Singles

[Zimmeh]

I only have to pick up a few things for my coworkers and I am done!

Zimmeh


Happy Friday singles,

I hope that you all have a happy weekend. I have to start my Christmas shopping this weekend...ugg.
Well not so bad, I have a plan and a list. With no one to distract me or slow me down I should get a lot done.

Have a good one,
Chad

P.S. Have some hot coco. :)

[Zimmeh]

It is made with a rare aged Sumatra coffee and it is mixed with coffee from Latin America! It is like a party in your mouth and is my favorite holiday blend. Cake pops are a bite sized piece of cake on a stick!

Zimmeh


What does Starbucks Christmas blend taste like?
What's a cake pop?

Hello to all

[Zimmeh]

Have a great night Everyone!!

Zimmeh

[Lecheloco]

It is made with a rare aged Sumatra coffee and it is mixed with coffee from Latin America! It is like a party in your mouth and is my favorite holiday blend. Cake pops are a bite sized piece of cake on a stick!

Zimmeh

I keep seeing it on FB but haven't wanted to try it as I was thinking it must have some sort of spice flavor in it, but what you said sounds rather good. thanks for telling me

lol I guess they are self explanatory, cake pops. I was thinking frozen or something
now i'm hungry
Have a good week!

[Shystonefem]

It is made with a rare aged Sumatra coffee and it is mixed with coffee from Latin America! It is like a party in your mouth and is my favorite holiday blend. Cake pops are a bite sized piece of cake on a stick!

Zimmeh

I usually drink Starbucks Verona but I think I am going to try the holiday blend.

[Zimmeh]

Hope you all are surviving Christmas shopping! I am nearly done shopping and January 2nd, 2016 is my last day with L'Occitane. I am looking forward to relaxing and I will be looking for a full time job!

I am off on Christmas Day, so I will be spending it with my family and friends :)

Zimmeh

[Shystonefem]

I joined a meet up group today so I hope that it will be fun.

Happy Sunday,

Chad


I joined a meet-up group too. I made some good friends.

[Nattih]

My littlest sister just got engaged. Need to make an engagement present and of course the one for the baby!

I am doing the same old thing every weekend, working. I am trying to get throguh it by telling me it will be worth it in the end, but honestly, I am hoping to get a two day break or so sometime this month.

[ferret]

So I moved back to the Twin Cities about a month ago. I figured a great way to meet other lesbians was to join a few Meetup groups in the area - now I just need to gather up the courage to go. I also signed up on a couple of dating sites, and still have yet to have a date. The first thought I have is, am I defective somehow? The women who have contacted me really haven't been my type. Sure, I would love to go out on a date, but by no means do I want to settle. Not going out with someone just for the sake of going out, you know? I'm genuine, honest, loyal, and I don't think I'm all that bad to look at. Why does this have to be so dang hard? My friends keep telling me I need to go out and actually meet people. Perhaps I should take that advice.

[homoe]

Congrats to all of you's who have joined meet up groups! I think it's not only the best way to network, but also a great way to meet some local women! Even if one of them doesn't catch your eye or vice versa, just remember every one has friends and perhaps one of them may be of interest to you:sunglass:

[Chad]

Hi singles,

I hope that everyone had a great weekend. Mine was low key except for all the shopping Saturday. I hope that you all have a great week ahead. I know that my week will be super busy.

Chad

[Nattih]

I should really try joining meet up groups but they require pants...and lack honey bbq wings.


And one hour from now I will be wondering why I am single, lol :blush:

[asphaltcowboi]

good morning singles,
im tired of being single (finally hit me)
ive rented a cabin on the north shore Lake Tahoe for 5 days after Christmas for just my pups and I.. I will enjoy the heck out of it

[AmazonDC]

good Morning all
hope everyone had a great weekend... I wouldn't say I am tired of being single but the company of a good babygrl would be nice ..

[Zimmeh]

Afternoon Everyone!

I spent the majority oft Sunday, finishing up my Christmas shopping!

Have a great Monday and I am leaving some fresh baked cookies and iced coffee :) :)

Zimmeh

[Shystonefem]

im tired of being single (finally hit me)
ive rented a cabin on the north shore Lake Tahoe for 5 days after Christmas for just my pups and I.. I will enjoy the heck out of it


I think that (finally), I am starting to get tired of being single too.

Have fun at the lake.

[Shystonefem]

Good Evening Singles....

I am finally home after a kind of long day. It is raining and warm here... I am not complaining... it is December 14th.

Perhaps I will have a cocktail, chat for a bit and relax for the evening.

Leaving some beer and wine for any of your who wants any.

Have a good night!!!

[ferret]

What asphalt and Shy said. I'm sick of being single, too. I think I've had enough of my own company to last me a while...*grabs a beer that Shy offered and says thank you*

Sue

[Zimmeh]

It has been eleven months since I became single. I'm enjoying my single life and really not looking for someone at the moment. I am looking for friends right now.

Zimmeh

[Stone-Butch]

Very tired of dating, where is that right woman hiding.

[Nattih]

I've been single for a few years now. I am quite tired of it, but I am making sure that I will be able to be the best for the woman I am meant for. I want everything to be as good as possible for when she comes into my life. She will deserve a wife who is on her A-game so to speak, so I'm working to get there.

[ferret]

Is there a right one? I used to think so, anyway...

[Shystonefem]

Is there a right one? I used to think so, anyway...


Hang in there!

[Nattih]

Everyone I have/had a crush on have crushes on other people. Oh well. At least I won't be wasting my time. I'm calling it a wrap on developing a romantic life in 2015.

I need to buy a gift for myself this Christmas. Either a camel coat or a new tablet computer. Will decide this week.

[Shystonefem]

Everyone I have/had a crush on have crushes on other people. Oh well. At least I won't be wasting my time. I'm calling it a wrap on developing a romantic life in 2015..

Do they know you you are crushing on them? There are billions if fish in the sea,.... There are many out there for you! Either way, happy 2016!

[Shystonefem]

HAPPY FRIDAY EVE! Does anyone have any plans this weekend? I am so looking forward to having this weekend off.....

Leaving you all some coffee and danish....

[Zimmeh]

I will be working all weekend long :( Sunday, I will go see my aunt an one oft cousins for lunch. I haven't seen them in 25 years! :) :) I am looking forward to leaving my job in Jacksonville on January 2nd :) Them I will have a day off!!


Zimmeh


HAPPY FRIDAY EVE! Does anyone have any plans this weekend? I am so looking forward to having this weekend off.....

Leaving you all some coffee and danish....

[Nattih]

Do they know you you are crushing on them? There are billions if fish in the sea,.... There are many out there for you! Either way, happy 2016!


Not sure, but if they are hung up on someone else its time for me to move on regardless. I would rather the road be clear than fighting for attention.

Thank you for your kind words :)

[Nattih]

This weekend is my christmas rush.
- I bought the xmas gifts for my friends kids, so mailing those off. I am happy to help her save some money. She is a great friend.
- Mailing off some surprise gifts
- Need to find a panda suit for my little newphew, lol. I love those animal winter outfits for babies.

[Lecheloco]

This weekend I should be wrapping presents, I love to buy them I hate to wrap them. I did buy some really shiny christmas wrap this year I splurged on the good stuff lol
I have a breakfast date on Saturday, and tonight my neighborhood is having their Christmas coffee get together.
They have invited me and, today the hostess hollered over to be sure I was coming. They exchange ornaments.
I am a little nervous to go as this is a retired military community and, I am so male ID'ed as a butch. What will they think of my cross dressing and buzzed hair I wonder.
feels wrong to not go but. I am not sure if I will.I have only 30 minutes to decide lol

[Shystonefem]

Not sure, but if they are hung up on someone else its time for me to move on regardless. I would rather the road be clear than fighting for attention.

Thank you for your kind words :)


Oh darlin, I am so with you there. NEVER fight for attention. If you need to fight for it, it is not worth it.

Someday you will meet someone who blows your mind. Who knows.... maybe you know that person right now.

[ferret]

-This weekend I'm working, trying to get some overtime in. The extra money is nice, and chances are we won't have it any more come January.
-I'm go to hang with my sister on Saturday, and possibly meet up with one of my cousins tomorrow.

The move back to Minneapolis is the best thing I did this year. Now I just need to go out and meet people. Maybe I can find a nice woman in one of the Meet Up groups I belong to, as the online thing has been a bust so far...

Have a great weekend everyone.

Sue

[imperfect_cupcake]

I'm actually pretty ok with being single. I've been crushed with school work and it's hard for people to understand and accept that "if you really cared about me/liked me you'd find the time" is not actually true in all cases. With seven subjects, a practicum, a case study, and outreaches, there can be 9 to 11 final exams. Actually I don't have time to even do my laundry for a couple of weeks so how am going to have time to have a date or a 40 minute conversation on the phone?

Plus every one wants instant chemistry, that massive crush hit of seeing someone for the first time romantic movie set up. I'm not that girl. It takes me time to know if I'm attracted because I'm attracted to people's brains. Instant chemistry doesn't happen for me. It's happened very rarely in the past but that did not guarantee a good fit. It was just good sex for several months.

So, if people meet me and don't hit things off in a massive way within a 90 minute coffee, I don't hear from them again. So I'm not dating. I find it painful and awkward most of the time. I prefer meeting people at parties and talking, among people we both know. Rare now that I'm 46. Near Impossible now that I no longer live in London.

So I'm starting my own meet up group - mostly to make new friends now that I'm graduating, but perhaps there might be someone I form a friendship with that also gets sexual. That would be nice. It would be a start, anyway.

I love forums but people are just too far away and usually the Butch-femme groups on line are mostly old school americans, which is great for other old school Americans with similar cultural agreements, but my old fashioned is old fashioned from a socialist, atheist, scientific, communal house living.

My old fashioned is post modern lol it's the values of my parents and grandparents and they were very much post modernist, socialist atheists. Botanists, mostly.

So... I'm old fashioned. But not old school in the American Butch-femme sense of the word. So I tend to miss the mark on fb groups. I gave up on them.

But hurrah for starting my own group!

[AmazonDC]

Gm all.. I am more than ok with being single because I am tired of investing in someone who is only about games or not a babygrrl at all... I am very old school in I like to court someone but also its give and take.. If you are not willing to open up and explore every option of conversation then What's the point... Anyways that's My 2 cents for the day.. Where have all the babygrls gone?

[imperfect_cupcake]

Dunno. There were tons and TONS of butches IDing as daddies when I came out in the 90s and it seems most of them don't anymore. So although I suit Daddy-girl relationships best, its not an absolute. If I waited someone who was progressive and daddy ID'd I'd probably die from holding my breath lol

[AmazonDC]

Dunno. There were tons and TONS of butches IDing as daddies when I came out in the 90s and it seems most of them don't anymore. So although I suit Daddy-girl relationships best, its not an absolute. If I waited someone who was progressive and daddy ID'd I'd probably die from holding my breath lol

well don't hold your breathe too long.. I am one of the dining breed.lol I have been a Daddy since I can remember .. actually trained and followed a Domme as My mentor for years.. So yes I agree We are rare but I like being rare.lol

[Zimmeh]

Good Afternoon Everyone!

It's a very chilly day here in my part of Florida. My poor Babygirl pup was shivering. This has been a very hectic week for me. My best friend had gall bladder surgery, I overspent on buying Christmas presents and I was late to work this morning. So I am sitting here on my lunch break having a small latte and a pack of Oreo cookies. It is a well deserved treat!

Leaving you all hot cocoa and assorted scones to nibble on!

Zimmeh

[Shystonefem]

Plus every one wants instant chemistry, that massive crush hit of seeing someone for the first time romantic movie set up. I'm not that girl. It takes me time to know if I'm attracted because I'm attracted to people's brains. Instant chemistry doesn't happen for me. It's happened very rarely in the past but that did not guarantee a good fit. It was just good sex for several

Hi BET. No disrespect intended ... Do you ever feel attracted to someone in a practical way but are completely not compatible sexually?

I admit, I am guilty of wanting chemistry but that is just the beginning. Chemistry isn't everything and it doesn't mean that a relationship will work. I can be completely attracted to someone's sexual vibe but completely not attracted to the rest of the package. It happens more times than I would like, actually.

I guess that is why chemistry is first for me - there is time to find out the rest

[Zimmeh]

Hope you all are having a great Sunday!!

Zimmeh

[imperfect_cupcake]

I didn't say I didn't want chemistry. What I mean is, that for ME, chemistry an be instant (lust based purely on physical attributes, like how someone moves and looks, presents) or it can happen over time. Instant chemistry has made for great sex most of the time, though not all of the time - but it tells me nothing about if they are sane or not. I have a record of high end amazing sex chemistry with drunks and addicts. So, insta chemistry actually makes me wary these days.

But the kind of chemistry that doesn't appear until I know the person? That lasts. That's why I call myself a Sapiophile. That deeper, trust-won, friendship sexy chemistry that develops over time, rather than grabs me instantly...

That's what I mean. And everyone I meet from on line want insta-chemistry. Most of the time I just don't know if I'm sexually attracted till I'm not guarding myself. And that means I need time to not have a giant wall of defence up because I'm so nervous someone is going to pressure me, or grab me, or get weird, or say something racist, or call me pissed off their face, or show up at my work, or start texting me three times a day... Dating has left me seriously scarred lol.

So I genuinely don't know how I feel about someone till I have had time to relax and not worry about them being and addict or an insane person.

[imperfect_cupcake]

well don't hold your breathe too long.. I am one of the dining breed.lol I have been a Daddy since I can remember .. actually trained and followed a Domme as My mentor for years.. So yes I agree We are rare but I like being rare.lol


I'm not fussed about experience. That's not something that matters to me. What matters to me is that's it's part of someone sexual personality. Experience is something I can rack up with someone as we practice, practice, practice ;)

I prefer confidence, willingness, enthusiasm, natural daddy sexual personality, and excitement.

I'd prefer if my sexuality wasn't rare. I personally don't enjoy the very slim pickings and settling for a bad fit - I would rather have no fit and be alone. I'm good with my life. It's okay if I don't meet a daddy again. This girl is also a capable and well loved adult.

But if I had a choice? I would have wished to be a regular lesbian. My dating pool would be HUGE!!!

[Nattih]

I hope everyone is having a good Christmas week thus far.

I am debating taking a day off tomorrow, because I have finally started feeling whatever it is I have come down with and it is making me really ineffective at writing and proofreading. High point is that this gives me time to make out my schedule and end of the year lists.

[Zimmeh]

Nattih, I am having a good week so far! My oldest niece and nephew are down for the week and I'm going tonight to finish Christmas shopping 😳. It's been very busy at both of my jobs and I have eleven days left before I leave my favorite job!

I don't mind a butch who is also a Daddi or Daddy. I love someone who can put up with my crazy brat self.

Leaving a plate of gingerbread and almond biscotti's for us to enjoy!

[imperfect_cupcake]

I just graduated, so I'm busy with doing all the admin around that, registering for my board exams in March, organizing study groups since there is no more school. Plus going to celebration dinners wth classmates, family, and friends. I'm also working from home to try and pay bills till I can pass my board exams.

I've decided to start a Queer Geeks and Nerds social group on meet ups. So will be making a FB page and meet up group for that - go to the geek pub, go for tour are the particle physics lab, go watch sci fi films together. Etc. Be nice to have queer geeks mates. :)

[Zimmeh]

Hope you all are having a great day! We have two days left before Christmas is here and I am really looking forward to it! This has been a very crazy year for me and I'm looking forward to 2016. Who knows what is ahead for me. On January 1st, 2016, I will be celebrating instead of dwelling on the fact that was the day my life changed.

Zimmeh

[Nattih]

I'm recovering, though I can't eat solids yet. On the plus side, this will help me lose some weight. I will be working throughout the week and on xmas it will be just me and the pups. If I can eat then, I will make turkey for the 3 of us and some xmas cookies for me. Other than that, expecting a quiet holdiay.

[Ascot]

Where have all the babygrls gone?


Peter, Paul and Mary, right?

[homoe]

Peter, Paul and Mary, right?

I THINK it's from Where Have All the Flowers gone perhaps..LOL

[Chad]

Hello singles,

I hope everyone is doing well. I have finished the holiday work and now it is time to relax.

I am making tacos so everyone get washed up. :chef:

Chad

[homoe]

Hello singles,

I hope everyone is doing well. I have finished the holiday work and now it is time to relax.

I am making tacos so everyone get washed up. :chef:

Chad

Licking her chops and saying........IF only you lived closer

[Chad]

Thanks buddy, you would be here for sure!

Licking her chops and saying........IF only you lived closer

[morningstar55]

yes i am
:moonstars:

[imperfect_cupcake]

I THINK it's from Where Have All the Flowers gone perhaps..LOL

< delicate flower

[Angeltoes]

I was just thinking about when I used to be on those dating sites (I'm not anymore since I've embraced my catlady lifestyle).

The weirdest exchange I had with a butch from California. This person messaged me and I responded 'thank you, but you're a bit too young for me' and they wrote back 'wait...that's not my real age. I'm actually older than you...'

It pissed me off at the time, because this person was basically trying to filter out women my age unless s/he found them 'acceptable.' Anyway, I blocked them and moved on.

[dykeumentary]

I just graduated
:)

Congratulations!

[Nattih]

Getting the materials ready to work on my vision board tomorrow. Still under the weather so cookies are out but got some for my dogs. I might be well enough for some natural hot chocolate

[Shystonefem]

Hey Singles,

Have the best Christmas! I am going to work but I will still make it memorable!

Best wishes to all! Xoxoxox

[Mel C.]

Happy holidays singles!

[Gemme]

Happy Merry Everything!

[Zimmeh]

As they say in Ireland, "Happy Christmas!!" My stepdad's grandma bought me a really cute Keurig Mini coffee maker that is white, my mom gave me s bottle of my favorite Redken shampoo, my friend gave me a huge box of Whitman Sampler chocolates and her daughter gave me $20. The best gift? Watching the kids eyes light up as they saw their new electric go karts and the oldest daughter, got a gas powered atv.

Have a great Christmas to all of you!

Zimmeh

[girlin2une]

Good Morning and a Happy Christmas to all who believe

[Chad]

Merry Christmas singles,

I hope you have had a happy day.

Chad

[Zimmeh]

Hope you all had a great Saturday! I'm going to take Babygirl to the park before I go to work. We both need to walk off the our food from the past two days!

Zimmeh

[Zimmeh]

I survived the day after Christmas! If you have or currently work in retail, you know that day is one of the busiest and craziest day of the holiday season! I nearly handed in my key at the job I'm leaving. Wednesday I will be having breakfast with my mom and then it's time to find a full time job!

Leaving you all some beverages and goodies!

Have a good day,

Zimmeh

[Shystonefem]

Hi Singles,

I'm just checking in to see how everyone is. I had the best pizza tonight and brought some for everyone here. Enjoy.

Does anyone here have special plans New Years Eve? I have a date with my bed. LOL.... I don't want to go out with my paired friends.

Enjoy the pizza and talk to you all soon.

[Shystonefem]

I survived the day after Christmas! If you have or currently work in retail, you know that day is one of the busiest and craziest day of the holiday season! I nearly handed in my key at the job I'm leaving. Wednesday I will be having breakfast with my mom and then it's time to find a full time job!

Leaving you all some beverages and goodies!

Have a good day,

Zimmeh


I lived through so many (too many) days after Christmas in retail. I am glad you made it out alove.

[Nattih]

I'm spending nye completing my vision board, getting my goal sheets ready, plus burning my sage.

I will also be sipping lots of mimosas and having pizza while my dogs babysit me lol

[Zimmeh]

Today I turn the big 42! I don't feel like this age, more like a 20 something.

Have a great day!

Zimmeh

[Nattih]

Today I turn the big 42! I don't feel like this age, more like a 20 something.

Have a great day!

Zimmeh

Happy birthday!

[Shystonefem]

Today I turn the big 42! I don't feel like this age, more like a 20 something.

Have a great day!

Zimmeh


Happy Birthday!!! I'll tell you a little secret, I don't think anyone ever feels their age, at least mentally. Physically, well, you will find out at some point

[AmazonDC]

I hope everyone has a happy New Years and is safe.. I for one am spending it with family and without a first kiss yet again...

[Shystonefem]

I hope everyone has a happy New Years and is safe.. I for one am spending it with family and without a first kiss yet again...


No first kiss here either. No worries.... while the first is the most exciting, the last is the best!

[Zimmeh]

Good Morning to Everyone! I survived another birthday and I ended it by having a go kart race with the kids and enjoying cake and ice cream. Today I will go shopping with my mom and then go home to relax!

I am leaving coffee, tea and breakfast goodies for us to enjoy!

Zimmeh

[Gemme]

Good Morning to Everyone! I survived another birthday and I ended it by having a go kart race with the kids and enjoying cake and ice cream. Today I will go shopping with my mom and then go home to relax!

I am leaving coffee, tea and breakfast goodies for us to enjoy!

Zimmeh

That sounds like a great day!

[Angeltoes]

Oh, here's something else that bugs me if I'm dating someone: crybabies. First, let me disclose that I am a hypochondriac. Whenever I feel pain or a strange sensation, I'm sure it's the end of me and I google until I find some site to confirm my suspicions. I totally get being worried about one's health, but I keep most of those thoughts to myself. And, I never whine when I am sick. I actually have a pretty high tolerance for pain. I think partly because as a kid nobody ever let me gripe too much about being sick or injured, so I don't get into feeling sorry for myself.

But when it comes to close friends or someone I care for, I will do everything for them if they're sick or injured. I'll bring a hot meal, do their dishes, walk their dog, or whatever they need. I'm very nurturing and caring in general. I just can't stand how certain people complain all the time about being sick or uncomfortable when they have no reason to feel that way. Maybe I should be more sensitive, but it drives me up a wall when a butch (or anyone) is always saying, 'it's too cold'...'my throat hurts'...'my feet hurt'...'my ass hurts'... I mean, we all have the same exact same pains. Either go to the doctor or stop crying about it. I've met a few people like this and I think, we could never go wilderness camping or do anything too rough. I want to do those things and I'm just little! It kind of makes me lose interest in someone when they can't tough out a little pain.

[curlyredhead]

Oh, here's something else that bugs me if I'm dating someone: crybabies. First, let me disclose that I am a hypochondriac. Whenever I feel pain or a strange sensation, I'm sure it's the end of me and I google until I find some site to confirm my suspicions. I totally get being worried about one's health, but I keep most of those thoughts to myself. And, I never whine when I am sick. I actually have a pretty high tolerance for pain. I think partly because as a kid nobody ever let me gripe too much about being sick or injured, so I don't get into feeling sorry for myself.

But when it comes to close friends or someone I care for, I will do everything for them if they're sick or injured. I'll bring a hot meal, do their dishes, walk their dog, or whatever they need. I'm very nurturing and caring in general. I just can't stand how certain people complain all the time about being sick or uncomfortable when they have no reason to feel that way. Maybe I should be more sensitive, but it drives me up a wall when a butch (or anyone) is always saying, 'it's too cold'...'my throat hurts'...'my feet hurt'...'my ass hurts'... I mean, we all have the same exact same pains. Either go to the doctor or stop crying about it. I've met a few people like this and I think, we could never go wilderness camping or do anything too rough. I want to do those things and I'm just little! It kind of makes me lose interest in someone when they can't tough out a little pain.

I completely understand what you are saying, people are who they are and that's it we just have to accept it. I personally have a rare disease and I am in several Facebook groups and some of those people complain about every little thing that's wrong with them, and they are so quick to blame everything on the disease they have. I get really irritated at times because its like people shut up and listen to yourself. Let's face it none of us enjoy being sick and its the last thing we want. Just gotta live life and enjoy it and make the most out of it. Speaking of being sick, I have a lousy cold that has decided to make its presence known for me during this New Years festivities. I am not happy about it, it has ruined my plans, but I will still find a way to enjoy myself this evening. On that note I am wishing all of you a safe and Happy New Years looking forward to 2016!

[randrum]

Another New Years that I will be spending single. And even worse, tonight I will be spending the evening at an engagement party. Definitely not looking forward to it. But at least I'll look sharp in my new suit.

Happy New Year! Be safe.

[imperfect_cupcake]

Ugh. As much as I love weddings I think an engagement party would do my head in a bit. I'm struggling with the thought of dating. Part of me wishes to but I have so much disgust with what's been presented to me over the past four years with dating I'm not sure I could. The though that someone would want me for what I look like, what I could do for them in order to take care of them or how I reflect their station in life just makes me feel like being sick.

I've gained weight from being in school and part of me doesn't want to lose it because if someone loves me at this size, then they find me attractive and sexy for who I am, not cause I'm my usual size 16-18 with huge tits. Sick to death of being a care unit with boobs and a vag in life.

Would like to be a fun, amazing person to hang out with, to talk with, to be really good company instead. No one ever says that. It's just comments on your bits that are pretty or how tasty the food is.

Crabby in Vancouver lol

[TL1]

Ugh. As much as I love weddings I think an engagement party would do my head in a bit. I'm struggling with the thought of dating. Part of me wishes to but I have so much disgust with what's been presented to me over the past four years with dating I'm not sure I could. The though that someone would want me for what I look like, what I could do for them in order to take care of them or how I reflect their station in life just makes me feel like being sick.

I've gained weight from being in school and part of me doesn't want to lose it because if someone loves me at this size, then they find me attractive and sexy for who I am, not cause I'm my usual size 16-18 with huge tits. Sick to death of being a care unit with boobs and a vag in life.

Would like to be a fun, amazing person to hang out with, to talk with, to be really good company instead. No one ever says that. It's just comments on your bits that are pretty or how tasty the food is.

Crabby in Vancouver lol

That is an absolutely horrible way to feel!
I hope you find someone better than the person/people that caused this

[Zimmeh]

Happy New Year to all of you!

Imperfect, I also suffer from body image disorder. I lost 60lbs nine years ago, only to gain 40lbs of it back due to stress eating. It is hard to find a person to love is for who we are and not try to mold us into something that we aren't. I have spent the majority of my life, being someone else's puppet and not loving myself. I am currently seeking treatment for this, because I deserve to be treated like a human and not a puppet. Sending my you a hug and I hope 2016 is a good year for you!

Zimmeh

[ferret]

Happy New Year's Eve, singles. I'm staying in tonight but don't mind as I don't want to be on the road with all the crazies. I have my best friend coming for a visit tomorrow, so going to see what sorts of trouble I can get into :)

[angelface]

Happy New Year to one and all!

Let me first start by saying how much I appreciate the anonymity this site provides with my particular condition. Even though I haven't been on this site for long, I think I've found a place I don't feel alone as I'm very stoic (btw real world support is also in place). I suffer from Avoidant Personality Disorder and admitting it,, even on a forum is very hard. I relate to many replies on here about a life being single and having or seeing traits that restricts true intimacy when finding the ideal partner.

Being vulnerable is not in my 'Butch' make up, but BFP allows me to show my imperfection without judgement and for that I'm very grateful. I've ruined many relationships both platonic and romantic denying my own needs to be seen for who I truly am (kind, sincere, compassionate yet complicated) But I also accept that I've not shown others the true me and just shown a sociable mask which may be the real reason why I'm spending New Year alone!

This feels like waffle and I may not be making any sense to you out there in cyberspace but I'm breaking new ground here opening up as this is more than I've done in the whole of 2015. I've become an expert illusionist with little to no satisfaction in my craft. So I decided to start 2016 differently. By being true to myself and showing others that truly matter the real Me! I'm not craving the adorations of others.

To the select few who are willing to take the time to truly see me as I do them....I'm willing to be open over a nice cuppa tea...tea anyone? :) :tea:


P.s: I felt compelled to share a youtube link on attaining the connection we all hopefully want..becoming a conscious partner.

X0RUqvjBuWM

[imperfect_cupcake]

That is an absolutely horrible way to feel!
I hope you find someone better than the person/people that caused this

Ah, but I only feel that way about dating. And it's not just a person or people, it's society in general that squeezes me to be a feminine unit of care - pretty first, then I can be talented and intelligent. But dating since I have gotten home to North America has been very challenging to my self worth. My weight matters more, my ability to fish camp and hike while baking cookies and being a nursey matters more. My intellectual ability, my career skills, my sense of wit, my independence, my sense of adventure matter far less. These are all masculine traits here, you see. And those aren't seemingly valued as much as my figure, my ability to cook, keep a nice house and care take other people.

I'm intelligent, talented in my work, great fun to be around, I love hosting dinner parties and getting people to get to know one another, I'm a fabulous hostess and I enjoy talking about philosophy, sciences, and constantly learning. I know I have great skills in the boudoir, I'm an experienced 46 year old sub femme. Being a highly skilled and expereinced femme also seems to put people off.

I'm tired of being measured on scales of femininity that are 300 fucking years ago. And I'm pissy about it LOL.

If someone does wind up with me, it won't be through dating. It will be through incidental friendship that forms into a relationship. Dating strangers in my personal universe is nothing I want and frankly it causes me a lot of stress and distress and fatigue.

I am actually very happy on my own. I am very confident in my abilities, I love my friends and my career rocks. But when I think about trying to date again my stomach bile twists in my gut in a pissed off way. Perhaps that is bitter? I don't know. I do know I can't deal with the stress of it and the expectations piss me off. I *like* who I am as a person. I have to get my core strength back up and even more for this kind of work. And I'm grumpy about the weight because my lovely clothes don't fit.

I'm not looking. Looking stresses me out. More like I'm leaving the door for someone with patience and confidence to take the bother to get to know me as a human, not a femme romance unit. Not pressure me or push me or make demands. Which happens a LOT.

:)

[Chad]

Hello singles,

I hope that you all have a very happy New Year's Eve.

The kitties and I will be disco dancing.

Champagne on the table help yourself.
Chad
:cowboy:

[Nattih]

Hello singles,

I hope that you all have a very happy New Year's Eve.

The kitties and I will be disco dancing.

Champagne on the table help yourself.
Chad
:cowboy:

For the record, I helped myself to too much champagne last night and I am blaming it on Chad and the kitties, lol.

I hope everyone is having an excellent new year! I am working through the afternoon, but will hopefully be able to take the evening off.

[Chad]

Haha! Thanks Nattith, you should have joined the kitties and I disco dancing.

Happy New Year to you.
:seeingstars:

For the record, I helped myself to too much champagne last night and I am blaming it on Chad and the kitties, lol.

I hope everyone is having an excellent new year! I am working through the afternoon, but will hopefully be able to take the evening off.

[Shystonefem]

Happy New Year peeps.

I have a bad body image too. It doesn't matter what size I am, all I see is fat. I am between a 5 and an 8 (depending on the pants). I have this wicked thing, I fat shame myself... never quite content

This year my friend asked me what size t-shirt I took... lol.. I told her L to XL (that is how I see myself). Well, neither one fit me and one actually went down past my knees. Lol

I think that this year I am going to have to start seeing things for what they are and not some imaginary image in my head ... and go to the gym more, of course.

[AmazonDC]

No first kiss here either. No worries.... while the first is the most exciting, the last is the best!

I hear ya there

[TL1]

Ah, but I only feel that way about dating. And it's not just a person or people, it's society in general that squeezes me to be a feminine unit of care - pretty first, then I can be talented and intelligent. But dating since I have gotten home to North America has been very challenging to my self worth. My weight matters more, my ability to fish camp and hike while baking cookies and being a nursey matters more. My intellectual ability, my career skills, my sense of wit, my independence, my sense of adventure matter far less. These are all masculine traits here, you see. And those aren't seemingly valued as much as my figure, my ability to cook, keep a nice house and care take other people.

I'm intelligent, talented in my work, great fun to be around, I love hosting dinner parties and getting people to get to know one another, I'm a fabulous hostess and I enjoy talking about philosophy, sciences, and constantly learning. I know I have great skills in the boudoir, I'm an experienced 46 year old sub femme. Being a highly skilled and expereinced femme also seems to put people off.

I'm tired of being measured on scales of femininity that are 300 fucking years ago. And I'm pissy about it LOL.

If someone does wind up with me, it won't be through dating. It will be through incidental friendship that forms into a relationship. Dating strangers in my personal universe is nothing I want and frankly it causes me a lot of stress and distress and fatigue.

I am actually very happy on my own. I am very confident in my abilities, I love my friends and my career rocks. But when I think about trying to date again my stomach bile twists in my gut in a pissed off way. Perhaps that is bitter? I don't know. I do know I can't deal with the stress of it and the expectations piss me off. I *like* who I am as a person. I have to get my core strength back up and even more for this kind of work. And I'm grumpy about the weight because my lovely clothes don't fit.

I'm not looking. Looking stresses me out. More like I'm leaving the door for someone with patience and confidence to take the bother to get to know me as a human, not a femme romance unit. Not pressure me or push me or make demands. Which happens a LOT.

:)

Yes and it's an individual choice to "follow" society which I learned long ago its not worth my attention. However unfortunately you are correct in that statement.
In reality I can not say that looks don't matter at all. They do to a certain point for everyone. And anyone who says otherwise is a probable liar.
But personality is the biggest makes it or breaks it in my opinion.
The whole not looking and if it happens it happens notion is a good way to go.
And what you said makes me think of labels. I don't mind when people use them. But most people have a certain way they think a butch or femme etc should behave/be. When someone says femme I expect a girlish or semi-girlish look but that's as far as it goes in my head.
I've known plenty of feminine women who love to do much more than what is typically expected.
Point is sounds like you have been put in that box a lot and though I've not personally had that experience to that extent....I have seen a lot and do get what you're saying and am in agreement

[Zimmeh]

Tomorrow is my last day working in Jacksonville. It is a bittersweet way to end my employment with a company that I truly love and appreciate. Due to my manager at this job, I cannot work there anymore. She has all but causede to go crazy since she doesn't want to work for her money.

I am having a good start to 2016 and hope you all are also having a good night!

Zimmeh

[ferret]

Hoping you all had a safe and happy New Year. 2016 is off to a good start so far...

Sue

[Mel C.]

Hello singles!

I think I may have finished off most of the sweets in the house...the rest is still calling me but I'd be happy to share.

Happy New Year!

[Nattih]

I'm going to be on a liquid diet until next friday. If I faint, give me a NY pepperoni pizza IV

[Zimmeh]

Good night Everyone! It's been an exhausting day for me and Monday morning, I will be looking for a full time job!

Zimmeh

[Chad]

Hello singles,

I hope everyone is having a happy Saturday night.
The kitties and are resting and enjoying the holiday weekend.

I made cookies but the cookie monster ate them.

Cheers,
Chad
:ballcat:

[~ocean]

lol nattih you forgot the word STAT lol

[Nattih]

lol nattih you forgot the word STAT lol

I feel like eating an entire large pizza stat lol. Its going to be a long 5 days.

[Zimmeh]

Evening Everyone! I am at my mom's house for the next few nights. I applied for two jobs and my ex sister in law, is helping me to get a job with her company.

Have a good night!

Zimmeh

[Zimmeh]

Good Evenjng to all of you! I took myself to the movies! I am going to see, "Daddy's Home".

This place has been a little quiet!

Zimmeh

[Nattih]

I finally get to eat today! Yipee

[HoldMeSteady]

Good Evenjng to all of you! I took myself to the movies! I am going to see, "Daddy's Home".

This place has been a little quiet!

Zimmeh

How was it? The title is certainly enticing ;-)

[Zimmeh]

It was a very cute and funny movie! I would recommend it :)

Zimmeh


How was it? The title is certainly enticing ;-)

[Zimmeh]

Have a good night Everyone! I spent an hour at my mom's house today. I found out that her 130lb boxer and German Shephard dog, knocked her down and she hurt her elbow and hip. I told her that if she was still in pain tomorrow, I would be taking her to the hospital. My mom weighs about 90lbs and is 62 years old. I am afraid that he will seriously hurt her. So, I will be moving in with her at the end of January, to help her out. She also needs cataract surgery, so this dog may hurt her worse than he did yesterday.

Zimmeh

[SleepyButch]

Haven't been in here in awhile. Nice to see you all. Hope you are enjoying your evening/morning.

[Nattih]

I'm almost back on a proper sleeping schedule. My project for the week is to successfully make my soy candles and bath bombs.

[Zimmeh]

Hope you all are having a good week. I'm getting ready to move in with my mom for awhile.

Zimmeh

[Shystonefem]

Hey Singles! I hope everyone is having a great day....

[Zimmeh]

Hey you all! I'm moving in with my mom tomorrow! It's been a crazy few weeks for me.

Have a good day!

Zimmeh

[Zimmeh]

Hope you all are having a good day! I've officially moved and I'm looking forward to living with my mom!

Be safe and I am leave you all some goodies :)

Zimmeh

[Mel C.]

Thanks for the goodies Zimmeh!

Happy Saturday Singles

[morningstar55]

is it saturday night live at the planet yet??? lol

[Chad]

Hi singles,

Happy Friday night. I am excited about the Superbowl this Sunday. Are there any Superbowl parties planned?

I will be watching the game with the kitties.

I have girl scout cookies to share.

Chad

:cowboy:

[Mel C.]

Hi singles,

Happy Friday night. I am excited about the Superbowl this Sunday. Are there any Superbowl parties planned?

I will be watching the game with the kitties.

I have girl scout cookies to share.

Chad

:cowboy:

I didn't watch football during the regular season (Chargers stressed me out), but I am excited about Sunday.

[Chad]

Thanks buddy, I am cheering for my son's team the Broncos. I am giving the kitties and I a Superbowl party. :)

I didn't watch football during the regular season (Chargers stressed me out), but I am excited about Sunday.

[Zimmeh]

Even though I'm not a Broncos fan <Dolphins fan>? I will be cheering the best team on! My ex is a die hard Broncos fan, so I will remain neutral.

My favorite Girl Scout cookies are the Thin Mints and shortbread ones ❤️🍪.

Thank you and have a good night!

Zimmeh

Thanks buddy, I am cheering for my son's team the Broncos. I am giving the kitties and I a Superbowl party. :)

[Zimmeh]

Hope you all are having a good Saturday! I picked up a shift for Starbucks at their Daytona Beach, Florida store. It was so pretty being able to look out the drive thru window and seeing the beach and the waves :)

Tonight we are taking my mom out for dinner at Outback. She turned 63 years young on Tuesday. I bought her two cute cups from Starbucks. I like buying the Valentine's Day themed ones, since her birthday is before Valentine's Day. This will be my first Valentine's Day being single in three years and I will celebrate it with a peanut buster parfait from the Dairy Queen.

Leaving you all some yummy croissants, cookies, fruit and drinks to snack on!

Zimmeh

[Zimmeh]

Have a great day Everyone! I have one week left at my current Starbucks store. I am transferring to a Starbucks Reserve store that I start working at February 15th. I am looking forward to this change; my next goal with Starbucks is to become a coffee master!

Zimmeh

[Chad]

I have Thin Mints. :)

Even though I'm not a Broncos fan <Dolphins fan>? I will be cheering the best team on! My ex is a die hard Broncos fan, so I will remain neutral.

My favorite Girl Scout cookies are the Thin Mints and shortbread ones ❤️🍪.

Thank you and have a good night!

Zimmeh

[Mel C.]

Today, more food will be consumed than any other day of the year except Thanksgiving. Let us partake!

[Zimmeh]

Have a good night everyone! I sign the lease on my new apartment tomorrow. It is going to be an adjustment for me. I have never lived alone since I moved out of my mom's house twenty years ago.

Leaving you all some yummy hot cocoa and healthy desserts!

Zimmeh

[Zimmeh]

Hope you all are having a good week! It's been a very long week for me. I moved on Wednesday into my own apartment, and I'm really enjoying it.

Zimmeh

[Zimmeh]

This place is quiet! Sorry I haven't posted in a bit. I moved on February 10th and I'm still unpacking boxes and totes. I also had cable installed so I can get online more.

Have a great night!

Zimmeh

[Mel C.]

So, I signed up for an on-line dating website today. I'm already thinking I should cancel.

[Gemme]

So, I signed up for an on-line dating website today. I'm already thinking I should cancel.

Why is that, Mel?

[Mel C.]

Why is that, Mel?

Because it means I'm putting myself "out there" and I'm not used to that. Most of my dating is accidental...meaning spontaneous decision. When it comes down to it, I'm a big ole chicken who waits for really really strong signals before proceeding.

[Gemme]

Because it means I'm putting myself "out there" and I'm not used to that. Most of my dating is accidental...meaning spontaneous decision. When it comes down to it, I'm a big ole chicken who waits for really really strong signals before proceeding.

I can understand that but you still have control over how 'much' you put yourself out there. You can put enough information in your profile to catch someone's eye but still not get 'too' personal.

It's a catch 22 because you won't get any signals until you put yourself out there and you're uncomfortable with putting yourself out there so you won't be receiving any signals unless you do that.

Hang in there!

[Mel C.]

I can understand that but you still have control over how 'much' you put yourself out there. You can put enough information in your profile to catch someone's eye but still not get 'too' personal.

It's a catch 22 because you won't get any signals until you put yourself out there and you're uncomfortable with putting yourself out there so you won't be receiving any signals unless you do that.

Hang in there!

I agree completely (about the needing to put myself out there), which is why I am giving it a try. I am tired of knowing what I need to do and not doing anything about it. It's time to fix that...today.

[randrum]

This place is quiet! Sorry I haven't posted in a bit. I moved on February 10th and I'm still unpacking boxes and totes. I also had cable installed so I can get online more.

Have a great night!

Zimmeh

I totally feel you on the moving thing. I just had my stuff delivered to my new condo this past Thursday, the 18th. And I have more boxes than I know what to do with. I unpacked enough to live in the place and then stalled on progress. I need to arrange cable and internet yet...

[Zimmeh]

Good Morninv to all of us Singles! I got back in touch with one of my friends last night. I've known her since 2007; we met in a Aol chat room for lesbians. She is cool and we ended up Skyping for a couple of hours.

Leaving you all coffee, tea, juice and fresh fruit!

Zimmeh

[Zimmeh]

Congratulations on your new place! I try to empty one box or tote everyday, but I to have no energy to do it. I'm thinking that I should be unpacked by the summer, hehe.

My apartment complex has a lot of elderly people living here, so it's quiet and safe.

Zimmeh

I totally feel you on the moving thing. I just had my stuff delivered to my new condo this past Thursday, the 18th. And I have more boxes than I know what to do with. I unpacked enough to live in the place and then stalled on progress. I need to arrange cable and internet yet...

[femmy1]

Single femme here... Pittsburgh PA....... hoping to make some new/old friends! How are ya'll ??
f1~

[Mel C.]

Single femme here... Pittsburgh PA....... hoping to make some new/old friends! How are ya'll ??
f1~

Hi femmy1. Welcome to the thread.

[Zimmeh]

Welcome Femme1! It's kind of quiet right now and I am doing good. It's a quiet night at my apartment. I'm sitting here watching a movie with my pup.

Zimmeh


Single femme here... Pittsburgh PA....... hoping to make some new/old friends! How are ya'll ??
f1~

[Mel C.]

Hello Singles! It's Monday and I'm in the mood for Happy Hour already. Anyone interested in beverages and/or snacks? I think I'll mix myself a vodka-cranberry. I'm pretty sure there are non-alcohol beverages around here somewhere too.

[Zimmeh]

I would have jpined you for a cup of iced green tea! I spent the day running errands with my mom and we bought several pieces of Paris themed items for my apartment. Going to Paris and Provence is on my list of things to do!

Have a great Tuesday!

Zimmeh


Hello Singles! It's Monday and I'm in the mood for Happy Hour already. Anyone interested in beverages and/or snacks? I think I'll mix myself a vodka-cranberry. I'm pretty sure there are non-alcohol beverages around here somewhere too.

[Zimmeh]

Happy Tuesday Everyone! I am leavimg you all a pot of my favorite Starbucks Reserve coffee, the Cameroon Mt. Oku! I am also leaving you all some yummy breakfast goodies :)

Enjoy,

Zimmeh

[Zimmeh]

Its an italian kind of night! I am leaving you all pepperoni and cheese pizzas!

Enjoy,

Zimmeh

[Zimmeh]

Have a great day!

Zimmeh

[Mel C.]

Have a great day!

Zimmeh

You too Zimmeh, and thanks for the pizza!

[Zimmeh]

You are welcome!

Zimmeh

You too Zimmeh, and thanks for the pizza!

[Zimmeh]

Good Evening to all of you! I am sitting here watchung, Cops, and eating ice cream. I have to work at 4:30a tomorrow 😳😴☕️

Zimmeh

[Mel C.]

It's 5:30PM here and I have given up on the idea of going out. I'm just not feeling it. Anyone for board games or billiards?

[homoe]

It's 5:30PM here and I have given up on the idea of going out. I'm just not feeling it. Anyone for board games or billiards?

IF I lived closer I'd SO be up for some billiards! My grandpa owned a pool hall ( which he also ran bootleg liquor out of, but that's a whole other story) and I've been shooting pool since I was knee high to a grasshopper! :snooker:

[Zimmeh]

If you are ever in tge Daytona Beach area, let me lnow! I will take you to the Boardwalk and have a great time! It is the last original landmark in Daytona.

Zimmeh

It's 5:30PM here and I have given up on the idea of going out. I'm just not feeling it. Anyone for board games or billiards?

[Zimmeh]

Wednesday I am going ti start the paperwork to become a CNA. I love my job at Starbucks, but I'm tired of the hurdles that you have tp jump through to become promoted and they are scheduling me for about 25 hours a week.

How was your weekend? My weekend was hectic due to Bike Week and people walking out of Starbucks. I took a two hour nap yesterday and then unpacked a couple of boxes.

Zimmeh

[Mel C.]

Happy Friday Singles!

Zimmeh - did you get the CNA paperwork in? Are you taking a short class or can you test out of it? Either way, good for you!

[Zimmeh]

I will be taking a short class and I have a test prep book. Thank you!! I was crying the other day when I told my assistant manager that I would be leaving.

I start on March 28th and it will be five days long.

How are you doing?

Zimmeh

Happy Friday Singles!

Zimmeh - did you get the CNA paperwork in? Are you taking a short class or can you test out of it? Either way, good for you!

[Zimmeh]

Today starts the next journey in my life. I out down a deposit for the CNA class that starts on the 28th.

Zimmeh

[FireSignFemme]

Today starts the next journey in my life. I out down a deposit for the CNA class that starts on the 28th.

Zimmeh

That's great. I worked for many years off and on as an NA/CNA and dialysis tech, among other things, before getting my LPN. I was in school working on prereqs for RN but am taking a break/reconsidering. Anyhow if studying you get stuck, there's anything you need help with, like understanding rationales and stuff feel free to shoot me a PM and I'll and I’ll try and assist - be of help/brain storm it with you all I can. Anyhow - hurray for you and good luck with your studies. :reader:

[randrum]

Hi singles!

Yes, that's about all I got. I'm beyond worn out and the week isn't slowing down. I've worked 3 shifts in 2 days, so fun. Actually it is fun. I'm working on a pre-production vehicle, that with any luck, will start to revolutionize the auto industry.

[Zimmeh]

Randrum, that sounds like a fun project! My middle brother has been building race cars since he was 16 years old.

I am off tomorrow, so I will be going to pick up my CNA book :) ❤️

Hope you all have a safe St. Patricks Day!

Zimmeh

[Chad]

Happy Saint Patrick's Day,
single friends may you have the luck of the Irish today.

:cowboy:

[Shystonefem]

Happy Saint Patrick's Day,
single friends may you have the luck of the Irish today.

:cowboy:


And you too!

[Mel C.]

Hi Singles! It's going to be a long day for me...my flight home will land around 10PM, which is 1AM in the coast I am leaving. I was dumb enough to come in to work early too. Yikes...coffee please!

[Zimmeh]

My favorite kind of coffee from our Reserve stick is the Cameroon Mt. Oku. Here is a grande-medium- size for you! Have a safe flight home!

Zimmeh

Hi Singles! It's going to be a long day for me...my flight home will land around 10PM, which is 1AM in the coast I am leaving. I was dumb enough to come in to work early too. Yikes...coffee please!

[randrum]

Singles, I think I'm tired of being single. I am sort of longing for a companion lately. Someone to do things with, like this art exhibit opening in a couple weeks or go to a concert. But also to not do things with, just chill at home watching movies or making dinner.

This is kind of a new feeling for me. I've never felt like I needed to be in a relationship and have always been content being single. I just feel restless lately.

Maybe it has something to do with my birthday next week. I'm turning 30 and have never had or experienced that.

[FireSignFemme]

"I think I'm tired of being single..."

When I get to feeling that way I go spend time around my married/partnered friends who fight a lot. It helps immensly.

[randrum]

"I think I'm tired of being single..."

When I get to feeling that way I go spend time around my married/partnered friends who fight a lot. It helps immensly.

haha. This may be a good idea. Might be time for a trip to NY to visit my best friend and her husband.

[Rugged]

There has to be something better to do on a Satur-Gay night
Than sitting home watching ID Discovery

[Blade]

Being single isn't so bad, it aint always so good either. I'm ready for a relationship, and I'm sure the right one will come along in time.

Happy Saturday evening singles! Guess I'll watch some March Madness

[randrum]

March Madness is my plan for the evening. Was happy to see Iowa State win. Now hoping Kansas can keep the Big 12 rolling.

[pumpndude]

Hi,
I'm a ftm but prefer being called a man...I'm a mellow , and down to earth man. Been in recovery now for a bit over 19 yrs.. like spending time going to recovery based events , fishing, hunting etc...

My mom lives with me she is 94 now and slowing down, its sad but I will always be there for her....So I try to stay close to home or just go away on weekends as long as my mom is feeling good..I don't leave her alone, I have a sis that was born slow but she can do a lot of stuff....

Anyway that's the short on me,,,,

Hopefully some people here will meet the right person and maybe I will too, you never know. You just have to put yourself out there and have faith...


have a good evening,,,

[MysticOceansFL]

I don't mind being single, but I'm not afraid of commitment either with the right femme.

[Chad]

Hello singles,

I hope that everyone is having a great weekend.
I am busy with family fun now that everyone is back in central Texas. Lots of barbeques and chili cook offs are planed. I think a fishing trip is on the horizon.

Chad

:linecook:

[Zimmeh]

After my breakup in early 2015, it was hard for me to motivate myself. After many talks with my family, I found my happiness again. I was in my early 30's when I came out yo my family. It took me awhile to find my ex. I believe that you will find someone eventually and birthdats and holidays are the hardest.

Happy early birthday to you!

Zimmeh


Singles, I think I'm tired of being single. I am sort of longing for a companion lately. Someone to do things with, like this art exhibit opening in a couple weeks or go to a concert. But also to not do things with, just chill at home watching movies or making dinner.

This is kind of a new feeling for me. I've never felt like I needed to be in a relationship and have always been content being single. I just feel restless lately.

Maybe it has something to do with my birthday next week. I'm turning 30 and have never had or experienced that.

[Zimmeh]

I spent the day with my seven year old nephew, watching SpongeBob and eating ice cream. I love watching, "On The Case With Paula Zahn."

Zimmeh


There has to be something better to do on a Satur-Gay night
Than sitting home watching ID Discovery

[Rugged]

I spent the day with my seven year old nephew, watching SpongeBob and eating ice cream. I love watching, "On The Case With Paula Zahn."

Zimmeh


I watch almost everything they show on that channel...
I might be what they call an "ID addict"

I wish I had a seven year old in my life,
But my daughter told me to take the thought of
Having grandchildren out of my head lol

[Nattih]

Anyone searching for excitement can have my place and witness the births then help with the first days of the many babies being born in my family.

4 in one year, one more to go :seeingstars:

the last one is due on my birthday in just over a month, but she better not dare. That day is all mine :nyahnyah:

[Zimmeh]

I leave that channel on for my pup when I go to work. He is a handful, he is a very bright and energetic kid. He will ask you a million questions about anything and everything. My mom kind of knew that I would never be able to hsve kids. I was hit by a car when I was 15 years old and it nearly broke my back and my legs. I now suffer from arthritis in my left ankle, but I continue to do what I want.

Zimmeh


I watch almost everything they show on that channel...
I might be what they call an "ID addict"

I wish I had a seven year old in my life,
But my daughter told me to take the thought of
Having grandchildren out of my head lol

[Zimmeh]

I am relaxing after a long day of running errands. I went to pick up my book fir the cna class, went to Home Depot to pick up a new shower head and helped my stepdad's grandmother put Easter baskets together. I am watching, "The Bates Motel" and then I am headed bed. I have to work at 9a tomorrow.

Have a good night Everyone!

Zimmeh

[Zimmeh]

Good Morning Everyone.

Hope you all have a great day!

Zimmeh

[Zimmeh]

Happy Easter Everyone! Hope you all have a safe and fun holiday! I have to work at 3p, and I will be heading to my mom's before hand to help make Easter dinner.

Zimmeh

[Mel C.]

Hi Singles,

I just finished binge watching Lost Girl on Netflix and it definitely has me wishing I wasn't single. Oh my!

[Zimmeh]

Good Morning Everyone!

It is day three of this class and my brain hurts! Mel C, I heard that movue was really good! I should see if RedBox has it :)

Have a great day!

Zimmeh

[Mel C.]

Good Morning Everyone!

It is day three of this class and my brain hurts! Mel C, I heard that movue was really good! I should see if RedBox has it :)

Have a great day!

Zimmeh

Lost Girl is a Canadian TV series...or was (it ended last year). It's on Netflix and well worth the time to binge watch in my opinion. It's kind of like Buffy the Vampire Slayer but the lead character is bisexual. There is also a main character who is lesbian. Many opportunities to see women kissing (or doing more than kissing) had me glued to the TV screen.

[Mel C.]

What's up singles?

[Zimmeh]

I have been working and submitting my application to take the Florida cna test.

How are you doing?

Zimmeh

What's up singles?

[Zimmeh]

Hope you all have a good Saturday! I am taking my nephew to the movies today.

Leaving coffee behind!

Zimmeh

[Gemme]

Hope you all have a good Saturday! I am taking my nephew to the movies today.

Leaving coffee behind!

Zimmeh

What are you seeing? Zootopia's fantastic, or are you two going to see Star Wars or Deadpool?

Have a good time!

[Rugged]

It's bad when you're home on a Saturday night,
anxiously awaiting the new episode of
"My cat from hell."

Happy Satur-Gay night singles!

[Hominid]

Yeah. Here.

[Zimmeh]

We went to see the new Batman vs Superman movie. He kept trying to tell me the ending! It was a trest for him. He was transferred to a school for gifted students and he is still trying to make friends.

Hope you had a good weekend!

Zimmeh

What are you seeing? Zootopia's fantastic, or are you two going to see Star Wars or Deadpool?

Have a good time!

[Zimmeh]

Even though I don't have a cat, I watched that show. It it very insightful into a cat's behavior.

Zimmeh


It's bad when you're home on a Saturday night,
anxiously awaiting the new episode of
"My cat from hell."

Happy Satur-Gay night singles!

[Zimmeh]

After much thought and getting so pissed off at my supervisor last Thursday, I have decided to leave my job with Starbucks once I get a job as a CNA. I clocked out, walked to my car and cried then proceeded to call my asm and give her my notice. I will not have someone disrespect me in front of my coworkers and customers. I applied to take the state test and I am waiting for my fingerprints appointment. Once that is done, I will be able to take the state test!

Have a good night,

Zimmeh

[Mel C.]

After much thought and getting so pissed off at my supervisor last Thursday, I have decided to leave my job with Starbucks once I get a job as a CNA. I clocked out, walked to my car and cried then proceeded to call my asm and give her my notice. I will not have someone disrespect me in front of my coworkers and customers. I applied to take the state test and I am waiting for my fingerprints appointment. Once that is done, I will be able to take the state test!

Have a good night,

Zimmeh

Sorry to hear that work has been rough. The CNA class will be over soon, right?

[Zimmeh]

The CNA class was only five days long and it was a busy five days! Tomorrow, I will be waking up early and hoing to the Starbucks by my house and cintinue to study.

Thank you for asking!

Zimmeh


Sorry to hear that work has been rough. The CNA class will be over soon, right?

[Mel C.]

Happy Friday Singles!

Is anyone doing anything exciting this weekend? I'm trying to motivate myself to get out of the house, but I am a homebody.

[Zimmeh]

I will be working! I would say go watch a movie.


Zimmeh


Happy Friday Singles!

Is anyone doing anything exciting this weekend? I'm trying to motivate myself to get out of the house, but I am a homebody.

[Stone-Butch]

slightly changed..... Now that I am single, my pockets do jingle, I'm glad I am single again..............

[Gemme]

Happy Friday Singles!

Is anyone doing anything exciting this weekend? I'm trying to motivate myself to get out of the house, but I am a homebody.

I will be working! I would say go watch a movie.


Zimmeh

The Jungle Book, Criminal and Barbershop: The Next Cut are playing now.

Between Sunday and Tuesday, I'll be seeing all of them.

You can see what's happening at comedy clubs or other small venues near you, Mel. How about setting an appointment for a massage or going to a bar trivia event?

Let us know what you decide to do!

[homoe]

slightly changed..... Now that I am single, my pockets do jingle, I'm glad I am single again..............

AMEN :praying:

[Rugged]

Out and about, enjoying this Jersey sunshine. The weather has been crazy
So I'm going to take full advantage of the day, even if it's just driving around.
I think I'll just record the new episode of "My cat from hell" tonight.

😎

[bkisbutchenuff]

I hope everyone is having a good weekend! I haven't been to the Planet in a long time - nice to be back.

[Zimmeh]

Welcome Back! I went for a nice power walk tonight.

Have a good Sunday!


Zimmeh


I hope everyone is having a good weekend! I haven't been to the Planet in a long time - nice to be back.

[Zimmeh]

Good Evening Everyone! Well, I am officially CPR certified! I have a few more tests to take after I take the state board. I am really becoming anxious over this life changing decision. I have suffered from low esteem since I was a teenager. Making this type of decision is helping me have more faith in myself.

Have a good Tuesday and I am leaving two pans of brownies and milk for us to enjoy!

Zimmeh

[Mel C.]

Good Evening Everyone! Well, I am officially CPR certified! I have a few more tests to take after I take the state board. I am really becoming anxious over this life changing decision. I have suffered from low esteem since I was a teenager. Making this type of decision is helping me have more faith in myself.

Have a good Tuesday and I am leaving two pans of brownies and milk for us to enjoy!

Zimmeh

Congrats Zimmeh! You wil kick the state boards butt!

[l'Cie]

I wonder if anyone's awake :deepthoughts:

In any case...Hi! I only found this thread now...talk about slow on the uptake :dozey:

[Mel C.]

I wonder if anyone's awake :deepthoughts:

In any case...Hi! I only found this thread now...talk about slow on the uptake :dozey:

Hi and welcome!

[Mel C.]

I made it to Friday, YAY!

Hiya singles!

[bkisbutchenuff]

TGIF!!!!
and
TG for WEEKENDS!!!

[Rugged]

Aren't weekends for sleeping in?? My body clock doesn't care.
Up early, went for a run, ok maybe a slow jog lol. Got out to enjoy some of the early morning Jersey air. Supposed to be a beautiful weekend.
I guess I will play it by ear. However, I'm going to find SOMETHING to do.
Make your day count singles! Life is for living.

[bkisbutchenuff]

Ubering for a few hours....then we'll see what the day brings....:carride:

[Rugged]

Been 2 the gym twice today out of pure boredom.
It's still beautiful outside, and I was almost tempted to throw something
on the grill. But I ended up just cooking dinner inside, only for my daughter
to not be home 😒
Oh well I guess I'll just watch some tv all by my lonesome.
But, I made the day count! Yay

[Chad]

Hi singles,

I just got back from a buddy/friend weekend and I recommend it. I feel refreshed and energized. So many of us live near each other we should try a little harder to meet up with our neighbors.

Everyone knows that I live in Texas.

Chad

:cowboy:

[afemmenatalie]

Hi singles,

I just got back from a buddy/friend weekend and I recommend it. I feel refreshed and energized. So many of us live near each other we should try a little harder to meet up with our neighbors.

Everyone knows that I live in Texas.

Chad

:cowboy:

Everyone? ..

[Chad]

Everyone? ..

I thought everyone, it is there in my location. Are you in Texas? PM me if you would like to meet some awesome Texans.

[afemmenatalie]

I thought everyone, it is there in my location. Are you in Texas? PM me if you would like to meet some awesome Texans.

Chad, sorry, I did not look at your location. (Makes note to do so in future!)
No, I am not in Texas, I am in Arizona. I used to be in Texas often, changing planes at DFW. Those days are over as I don't fly often any more.

Thank you for the offer. That was really nice of you!

[Zimmeh]

Afternoon Everyone! Let's breakout the cupcakes to celebrate! I am approved to take my state exam for nursing assistant!! I always internally ask myself why I never did this sooner. Then I realize, that I was mentally not rwady to take such a leap in my career 🍰🍦

Have a good Tuesday ❤️😀

Zimmeh

[Zimmeh]

My state exam is May 12th at 9a! Holy shit batman, my life is changing at a quick pace! This also happens to be my youngest brother's birthday!

My day just became brighter!

Zimmeh

[Gemme]

Congrats, Zimmeh!

[Mel C.]

My state exam is May 12th at 9a! Holy shit batman, my life is changing at a quick pace! This also happens to be my youngest brother's birthday!

My day just became brighter!

Zimmeh

Good luck on the exam!

[Zimmeh]

Thank you, Gemme and Mel! My boss at Starbucks gave me the day off, dhe knew that I would call in. I have decided to stay as positive as I can until my employment with them ends. I am leaning towards home health care. Friday, I will go to a home health agency to see how to become employed with them.

Have a good night,

Zimmeh


Good luck on the exam!

[Zimmeh]

Have a great day Everyone! I will be gelping my mom finish her taxes today and then head to Starbucks to study the questions that I missed from the quizzes.

Zimmeh

[TheBodybuilder]

...somehow I forgot my account here. Just re-discovered it.
I´m a stone Butch from Germany, with a job as a risk manager. Not a tipical 9 to 5 job, not at all. But I love it.
My body is my temple, so I spend all my spare time at the gym (or my own gym at home). I truly adore beautiful High Femmes, but somehow it´s hard to find one in my part of the world....

[Mel C.]

...somehow I forgot my account here. Just re-discovered it.
I´m a stone Butch from Germany, with a job as a risk manager. Not a tipical 9 to 5 job, not at all. But I love it.
My body is my temple, so I spend all my spare time at the gym (or my own gym at home). I truly adore beautiful High Femmes, but somehow it´s hard to find one in my part of the world....

Welcome back!

[Mel C.]

Hiya singles! I flew home today and don't have the oomph to go out tonight. Anybody staying in like me?

*grabs popcorn* I have enough to share.

[Gemme]

I work all weekend so I'm staying in as well.

[JustLovelyJenn]

*sneaks in and curls up on the couch* is it safe in here?

[Mel C.]

*sneaks in and curls up on the couch* is it safe in here?

Safe for what? I think all of the sharp objects are put away but there may be a popcorn fight.

[JustLovelyJenn]

Safe for what? I think all of the sharp objects are put away but there may be a popcorn fight.

Popcorn fight sounds perfect... I need a giggle or two.

[Zimmeh]

I am waiting for the new episode of Bates Motel to come on! Who else watches this show?

Leaving all kinds of snack foods for us to enjoy :)

Zimmeh

[Zimmeh]

Or we could have a water gun fight?

Zimmeh

Safe for what? I think all of the sharp objects are put away but there may be a popcorn fight.

[JustLovelyJenn]

Or we could have a water gun fight?

Zimmeh

water balloons? maybe?

Did anyone ever play water balloon volleyball? I loved that game!

[Mel C.]

Happy Cinco de Mayo singles!

[randrum]

Happy Cinco de Mayo everyone!

Anyone have fun plans for tonight? I'm indulging in a couple of beers because it's Thirsty Thursday AND Cinco de Mayo. Trying to decide what to do for dinner.

Would Taco Hell... I mean, Taco Bell... be going against the spirit of the holiday?

[Gemme]

Sadly, I am not out and about but will give a mojito margarita a try this weekend in delayed celebration.

[ferret]

I am waiting for the new episode of Bates Motel to come on! Who else watches this show?

Leaving all kinds of snack foods for us to enjoy :)

Zimmeh

Bates is one of my favorite shows and I'm sad that there are only 2 episodes left for the season. Have you checked out a show called Wayward Pines, by any chance? American Gothic is sounding interesting, too :)

Sue

[Mel C.]

Happy hump day Singles!

[Mel C.]

Happy hump day Singles!

Oh, and good luck on your CNA test tomorrow Zimmeh!

[Zimmeh]

Thank you, Mel! I am excited about taking this test!

Happy Hump Day to you as well! I am thinking turtle brownies are needed!

Zimmeh


Oh, and good luck on your CNA test tomorrow Zimmeh!

[Zimmeh]

Well today was supposed to be a happy day. I passed my written test but missed one section on the skills test and I failed. I sat in my car and cried. It is going to cost me $105 to take this part of the test again.

I am leaving cookies and fruit for us to snack on!

Zimmeh

[Gemme]

I'm really proud of you and know that you are going to knock it out of the park the next time you take it. Chin up, girl.

[Zimmeh]

Thank you! I realized after I crief, that I have come so far in this past year. Once I am able to reschedule my test, I will be working with the school I attended to make sure I pass this time.

Hugs and thank you for your support!


Zimmeh


I'm really proud of you and know that you are going to knock it out of the park the next time you take it. Chin up, girl.

[Zimmeh]

Have a good day to all of you!

Zimmeh

[Mel C.]

Happy Friday Eve to all!

I have to be at the airport at 6 AM Sunday.

Scenario 1: There is a party (any gender or sexual orientation) starting Saturday at 1PM. The location is a 2 hr trip each way.

Scenario 2: There is a monthly "women's" dance starting Saturday at 7 PM (let's be honest, people won't be there until at least 8 or 9 PM). The location is 30-45 min each way.

Scenario 3: I could stay home and relax...

So, which scenario would you choose and why?

[Stone-Butch]

I would pick none above a womans dance, why?
1) there are all women
2) you are single
3) never pass up a chance to meet some new ladies *S

[easygoingfemme]

Happy Friday Eve to all!

I have to be at the airport at 6 AM Sunday.

Scenario 1: There is a party (any gender or sexual orientation) starting Saturday at 1PM. The location is a 2 hr trip each way.

Scenario 2: There is a monthly "women's" dance starting Saturday at 7 PM (let's be honest, people won't be there until at least 8 or 9 PM). The location is 30-45 min each way.

Scenario 3: I could stay home and relax...

So, which scenario would you choose and why?

Oy, any given day could be any of these!

I'd drive 2 hours to a good party with friends without hesitating. (But I know I wouldn't end up driving home ;) )

Women's dance- I'd feel socially awkward but totally want to be there.

Staying home and relaxing- sometimes that's just what this gal needs.

[JustLovelyJenn]

Happy Friday Eve to all!

I have to be at the airport at 6 AM Sunday.

Scenario 1: There is a party (any gender or sexual orientation) starting Saturday at 1PM. The location is a 2 hr trip each way.

Scenario 2: There is a monthly "women's" dance starting Saturday at 7 PM (let's be honest, people won't be there until at least 8 or 9 PM). The location is 30-45 min each way.

Scenario 3: I could stay home and relax...

So, which scenario would you choose and why?

I say Scenario 2 -

First, I don't like to be home before a trip... I start to worry over getting ready. Secondly, 45 minutes isn't unmanageable for travel and I am usually more comfortable in a room of like-minded folks.

[Gemme]

Happy Friday Eve to all!

I have to be at the airport at 6 AM Sunday.

Scenario 1: There is a party (any gender or sexual orientation) starting Saturday at 1PM. The location is a 2 hr trip each way.

Scenario 2: There is a monthly "women's" dance starting Saturday at 7 PM (let's be honest, people won't be there until at least 8 or 9 PM). The location is 30-45 min each way.

Scenario 3: I could stay home and relax...

So, which scenario would you choose and why?

Honestly, given that you have an early call on Sunday at the airport, I'd choose either scenario 1 or 3. The women's dance sounds like fun and you might meet someone there but you'd have to leave right after people started to really come in, unless you decided in advance to go without sleep.

If you choose the first option, you have two hours to get there and two to get back. Taking the start time for the party, which is usually more prompt than a public dance, into consideration...you'd have a solid 3-4 hours to visit and socialize. More if you are comfortable with cutting it closer. I'm super anal about missing flights and stuff like that, especially now with the extended wait courtesy of TSA, so I'd err on the side of caution but that doesn't mean I wouldn't want to have some fun beforehand.

Option 3 is good too, as long as you're not doing it to avoid either of the other options. Avoidance isn't good for the soul.

[Stud_puppy1991]

Hey all, I am just popping on here to tell you that I'm still here and to tell all the ladies out there that stud is still a bachelor. Ladies, you all are golden. My brothers, keep being epic. Have a good day

[Gypsy]

Is this the place to write this????

Good day everyone(w)

I'm single, I'm femme, I'm a pre-senior (lol), and I'm looking to meet that last first kiss. I'm in Maine, hoping to move south by winter. I'm looking at TX, but if I should meet someone that really clicks, then I would go there, nothing is written in stone, and that really isn't why I'm here. I'm just looking for a butch to call my own. I'm not perfect and neither will s/he. We all have baggage, but finding that someone whose baggage goes along with mine, someone who can help carry mine when I'm over loaded, and someone I can carry theirs when they are having dragging theirs. I am looking more for butch friends than femmes...I have already way too many femme friends, though I would never push one away.

I'm down to Earth; spiritual rather than religious; not political but will vote when I feel strongly on issues; on ssdi, so not looking to be a sugar momma, nor looking for a sugar daddy, I get enough to pay my bills and a few extra things, and that is all I need; I will never be on the cover of Vogue, and hopefully not on the cover of Redneck Digest (if there is such a thing); I'm a very happy person, and hope that people notice that :jester: than the more serious side I'm taking here; I'm very easy going, meld well into most environments and with most people; And many people think of me as a sweet, kinda innocent girl they can take to visit grandma, which they could, but that is just one side of me, I've been around the block a few times:fuck:...lol I can be shy or the life of the party, I'm just me, don't know how to be anyone else.

So, if this is the wrong place to post this, then please point me in the right directions. It would be nice chatting with like minded people. :floatbee:

[Chad]

Is this the place to write this????

Good day everyone(w)

I'm single, I'm femme, I'm a pre-senior (lol), and I'm looking to meet that last first kiss. I'm in Maine, hoping to move south by winter. I'm looking at TX, but if I should meet someone that really clicks, then I would go there, nothing is written in stone, and that really isn't why I'm here. I'm just looking for a butch to call my own. I'm not perfect and neither will s/he. We all have baggage, but finding that someone whose baggage goes along with mine, someone who can help carry mine when I'm over loaded, and someone I can carry theirs when they are having dragging theirs. I am looking more for butch friends than femmes...I have already way too many femme friends, though I would never push one away.

I'm down to Earth; spiritual rather than religious; not political but will vote when I feel strongly on issues; on ssdi, so not looking to be a sugar momma, nor looking for a sugar daddy, I get enough to pay my bills and a few extra things, and that is all I need; I will never be on the cover of Vogue, and hopefully not on the cover of Redneck Digest (if there is such a thing); I'm a very happy person, and hope that people notice that :jester: than the more serious side I'm taking here; I'm very easy going, meld well into most environments and with most people; And many people think of me as a sweet, kinda innocent girl they can take to visit grandma, which they could, but that is just one side of me, I've been around the block a few times:fuck:...lol I can be shy or the life of the party, I'm just me, don't know how to be anyone else.

So, if this is the wrong place to post this, then please point me in the right directions. It would be nice chatting with like minded people. :floatbee:

Welcome to the Singles thread,

I think you did a great job decribing yourself.
Maine is a beautiful place in the summer. Texas is brutally hot in the summer though.

You will find kind and friendly people here.
Enjoy,
Chad

[Gypsy]

Thanks Chad,

So I hear it is hot in Texas, but am tired of the winters here, and have nothing here for me, so why not go where the wind blows me....lol Besides, I hear there are these things out now called air conditioners, have you heard of them? I bet they would work out great in Texas in the summers....lol (Sorry for being sassy) I think everywhere has it's up's and down's with the weather.

I've been on bfp for a while, but never on too long and I figured it was time for me to get more serious about meeting some butches...I need labels, so I know who I'm looking at...and this place is more accepting of labels, thank goodness.

It's nice to meet you Chad, would like to hear more of Texas if you care to share

[Chad]

IfThanks Chad,

So I hear it is hot in Texas, but am tired of the winters here, and have nothing here for me, so why not go where the wind blows me....lol Besides, I hear there are these things out now called air conditioners, have you heard of them? I bet they would work out great in Texas in the summers....lol (Sorry for being sassy) I think everywhere has it's up's and down's with the weather.

I've been on bfp for a while, but never on too long and I figured it was time for me to get more serious about meeting some butches...I need labels, so I know who I'm looking at...and this place is more accepting of labels, thank goodness.

It's nice to meet you Chad, would like to hear more of Texas if you care to share

Howdy, nice to meet you too. Sassy is a good quality if you plan to move to Texas. Yes, air conditioning is a must in Texas. Haha.

Well, let's see depending on what you are interested in we have the hill country where I live it is beautiful with hills and valleys. We have the plains, the pine forest in east Texas, and a big coast line. Oh, Austin is edgy, Houston is known for hospitals and museums, and Dallas is known for money and ladies with big hair haha. There is a great group here with lots of friendly people. Texans are known for being friendly.

At first I thought you had been here before but now I am not sure. Why Texas?

If you come to Texas please bring lobster! Haha. I have been to Maine and loved the lobster and the views. It is pretty up there.

Chad

[Gemme]

I live in New England now and lived in Texas for a few years before that. Trust me, Gypsy, you would be going from extreme to another.

[ferret]

Is this the place to write this????

Good day everyone(w)

I'm single, I'm femme, I'm a pre-senior (lol), and I'm looking to meet that last first kiss. I'm in Maine, hoping to move south by winter. I'm looking at TX, but if I should meet someone that really clicks, then I would go there, nothing is written in stone, and that really isn't why I'm here. I'm just looking for a butch to call my own. I'm not perfect and neither will s/he. We all have baggage, but finding that someone whose baggage goes along with mine, someone who can help carry mine when I'm over loaded, and someone I can carry theirs when they are having dragging theirs. I am looking more for butch friends than femmes...I have already way too many femme friends, though I would never push one away.

I'm down to Earth; spiritual rather than religious; not political but will vote when I feel strongly on issues; on ssdi, so not looking to be a sugar momma, nor looking for a sugar daddy, I get enough to pay my bills and a few extra things, and that is all I need; I will never be on the cover of Vogue, and hopefully not on the cover of Redneck Digest (if there is such a thing); I'm a very happy person, and hope that people notice that :jester: than the more serious side I'm taking here; I'm very easy going, meld well into most environments and with most people; And many people think of me as a sweet, kinda innocent girl they can take to visit grandma, which they could, but that is just one side of me, I've been around the block a few times:fuck:...lol I can be shy or the life of the party, I'm just me, don't know how to be anyone else.

So, if this is the wrong place to post this, then please point me in the right directions. It would be nice chatting with like minded people. :floatbee:

Gypsy - I hope you find what you're looking for and that it makes you happy. I'm saying that with all sincerity, as something that's typed can sometimes be misinterpreted. As for me....I don't think it's worth it to keep putting myself out there. It's more frustration and perpetual disappointment when you continue to attract the "wrong" people.

Sue

[Gypsy]

If

Howdy, nice to meet you too. Sassy is a good quality if you plan to move to Texas. Yes, air conditioning is a must in Texas. Haha.

Well, let's see depending on what you are interested in we have the hill country where I live it is beautiful with hills and valleys. We have the plains, the pine forest in east Texas, and a big coast line. Oh, Austin is edgy, Houston is known for hospitals and museums, and Dallas is known for money and ladies with big hair haha. There is a great group here with lots of friendly people. Texans are known for being friendly.

At first I thought you had been here before but now I am not sure. Why Texas?

If you come to Texas please bring lobster! Haha. I have been to Maine and loved the lobster and the views. It is pretty up there.

Chad
Lobster and the seafood is gonna be a big miss when I leave...Red Lobster lasted in Maine...maybe 6 months...lol. Have you tried our fried clams????? And if you ever come to Maine again, I'll tell ya the best seafood joint that is our little hidden treasure...it tastes like the old way of cooking it.

And Yes, I've been to the Dallas/Ft Worth area a couple of times visiting...and ironically, I wasn't impressed, maybe because you're right about the money and the big hair...lol I was looking in the San Antonio area, but then again, Texarkana piqued my interest too. I think if I could get to the gulf within a 12 hr drive, I'd be happy...I love my road trips, so a short one like that would be nice. It's gonna be one of those places that I'll know it when I see it. I'm not restricting myself to what or where it might be, other than it be out of the northern states.

Have you lived in TX all your life Chad? It sounds like you've traveled some. Where in ME did you visit/live? It is a beautiful state, as far as I've seen, most states have their own beauty to them...somewhere...lol

[Chad]

Lobster and the seafood is gonna be a big miss when I leave...Red Lobster lasted in Maine...maybe 6 months...lol. Have you tried our fried clams????? And if you ever come to Maine again, I'll tell ya the best seafood joint that is our little hidden treasure...it tastes like the old way of cooking it.

And Yes, I've been to the Dallas/Ft Worth area a couple of times visiting...and ironically, I wasn't impressed, maybe because you're right about the money and the big hair...lol I was looking in the San Antonio area, but then again, Texarkana piqued my interest too. I think if I could get to the gulf within a 12 hr drive, I'd be happy...I love my road trips, so a short one like that would be nice. It's gonna be one of those places that I'll know it when I see it. I'm not restricting myself to what or where it might be, other than it be out of the northern states.

Have you lived in TX all your life Chad? It sounds like you've traveled some. Where in ME did you visit/live? It is a beautiful state, as far as I've seen, most states have their own beauty to them...somewhere...lol

Hi, born and raised Texan here. I am a travaler though.
You did not see the best parts of Dallas/Fort Worth. Dallas has a nice gay area and there are mueums in both towns. Also, there are old areas with historic charm.

San Antonio is a fun town with lots of yummy food.

I did some work in Texarkana but did not really care for it much. I mean Arkansas is right there and it is beautiful.

In ME I went to Kinnebunkport and Ogunquit then all up and down hwy 1. I liked the Weathervain and Alison's.
I would love to have a summer house in New England. It is beautiful there.

Chad

[Gypsy]

I live in New England now and lived in Texas for a few years before that. Trust me, Gypsy, you would be going from extreme to another.
Thanks hun, I guess that is what I am looking for, something so different, why stay where you're not happy?

[Gypsy]

Gypsy - I hope you find what you're looking for and that it makes you happy. I'm saying that with all sincerity, as something that's typed can sometimes be misinterpreted. As for me....I don't think it's worth it to keep putting myself out there. It's more frustration and perpetual disappointment when you continue to attract the "wrong" people.

Sue
Thanks Sue, I've only been out there looking for a couple of months now, I'd taken a hiatus for a few years, and it is time for me to be with someone again. I'm not just looking for anyone, it will have to be a very special person. I can tell quickly if a person is someone with a connection, not just romantically, in any way. And to me..."putting" myself out there (with chances of being hurt or used) is better than hiding away, keeping my guard up, and not meeting new people with new ideas. I have learned something from just about everyone, even if it's just a reminder of why I don't like a certain thing. And I can't say I've ever really attracted the "wrong" people. There's always a reason, season or a lifetime as they say. Sometimes it's a learning experience I need, sometimes it is something I can help the other person with, and they don't even know it. And thank you for putting yourself out there and try to protect me in some kind way by sharing with me your feelings. Of course I've been hurt a lot (like everyone else), but someday, there is going to be that person who will make those hurts worth it.