And the good groceries, well, that made me wonder what all you've been cooking? :bbq:

[MsBluem]

MsBluem, glad your landlord is so understanding. And the good groceries, well, that made me wonder what all you've been cooking? :bbq:

Got the kiddo home on summer break. She's a growing girl and ate my food reserves down in a month. had to stock back up. now next week all i'll have to get is essentials. hooray!

[Kent]

Got the kiddo home on summer break. She's a growing girl and ate my food reserves down in a month. had to stock back up. now next week all i'll have to get is essentials. hooray!

Cool... But, but you didn't tell us anything about the good food you've cooked?/?

[MsBluem]

Cool... But, but you didn't tell us anything about the good food you've cooked?/?

Made oreo buttercream brownies last week. Chicken quesadillas yesterday for lunch. Tomorrow I'm thinking pork chops and au gratin potatoes.

[SugarFemme]

Sometimes, you are the VERY best company you can have. I know I am LOL.





Hey I saw an awesome fireworks show tonight..All by myself. ( I got stood up) lol Know what? I was pretty good company. :)

[Chad]

Hi singles,

I hope everyone had a great holiday weekend. I had some fun this weekend with friends and family.

I am trying to figure out how to cook and eat these days. I use to cook nice meals for two or more with family now I do not seem to have much interest in cooking. Today everything I ate came from the frozen food section of the grocery store.

So, any suggestions?

Chad

[curlyredhead]

Hi singles,

I hope everyone had a great holiday weekend. I had some fun this weekend with friends and family.

I am trying to figure out how to cook and eat these days. I use to cook nice meals for two or more with family now I do not seem to have much interest in cooking. Today everything I ate came from the frozen food section of the grocery store.

So, any suggestions?

Chad

Chad-
I cook for myself all the time. Its really just a matter of knowing
What you want. If you need ideas we can talk.

~Curly

[Princess]

just popping in to say hello :)

hope everyone has a grandtastic day!

[Chad]

Hello my single friends.

I hope that everyone is having a good week. I am working hard and keeping my head up.

Wishing my single friends a happy week.

Chad

[Chad]

Chad-
I cook for myself all the time. Its really just a matter of knowing
What you want. If you need ideas we can talk.

~Curly

I know how to cook (kinda) for two or more but cooking for just one seems hard to me. Like cooking spaghetti, it would take me a week to eat one pot of spaghetti.

Chad

[curlyredhead]

I know how to cook (kinda) for two or more but cooking for just one seems hard to me. Like cooking spaghetti, it would take me a week to eat one pot of spaghetti.

Chad

Ok so I tend to cook for a few days sometimes, so I have leftovers I can eat the rest of the week. I tend to take what I make at home for dinner to lunch at work. Your leftovers will last a few days as long as they are sealed right. When you make spaghetti for instance instead of making so much at one time just cut your recipe in half.

[Heavenleahangel]

Good Morning, Peeps! Happy Hump Day! I hope everyone's week is going smoothly and if it's as hot in your neck of the woods as it is here, I hope you have creative ways to stay cool! I suggest wearing as little as possible! Of course a/c is good, too! My house stays at 70* or so. Come on over, everyone! I'll fire up the grill!

[Chad]

Hello single friends! I am just checking in to see how everyone is doing this week.

I am having a good and productive week.

Chad

[Mopsie]

Hi singles,

I hope everyone had a great holiday weekend. I had some fun this weekend with friends and family.

I am trying to figure out how to cook and eat these days. I use to cook nice meals for two or more with family now I do not seem to have much interest in cooking. Today everything I ate came from the frozen food section of the grocery store.

So, any suggestions?

Chad

I agree with Curly on this one. I cut recipes in half or I plan to eat on the leftovers all week. Sometimes a combination of the two. Most weeks I plan three different meals but I plan to make about 4 servings of each meal. That way I can rotate the leftovers and not get too bored with whatever I'm eating. I try to choose a variety of types of foods for the three meals. For example I might make chicken fajitas, spaghetti with meat sauce, and sandwiches with a salad on the side. I'm not amazing cook or anything so I make pretty easy meals but it works well for me. :)

If you want to get all organized about it you can put proteins you like (and know how to cook) in one column, carbohydrates in another column, and vegetables or side dishes in a third column. Then you just pick one from each column and rotate what you pick so it is not the same thing each week. (I used to do that at one point.)

Oh and one more thing .... take advantage of all the shortcut meals and things they have in the grocery store. Like the fajita dinner kits where you just add the protein and vegetables. If you want some specific/concrete ideas let me know. :) You got this!

[CherryBlonde]

Single high femme babygirl in search of a Daddy. About me: I am a personal trainer so I'm in great shape. I have two furry kids (my dogs). I am blonde, cherry blonde to be exact. I have blue/green eyes. I am 5'4" without heels. I like being spoiled and treated like a princess. I love to travel and I love cooking. I'm looking for a Daddy that will treat me right. Someone in fairy good shape. Someone who can hold a conversation, has a good job, is funny, kind and loving.

[curlyredhead]

Single high femme babygirl in search of a Daddy. About me: I am a personal trainer so I'm in great shape. I have two furry kids (my dogs). I am blonde, cherry blonde to be exact. I have blue/green eyes. I am 5'4" without heels. I like being spoiled and treated like a princess. I love to travel and I love cooking. I'm looking for a Daddy that will treat me right. Someone in fairy good shape. Someone who can hold a conversation, has a good job, is funny, kind and loving.

Hey Cherry how are you??? Ready for the weekend?? Nice to meet you by the way. Where in AZ are you?

[Chad]

Hi,

singles I hope everyone is doing well. I am still relearning how to be a bachelor but I am making a lot of progress. I only ate over the sink a couple of times this week. :)

Have a great weekend!

Chad

[MsBluem]

For the first time in a while I'll have free time and a little extra money. I just wish I could find someone who wanted to join me for drinks and to tell me I'm pretty. Haha

Total sap moment but I need to be adored for once.

[SaltyButch]

For the first time in a while I'll have free time and a little extra money. I just wish I could find someone who wanted to join me for drinks and to tell me I'm pretty. Haha

Total sap moment but I need to be adored for once.

Ms. Blue, if I were closer I would most certainly take you out and hopefully put a smile on your face.

[Princess]

For the first time in a while I'll have free time and a little extra money. I just wish I could find someone who wanted to join me for drinks and to tell me I'm pretty. Haha

Total sap moment but I need to be adored for once.

just a note to say that i adore you blueboo.

one day, ONE DAY! we will have some scotch and gummy bears and ill tell you i like your face.

<3

[MsBluem]

just a note to say that i adore you blueboo.

one day, ONE DAY! we will have some scotch and gummy bears and ill tell you i like your face.

<3

DANGER ZONE, PRINNYPIE. DANGER ZONE.

[girliefemme4u]

I am single :sigh: I am 5'8" looking for someone who is around that height if not taller (I really am not shallow). I have strawberry/blonde hair shoulder length in hopes to find someone who loves to play with my hair. My eyes are blue hoping to have someone who will look into them with a look as I am the only woman in the world. I am all about family. I love the outdoors. I want to be treated how I deserve to be treated and how I would treat them. So...on that note hi all :newbie:

[curlyredhead]

I am single :sigh: I am 5'8" looking for someone who is around that height if not taller (I really am not shallow). I have strawberry/blonde hair shoulder length in hopes to find someone who loves to play with my hair. My eyes are blue hoping to have someone who will look into them with a look as I am the only woman in the world. I am all about family. I love the outdoors. I want to be treated how I deserve to be treated and how I would treat them. So...on that note hi all :newbie:

Too bad I was not born with taller genes... I am just shy of 5'7 oh well maybe if I try to stretch more I can stretch an inch :P

[Heavenleahangel]

Curly, the answer to the problem is.....elevator shoes! You can buy a pair and they will make you appear to be 5'8" or taller! The soles are built to make you taller! Problem solved! Romance away....

[girliefemme4u]

Too bad I was not born with taller genes... I am just shy of 5'7 oh well maybe if I try to stretch more I can stretch an inch :P

lol 5'7" is good 5'5" and shorter is what I was meaning lol

[curlyredhead]

lol 5'7" is good 5'5" and shorter is what I was meaning lol

LOL at least we broke the ice there!

[Chad]

Hi,

as a single person I am having a love/hate experience with grocery shopping.

I love it that I can buy all the food that I like without worrying about someone else's likes and dislikes.

However, I find shopping by myself a little lonely. There is no one trying to sneak treats into the basket behind my back or discussions about meals.

That is my take on grocery shopping.

Chad

[Mopsie]

Hi,

as a single person I am having a love/hate experience with grocery shopping.

I love it that I can buy all the food that I like without worrying about someone else's likes and dislikes.

However, I find shopping by myself a little lonely. There is no one trying to sneak treats into the basket behind my back or discussions about meals.

That is my take on grocery shopping.

Chad

Too bad you're several states away or we could be grocery shopping buddies!

I love to grocery shop. :)

[Chad]

Too bad you're several states away or we could be grocery shopping buddies!

I love to grocery shop. :)

Thank you Mopsie, that is very sweet. I would love it if someone walked by and dropped some jelly beans my basket Haha!

[rustedrims]

Hi,

as a single person I am having a love/hate experience with grocery shopping.

I love it that I can buy all the food that I like without worrying about someone else's likes and dislikes.

However, I find shopping by myself a little lonely. There is no one trying to sneak treats into the basket behind my back or discussions about meals.

That is my take on grocery shopping.

Chad

My thoughts HATE IT ! ! !

[rustedrims]

Too bad you're several states away or we could be grocery shopping buddies!

I love to grocery shop. :)

Excuse me,,, Could I please come tooo ? ? ?

[lusciouskiwi]

I don't even do a complete circuit of my local supermarket since I know exactly what (except they don't have ground coffee!). But when I'm in the big smoke and in a supermarket that has imported yummies, then it can take some time to slowly walk around. Then I quite enjoy it.

Supermarket shopping is more fun with friends or a darling. :)

[rustedrims]

I don't even do a complete circuit of my local supermarket since I know exactly what (except they don't have ground coffee!). But when I'm in the big smoke and in a supermarket that has imported yummies, then it can take some time to slowly walk around. Then I quite enjoy it.

Supermarket shopping is more fun with friends or a darling. :)

Excuse me again,,, can I go with YYOOUUU ? ? ?

[lusciouskiwi]

Excuse me again,,, can I go with YYOOUUU ? ? ?

Sure! There's nothing like comparing rice or varieties of dried fish with a friend. ;) Or whether today's fresh chicken feet are a good deal. :hangloose:

[rustedrims]

Sure! There's nothing like comparing rice or varieties of dried fish with a friend. ;) Or whether today's fresh chicken feet are a good deal. :hangloose:

HOLY BA-JESUS ! ! ! Now that I have seen your grocery list can we just stick with the jelly beans ? ? maybe an ice-cream cone?

[Mopsie]

Wow. Chicken feet?? :|
That's a whole nother level of shopping!
I'm more of a ground beef and chicken breast kind of gal ...

[lusciouskiwi]

HOLY BA-JESUS ! ! ! Now that I have seen your grocery list can we just stick with the jelly beans ? ? maybe an ice-cream cone?

Wow. Chicken feet?? :|
That's a whole nother level of shopping!
I'm more of a ground beef and chicken breast kind of gal ...


Teeheehee. Knew that would get yous. ;) Ok, I promise not to drag you through a wet market.

http://www.turntablekitchen.com/_uploads/Congac_IceCream_twospoons.jpg

[Koffeelvr]

I don't mind going to the grocery store. I just can't cook...

[curlyredhead]

I don't mind going to the grocery store. I just can't cook...

Ohhh I can cook! Do we need to have cooking classes so y'all can cook for the ladies???

[MsBluem]

I can cook but I'm more of a baker.

[MysticOceansFL]

I can cook or Bake

[randomnotes]

I don't know if any of you are like me. I love to cook but hate to wash dishes. You wash my dishes and I will cook for you all day long. ;-)

[ScandalAndy]

ooooooh, i'm all laid up from surgery. I will GLADLY appreciate the cooking services of someone other than myself!! Where do I sign up? :)

[Koffeelvr]

Playing catch up here...

Curly - thanks for the offer of cooking lessons. Cooking has never really been my thing though. I would learn if I met someone and was asked in just the way but until then...

Andy - I like washing dishes. It gets me out of cooking. I hope you recovery is smooth and fast.

[ScandalAndy]

Playing catch up here...

Curly - thanks for the offer of cooking lessons. Cooking has never really been my thing though. I would learn if I met someone and was asked in just the way but until then...

Andy - I like washing dishes. It gets me out of cooking. I hope you recovery is smooth and fast.

I have to admit, I'm with randomnotes. My least favorite thing is dishes, so I'm always trying to pull the "i'll cook if you'll clean up" bargain. :)

Thanks for the well wishes! I'm already up and walked so I have high hopes this will be a quick recovery! It better be, anyway, I'm getting tired of microwave food, lol!

[Chad]

Hi,

I was wondering if there is a BF group in the San Antonio area?

Or a BF singles group in Austin and/or San Antonio?

Chad is branching out .......haha!

[curlyredhead]

Hi,

I was wondering if there is a BF group in the San Antonio area?

Or a BF singles group in Austin and/or San Antonio?

Chad is branching out .......haha!

Hey Chad here's the link for San Antonio in case you haven't found it.

http://www.butchfemmeplanet.com/forum/showthread.php?t=2990

[SaltyButch]

I don't know if any of you are like me. I love to cook but hate to wash dishes. You wash my dishes and I will cook for you all day long. ;-)


Oh if anyone cooks for me, I will gladly wash the dishes...managed that arrangement many times..."s".

[Heavenleahangel]

Good evening, Everyone! Just popping in to see what's up. On topic here, I love to cook and bake as well! I tend to re-purpose my leftovers to make new things like cook two roasts at one time then make my homemade veggie soup out of the leftovers. Yummy! Top that off with some sweet cornbread...ok, I better hush. I'm getting hungry! Have a great weekend everyone!

[MysticOceansFL]

Everyone have a great week end

[Leigh]

just came to say hi and mingle abit :)

[Asari]

Autumn is coming!
And still I have to stroll through the forest on my own. It's gorgeous anyway. :)

[MysticOceansFL]

Hope everyone is having a great week end

[LucyGirl]

Looking for a butch to exchange erotic emails with. Must have a decent vocabulary and grammar. Other than that, lets have fun. PM me on BFP. If we click, we can move into personal emails.

Mods - if this is the incorrect place to put a post like this, please let me know. I looked around and this seemed like the best place to me.

[TheLoneStranger]

Cool weather is settling in here. I hope those that need some warmth find it. One of my kitties is keeping me warm at the moment. lol

[~BluEydFemme~]

GOOD EVENING TO ALL.....
I HOPE EVERYONE IS HAVING A PEACEFUL NIGHT. :) KIND OF BORED RIGHT NOW. JUST SURFING THE THREADS. WHAT IS EVERYONE UP TO TONIGHT?? I WILL SOON HAVE TO PUT MY ELECTRIC BLANKET ON MY BED. THE DAYS ARE BEAUTIFUL HERE, BUT THE NIGHTS TURN CHILLY AND DROP INTO THE 40s. NEED TO STAY WARM AS I AM THE ONLY ONE IN MY BED...... ;) WISH IT WASN'T THAT WAY, THOUGH. ANYWAY, HAVE A WONDERFUL REST OF YOUR EVENING. I SHALL BE ON FOR A BIT LONGER SEARCHING MY THREADS..... :O)

[Leigh]

Definitely think I should throw my name into the Singles list again, look forward to chatting with new people and maybe connecting with someone special :)

[curlyredhead]

Waves to everyone, just thought I would say hello! I hope everyone is having a good Monday so far. I would like to get back in my comfortable bed and curl up under the covers and sleep. Anyone care to join???

[GeeGina]

and while I'm not necessarily looking, I'm also not NOT looking. So, check out my profile and photos and if you like, feel free say hello and get to know me better.

Oh...and new friends are always welcome too!!

[MsBluem]

Waves to everyone, just thought I would say hello! I hope everyone is having a good Monday so far. I would like to get back in my comfortable bed and curl up under the covers and sleep. Anyone care to join???

I'm right there with you. I made the mistake of going back to bed this morning. I had to bribe myself with chocolate to get out of bed. I was so comfortable!

[Princess]

Cool weather is settling in here. I hope those that need some warmth find it. One of my kitties is keeping me warm at the moment. lol

i am blessed with two furrbabies that keep me warm <3 they are the only loves i need in my life (if i keep telling myself that... :P )

[TheLoneStranger]

i am blessed with two furrbabies that keep me warm <3 they are the only loves i need in my life (if i keep telling myself that... :P )

I have 2 and they take turns. lol But I sure do miss the human touch.

[MsBluem]

i am blessed with two furrbabies that keep me warm <3 they are the only loves i need in my life (if i keep telling myself that... :P )

I would keep you warm, prinnypie. You know this. :-D

[Princess]

I would keep you warm, prinnypie. You know this. :-D

oh, yes please! :praying:

[Leigh]

Nice to see more people hanging out here :)

[Helena_Handbasket]

New to the thread....just passing through and saying hi!

[Teddybear]

Good morning everyone. Hope everyone has a great day

[Heavenleahangel]

Good Afternoon to my single peeps. I haven't been on in a while taking care of a sick little boy. I hope everyone is settling into fall nicely. Cold weather is coming to us northern folks. Too cold to be single! I say this every year...Lol

[Sulene64]

Hello everyone, im single from the dallas area. Love MMA. Ready to mingle if your single. Im soft butch looking for femme

[Heavenleahangel]

Good Evening my Planet peeps! I guess everyone here is partnered off since no one is repping the Singles thread! Oh, my! What's a femme to do?

[TheLoneStranger]

Good Evening my Planet peeps! I guess everyone here is partnered off since no one is repping the Singles thread! Oh, my! What's a femme to do?

Good evening :)

[fever]

Almost hump day! I have been occupied elsewhere for a bit, but am back to mix and mingle. Going to be in Vegas Nov. 17 if any of you singles will be in the area.

always happy for new friends and pen pals,

Candice

[Daktari]

Single and seeking dalliances. Sadly you lot are all too far away. :sunglass:

[fever]

Daktari, aren't travelling on air miles just the best? I have flying via miles for years. I find it a good way to extra bang for our hard earned bucks. haha Using them, actually, for this trip to Vegas and home from CA.

Happy flying!!!:canadian:



Single and seeking dalliances. Sadly you lot are all too far away. :sunglass:

[Teddybear]

good morning singles

this thread has been quiet way to long

everyone enjoy their monday

[DaddyNik12]

pokes head in the door and looks around *


sooooo this is where its all about ?

gets my paper out and reads the want ads *

[Heavenleahangel]

Good Monday Morning! Happy Veteran's Day to my American peeps.

[TheLoneStranger]

Stopping in to say hi to all the beautiful people. :D

[CA_BabyCakes]

http://i1251.photobucket.com/albums/hh547/pabon_family/thCAJ7D6YX-1.jpg

And I truly believe that!

[curlyredhead]

Waves to everyone!!! I hope all of you are doing well... Let's see how long I can stay out of trouble?

[Jrio91]

I just discovered this thread and figured I'd give it a shot!

I'm Jamie. I'm a 22 year old femme in Spokane, WA, USA. I love to sing, bake, watch movies, road trip, go to sporting events, and much more! I'm a really laid back girl with a love for both butches and femmes. Just wishing I could find a keeper! lol

Feel free to message me! I'm always up for new friends and people to talk to! :)

[curlyredhead]

I just discovered this thread and figured I'd give it a shot!

I'm Jamie. I'm a 22 year old femme in Spokane, WA, USA. I love to sing, bake, watch movies, road trip, go to sporting events, and much more! I'm a really laid back girl with a love for both butches and femmes. Just wishing I could find a keeper! lol

Feel free to message me! I'm always up for new friends and people to talk to! :)

Welcome to the thread!

Nice to meet you Jamie! My name is either Curlyredhead or Josh I go by both. I am 32 yrs old and I am in Plano, TX. I like cooking, grilling and baking. Movies, traveling, going on adventures. I am very outdoorsy, and enjoy going to sporting events as well. You will find the right one when you least expect it. I have learned to be patient. Oh btw I can't sing.

[Leigh]

I just came to say hello to my fellow singles, wishing you all a wonderful day ~ looking forward to mingling with everyone :)

[TheLoneStranger]

Hi to all the singles. I pray the days are good to you. :)

[Bells]

**Waving Hi****

Hi everyone, just thought I would drop by with a quick hi (held tilted to the right . Doing my best Peanut impression)

[Leigh]

good to see people here :)

[DaddyNik12]

stops reading my paper and folds it down a bit * oh hello everyone

[Bells]

Single and seeking dalliances. Sadly you lot are all too far away. :sunglass:



Well maybe you should move to the states ;)

[Leigh]

just came in to say hello to everyone :)

[Helena_Handbasket]

Hello everyone! Just popping in to say hi!

[TheLoneStranger]

Happy Thanksgiving to all the singles. :)

[DaddyNik12]

Happy thanksgiving so my fellow singles

[Teddybear]

Happy Thanksgiving to all who celebrate v

Please b safe if your out on the road

[Torchsong3]

I miss having a daddy. It's difficult to be seen as femme without that dynamic present in my life. Plus the fact that I'm not comfortable expressing such a personal side of myself when accessing "vanilla" dating sites....hard to find butches let alone a daddy.

[Bells]

Happy Thanksgiving to all

[Licious]

Wishing all the singles a good Thanksgiving, if you celebrate.

[TheLoneStranger]

http://s5.favim.com/orig/53/awesome-funny-saying-single-Favim.com-494497.jpg

[LoyalWolfsBlade]

Testing the waters

Have a great weekend my fellow single planet inhabitants

[TruTexan]

Hi to all the singles out on the planet! Have a wonderful fun weekend.

[DaddyNik12]

suppose to attend a play party tomorrow nite .. sucks going to one alone ..ughhh

[MsBluem]

I'm having the hardest time with dating lately. Usually, i could care less but the combination of the holidays and friends getting married and having babies is making me feel real lonely.

[DaddyNik12]

I'm having the hardest time with dating lately. Usually, i could care less but the combination of the holidays and friends getting married and having babies is making me feel real lonely.

seems like a lot of that going around lately ..and I can relate

[MsBluem]

seems like a lot of that going around lately ..and I can relate

It's difficult indeed.

[Sunny]

How is everyone tonight? The Holiday rush is on. The roads are crowded and it impossible to get around in the stores.
Just a question: What would you like for Christmas if you celebrate it......

[nanners]

I celebrate Christmas, Here's my list!

A wireless printer
a 3" Memory foam with cooling gel topper for my full size bed
Adajio earrings in pink
A trip to DisneyLand
A ticket for Reunion 2014
snow boots
yoga mat
Motorola ELITE SLIVER Bluetooth Headset
Fifty Shades of Kale: 50 Fresh and Satisfying Recipes cookbook
Taste of Home: Appetizers: 410 Party Favorites cookbook

and this:

http://www.petfinder.com/petdetail/27910770/

[Teddybear]

I'm having the hardest time with dating lately. Usually, i could care less but the combination of the holidays and friends getting married and having babies is making me feel real lonely.

Im sorry to hear that Ms Blluem

I hope for Christmas you get the one you want

[Sweet Bliss]

a working sewing machine of my own

(f)

[TheLoneStranger]

http://thedailyquotes.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/12/funny-sexy-rip-your-clothes-off-love-sex-quotes-pics-sayings-pictures-images.jpg

[curlyredhead]

Good morning my fellow single friends. I hope everyone is doing well. Its a cold rainy morning here in the DFW area. Wishing I was at home cozy up with someone while the fireplace is going drinking some hot cocoa instead of being at work.

[Leigh]

I'm having the hardest time with dating lately. Usually, i could care less but the combination of the holidays and friends getting married and having babies is making me feel real lonely.

I know that feeling - my friends all seem to be pairing up lately and its hard not to get lonely, especially since I'd love to be able to find someone to share the holiday with :(

[TheLoneStranger]

http://www.pinquotes.com/qitem.php?id=808750

[Joness]

Loving being single!
The possibilities are endless, I feel like a Teenage Boi!!
For the first time in my life I feel completely free with no intention of getting into another relationship involving lists, grocery shopping . . . standard safe stuff.

How safe can it be to feel trapped and restricted in expression?

Like I said the possibilities and potential beautiful connections are endless, magical and full of passion without duty.

2014! I am excited to meet you!!! :mohawk:

[LoyalWolfsBlade]

How is everyone tonight? The Holiday rush is on. The roads are crowded and it impossible to get around in the stores.
Just a question: What would you like for Christmas if you celebrate it......

My list is extremely short this year. Since I am busy 7 days a week with either school or work I would like two things...a day where I did not have to do either (giving that to myself actually) and for my Christmas wish of nor spending three Christmas in a row alone...will spend 2014 working on that one...

How about you Sunny what do you want this year??

[Leigh]

i feel that 2014 is a brand new year and with it i hope comes a brand new romance that will help me to believe in love again - until then i will continue to work on myself and make new friends :)

[DaddyNik12]

another Christmas alone this year , really sucks ... I wonder what it would be like to actually buy a girl a present and to receive one back ?hell I don't need a present received back , just her love would be the present I needed

[Leigh]

i keep hoping one day ill have someone to buy something for around Xmas too Nik but sometimes i wonder if it'll ever happen? Oh well for now ill just hang here with everyone :)

[MsBluem]

Man, as excited as I am to spend time with good friends on NYE, I'd like to have a date for once. Being the third wheel gets old.

[Barb42]

just stopping by to sa3 hello to everyone. Hope the week has started out to be good for all. Im Barb 42yrs. From indiana. Hope to get to know everyone soon.

[TheLoneStranger]

just stopping by to sa3 hello to everyone. Hope the week has started out to be good for all. Im Barb 42yrs. From indiana. Hope to get to know everyone soon.

Hi Barb, welcome and Happy New Year!

[Leigh]

good to see more singles joining us :)

[LoyalWolfsBlade]

Wishing all the singles a Happy New Year and that each if us are not on this thread a year from now.....be healthy and happy in the coming year

[Leigh]

i know it'll happen when its meant to :)

[Barb42]

Hi Barb, welcome and Happy New Year!
Thanks for the welcome "Lone Stranger" hope ur new year is a good one.

[Barb42]

Man, as excited as I am to spend time with good friends on NYE, I'd like to have a date for once. Being the third wheel gets old.

Understand the 3rd. Wheel feeling. Hope its a fun time for you anyway. Have a good new year.

[Leigh]

i also totally get the 3rd wheel feeling. I went out with my best friend and her boyfriend the other night and while it was nice to spend time with them, i felt very much like the third wheel and watching them being mushy etc was nice for them but being alone kinda made me sad at the same time - no matter what though i am so ready to finally find that special someone :)

[Barb42]

i also totally get the 3rd wheel feeling. I went out with my best friend and her boyfriend the other night and while it was nice to spend time with them, i felt very much like the third wheel and watching them being mushy etc was nice for them but being alone kinda made me sad at the same time - no matter what though i am so ready to finally find that special someone :)

One day that special someone will come ur way.. Let them find you..

[Leigh]

thats absolutely one of my plans for 2014 - usually i go looking for them but this time they can come and find me :)

[TheLoneStranger]

Trust me I get being alone. But when I do date, seems I give too much. I'm gonna make better choices from now on...of course with the help of the Lord.

[sis]

I'm almost done with the first day of the year ...... and, I've decided, its going to be 'my' year! lolol I've been single for a while and I'm actually beginning to enjoy it! I, too, do miss having someone special to chat with, be with, look to the future with. Yet, at the same time, I believe that I'm where I'm supposed to be. Thus, only an LDR would work for me at this time and I really don't see that happening any time soon! lolol Having said that, I'm always delighted to correspond with folks. I generally 'do' FB and you're welcome to 'friend' me at https://www.facebook.com/deb.dunstan.3

When I'm in North America, I'm based out of Manitoba and I would love to meet up with folks. Not sure what next summer will bring for any of us but maybe we could plan a mini-singles-mingle!

Have a great start to your new year!

Deb

[Barb42]

thats absolutely one of my plans for 2014 - usually i go looking for them but this time they can come and find me :)

Thats a good plan let them fine you.. They will be very lucky to have you..

[Leigh]

Thats a good plan let them fine you.. They will be very lucky to have you..

and anyone would be lucky to have you as well :)

[Sunny]

My list is extremely short this year. Since I am busy 7 days a week with either school or work I would like two things...a day where I did not have to do either (giving that to myself actually) and for my Christmas wish of nor spending three Christmas in a row alone...will spend 2014 working on that one...

How about you Sunny what do you want this year??

I wish for someone to spend time with. My friends all are couples. It is hard to meet a good person. All the single woman I have chated with are all taken now. So if you want to meet someone talk to me. I will bring you good luck. LOL Thanks for asking.

[sis]

I wish for someone to spend time with. My friends all are couples. It is hard to meet a good person. All the single woman I have chated with are all taken now. So if you want to meet someone talk to me. I will bring you good luck. LOL Thanks for asking.

I so totally understand the desire to have someone to spend time with. I enjoy crocheting and lets just say that I've make more baby/lap blankets that I thought possible to fill in my alone and quiet time! Having said that, quiet time was needed in my life; the personal insights I received as I hooked revolved around loving my Self more, taking care of me, making some goals, and learning to be content wherever I am in the world. Sometimes, I think we need to be single so we have time for ourselves ..... but, it sure would be nice to have someone there for when we don't need as much of the quiet times (maybe that's an indicator of being ready for a relationship). Thoughts??

Deb

[fatallyblonde]

Just gonna butt in as another single :)

I agree that sometimes we are single because we have to be... because we need to spend time alone learning more about ourselves, giving ourselves time to mature or heal or get other things done... of course this doesn't make it any less lonely!
I do believe that when you are ready... things happen... so I try not to look too hard or get too wound up thinking about it. I've spent a looong time not putting myself out there as well so I know that lowers my chances considerably ;) plus I really really have not been ready, not after the last disaster... but it can be very hard to wait... even knowing that. it's hard to be lonely!
tbh though I just want THE ONE. I don't even know if such a thing exists. My last two rships... I knew were not THE one... and inbetween had two affairs with travellers that were fun but they both had to come back to their countries so it wasn't going to last... I wanna settle down!! Like everyone else, I just miss being with someone, someone that I really trust and am totally smitten with... and I want someone I can look toward the future with!

[TheLoneStranger]

Singles...Good morning :coffee: and have a wonderful Saturday! :)

[fatallyblonde]

my saturday is just winding down here in australia... ready to head to bed with a book... I hope you all have a beautiful day!

[Paradox]

Hello Fellow Singles..

Whatever your goals are make one happen this year.

I have passed yet another Christmas/Holiday season alone. And although there are the advantages of being single it ultimately is a lonely place to be. Worse if, like me, you become used to it. Harder if there really aren't many physically spaces to go out and meet other single women that is not a club or bar.

But we must try ... and perhaps try harder. One of my goals for the year - stop becoming comfortable with being single and find those rare opportunities that offer the best chances of meeting other single queer women you may be interested in and vice versa. Maybe infrequent but you never know.

So my last post for the day(night) before I head to bed I'll end with...

MAKE 2014 YOUR YEAR!! - :)

[fatallyblonde]

But we must try ... and perhaps try harder. One of my goals for the year - stop becoming comfortable with being single and find those rare opportunities that offer the best chances of meeting other single queer women you may be interested in and vice versa. Maybe infrequent but you never know.


yes this exactly! spot on! I have gotten into such a comfort zone with being single and just staying in my little femme cave ;) so this year I am trying just to get out there a lot more... even just to reconnect with local queer community, which I have also been staying away from the last year! but I realised just sitting around dreaming accomplishes nothing so I'm trying to get back out there!

[imperfect_cupcake]

hmn. I actually really enjoy being single. It's kind of a relief tbh. I'm not lonely. I have friends that are close like cousins. I have an incredible flatmate and close friend and five my mates are within walking distance (>30min) of my flat and two more within a 15 min bus ride. Plus I am an urban girl and wouldnt give it up for the world, I do have lots of things I could be doing - if school didnt take up 80% of my time.

What I *do* want is sex. And friendship. But no commitments or obligations. I dont want to date. I want to be friends and I want to have sex. And someone who can sleep with me and afterwards hang out in bed and chat and laugh and build a friendship from that, while having complete independance of action and decision... like friends give each other, is it. Just keep the romantic stuff for now. Show me what a good time we can have in bed, show me I can tell you anything and you me, make me laugh and let me see that someone is

1) emotionally stable
2) laid back
3) good sexual chemistry
4) can argue with me without awkwardness and laugh and joke
5) understand playful sarcasm
6) can build a true friendship with me and care about me and how I am, more than petty possesiveness
7) can laugh at themselves
8) obviously needs to be confident enough to be able to have sex and slowly build a friendship - so knows how to keep emotional boundries, be practical and helpful rather than a die hard traditional romantic. I don't trust people at the mercy of their emotions. Who fall in love easily and wear their hearts on their sleeves. Those have been the ones who fall in love with *other* people really easily once the honeymoon phase wears off.

When I take my time having sex and getting to know someone as a friend and seeing if I can trust them and how even keeled they are, THEN I will make dedicated life long commitment to someone. Be it monogamy or nonmonogamy, I am happy in both.

But I'm happy single so not concerned about how long this will take.

I know most people dont wanna hear this. what they want is a girl that will die at their feet of love and have them be their everything and want to be their princess of the stars.... tell me about my eyes.

But that's not me. I want to have something far more quiet, deep, long built, and long action. Hot smouldery coals you can stoke and add more to every moring and it doesnt go out, even though on the surface it looks quiet and utilitarian. Not fireworks. I've had AMPLE fireworks to last me the rest of my life. thanks. pass. I've had love at first sight. thanks. lovely. tick that box. I've been in small "L" love quite a few times and three times in Big L Love, and now I'd rather slowly build in love, rather than fall in it.

Be my friend. fuck me. make me laugh. give me time and space to learn to trust who you are. Let me be independent when I am away from you. Dont try and be the boss all the time - you only get to be the boss of me in the bedroom lol

[Heavenleahangel]

Good Sunday morning my single peeps and Happy New Year, too! I haven't been on in a while as life has been keeping me busy. (Life being my 6.5 year old little boy, lol). I hope everyone's new year has started off fantastic and Cupid's arrow finds y'alls backsides by Valentine's Day!

[ProfPacker]

Feel the same way as honeybarbara

[fatallyblonde]

tbh, I don't see how what honeybarbara wants is necessarily a 'different' thing to what other singles want?

I can say sincerely I want what hb wants... just in a relationship.


also I think rships can start off fireworks... and become smouldering coals :D

[Leigh]

just came to say hi to everyone :)

[Gráinne]

At this stage of my life (and I believe HB is somewhere within the same decade), both of us have been through the "fireworks" more times than I care to admit. The problem with such intense attraction is, that while fun, it can lead to premature commitments and zoom! a half-baked relationship.

I wonder if it's a stage of life thing. At this point, I'm loathe to marry again or give up my physical and emotional independence. I can see the seeds of a life I love, and don't want to get sidetracked, no matter how tempting sometimes. The biggest relationship mistakes I've made are when forging independence and identity grew too tough and I used a "relationship" as distraction from my own work. It took more than once to teach me that lesson, and perhaps I'm too cautious to even give dating a try. This is very new.

Awhile ago, I wrote in a thread that one-night stands or sex without strings was usually not a good idea. I stand by my reasons in that thread, But! with friends you already know and trust, and when you (general "you") are confident that both of you are on the same page-like HB's post page-go for it. It's supposed to be fun, if done safely. I think we connect physical eroticism with romance and love, and they're three different things and can be met with different people in different ways.

Sometimes it feels like a kind of heresy to admit that deep down, we might simply want headboard-knocking sex without the romantic stuff, commiting to, or living with someone. I have made the mistake of going for what I thought I was supposed to want (and this was after I came out), rather than what I knew deep down I wanted.

Maybe it's also dividing people into "friends", whom you would never sleep with, and "partners". Sure, there are some friends you would never go there with, but other than that, I think the lines are blurry.

All of this to say I enjoy that form of singleness (if the sex existed), and don't see coupling off in my near future.

[Electrocell]

Just wanted to say may 2014 be the year all singles find the one that truly makes them happy.

[C0LLETTE]

I am 68 years old. I had sex with about 500 women before I was 35. It was the golden age of unsafe sex and boundless free love. In the succeeding 33 years Ive had 3 rather long relatively happy marriages (till they weren't so happy).

And now? I'd like someone to go to the movies with on a snowy Sunday afternoon.

[C0LLETTE]

Dear Paradox,
I hope you don't mind my referencing your post on this Singles thread but I thought I'd tell you that I , too, spent Christmas alone in Toronto... kinda.

I live in Ottawa. My daughter and her Aussie husband have come to visit from Sydney for the holidays. Because they have so many friends to see in a short time they decided that the 3 of us should spend Christmas in Toronto, thus spending time with me and hanging out with Toronto friends...a twofer.

We stayed with friends of mine, a very nice lesbian couple who have been together for 20 years now. Then we went to visit their friends, a very nice young straight couple who are expecting their first baby. Christmas Eve we went see a movie with another couple, very nice kids who plan to marry in the Spring. After the movie we went out for Chinese food with 6 of their friends ( 3 very nice couples).

We are back in Ottawa now. They are out visiting friends who just had a baby ( a very nice couple) and I am sitting here writing this letter in the Singles thread.

[TheLoneStranger]

Good Morning, Singles!

Have a beautiful day. :)

[nellsbells]

Howdy singles. Doesn't look like I'm going to be half shackled much longer.

[Leigh]

I had a shitty 2013 but I'm ready for this to be the year that I find love with someone special :)

[Licious]

Happy 2014 Singles,

Well I am ready for a better year! Health issues were persistent and that's really limiting at times.

I am not in a hurry about romance, I never am. I have been in a few shorter good relationships and a few longer ones not so good, and I think it's worth waiting for a good one. Been single a long time, sorting things out since the last one.

At least I am not on the rebound and when I am ready my new sweetheart will have my full attention.

I am so rusty, when a date rolls around hope I remember how to behave, Ha ha. Been a few years.

Meanwhile, I can always practice flirting, yes?

Also, I enjoy making new friends. Friends are good.

Have a great 2014, Singles!

[TheLoneStranger]

Hello Singles! :)

It's Friday and it's going to be a wonderful day! :)

Enjoy! :)

[Barb42]

Hello Singles! :)

It's Friday and it's going to be a wonderful day! :)

Enjoy! :)

Hello "lonestranger".. Hope ur friday is a good one.. Maybe the evening will be as well if we can get a few femmes to come keep us company for awhile tonight..

[Kenna]

Hello "lonestranger".. Hope ur friday is a good one.. Maybe the evening will be as well if we can get a few femmes to come keep us company for awhile tonight..


I'm in for Friday evening fun, laughter and good company ...but I hear Indiana has a few snow drifts. Got the fireplace going and spiked hot chocolate? ;-)

[Leigh]

just came to say hi to the singles - hope everyone has a good evening :)

[Barb42]

I'm in for Friday evening fun, laughter and good company ...but I hear Indiana has a few snow drifts. Got the fireplace going and spiked hot chocolate? ;-)

Well yes I do as a matter of fact.. Fire going hot chocolated(spiked).. Lots of munchies.. So enjoy..

[Kenna]

Well yes I do as a matter of fact.. Fire going hot chocolated(spiked).. Lots of munchies.. So enjoy..

Yummm...*offers up some fresh from oven Irish shortbread with my homemade strawberry jam and hands our host a gift (a Smores kit)*

[Barb42]

Yummm...*offers up some fresh from oven Irish shortbread with my homemade strawberry jam and hands our host a gift (a Smores kit)*

Thank you sweety.. *hands Kenna a HUGE cup of hot chocolate* Have a seat relax & enjoy the fire..

[Kenna]

Thank you sweety.. *hands Kenna a HUGE cup of hot chocolate* Have a seat relax & enjoy the fire..

Ummmm..heaven

[Barb42]

Ummmm..heaven

Hope u enjoy it.. *hands Kenna the stereo remote*

[Kenna]

Hope u enjoy it.. *hands Kenna the stereo remote*

Oh wow!! The remote? Now that's hospitality ;-)