Singles

[Zimmeh]

I am off today and work until next Thursday. Comfy clothes are a great invention! Do you have to work on Labor Day?

Zimmeh

Well, today is my Friday and I'm already in my pj's (you are welcome for the imagery). Looks like another fascinating weekend for me. How about everyone else?

[Mel C.]

Hey all, just finished playing some War Thunder and didn't realize it was 4am...

Anyway, if this is the singles forum, I found it!

Living in Lakeland Fla, Working full time, School full time, No time for romance.

I do get out for Meet-up times, i join the Lakeland shooters (photo meet up group) and mid Fla met up - they do movies, diner, and kayaking..and next week will be pottery i think at Pikazos(sp).

So there is a quick intro :)

Welcome to the thread! I go to meet-ups (in SoCal) occasionally but don't have much of a social life. I keep meaning to change that.

[Mel C.]

I am off today and work until next Thursday. Comfy clothes are a great invention! Do you have to work on Labor Day?

Zimmeh

No work for me on Monday...just a 4-day weekend since I took Friday off. I did do some work from home yesterday and this morning, but nothing major. Oh, and I got an email from one of my employees indicating he was resigning after only 4 months on the job. Disappointing because now I have to look for someone else while adding the current workload to my own until a replacement is found.

I ran a couple errands yesterday but didn't do much. Today may become laundry day. I thought about going out tonight but haven't talked myself into it yet. A coworker is getting married tomorrow so that will get me out of the house for a little bit.

[Zimmeh]

I know how that feels! Hope you can find someone and fast! I went shopping with my mom and I left my car at her house. It was supposed to be very hot and since my car has black interior, I left the windows cracked open. As in true Florida weather fashion, it starred to rain! I drove home sitting on garbage bags. Now my windows are rolled down to leg it dry out!

There goes my lazy Saturday lol

Zimmeh


No work for me on Monday...just a 4-day weekend since I took Friday off. I did do some work from home yesterday and this morning, but nothing major. Oh, and I got an email from one of my employees indicating he was resigning after only 4 months on the job. Disappointing because now I have to look for someone else while adding the current workload to my own until a replacement is found.

I ran a couple errands yesterday but didn't do much. Today may become laundry day. I thought about going out tonight but haven't talked myself into it yet. A coworker is getting married tomorrow so that will get me out of the house for a little bit.

[Stud_puppy1991]

Greets my fellow singles! I am just hanging out at home watching Netflix, and drinking a beer. Enjoying my weekend!

[Mel C.]

Greets my fellow singles! I am just hanging out at home watching Netflix, and drinking a beer. Enjoying my weekend!

Whatcha watching? I've got a crush on one of the Wentworth inmates...sigh.

[Slow breath]

Whatcha watching? I've got a crush on one of the Wentworth inmates...sigh.

Ummm, please share whom this crush is on!??! Inquiring minds want to know!

[Jackson]

Hey Singles,

I just finished watching OITNB and of course a cliff hanger why wouldnt there be one? Maybe I should check out this Wentworth thing to tide me over until the next season of OITNB.

Jackson

[Mel C.]

Ummm, please share whom this crush is on!??! Inquiring minds want to know!

Allie of course :wine::bunchflowers::drool:

Hey Singles,

I just finished watching OITNB and of course a cliff hanger why wouldnt there be one? Maybe I should check out this Wentworth thing to tide me over until the next season of OITNB.

Jackson

I like both.

[Stud_puppy1991]

Whatcha watching? I've got a crush on one of the Wentworth inmates...sigh.

Well Mel, I was watching Power Rangers. I know, totally a dork, but hey, nostalgia. Now I am watching Stranger Things! And Prison Break? I love it

[Zimmeh]

Hope you all have a great day! I have to refresh my brain on my job description.

Leaving you all pancakes with craisins and Starbucks Caneroon Mt. Oku coffee!

Zimmeh

[Jackson]

Good Morning Singles,

Thank you for the pancakes and coffee Zimmeh :)

Today is going to be a lazy day for me. I am attempting to make a pot roast in a crock pot, I looked up a recipe online. I am not going to go overboard so just like the roast, seasonings, onion, and some broth. I am really praying it turns out and I do not burn the place down. :fireman: :firetruck:

Got the stereo going and having some soup for lunch. Feels like a good day. Hoping y'all have the same.

Jackson

[Mel C.]

Nothing quite like attending a wedding solo to remind you of how single you are. It was a "semi-formal" event so putting on a suit and tie was nice but I wished there was a lovely femme at my side.

[Zimmeh]

Dinner tonight is cold pasta salad with peas, chicken three cheddar cheese blend and miracle whip! I love this cold salad!

My first day at the nursing home was busy. We were short staffed. I am exhausted after walking eight hours. Even though I walked a lot today, my pup needs her nightly walk.

Zimmeh

[Zimmeh]

It has been a hectic two days. I have walked a total of 16 hours! At this pace, I will loose the weight that I gained at Starbucks.

I will be buying a FitBit as an early Christmas present so I can see how many steps I do in one day.

Tonight is leftover night!

Zimmeh

[Mel C.]

Well singles, I finally found a match on a dating website. Stupid site kept hooking me up with butches...I suppose it makes sense because we have common interests. The sights really should let you pick a butch femme relationship.

[Zimmeh]

Congratulations and I haver used one of those sights. They should give you an option for dating a femme!


Zimmeh

Well singles, I finally found a match on a dating website. Stupid site kept hooking me up with butches...I suppose it makes sense because we have common interests. The sights really should let you pick a butch femme relationship.

[Gemme]

Well singles, I finally found a match on a dating website. Stupid site kept hooking me up with butches...I suppose it makes sense because we have common interests. The sights really should let you pick a butch femme relationship.

Congrats!!! Maybe you might hit it off.

[Mel C.]

Congratulations and I haver used one of those sights. They should give you an option for dating a femme!


Zimmeh

Thanks! I would love that option. It is hard enough to meet someone without dealing with the fact that they might not understand the b/f dynamic.

Congrats!!! Maybe you might hit it off.

Thanks to you too! It would be worth putting myself out there if I can even get a friendship out of it.

[LoyalWolfsBlade]

Hello to the other singles on here....

Actually had a decent day today which for me translated to not a lot of pain and no doctor appointments.

Been awhile since I have been around and not real sure that I am necessarily looking to change my "status" per say but everyone can always use a new friend or two, right? I'm not known for my short posts even though I am known for claiming how much I dislike typing, so won't bore any of you with a long winded intro. However, I will reply to any messages, questions, ect... just know I don't get on here as often as I did before and I am still more the forum/threads kind of guy then a chat room type. Mainly bcs my typing speed can never keep up with my thinking let alone the speed in chat.
Hope all of you have a good evening....well what's left of it depending on your location.....

[Mel C.]

Hello to the other singles on here....

Actually had a decent day today which for me translated to not a lot of pain and no doctor appointments.

Been awhile since I have been around and not real sure that I am necessarily looking to change my "status" per say but everyone can always use a new friend or two, right? I'm not known for my short posts even though I am known for claiming how much I dislike typing, so won't bore any of you with a long winded intro. However, I will reply to any messages, questions, ect... just know I don't get on here as often as I did before and I am still more the forum/threads kind of guy then a chat room type. Mainly bcs my typing speed can never keep up with my thinking let alone the speed in chat.
Hope all of you have a good evening....well what's left of it depending on your location.....

Welcome back!

[clay]

Evening Singulars!!!

Good luck Mel C.

I have had success twice on the dating sites.

Like you, I keep getting matches for other butches...go figure!

I have faith when what is meant to be, will be!!!

Night night all.

[JustLovelyJenn]

I'm still lurking in the background...

... lately I am craving quite conversation... snuggled together talking about anything and nothing... little touches and laughs.

I have certainly not been alone, even though I am single... but I do miss those little things that come with a relationship.

[Zimmeh]

Hope you all have a good Friday. I am working this weekend and then I am off on monday. Next weekend is my weekend off, so I have no plans as of right now!

Coffee is Starbucks Sumatra blend and waffles.

Zimmeh

[Mel C.]

Friday night and I'm home watching recorded TV shows. Woot woo!

[Zimmeh]

You could come to the nursing home and make us laugh!

Zimmeh

Friday night and I'm home watching recorded TV shows. Woot woo!

[Zimmeh]

Tonight I have been let loose! I have another cna shadowing me. She has been doing this for over 30 years.

When I get off tonight, I am going to find something very cold to drink! Is it 11p yet?

Zimmeh

[Mel C.]

Tonight I have been let loose! I have another cna shadowing me. She has been doing this for over 30 years.

When I get off tonight, I am going to find something very cold to drink! Is it 11p yet?

Zimmeh

Snickers about "getting off tonight."

I hope the night goes well Z

[Zimmeh]

I read that again and that comment can be taken in a few different ways! By the end of the night, I was doing my job with only limited supervision!

Zimmeh

Snickers about "getting off tonight."

I hope the night goes well Z

[Zimmeh]

Breakfast this morning is: pancakes with cranberries and cinnamon sugar, fruit and Sumatra coffee :)

Time to get ready for another day of work.

Zimmeh

[JustLovelyJenn]

Good Morning Singles!!!

I hope you have fun weekend plans!!

This is my weekend home with the kids... as I have plans the next three weekends in a row.

*drops off gluten free muffins and juice for everyone*

[Rugged]

How's everyone doing?
I have another 3 day weekend to do nothing lol
My brother and his wife asked me if I wanted
To go see "When the bough breaks" with them.
I want to see it, but not with them. Might go alone tomorrow
Hope everyone is doing great

[Mel C.]

Alas, there was no love connection today. Maybe next time.

[Gemme]

Alas, there was no love connection today. Maybe next time.

That's too bad. Her loss, absolutely! Don't forget that I love and adore you, boo. You have a fan in me.

:waitinggirl:

[clay]

Evening all you beautiful folks!!!

Hope your evening is a pleasant one & you have sweet dreams tonight.
Good night all...

[Zimmeh]

Today has been a crazy day for me! I worked nearly nine hours and it is September 11th. This is one time in my life that I still get upset. Fifteen years later, my heart goes out to the families of everyone who lost a loved one and to the New York Police Dept, Fire Department and the city itself.

Night Everyone!

#gonebutnotforgotten

Zimmeh

[Zimmeh]

Mel,

You are an awesome person and do not settle for second best. Remember my jokingly advice about a requested second date. The second Tuesday of next week :)


Zimmeh


Alas, there was no love connection today. Maybe next time.

[Zimmeh]

Today is a light breakfast since I am off. I am enjoying a cup of Yoplait yogurt and Sumatra coffee. I am going to see my mom today and I need to do laundry.

Might find a movie on Turner Classic Movie channel.

Zimmeh

[Gemme]

Today is a light breakfast since I am off. I am enjoying a cup of Yoplait yogurt and Sumatra coffee. I am going to see my mom today and I need to do laundry.

Might find a movie on Turner Classic Movie channel.

Zimmeh

Good for you! Days off are nice.

Funny thing; my store's number has been posted online and given out by TMC as a customer service number so I get at least a couple calls per month when someone's not happy with the movies chosen for the channel.

So, if you have issues and they give you a number that's not local and not an 800/888/866 number, that's probably me.

:blink:

[Rugged]

Had a "not so good" day
After running into my ex
And her girlfriend.... They were all smiles
And looked very happy as we once did.
It's been over a year and I was
Doing fine. Why am I bothered by this???
Ughhhh heartbreak sucks

[JustLovelyJenn]

Question singles...

Do any of you ever feel like maybe its something about you... that keeps you at that single status... like somehow... you are not wanted... and don't fit?

[Gráinne]

Question singles...

Do any of you ever feel like maybe its something about you... that keeps you at that single status... like somehow... you are not wanted... and don't fit?

I do, and sometimes it sucks, but most of the time I don't want to fit :). It would be nice to be wanted, but I won't settle.

[Rugged]

Question singles...

Do any of you ever feel like maybe its something about you... that keeps you at that single status... like somehow... you are not wanted... and don't fit?

Sometimes, I feel like it's the energy I am giving off..
I try to stay positive and hope that love finds me.....
Other times my energy is so bad, it's like there is
A sign that says "don't even try it".
I don't know. But these days I won't allow myself
To let anyone get close enough, especially if I can
Smell BS a mile away "shrug"

[Mel C.]

Question singles...

Do any of you ever feel like maybe its something about you... that keeps you at that single status... like somehow... you are not wanted... and don't fit?

Yep.......

[ferret]

Yep.......

I'm always wondering what's wrong wIth me or if I'm....defective somehow. Makes me not want to put myself out there to only get rejected.

Sue

[ferret]

Question singles...

Do any of you ever feel like maybe its something about you... that keeps you at that single status... like somehow... you are not wanted... and don't fit?

All the time. It makes me feel like I'm "defective" somehow. Makes me not want to put myself out there to only get rejected. Maybe being single isn't such a bad thing.

Sue

[JustLovelyJenn]

Glad its not just me...

[homoe]

Putting myself out there with the possibilities of facing rejection hasn't ever really bothered me! Having been in a long term committed relationship, I know how much work a relationship takes and I guess unless I'm not fully committed to putting in the work, I shouldn't even consider a relationship.

[Gemme]

I'm at a point where I'm good either way. I'm good by myself, although I would like to have more friends and family nearby to do stuff and socialize and to stop me from buying excessive quantities of craft stuff, and I would be fine in a relationship too.

But it's not a need. I'm content with myself.

That's come with age. The older I get, the less tolerable I am of crap and that's the handoff....you get less to work with if you hold yourself and others to a higher standard....BUT the ones you get (if you're doing it right) will be of higher caliber and much better for you.

[Zimmeh]

Some people cannot handle me. I have found that Imgive up a part of myself in a relationship and I get taken for a ride. When I make this known, most but he's just stop talking to me. I am fed up with but he's and so called friends being fake. I am to old to play mind games. What really pisses me off is how a butch will look at me as if I am not good enough, because I am heavy.


Zimmeh


Question singles...

Do any of you ever feel like maybe its something about you... that keeps you at that single status... like somehow... you are not wanted... and don't fit?

[Mel C.]

So...on-line dating site lady and I are both attending a dance Saturday. No, it isn't a date. Details to follow (maybe).

[clay]

hello all you wonderful singulars!
Have a great evening...
Stop by & say hi to me, sometime, too!

[ferret]

I think I'd actually faint if I was asked out, and the whole online experience has been awful. I think I'm a good person who has a lot to offer, but no one wants to stick around to find out. Being single by choice is looking better all the time.

Sue

[JustLovelyJenn]

Hi singles!!!

*leaves a bouquet of roses for everyone to enjoy*

[Zimmeh]

Hope you all have a good Friday. After reading my previous post, I realized that I am not allowed to respond to a post after 11p.

I am off this weekend and I only need to go grocery shopping.

Zimmeh

[Rugged]

Anyone have any special weekend plans???
I don't, lol I'll probably be working.
I kinda miss the date planning and getting ready and
All that other stuff. But, I'll be rested and ready when the right
One finally decides to show her face...

Cheers to the weekend!!!

[clay]

Morning everyone!
Is a gorgeous, sunny bright blue skied day here.
I am going out in a while on errands.
I was in the pool under that big bright full moon last evening....water temp was a refreshing 82 degrees...it felt amazing. I may do more night time pool forays...:)
Wishing everyone an awesome weekend....fun times...and may someone light you all up inside....:)

quietly leaves...leaving pot of Pumpkin Latte & pumpkin donuts....:)

[Mel C.]

Anyone have any special weekend plans???
I don't, lol I'll probably be working.
I kinda miss the date planning and getting ready and
All that other stuff. But, I'll be rested and ready when the right
One finally decides to show her face...

Cheers to the weekend!!!

I'm going to a women's dance with the woman I went miniature golfing with last weekend. Although there was no love connection, we do have a lot in common so it will hopefully be a nice evening out.

[Nattih]

I watched some romantic snap chats knowing FULL WELL that it was gonna cause me to feel bad. But I did it anyway like a butt head. Now I feel bad and I have no one to blame but myself. Clearly I like this merry go round of emotions lol.

[clay]

evening singles!!!

I had a full on, busy day! But was a good day.
I did get in my pool tonight...a big fat harvest moon....so I should sleep well tonight, for sure!!!

Have sweet dreams all of you.....leaving some SleepyTime hot tea....zzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzz

[Zimmeh]

I am offthiweekend. My only plans are to help my family and go grocery store. Tomorrow, I have no plans at all!

I to miss planning a date with my boo and or just doing something spontaneous.

Zimmeh


Anyone have any special weekend plans???
I don't, lol I'll probably be working.
I kinda miss the date planning and getting ready and
All that other stuff. But, I'll be rested and ready when the right
One finally decides to show her face...

Cheers to the weekend!!!

[Mel C.]

I had a nice time at the dance last night. I knew a few people which always helps me feel more comfortable. The woman from the on-line dating site met me there (she wanted to drive together and I politely declined because that feels more like a "date" to me). She talked my ear off so I finally asked her to dance to make her hush for a few minutes. No, it still wasn't a date. There was a lovely femme there, but she had a gaggle of people around her so I couldn't get anywhere near her. Not that I would have done anything if I could get near her but a butch can dream, right?

[Zimmeh]

I am happy that you had a good time at the dance! You never know, that cute little femme might be on here. One day, we all will meet our significant other.

Zimmeh

I had a nice time at the dance last night. I knew a few people which always helps me feel more comfortable. The woman from the on-line dating site met me there (she wanted to drive together and I politely declined because that feels more like a "date" to me). She talked my ear off so I finally asked her to dance to make her hush for a few minutes. No, it still wasn't a date. There was a lovely femme there, but she had a gaggle of people around her so I couldn't get anywhere near her. Not that I would have done anything if I could get near her but a butch can dream, right?

[LoyalWolfsBlade]

Just stopping by to say hi to all the singles out there.....
Have a great week
The only immediate plans I have is to hook up with the person haunting my dreams if I can get to sleep that is...would be nice to put a face to that kind of energy....

[clay]

Wishing everyone a great Monday morning!

Hoping the week will be a fantastic one & each of you get lots of warm smiles...winks..flirts...& general goodness..

Up & at'em...:)

[Zimmeh]

Good Morning Everyone,

It has been a very busy last few days. I got home from work last night and this hellacious rash from my scrubs is back. I need to find cotton based scrubs, these polyester blend ones are causing me to have an allergic reaction!

This morning it's Potatoes O'Brien and Starbucks Anniversary Blend.

Enjoy!

Zimmeh

[Mel C.]

Good Morning Everyone,

It has been a very busy last few days. I got home from work last night and this hellacious rash from my scrubs is back. I need to find cotton based scrubs, these polyester blend ones are causing me to have an allergic reaction!

This morning it's Potatoes O'Brien and Starbucks Anniversary Blend.

Enjoy!

Zimmeh

Are you sure it's the scrubs?

Mel <=== wondering if you've been fooling around in the poison ivy

[JustLovelyJenn]

I am pretty sure one of the drag kings was flirting with me at the show this last weekend... I really enjoyed it!!

[Zimmeh]

I had a nurse look at it. It's only on the inside of my ankles. It's broken small capillaries from my legs swelling up. I need to visit a doctor and purchase some compression socks :( Getting old is for the birds! I just want to be a Toys R Us girl for life :)

Thank you for asking about me!

Zimmeh

Are you sure it's the scrubs?

Mel <=== wondering if you've been fooling around in the poison ivy

[Zimmeh]

Good Morning Everyone!

Hope you all have a good Saturday. I am working this weekend and then I am off on Monday. I enjoyed a plain bagel thin with whipped cream cheese, Yoplait yogurt and Starbucks Sumatra coffee.

Zimmeh

[Nattih]

I am gonna be buying some new dresses today. Trying to figure out how to work out a wardrobe during weight loss is annoying

[clay]

A beautiful Saturday Good morning folks!

I treated myself to a totally new & totally different haircut/style today..along with some waxing "clean up" of facial nature...

It is so very butch for me..one I haven't ever had. I was inspired by the weight loss process I am going through & I wanted to be really different from my past styles! Haven't ever had her use blades on me before...all clean (or High n tight) around back, neck, and sides...spikes n top, like a crew cut but longer....anywho...now to find someone to appreciate it...winks...

Wishing everyone an awesome day & weekend. Is gorgeous here. I will be enjoying some pool time today, for sure!

Hugs for everyone..and a huge ole smile...

[Shystonefem]

I think I'd actually faint if I was asked out, and the whole online experience has been awful. I think I'm a good person who has a lot to offer, but no one wants to stick around to find out. Being single by choice is looking better all the time.

Sue

I think you are a great person! Someday you will find the one

[Zimmeh]

Today has been a very eventful type of day. We had to take my step-dad's 88 year old grandma to the hospital. Her new doctor gave her the wrong type of medicine. The ER staff was very sweet and helpful to her. She has been diagnosed with low counts of hemoglobin and water retention. When my mom and I left tonight, they were putting her in a room and stated to give her several blood transfusions. I told my mom to report the original doctor.

I had a nice Greek salad for dinner and now I'm in bed. Tomorrow, we all will be at the hospital to see how she is going.

Night Everyone!

Zimmeh

[Zimmeh]

It has been a wild few days for me. My stepdad's grandma was checked into the nursing home that I work at. She is doing much better.

This is my weekend off, so I will see about going to the Ponce de Leon Lighthouse to pick up some post cards for the Postcard thread.

Breakfast this morning was Honey Nut Cheerios, 1% milk and Starbucks Caffe Verona coffee with French Vanilla creamer.

Zimmeh

[clay]

Morning singles!

Hope the grandma does well Z!

I am doing my house boi chores this AM & playing online & doing laundry!

Have some errands to run later today!

Will be working on a craft project or two I have going on...been slacking lately! Buckle up Buttercup!!

Wishing all of you an awesome day & weekend ahead..with some fun dates....great weather & clear sailing!

[Nattih]

So, my next project is learning how to sew. Scared to ask my grandma because I'm afraid she will yell about how I should have learned this sooner lol. Need to try YouTube first, then find actual lessons

[Lyte]

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[Zimmeh]

Evening Everyone,

I spent the day with my mom and family. We went shopping at Best Buy and I bought a new laptop. It is a 11.6" Dell Inspiron laptop and it is a gorgeous blue color.

Leaving us all some snacks and drinks for tonight!

Enjoy,

Zimmeh

[Zimmeh]

Good Morning Everyone...

I am still getting used to having two weekends off a month. I am sitting here watching, Million Dollar Listing: NY on Bravo. One day, I would love to visit NYC. I am considering looking into becoming a nurse once I hit my six month's of employment with the Nursing Home.

I am leaving us some coffee, juice and breakfast goodies.

Zimmeh

[Shystonefem]

Good Morning everyone!

I have to go to a baby shower today. I would rather have a root canal.

I don't know why but I feel down today. Perhaps the rain is the culprit, but I don't like it either way.

Just made coffee for everyone, enjoy!

Have a great day.

[Zimmeh]

Have a good night everyone! I am preparing for this hurricane. As of right now, it is just going to brush past my part of Florida.


Zimmeh

[Gemme]

Be safe down there!

[Zimmeh]

As of this morning, Hurricane Matthew is on path to include the East Coast of Florida in his path. I bought three cases of water, two candles and a flashlight. When this bad boy hits, it will be a strong Cat 3 hurricane. I am on call until Friday, even though Thursday is my day off.

Thank you Gemme and I will keep you all posted!

Zimmeh
-breaking out the wading boots :)

[clay]

hello singulars!!!

Beautiful day here on the Gulf side.

So much so, I am going to get in my pool!!!:sunglass:

Have an awesome afternoon & evening!!!

[Shystonefem]

As of this morning, Hurricane Matthew is on path to include the East Coast of Florida in his path. I bought three cases of water, two candles and a flashlight. When this bad boy hits, it will be a strong Cat 3 hurricane. I am on call until Friday, even though Thursday is my day off.

Thank you Gemme and I will keep you all posted!

Zimmeh
-breaking out the wading boots :)

Is that enough for a hurricane?

[Shystonefem]

hello singulars!!!

Beautiful day here on the Gulf side.

So much so, I am going to get in my pool!!!:sunglass:

Have an awesome afternoon & evening!!!




I get so jealous when you mention your pool. LOL. Have a good one.

[clay]

I get so jealous when you mention your pool. LOL. Have a good one.

Awww...don't be hatin'...lol. I hope my next place has one AND with the privacy I need.
I LOVE my pool time..almost every.single.day! I do half hour of exercises in the water first...then float lazily on the float & daydream, cloud watch.....lol
AND there are palm trees all around the house!

You as well!

[Gemme]

Is that enough for a hurricane?

Depends on if power is lost and, if so, for how long.

[LoyalWolfsBlade]

Evening singles...

I spent yesterday being very active doing my errands around town. I should say to active. I don't think I will ever get used to the level of activity my body can actually handle now. Actually since it has almost been two years since my spine surgery and the limits on both the weight I lift and the length of time I am allowed to walk I know I will never get used to it. I am so used to pushing through the pain for so many years that I seem to always over do it.

After being on my feet yesterday for over 15 hours and most of that time included carring more than my allowed wieght limit I spent today practicing my self care skills. Three long hot showers with the shower on massage working on my sore back muscles. Some aroma therapy while relaxing in bed. Lots of fresh fruit and protien while reducing my sugar and caffeine intake for the day, to replenish all that I used yesterday. No computer time and reduced television time to decrease the electronic stimulation that can induce migraines I wouldn't wish on my worst enemy. Finally no tight fitting clothes which gave me permission not to wear my binder and just relax all day in my sweats.
Now if I could only do some self care every day that would include not over doing it and listening to my body I wouldn't have wasted days like today.
On the positive side I did allow myself some comfort food of chocolate covered strawberries and a hot cup of tea. Not to forget that a down day equals getting some much needed book time...audible books don't count as bad electronic stimulation ;)

Rest well everyone....leaving some fresh grapes, strawberries, crackers and assortment of cheese just in case someone wants a late night snack

While self care is important a little indulgence from someone else occasionally would be greatly appreciated :) :moonstars::rrose:

[Zimmeh]

Most stores were running out of water, so they had limit restrictions. If it becomes to bad, my Babygirl pup will be dropped off at her house tomorrow and I will be staying with her.

Have a good night,

Zimmeh

Is that enough for a hurricane?

[Zimmeh]

In less than 13 hours, we will be in the middle of a hurricane. To all of us being affected by Matthew, please be safe! My thoughts and prayers are to all of my Florida peeps, Georgia and Carolina people! I am off tomorrow and I am on mandatory stand by. This storm is making me nervous!

Zimmeh

[clay]

In less than 13 hours, we will be in the middle of a hurricane. To all of us being affected by Matthew, please be safe! My thoughts and prayers are to all of my Florida peeps, Georgia and Carolina people! I am off tomorrow and I am on mandatory stand by. This storm is making me nervous!

Zimmeh

We will know by this evening & over into the night hours....Matthew is slated to come ashore then..someplace.

Jim Cantore is in Melbourne Beach, Fl. When Jim Cantore shows up...it is usually BAD!

Stay safe Zimmeh.....check in to let us know you are okay!

All the rest of the peeps along the East Coast of Fla., Ga., and SC...heads up.

Jax folks..let us know pls...thanks..stay safe!

We slated to get the squalls & outer bands with 25 to 40 mph winds this evening on over into the night...praying this thing heads out Eastward into Atlantic....needs to go find Nicole & knock each other out!!!!

[Zimmeh]

Thank you Clay! I was called into work and I will be working 14 hours tomorrow. It has already started to rain here in Daytona Beach. The gas stations here, have no gas and the stores are empty.

Be safe Clay!

Zimmeh

We will know by this evening & over into the night hours....Matthew is slated to come ashore then..someplace.

Jim Cantore is in Melbourne Beach, Fl. When Jim Cantore shows up...it is usually BAD!

Stay safe Zimmeh.....check in to let us know you are okay!

All the rest of the peeps along the East Coast of Fla., Ga., and SC...heads up.

Jax folks..let us know pls...thanks..stay safe!

We slated to get the squalls & outer bands with 25 to 40 mph winds this evening on over into the night...praying this thing heads out Eastward into Atlantic....needs to go find Nicole & knock each other out!!!!

[clay]

Thank you Clay! I was called into work and I will be working 14 hours tomorrow. It has already started to rain here in Daytona Beach. The gas stations here, have no gas and the stores are empty.

Be safe Clay!

Zimmeh

Thanks Zimmeh! You are probably going to get it harder than I will....

Keep me posted Z!!!

[~ocean]

Thanks Zimmeh! You are probably going to get it harder than I will....

Keep me posted Z!!!

((((((((((((( ZIMM ))))))))))))))) becarefull sweety and u as well clay :)

[Zimmeh]

So far we are getting a lot of rain. I packed up my apartment before I was called in. I will be working 22 hours in two days and receiving hazard pay for as long as I am in the building. Clay, I hope you stay safe to! My pup is with my mom and I miss her snuggles at night! I will be working 7a to 9p tomorrow :(

Good night from a hectic and lonely night!

Zimmeh

[Zimmeh]

Dear Alix,

I hope you found that woman haunting your dreams in Heaven. Even though your death is a sad time, I hope your family finds some form of peace and happiness. Your death is still a sign to all of us in the LGBQT community, that our fight for equality isn't over.

Forever fighting to find help and a cure for depression,

Zimmeh


Just stopping by to say hi to all the singles out there.....
Have a great week
The only immediate plans I have is to hook up with the person haunting my dreams if I can get to sleep that is...would be nice to put a face to that kind of energy....

[Zimmeh]

It has been a very busy week for me! I cannot wait until I am off this weekend. I worked nearly 58 hours last week and I need a vacation!

I lost my food to the hurricane so I have no treats for us to enjoy :(

Zimmeh

[Mel C.]

Dropping by to say hi to the singles.

[s0litude]

Hello, everyone-- just peeking in to say hello again and noticed a lot of folks are still discussing the Hurricane. Several places here in the NE part of Eastern NC flooded and are still flooded severely. Like most from the area, we dig in and keep going.

Some know me; some don't. I don't think I've done an intro yet or at all, so....

I'm a non-op FTM, on HRT off and on as finances and doctors allowed for nearly 15 years now. Thanks to genetics and being practically hairless, I can grow a goatee and mustache to make most 15 year old boys jealous, but that's about it. LOL! Hmmm... what else can I toss in here...?

I'm a big-time music and movie fan. My musical tastes are really eclectic though I love country, 80's and 90's best. I also sing and am a bit of a crooner. As for movies, I am a big fan of romantic comedies, horrors, and I admit it: Harry Potter, Hunger Games, Twilight-- yep, love em, and I've read the books as well. My favourites though are those from the John Hughes / Brat Pack days. "Some Kind of Wonderful" is probably my favourite. What else? I like to cook, hate mustard with an unrealistic passion, think the ocean is terrifying which is why I have to go next summer, never consider fishing a waste of time, believe the ukulele is seriously under-rated as a musical instrument, am addicted to coffee, can handle morning breath if I love someone, am monogamous and faithful, and have a bit of a fetish when it comes to femmes who wear lipstick or lip gloss. #MeltWorthy

I recently shaved my head (light brown when I have hair), shaved my little bit of a beard, wear glasses, have what I am told are "devastating" blue eyes, rarely smile in pictures because I'm self-conscious, will never tan (also thanks to genetics), dress simply, love my flannel, love my Wranglers, love my boots, am 5'5" tall and blocky in build, but wish I were about 30lbs lighter.

Also worth noting,...

I am familiar with the BDSM lifestyle and though I have a wicked playful streak, I don't want that to be a foundation of any relationship I might have. I want a femme with a bit of a frisky streak, not a sub or slave who is also my partner. I favour my dominant side, but I am a switch if she is strong enough to take it from me. I'm in my early to mid 40's, so I hope to eventually find a wife who is emotionally mature, honest (even blunt), kind-hearted, and lives her life authentically.

That's the short version. Imagine how talkative I am once I am comfortable?

[Zimmeh]

This morning it's Honey Nut Cheerios, no milk and coffee for breakfast.

Enjoy!

Zimmeh

[Gemme]

Hello, singles! Happy Tuesday and an early happy Hump Day to you all.

[Mel C.]

No coming out day stories?

[clay]

Sure.
I was 23, she was 36! The music in the background..."Help Me Make It Through The Night" ...did I ever think I was the hot stuff!!! LOL.
As they say "I have come a longgggggggggggggg way since that night!!.

[clay]

Evening my friends!

I am still dregging around. Damn what IS this crap I have!!!

Anyway, I refuse to let it get me down. I am going to kick itz butt!! lol.

[WingsOnFire]

Evening my friends!

I am still dregging around. Damn what IS this crap I have!!!

Anyway, I refuse to let it get me down. I am going to kick itz butt!! lol.



hope you get better quickly. I am very thankful that i work from home when everyone in the office is passing around the latest germs

[WingsOnFire]

Hello, everyone-- just peeking in to say hello again and noticed a lot of folks are still discussing the Hurricane. Several places here in the NE part of Eastern NC flooded and are still flooded severely. Like most from the area, we dig in and keep going.

Some know me; some don't. I don't think I've done an intro yet or at all, so....

I'm a non-op FTM, on HRT off and on as finances and doctors allowed for nearly 15 years now. Thanks to genetics and being practically hairless, I can grow a goatee and mustache to make most 15 year old boys jealous, but that's about it. LOL! Hmmm... what else can I toss in here...?

I'm a big-time music and movie fan. My musical tastes are really eclectic though I love country, 80's and 90's best. I also sing and am a bit of a crooner. As for movies, I am a big fan of romantic comedies, horrors, and I admit it: Harry Potter, Hunger Games, Twilight-- yep, love em, and I've read the books as well. My favourites though are those from the John Hughes / Brat Pack days. "Some Kind of Wonderful" is probably my favourite. What else? I like to cook, hate mustard with an unrealistic passion, think the ocean is terrifying which is why I have to go next summer, never consider fishing a waste of time, believe the ukulele is seriously under-rated as a musical instrument, am addicted to coffee, can handle morning breath if I love someone, am monogamous and faithful, and have a bit of a fetish when it comes to femmes who wear lipstick or lip gloss. #MeltWorthy

I recently shaved my head (light brown when I have hair), shaved my little bit of a beard, wear glasses, have what I am told are "devastating" blue eyes, rarely smile in pictures because I'm self-conscious, will never tan (also thanks to genetics), dress simply, love my flannel, love my Wranglers, love my boots, am 5'5" tall and blocky in build, but wish I were about 30lbs lighter.

Also worth noting,...

I am familiar with the BDSM lifestyle and though I have a wicked playful streak, I don't want that to be a foundation of any relationship I might have. I want a femme with a bit of a frisky streak, not a sub or slave who is also my partner. I favour my dominant side, but I am a switch if she is strong enough to take it from me. I'm in my early to mid 40's, so I hope to eventually find a wife who is emotionally mature, honest (even blunt), kind-hearted, and lives her life authentically.

That's the short version. Imagine how talkative I am once I am comfortable?

looks like we have both been away a while. Nice to see you again.
I feel the same way about BDSM as you. I am struggling with having that be the basis of a relationship but for me the issue is trust. Maybe one day. I too am a switch and enjoy my dominant and submissive side.

[WingsOnFire]

I was 20 she was 34... I was her first woman also... Damn it was hot... In the end I caught her in bed with a man... Broke my young heart but man the sex was hot lolNo coming out day stories?

[Zimmeh]

I was in my early 30's and living in Orlando. I came put to my former roommate and his friends. I met someone on an AOL chat room back in 2008. My first partner was my ex in Seattle. I am not out to my coworker's, I was forced to resign from a job for being gay. I did report my manager to our hr office and the ACLU.

Zimmeh


No coming out day stories?

[Zimmeh]

Evening to everyone,

It has been a weird day at work! Found out that one of our residents passed away last night :( He was a sweet older gentleman. I am exhausted and I picked up a shift for Sunday, which is overtime.

Have a good night,

Zimmeh

[Mel C.]

I came out to other gays in High School but didn't share with straight friends or family until college. Even in college it was more of a casual mention when the topic of homosexuality came up. When I started to identify as butch, I think my appearance (and mannerisms) kept me out. I can't imagine not being out now.

[s0litude]

looks like we have both been away a while. Nice to see you again.
I feel the same way about BDSM as you. I am struggling with having that be the basis of a relationship but for me the issue is trust. Maybe one day. I too am a switch and enjoy my dominant and submissive side.

Good to see you as well. :) Yeah, after having done the whole lifestyle 24/7 thing, it simply doesn't work for me and is too much of a headache to try. Whether I am dominating or submitting for the a period of time, after that, I want the kind of woman who's fine curling back into me on the couch or allowing me to lay my head in her lap and just BE. Trust is huge. Honesty is huge. I want the kind of wife who we can tell each other anything and know it's just honest, not attacking, and that together, we can work through whatever we're facing even if it leaves us a bit raw and healing sometimes. That kind of love and trust holds it all together. Without that, you can't have the kind of love I am seeking.

[WingsOnFire]

Good to see you as well. :) Yeah, after having done the whole lifestyle 24/7 thing, it simply doesn't work for me and is too much of a headache to try. Whether I am dominating or submitting for the a period of time, after that, I want the kind of woman who's fine curling back into me on the couch or allowing me to lay my head in her lap and just BE. Trust is huge. Honesty is huge. I want the kind of wife who we can tell each other anything and know it's just honest, not attacking, and that together, we can work through whatever we're facing even if it leaves us a bit raw and healing sometimes. That kind of love and trust holds it all together. Without that, you can't have the kind of love I am seeking.

I agree. I love the dynamic. I love the play. However I also love just being me. I am just ready to meet someone I can have a stimulating conversation with or just curl up on the couch in their arms watching the fire place spark. If the dynamic fits it fits but its not what I seek first now. Maybe thats because I was badly hurt emotionally in mt last two relationships but I wont say never again.

I lived in Greensboro NC for 2 years btw. Loved NC

Becca

[s0litude]

Hmmmm.... Coming out stories....

When I came out as a butch lesbian, was first ever with a woman:

I was in college, had an older lesbian sending me all kinds of mixed signals while I was closeted. Was a trying time considering I was from a small town in NC where it was not at all acceptable. Finally, after feeling so lost and hopeless, I risked everything and called my dad. I tried to hold it together but started crying when I heard his voice. He went into "Daddy" mode, poor guy was thinking I was hurt, pregnant, wrecked my car,... Lord knows what else. I finally just said, "Dad, I think I'm gay." Longest. Silence. Ever. I finally spoke and asked, "Dad, did ya hear me?" He said, "Yeah, Honey, I heard you. I'm just waiting for that to sink in." He was so understanding, so loving, but that's always been my dad's way.

As for my first time...

I was 22; she was 23 and a cop from Texas. Things heated up when I took her out riding on the quad (four wheeler) out at my sister's one September night. She curled in against my back with her hands along my hips, that innocent ride turned out not so innocent when she asked me to pull behind a section of trees for privacy. She straddled me, light kisses became deeper, longer, more passionate. My hands slid along the hem, fingers grazing her skin. She knew I'd never been with a woman and took the initiative to remove her shirt. As soon as she started, I continued. The bra came off, hands wandered, lips, teeth, and tongues wandered-- she suggested I take her home to continue. I did. We did. WOW! And thank God, I wasn't completely lost-- LOL! I had cable television. No, seriously, I've always been very observant, watched people. I am great at reading body language, and I was eager to explore and had ego problems in being led. Again, WOW!

As a Transman:

It was sad, depressing. I was 28, on the verge of making some very personal, very foolish, very FINAL, decisions. A fan of his work, Loren Cameron and I had emailed a few times, and I remember asking him, "When? How do you know when?" I told him my situation, told him how scared I was and how dark my thoughts were becoming. It boiled down to you'll know the right time when you have only two decisions left: you can die inside, or allow it to eat you alive until you break and take your own life, OR you can stand firm, know it is going to hurt and be difficult, ready yourself for one hell of a fight, and get ready to take on whatever is thrown at you. You can CHOOSE to live, truly be who YOU are. I choose me. Shortly after, I eased into it, tested the waters. I told a few close friends, opened a little at a time, to friends online,... And then to my Dad. He struggled, and there was a time when we didn't speak for around a year. But my parents came to accept it, are slowly becoming more and more comfortable with it especially after I moved back to the city where I was born and reared. They still occasionally slip with the pronouns, but they try. In fact, I shaved my beard, and my Dad told me I should grow it back, that a little bit of a mustache and chin scruff looked good on me. My sister was the most accepting though she did sway a little once. She, herself, later came out as bisexual. My nephews had no trouble accepting it. They think it's great because transmen get a unique perspective on masculine and feminine as we come into our own.

I'd say the difference in coming out as a lesbian vs. coming out as a transman, for me personally, was that it is more of a process, not a moment, coming out as trans. It takes a great deal longer to adjust and analyze oneself and become comfortable with who you are.

[s0litude]

I agree. I love the dynamic. I love the play. However I also love just being me. I am just ready to meet someone I can have a stimulating conversation with or just curl up on the couch in their arms watching the fire place spark. If the dynamic fits it fits but its not what I seek first now. Maybe thats because I was badly hurt emotionally in mt last two relationships but I wont say never again.

I lived in Greensboro NC for 2 years btw. Loved NC

Becca

Agreed. I want the kind of relationship where curled up talking or quietly being with each other is more meaningful than anywhere else she and I might go out. I want sanctuary. In myself. In the Home. One day, in her arms. If that dynamic comes about later, if that dynamic never becomes a part of my relationship, that isn't a concern of mine. I want a wife with a kinky streak, not a lifestyler who also happens to be my wife. The complications and pain and damage of that in my last relationship has burned me too badly, changed me too deeply, that if that dynamic ever reared its head in my future, it would have to be handled with velvet gloves, would have to be a "start at the beginning" kind of thing. It took me a while to find me again, and I won't have that. I won't be so eager to be who my partner wants me to be that I lose who I am. Each day, I want to be a better, stronger version of the man she fell in love with, not someone new to the point where I don't recognize me anymore. It's not worth it to me. I want to be able to enjoy all the vanilla aspects of that physical side of love WITHOUT having to incorporate those BDSM elements into it. At the end of the day, I don't want to be her Dom or Boi, her Master or her Sub, Slave, Toy, or Pet. I just wanna be Nicholas, her Love, and have that be enough.

[Zimmeh]

Tonight is one night that I wish I had a partner. I had to help with a resident who was in full code. Nothing we did could save him. I will be going home alone to cry, for a great gentleman who decided tonight was his night to become an Angel.

Zimmeh

[s0litude]

Tonight is one night that I wish I had a partner. I had to help with a resident who was in full code. Nothing we did could save him. I will be going home alone to cry, for a great gentleman who decided tonight was his night to become an Angel.

Zimmeh

I'm so sorry. I was at a childhood friend's wake this evening. I was fine til I reached the casket, then the tears just came. The place was full, and I didn't want to upset anyone. I had to step away and choke em down til I could be alone. Fortunately, my lil sister (closest childhood friend) was there, saw me, could tell I needed the hug. To be such a big guy, I'm a mushball. It's a big part of why I did phlebotomy briefly but never pursued nursing. Caring for people constantly only to lose them-- it would crush me.

[WingsOnFire]

I have had a rough day.. woke up with a head cold and ready to go back to bed. I slept until 11 and worked 4 hours.. that was about all I had in me. Lets hope I feel better tomorrow. I am very thankful I work from home.

Hope everyone has a good night

[Zimmeh]

Get to feeling better and rest :)

Hugs my friend,

Zimmeh


I have had a rough day.. woke up with a head cold and ready to go back to bed. I slept until 11 and worked 4 hours.. that was about all I had in me. Lets hope I feel better tomorrow. I am very thankful I work from home.

Hope everyone has a good night

[Zimmeh]

Sending you a virtual hug! The resident was in a different unit, and the majority of us went to help them out. My heart goes out to the nurse and cna who found him. This is my first time seeing someone pass away, so it made me emotional. I came home to kisses from my Babygirl pup.

Zimmeh

I'm so sorry. I was at a childhood friend's wake this evening. I was fine til I reached the casket, then the tears just came. The place was full, and I didn't want to upset anyone. I had to step away and choke em down til I could be alone. Fortunately, my lil sister (closest childhood friend) was there, saw me, could tell I needed the hug. To be such a big guy, I'm a mushball. It's a big part of why I did phlebotomy briefly but never pursued nursing. Caring for people constantly only to lose them-- it would crush me.

[s0litude]

Sending you a virtual hug! The resident was in a different unit, and the majority of us went to help them out. My heart goes out to the nurse and cna who found him. This is my first time seeing someone pass away, so it made me emotional. I came home to kisses from my Babygirl pup.

Zimmeh

HUGS! And thank you, Sweetie. And hugs to you as well!

[Zimmeh]

Good morning everyone,

Leaving you all some Yoplait yogurt with toast and coffee. I am looking forward to my day off tomorrow. I am going to see what movie is playing and take myself to it. This has been a very busy two weeks and by Sunday, I will have worked a total of 105 hours in two weeks. I am also thinking that foot massage is in order.

Have a good day,

Zimmeh

[clay]

Good afternoon everyone!

Hope everyone has a wonderful weekend! I will cuz I iz not sick this one...:).

I saw a mug with this saying on it...I LOVE it & agree wholeheartedly!!!


Give a woman the right shade of lipstick & she will conquer the world...... single handedly!!!


:blueheels:

[WingsOnFire]

Sending you a virtual hug! The resident was in a different unit, and the majority of us went to help them out. My heart goes out to the nurse and cna who found him. This is my first time seeing someone pass away, so it made me emotional. I came home to kisses from my Babygirl pup.

Zimmeh

I remember when Damon found his first patient it was hard for him. I imagine it is awful for everyone. Just remember that you give them

[Zimmeh]

Hope you all are having a good week! My mom and I are going shopping at the Olde Time Pottery store tomorrow :) We are still looking for Christmas decorations for our houses.

Leaving you all some treats and cold drinks to enjoy :)

Zimmeh

[clay]

evening singles...
Just wanted to say good evening and wish you all a TGIF early!!!
Enjoy your weekends...

[Zimmeh]

Good Mornjng Everyone!

It is a gorgeous, sunny and cool morning here in my part of Florida. Waiting for my mom so we can do some early Christmas shopping! I cannot believe Halloween is eleven days away and then Thanksgiving is in a month :/ Where has this year gone?

I had one pancake with cranberries and butter on top with a cup of Starbucks Anniversary Blend coffee this morning.

Have a good day,

Zimmeh

[Nattih]

Now that my nephew is gone, I will be playing catch up on work and cleaning this weekend. I am brewing continuous cups of coffee to keep up my energy levels

[Zimmeh]

Hope you all are having a great week! This is my third week of working over 55 hours. I am off this coming weekend and I have no plans.

Zimmeh

[clay]

Hello all you beautiful peoples!!!

It is a really great weather-wise week here in F-L-A!! I love it!! Doors & windows open...the chime son back patio..at least 15 or so sets...really sound awesome in the breezes.

I was able to get a fir in the firpit this past weekend..toasted some of those jumbo marshmallows...Ohh Emm Geee....only thing missing was a sweet femme to toast some for....:)

I am busy this week..doing my crafts...getting ready...

Leaves some pumpkin spice bagels with some Greek Yogurt cream cheese...and some fresh hot coffee....Zimmeh,.what kind do we leave? lol

Hope your week is a good one & give someone one of your beautiful smiles..or say "hello".......you never know...<winks>

[ferret]

*peeks in*

[Lyte]

My first thought was... *pokes eye* :p

Yes, I have a naughty streak. But... I restrained myself! ;)



*peeks in*

[ferret]

Afternoon, singles.

I moved back home about a year ago. I'm having fun, keeping busy, and like my life in general. But there's just one thing that's missing...That I just seem to have to define myself by *sigh* I know I can't rush said missing thing, and things happen on their own time table (if at all), but c'mon already.

Sue

[ferret]

My first thought was... *pokes eye* :p

Yes, I have a naughty streak. But... I restrained myself! ;)

Ha ha. Ya brat :P
Bring it!

Sue

[Lyte]

Brat?! lol Ok... well... yeah... :jester:

Ha ha. Ya brat :P
Bring it!

Sue

[Nattih]

I rarely take the night completely off and do no work, but that is exactly what I am doing tonight. This week has been a little harder with work and I had to cancel my trip I was really looking forward to this weekend. I am gonna pop some popcorn and catch up on the ebooks I have been itching to read.

[ferret]

I rarely take the night completely off and do no work, but that is exactly what I am doing tonight. This week has been a little harder with work and I had to cancel my trip I was really looking forward to this weekend. I am gonna pop some popcorn and catch up on the ebooks I have been itching to read.

That sounds like a good plan! We need to learn to be good to ourselves. Have a great night and a super weekend.

Sue

[Zimmeh]

Guatemala Antigua or the Yukon Blenf from Starbucks :)

I to have my windows open and my pup is loving it to!

Zimmeh


Hello all you beautiful peoples!!!

It is a really great weather-wise week here in F-L-A!! I love it!! Doors & windows open...the chime son back patio..at least 15 or so sets...really sound awesome in the breezes.

I was able to get a fir in the firpit this past weekend..toasted some of those jumbo marshmallows...Ohh Emm Geee....only thing missing was a sweet femme to toast some for....:)

I am busy this week..doing my crafts...getting ready...

Leaves some pumpkin spice bagels with some Greek Yogurt cream cheese...and some fresh hot coffee....Zimmeh,.what kind do we leave? lol

Hope your week is a good one & give someone one of your beautiful smiles..or say "hello".......you never know...<winks>

[Zimmeh]

I am still enjoying my Starbucks Anniversary Blend coffee before it runs out.

I had a cup of Yoplait yogurt with my Starbucks coffee :) My pup has been feeling sick the last few days, so this morning I gave her a bowl of food with chicken stock. She gobbled it up!

Dinner will be chicken cutlet cooked in Italian dressing and jasmine rice and I might make a grilled cheese sandwich for lunch.

Zimmeh

[Zimmeh]

I have spent the last few days hanging out with my mom. Today, she won $1000 on a scratch off ticket, and since she doesn't know her way around Orlando, I cashed it in for her. Afterwards, we went and got manicures, dinner and won more money on scratch off tickets. I got a French Manicure and I am happy that I no longer work for Starbucks. I can finally feel like a girl again :)


Since I have been working like a mad hatter, I am now caught up on my car payment and I have been picking up small things for everyone for Christmas. I now have to pick up Christmas Cards and postcards for the two lists that I belong to.

Have a good night,

Zimmeh

[clay]

Good morning all you wonderful singles!!

It is a really beautiful morning here. Skies are clear, blue, & sunny! Is 63 at moment. Highs still in low 80's days! This weekend night temp is going to be 59 then back up to high 60's nights.

I am doing a craft show tomorrow! I am very excited!!!

Today I am busy with working on things for it!

Zimmeh...that is awesome your mom won that 1k. Good for her! I love when I win on one of the scratch offs!!

Hope everyone has an amazing Friday & a really fun weekend. Take care all....

Leaves fresh Danish & a pot of that good coffee Zimmeh usually leaves....enjoy!!

[Lyte]

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[Zimmeh]

Good luck at the Craft show today! She gave me some of it for going to Orlando, so I treated myself to a nice iced latte from Starbucks, after paying my bills.

Zimmeh

Good morning all you wonderful singles!!

It is a really beautiful morning here. Skies are clear, blue, & sunny! Is 63 at moment. Highs still in low 80's days! This weekend night temp is going to be 59 then back up to high 60's nights.

I am doing a craft show tomorrow! I am very excited!!!

Today I am busy with working on things for it!

Zimmeh...that is awesome your mom won that 1k. Good for her! I love when I win on one of the scratch offs!!

Hope everyone has an amazing Friday & a really fun weekend. Take care all....

Leaves fresh Danish & a pot of that good coffee Zimmeh usually leaves....enjoy!!

[Zimmeh]

Good Saturday Morning Everyone,

Monday, I am going to see about a nicer apartment.

I am to start saving up money, so I can go visit my family in Michigan by March of next year.

Leaving a pot of Starbucks Guatemala Antigua, yogurt and eggs to enjoy.

Zimmeh

[Mel C.]

Well, another weekend is here and it is already November. Time flies.

I'm going down to the predominantly gay part of San Diego tonight. My coworker is forcing me out on the town. Actually, my colleague actually works for me. I'm wondering how appropriate it is to have drinks with a direct report. Would you or would you not?

[Zimmeh]

I wouldn't unless it is business related. If you do go, have fun and take a cab home!

Zimmeh


Well, another weekend is here and it is already November. Time flies.

I'm going down to the predominantly gay part of San Diego tonight. My coworker is forcing me out on the town. Actually, my colleague actually works for me. I'm wondering how appropriate it is to have drinks with a direct report. Would you or would you not?

[homoe]

Well, another weekend is here and it is already November. Time flies.

I'm going down to the predominantly gay part of San Diego tonight. My coworker is forcing me out on the town. Actually, my colleague actually works for me. I'm wondering how appropriate it is to have drinks with a direct report. Would you or would you not?

GO!!!!! :hangloose:

[Gemme]

Well, another weekend is here and it is already November. Time flies.

I'm going down to the predominantly gay part of San Diego tonight. My coworker is forcing me out on the town. Actually, my colleague actually works for me. I'm wondering how appropriate it is to have drinks with a direct report. Would you or would you not?

Limit the alcohol and stay in control. Things can go sideways reeeeealllly fast in situations like this.

[Lyte]

Dont mean to be a buzz kill... I wouldn't. It's one of those things that could go very wrong. :|


Well, another weekend is here and it is already November. Time flies.

I'm going down to the predominantly gay part of San Diego tonight. My coworker is forcing me out on the town. Actually, my colleague actually works for me. I'm wondering how appropriate it is to have drinks with a direct report. Would you or would you not?

[socialjustice_fsu]

Well, another weekend is here and it is already November. Time flies.

I'm going down to the predominantly gay part of San Diego tonight. My coworker is forcing me out on the town. Actually, my colleague actually works for me. I'm wondering how appropriate it is to have drinks with a direct report. Would you or would you not?

Mel, I have been in a number of meetings with direct report staff. It's not even a slippery slope. In my opinion it's a loud and clear "no."

[Mel C.]

Thanks for the input all!

[Gemme]

Thanks for the input all!

What did you do, cupcake? Was it drinks? A show? Dinner? A quiet night?

Inquiring minds....:thinking:

[Mel C.]

What did you do, cupcake? Was it drinks? A show? Dinner? A quiet night?

Inquiring minds....:thinking:

We met for drinks in the predominantly gay area of town. Not sure whether there will be another night on the town. There are only 25 or so employees where I work but we were recently bought out by a company of 4,000. They will probably end Mimosa Monday's (yep, we really do drink alcohol at work sometimes).

[Gemme]

We met for drinks in the predominantly gay area of town. Not sure whether there will be another night on the town. There are only 25 or so employees where I work but we were recently bought out by a company of 4,000. They will probably end Mimosa Monday's (yep, we really do drink alcohol at work sometimes).

Glad things worked out okie dokie.

[Zimmeh]

Hope you all are having a good start to your week! I'm taking my pup to the park here in a bit.

Zimmeh

[Mel C.]

Well today is the day...time to elect a President. I will be watching shows off my DVR to avoid stressing too much. I hope all the singles who are registered to vote got their vote on. I voted by mail a couple weeks ago.

*drumroll*

[Zimmeh]

I worked in the unit where my stepdad's grandma is. I walked in and she didn't recognize me. I held her hand and told her I was there to keep her safe. She hasn't eaten anything in over a week and I left her room in tears. So we are preparing ourselves to accept when she goes home.

Now to cuddle with Babygirl and relax before bed.

Zimmeh

[Zimmeh]

Hope you all are having a good start to your week! I have bought three gifts so far and I love shopping online :)

Leaving a pot of hot water and Teavana's Peach Tranquility tea for us to enjoy.

Zimmeh

[Nattih]

Have been trying to be a responsible adult lately. Was hallway successful lol. I had my heart set on renting an apartment in an awesome high rise but it decided that saving more each month is the responsible thing to do. So still at the apartment hunting drawing board.

I hope everyone here is doing well! Hopefully the weekend holds some great adventures

[Mel C.]

Happy Saturday Singles! The holidays are rapidly approaching, which can be hard for some people. I'm hoping that all of the singles have an enjoyable week!

[Zimmeh]

It is a chilly start to my morning here in Florida! My poor pup was shivering all night and is still cuddling in her three blankies lol.

Leaving all of us a big pot of Starbucks Thanksgiving Blend coffee and omelets for breakfast.

Zimmeh

[Zimmeh]

I am enjoying a cup of Hot Cocoa. This weather is for the birds, but I love it! I have had my windows open all day and Babygirl enjoyed that.

Hope you all had a great Monday and a good start to the beginning of your work week.

Zimmeh

[Zimmeh]

It has been a crazy week for me. My step dad's grandma passed away on November 21st, so we have been dealing with that and now shopping for Christmas. My oldest niece will be moving to Texas in January with her mom and step dad. This will also be her last Christmas with us until she comes back in two years, it bums me out.

Have a good night,

Zimmeh

[Mel C.]

Sorry to hear life has been stressful Zimmeh.

Where are all of the singles on a Saturday night?

[Chad]

Sorry to hear life has been stressful Zimmeh.

Where are all of the singles on a Saturday night?

Hey buddy, I am here. Meet me in CT in the the spring for a beer. Let's invite Salty. :)

[Mel C.]

Hey buddy, I am here. Meet me in CT in the the spring for a beer. Let's invite Salty. :)

I'm game. I will be in the Boston area in January. Come get cold with me.

[Zimmeh]

Thank you Mel! My step dad has been in denial over her death and my mom is supporting him. Have you finished your shopping? I think I'm done and then realize, I'm not.


Zimmeh

Sorry to hear life has been stressful Zimmeh.

Where are all of the singles on a Saturday night?

[pumpndude]

Zimmeh, Sorry to hear about your grandma, she is now is a better place and for your stepdad- grieving takes as long as it takes...everyone is different...

My mom has slowed down a lot and looks really skiny, I'm now cooking for her and my sister....Any loss of a family member can be really hard....

take care and happy holidays to you and your loved ones....

[Zimmeh]

Thank you Pumpmdude! We donated all of her clothes and her wheelchair to the nursing home. I am not sure what happened to your mom and sister, but I hope they have a speedy recovery!

Zimmeh


Zimmeh, Sorry to hear about your grandma, she is now is a better place and for your stepdad- grieving takes as long as it takes...everyone is different...

My mom has slowed down a lot and looks really skiny, I'm now cooking for her and my sister....Any loss of a family member can be really hard....

take care and happy holidays to you and your loved ones....

[Zimmeh]

Happy Holidays to Everyone! If you are traveling to see family and friends, be safe! It doesn't feel like Christmas here in Florida.

Zimmeh

[easygoingfemme]

Happy Happy Holidays! I hope each and every one of you is able to create the day you want for yourself.

Cheers~~~

[Mel C.]

Good evening Singles! Another holiday approaches. I haven't decided whether it's easier harder or just different being single for holiday parties. What sayeth you?

[clay]

Want to wish all my friends here a very warm & happy holiday season..however each may celebrate!

Hugs to you all....clay

[Stone-Butch]

I sit here by myself and happy. Single is not so bad but I don't party anymore. SO, I don't think I am missing anything. I hope you all have wonderful holidays and that geriatric old fart gives you all you have wished for. Peace and good will to all chatters.

[Gemme]

Happy holidays, singles!

[Lyte]

Very Merry Christmas to everyone!! :jester:

[Shystonefem]

I am not single anymore but I am still sending love to all of you. XOXOXO

[Chad]

Howdy singles,

Well here I am. Over the holidays I got the impression that my family wanted to be involved in my dating life...or maybe it was just the interviews...haha.

I say whatever works, haha. Where is that older relative or neighbor that does the match making? Ha!

I always keep my positive outlook so let's have some fun, some laughs, and hopefully find some great friends along the way.

:cowboy:

[Zimmeh]

Have a good night Everyone!

Zimmeh

[Mel C.]

Happy Saturday Singles. I have a date with my mom and possibly my aunt. There will definitely be hugging and a peck on the cheek. Most action I've had in 2016...at least that I can recall. Here's to 2017 being good to all of us Singles!

[cinnamongrrl]

I have a question...

I sometimes peruse the local personals on craigslist...more out of curiosity than with purpose...

So...my question is this...

I've been seeing the word "stud" used in ads...and it tends to also be a butch referring to themselves as such...so...what is a stud exactly?? I mean...I know what it means in the animal sense but...

Yeah. Any help is appreciated and happy New year y'all!

[Chad]

Happy New Year Singles,

Let's party!

:party:

Have a safe and happy night.

Chad

[Gemme]

I have a question...

I sometimes peruse the local personals on craigslist...more out of curiosity than with purpose...

So...my question is this...

I've been seeing the word "stud" used in ads...and it tends to also be a butch referring to themselves as such...so...what is a stud exactly?? I mean...I know what it means in the animal sense but...

Yeah. Any help is appreciated and happy New year y'all!

The term stud is used primarily in POC communities to describe a very masculine butch. They could also mean that they are a 'ladies' butch' and are smooth.

Here's a link (http://www.cardcarryinglesbian.com/stud-vs-butch-whats-the-difference) that might be helpful.

[Zimmeh]

After working 16 hours yesterday, I have been watching movies all day and napping. I gave my pup a bath with Burt's Bees oatmeal and honey shampoo, a yummy treat and a lot of loving. I also went shopping for new work shoes. The other night, I stepped in a pile of poo from a resident. I threw them in the garbage once I got home.

Have a good night and leaving us all a yummy slice of birthday cake and hot cocoa!

Zimmeh

[pumpndude]

Happy New Year to All...:cigar2:

I hope 2017 is the year I find my soulmate and she finds me....:hangloose:
I'm going to hang out today in my :boxers:

:fireworks:



:danceparty:

[Chad]

Happy Friday night Singles,

It is freezing in Texas. I hope everyone is safe and warm. The baby kitty and I are snuggled up watching Diners, Drive-ins, and Dives on TV.

I hope everyone has a safe and happy Friday night.
Leaving some hot pizza for snacks.
Chad

[Zimmeh]

It is freezing here in Florida to! My pup is freezing her butt off. I start my new shift tomorrow and I'm really going to enjoy working 11p to 7a.


Night,

Zimmeh

[Czarcastica McDarling]

Another single checking in. It's been freezing here as well - so glad for my electric blanket. Tonight will be doing my nails & toenails and wishing tomorrow wasn't Monday. I worked Saturday, so just a 1 day weekend for me. Hope everybody else is keeping warm!

[Mel C.]

I'm in Boston for work. It's a wee bit colder than San Diego. The white stuff on the ground isn't sand and flip-flops are out of the question. I'll end the week by visiting some b-f people a couple hours from here. I'm excited to see the ones I know and meet the ones that I don't know (yet). Makes me miss Reunions.

[Chad]

I'm in Boston for work. It's a wee bit colder than San Diego. The white stuff on the ground isn't sand and flip-flops are out of the question. I'll end the week by visiting some b-f people a couple hours from here. I'm excited to see the ones I know and meet the ones that I don't know (yet). Makes me miss Reunions.

I know that you will have a blast. I am envious but it is too cold there for this Texan in January. I miss reunion too.

Be safe, warm, and have a blast.

[Zimmeh]

Dinner tonight is homemade meatball subs with lemon creme cake. I am also watching, "Absolute Fabulous".

Zimmeh

[Mel C.]

Waving hi to the Singles. I'm already planning for Single Awareness Day. Had a great time with my buddies last year. Hopefully this year won't disappoint.

[Jar]

I know that you will have a blast. I am envious but it is too cold there for this Texan in January. I miss reunion too.

Be safe, warm, and have a blast.
Wish you could have made it! Hope to see you soon my friend

[Chad]

Wish you could have made it! Hope to see you soon my friend

I will be there this summer and I hope to see your smiling face. I has been too long since we have had a good visit.

[Lyte]

Watched Dallas lose their route to the Super Bowl... but what a fantastic game against GB. Anyone else watch any gamen today?

[Zimmeh]

I caught bits and pieces of the Pittsburgh game.

Zimmeh


Watched Dallas lose their route to the Super Bowl... but what a fantastic game against GB. Anyone else watch any gamen today?

[Zimmeh]

I have been busy this past week. I have been helping my step dad's grandma around her house and grocery shopping for an elderly family friend. Maybe that's why my brain wouldn't turn off last night. Today, my mom and I will be taking my step dad's grandma's pup back to the vet. He was diagnosed with congestive heart failure, and he isn't feeling well.

Leaving you all a big pot of Starbucks Ethiopia Yirgacheffe coffee and pumpkin bread.

Zimmeh

[Gypsy]

Hey y'all (like my southern accent? lol):1femme:

Just moved from Maine to TX:cheer: and looking to make some friends...or more. I'm in the Waco area until a house comes through, then more in the Clifton area...crossing fingers.

Chat atcha later!:moonstars:

[Teddybear]

Hey y'all (like my southern accent? lol):1femme:

Just moved from Maine to TX:cheer: and looking to make some friends...or more. I'm in the Waco area until a house comes through, then more in the Clifton area...crossing fingers.

Chat atcha later!:moonstars:



I myself moved to Texas from the North East. I loved it there however I was tired of the snow.

Welcome to Texas. I hope the house u want comes open soon

[Chad]

Hey y'all (like my southern accent? lol):1femme:

Just moved from Maine to TX:cheer: and looking to make some friends...or more. I'm in the Waco area until a house comes through, then more in the Clifton area...crossing fingers.

Chat atcha later!:moonstars:

Welcome to Texas!

There are a lot of nice BFP people in the Austin area.
Feel free to contact me if you have any questions or need information.

Chad

[Gypsy]

I myself moved to Texas from the North East. I loved it there however I was tired of the snow.

Welcome to Texas. I hope the house u want comes open soon

Thank you!

Where in the NE? I moved for the same reason, we had 2 ft snow the day before I left. Not missing it a bit, but then it hasn't been a month yet. I can't get over the wind, gosh, it kept blowing my skirt up over nobodies business...lol I've worn pants since...lol

The house is open, I've been "pre-approved" for the loan, now waiting for the word that I AM approved...lol It's all white, so it's an open canvas...I can't wait to make it my home.

[Gypsy]

Welcome to Texas!

There are a lot of nice BFP people in the Austin area.
Feel free to contact me if you have any questions or need information.

Chad

Really? I just may have to take a ride...lol A friend keeps telling me of Austin, but homes are so costly around there. Are there ever any BFP get togethers there? That would be fun to go to.

And thanks for the welcome!

[Gypsy]

Wow, kinda quiet here, where does everyone hide? (f) How about a question...what do you like to do for fun...other than sex...lol

[Chad]

Wow, kinda quiet here, where does everyone hide? (f) How about a question...what do you like to do for fun...other than sex...lol

Hi,

For fun I hang out with friends. This usually involves some kind of travel because I live in the country. I enjoy a walk, riding my bicycle, going out to eat, going to the movies with friends, going to the beach, and a nice boat ride.

What do you do for fun?
Chad

[Gypsy]

Hi,

For fun I hang out with friends. This usually involves some kind of travel because I live in the country. I enjoy a walk, riding my bicycle, going out to eat, going to the movies with friends, going to the beach, and a nice boat ride.

What do you do for fun?
Chad

Thanks Chad I enjoy many of the same things.

Right now I don't "live" anywhere so it's exciting to find new places, and learning some of the roads and how maneuver my GPS (Shirley is my GPS's name), and Shirley is always telling me whereto go. I've been to a club a couple of times and enjoyed that, and the movies, but most of all, making new friends.

I also like to cook, looking through my rose colored glasses, :bunchflowers: traveling small or long trips, naps, no snow, crafts and drive-in movies. Also trying new things, life seems new to me,:praying: so I am relishing most things.

[Mel C.]

Wow, kinda quiet here, where does everyone hide? (f) How about a question...what do you like to do for fun...other than sex...lol

Fun???? What is that???? Oh, I remember....it's doing something other than work. I snuck out last night and went to meet some people at a bowling alley, then I went to the gay-friendly part of town for a late dinner/drinks with co-workers. Tonight I will have dinner with family. Nothing exciting going on the rest of the week, but I will be in Munich next week (for work).

[Zimmeh]

Have a good time and safe flight! One day I will be headed overseas to travel!

Zimmeh

Fun???? What is that???? Oh, I remember....it's doing something other than work. I snuck out last night and went to meet some people at a bowling alley, then I went to the gay-friendly part of town for a late dinner/drinks with co-workers. Tonight I will have dinner with family. Nothing exciting going on the rest of the week, but I will be in Munich next week (for work).

[Zimmeh]

Like Melto the C, I work around 48 hours at one job and help two elderly family members. I normally work about 56 hours a week. I love yo hang out with my best friend when I can and music is my way to relax.

Zimmeh

Wow, kinda quiet here, where does everyone hide? (f) How about a question...what do you like to do for fun...other than sex...lol

[Zimmeh]

Welcome and I did the opposite. I moved from sunny Florida to Flint, Michigan and then to Pittsburgh, Pennsylvania as a teenager. Then I moved from Florida to Boston in my twenties and then moved again, haha, from Florida to Seattle! I now live back in sunny Florida and my next trip will be to either Paris, France or Ballinasloe, County Galway, Ireland.

Welcome to our little thread!


Zimmeh

Hey y'all (like my southern accent? lol):1femme:

Just moved from Maine to TX:cheer: and looking to make some friends...or more. I'm in the Waco area until a house comes through, then more in the Clifton area...crossing fingers.

Chat atcha later!:moonstars:

[Gypsy]

Like Melto the C, I work around 48 hours at one job and help two elderly family members. I normally work about 56 hours a week. I love yo hang out with my best friend when I can and music is my way to relax.

Zimmeh
That's hard taking care of our folks as well as working, you deserve as much fun as you can get.

[Gypsy]

Fun???? What is that???? Oh, I remember....it's doing something other than work. I snuck out last night and went to meet some people at a bowling alley, then I went to the gay-friendly part of town for a late dinner/drinks with co-workers. Tonight I will have dinner with family. Nothing exciting going on the rest of the week, but I will be in Munich next week (for work).
Sounds like fun to me, but then I can find fun in the simplest things

[Mel C.]

Sounds like fun to me, but then I can find fun in the simplest things

That's the best approach. I have fun at work too, it just isn't what I think of as a good answer to your question. I also have fun taking care of my parents. I'm grateful that I still have them.

[Gypsy]

Welcome and I did the opposite. I moved from sunny Florida to Flint, Michigan and then to Pittsburgh, Pennsylvania as a teenager. Then I moved from Florida to Boston in my twenties and then moved again, haha, from Florida to Seattle! I now live back in sunny Florida and my next trip will be to either Paris, France or Ballinasloe, County Galway, Ireland.

Welcome to our little thread!


Zimmeh
How do you remember all those zip codes when moving from one place to another...lol Looks like you hit most corners of the US except the south west...any plans to move there...lol Hope you get to go on those trips!

[Gypsy]

That's the best approach. I have fun at work too, it just isn't what I think of as a good answer to your question. I also have fun taking care of my parents. I'm grateful that I still have them.
I took care of my mum, so I know in part. I'm glad your able to have fun at work, I think much of it is a state of mind. Happy day!

[Zimmeh]

Tonight I made chili for dinner and cleaned my apartment. My mom and I went shopping for new rugs and a cute set of dishes. Dessert is a bowl of ice cream with chocolate syrup. It is my night off, so I'm at home watching, Forensic Files.

Zimmeh

[Zimmeh]

The Boston zip is the easiest to remember. I loved living in these cities and I learned different things while living there. My oldest niece moved to San Antonio, Texas with her mom and step dad.

Zimmeh

How do you remember all those zip codes when moving from one place to another...lol Looks like you hit most corners of the US except the south west...any plans to move there...lol Hope you get to go on those trips!

[Zimmeh]

One of the ladies I help out lives on the Halifax River. It is very relaxing watching the boats on the river and sitting on her back porch.

Zimmeh

That's hard taking care of our folks as well as working, you deserve as much fun as you can get.

[Chad]

Howdy,

Anyone else thinking about St. Valentines Day?

I am thinking about taking my mother out for a nice meal and shopping.

Chad

[Mel C.]

Happy Friday Singles! I'm doing laundry on a Friday night because I am a wild one.

[Zimmeh]

I will be working and I will probably bring in cupcakes with me.

Enjoy your time with your mom!

Zimmeh

Howdy,

Anyone else thinking about St. Valentines Day?

I am thinking about taking my mother out for a nice meal and shopping.

Chad

[Zimmeh]

I spent the night sleeping! I kept myself up the majority of the day so I could sleep last night. When is your trip to Munich?

Zimmeh

Happy Friday Singles! I'm doing laundry on a Friday night because I am a wild one.

[Zimmeh]

Since this is my weekend off, I'm sitting here cleaning and watching cooking shows 🤓 Tonight we are having a party for my mom's birthday and her father in law's birthday. I bought her a gorgeous sterling silver and black hills gold butterfly ring, a cute butterfly plate and butterfly jewelry box. She loves butterflies and I gave her the gifts on the 2nd, which is her birthday. I'm glad to be able to buy her nice gifts.

Zimmeh

[Chad]

I will be working and I will probably bring in cupcakes with me.

Enjoy your time with your mom!

Zimmeh

Thank you Zimmeh, I hope that you have a happy St. Valentines Day. I think cupcakes are a nice touch. You are sweet.

:eating:

[Mel C.]

I spent the night sleeping! I kept myself up the majority of the day so I could sleep last night. When is your trip to Munich?

Zimmeh

I leave bright and early tomorrow Zimmeh...too early to be bright actually. I'll have a beer for all of the singles, or maybe each of the singles lol.

[Zimmeh]

Have a safe flight! To bad I'm not able to send you money and see if you can bring me some post cards back!

Zimmeh

I leave bright and early tomorrow Zimmeh...too early to be bright actually. I'll have a beer for all of the singles, or maybe each of the singles lol.

[easygoingfemme]

I leave bright and early tomorrow Zimmeh...too early to be bright actually. I'll have a beer for all of the singles, or maybe each of the singles lol.

Enjoy!~~~~

[Chad]

Howdy,

I hope that everyone is having a great Saturday night. I am home with the kitties. It is a cold rainy night here.
Well, I am now on two dating sites. Wish me luck. Haha!

Chad

[Zimmeh]

I am having a great Saturday so far, thanks for asking! After dinner, I stopped at the grocery to pick up dog food and found another $4 coupon in the bag! Now I'm watching some tv show and relaxing. I also won $4 on a $1 scratch off ticket :)

Zimmeh

Howdy,

I hope that everyone is having a great Saturday night. I am home with the kitties. It is a cold rainy night here.
Well, I am now on two dating sites. Wish me luck. Haha!

Chad

[Chad]

I am having a great Saturday so far, thanks for asking! After dinner, I stopped at the grocery to pick up dog food and found another $4 coupon in the bag! Now I'm watching some tv show and relaxing. I also won $4 on a $1 scratch off ticket :)

Zimmeh

Oh Zimmeh you are a lucky lady with those coupons and scratch offs. Good job.

Enjoy your evening with your pup. :)

Chad

[Gothy]

I've been away from The Planet for a very long time... but I'm back, and figured this was as good a place as any to reintroduce myself. I used to be known as "gothfemmedyke" here... not sure why I ever changed it.

I'm 40, live in the way, way, far North Coast of California, in the redwoods. (the Emerald Triangle, for those in the know). I have only recently moved back to CA from NY. I would love to make some new friends, and I don't mind driving to meet up. I do a lot of traveling... everywhere... but its no thing for me to make a spontaneous road trip to the SF bay area or PDX.

I do not work, so my schedule is of my own making... I am a completely free bird and I do what I want, when I want.

I'm really just looking to fill my life up with amazing adventures and memories, but really don't want to do all the things by myself. its so much better to look back on an epic adventure, and have someone to share those stories with. Presently looking for those interested in dance lessons... hot tubs, or hot springs... exploring/hiking new locations I haven't been to... camping adventures... live music and theatre... trying new and exotic foods... and people who just like to hang out, laugh, and generally have a good time in each others company.

So... You wanna play?

[Mel C.]

I've been away from The Planet for a very long time...

Welcome back Gothy

[Mel C.]

I've had a lazy day...haven't even gotten out of my pj's. What exciting things have the other singles been up to this weekend?

[homoe]

I've had a lazy day...haven't even gotten out of my pj's. What exciting things have the other singles been up to this weekend?

Pretty much the same here Mel except I did get dressed.......

[Tucker]

Hello there singles! I just thought I would pop my head in ad say hello and introduce myself. I'm Tucker and I am quite happily single and living with my pig dogs!

[Mel C.]

Hello there singles! I just thought I would pop my head in ad say hello and introduce myself. I'm Tucker and I am quite happily single and living with my pig dogs!

Welcome Tucker! Tell us about pig dogs....searching the internet leaves many questions. Have you uploaded pics to the gallery?

[Zimmeh]

I had a great time with Babygirl. I found a nice park on the river and we've been taking a weekly walk there.

How are you doing?

Zimmeh

Oh Zimmeh you are a lucky lady with those coupons and scratch offs. Good job.

Enjoy your evening with your pup. :)

Chad

[Zimmeh]

Welcome to Tucker and Gothy. I spent last weekend sleeping and getting ready to attend a friend's cookout on Saturday in Orlando. I am trying to make a trip to Ikea and visit my former co-workers at Starbucks!

One of my co-worker's from the nursing home gave me a beautiful China hutch. Since I'm under the weather, I have been setting it up. Depending on how I feel, I might go to the movies.

Zimmeh

[Gemme]

I had a great time with Babygirl. I found a nice park on the river and we've been taking a weekly walk there.

How are you doing?

Zimmeh

I've been okay but busy. Work has been a bit much lately but I'm coming into a weekend off so I'm pretty excited about that.

[Chad]

Hello Singles,

I have been very busy lately with long hours working and PT three nights a week.

Hi Zimmeh :thumbsup:
I am doing great! I hope that you are having a good week.

I hope everyone has a happy week.
Chad

[Zimmeh]

Have a good time and I chill out on my weekends off!

Zimmeh

I've been okay but busy. Work has been a bit much lately but I'm coming into a weekend off so I'm pretty excited about that.

[Chad]

Hello singles,

I was thinking resently about the positive aspects of being single. Here is a starter list;

The house is always as clean as I left it in the morning.

That last piece of food that I was looking forward to is still in the fridge.

I decide what I do everyday with no compromise.

Haha!
I will add more later....
Chad

:cowboy:

[Ratcrazy]

Hi all. How do you work this site? I suck at technology.

[Mel C.]

Hi all. How do you work this site? I suck at technology.

Welcome Ratcrazy! I suck at technology too. for the most part, I keep an eye on the main page to see if any threads I like pop-up. If so, I subscribe (posting in a thread automatically subscribes you). Then I check my User CP for updates to those threads.

Gemme is the expert. Maybe she will help.

[Gemme]

Welcome Ratcrazy! I suck at technology too. for the most part, I keep an eye on the main page to see if any threads I like pop-up. If so, I subscribe (posting in a thread automatically subscribes you). Then I check my User CP for updates to those threads.

Gemme is the expert. Maybe she will help.

You are too kind, Mel! I am far from an expert.

Mel's given you the right idea, Ratcrazy. You can reach pretty much everything from the home page, including chat and recent posts/threads. If you really like a thread and want to be kept up to date on future posts, it's a good idea to subscribe to it. You can set the parameters for how often you are updated (immediately, daily, weekly, etc).

Good luck and welcome to the site.

[Steele]

I've never really been not single, I'm not a people person, my brain isn't wired that way.

idk I would like to not be single at some point but it will never work out.

[Chad]

Happy Friday Singles,

I hope everyone has a fabulous weekend.

I will be working on the ranch and playing with the kitties.


Have a great weekend,
Chad

[easygoingfemme]

Happy weekend, everyone!

I'll be book clubbing tonight, shopping with my daughter tomorrow, and mini-road tripping on Sunday.

Also trying to see if I can sneak in a consultation for a new tattoo I'm plotting.

It has been freakishly warm out the past two days and I'm probably going to be a little sad when it's around freezing again on Sunday.

[Mel C.]

Another Saturday night and.....wait...that's another thread. What's going on in the singles world tonight? I'm going to try and make myself go out tonight. We shall see.

[Gemme]

I spent all my money today so I'm home bound. I have plenty of things to keep me occupied and somewhat out of trouble though, so I should be fine.

No bail money needed!